How to Speak Like A Gentleman | 9 Talking Tips to Earn Respect
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In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and etiquette expert , Aaron Marino of www.iamalpham.com, talks about how to speak like a gentleman. Aaron Marino gives you 9 talking tips to earn respect and communicate like a gentleman.
Aaron Marino of alpha m. covers speaking etiquette 101 for being a gentleman. You may look and act like a gentlemen, but if something comes out of your mouth that is unbefitting of a gentleman, you have totally screwed the pooch. Here are tips for how to speak like gentlemen:
1. Say 'please' whenever asking for anything
2. Say 'thank you' whenever you receive anything
3. Do not use profanity on a regular basis
4. Never talk down to anybody
5. Does not gossip about others
6. Speak in a positive manner
7. Doesn't say anything hateful about anyone! Whether sexist, racist, homophobic, bigoted, it's disgusting!
8. Wait to speak and do not interrupt
9. Know when to shut up 
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"You don't need to curse to be funny, or to get your point across."
That is 100% true.
Yes i do lmao 🤣 😂
Precisely. Anyone, Even women can behave badly. Then they just look like rabble
This should be a high school class for young men
Yes! Lessons for people in general.
I agree
Agreed
Yes I agree
Completely agree so many problems would just go away.
"Manners maketh Man"
Wish more men would remember this. Thanks Alpha
Victor Cavazos i agree, and nice Kingsman reference, but I do not believe he portrayed the entire idea perfectly. His comments on please and thank you were correct and useful, but the rest was a bit sloppy. Especially when he says that profanity is the beat way to sound dumb, but stumbles over his own words for 5 seconds, which is the easiest way to sound dumb. He made points that did not need to be made and also showed a lack of understanding of the topic by not including many key rules.
And to be clear, I do agree with what he said, but there are other points he should have made, so points he did not need to make like the thank you point, which could have gone with please. He also should have been more careful to not break his own rules in my opinion
Oh, and I am sorry but one more thing to add on him breaking his own rules. He makes subtle sexist remarks all the time. In the past he has said both, “ the way I see it, women drink wine, guys drink beer, and gentlemen drink whiskey” and also “A gentleman must drink one of 3 masculine drinks” to quote a few. These are both very subjective and borderline sexist.
0:20
He uses the word “Unbefitting”. Seriously, we need to bring back those classy, elegant words. I mean, their usage takes the speaker to a whole new level.
Fuck you are right.
Sir you are right.
MasterC117 or that is true, you are correct
SIMPS!!!
If anyone see's this message, I hope you are having a great day
have a great day , unfortunately it's a bit late but at least i'm the first heheh , Thank you , gentleman
Not a problem always nice to see someone commenting back so thank you
you're always welcome brother , take care
ty!
lol gentlemaning much
I am a British offer cadet who has just finished training. We learn how to be gentlemen in all aspects from negotiations on the battlefield, or parley. To hosting a banquet and in general life. I think all men should learn the quality's of being a gentleman as there would be far less violence, racism and all the other evils in the world.
John steed, the avengers the ultimate gentleman
Apparently, spelling and grammar were not so important in your training.
@ff ff, you all are some dapper dressers. I've got to give it to you British!
Which Regiment..? Regt. No. Rank????? If you are an Officer...
Someone's looking for likes.
You were robbed and then stabbed in the gut.
You: Thank you!
I appreciate it gentleman 😂
A true gentleman has respect for himself, and as such does not let other people take advantage of him
You really got me LOL
@@OnyxBloodStone i want to say woosh.. but i wont !
Because there are many people as u have said exploits gentlemen s patience
I cannot withstand that
But he should be knowing how to behave in such situations
Thank you! You made my night !! ( Why should days have all the fun ? Huh? )😄😄
Thank you for this amazing advice ! Implemented it for about 6 months and people around me start to respect me more and start to doing what i did. Keep up the amazing work Sir !
Good, I am so glad it worked out. I will try it too.
As a person who grew up in the South I wish these tips were more commonly used. You're never too old to say "sir" or "ma'am".
How a person treats a stranger tells you who they truly are.
A man has many faces and a gentleman has many dates.
