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- Haters gonna hate lol. Let's discuss some of the not so nice comments I've been getting lately.
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I think it’s insane that people are commenting “where’s your kids” - One of the major reasons I love your channel is that you DONT show your kids! Like you said, that’s creepy as F that people are saying that 😐
Completely stopped watching everyone showing their kids and making money off of them. Keep doing you Mai 💪🏻
AGREE 100%. I admire you for protecting your children!!!!
Exactly...great job not showing off your kids. Apparently not everyone understands that they cannot consent to being publicized. They deserve anonymity.
“Why do we never see her children” should be construed as the best type of mom comment. The one who doesn’t put her kids up for millions to seeeeee!
Wow the amount of hate you are getting for being a divorced woman. It’s 2023 people need to worry about their own lives. You worked so hard on your mental health, you don’t deserve this. 💗
I don't like hate comments either I stopped making videos because of it,but just it is what it is.
Mai, I am a man that has been watching your videos (specifically cleaning and decluttering videos) for a while now. I love hearing your stories, and I can’t understand why you’re getting so much hate! You are a wonderful person girl!! Don’t let them haters get you down!! Good for you also for not blasting your kids on the internet, there are lots of creeps out there! Keep rocking like always, queen!! 👑❤️❤️
Nobody would say these things to your face… keep your judgement to yourself. We love Mai 💕!
Good for you that you don’t plaster your kids all over the internet!! Those creepy men asking about them is exactly why you shouldn’t! Kudos to you!!!
I have more respect for people who keep their kids off line. Your kids are really young. Plenty of time for them to learn. And we all know that when they are little, you do need to go in behind them even when they do ‘clean’
I definitely understand about not posting your children on the internet! Your doing the right thing! Dating after divorce depends on the circumstances around the divorce and everyone’s circumstances are different… you do you! ❤️
From someone who is a lot older than you. Life is short, don’t wait, get out there….Love is amazing and waiting for you.
Thank you!!!! 😊 💕💕💕💕
I agree you are making your choices that work for you and your kids! So many men just don't make the effort to improve a marriage. For some reason women do all the heavy lifting and women get the blame for it not working out. I would suggest Jimmy on relationships. And for all the men that criticize you "Go do your own therapy,work on your own tramas and do the inner work!
Haven't gotten through much of the video yet, but had to comment for 2 reasons. 1- I'm a therapist so technically if you want to, this can count as talking to a therapist 😂. Go off girl, do what you need to do! No judgements here. And 2- I love the idea of trickle down therapy! I've never heard that before but I can totally see that haha. I do the same and my best friend is also a therapist so I guess we get trickle down therapy too! Anyways, going to watch the rest of the video now. Love and appreciate you!
Hi, i live in Brasil, and i understand what you're going through. My parents were legally married for 7 years, but my mother was the only person in the marriage who fought to save the relationship and still take care of me while my father divided his time between working and acting like he was single (yes, that means cheating) After they separated, she started working as a maid in more than 3 houses and didn't earn much. Many men wanted to marry my mother just so she could clean up their mess, but she always denied it. She said she doesn't want to get married again, and that's her choice and that of many other women, but there are many women who chose to try again and that's ok for everyone.
I hope everything is fine in your life and that of your children, you're not doing anything wrong as a woman and mother.
One of the reasons I watch you is because you are a good mom just by the fact you don't use your kids for content. Keep your head up and do what is right for and the boys. I miss your Costco videos. Like you said, you can't please everyone we all have different opinions and see things differently. I'm on team "don't wash" chicken 😅😅.
Props to you for setting clear and strong boundaries. You really don't owe any explanation to online trolls. I have twins as well and you hear from so many ppl to "post your twins" so you can get deals, free this, sponsor that and it just doesn't sit well w me for my kids faces to be accessible to the entire world do whatever they choose to. The deals or fame or anything wouldn't be worth it to me. I really enjoy your videos because I feel our lives have a lot of parallels and it's nice to be able to see someone go through relatable things as a millennial single mom with twins (+1). ☺️
I have noticed in other creators shorts the comments are more passive aggressive as well. Not sure what it is about shorts but maybe it’s because non subscribers see it more? Anyway, I love that you protect your kid’s privacy and normalize that. I also love watching your content it’s very calming.
I guarantee the people that are criticizing & telling you what you should or need to be doing aren’t practicing what they preach. Misery loves company, and they want you to be miserable alongside them. Your happiness, beauty, resilience, grateful spirit… pisses them off. 😅 Lord, help these miserable trolls. Mai, I’m glad you’re going to keep doing what you’re doing bc you are such a light! I love your videos.
