Quick summary from mufti menk's talk : 1. Attention: Give them full attention when they speak to u 2. Acceptance : understand ur child. Show ur interest to them 3. Approval : praise & value them verbally 4. Appreciation : acknowledge and say thanks to them 5. Affection : love! 6. Authority : we need to set rules and guidelines! (But parents need to lead by example)
I'm so thankful to Almighty Allah for blessing me with such amazing parents... Alhamdulillah i feel like I've the best parents in the universe... "My Lord be merciful to them, as they have raised me when i was young " Please pray for my parents good health! May Allah reward you!
My Mother and me always confides in each other very closely, we love each other very truly like Mother as well as Sisters. May MOM rest in peace in Janna. Ameen.
Very good advice. Allah give ability we grow our children right way And Mufti Menk you are amazing allah show mercy on you and your family and your children Allah bless you
I remember noticing that one of my parents were not listening and to prove it to myself I started talking total nonsense to them ---it took forever for them to notice..not a good thing
I see most of the time some parents dont treat fairness among their children. They burden the eldest while letting the youngest go astray from the path of Allah. What if the eldest dies and the youngests dont know the basic responsibilities? I think The prophet imposed fair distribution of responsibilities to his children. Which is most of the time in our generation of ummah is not being followed.
“When was the last time you’ve had a discussion with the child? The fathers right” When do the moth3rs even care to discuss/have conversation with without emotives in plac3 -- like they don’t even car3 for you after they’ve raised you without any regard of consequence in choices. My sister can get married easily- and mashallah she has But for us m3n we don’t have it so easy in these cases…. We are mor3 susceptible of having problems as we ag3 when we are raised by Fak3 car3
Sunnah: ✨ cut your moustaches short so the hair is not touching the lips ✨ let your beard grow Allaah says in the Quran: “say (Muhammad pbuh) if you truly love Allaah then follow me and Allaah will love you and forgive you your sins. Allaah is the most forgiving, very merciful” - 3:31 Share it so you can get the reward of everyone who follows
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Assalamu wa alaikum all something is really bothering me in this video background image on the right...it symbolises pagan worship image...please remove it from the masjid wall! May Allah show us the right path in sha Allah !
Please revalue if you actually want kids and all the endless responsibilities that come with having children. My siblings born and raised in the western world educated about birth control, yet popping out kids And have the audacity to force my sick mother to look after her” grankids” Causing hate and problems within the family. So they can carry in living a bachelors single life.
Mufti sahib my sister's husband is forcing my sister to give her one child for adoption to his childless brother against her wishes, is that fair in Islam. In order to fulfill his purpose & safeguard his property he threatened my sister of marrying another girl if she is not willing to fulfill his demand & at the same time he has left her at her parental house soon after the birth of a girl chid almost one yr old now. My sister already has two more sons, one is 9yrs & the other 6yrs old.
What about rights of a unmarried woman who lost their father? Will she is not eligible to get anything from her father properties? Only son is eligible to get properties? Where that daughter will go ? Is there place where she can spent her remaining life? Your answer will be rid me get out from my current situation
Well in Islam the property is divided between the daughters and the son . 2parts of the property belongs to the son and 1part to the daughter. For example your parents have 1son and 1daughter so the property will be divided into 3parts of which 2 parts will be given to your brother and 1part to yourself and it is irrespective of the fact that you are married or not. And if any of the child doesn't want the property they surely can donate that or give it to their brother or sister
Walekumassalam warehmatullahi wabarakatuhu. Please spend good time with them and don’t give them your complete life. When they have a lot of your time, they don’t miss you and take your for granted. On the side, work on yourself and spend time making yourself better. Your children respect you for the efforts you put in yourself.
As'salamu Alaykum is there a dua for kids to stop crying all the time. Or for kids that yelled alot .Because I don't know if my son is mental illness. I even took him to doctor he couldn't tell me why he acts like that does anyone know dua or surah for me to read to him .
