First Act of Yousuf (AS) | 5 Steps On Creating a Loving Family | Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубликовано: 29 фев 2024
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Sometimes i just wonder how ustad is able to manage his family, institute and all these tours together. He's such a Legend❤❤
5 love languages by Gary Chapman
1. Words of affirmation ( words )
2. Acts of service ( service )
3. Giving gifts ( gifts )
4. Physical touch ( affection )
5. Quality time ( space )
All of these and more are in the Quran and prophetic life ( sunnah )
Even here the 5th one is kind of paraphrased with what they got from "Space"...
P.S. you can see what I mean in the comments section...
Bro just made me rethink my relationships with EVERYBODY lol😂
Allah bless
Syeikh Nouman Ali Khan is such a great gift from Allah SWT for the present generation. May Allah SWT protects him all the way. Aameen
I have learned from my 21 years old son he ends his calls mom love you and he thought me this magic word. May Allah bless him and guide him to right path
I can't even imagine the wisdom behind the 1 prahse in surah Yusuf . Thank you so much for such beautiful lesson that you have taught. May Allah be pleased with you and your family.
Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!
Magnificent lecture,💚
jazakAllah 💚
😊
"We hold love hostage"
This made me cry.
It shouldn't be that way.
I paused and read to the recitation of the Surah and came back here and I could have never imagined there was so much wisdom behind an Ayat and Ustaad has that skill, Mashallah
subhanALLAH
allahumma barak
❤MashAllah beautiful lecture..easy to understand yet very deep in meaning. May Allah bless Ustaad with more knowledge inshAllah
Yep I do that to when I listen to ustadz, I can read Quran but dont really know about the language. It took hours to complete cause sometimes, the video did not provide the information about which surah which ayah that ustadz recite and I had to pause the video as well and google it to find out and match that with what ustadz read, but I think, that is one of the best way while learning Quran, and we are blessed with this technology. May Allah always guide us, ammeenn
Allahuma Baarik Amiin ✨🤲🏾
'A family has to be one in which love is expressed'
Bro has me rethinking my entire life-relationships and gave 'Space' a different meaning!
You can't be having profiles with uncovered women even if it's just their hair. What if you gain sin when men look at it? Avoid sins before the Day of judgment comes and you're unprepared.
Made me rethink my relationship with my children ...need to show this to my hubby as I think men especially in this changing parenting methods need the education as they only repeat what they have had the relationship with their own parents. Space is good but too much space is now the problem kids spend too much time in their rooms
This lecture worked just like a therapy to me, Alhamdulillah! May Allah bless Ustadh with a long healthy life.
Nishallh
Amiin 🤲🏾
Me too Alhamdulillah
I never laugh so much in my life listening to a lecture.nauman Ali khan is the best❤
Only Allah knows how hard ustad is studying to come up with such an amazing level of skills
Tabarakallah May Allah increase you ustad
What to do with the 11 year old hates going to the school, argues fights n never happy with anything and anyone
@@M.A.BatoolThey re just a normal 11 year old.
Stay calm around them, dont scold them harshly, dont threaten them. Be the safe base they need.
@@M.A.Batool Maybe think of alternatives too. It may be that Allah has something else planned. The education system is quite long and can hinder the growth of independence. Maybe he can start business or go into a more specialized field of education early. Or maybe he needs help with homework, etc. to gain confidence in school. The point is don't try to force and threaten, but ask Allah (SWT) and look for solutions.
@@M.A.Batool Either you or someone else the child relates and bonds well with should find a quiet moment to sit down and openly speak to your child with full attention, no distractions, and coax your child to speak about school and what’s going on there. Your child is probably having a hard time with something, either making friends, bullies, difficulty in understanding their school work or even being afraid of a teacher. I had a problem once where my daughter who used to love school at grade 2 suddenly had a tummy ache, headache or some illness every other day at the start of grade 3 just so she would stay out of school which I comprehended as there being an underlying issue. I got her to start talking just conversationally first about friends, then anyone bullying her, then schoolwork and eventually got to the teacher and it turned out the teacher was a lot stricter than her previous teachers and my child was very afraid of her, not that the teacher had done anything to her. My daughter was just really afraid of doing something wrong to trigger the teacher’s anger. So I went to the school and spoke to the teacher but never came out and told the teacher directly that she was the cause of my child’s fear. I just explained the situation of the fake illnesses and asked the teacher to please keep an eye on my child as something was scaring her at school, like perhaps a bully, could even be something with her schoolwork. The teacher paid a bit more attention to my child and thereafter, I never had a complaint of pains again and school trips was definitely pleasanter. So, I suggest really taking the time to bond and find out what’s really going on.
