We are the backbone of society. If you read this, do not simp, do not send that text. Rechannel that energy and build yourself up. As men we are valuable, stay powerful my brothers.
Well said. My ex-wife cheated on me when my daughter was three and I filed for divorce within a week. I was able to get custody and she had to pay child support, or was supposed to. I didn't want my child to grow up in a divorced family as I did, so a year later her mother and I tried working things out and re-married in about 6 years. This was the worst mistake I ever made. I supported her as she jumped from job to job. I encouraged her to stick with one that would have been a great option for a career even though she wanted to quit. She finally got the promotion and was doing well. So well, that she decided she no longer needed me and filed for divorce. This time is was more of a mess, but I still was able to get custody of my daughter, 13 at the time, because she told her mother when she heard us arguing that she was staying with her dad. She tried everything, even going so far as to try and get me to hit her, but I'm not that kind of man, so she failed. After she left she tried twice to come back, normally when things weren't going her way in life, but I was no longer her safety net. I learned my lesson the hard way and while I have been in other relationships, I have not married again. I haven't met a woman that shows me any benefit to marriage, not for the man. Was I perfect, no, but I am loyal to a fault and would have worked to keep our marriage. She was so quick to break her vows and punch out when it suited her. If someone shows you they don't want you, believe them. Semper Fi, gents!
@captainaudi She's only hurting you because you're letting her.. Don't dwell on her.. Even though I don't know you I know your pain.. I moved away from my family for my ex-wife and then she divorces me for a bunch of superficial B.S. Only to be a girl afterwards I knew form childhood, thought it was destiny, that we were meant to be toghther.. I move back home to be with her.. And then years later she breaks up with me over the phone because I going through tough times and then finds another man and buys a house with him.. I can't promise you that you will find someone else but I will promise you this.. There will come a day when you are glad she didn't stay in your life.. Again I don't know you or your story but I doubt that you went throguh the heartbreak I went through not only once, but twice.. Listen to Tate's message and let all of that sadness and angry constructively.. If you do this no woman will never hurt you again.
the feeling of a break up is the most powerful positive energy a man can have. Men if your going through it, embrace it, rise above and conquer 💪 Y’all got this!
I went through a break up recently it hurts a lot because the first relationship will always hurt a lot but, I have to push forward and continue with life
I did everything for her, I gave her my all, and 10 hours after the breakup she acted like I never existed in here life. It hurts like hell, but we gone win this and be better in life ❤
Broken up with 2 days ago, been sad but I’m done with that now. She lost someone that truly cared about her and showed it in every way. Her loss not mine, time to level up once again. 👑
@@deletrois I pray for you as well! Keep marching forward, become stronger and win many battles that lie ahead. Don’t give in and out your faith in God. 🙏🏽 best of luck to ya.
I’m losing my gf of 2 and a half years.. she’s gonna regret this decision more then I am.. it may hurt right now.. but someone like this comment in a month after the gym.. let’s see if I’ll be sad
4 years was in my own head , she left my at my lowest as my business failed as well . Moved on a handful of months later and tore me down again. I managed to take the pain and make myself a better life . Still single but finally at peace . Have a completely new life and a business that is booming . It too a long time but i took that pain and flipped it
Don't be broken, people. Years later she is still begging to return and said she is on standby to come back in a flash if I ever open the door of return. This is what happens when you channel that energy and become a formidable force to be reckoned with.
@@DaWitOnethen you truly never loved her to begin with. When you really love someone to the point of obsession, you are willing to do whatever it takes to get that one person back even if the odds are all in your favor in the end…
@@christianchavez8848 And you're thinking about this because? I don't know how broken you have ever been, but a solid man would not do whatever it takes to get that 'one person back' as it is a time bomb. When someone shows you their core values and character would ruin you long term, you will suck up the pain and move on. There is a lot I went through that I would not disclose here. To create a healthy and sustainable relationship, you need more than just love - respect, loyalty, selflessness, thoughtfulness... And the love I have come to embrace is not the Hollywood magical love with sprinkling dust, but a complete thoughtful series of actions that solidifies a bond that stands the test of time.
I am 24 years old, just got out of a 6.5 year relationship. Got cheated on and I am devastated. 1 week after my breakup I am starting to realize I have so much to accomplish. I am in the tech field making 100k with two jobs. If I am 24 years old making 100k who says I cant make 1 mil or 10 mil per year in the next five years? I am starting to realize all the potential i have to become the greatest version of myself. I pray everyone watching this video to realize your their potential and their life is not fn over! You are here for a reason! Please let this be a reminder that you are great and you could be greater if you let yourself!
Absolutely. Don’t even wave bye to her. She’s made her bed. Get better. They chase you then and you can do what you want with who you want. You are the prize. Stop putting woman on a pedestal.
I made that choice a few months ago, best choice I made. I'm focusing more on myself, gaining a lot of self confidence, and working more on my goal. I'm done putting off my goal, I put it off way toooo long.
Patrice O’Neal taught me that! If you haven’t been down the Patrice red pill rabbit hole I whole heartedly recommend it. You will learn ALL YOU NEED TO. RIP Patrice 🙏
Thank you brothers. I feel so abandoned and broken and lost but I’m using these messages as a channel to find a better me and be the best. I will be better. I spent 4 hours in the gym last night couple days before that it was 3 I am slowly becoming a better man. In career,physical attributes and most of all mental. I love all of you.
1. Eat healthy 2. Go to the gym and take it out there 3. Keep your living space clean and organised 4. Find a new hobby 5. Reconnect with family and friends 6. Find a way to make more money 7. Don't hold on to grudges 8. Improve all aspects of yourself that you feel you are lacking in Do all these and you will be a top tier man. Once you've done all these it's probably going to be a year since breakup and you will not even want your ex back
Being productive is the only thing I can think of, but the pain won’t stop. I’m going to the gym, doing everything I can, but still dying inside. The only time I feel ok is when I fall asleep and forget for a little bit.
@BugattiFlow. It’s difficult. You must talk to god. Ask to be shown the way, thy will be done. Let him know you need help my friend. The pain sucks, try to remember it’s temporary and will not be forever. Don’t give up.
Do you go to the gym everyday? Signed in there a year ago with my girlfriend but i havnt been there very often. She was my first girlfriend and broke up with me in december and first i was a fucking zombie but now im going to the gym everyday and its fucking great. You can do it too bro! just go every day 💪🏻💪🏻
There is light ahead brother. I was exactly the same. Slept 1 night in 6 weeks when we split up. Couldn’t think, focus, eat. Time IS the healer. Hard to accept. Keep on practicing routine. Gym and work. I feel your pain, but don’t let some fucking bitch destroy you who doesn’t give a fuck about you. Stay strong brother
I know for a fact that the person reading this is really strong. You are really a strong man and your are doing so good! Anxiety is really hard to overcome so be proud of yourself for not giving up. (virtual hug) Remember that everything will be okay, it doesn't matter when, just hang on okay? Hang on. It will come - and after it arrived you will be so happy, happy about the fact that you never gave up. That you are strong. I want you to stand up for yourself, for you future. Time is passing, Always hang on and wait for your happiness to arrive.❤
Had about 4 days now that I can’t eat cause I got dumped for someone else , these videos are really helping me remember what the real goal is , not waiting on a text
It’s does end it’s does dull trust me bro I can look at her pictures with her and her new bf and I don’t even feel any emotion at all it’s just a random person. that I think I used to know
Just found out my girl and the mother of my kids for 10 years has been seeing someone for the past 3 years. Don’t know what happens next but this shit really hurts. I don’t wish this on anybody. Really needed this video
Or if she wants you back, put next to no effort in, get her to organise things, get her to make the effort and get her to pay for stuff so you getting your money back you spent on her the first time then see if she sticks around. If she can’t even do that and leaves again just don’t even care. Also depends on what she did to take her back, if she cheated then never, if it was just her being disorganised and too comfortable to be disorganised on the things you organised for you and her, like forget a date or not being on time for a meal we organised like I split up for then it can work, she’s come back and now I’m letting her do all the work
Am in the same boat mate started gym today one step at a time still think of her tho she moving house next week gunna break me more watching her and my kid go but am hitting gym every chance I get she may not come bk but could get someone better chin up mate
I had never been so disrespect by a girl before and that's why she stuck with me,she showed me that I was nothing to her after leading me on and making me feel special.
I'm sorry you have to go through that but now you know how it feels because many many many men do this to women all the time. Selling you the dream. It hurts doesn't it. Its interesting reading the comments from the guys because it's like it's the end of the world but I have spoken with men many about how us women should accept men's lying and cheating and being taken for granted because he may do all this but he comes back home to you. It's different for men, men can have sex without feelings so we should be happy with that. Now you feel a piece of what I have felt as a woman constantly, not just once.
