Our Journey with Infertility featuring Carlos and Catarah Coleman | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- On today’s episode we are joined by our brotha and sista Carlos and Catarah Coleman. They share their journey about trying to have children. It’s a battle they are still fighting and they want to support other people and couples who may be going through something similar. Lets get into it!
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May God bless the womb of any woman that is struggling with infertility! 🙏🏽💕💙
I receive your prayer in Jesus name amen ❤
I’m 45 and had never been pregnant. It wasn’t until last year December that I found out I was pregnant but the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks and 6 days in February of this year. I had not found this out until I was 14 weeks. I’m still angry and sad but trusting God because He did something that I never believed could ever happen. I tell anyone it can happen for them. I was diagnosed with PCOS and a tilted uterus. I changed my diet and started working out just because I kept having migraines and heartburn almost everyday. I had no idea that I would end up pregnant at the time but glory be to God. It’s hard dealing with infertility and wanting to have a baby. I pray for patience and healing for all who are trying.
Blessings sister. Praying for your health and healing.
GLORY BELONGS TO YOU LORD GOD CHRIST KING JESUS, AMEN ❤.
BE BLESSED NA SPIRITUAL FAMILY, AMEN ❤👣🏆💎🏠🐑🗝️🛡️🪞🍞🪜🌫️🍽️🗣️🤲🏾👑💯🔥🫂🌹🤲👣
Glory be to god and congratulations on your bundle of joy 🤗
Yur journey.....congratZ Njoy 💯❤😊
God bless you!
My doctor was concerned about my periods at 41. I waited to have babies because I didn't want children outside wedlock. Now there I was....single, with no adverse gynecologist history, going through the infertility journey for about 3 years by myself.
Nothing worked.
The journey threw me into full-blown menopause.
I'm 49 now, and this is my reality.
The grief ebb & flows. Still healing and believing God for wholeness.
I just want to be happy🪷.
Chance be serious about that opening number…lol!
Yea, I sensed Chance was really feeling some type of way by the look on Lo’s face. Lo was laughing until he realized Chance was for real. He(Lo) seemed a bit hurt.
And don't do nothing on the table lol
It took us 6 years to conceive. If it’s the Lord’s will it will happen -praying to grace and favor!
I believe in God's miracles for both of you! My husband and I endured the loss of our first son who was born prematurely and passed away after just nine days. Following our son's death, I experienced four miscarriages, which were incredibly overwhelming. Despite these miscarriages, we continued to trust in God for a miracle, and He graced us with a son and, four years later, with a daughter. Maintain your faith in God for your miracle. You are in my prayers.
My husband and I have walked this same path... 1 failed medicated pregnancy & 2 failed IVF's. Drs told us we had a 1% chance of a natural pregnancy. 14 years of unsuccess. I got to a place of "maybe its not in the cards" I stopped tracking and focused on my health and quality of life. 2 years later, I conceived naturally. Unfortunately I went into preterm labor & my lil one didnt survive.. but 3 months later, I conceived my little Miracle. He's 2 now and a constant reminder that prayers Never Die And God remembers 🩷🩷
What a powerful testimony. Wow. Congratulations 🎉. To GOD be the glory 🙌🏼
When Catarah broke down, I lost it!🥺 My husband & I miscarried a “honeymoon baby” then went on to struggle with infertility for SIX years, but thru fervent prayer & 40lb weight loss, we were able to conceive our son. Thank you for sharing your experience & I am actively praying for you both!🙏🏾❤️
I was driving and it hit me 😢😢
Yea, she took us out.😢
Starting with laughter, being surrounded & comforted by friends & ending with love is truly a blessing....
Praying for everyone out there dealing with infertility. Please don’t lose hope, God hears your prayers!❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Tab, Chance, Carlos, and Catarah for having this very valuable conversation.
Thank y'all for sharing your story. I turned 46 on last Monday and Still believe that GOD will bless me with a baby when the time comes regardless of my age. And I pray the same for you. 💜
Im happy you guys are going the holistic route as well. My aunty tried the medical route for 14 years. And in the 14th year she decided to go the African holistic route (im South African). A year later they had twins. The twins are 11 years old now.
