"Raising My Child with Islam" - Friday Khutbah 2023 - Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубликовано: 26 янв 2023
- Khutbah in Boca Raton, Florida.
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This is the most important video a Muslim family can hear. We must help our children to live in a non Muslim world. We must be more loving to our children so they will grow strong in their faith . I'm a non Muslim and a teacher. Many of my students are Muslim. I see how happy these kids are when we have a discussion about life. and they can express themselves. We must teach our kids to love their faith. I do not want Muslim kids leaving their faith for this Godless world. I will work with any family to help their kids to love their faith and to stay close to God. May peace be with all parents. You are not alone some of us care about you and your kids.
People like you make this world a better place to live in. May you always stay blessed ❤
This directly spoke to me. I am 32 years old now. Wallahi everything this man said came true in my life. I thought he was talking about me, as a child growing up, lack of communication, parents telling me what’s wrong with me, I am unappreciative, we gave him everything but u failed us, not being understood by non of your family member, when all I wanted was hearing ears, I lacked that 😢 For those reasons I struggled in life in many different ways, I remember giving my family example of others and close friends of mine, I used to tell my family isn’t it amazing how my friends family is close with each other?? N I always been told I am weird, they don’t understand why I became silent, and when I speak I started shouting because I didn’t feel I was being heard, I still struggle with a lot of things in life. SubhaAllah he talked on my behalf. All I want in this life is to get married to a Saliha woman and raise my children well, not repeating the same mistakes my parents/families made. JazakAllah khier brother.
Much love and respect from Canada 🤍♥️
As a Muslim Gen Z who particularly experienced growing up in a society with limitless exposure to ‘temptations’, I couldn’t agree more with this teaching. A beautifully, accurately spoken wisdom. I pray that every parent, religious or not, start implementing this teaching. Thank you for sharing this ❤
MashaAllah the wisdom this man has just amazes me. I’m a mother of 9 and the majority of what he has said I truly can testify to. I’m struggling with my two oldest boys (15 & 13). We didn’t shove religion upon them. My husband and I thought we were leading by example, we thought we had open relationships with our boys we gave them our time, attention, family vacations, they accompanied us frequently to the masjid sand Islamic conventions, etc. But just as Nouman said we now find ourselves asking what happened, where did we go wrong? It’s a daily battle trying to build a different connection idk if it’s being a teenager or if I have truly lost my boys. But I would like to point out what I haven’t hear any Sheik speak upon. What about those kids that had an awesome up bringing that genuinely loved Quran and not only learning but being engaged in Islamic affairs/activities? What do parents do when their kids become teenagers and somehow seem to be brainwashed into believing “only their parents act this way” when even the other teens at their Muslim school don’t configure to an “Islamic” identity. How as parents do we keep that love for Islam alive when our little ones evolve into their own little persons with perspectives that are constantly being drilled upon them by society that’s no inclined with the sunnah; this is also prevalent in our Muslim communities?
A mother of 9, congratulations what an example to follow for young women in our generation. Congratulations immensely,
shikamoo Mama 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿🇰🇪🇰🇪💪💯
MashaAllah sister 9 children may Allah reward your efforts. Perhaps there’s only so much attention you can give each child because there are so many of the kids and only two of you as parents. they might have felt neglected
One word… homeschooling!!!
@@skhan-1826 😂😂even oneword is two words, just saying
You completely got it wrong in the comment just like the ustadh said. You are not supposed to ask what went wrong and make assumptions, you are supposed to listen. The thing you want to hear your child tells you, you simply have to listen. More often you will not like it. Parents have this superiority complex and that really ruins relationships.
I lost my father in law three weeks. He was a great man, husband, father and the best Nana to my two beautiful daughters. My daughters 11&9 were heart broken. They absolutely loved and adored there grandad. He hardly ever spoiled them with presents or money. He also didn’t let them get toooooo naughty either. But there was only one thing he did, which made him a great man and that was “presence”.
He would drive for an hour just to watch my girls play football for 30 min, he would sit next to them and watch cartoons, he would get them glass of water, he would just “be there”. That all he did and my girls loved him for that.
So please my beloved brothers and sisters please be there for your kids. Life is simple, it US who make it difficult.
Good luck everyone. ❤️ from 🇬🇧
This khutba is spot-on! JazakAllahu Khayr, brother Nouman.
There is no bigger fitna in this world to misguide our children if we do our job as Allah and his Messenger (peace be upon him) taught.
I havent marry yet but this lecture really open my mind how to raise my kids later Insya Allah
@@Call_Upon_YAH u are lost and get lost by yourself dont invite me.
You are the one who listened to the lecture on time, seriously most of us parents sadly listen to these things very late, unfortunately
@@fzahid masya Allah there is always time brother to rebuild the relationship insya Allah and will pray Allah will give you strenght and ease
Masha Allah. How great this lecture for parent, grandparent. May Allah bless Us forever. Thanks for your kindness mind. A very important topics for raising spiritual intelligent our children, our grandchildren. Jazakallah. Syukron.