He's right procrastination is a killer for me, I sit around feeling sorry for myself. But God loves me I wonder why I was created, as I've been giving so much. Maybe not money or women, but I'm blessed
You gotta believe in yourself. It isn't important if your girl is gone. Get up and make money. If the money is low, go kill it in the gym. Write a book, make music, create art, do stand up comedy, take whatever job you can get and be the best. You have the choice to make youself a winner by going out into the world and winning.
Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. Nice to see some brothers in the comment section offering support. Been through it before and the best thing is to get in the gym and get the mind and body right. This video gets me motivated. Thanks guys
Feel you. Mine was 3 years and she immediately went cold on me. Now I'm on a relentless self improvement journey. She will regret losing a good man who is working to become even greater.
@@msl2796You were a man before you met her, you can be a man once again. When you’re there, be better. When you’re better, don’t stop, keep going, be EVEN BETTER. The second you give up is the second you deserve whatever negativity you’re feeling. 🤝 You got this brother.
I was looking for a female version of this but this version is so much better. 7 years and it's over. It's been one month without him and I am further in my healing than I ever thought. Literaly not wasting another day. Using all this heartache to my advantage. I pray he heals too. Thank God for Andrew Tate 🙌 his words help me wake df up and stop crying lol I'm hitting the gym. I'm working multiple jobs. Focusing all on me. Pray all u men out there push through grief. Your worthy ❤ have a blessed day 🙏🏾
Quick recovery. Just focus on yourself. You cant revenge. The best revenge is to get busy.. work out, have multiple jobs.. in short focus on yourself and you will forget about him forever. Assume he is d3ad,_ mourning lasts for a week and everything gets back to normal.
In my very early twenties my first girlfriend of 3 years told me she didn't love me anymore and to be fair I couldn't blame her, I wasn't who I need to be and I wasn't going anywhere in life. The breakup almost killed me and highlighted everything wrong with me, everything that was weak within me. In that moment you can chose to let the darkness consume you or you can embrace the uglyness of life, embrace hard truths and make a commitment to yourself to change. It's been 12 years since then, I am married, own my own house and car, very financially well off, a really good small circle of friends who are all doing better than before. Everything is working better than expected. It takes more than just seeing the light, you need action too, bravery and courage to change, without that nothing will happen. Some people are broken by life and some people use life as a catalyst for immense change, be the latter.
@@ahmetyuksel4360 A person cant click on this video to give advice? Or what if he's just trying to gain more knowledge? that's like someone trying to teach you how to make more money but you're already making money
If a person breaks up with you just know there is someone better out there… it’s not a person, but the better version of who you are right now. It doesn’t matter what your partner thinks, what matters most is that you love yourself ❤
My girlfriend (ex now) cheated on me last night. I havent been able to stop thinking about it and was looking for a video JUST LIKE THIS. Andrew Tate wisdom never misses, Im going to use this as motivation to better myself. Her Loss…
I'm a woman and I am using this comment section to build myself up after my boyfriend broke up with me! Fellas, I am in the same boat and I appreciate you all showing love to your fellow brothers. As your sister, I am rooting for us all to get through this hard time and enter the next chapter of our lives happy, healthy and healed! ❤❤❤ We got this!!!
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Sadly, there is no quick fix to betrayal and grief. Only time will heal the pain. But during that time you have to work on yourself. It's absolutely crucial for you to hit the weights. Improve your physical fitness and focus on that. Try to hit new rep numbers every time you work out. If you run, try to shave off seconds and minutes. Just keep progressing. I truly believe the best thing to happen to a man is to have his heart broken by a woman. Success and a life lived well is the best revenge. I promise you that you will find another woman, and when you look back, you will be happy that she left you. I went through the same thing, and now I have 2 sons and a much better woman who is my best friend. Hope this helps
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Met this girl... I liked her and well I gave up on her because I felt not being worthy of her... I tried to get her back with those words.. she just doesnt care anymore.. it broke my heart and I cant get her out of my head. It HURTS, but I feel like all there is to do left is what Tate talks about in this video. Work as hard as possible and never feel like being unworthy... AGAIN!
Bro what are 3 months that’s nothing, I don’t want to be rude but that’s nothing. We broke up 2 days ago I was 4 years in a relationship with her from the age of 16-20. feels like I’m dying inside. But I have to do what has to be done. Build yourself get a sixpack, get rich. I feel the depression kicking in and it gives me motivation because I don’t want to live that live like that.
Little Update, been going to the gym consistently, now made my first 200$ this month on posting Tik Tok videos of other people’s content. Trying to build a Shopify site which I sell some random ass products. You guys are gonna hear from me in the future.
I needed to hear this. My wife left me at my lowest. My business tanked, was in a big financial hole. I’ve been torturing myself these last few months I need to move on and just focus on myself and my daughter. If she couldn’t be there in tough times when I needed her the most she doesn’t deserve me. I’ll bounce back and better than before her lose. It hurts but I need to move on. This video hit me hard. The hardest part is we still live together, I haven’t left because we haven’t filed for divorce yet and it will go against me in court for my daughter. we moved to WA from AZ to start my Business so it’s not easy. Ive been beating myself up mentally and I will be fighting for my daughter in court will look bad if I leave so I hear. I need to get the divorce started if she can’t be with me she’ll have to do everything on her own I’ll take care of my daughter and no running back. Enough is enough.
Good luck brother. I’ve been through the same. Everything will work out how it’s supposed to be. Can’t control the future, just your mind. Just keep on listening to these vids. And keep your head up bro
I cared for about 2 days. Then started doing things I hadn't done in a while since being with her. Gym. Dieting. Tanning. Working more than before. Nothing else. This is what I did before when I felt my greatest and looked my best, no relationship to focus on just making gains.
Not going to the gym when you get with a chick is one of the worst things you can as a dude. She isn’t going to thank you for dropping the gym “for her”. In fact she lose attraction when you veer off of your purpose.
You stopped doing the things that made her attracted to you in the first place. It's very common, we think we have her and can relax and then it blows up. Gotta stay on your purpose/gym at all times. Learned this the hard way too..
@@kendog0311 did this on a daily basis for 8 years, once i got into a relationship she liked my looks, prett solid abs and all that shit, till that turned on me calling me obsessed even though i went only for 3 months in 2 years. Calling or acusing me i want to to fuck chicks or cheat on her. Never flirted, liked a photo, cheated or anything. So it was always walking on egg shells or sabotaging me to eat chips because i am not fun if i don't do it. I am boring.
She hurt me way to bad I'm done. She broke my reality of her and that magic. She made me feel like a villain for being their for you, for trying my hardest for nothing.
I am working on myself. I am reading, working out 3 times a week, working 50 hours per week. Journaling my career goals. I know I am improving. I know I am improving. But she is still stuck in the past of who she thought I was before. And I think she is starting to realize what she lost. I have always been this man with passions, hobbies and strong work ethic. I love her and she busts her ass. She has great qualities. But she does need to level up and mature a bit to catch up with me. And that doesnt mean ill slow down for her. Ill still read. Look and search for opportunities in my job field, work out, read and pray. I am improving and taking action. Just do it. My time is now!!
I got discarded 4 month ago from my wife after going through a rough 10 months being bad and needing an operation was off work couldn’t hit the gym and found out she was texting other guys from her works getting dropped off from guys from her works and then she got rid of me right before my operation !!! She left me when I needed her the most ! I thought we were a team but it was me just providing for her .. I moved out went no contact I’ll never talk to her again I’m hitting the gym hard I’m finding myself again getting my empathy back my masculinity looking after other brothers who are going through divorces !! There’s a serious feminist power movement at the moment and all men need to stand up and be men if your wife or gf doesn’t want you shut the door weld it shut and never speak to them again better yourself and when she comes running back tell her you’ve made your bed lay in it !!!
15 years, since I was 19. The only life I know, ripped away, over night, no good explanation. Im struggling, I put the bottle to my lips and barrel to my head. Then like an angel, she appeared. That special someone, that perfect match. That girl that made me feel more important in a few weeks time than I have in the last 15 years. Had I met her sooner, it would have been nothing more than “hello” due to my loyalty. No matter how much you feel like you lose, there is another opportunity waiting, don’t pass it up because you’re “sad” or “devastated”. It may just be the answer that saves your life. I Love You Alaina, you are my hero.
Just got out of a long-term relationship, and while it’s painful now, I’m using this as an opportunity to focus on myself and my goals. I’m hitting the gym, pushing my limits, and building a better version of me every single day. Sometimes the hardest moments can lead to the greatest growth. 💪
So true. I made a mistake when my fiance left me two years ago. I didn;t processed the shock. I "moved on". I mean I wished she will be back after a while seeing me succeeding in life. Did I succeed? Yes. I make few times more money, traveling around, my career looks good. But! But - she moved on. Decided to start a new chapter with someone else. Now I feel the whole pain like never before. Don't make my mistake. Don't numb the pain, let it pierce you, fight it, and then hopefully accept it and move on for real.