Honey, yall had me crying hard!! This was a sensitive topic for me. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage… My husband and I were soooo excited about that pregnancy. When the doctor came in with the news, i felt like i went into the deepest, darkest pit.. But God!! 5 years later with 3 little ones that’s running the house 😅… thank you all for this and I love y’all! I pray for continual strength, peace, love and happiness for you all. I am so excited to see what the future brings ❤
Perhaps, the Creator have chosen some women to be infertile because he made them with a soul to love any child to adopt or foster.
Chance almost turned to Ike on the whole team. “Sang the song the way I tell you to sing the song nah 😂😂😂
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Keep the faith. It took us 12 years & 3 years waiting to be chosen for an adoption before we had our miracle pregnancy and baby. I am praying for you both. ❤
Ugggh I cried so hard for them both during this. Catarah’s cries snatched my entire soul and sent me straight into prayer for her and los… I just want to hug Sis. I will keep you both lifted in prayer and go to the ancestors on their behalf🙏🏾
Went thru this for 6 years and it was HARD. We got pregnant and lost our son in 2019 in the 2nd trimester. We then had our 2nd son in 2020 and i am now pregnant with our daughter.
I so need this encouragement. It's going on 8 years for my husband and I
I’m going through same thing my husband and I. It get stressful and saddening at same time but I know god will bless us when he is ready.
W'e're here as resource for y'all, prayers and joy on your journey, and give him my best!
@@carloscoleman4630 thank you both. We're praying for you guys as well
See if you have fibroids dont wait cause if you do, they can grow big, but if you check and they are blocking, you can get them removed easily and still conceive @carloscloeman
I'll be keeping you all in my prayers me and my husband are waiting patiently on God bless us because have been just celebrated 14yrs of marriage ba k in February of this year . I hear you Catarah ❤
Tabitha Brown, awesome content you deserve more subscribers
Yall say anything. She have a million subscribers. Sheesh
This episode and the episode where chance was talking to Mr. Brown (tab’s dad) had me bawling like these my kinfolk and I was there. 😭😭😭🥺
I agree with the Coleman’s, miracles still happen, and I can’t wait to see your beautiful, brown bundle of love and joy!!! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your journey! My husband and I know too well the struggle of infertility. We had close to 10 ivf cycles (including failed cycles), conceived our triplets through ivf, only to lose them due to pprom in our second trimester. BUT GOD… He gave us our miracle through our last ivf cycle and our rainbow baby girl was born after trying for 17yrs 🙌🏾🌈. She is now 9yrs old and everything we prayed for and more. Keep the faith…. Many people (including family) told us to stop but we kept the faith. God bless you 🙏🏾❤️
God Is A Able!
Thank you for this episode. I did not know that I could have frozen my eggs in my younger years until I watched “Eggs over Easy.” Due to my age(44), I have been told that it would be a challenge to conceive a child. I stand in agreement with the Coleman family, that miracles still happen!
I'm 42 and still DNT have any kids but I do understand my timing is not GOD'S TIMING ❤💯
Chance and Tab are amazing friends. The comfortability and safe place they made for them to be vulnerableI felt through the screen was amazing.
To the Colemans. God has the last say. You guys will be parents before the 2025. Truly believe that. ❤ to more life and blessings to you guys.❤
I feel your child is waiting for through adoption. I thank you both for sharing your story. I too experienced infertility. I adopted my son 31 years ago. God Bless.
I wouldn't wish infertility on my worst enemy. Wanting it to be but not happening is the worst heartache 💔 I pray for any family waiting for their parenthood dreams to come true. Thank you for sharing your story. Infertility can be an extremely lonely journey ❤
I'll like to join my faith and prayer to yours and include those that are single and struggling with the rejection of infertility without the support of a partner. ❤
I cannot not watch a video on IVF and not cry. I am not a mother, but I cannot imagine the psychological and physical pain both goes through to bring a life into this world. When they least expect it, a baby will be in their life🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing their story
Thank you so much for trusting us with your testimony. I am praying for you!
This issue is not discussed enough in our community. My husband and I struggled with infertility for 14 years before God chose us to be parents. Those 14 years was my wilderness experience, but God was with me through it all and my faith was cemented in him because of bearing the cross of infertility. Every single word stated here I felt, experienced, and many times said. I am praying that God chooses you both to be a vessel to bring forth and raise the souls he has assigned to you.
This has only become an "issue" in any community because people have relied on IVF treatments to wait for marriage and natural procreation. IVF is a multi billion dollars industry sooo...