Alhamdulillah! You spoke my concers so clearly Ustadh. I also agree that our parents are our biggest sheikhs. For me, it has always been & still is my mother. May Allah help you & us in every situation. Ameen. Summa Ameen.
All parents must read “hold on to your kids” by Gabor maté. It addresses so many of these issues.
A very important topic this needs some more khutbahs as the new generation parents have really forgot the goals for their children. MA SHA ALLAH,MAY ALLAH SWT keep you in the best of health to keep guiding us Ameen
So True
So many times you helped me to go through the hardest period of my life.
Your advices are priceless.
May Allah give you what’s the best for you and your family.
Obeying Allah protects people
May Allah perserve you and may he give you the best in this live and the next
Ameen
Very relevant to the present time
Jazak Allah Khairan Ya Ustaz
Masha'Allah
Very much needed advice fir parents. Wish we had day long seminar about it
Alhamdulillâhi Rabbil âlamiin. Allâhumma Salli alâ Seyyidinâ Mawlâna Muhammadin Wa Sallim. Thank you for sharing this with us. May ALLÂH SWT Make it easy for all, and Protect Bless Help Protect Guide us and Grant all of us Jannah. Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen
سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم ❤️
I was there!
Luckyyy yoouuuuu🎉👏
Beautiful advice for us parents, Jazakallah.
JazaKAllah. I am speechless
SubhanAllah amazing talk, currently have a 2 year old and I am happy I listened to this talk! It's interesting to see the similarities of this talk and comparing it to the 5 love languages of children. If we don't speak in the love language of our children then they won't feel connected and loved by the parent. Something to think about!
So true MashaAllah raising it takes lots effort. Those of you wished that they raised their children as advised it is not too late to connect with them. May Allah guide us and our children Ameen
جزاكم الله خيرا شيخ 🤲⭐️
Very nice 👍
جزاك الله خير الجزاء
Mashallah. Barakallah and jazakalla khair
1000000% right everything Nouman said
I wish I heard this when I just became a mother at age 22🥺 I wouldn’t make this much mistakes
What kind of mistakes if I may ask?!
Me too 😔
Sister,you still have an opportunity to change yourself from now.Spread positive and rectify your mistakes because the upcoming generation will lead in right path in the way what you intend to change yourself.
same 😞
JazaakumuLLah Khayran
Such a beautiful doa from the quran and from you.. me myself feels the chalenge of nuturing my son despite my shortcomings..may Allah guide all parents..amin
May Allah SWT grant you Jannah Ustadh! Precious advice ❤
This is so great. Thank you so much, a great reminder, powerful realization.
Absolutely true, when you are seeking for right knowledge, then it will unfold to you deliberately,
Truly you are guided to the right direction.
May the good Lord bless you more and the community 💙
Great lecture more of these please!!
Jazakumullahu khairan!
Jazakallah khair, may Allah bless you, .
Jazakoum ALLAH khyr 🤲
masha
allah
scw
The ultimate advice for parents.
Thank you Ustaz Nouman.
اللهم آمين يارب العالمين 🤲
اللهم صل وسلم و بارك على نبينا وحبيبنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين وسلم تسليما كثيرا ❤️
My kindergarten son was upset when his classmate girl threw away his sandwich that had ham. He said I knew inside there was ham but I was just to take it out and just eat the bread 😂😂😂
Jazakallahu kheyr
jazak ALLAH
SubhanALLAH YARABB
This is an amazing talk.
99% influencer. So true, as young as 3 or 4 years old. Kids observe and there brain is like a sponge. I talk with my 4 year old all ready about prophets and Allah. SoebhanAllah now they are so interested I hope our children stay like that.
Ameen
Thank you brother
MashAllah
Jazakallah Khairan, un ultimate lecture guide for parents
so true and wise- jazak Allah for highlighting
Mashallah very eye opening, may Allah sw help us raise our kids in these difficult times
Alhamdulillah. May Allah reward our Sheikh
Jazakallah khair for such eye opening lecture every word he said is true and practical
How much should I regret that I missed this opportunity with my kids. May Allah forgive me.
Brother, ayah 74 of surah 25 (Al Furqan) small ayah-easy to memorize. Its a dua. I am in same situation, I read this dua after every salah
Regret doesn't solve anything,
Just trace your steps back on where you have made mistakes, pray to Allaah for guidance, make active actions constructively, and pray for good results.
Regret is waste of time and health (Regret eats our health like fire eats wood)
I have a son (20) and daughter (16) they are completely opposite
Our daughter is into her salat and Quran but son is completely opposite
I don’t know how this happened I make dua for Allah to open his heart /eyes and mind
We had the conversations with him but we weren’t able to connect with him the older he got
Ya Allah have mercy on us all
Masha Allah..... jazakallahu khair for such kinds of lectures...they r helping us a lot
Thank you so much
Alhamdulillah. Masyaa Alloh la haula walla quwwata illabillah.
Jazaakallohu khoir ustadz
I love this fellow! Mr. Nouman Ali Khan descent Muslim!