Its been a month that we're apart, I ve treated her like a queen, never cheated on her, never been abusive either emotionnaly, verbally or physically and I was open for communication. 6yrs together ffs thrown away. I loved her deeply, respected her, and planned my future with her to have kids and then she pulls the classic "everthing has changed, I need to put myself first...". Im working on my mindset and working out, and focusing on my job and just embracing the pain and letting go althougb it hurts so much to have trusted someone so much and at the end they act as if you ve done nothing. I know that have done all my efforts, and was very loyal, better to sleep oppressed than oppress someone. For all the brothers going through a shitty situation you can go through this this is my 2nd failed long term relationship I think I need to become selfish and let the girl enter my frame and not the other way around. Stay strong, I know that you cared a lot, and loved too much, and been kind too much that the other part took it for granted, but be sure that the time will show them that they have lost a diamond while they were collexting rocks.
Yes brother. I have no idea who you are but wish you best. I am 38 now, two years ago my fiance decided to dump me. I moved on, but still had hope to come back. Gave her time, while I worked on my career. Now she decided to risk her new chapter with somebody else. My heart is shattered... But now - I am starting to move on. Scared as hell that it might be too late to find true love... But - we will get there. The world is cruel place. WIsh you all best
14 years together and a 4 year old. After months of trying to work things back together for our family, i cant let it drown me anymore. Her best friend just had a divorce, driving that into our lives. Yesterday was the first day on 14 years i looked at my wife and was truly unattracted. In the moment i seen her unhappiness and felt mine. Let her go.. Seek success in silence. They are always watching king's. Chin up we are meant for more men.
I recently found out the mother to my kids and the women I cherish didn’t want me in her life anymore . I was bad with alcohol but didn’t see it and what problems it caused . I don’t drink anymore my heads so much clearer I see my kids and her for food and activities every now and again . If I need help she is there and amazing to me . We are not together she wants to be alone it’s been 7 months but I just cherish what time we spend together. We have to be strong for the kids and not let them suffer . It’s even harder for me as the love I have for her gets stronger and stronger all the time . Keep if the booze guys it’s a silent killer in many ways 💙
I’ll be praying for you brother . Just be careful with those feelings your keeping for her because if she never wants to get back together we’ll then your hurting yourself .. cause your not opening yourself up to be looking for someone else who will love you and you can cherish her.. stay civil with your X to co-parent successfully, so you still get that time with your children.. Then in due time I would be asking to spend time with your children only. This whole hanging out with your kids and she’s there is wrong. Especially if she has No plans of getting back together with you. So if that’s the case i know it will be hard to, but you’ve gotta accept that and move forward with your life brother. I pray everything works out for you to where your the happiest you’ve ever been.. stay tough stay strong.
@@robertnance7522 thanks for this yeah a few friends have said the same . It’s not right but I love her so much and don’t want the kids to grow up with step parents . I grew up like that and it was awful . Oh it’s so tough
I feel this and in the same boat as I rebuild my life and business in a town we used to live in. My daughter is the one who suffers the most and the beer is something I’ll never touch again. I’ve always been the one people turned to for strength with my work and attitude. Now I’m asking Him for a spot instead of a fellow trainer in the gym. It’s hard and my wife is stronger then I ever knew.
It means you have a beautiful heart... It's ok.. I get you 100% These people are Narcissistic... Just pray to your higher being for more Serenity.. and that what you do won't hurt your inner self, your true essence..You were made the way you are by God, not by this dude or that dude... Work in yourself and work for your goals. Live, Love, Learn... It's ok if it's not perfect... NOTHING AND NO ONE IS PERFECT... NOT EVEN A WOMAN.
@@jacobramirez3026His empathy being in tact after his women betrayed him is an extraordinarily powerful sign of emotional quotient. It's strength, not weakness. People who shelter in their own shadow stonewalling their emotions have already submitted the greatest part of the human experience; to feel. This man even feels bad for his girl, knowing she's gonna be worse off after fucking up and leaving him. Think of it this way. After he's demonstrated that kind of durability, do you really think calling him weak is gonna have any affect? You're trying to blow a wall down with your lungs. You're wasting your breath.
If there's one thing I learned from this video, it is that I met a high value woman who is better on every aspect and form than myself. She was worth it. Thanks Andrew
It’s true, I wrote 10 pages about us and she saw me but still told me she loved her ex more than me. And the entire time we were together she loved him still
16 years of relationship, 2 kids, our own house, cars, etc. she ended it like it was nothing. For two months I tried to fix it, the more I tried the more she pushed me away. Then I started going to the gym. It’s been a month in the gym and I start to see things more clearer. She only loved me because I bought things, took her to restaurants, did surprises. I realised that she didn’t loved me for me. The moment I changed my focus on spending money to saving, she left. It’s been 3 months and a week since it all began, she’s moving out in 3 days, finally and hopefully the healing process will start.
I needed this. Let it go, do you, don’t fall for the over texting trap and chasing her, she wants to see how far she can go to control you and have you chase and she doesn’t give anything. Focus on you, be nice, but drop her, if you love her and comes back and changes, sure cool. For now, focus on you, she knows how you feel, it’s up to her now. But do you.
Bro she texted other guys behind my back and told me its normal...im her bf i told her its not normal and i told her if she really love me delete all those guys contact which she's just saving for her own chit chat.....she told me me she can't delete all....i ask why...she never answer...she keep saying only some she can delete....while i delete anything for her....i cuaght her flirting soo thars why i ask her to delete those guys...but she's not willing to delete everything and told me she'll delete only the ones i caught....tell me what should i do bro
I was a time waster and heavy drinker, but my own headspace became my jail with negative thoughts and feelings. Through my own decisions I pushed out and hit the gym harder, got the promotion I deserve and the chance to further improve myself. All I can say to everyone is this, the past will eat your life away, the future is where your growth is and the present is the opportunity to choose where you go. Don’t let what could of been affect what can be
(0:34 this is true) It is better to be hit with the hard truth. Yes nine time out of ten majority of women will find a better mate very quickly. It is for the better as men to just focus on self improvement. Keep thy nose to the grinding stone.
6 years down the drain it hurts so bad but i guess i don't have enough resources to keep her happy, its a lesson learned and its definitely gonna make me sharper. Keep your head up fellas its gonna be ok.
We spent 1year+ with each other and she was causing me stress last months but I handled her and fought for the relationship because I love her, then suddenly we came back to each other but she decided to say “I’m lost I want time to think” I believed these words and gave her the time and support she needed, then she decided to hangout with other guys and spent time with them :) yesterday she left me and didn’t answer my 11calls for no reason I know she was with another guy but imagine bros few days ago she was crying like she’s in hell asking me to don’t leave her and I stayed but she was lying and breaking my heart! Bros,fighters I feel the pain so hard I feel dead inside, she killed me man💔I could’ve break her many times but I loved her like my daughter and now I’m standing alone fighting even in bed to sleep few hours,fighting with to stomach so I can eat few meals… This shit is so hard I hope I’m gonna pass it soon. Like my comment I’ll come back and update. Peace ✌🏻
My baby momma dumped me for a guy that can give her more. Relationship wasn’t perfect but geez I would have walked through the fire. She wouldn’t and told me her love is conditional. Fair enough. I need to move on. This video is a start.
Im a woman and i relate to this.loyal to one man for 15 years whilst he beat me,took my money called me names im done.i was a good woman and one day a high value man will see how good i am.thank you andrew for always sorting my head out with your advice
Don’t waste time on some trash that has no confer for you or anyone. Don’t cry over spoiled spilled milk. Focus on yourself and go for what you want that is worth having.
Right after my recent breakup i went straight to the gym and started stacking money. Become the best version of yourself everyone, trust in God and better things will come.
She broke up with me after 6.5 years two months before marriage 4 days ago and kissed another guy and met with some other in secret. I cried in front of her I texted her but I know decided to to not fucking let her win and take my last little self respect i have in me. She lost the guy that put her before himself and she will regret this ..
Im 26 and have only been in short-term relationships, but even losing them sometimes hurts at the start but you realize you can only control YOU. You can NOT control others and how they feel, and unfortunately this also applies to the opposite sex now more than ever. You feel as though the person you loved so much just runs away from home, but it's your job to put your foot down and say enough is enough. He/she wants to play games, leave them outside while the adulting goes on inside the home. Moving on from someone is the best medicine you can give yourself.
I wish I had these talks when I was at my worst. I came really close to losing almost everything if I had been a lesser man. It took me way too long to pick myself up without these hard truths. I had to figure it much slower than I would have if I had this spoken to me sooner. But that’s ok. Made it out enough so that I can start building again.