I’m so glad y’all did this because it needs to be talked about. We struggled with infertility and still have not conceived but we ended up fostering to adopt. Our second placement was twins, which we desired, and we have now adopted and they are the lights of our lives! God has a plan for each of us and if we would have had kids on our own, adopting may have never been an option. I wouldn’t have it any other way! God knows all and see’s all, be encouraged! ❤
When Tab said she saw her in a black n white dress with that hairstyle….it sent chills down my arms because I believe in her gift!!!!
I do too! Tab knows.
Do you know when she said that ?
1:01 @@chayahisrael1072
God spoke to my husband in 2004 that we would have a baby. We didn't get pregnant until 2016! That was 12 years of tears, hurt, confusion, and so much more(on my end). Nothing physically wrong with either of us, BUT GOD! He had a plan. Stay encouraged! I pray for those dealing with infertility bc I know the pain. But I also know that our Father will work ALL things out for our good 🙏🏽💕
I love the “save the weekend , not the date”. I’m using that it if God blesses me with marriage .
But like Tab and Chance said , THANK YOU for being vulnerable and telling your story . I needed to hear 15:00 and 48:00 for my own reasonings and I appreciate this conversation.
Catara and Los are the sweetest couple! Thanks to Tab and Chance for giving a platform for this topic and a huge thanks for "Them Cooling Coleman's" for sharing your journey. This helps more than you know. God bless you all! Something tells me you're going to have your family. A big beautiful family. Your journey is not over! ❤❤❤
Im 38 and currently trying to decide if i want to pursue interventional help to become pregnant. I know time is running out,gotta make a choice soon. My heart and prayers go out to the colemans. They are one of my favorite couples, they are so cool
This was heartbreaking, beautiful and brave. Thank you, Coleman’s for sharing your story and being so vulnerable. You described the myriad of emotions so perfectly. My husband and I have been on a similar journey for the past six years and we are still waiting with expectation on our miracle. I pray that God grant you the desires of your heart. ❤️❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
As a the calling of a healer I pray and speak success implanting viable embryos who make it to full term and grace the world with your arrivals Amen🙏🏾 ❤
Once you receive please grace this video again with your Testimonies 👏🏾
Chance take that intro song serious, don’t he?!?
Yes! Chance definitely felt a certain kind of way
It was hard to watch 😅
She said something that I’ve said before when I was upset with God because something didn’t turn out the way I waved wanted it to: “But I did everything right.” I still don’t have it, 10 years later. But what I do know is that God is a jealous God and He doesn’t want any other God before Him and He wants me to ask Him first what I should do.
This came right on time for me. I was just told I have ovarian failure, adenomyosis, and am in early menopause at the age of 37. I'm going to continue to follow up with my doctors and im staying as hopeful as I can. I dont think infertility is talked about enough, so it was helpful to hear this couple's story.
This was a beautiful story of perseverance. I will continue to believe with you, that it will happen! I worked with a woman who tried for 10 years, maybe longer. IVF was not available back then. Her and husband decided to adopt. Within one year after adopting, they got pregnant naturally. They were praying Christians with big hearts, just like C & C. Truly a miracle! Don't stop believing!
Carlos and Catarah,
I pray God gives you the desires of your heart.
I'm sitting here at 2 am. watching from Greensboro, NC, my heart if full. Tab and Chance your RUclips is truly a ministry. Praying for the Colemans. Keep the faith 🙏 and know God loves you. He hears the righteous desires of your hearts.
Praying for you and all those that are struggling with infertility.
Reading these comments gives me so much hope. I’m 30 only recently experienced a miscarriages first time ever pregnant. And for someone who cough they couldn’t get pregnant and to finally conceive with the love of my life made me so happy and it became the worse experience I’ve ever endured. Idk I’m trying to stay out my head and telling myself that isn’t my fault
It's NOT!
It’s not your fault 💚 be gentle with yourself
Thank you all for sharing this. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow this is so similar to my and my hubby's situation. I'm 44 almost 45 and we both think about it.....man it definitely is a cross to bear but because we have each other and we too have chosen to still have joy and know that our heavenly Father is still good. Thank you for sharing. Know that I've cried with you but God is still able!!!❤
I can definitely relate to this story. You all are such a beautiful and loving couple. I suffered with keeping babies and infertility for 7 yrs me and my husband. God blessed us with 2 little beautiful girls. I’m believing God for y’all too ! I had all the feelings that were described in the interview. I’m praying that you two will experience having your own kids 🙏🏾❤️
I believe it can happen, my mother had me in her 40's .🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m believing and trusting in God for my brother and his wife and you two! He will work it out for your good!