+Jaqen H'ghar Oufffff well said mate!
awesome
+Jaqen H'ghar may I implement that in my mental mantras ?
Jaqen H'ghar heha nice one
I was also a foo'in legend from Gin Alley.
"don't use profanities"
"crap!"
"shut up!"
Thats not profanity
@@masterc1172 yeah it is
ty!
@@jewbearidk no it fucking not .
😂😂😂😂
hello Alpha,
I have been in love with your page since years. you have helped me get over my depression, lost all my extra weight, and just changed my life. I love and appreciate you so much. thank you for being the original you. thank you for regular uploads. thank you for your candor and your humor. keep up the great work :D
Is it respectful if I say wassup my nigga to my professor in college?
i'm going to go out on a limb and say no...
Thank you for the video sir. Greatly appreciated. Now I will stop greeting my professor with a "wassup nigga" and instead greet him with a "good morning professor"
Rada ignorant
alpha m. So no black humor even if it is just a joke, that doesn't reflect what I really think about certain things and it is said to closest friends? ;(
I'm asking about black humor in general, not only jokes about black ppl, and certainly not about calling my friends "nigga", it actually wouldn't work in my country - different language ;)
Take a shot every time he says "gentlemen".
Have an ambulance on stand by.
He never says 'Gentleman". He says "gennelmen". He needs to remember there is a 't' in the middle of the word.
David ok gentleman
@@anmolak1783 Not 'arf!
If I do so, then how many shots will I end up drinking?
"Thank You" for guiding us to be a perfecto
Magnificent video!
You truly show you care and want to influence people for the better.
Watching your videos fills the empty spot for the big brother I never had.
Thank you.
Thank you for the plethora of undeniably, beneficial advice. You simply stand out in a tarnished world as a true paragon. Keep up the great work.
thanks brother!
alpha m. I love that ending
Kudos for using the word 'paragon'.
"Tarnished world"? Really?
+Lireoec At a glance I misread paragon as pigeon.
Also, a gentleman speaks quietly. He does not shout irritatingly.
+ZvekiSU There is a fine line between gentlemanly ways and being just .... well.... gay.
+Ivan Gartenhaus Where exactly does his comment mention attraction to other males? Or was that totally random?
Rocket Otaku No it was a general comment, not just about this particular video.
I do believe the same must go for the ladies.
No, he does not speak quietly, he articulates himself so that what he is saying may be heard.
Watching this video in particular has made the soul in me realize I have been ungrateful towards a certain someone and thanks to you Alpha I can change that not only for them but for myself.
Thank you~
So can i
@@TravisAndrews-lb1kk (i may not the OP) certainly yes stranger the very thought of wanting to change speaks volume of the hope enstore for you
Smooth delivery Aaron! Very good advice from a retired Army Officer responsible for morale and discipline of Soldiers.
Every thing that you said in this video my dad taught me as a little kid
You have a fine father.
Unfortunately, the dads aren't around these days, because the bitches have run them off.
@@zarcero21 Excuse me sir. but i think its supposed to be unsavory induviduals of the opposite gender.
I wish I had a dad like that.
My dad too
AGHH THAT TIE IS NOT SYMETRICAL .. I mean .. That Tie of your is not correctly positioned on that beatiful suit of yours.
Yours*
Beautiful *
Yours'*
lol
Beautiful" sorry I couldn't help myself.
When the referee says, "Gentleman, I want a good, clean fight. Listen to my commands at all times. Touch gloves and go back to your corner." I learned everything I need to know about being a gentlement which is use jabs frequently and don't forget to give the other guy a big one on the nose.
😃just stop!
Cuz that's how gentlemen settle disputes.
You sir I applaud from one fighter to another!
"you just received a F on your 100 point essay"
me: Thank You!
😭
Gentleman!
rule number 1:
-saying please is not a necessity. showed weakness and gives them a chance to pull the upper hand (im a corporate account executive so i know a few things about persuasion )
-saying thank you is a must!
never say please, you could say, "i would appreciate it if you could"
eden m Ending on please definitely sounds weak. "Could you get me that pen please?" as opposed to "Could you please hand me that pen?".