Keep on trucking brother. In 2017 I was homeless, addicted to heroin, zeroed out, with a bankruptcy on my credit report. Now I own my home cash, I’ve been clean for 6 years and rebuilt my credit up to 720 (bankruptcy falls off the report in 2025). In the past few months I’ve lost 60lbs down from 420lbs, I’m 6’6. The next year is gonna be centered on getting down another 140lbs to 220lbs. It’s possible but nobody is gonna do the work for us. I got tired of watching my friends die or wish they were dead while people like Tate are walking on clouds. 🚀
I've had my moments of weakness and chased after her/them. What I've come to realize is that time heals. When you focus on bettering yourself you attain the power that can make them regret leaving you because you had nothing. In fact, you attain so much power you can get any girl you desire though that's not even really the point. I guess I'm trying to say don't feel bad if you slip, just remember that they are not worth it and the feeling of despair you have will go away. The sooner you move on the better because bro - you have so much potential to let a woman/satan take it away from you.
Yup. I think we men need that. I am 38, devastated after my ex-fiance moved on... feeling completely lonely. No friends as I sacrificed everything to her and moved out to another country for 7 years... Life is hell. But I need this kind of videos. Resonating better with me motivating to do things instead of analyzing every bit and piece of my life.
@@HCforLife1 I'm also 38 (for a fortnight lol), and also had to deal with that same pain after sacrificing everything and getting disrespected like that. It's so massive to how a bloke feels inside, but, please know you ain't alone in dealing with such pain, I've been there before mate... as have most dudes.
After birth now already for 3 years ongoing I've been disowned as the father of my only daughter, and I've been mourning day and night ever since. I could easily get over such an narcisstic and sadistic ex but I've given her the power to destroy me and my life since she noticed that I am extremely vulnerable regarding emotional abuse with declaring my only child dead for me at 43 years old age. To let go my forbidden daughter seems impossible but after 3 years of waiting, begging, crying, stalking and exposing my weakest side ever, my mind is brainwashed, my heart is torn apart, I lost my business and my savings, and even physically broken down as well. This year I have to choose for myself before it's too late but I'm scard the rest of my life by the most inhumane mother of my little child who still doesn't even know that I am alive anyway. I made the worst mistake of my life to believe in an narccisist who's even able to let me prepare the whole babyroom just for nothing. My parentalship she suddenly decided to turn into an anonimous donorship. I will let go of my only little girl who I'm not allowed to get to know but my heart will keep on bleeding
Great motivation speech, actually this is what I was looking for, I’ve been in this hole for almost 3 years, now is now to climb back up and keep going forward 😊
Fark bro three years? No Hoe is worth that…mine left me took the house got remarried and moved her simp husband in with her and his kids…I decided to to got them gym go harder in jiu jitsu Im now coach i never looked better at 46, my two boys respect me more than their step dad and I got myself a beautiful young wife 21 years younger…and I’m honestly not showing off but what I’ve done is like Andrew said I’ve used that negative energy to rebuild myself…you can do it and possibly get to a better position than I’m in.
I need this right now. I'm going through a break up with someone I truly loved and now I'm in a hotel room alone. No family no friends. This is what I did to myself for the shitty things that I've done. I don't know what to do. Easy for a rich man to say get over it. When you have the world. A close brother. I don't have anything
Had my little heart broke in my teens took me a long time to get over . However I went on to achieve quite alot for my age . I seen this girl around the area couple of years back and the wall had hit her so so hard and I don't believe she's ever changed that much natural born lier Wow the future has made me happy about the past .
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We are the backbone of society. If you read this, do not simp, do not send that text. Rechannel that energy and build yourself up. As men we are valuable, stay powerful my brothers.
Well said. My ex-wife cheated on me when my daughter was three and I filed for divorce within a week. I was able to get custody and she had to pay child support, or was supposed to. I didn't want my child to grow up in a divorced family as I did, so a year later her mother and I tried working things out and re-married in about 6 years. This was the worst mistake I ever made. I supported her as she jumped from job to job. I encouraged her to stick with one that would have been a great option for a career even though she wanted to quit. She finally got the promotion and was doing well. So well, that she decided she no longer needed me and filed for divorce. This time is was more of a mess, but I still was able to get custody of my daughter, 13 at the time, because she told her mother when she heard us arguing that she was staying with her dad. She tried everything, even going so far as to try and get me to hit her, but I'm not that kind of man, so she failed. After she left she tried twice to come back, normally when things weren't going her way in life, but I was no longer her safety net. I learned my lesson the hard way and while I have been in other relationships, I have not married again. I haven't met a woman that shows me any benefit to marriage, not for the man. Was I perfect, no, but I am loyal to a fault and would have worked to keep our marriage. She was so quick to break her vows and punch out when it suited her. If someone shows you they don't want you, believe them. Semper Fi, gents!
@captainaudistay strong, you got this
@captainaudi Many of us have been in your position but we came out hurt and came up stronger
@captainaudi She's only hurting you because you're letting her.. Don't dwell on her.. Even though I don't know you I know your pain.. I moved away from my family for my ex-wife and then she divorces me for a bunch of superficial B.S. Only to be a girl afterwards I knew form childhood, thought it was destiny, that we were meant to be toghther.. I move back home to be with her.. And then years later she breaks up with me over the phone because I going through tough times and then finds another man and buys a house with him..
I can't promise you that you will find someone else but I will promise you this.. There will come a day when you are glad she didn't stay in your life.. Again I don't know you or your story but I doubt that you went throguh the heartbreak I went through not only once, but twice.. Listen to Tate's message and let all of that sadness and angry constructively.. If you do this no woman will never hurt you again.
Thank you brother
Not gonna lie, seeing the comments of fellow brothers going through a breakup is helping a lot. Lets get over her and become STRONGER!!!
Fuuuuk yes. LETS GET UP AND PUSH HARDER THAN WE EVER HAVE BEFORE. LET THE WEAKER MEN HAVE HER.
I’ve been dealing with mines for 6mnths now
the feeling of a break up is the most powerful positive energy a man can have. Men if your going through it, embrace it, rise above and conquer 💪 Y’all got this!
@Cracker__r wtf
😢
I went through a break up recently it hurts a lot because the first relationship will always hurt a lot but, I have to push forward and continue with life
It's true. I've been the best version of myself when I'm alone after a break up . Can't make this up
But it’s hard man I been with her since 17 now I’m 23 she my high school sweetheart idk what to do
I did everything for her, I gave her my all, and 10 hours after the breakup she acted like I never existed in here life. It hurts like hell, but we gone win this and be better in life ❤
Same Here. We will win. No we are winning who wants to drag an unhappy unfaithful soul
move on at the speed of light women are not like men.
Reza I’m sorry to hear about that but I believe you dodged a bullet can you imagine if you were married the girl?
@@Americanpatriot-zo2tk yes I probably did, I thank god for this. But it’s getting better by time. Thank you ❤
@@momisoma6477 you are going to make it! Believe me that’s a big deal coming from someone like me. I’m impressed with your tenacity.
Broken up with 2 days ago, been sad but I’m done with that now. She lost someone that truly cared about her and showed it in every way. Her loss not mine, time to level up once again. 👑
Literally 2 days ago🤦🏾♂️
@@deletroiswhat’s the prob? It’s fresh and he’s trying to move forward
@@TCGhits Um actually it’s no problem. The same thing happened to me at the same time so I was agreeing sir…anything else?
@@deletrois I pray for you as well! Keep marching forward, become stronger and win many battles that lie ahead. Don’t give in and out your faith in God. 🙏🏽 best of luck to ya.
How are you guys after a month?
I’m losing my gf of 2 and a half years.. she’s gonna regret this decision more then I am.. it may hurt right now.. but someone like this comment in a month after the gym.. let’s see if I’ll be sad
Get your fucking gains dude, show her what's she's missing out on
Stay Hard bro.
How you feeling man had the same
I'll be here
You still sad?
4 years was in my own head , she left my at my lowest as my business failed as well . Moved on a handful of months later and tore me down again. I managed to take the pain and make myself a better life . Still single but finally at peace . Have a completely new life and a business that is booming . It too a long time but i took that pain and flipped it
Motivating😎
love ya Brother me too i will get there like you i did the same!
Anger drives me i turn into postivtive energy
I went through exactly the same thing
Good to hear brother!
Don't be broken, people. Years later she is still begging to return and said she is on standby to come back in a flash if I ever open the door of return. This is what happens when you channel that energy and become a formidable force to be reckoned with.
and would you accept her or not?
@@deenizmpr I've honestly told her I won't as I've had my mental closure and joyful about my new life without her.
@@DaWitOnethen you truly never loved her to begin with. When you really love someone to the point of obsession, you are willing to do whatever it takes to get that one person back even if the odds are all in your favor in the end…
No. Maybe she went out and got plowed by 35 men since the split and he wants nothing to do with that filth. End of of story.
@@christianchavez8848 And you're thinking about this because? I don't know how broken you have ever been, but a solid man would not do whatever it takes to get that 'one person back' as it is a time bomb. When someone shows you their core values and character would ruin you long term, you will suck up the pain and move on. There is a lot I went through that I would not disclose here. To create a healthy and sustainable relationship, you need more than just love - respect, loyalty, selflessness, thoughtfulness... And the love I have come to embrace is not the Hollywood magical love with sprinkling dust, but a complete thoughtful series of actions that solidifies a bond that stands the test of time.