Next Level of the 5 Languages of Love 🫶🏽👍🏼
Me randomly saying I love you for no reason but only feel that I love my sons…and I hear from them reciprocating ❤
Ustad thank you very much. Its an amazing lesson. May Allah SWT bless you ❤❤
I was there for this lecture! Seeing Ustad in person was such a surreal moment for me🥹 I absolutely loved this lecture and am so glad so many people were present to hear it
I hope u are not from Ohio..... Kidding. Allah bless you
MASHALLAH I'm so happy for you mu ukhti
The day I'd meet him. I won't know what to do. He's incredible! Hopefully he comes to Ghana or one day, I'll meet him in US in Shaa Allah
Faizaanjum, you shouldn't have that profile picture because it is usually haram to make animate beings(not counting camera photos or videos) so you shouldn't normalize drawings and creations like that.
Surat Yusuf is my favorite! The amount of lessons we can from it is deeply touching, from every part. I highly recommend reciting, reading in shaa Allah🙏🏽
No one delivers stories better ❤😊
Ustad Nouman ....I like his sence of humor
Amazing how comfortably and logically Noman Ali Khan goes into the depth of the Quran. I love listening to his soft soothing yet compelling explanations. May Allah bless him. Ameen
This is funny yet informative ,,, long live brother nauman Ali khan
I’ve never laughed this hard during a lecture he literally got all of us men and women
Why??? Lol
😂 same
Five steps of creating a loving family
1 Words
2 service
3 gifts
4 affection (hand on the shoulder hug I miss you)
5 space ( the most important one )
Thanks for this summary
Space= mindfulness or active listening
The role space plays between two people is a key element in relationships and validates the pain of many when they feel as if something is wrong but can't explain it completely due to what they have been told is love from people/society. JazakAllah for this beautiful lesson as it sheds light on the importance of strengthening our relationships and the steps that can be taken to accomplish this. My heart is now at ease ❤
One of the most important and educational videos I ever watched ❤❤❤
SubhanAllah!!! SubhanAllah!!! Such an amazing lecture, full of wit and wisdom!!! I'm happy and so grateful that I came to know NAK and the works of Bayyinah. I have heard nobody making more relevance of the Quran to our lives than NAK. Alhamdulillah!!! Who says learning the Quran is boring!!!
Ustadh was being all funny but I'm just crying because the space part really hurts.
Ustad nouman called out most of desi/southeast asian culture 😊
Most of the time my son comes to me with big hugs, and he always says mom I love you. And I do same thing to him because he doesn’t get that from his father. When his father calls I love you son when you are coming over, I told my son tell your father when I get my driver license. My son is only 10 years old.
I love my children I always say I love you and when they are young baby always nice and good mother but sometimes naw after listening you I trying to beat thanks.
I have learnt so much from you. JazakAllah Alkheir
The part about kindergarten girls was hilarious and 100% accurate 🤣😂😅😂🤣😂😅😂🤣
Great talk, thank you! may Allah bless you and strengthen our families 🤲 Ameen
I told my dad " I love you " when I was really young , I saw it in a movie but I felt REALLY embarrassed after that and even now thinking about it makes me a bit embarrassed.
But with my mum , I tell her I love her whenever I see her
I named my son Yusuf ❤ he is born this February. The story of Yusuf A.S. is my most favourite. The start, the ending, the twists in the story... I cannot express how much it touches my heart. The role and dialogues of Yaqoob A.S. The personality of Yusuf A.S.
May Allah help my son become a wise Muslim and has iman, haya, financial wisdom, patience, love for family and abundance of rizq as Yusuf A.S. ameen
😅😅😅 i've been listening to many of ustadz Nouman video..this probably one if the most funny yet still full of wisdom
That was sooo relatable
Surah Yusuf is my favorite surah among others .
It resonates with so many.
Alhamdulillah.
I don’t watch or listen to ustad’s videos. I live them. U r all in one ❤
It was a reality check and hilarious at the same time.😂
Masha Allah...Jazakallah khair...amazing!!
I'm happy that this topic is being discussed, and the story of Yousuf A.S. is the best loving relationship story in the universe. It's mentioned in the Quran, right? "Ahsanal qasas". This lecture made me rethink the people in my circle I'm living with. Some people out there, even the parents, are still alive, but both never show love expression to their children but expect the children to show love to them. I never had one. All my life, no one in the family taught me this, and taught me how to take care of my mom when I grew up.