This is why I consider most account executive assholes. They think money is life and have very little empathy for others. I know this, because I used to work as one. Thank god I quit that job, which I consider to be one of the most useless, shitty jobs on earth.
crackedout mayor i really agree with you! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!
Richard Keijzer here is the thing! I recently moved to US an i've been observing how people behave. If u actually say "please", it creates an opposite reaction and the other person would actually never help you! I promise i'm not bs*ing. It's from my personal experience.
Sir Bastion why would you ever want to move to the US? This is the fakest 'country' in the world haha
Great advice. I'd say the same is true for a lady.
Gentlemen need ladies, and ladies need gentlemen.
Absolutely. Be the example to make a change.
If she's hot I couldnt care less. But if she's really dumb I'd be bored.
Good for you 👏
@@TheFirewolfx but not the fate ladies 😂😂😂😂......
Something I've noticed about your videos asides from your amazing sense of humor is that you know excactly the right time to end a video and make it look so funny
Sir you spoke truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. These words of wisdom us ladies can apply to our lives as well. Thank you.
I apologise for saying this in advance, but it blows my mind how so many American's don't say Thank You. I mean, I was in the states for my Summer Holidays, and I honestly felt a bit insulted when it came to people completely ignoring me doing things to help them out, such as holding a door open etc. I'm a 16 year old brit, and I was brought up that way, so I guess I just expect it to happen. But in the UK, people are so much more polite.
I am sorry if I offended anyone with this. Just my observation.
Happens to me too man, I hold the door and they either look like Im trying to rape them, or dont say anything like I had nothing better to do than hold it.
Here in America we have this idiotic cultural dilemma where one having basic manners is considered "nice," and if someone is nice, they are seen as "weak." A lot of people here would rather be rude morons than "nice and weak."
It's not everyone of course, but it's too prevalent to not be noticed.
ok re-quantify
by saying 'Humans in America' then? idiot
***** He said "so many Americans" not all. He isn't generalizing all of them. I'm American and I completely agree, I live in America and most people don't have manners.
***** Dude, you're a bad keyboard warrior. I don't recall generalizing anyone in the slightest. Saying 'So many Americans' is not Stereotyping or Generalizing. So many can be a number from 10-The whole population. Get your facts right.
Aron, it was a great video. Thanks, for guiding me to be a better person ( not only physically but also mentally). Please keep up with your great work that you're doing.
One of the best videos you've ever made, Alpha M. This is great.
The please and thank you are something people should always say, I was raised that way and most gentleman probably are.
Anybody else realise they do all of these things anyway and didnt know it was so Gentlemen like. Boss.
He forgot the power of saying "Excuse me" in getting someones attention, getting past someone or even sneezing.
You, Sir, are a true inspiration. So much positive energy in the videos. Love it! Gonna download the app as well. Kudos!
P.s. You should write a book.
Keep up the great work. :D
How refreshing to hear. As a middle aged Englishman, I would absolutely agree with AlphaM. 'Good manners maketh the man'. They cost you nothing, but place you head and shoulders above the crowd.
we rise by lifting others and you are a good sir
People should top saying crap about this video i mean, it's just a tip on how to become a gentlemen if ever you want to. He is not forcing everybody to become a gentlemen so please understand the point and sense of this video. Hey alpha m today 1/11/15 is the first day that i've watched your video i just saw this on recommended videos and i must say this to you, "you are awesome!" i can see your sincerity on giving advices to your subscribers and to the others. Keep it up man!
I was brought up in a very strict conservative household and my parents taught their children manners, how to speak, and how to respect others. though i've moved and hold different views from what my parents brought me up in but my core values that they taught me is still intact. not to talk about myself too much but i've made so many friends in my journey through the way i carry myself. i've been in relationships that ended amicably and even if it ends badly down the line they still call. i believe that "the gentleman" is a dying breed and what's weird is we're in high demand.
I am shaking my head at the negative comments of people onf here. What kinds are you - keyboard warriors and have nothing better to say in your empty heads? Get life people and stay positive. Say "Thank you" to this great man for teaching you manners you manbabies. Happy New Year World. Peace.