I needed this in a BAD way... its time to attend the Funeral of my past... and bury it at sea!!!! THANK YOU GOD FOR LETTING ME FIND THIS VIDEO!
Yes, that’s the spirit!👏
Ahmen now its time to get to work mfer
it is that time for all of us
Amen brother!
Get over the past, but learn from IT, accept it as a valuable lesson. Dont feel bitter or angry at yourself.
I am 24 years old, just got out of a 6.5 year relationship. Got cheated on and I am devastated. 1 week after my breakup I am starting to realize I have so much to accomplish. I am in the tech field making 100k with two jobs. If I am 24 years old making 100k who says I cant make 1 mil or 10 mil per year in the next five years? I am starting to realize all the potential i have to become the greatest version of myself. I pray everyone watching this video to realize your their potential and their life is not fn over! You are here for a reason! Please let this be a reminder that you are great and you could be greater if you let yourself!
U will win. U will do it. God first my friend. Work hard. Stay righteous. Universe will reward you. You can’t just want it. You have to win.
Absolutely. Don’t even wave bye to her. She’s made her bed. Get better. They chase you then and you can do what you want with who you want. You are the prize. Stop putting woman on a pedestal.
I made that choice a few months ago, best choice I made. I'm focusing more on myself, gaining a lot of self confidence, and working more on my goal. I'm done putting off my goal, I put it off way toooo long.
Patrice O’Neal taught me that! If you haven’t been down the Patrice red pill rabbit hole I whole heartedly recommend it. You will learn ALL YOU NEED TO. RIP Patrice 🙏
If you do they can only look down on you
Thank you brothers. I feel so abandoned and broken and lost but I’m using these messages as a channel to find a better me and be the best. I will be better. I spent 4 hours in the gym last night couple days before that it was 3 I am slowly becoming a better man. In career,physical attributes and most of all mental. I love all of you.
Been self loathing for two months now . Finally letting it go ..
I pray for your healing 🙏🏾.
I believe in you. Have self respect and move on you'll be better for it. Don't let her win.
respect from one brother to another.
Same here
Wasted years, dont do that. Wish ibfound red pill earlier
1. Eat healthy
2. Go to the gym and take it out there
3. Keep your living space clean and organised
4. Find a new hobby
5. Reconnect with family and friends
6. Find a way to make more money
7. Don't hold on to grudges
8. Improve all aspects of yourself that you feel you are lacking in
Do all these and you will be a top tier man. Once you've done all these it's probably going to be a year since breakup and you will not even want your ex back
Being productive is the only thing I can think of, but the pain won’t stop. I’m going to the gym, doing everything I can, but still dying inside. The only time I feel ok is when I fall asleep and forget for a little bit.
Time heals and spirituality is always good
Time bro, that's all.
@BugattiFlow. It’s difficult. You must talk to god. Ask to be shown the way, thy will be done. Let him know you need help my friend. The pain sucks, try to remember it’s temporary and will not be forever. Don’t give up.
Do you go to the gym everyday?
Signed in there a year ago with my girlfriend but i havnt been there very often. She was my first girlfriend and broke up with me in december and first i was a fucking zombie but now im going to the gym everyday and its fucking great. You can do it too bro! just go every day 💪🏻💪🏻
There is light ahead brother. I was exactly the same. Slept 1 night in 6 weeks when we split up. Couldn’t think, focus, eat. Time IS the healer. Hard to accept. Keep on practicing routine. Gym and work. I feel your pain, but don’t let some fucking bitch destroy you who doesn’t give a fuck about you. Stay strong brother
She left you long before she actually left you
That is the fing truth.
Facts 💯
I know for a fact that the person reading this is really strong.
You are really a strong man and your are doing so good! Anxiety is really hard to overcome so be proud of yourself for not giving up.
(virtual hug) Remember that everything will be okay, it doesn't matter when, just hang on okay? Hang on. It will come - and after it arrived you will be so happy,
happy about the fact that you never gave up. That you are strong. I want you to stand up for yourself, for you future. Time is passing, Always hang on and wait for your happiness to arrive.❤
Needed to hear that. And find this video. Respect 🙏
Thank you
Thanks ❤
Amen 🙏
Needed this ,thank you brother❤
Needed to hear this! Getting divorced from my abusive wife. She's not worth it at all
Best of luck bro.
Good Luck brother…peace & fulfillment is possible without her ❤️🩹
A new day Awaits you mate.
Me too, then an awful relationship with an escort I met. Basically wow yes the video is good
Remember, you got her good years......
Had about 4 days now that I can’t eat cause I got dumped for someone else , these videos are really helping me remember what the real goal is , not waiting on a text
Block, delete and never message again.
Use the conviction that you have in the strongest area of your life and channel it into no contact.
😊
“The heartbreak never ends you just learn to live with it”
@KetoFatty yeah but I’m not killing nobody that’s just horrific
It ends
It’s does end it’s does dull trust me bro I can look at her pictures with her and her new bf and I don’t even feel any emotion at all it’s just a random person. that I think I used to know
It ends
Just found out my girl and the mother of my kids for 10 years has been seeing someone for the past 3 years. Don’t know what happens next but this shit really hurts. I don’t wish this on anybody. Really needed this video
Sorry for what happened bro.
Did she cry when u confronted her?
Fuck man! I wish you all the best. Hope you will be better soon and have a wonderful live after this nightmare ends.
I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy bro hope it works out for u fam
U got this king
Hey bro, just seen your comment.i hope You are healing, head up bro, stay strong.
Never simp for a woman. Move on.
Needed to hear this as confirmation lol. Thanks g
Or if she wants you back, put next to no effort in, get her to organise things, get her to make the effort and get her to pay for stuff so you getting your money back you spent on her the first time then see if she sticks around. If she can’t even do that and leaves again just don’t even care. Also depends on what she did to take her back, if she cheated then never, if it was just her being disorganised and too comfortable to be disorganised on the things you organised for you and her, like forget a date or not being on time for a meal we organised like I split up for then it can work, she’s come back and now I’m letting her do all the work
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If you’re truly high value or even a standout person, they always come back… If you love someone, let them go.
When she comes back,don't take her back
Been 3 months now, 17 years down the drain but oh well life goes on, we got this kings 💪
Am in the same boat mate started gym today one step at a time still think of her tho she moving house next week gunna break me more watching her and my kid go but am hitting gym every chance I get she may not come bk but could get someone better chin up mate
@@michaelcolledge3721your not alone.
@@michaelcolledge3721find a new chick to help you move
I had never been so disrespect by a girl before and that's why she stuck with me,she showed me that I was nothing to her after leading me on and making me feel special.
I'm sorry you have to go through that but now you know how it feels because many many many men do this to women all the time. Selling you the dream. It hurts doesn't it. Its interesting reading the comments from the guys because it's like it's the end of the world but I have spoken with men many about how us women should accept men's lying and cheating and being taken for granted because he may do all this but he comes back home to you. It's different for men, men can have sex without feelings so we should be happy with that. Now you feel a piece of what I have felt as a woman constantly, not just once.
That’s not your faurl
us
Bro I feel you man but you have to be strong I hope u find urself in a better place
💯
Lets fucking go boys, we’ve been given energy time to direct it. We are men, we are movers and shakers
❤ right
It’s been almost two years since she left and it haunted me every day, but after this moment I will never accept defeat again
Yes!! There ya go! Hope you rebound massively! Keep God in your mind and prayers and you shall defeat the serpent. 🙏🏽
Stay strong
He's right procrastination is a killer for me, I sit around feeling sorry for myself.
But God loves me I wonder why I was created, as I've been giving so much. Maybe not money or women, but I'm blessed
You gotta believe in yourself. It isn't important if your girl is gone. Get up and make money. If the money is low, go kill it in the gym. Write a book, make music, create art, do stand up comedy, take whatever job you can get and be the best. You have the choice to make youself a winner by going out into the world and winning.
love this comment
Been 6 years still haven't recovered from it hopefully this will be the year i break free frm the memories
You wasted for 6 freakin years?!!! For real mate??!!!
You revised it lot so now you need turn to the new book
@@aufremofI’ve wasted 1 year already. 6 is madness. Listen I’m not knocking you. When shit happens it’s unfortunate and unexplainable.
@@delanodor stay strong bruh! If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger! 💪💪💪❤️❤️❤️
Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. Nice to see some brothers in the comment section offering support. Been through it before and the best thing is to get in the gym and get the mind and body right. This video gets me motivated. Thanks guys
Feel you. Mine was 3 years and she immediately went cold on me. Now I'm on a relentless self improvement journey. She will regret losing a good man who is working to become even greater.