@@asraasad5820 wks In Fortress of Muslim there are 2 duas one is for general protection from all calamities starts with words Bismillahilladhi...the other is for the protection of children starts with Ooidhu kumma bikalimatillahi... you can download fortress of muslim on your phone, theres an app called Muslim Pro i found this useful. May Allah SWT grant shifaa and protection to yours and everyones children Ameen
You go search by your own ,why are you creat negative environment...if you keep telling person you are bad you are bad they will angry one day and show how bad will be ...tell people you are good continuing you are telling that you are good even they are bad they still trying to improve and becoming a good person so you rss agenda people spread love 💕 and positivity....you are doing something that jihadi doing in Islam...
My husband is Muslim and I am a Christian. We will raise our daughter as a Muslim, which we both agreed to. However, I want her to chose whether or not she wants to wear the hijab while my husband says she must wear it. What should I do?
Please I am a Married and career woman but I have a little issue with my husband because of the limited time we both have for the marriage since we are both career minded people. I didn't want to have more than 3 children so I would be able to raise them. I am not into the idea of having nannies because the world now needs you to personally take care of the children thus if you want them to grow well in Islam. My husband and I agreed on it initially but now we are married when we speak about it he says he now wants 5 children The thing is he is also as busy as me. I am so afraid Please what advice can you give me for my marriage and child bearing situation?
I have a daughter 8 year old I am pregnant again please pray for a boy may Allah bless me my daughter needs someone to support her after me leaving this world 😭
That's so true but I have some other issues i am sick and day by day i am becoming weaken ...... After my death i want someone to protect my daughter .... I don't have any blood relations so may my husband try for next merrage ..... May allah show mercy on my child.......
Asking dua it's a right of muslims i have right to ask Allah and I am asking to people just say ameen ..... Is it too hard to understand...... Thanks for your opinion but this is just a wish of mine..... Thank you you can't even say ameen or make dua for someone
im still very young but I wish I become an amazing mother in the future inshallah and be a role model to kids inshallah
Ameen!
Me too inshaAllah ❤️
So true
Ameen
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Quick summary from mufti menk's talk :
1. Attention: Give them full attention when they speak to u
2. Acceptance : understand ur child. Show ur interest to them
3. Approval : praise & value them verbally
4. Appreciation : acknowledge and say thanks to them
5. Affection : love!
6. Authority : we need to set rules and guidelines! (But parents need to lead by example)
Do u have any reference of hadith for the first 2 points? I am really facing this problem.
Masha Allah.... thank you for the summary
My Mother raised me with Discipline. The best Mother, the great loss. Ya Rab, please take care of my Mother to be in Janna. Ameen.
May Allah forgive her and grants your mother Jannat ul firdous
Aameen
Amiin
Allahumo amen
Aameen
Me and my lovely wife are waiting our first child soon Insha Allah
My sisters & brothers in Islam make du’a for us thank you 🙏
May Allah bless you with offspring that would be the coolness of your eyes. May Allah bless you all
I'm so thankful to Almighty Allah for blessing me with such amazing parents... Alhamdulillah i feel like I've the best parents in the universe...
"My Lord be merciful to them, as they have raised me when i was young "
Please pray for my parents good health! May Allah reward you!
Masha Allah Allah brought this video to me at the right moment of my life
My Mother and me always confides in each other very closely, we love each other very truly like Mother as well as Sisters. May MOM rest in peace in Janna. Ameen.
Ameen
May Allah give wisdom of glorious Qur'an and ability to do work accordingly.Help us to be good parents 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
Thanks for the message🙏 I want to be a best mother for my children. May Allah continue to guide us...
Very good advice. Allah give ability we grow our children right way And Mufti Menk you are amazing allah show mercy on you and your family and your children Allah bless you
Kids ko kaise Manners kaise sekhein.