Thank you, sir. If ladies and gentlemen were more like you, the world would be a better place.
I believe that using profanity in little certain situation emphasizes your point in a special manner.
Just in certain situations.
@@noelt8895 I was told they are words of expression and smart people use them because when smart people get angry at stupid people for saying stupid things then stupid people understand.
using profane every once in a while doesn't hurt. but women don't want gentlemen anymore they chase dope heads
I love his energy :')
From Spain I thank you. I find your videos useful, refreshing and funny! From September 2017 I am planning to use your videos as a tool for my English students. A lot of teenagers just don't have manners!
Love this video. Every man on the planet should watch it. Even guys that have good manners, such as myself. Very good refresher.
remember folks: profuse profanity paints people in poor perspectives.
got it
But I love cussing :(
TheBCSledder
ah, but i said PROFUSE profanity.
Ew. Do you know that people who cuss and swear have larger vocabularies and are more intelligent? There have been many tests to prove this.
Though, cussing and swearing in general is uncouth.
Tronald Drump South Park creator's lol.
Makes me feel like I was never a gentleman before...
This video is certainly going to change my life !
you are devaluating your current life
@@prad44973 you are stopping it
This is basicaly the ten comandments but explained in a non religious way. Marvelous! Keep up the amazing work.
Thank you for teaching me how to be a gentleman and better human being
"A gentleman he also know when to shut up"
lol
Awesome! Keep it up Alpha... love your videos!
Alpha, I like this video and your work in general. You help make society at least a bit better.
Excellent speech Alpha!! as a woman I tell you guys.. a man who is a gentleman is even sexier 😉 and opens doors of success too.
Earned my respect with this one Alpha, well done :)
I'll add that strong apology skills are highly desirable. Everyone has their shortcomings; being able to apologize for them quickly and without digging yourself in deeper is a must if you want to make up for them and move on with your life. Anecdotally, the first time I met a guy who could apologize well, I thought "holy crap, I'm gonna marry that man," and that's exactly what I did :)
Could you please some show me some videos regarding strong apology skills?
I used to be this guy
Your suit is impeccable.
I love this video so much! I really try to apply these basic principles to my every day life, i'm not saying I am a know it all, and i'm "Mr.Perfect" but these things can and will help you out in life I guaranteed or your money back! Alpha M will even throw in a free boost in your confidence with the 90 day trial of these manners....... Batteries not included.
Aaron We Need More Videos Like this.
Thank you.
+Nadiya Karalash You're welcome! :)
+Rennan Jorge I was saying thank you to alpha m. :P
+Nadiya Karalash No problem
Vixalify no problem with what lol
+Nadiya Karalash thank you too
😂Dawmn he told me...i have all those bad habits. But he's my idle, ill take his advice...Thanks Alpham
Thank you! For teaching me how to not be unfitting when guests are visiting me and my family.
This video is very healthy. I believe this will serves as a life changing experience for any person that view this vid. Bravo Alpham keep it up!!!!!
I feel like cursing applies to both men & women
All these points are gender neutral.
A delightful ending sir.
Thank you for posting this video!
Thank you for the video, I had to check off a few as "guilty" for me, oddly enough; not profanity, but interrupting others! I need to work on that, and saying please more often. Thank you for the tips Alpha! Keep them coming! 😀
I say thank you whenever I buy something from a store or when I go shopping lol
I'm almost 20 years old and realised i need to grow up, hence why i am now subscribed to your channel.
I ticked all points bar 2 that you said. I figured youtube would be an easy way to learn to become a man (which it is) although according to your video, my father just ticked literally every point of being a gentleman...not even kidding. Sooo basically i guess i should act like my father. Thank-you for your videos. They are already helping to make me into a better man.
Shadowlit001
that situation is very true
Nothing but truth right there brother. Good video!
Needed to hear that . Thank you.
Love the end of the video 😂
*”A Gentleman knows when to shut up”*
I like the way you ended the video, it made me laugh. keep it up.
you're channel is just great , thank you bro
Thank you for the video and please make more of them
I am black and proud.
I am white and proud.
DerCartwright lmao...