She didn't break up with you. She set you free. Go enjoy life without the baggage holding you back.
@@justinhunstad1760 💯
Girl of my life broke up with me and im struggling knowing theres no future with her no more
@@msl2796You were a man before you met her, you can be a man once again. When you’re there, be better. When you’re better, don’t stop, keep going, be EVEN BETTER. The second you give up is the second you deserve whatever negativity you’re feeling. 🤝 You got this brother.
I was looking for a female version of this but this version is so much better. 7 years and it's over. It's been one month without him and I am further in my healing than I ever thought. Literaly not wasting another day. Using all this heartache to my advantage. I pray he heals too. Thank God for Andrew Tate 🙌 his words help me wake df up and stop crying lol I'm hitting the gym. I'm working multiple jobs. Focusing all on me. Pray all u men out there push through grief. Your worthy ❤ have a blessed day 🙏🏾
don't forget the gym. Helps a lot with your self esteem and will get you actual abundance with options
@@zeppkfw most def. The gym has been so great for my mental health and stress. Thanks for your kindness 😊
Quick recovery. Just focus on yourself. You cant revenge. The best revenge is to get busy.. work out, have multiple jobs.. in short focus on yourself and you will forget about him forever. Assume he is d3ad,_ mourning lasts for a week and everything gets back to normal.
Yaaassss queeeen
And you are worthy as well 🙏
In my very early twenties my first girlfriend of 3 years told me she didn't love me anymore and to be fair I couldn't blame her, I wasn't who I need to be and I wasn't going anywhere in life. The breakup almost killed me and highlighted everything wrong with me, everything that was weak within me. In that moment you can chose to let the darkness consume you or you can embrace the uglyness of life, embrace hard truths and make a commitment to yourself to change. It's been 12 years since then, I am married, own my own house and car, very financially well off, a really good small circle of friends who are all doing better than before. Everything is working better than expected.
It takes more than just seeing the light, you need action too, bravery and courage to change, without that nothing will happen. Some people are broken by life and some people use life as a catalyst for immense change, be the latter.
May I learn why you are still watching this video? For another woman?
@@ahmetyuksel4360 A person cant click on this video to give advice? Or what if he's just trying to gain more knowledge? that's like someone trying to teach you how to make more money but you're already making money
If a person breaks up with you just know there is someone better out there… it’s not a person, but the better version of who you are right now. It doesn’t matter what your partner thinks, what matters most is that you love yourself ❤
My girlfriend (ex now) cheated on me last night. I havent been able to stop thinking about it and was looking for a video JUST LIKE THIS. Andrew Tate wisdom never misses, Im going to use this as motivation to better myself. Her Loss…
Don’t take that disrespect
She wouldn’t b alive if I were you
Stay strong brother, we are alll here for you. Reach out if you need someone to talk to, my mail is on my channel
Move as far from her as you can if posible. If not, do what’s best for you and don’t waste your time like i did. Good luck brother.
I’m going through relationship shit aswell we broke up a week ago. Don’t play victim play predator
I just can’t understand how a man can be so correct on so many topics
U aint bull shitting
😂😂😂
speaking from experience
My brothers. She left me. I begged her to stay and shes still gone. I hope i get better cus this hurts more than any physical pain ive ever had.
I'm a woman and I am using this comment section to build myself up after my boyfriend broke up with me! Fellas, I am in the same boat and I appreciate you all showing love to your fellow brothers. As your sister, I am rooting for us all to get through this hard time and enter the next chapter of our lives happy, healthy and healed! ❤❤❤ We got this!!!
That's what's up. Lovely comment. Thank you.
Not typical. 80% of the time it’s the woman that does it
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Sadly, there is no quick fix to betrayal and grief. Only time will heal the pain. But during that time you have to work on yourself. It's absolutely crucial for you to hit the weights. Improve your physical fitness and focus on that. Try to hit new rep numbers every time you work out. If you run, try to shave off seconds and minutes. Just keep progressing. I truly believe the best thing to happen to a man is to have his heart broken by a woman. Success and a life lived well is the best revenge. I promise you that you will find another woman, and when you look back, you will be happy that she left you. I went through the same thing, and now I have 2 sons and a much better woman who is my best friend. Hope this helps
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Met this girl... I liked her and well I gave up on her because I felt not being worthy of her... I tried to get her back with those words.. she just doesnt care anymore.. it broke my heart and I cant get her out of my head. It HURTS, but I feel like all there is to do left is what Tate talks about in this video. Work as hard as possible and never feel like being unworthy... AGAIN!
She just broke up with me, been with her for 3 months. Now im working out every day and I’m building myself. Stay strong kings 👑👑👑
Bro what are 3 months that’s nothing, I don’t want to be rude but that’s nothing. We broke up 2 days ago I was 4 years in a relationship with her from the age of 16-20. feels like I’m dying inside. But I have to do what has to be done. Build yourself get a sixpack, get rich. I feel the depression kicking in and it gives me motivation because I don’t want to live that live like that.
Same bro, use that energy
Little Update, been going to the gym consistently, now made my first 200$ this month on posting Tik Tok videos of other people’s content. Trying to build a Shopify site which I sell some random ass products. You guys are gonna hear from me in the future.
@@TheNoobiconmonths years people feel what they feel bro. Either way we support each other and kick ass daily
I needed to hear this. My wife left me at my lowest. My business tanked, was in a big financial hole. I’ve been torturing myself these last few months I need to move on and just focus on myself and my daughter. If she couldn’t be there in tough times when I needed her the most she doesn’t deserve me. I’ll bounce back and better than before her lose. It hurts but I need to move on. This video hit me hard. The hardest part is we still live together, I haven’t left because we haven’t filed for divorce yet and it will go against me in court for my daughter. we moved to WA from AZ to start my Business so it’s not easy. Ive been beating myself up mentally and I will be fighting for my daughter in court will look bad if I leave so I hear. I need to get the divorce started if she can’t be with me she’ll have to do everything on her own I’ll take care of my daughter and no running back. Enough is enough.
Hell yea man, love to hear it. I wish you well.
@@07stanggg6 thank you!!
Good luck brother. I’ve been through the same. Everything will work out how it’s supposed to be. Can’t control the future, just your mind. Just keep on listening to these vids. And keep your head up bro
@@MrJacob028 Thank you brother. I keep telling myself it’s for the best and just move it. It hurts but I will be better then ever. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@theboy466 Thank you my good sir. I appreciate the love.
3 months and 20 days after I finally started letting go. I hope I get control of my mind again and start to accept.
It's a process bro I am going through same we have to go through the pain and thoughts in order to come out better 💯
You'll heal...took me 6 months
I cared for about 2 days.
Then started doing things I hadn't done in a while since being with her.
Gym. Dieting. Tanning. Working more than before. Nothing else.
This is what I did before when I felt my greatest and looked my best, no relationship to focus on just making gains.
Not going to the gym when you get with a chick is one of the worst things you can as a dude. She isn’t going to thank you for dropping the gym “for her”. In fact she lose attraction when you veer off of your purpose.
@jermaineayivoh8263 🎯
You stopped doing the things that made her attracted to you in the first place. It's very common, we think we have her and can relax and then it blows up. Gotta stay on your purpose/gym at all times. Learned this the hard way too..
@@kendog0311 did this on a daily basis for 8 years, once i got into a relationship she liked my looks, prett solid abs and all that shit, till that turned on me calling me obsessed even though i went only for 3 months in 2 years. Calling or acusing me i want to to fuck chicks or cheat on her. Never flirted, liked a photo, cheated or anything. So it was always walking on egg shells or sabotaging me to eat chips because i am not fun if i don't do it. I am boring.
Tanning 😆🤣… GAY
Don’t gym don’t become successful (not necessarily rich success is different for everyone) for a woman. Do it for yourself.
Good excuse
shut up
@@CollaborativeGlobalMarketingHe's not saying don't go the gym or be successful. He's saying don't do it for somebody else, do it for you.
@@inkwyvern5171the commas were jibberish. Hence the sarcasm.
The 1st 8 mins feel like he's speaking to my soul. I'm greatful to listen to this guys wisdom
Got left today on Father’s Day ran straight to Tate 🤦♂️😅 good luck guys
@aaron4056 we got this bro! Just give it some time 💪 don’t let them break you
Me too on Father's day. I gave her flowers on mother's day wtf
She hurt me way to bad I'm done. She broke my reality of her and that magic. She made me feel like a villain for being their for you, for trying my hardest for nothing.
I am working on myself. I am reading, working out 3 times a week, working 50 hours per week. Journaling my career goals. I know I am improving.
I know I am improving. But she is still stuck in the past of who she thought I was before. And I think she is starting to realize what she lost. I have always been this man with passions, hobbies and strong work ethic.
I love her and she busts her ass. She has great qualities. But she does need to level up and mature a bit to catch up with me. And that doesnt mean ill slow down for her. Ill still read. Look and search for opportunities in my job field, work out, read and pray. I am improving and taking action.