ওস্তাদ ❤
Jazakallah
Precisely delivered with accuracy -May
Allah reward you Sheikh
I love u sir
MasyaAllah.. Amazing khutbah
Jazakallahu khair bro
mashallah
💯 right
💯 true
Salam w Shiekh, JAK for such needed lectures. I am wondering if there workshops or training courses for kids tarbyyia. Appreciate sharing any resources that handle the tarbyyia in such perspective
its embarassing because the truth is comin out n my family are still in denial
and thats going to hurt them more knowing their privacy was invaded and they made mistakes regardin my son and were to ignorant to look into it. Im trying to save them from that.
Definitely these conversations are very hardly needed in these days to save our generation
اسلام علیکم ورحمت اللہ وبرکاتہ
I need to talk to brother Nauman as I’m very depressed about my child not listening to me and not following Islamic way of living.
Many aspects of life
Current life (social life )now beside stories of Quran
Assalamu alaykum warahmatuLlahi wabarakatuhu!
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سُبْحَانَ ٱلله an angel all parents should know about.
NAK having pcychology as a major is obvious.
@7:00
OMG
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Asslamu Alaikum
Can you provide me Quran Tafseer in urdu
What to do if we dont hv this connection
Assalamualaikum mei Bangladesh se hou aur ap
ki har video dekti aur gor se sunti hou.Koshish karti hou amal karne ki. Par mujhe English samaj ni atii. Mera bht dil karta ha apki har video dekhou par aksar english pe hote ha. Recently jo aye ha videos wo sare English pe ha. Plz ye video same to same urdu pe tafseer kar de. Kiu k mere do bacche ha.mujhe bhi bht masle pesh ate ha. Plz mere batoo pe zara goour kijeye ga. Shukriya.
Huge thanks, love this videos. 🥹👏👏👏
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Jazzak Allah khairan for this dars. It is clear how not to raise your children after this dars. It would be helpfull to receive tips on how you should raise your child. Programs that help give shape to the raising system for example.
Questions that might rise:
-How to achieve trustful communication;
-What subjects to communicate at what age;
-What is an effective punishing/reward system;
-How to define and protect the line of being too amical vs too distant/strict, etc.
I think every parent and every child are different. Along the way you'll figure out what works and what not. But a dars with more indepht guidance on the raising of children would be so valuable for many. We need an awake generation of our ummah. With well raised and alert children that become a well guided Muslim adults bi idhni Lah.
My thoughts r if the goal of memorizing the Qur'an is just to memorize n finish it thats the problem.the goal of memorization is to remmeber the guidance in it.what to do how wen n importantly why.if U feel lonely-Prophet Yusuf AS, or Asiya RA.the stories r guidance.my thoughts.
Assalamu alaykum sheikh please help me. I am not sure how to guide my 6 yrs old daughter. All are wants to do is watch RUclips rubbish. How can we as parents to the right thing. I really need to work on myself aswell. May Allah azza wajjal guide us all.
I am a divorce mother my husband took my daughter from me I haven't met her for 1 year but I believe in Allah she is now reaching her puberty I am too much worried about her
May Allah SWT reunite you with your daughter and grant you more sabr and reward you for your hardships Allahumma ameen. I pray you are able to have some sort of connection and contact with your daughter, is there anyoneor any services that can help you do so?
@@amossobir2814 Alhamdulilah my daughter is back but His father is not giving him back and judiciary of Pakistan is pathetic
Why are there no Turkish subtitles?
I really want to talk to you. I'm in a big conflict. I don't know what to do
turkish converter please
বাংলা ভাষার কথা ডাবিং লেকচার।চাই
😪its a humble request، translate the whole khutbah in urdu as soon as possible۔۔
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*369 ISLAM*
*SIMPLE,SWEET,SMART & SHORT*
*QUESTION*
☝ *وماادراک*
☝*ماهي الوصية الأولى بعد كلمة الاستشهاد* وأين تكتب*
☝ *اشھدان لا الہ الا الله وحدہ لا شریک لہ واشھدان محمد عبد و رسولہ*
کے بعد پہلا حکم کیا ھے اور کہاں لکھا ھوا ھے۔
🌑 *جسکو جواب نہیں معلوم اس پے لعن طعن کیا/کی جا سکتا/سکتی ھے*
*جواب و فتوٰی*
*الفا تحہ*
I am very sad .Despite my no my son did insurance agent course.May World Financial Group gets closed and may my son do not earn a single penny from it. I have explained doing anything in insurance is a clear war with Allah. How I can save him? I feel so helpless. Friends advice became important and your own mother becomes enemy because she tells you to stay away from.haram. I feel helpless Allah
I feel.I am a failure as a mother.
try making sincere proper dua every day as only Allah can truly help you and all of us, May Allah guide us and forgive us all Ameen
Make dua evry day especially the dua rabbana hublana min ajwajina wa min zuriyatina ...................till end every day along with other duas about their guidance . Dua could be even in your own language it will help inshaAllah
@@randomthoughts5316 JazakAllah Khair .
My parents don't listen