Oh But God!! Delay is not Denial.. When you both said “I Still Believe” I immediately started writing this message……After 3 heartbreaking miscarriages; God blessed my husband and I at the age of 45 to naturally conceive and give birth to a healthy baby boy. Today our son is almost 7 years old and we are having an absolute ball🎉🎉 He is truly a gift from God and he keeps us looking and feeling young. I can go on and on but I had to share and say “Delay is not denial and to keep your Joy because the Joy of the Lord is your strength”. Blessings to you both and Congratulations In advance because I’m in agreement that you will have your miracle baby❤️
Thank you so much for this episode. I feel seen. I’ve never heard anyone describe this path…my path so accurately. Thank you, Los, for helping me see that I am not the only one grieving. I need to acknowledge my husband’s grief as well. Thank you. I’m so grateful.
Thank you both Mr & Mrs Coleman for being vulnerable and sharing your journey. I am currently on that same roller-coaster. I've done IUI when the doctors said that is all I would need. Then IVF with failed attempts. Currently considering donor eggs but similar to your story the amount of money and the possible disappointment again is freighting. If nothing else it helped me know that i am not alone in my feelings when you have those moments and ask God, "Why me?"
Your story is like mine, you are not alone. lifting you up in prayer
I understand. I did 6 IUIs. I got pregnant this January and I finally got pregnant with IVF but I unfortunately miscarried the baby at 10 weeks. They now discovered another fibroid and I’ll probably need surgery again. I understand how painful this is
Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Salute to the Brown's hello guests
They have such a great spirit. May rhey be blessed exceedingly and abundantly.
Prayers for anyone experiencing infertility. I believe in miracles, too. God bless you.
Thank you sooooo much for sharing!! Thank you, Coolin Colemans, for sharing your story. For someone 37 currently going thru fertility difficulties with my wife, this really hit home. Our journey isn't over yet, and I don't believe yours is either!! ❤🖤💚 Til the day we ALL celebrate our FIRST Mother's Day as mothers! 🥰🥰
You guys did a wonderful job telling/expressing you journey. letting your guards down. Tab & Chance great job being supportive friends it’s beautiful to see both of y’all support each other allowing each other to grow through through it
I’m so glad that they have each other 💜 thank you all for sharing your story. We are definitely praying for you here in VA
Necessary conversation. Thank you for your vulnerability and transparency. Def needed to have seen this 10+ years ago. Maintain your connection as a couple no matter what. ❤
The emotions were raw as it should. Delayed doesn't mean denied.
I am speaking life to what others will call a dead situation. I have seen patients at 56 through IVF deliver. When the wife spoke of bying little things. I immediately remembered a friend who did the same, held unto that promise and became pregant then went on to have a second child. He is able!
Chance is a fool! Lol! I was feeling Carlos' vocals, bravado and all.
as someone who loves Tab and is also going through the IVF journey, loved this episode ❤
I know their pain all too well. She is right when you become obsessed and it’s that obsession that makes it that much more devastating when you end up empty.
I’m now in menopause at 47 but my husband and I fostered children and adopted one. She’s the gift God blessed us with through someone else.
My husband and I are believing God for kids as well. Thank you for sharing your story and I still believe that God will bless you both with children in Jesus Name. 🙏🏾
This was an AWESOME episode. I have cried and prayed for you guys only to turn around and laugh with you at the end. I love your spirit and your honesty. Praying that you all have your precious gift.
Beautiful story! Thanks for sharing your fertility journey. I thought she was going to say she is pregnant. I believe that to be the story soon. God bless you all ❤💚💕💖
This one was so painful to watch. I did not have fertility issues but I have family that have, so I cried the entire time watching this because I wish for no one to experience this type of pain. The whole time, I kept expecting and hoping for a better ending. I wish them and other prospective parents to be, nothing but the best and I send love and prayers🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️
A very good informative interview.
Many prayers going up for C&C to one day have a blessed beautiful BIG family. Nothing is impossible with God🙏🏾❤️
This was beautiful! I am hopeful for you guys!! I am 38 no kids and not married yet. I am still believing God can and will make a way!!❤❤ Be bless..