Just do it. My time is now!!
How long will you weep?
God says: how long will you mourn over a door I closed 🚪
I needed to hear this, mourn no longer my friends
It is better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a contentious wife in a lovely home. Proverbs 21:9
I got discarded 4 month ago from my wife after going through a rough 10 months being bad and needing an operation was off work couldn’t hit the gym and found out she was texting other guys from her works getting dropped off from guys from her works and then she got rid of me right before my operation !!! She left me when I needed her the most ! I thought we were a team but it was me just providing for her .. I moved out went no contact I’ll never talk to her again I’m hitting the gym hard I’m finding myself again getting my empathy back my masculinity looking after other brothers who are going through divorces !! There’s a serious feminist power movement at the moment and all men need to stand up and be men if your wife or gf doesn’t want you shut the door weld it shut and never speak to them again better yourself and when she comes running back tell her you’ve made your bed lay in it !!!
15 years, since I was 19. The only life I know, ripped away, over night, no good explanation. Im struggling, I put the bottle to my lips and barrel to my head. Then like an angel, she appeared. That special someone, that perfect match. That girl that made me feel more important in a few weeks time than I have in the last 15 years. Had I met her sooner, it would have been nothing more than “hello” due to my loyalty. No matter how much you feel like you lose, there is another opportunity waiting, don’t pass it up because you’re “sad” or “devastated”. It may just be the answer that saves your life. I Love You Alaina, you are my hero.
God knows best, and he always has a plan. Never forget that my brothers
Just got out of a long-term relationship, and while it’s painful now, I’m using this as an opportunity to focus on myself and my goals. I’m hitting the gym, pushing my limits, and building a better version of me every single day. Sometimes the hardest moments can lead to the greatest growth. 💪
Dude.. be weak when you're I love. And when it hurts. Let it hurt more. Don't suffer but endure the pain
..this is how you process pain and live
So true. I made a mistake when my fiance left me two years ago. I didn;t processed the shock. I "moved on". I mean I wished she will be back after a while seeing me succeeding in life. Did I succeed? Yes. I make few times more money, traveling around, my career looks good. But! But - she moved on. Decided to start a new chapter with someone else. Now I feel the whole pain like never before. Don't make my mistake. Don't numb the pain, let it pierce you, fight it, and then hopefully accept it and move on for real.
Its been a month that we're apart, I ve treated her like a queen, never cheated on her, never been abusive either emotionnaly, verbally or physically and I was open for communication. 6yrs together ffs thrown away. I loved her deeply, respected her, and planned my future with her to have kids and then she pulls the classic "everthing has changed, I need to put myself first...". Im working on my mindset and working out, and focusing on my job and just embracing the pain and letting go althougb it hurts so much to have trusted someone so much and at the end they act as if you ve done nothing. I know that have done all my efforts, and was very loyal, better to sleep oppressed than oppress someone. For all the brothers going through a shitty situation you can go through this this is my 2nd failed long term relationship I think I need to become selfish and let the girl enter my frame and not the other way around. Stay strong, I know that you cared a lot, and loved too much, and been kind too much that the other part took it for granted, but be sure that the time will show them that they have lost a diamond while they were collexting rocks.
Letting go of an amazing feeling, better than anything I've ever felt.
Remember guys you are the prize let them chase you while you become the success you want to be
I cannot stop laughing how all his videos are randomly popping up on my feed. Thank God for that as I need them!!
Yes brother. I have no idea who you are but wish you best. I am 38 now, two years ago my fiance decided to dump me. I moved on, but still had hope to come back. Gave her time, while I worked on my career. Now she decided to risk her new chapter with somebody else. My heart is shattered... But now - I am starting to move on. Scared as hell that it might be too late to find true love... But - we will get there. The world is cruel place. WIsh you all best
@@HCforLife1wish you the best my man
14 years together and a 4 year old. After months of trying to work things back together for our family, i cant let it drown me anymore. Her best friend just had a divorce, driving that into our lives. Yesterday was the first day on 14 years i looked at my wife and was truly unattracted. In the moment i seen her unhappiness and felt mine.
Let her go.. Seek success in silence. They are always watching king's.
Chin up we are meant for more men.
We broke up 2 days ago and it’s hard to sleep at night she told me she has met another man and that’s killing me 😔 please pray for me
Become better, she'll regret it for the rest of her life.
I'm with you bro, I'm almost in the same position. Let's fight together back in life, don't waste time brother 💪🏼❤️
Man up bro full up time spend time with ur family ect..
@@BigJohnDaDon3217 ❤️
@@endurance_pilot ❤️
Stay strong Kings! Better is out there. Learn and be better. Don’t be stuck on the past. I’ll be praying for yall🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Its not her or anyone else breaking you. Only person thats doing it is you and only you yourself
Damn seeing all these comments 💔 hope everyone finds happiness in life
I recently found out the mother to my kids and the women I cherish didn’t want me in her life anymore . I was bad with alcohol but didn’t see it and what problems it caused . I don’t drink anymore my heads so much clearer I see my kids and her for food and activities every now and again . If I need help she is there and amazing to me .
We are not together she wants to be alone it’s been 7 months but I just cherish what time we spend together. We have to be strong for the kids and not let them suffer .
It’s even harder for me as the love I have for her gets stronger and stronger all the time .
Keep if the booze guys it’s a silent killer in many ways 💙
I’ll be praying for you brother . Just be careful with those feelings your keeping for her because if she never wants to get back together we’ll then your hurting yourself .. cause your not opening yourself up to be looking for someone else who will love you and you can cherish her.. stay civil with your X to co-parent successfully, so you still get that time with your children.. Then in due time I would be asking to spend time with your children only. This whole hanging out with your kids and she’s there is wrong. Especially if she has
No plans of getting back together with you. So if that’s the case i know it will be hard to, but you’ve gotta accept that and move forward with your life brother.
I pray everything works out for you to where your the happiest you’ve ever been.. stay tough stay strong.
@@robertnance7522 thanks for this yeah a few friends have said the same .
It’s not right but I love her so much and don’t want the kids to grow up with step parents .
I grew up like that and it was awful .
Oh it’s so tough
I feel this and in the same boat as I rebuild my life and business in a town we used to live in. My daughter is the one who suffers the most and the beer is something I’ll never touch again. I’ve always been the one people turned to for strength with my work and attitude. Now I’m asking Him for a spot instead of a fellow trainer in the gym. It’s hard and my wife is stronger then I ever knew.
Godspeed
@@traps361I feel ya too mate . I’ve always been the positive one for others now I’m just a broken man
Definitely embarrassed myself and was self destructive. The good thing is, a strong man is a better off than a coddled woman.
Honestly I feel more bad for her than I do for myself
Weak just work on yourself
It means you have a beautiful heart... It's ok.. I get you 100%
These people are Narcissistic...
Just pray to your higher being for more Serenity.. and that what you do won't hurt your inner self, your true essence..You were made the way you are by God, not by this dude or that dude... Work in yourself and work for your goals.
Live, Love, Learn... It's ok if it's not perfect... NOTHING AND NO ONE IS PERFECT... NOT EVEN A WOMAN.
Absolutely especially when you know they ARE NARCOPATHS. 😂😢
@@jacobramirez3026His empathy being in tact after his women betrayed him is an extraordinarily powerful sign of emotional quotient. It's strength, not weakness. People who shelter in their own shadow stonewalling their emotions have already submitted the greatest part of the human experience; to feel. This man even feels bad for his girl, knowing she's gonna be worse off after fucking up and leaving him.
Think of it this way. After he's demonstrated that kind of durability, do you really think calling him weak is gonna have any affect? You're trying to blow a wall down with your lungs. You're wasting your breath.
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The world needs more warriors, not worry-ers. Stay strong and check in on your fellow man.
She left, destroyed me but I am using that energy I started boxing kickboxing, gym, and working all night on a new project with goals to get rich
Bro these comments top tier I love all you guys stay strong no matter what shape the storm don’t let it shape yoy
If there's one thing I learned from this video, it is that I met a high value woman who is better on every aspect and form than myself. She was worth it. Thanks Andrew
She's my ex girlfriend
It’s true, I wrote 10 pages about us and she saw me but still told me she loved her ex more than me. And the entire time we were together she loved him still
it’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the forbidden ebook called 25 Money Secrets From Donald Trump
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16 years of relationship, 2 kids, our own house, cars, etc. she ended it like it was nothing. For two months I tried to fix it, the more I tried the more she pushed me away. Then I started going to the gym. It’s been a month in the gym and I start to see things more clearer. She only loved me because I bought things, took her to restaurants, did surprises. I realised that she didn’t loved me for me. The moment I changed my focus on spending money to saving, she left. It’s been 3 months and a week since it all began, she’s moving out in 3 days, finally and hopefully the healing process will start.
Good luck brother.