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Mansha Allaah Jassakallaah khayr sheikh ❤️
I remember noticing that one of my parents were not listening and to prove it to myself I started talking total nonsense to them ---it took forever for them to notice..not a good thing
May Allah SWT protect our children
aameen sumaameen
I see most of the time some parents dont treat fairness among their children. They burden the eldest while letting the youngest go astray from the path of Allah. What if the eldest dies and the youngests dont know the basic responsibilities? I think The prophet imposed fair distribution of responsibilities to his children. Which is most of the time in our generation of ummah is not being followed.
The most difficult thing is parent child relationship. All parents r different all children r different
Wonderful speech
Jazakallah khair
This is such a good speech about how to raise you children
Masha Allah. Fantastic speaker who gives great advice.
This is a great reminder for parents aswell as future parents
SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS I need help I’m a kid and I’m questioning Islam
SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS please can you help me
@@et_xzeloet9384 Alah made us so stop and be like prophet Muhammad
@@et_xzeloet9384 do you play fortnite and when the Kazan goe0s than stop and read sallah
Alhamdulillah may Allah help Parents to be good examples to theyre children ameen this is good truths Alhamdulillah
This was beautiful ❤. Much appreciated
Mufti u are amazing.
My favourite speaker! Seeing him at the light upon light event on 30th Dec 2018 in Birmingham :)
Salam.wala.come bro
Masha Allah ❤️
If parents can't praise children at least they should appreciate them
Mansha Allah .jazakalh
Love u hooyo and aabo❤️
Subhan Allah ❤❤❤
May Allah bless everyone in the 3
May Allah bless everyone in the world
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Alaikum as-salam
Point: we have homes not rules 👏👏👏
Masallah...Very nice advice...Zazakallah
jazakallah*
Mashallah good advice mufti
JazakAllah khairan
Needed this mashaAllah
Thanks for the advice..bless
Wow thank you mufti menk 🙂😊😃
“When was the last time you’ve had a discussion with the child? The fathers right”
When do the moth3rs even care to discuss/have conversation with without emotives in plac3 -- like they don’t even car3 for you after they’ve raised you without any regard of consequence in choices.
My sister can get married easily- and mashallah she has
But for us m3n we don’t have it so easy in these cases…. We are mor3 susceptible of having problems as we ag3 when we are raised by Fak3 car3
MashAllah MashAllah
Mashallah
Masah Allah
Mufti menk is a amazing
Thankyo very much
Assalamu alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarkatahu
v should talk about the problems to educate them
Sunnah:
✨ cut your moustaches short so the hair is not touching the lips
✨ let your beard grow
Allaah says in the Quran: “say (Muhammad pbuh) if you truly love Allaah then follow me and Allaah will love you and forgive you your sins. Allaah is the most forgiving, very merciful” - 3:31
Share it so you can get the reward of everyone who follows
For everyone who liked, the previous sunnah was not authentic
7 rules of parenting
Masha Allah nice jazakallahukhair
Any hadith about this topic????
Aslamaliakm
Subhanallah good scholar
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Assalamu wa alaikum all something is really bothering me in this video background image on the right...it symbolises pagan worship image...please remove it from the masjid wall! May Allah show us the right path in sha Allah !
100.% brother
Can anyone translate it in Arabic Please?
Where can I find the rest of the lecture
Please upload full lecutre
Please revalue if you actually want kids and all the endless responsibilities that come with having children.
My siblings born and raised in the western world educated about birth control, yet popping out kids
And have the audacity to force my sick mother to look after her” grankids”
Causing hate and problems within the family.
So they can carry in living a bachelors single life.
❤
Mufti sahib my sister's husband is forcing my sister to give her one child for adoption to his childless brother against her wishes, is that fair in Islam. In order to fulfill his purpose & safeguard his property he threatened my sister of marrying another girl if she is not willing to fulfill his demand & at the same time he has left her at her parental house soon after the birth of a girl chid almost one yr old now. My sister already has two more sons, one is 9yrs & the other 6yrs old.