In the end, I discovered this myself of how to take care of my mom in a way that Allah loves because she is getting older now and has become a single mother and living together with her special daughter(Down syndrome). Both my beloved mom and my special sister are now under my care, and I am under Allah's care to take care of these two special human being in the world, even though no one taught me to do this. In short, I believe that the reason why I never had a chance to experience this in my life is that Allah wants me to only rely on Him(Allah). In my case, it takes a long time to train myself and remind myself to rely only on Allah. Since I was a child, and up until now, I still train myself to do this. Even though those people in my circle are the most beloved and special ones, I am responsible for taking care of them in a way Allah loves me to do. Never stop putting Allah in everything I do, insyaAllah. Maybe there are stories in the Qur'an that I have not discovered yet related to my situation.😄
The one and only ustadh❤
Love the Humour 😂
SubhaanAllah ❤️
I needed this! Subhan Allah. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless and preserve Nouman Ali Khan Aameen
Masha Allah such a beautiful and true talk I always enjoy listening to ustaad Nouman
Mind blowing session I must say.... ❤❤❤ Brother Nauman you taught so many powerful lessons in this lecture connecting them with daily life incidents in a halirious way that I laughed out load, learnt and got Allah msgs given us in surah yousaf of beloved son.... What a detailed explanation of these two words❤❤❤😊May Allah bless you a healthy and protected life ameen.... Thanks for making us happy and learn big lessons at the same time😊
5 Situations: 18:39 - 43:09
32:09 - 39:41
42:05 - 44:31
44:32 - 45:56
46:35 - 47:21
49:02 - 50:40 (Start 50:45)
51:26 - 51:53
52:48 - 53:24
I really appreciate him for this beautiful wisdom
Subhana'Allah.. I'm laughing because crying would be too obvious. Ya Allah 💞 subhana wa ta ala allow us to show mercy to our family, expand our breast with love..
Ameen..
This is sooo good. Need to be taught world wide!!!!
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Assalamu alaikum usdhad
May Allah bless you and your family
This world and here after
This video is heart touching and exposing the reality
Jazakallah Khair
Ending advice about apologize is very true and helpful while we are not taught like this
May Allah grant us understanding of Quran . Ameen
Very deep analysis. Jazak Allah
Award winning Performation brother Norman.U sooooo funny Love u for the sake of Allah
😂
Thank you for your hard work, this is so profound ❤
I love this speech. It's wake up call for all moms.
thank you so much for sharing. We pray for you from germany. May allah bless you and bless all our youth
Tqvm
So wise
My son he dose the same hugs abd kisses all the time he tell me he loves me and i do the same to him
Barak Allah fee🤲🏼❤️
Love the way he talks ❤
JazakAllahkhair May Allah reward you
Inna Lillaahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajiun
Jazak Allaahu Khayran
Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!
Aameen Allah'Humma Aameen.
Thank you for this talk! I was listening to it and my kids messing around me! It felt different! Jazak allah Khayrane!
Words of love/kind words, Affection, Service, gifts, Space
I so needed to hear this , so beautiful, JazakaAllahu khairan
What a heart touching speech.. May Allah bless, Nouman Ali khan❤❤❤
1) Words
2) Service
3) GIfts
4) Affection
5) Space 29:00
SPACE- is so important. Thanks a lot for sharing this.
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Am glad i understand little bit of urdu, without him adding urdu words, l his lecture is missing some kind of flavor
May Allah give you a house in janna next to mine. Ameen ya rabb
Thank you sooo much for such a speech , but I still don’t know how to behave with my elder son , to whom I didn’t give right space at the right time . Now he’s twenty one he loves me understand all the fact but still he have problem with me . He still remind me my behavior with him in his childhood and teenage . I confess I chose wrong way , but he realized what ever I did it was for his best. But we still have troubles and he is remembering those impressions. What to do 😢
SUBHANALLAH THIS IS SO DEEP 😮
MASHA ALLAH SUCH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE FROM THE Quran. May Allah bless us with more understanding of the QURAN.😂The humor of sheikh. May Allah bless him.
USTAD IS USTAAADDDD
Funny , fun listening, and v v effective
Assalamualaikum ustad nouman, that's so true.... ameen
Thanks ❤
May Allah keep you sincere and bless you more and more
The best
Thank you for provoking my thoughts and emotionally
This is so nice to listen to
Jazakallah khair
This is exactly what I needed. jazakallah khair .May Allah accept your efforts
It’s sad how many times I laughed during this lecture. Every example is so true!!!
Great lecture. Thank you
Masha Allah very good advice in the end
May Allah guide us to be patient with His creation.
Great job
ما شا الله
Masha Allah tabaraqallah, jazakalah khairan Ustaadh
This is amazing
Subhannah Allah! So much insight to apply to our real relationships from Quran!
May Allah continue to guide you for us.
May Allah continue to bless you and your family with the best in this world and the Hereafter! Ameen!
Just mind blowing
You have a very good observation bro.. it's worth it thankyou