Push through it Brother, If she was one in a million...There are 6000 versions of her on Planet Earth...This is YOUR TIME NOW.
@@nandansho thanks bro. :)
I needed this. Let it go, do you, don’t fall for the over texting trap and chasing her, she wants to see how far she can go to control you and have you chase and she doesn’t give anything. Focus on you, be nice, but drop her, if you love her and comes back and changes, sure cool. For now, focus on you, she knows how you feel, it’s up to her now. But do you.
Bro she texted other guys behind my back and told me its normal...im her bf i told her its not normal and i told her if she really love me delete all those guys contact which she's just saving for her own chit chat.....she told me me she can't delete all....i ask why...she never answer...she keep saying only some she can delete....while i delete anything for her....i cuaght her flirting soo thars why i ask her to delete those guys...but she's not willing to delete everything and told me she'll delete only the ones i caught....tell me what should i do bro
@@doubleJJ01 time to move on. respect yourself.
@@doubleJJ01its hard, but if she doesn’t respect you, then she hasnt deserved you
@@parmaso6634 thank you...ill keep in mind
@@doubleJJ01dump her. That's disrespect. Your kinghood will be gone. Reclaim yourself before Oneitis take care of you.
I was a time waster and heavy drinker, but my own headspace became my jail with negative thoughts and feelings. Through my own decisions I pushed out and hit the gym harder, got the promotion I deserve and the chance to further improve myself. All I can say to everyone is this, the past will eat your life away, the future is where your growth is and the present is the opportunity to choose where you go. Don’t let what could of been affect what can be
(0:34 this is true) It is better to be hit with the hard truth. Yes nine time out of ten majority of women will find a better mate very quickly. It is for the better as men to just focus on self improvement. Keep thy nose to the grinding stone.
6 years down the drain it hurts so bad but i guess i don't have enough resources to keep her happy, its a lesson learned and its definitely gonna make me sharper. Keep your head up fellas its gonna be ok.
Bro, we need more from Andrew tate, especially in your edit
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We spent 1year+ with each other and she was causing me stress last months but I handled her and fought for the relationship because I love her, then suddenly we came back to each other but she decided to say “I’m lost I want time to think”
I believed these words and gave her the time and support she needed, then she decided to hangout with other guys and spent time with them :) yesterday she left me and didn’t answer my 11calls for no reason
I know she was with another guy but imagine bros few days ago she was crying like she’s in hell asking me to don’t leave her and I stayed but she was lying and breaking my heart!
Bros,fighters I feel the pain so hard I feel dead inside, she killed me man💔I could’ve break her many times but I loved her like my daughter and now I’m standing alone fighting even in bed to sleep few hours,fighting with to stomach so I can eat few meals…
This shit is so hard I hope I’m gonna pass it soon. Like my comment I’ll come back and update.
Peace ✌🏻
My baby momma dumped me for a guy that can give her more. Relationship wasn’t perfect but geez I would have walked through the fire. She wouldn’t and told me her love is conditional. Fair enough. I need to move on. This video is a start.
Hypergamy is almost never satisfied
Im a woman and i relate to this.loyal to one man for 15 years whilst he beat me,took my money called me names im done.i was a good woman and one day a high value man will see how good i am.thank you andrew for always sorting my head out with your advice
Thank you. Sadly for me it’s been a year.. but man I needed to hear this.
Don’t waste time on some trash that has no confer for you or anyone. Don’t cry over spoiled spilled milk.
Focus on yourself and go for what you want that is worth having.
I acctually got some tears of joy after what Tate said
I really needed this
She ain't worth it. Hit the gym bro.
You're crying from a man's speech, far out get a grip are you PM'S.
@@peterlawson8040shut the hell up. Anyone can cry and let it all out of they need to.
Bein a hard ass won't help you move on.
Right after my recent breakup i went straight to the gym and started stacking money. Become the best version of yourself everyone, trust in God and better things will come.
She broke up with me after 6.5 years two months before marriage 4 days ago and kissed another guy and met with some other in secret. I cried in front of her I texted her but I know decided to to not fucking let her win and take my last little self respect i have in me. She lost the guy that put her before himself and she will regret this ..
Im 26 and have only been in short-term relationships, but even losing them sometimes hurts at the start but you realize you can only control YOU. You can NOT control others and how they feel, and unfortunately this also applies to the opposite sex now more than ever. You feel as though the person you loved so much just runs away from home, but it's your job to put your foot down and say enough is enough. He/she wants to play games, leave them outside while the adulting goes on inside the home. Moving on from someone is the best medicine you can give yourself.
This couldnt of come at a better time.
being broken for almost 4 months now and It's really embarrassing to myself but I know and I feel it for some reason I'm getting better day by day.
I wish I had these talks when I was at my worst. I came really close to losing almost everything if I had been a lesser man. It took me way too long to pick myself up without these hard truths. I had to figure it much slower than I would have if I had this spoken to me sooner. But that’s ok. Made it out enough so that I can start building again.
Keep on trucking brother. In 2017 I was homeless, addicted to heroin, zeroed out, with a bankruptcy on my credit report. Now I own my home cash, I’ve been clean for 6 years and rebuilt my credit up to 720 (bankruptcy falls off the report in 2025). In the past few months I’ve lost 60lbs down from 420lbs, I’m 6’6. The next year is gonna be centered on getting down another 140lbs to 220lbs. It’s possible but nobody is gonna do the work for us. I got tired of watching my friends die or wish they were dead while people like Tate are walking on clouds. 🚀
@@zebrapleco7895damn man im anchoolic 21 years old this shit made me time out(think)
I've had my moments of weakness and chased after her/them. What I've come to realize is that time heals. When you focus on bettering yourself you attain the power that can make them regret leaving you because you had nothing. In fact, you attain so much power you can get any girl you desire though that's not even really the point. I guess I'm trying to say don't feel bad if you slip, just remember that they are not worth it and the feeling of despair you have will go away. The sooner you move on the better because bro - you have so much potential to let a woman/satan take it away from you.
Holy smokes, this was ridiculously powerful. One of those few, rare videos which hit you like a ton of bricks.
Yup. I think we men need that. I am 38, devastated after my ex-fiance moved on... feeling completely lonely. No friends as I sacrificed everything to her and moved out to another country for 7 years... Life is hell. But I need this kind of videos. Resonating better with me motivating to do things instead of analyzing every bit and piece of my life.
@@HCforLife1 I'm also 38 (for a fortnight lol), and also had to deal with that same pain after sacrificing everything and getting disrespected like that. It's so massive to how a bloke feels inside, but, please know you ain't alone in dealing with such pain, I've been there before mate... as have most dudes.
After birth now already for 3 years ongoing I've been disowned as the father of my only daughter, and I've been mourning day and night ever since.
I could easily get over such an narcisstic and sadistic ex but I've given her the power to destroy me and my life since she noticed that I am extremely vulnerable regarding emotional abuse with declaring my only child dead for me at 43 years old age.
To let go my forbidden daughter seems impossible but after 3 years of waiting, begging, crying, stalking and exposing my weakest side ever, my mind is brainwashed, my heart is torn apart, I lost my business and my savings, and even physically broken down as well.
This year I have to choose for myself before it's too late but I'm scard the rest of my life by the most inhumane mother of my little child who still doesn't even know that I am alive anyway. I made the worst mistake of my life to believe in an narccisist who's even able to let me prepare the whole babyroom just for nothing.
My parentalship she suddenly decided to turn into an anonimous donorship.
I will let go of my only little girl who I'm not allowed to get to know but my heart will keep on bleeding
Great motivation speech, actually this is what I was looking for, I’ve been in this hole for almost 3 years, now is now to climb back up and keep going forward 😊
Fark bro three years? No Hoe is worth that…mine left me took the house got remarried and moved her simp husband in with her and his kids…I decided to to got them gym go harder in jiu jitsu Im now coach i never looked better at 46, my two boys respect me more than their step dad and I got myself a beautiful young wife 21 years younger…and I’m honestly not showing off but what I’ve done is like Andrew said I’ve used that negative energy to rebuild myself…you can do it and possibly get to a better position than I’m in.
@@MoJoJoJo747 Damn ur a G
@@MoJoJoJo747Woowww i needed this. Letsss goooo. Goinn thru a breakup now for 2 months. Today was my first day in the gym. Time to let goo and rebuild
I need this right now. I'm going through a break up with someone I truly loved and now I'm in a hotel room alone. No family no friends. This is what I did to myself for the shitty things that I've done. I don't know what to do. Easy for a rich man to say get over it. When you have the world. A close brother. I don't have anything
If I have listened to all these before my high school graduation exam,I would have been doing way better for that
Had my little heart broke in my teens took me a long time to get over .
However I went on to achieve quite alot for my age .
I seen this girl around the area couple of years back and the wall had hit her so so hard and I don't believe she's ever changed that much natural born lier
Wow the future has made me happy about the past .
Thanks for sharing that. 👏