Now that's a topic there! There are many singles enduring reproductive struggles unwedded, single and/ or alone.
Beautiful episode
This was a good one Tab. Not gonna share my story in a RUclips comment (lol), but this resonates more than y'all know.
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Hey Tab and Chance. Whole watching and hearing the Coleman's story, I don't know why but this thought came to mind: Abram= Carlos and Sari=Catarah: Abraham=Carlos and Sarah=Catarah also Zechariah=Carlos and Elizabeth=Catarah. Blessings upon the Coleman's to bring fourth those children 'in God's timing and in due season'. Peace and Blessings to you Tabitha and your family ❤️💜🙏🏾
God will bless Carlos and Catarah exceedingly and abundantly beyond their wildest dreams as it pertains to becoming parents. It will exceed every expectation and heal their hearts’ desire 💕💙
I really enjoyed listening to their
story. My husband and I went through 5 failed IVF cycles and all of them were very traumatic. I asked why me and what was wrong that I couldn't get pregnant. I'm 48 now and understand that I was not able to have my own children. I hope that I can be a good influence to all my nieces and nephews. I don't think myself and my husband lives are less because we are childless.
Be careful trusting Doctors based on their skin color, do your research. I still remember a black female doctor telling me not to worry about a lump in my breast @ she said I was too young ( 25) . She was dead WRONG!!! By the time I went to another doctor I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. Praise God for His Healing!! Praise God we were blessed with twins years later after fighting cancer. We had 3 daughters before the cancer diagnosis.
This was a healing conversation on so many levels. Thank you all for sharing❤️
“Beautiful Nightmare” I definitely felt that🥺 My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 22yrs….we have a lot of angel babies 😢….And just like you guys we’re believing God to do what He only He can do….I will definitely be keeping you both in prayer and I’m believing God with and for you❤️❤️❤️
Thank for sharing such a vulnerable and powerful story. Prayers up for The Coolin Colemans🩷💙
There was a moment when Los was sharing the cost of IVF that I believe Chance received a word to gift the Colemans their next round of IVF. Regardless of the how, I am believing the Lord with you for your children.
Thank you for telling your journey!!
BEST EPISODE EVER! THANK YOU FOR SHARING!❤
Catarah and Carlos the Lord has aged you both beautifully ❤thank you both for sharing your journey
I enjoyed watching and pray that God's grace and His peace and perfect will be done for you. Such an amazing journey and inspirational testimony for those of us who are still waiting on our personal miracles as well. Keep the faith and that beautiful attitude. To God be the glory forever ❤❤❤
God bless you Mr. & Mrs. Coleman!! Keep hope alive!! Thank you for your transparency and congratulations on being parents!! It’s God’s will!! I enjoyed this video!!! I love your hair Tab!!! Love you guys!!🥰🤗❤️🙏🏽
1:25 Come on voice! Carlos need to put something out 🎶
Totally relatable story. Sending prayers 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing your story, but remember "God"has the last word. 🙏🙏🙏
I appreciate this real honest conversation. Thank you guys for being open and vulnerable with such a sensitive topic. Sending lots of love to you both
God bless you both! I believe in miracles and God is going to bless you with one. ❤ thank you for sharing your story. I have not experienced infertility. However I experienced miscarriages and I know the feeling of wanting a baby so bad and it was not happening when I wanted to. I pray god will bless you with something special.
This was a very great topic because it’s a lot of us going through the issue.
The Colemans are a beautiful couple and family. They have a powerful testimony. Wonderful, wonderful interview.
Thank you so much for your vulnerability. God bless you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This definitely hits home..😢😢
You both will make such amazing parents ❤️. Pray that you will have the blessings you've always prayed for🙏🏾
God said it **DON’T** let that go! Do seek God as to how He wants you to have what he has said. I’m glad you still have hope! God bless you in your journey to parenthood
God's continued blessing on you all through your journey. Love how much you love and ENJOY each other! Thanks for sharing something so personal and hard. 🙏🏾❤
This was very emotional! I had issues with pregnancy due to fibroids. After years, I ended up having a hysterectomy because the fibroids kept coming back, and now i regret doing it. Please do your research.
Reminds me of a couple who experienced infertility for years and the moment they started the adoption process.. their own miracle happened. I pray for Catarah and Carlos - whichever route they go and God takes them!