What about rights of a unmarried woman who lost their father? Will she is not eligible to get anything from her father properties? Only son is eligible to get properties? Where that daughter will go ? Is there place where she can spent her remaining life? Your answer will be rid me get out from my current situation
Well in Islam the property is divided between the daughters and the son . 2parts of the property belongs to the son and 1part to the daughter. For example your parents have 1son and 1daughter so the property will be divided into 3parts of which 2 parts will be given to your brother and 1part to yourself and it is irrespective of the fact that you are married or not. And if any of the child doesn't want the property they surely can donate that or give it to their brother or sister
While I love the advice, he doesn't cite sources... sounds like it's his own life advice
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Assalamu alaikum, if a 16 years old children is not good listening parents, what should will do?
There is a reason why ur child might not be listening to you. So u must stay a star influence to them so they may see u and listen to you.
Walekumassalam warehmatullahi wabarakatuhu. Please spend good time with them and don’t give them your complete life. When they have a lot of your time, they don’t miss you and take your for granted.
On the side, work on yourself and spend time making yourself better. Your children respect you for the efforts you put in yourself.
As'salamu Alaykum is there a dua for kids to stop crying all the time. Or for kids that yelled alot .Because I don't know if my son is mental illness. I even took him to doctor he couldn't tell me why he acts like that does anyone know dua or surah for me to read to him .
Patience keep doing your duty telling him what’s good and bad
@@asraasad5820 wks
In Fortress of Muslim there are 2 duas one is for general protection from all calamities starts with words Bismillahilladhi...the other is for the protection of children starts with Ooidhu kumma bikalimatillahi... you can download fortress of muslim on your phone, theres an app called Muslim Pro i found this useful. May Allah SWT grant shifaa and protection to yours and everyones children Ameen
That's true
Jehad in english
You go search by your own ,why are you creat negative environment...if you keep telling person you are bad you are bad they will angry one day and show how bad will be ...tell people you are good continuing you are telling that you are good even they are bad they still trying to improve and becoming a good person so you rss agenda people spread love 💕 and positivity....you are doing something that jihadi doing in Islam...
My husband is Muslim and I am a Christian. We will raise our daughter as a Muslim, which we both agreed to. However, I want her to chose whether or not she wants to wear the hijab while my husband says she must wear it. What should I do?
If you’re raising her as a Muslim, hijab is a must (Fardh) it’s not optional, it’s all about eduction and welcoming the idea. :)
Mashallah you are inestimable
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Please I am a Married and career woman but I have a little issue with my husband because of the limited time we both have for the marriage since we are both career minded people.
I didn't want to have more than 3 children so I would be able to raise them. I am not into the idea of having nannies because the world now needs you to personally take care of the children thus if you want them to grow well in Islam.
My husband and I agreed on it initially but now we are married when we speak about it he says he now wants 5 children
The thing is he is also as busy as me.
I am so afraid
Please what advice can you give me for my marriage and child bearing situation?
Salam alaikum ,
Maybe if you are pregnant with your first one then he sees how hard it is to Raise a child.
So the
Learn and people over here teaching there children how ruin someone life
Eyesbrows hairs .
I have a daughter 8 year old I am pregnant again please pray for a boy may Allah bless me my daughter needs someone to support her after me leaving this world 😭
Pray for healthy kid. Boy and girl both are blessing from Allah. :)
That's so true but I have some other issues i am sick and day by day i am becoming weaken ...... After my death i want someone to protect my daughter .... I don't have any blood relations so may my husband try for next merrage ..... May allah show mercy on my child.......
@@hayatshaikh3723 Ask Allaah to give you the best, whatever that is. And He will protect your daughter, the way He always has.
Asking dua it's a right of muslims i have right to ask Allah and I am asking to people just say ameen ..... Is it too hard to understand...... Thanks for your opinion but this is just a wish of mine..... Thank you you can't even say ameen or make dua for someone
@@hayatshaikh3723 Aameen. May Allaah answer your duaa.
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Any hadith about this topic????