DuskyNoodles haha nice. i am white and proud too! :))
DuskyNoodles fucking racist idiot nazi
MrPikkabo Wait, what about the other guy..? Oh, I get it...because only white people can be racist right...? The only fucking idiot here, is you.
I am write down these thing and put this as a poster and read it everyday morning. Thank you
There is one class above gentleman. A Southern Gentleman 👍. Thank you is always followed by Darlin' , Dear, hun, sweetie, or sweetheart 😅
Most of these things that you talk about I have been practicing most of my life. Didn't realize it was a gentlemanly thing.
This sounds more like the rules of common sense.
I agree, but obviously not so "common" anymore.
1:41 say thank you
Me: f you
1:44 i did not know that was gonna come out like that
Me: how did he know, LOL
In this moment , right after i saw your video i've really changed some thoughts...
You are really helpful , keep going . You are doing it good!:)
Dude u really made my life. You just switched on the beast mode in me
I love that suit.
"Do you curse a lot?"
"Fuck yeah I do."
DTBWolfie Me too.
DTBWolfie damn I read that out loud..
Fuckkkkkkk......!
fuck if i know
I do as well.
You're personally my favorite,funny,smart,cool,perfect guy 🤣
Great stuff thanks for sharing. This is favorite video you’ve made so far.
This video truly inspires me as a 15 year old male to improve my demeanor towards different cultures, sexualities, races, etc. as well as towards myself, and more importantly; other people. I had no idea how profoundly I would be affected by simply clicking on, and watching this video. Thank you for posting this, I look up to you as a role model in my life.
I don't know why I noticed but your teeth are very sparkly and clean.
This the most hard hitting and enlightening video I have ever seen. This is done very gentlemanly and genuinely. This was very hard to watch. I am going to watch it repeatedly.
So this means I am no gentleman. I will take this video to heart and learn these wonderful words of wisdom to better myself towards becoming a good gentleman.
''Thank you''
Hey alpha m. You forgot SORRY!
Whenever a gentleman makes a mistake he always apologises regardless of the magnitude of the mistake.
Never say sorry! that should be the first rule!
@@mrrobinet5551 How is that gentle though?
I'm 39 seconds in and if he says gentleman one more time I'm going to burn this computer.
Austin Rogers He said the word 9 times...
#RIPCPU
I feel sorry for the poor computer 😢😢
I assume your computer has been reduced to cinders by now.
It's my first that I meet and I subscribe. You are comic, thank you mister !
To be honest man, you are my role model, I have learnt a lot from your videos and so I guess all I am trying to say is thank you, thank you for making these videos and giving me a real male role model
"Prejudice is an emotional commitment to ignorance" - Jane Elliot.
You are absolutely right!!!
You didnt say, "Please say it again"
Dash Costello "Pardon me" is a better way to convey that message.
Arjun Shenoy And a more Ideal way to convey yours would be replacing "A better way" with "More Ideal"
Dash Costello
A rather erudite suggestion, kind sir. I shall change my orientation on tumblr to sapiosexual shortly.
I highly agree with your repose sir. May I please know your tumblr my kind gentleman?
Love it, i always knew this deep in my heart, bu i needed to hear that.
Soooo great you are educating men!!!
Here's the best tip you'll ever receive. Be yourself, life is much easier than trying to be a "gentleman" and appease others. If you're true to yourself and act the way that pleases you life is much, much, MUCH easier.
the worst tip ever
that sucked fucking shit.
Thaulin haha ok, go through life trying to please others you brainless sheeple. Let me know how you make out!
fengkorberfer You're obviously young and haven't experienced life yet. It's cool, you'll learn once you grow up....
Yes, life *is* easier when you aren't worrying about "appeasing others" (i.e. being a decent human being). That doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it make it the course of action that will lead to your own long-term happiness. If you're always doing whatever is easiest rather than expending a little more effort to be a good person, you aren't going to get very far in life.
A gentleman he also knows when to shut up.. END of the video
Hahaha u r a really funny gentleman
I actually liked that video....
Great one, thanks a lot for your great views. I will surely improve my skills by the lessons I learnt from your video.
Thank you Alpha so much!!! I don’t know what I would do without you😂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