Well said!!!
I love watching your videos!! I agree with you about not wanting to post your kids all over the internet. When my kids were smaller I used to post pictures of them until I got a creepy comment about my daughter from a friend of the family that I had known all my life. Since then I no longer felt comfortable posting my kids. You just never truly know people. You are doing the right thing in keeping your kids safe ❤
Thank you for the comment about it taking both people to choose their spouse and work on their marriage. If one doesn't want to try then there's nothing you can do except work on yourself and figure out how to move on. Thank you for being so open about your life while respecting your ex and respecting your children and their privacy rather than exploiting them for views/ money on the internet. I wish you all the best in this new chapter in your life. May it be fun and happy for you and your family. ❤
Single mom with 3 kids here. Go have fun together, they grow up so fast. And of course, go have fun yourself, as well. You're doing everything great. Hugs from Spain ❤💛❤
You shouldn’t have to explain to anyone..it’s no one’s business whether you clean, your kids clean or you hire help..it’s your house your business!
Jen Kirkman said in her Netflix Stand up that people think divorce is when the marriage ends. And shes like no it ends before that. I think you would like her stand up, thought not kid appropriate! Thank you for sharing!
The reason most of the hate comments are in the short videos is due to the attention span of those men. Any man who has a valid comment will take the time to watch longer videos and analyze before commenting. As a mom getting divorced, thank you for sharing with us it helps me a lot
People don't know what went on in your marriage. How long you felt lonely, unappreciated and invisible? My husband separated from me 2 years ago after our baby was born. So if he ever goes through with a divorce, I'm absolutely moving on “fast”. He barely talks to me. 🤷♀️ so I agree with you. Not single but definitely living a single and lonely life.
Why wouldn’t you file for divorce at this point? Makes no sense to stay with someone that makes you feel worthless. Show your child they are worth more
@@youtubeacc I don't believe in divorce.
@@youtubeaccexactly. Why stay with someone who doesn’t want you? Go find happiness with someone else.
@@anneshirley9560😂😂😂 ok girl so you will live unhappy and teach your child to accept less than they deserve in the future because why? You deserve better. Sorry that you think you are less than.
You are one of my favorite RUclips moms! You are smart, beautiful, and relatable. The #1 reason why I enjoy your channel is because YOU DO NOT EXPLOIT YOUR KIDS! Ignore the haters (Yes I wash chicken), and enjoy life as it is way too short. 😊
As I was mindlessly scrolling through youtube shorts sitting on my couch...oh brother🙄, I found a few of your cleaning videos and I was instantly motivated to get my own chores done. Your sense of humor lured me in further. Cheers!
Dear Mai Zimmy, let me first say Girl you are glowing! You look HAPPY, and I am happy for you! Anyone who is a longtime subscriber and has watched your content can easily spot how unhappy you seemed in videos before divorce, how you were just trying to keep it together to make content. I can certainly spot a much lighter brighter healed and happy woman. You are a GREAT mom to not dangle your children in front of cameras just to create content for others during such difficult and private times. Its the mother that knows best, and when it's best too. VERY creepy that people even question where your children are, as if they are actually concerned and worried for their well being (you know as their primary caregiver is cleaning a whole household and getting groceries in order - trying to create content for these same people all before picking children up) People have many opinions when it's not their lives. You are doing a great job, are a loving mother and I hope you find that smart/kind/caring/loving someone that you deserve in whatever timing it may be. Hope you take care and continue to live your best life!! ❤
The crazy thing is the average person who gets divorced they have pretty much checked out of the relationship before the divorce is finalized or even talked about. Shoot you legally have to be separated for a year before you can get separated 😅😅
Whenever someone tells me they got divorced, I always say "Congratulations!" Because I too felt relieved and happy when I got divorced.
So proud of you for brushing off the hate comments👏🏻💕👏🏻Sadly it’s a big price to pay for being on YT.
I wash my chicken we always have done in my family. It’s a Muslim tradition and now I’m a Christian I still do. Do what you want.
Thank you Mia for sharing your life on this platform. I want you to know that there people out in RUclips land who appreciate you, support you and are not judging you. I give you kudos for how you are managing this season in your life. I wish you health, peace, and happiness always. Life is all about growing and learning, you are doing an awesome job. Be blessed! ❤️🤗
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I follow your channel because of your persistence towards self improvement and openness about the realities of life. Moral judgements around divorce are absurd. The only people who get a say in the marriage are the people who are married or getting divorced. Im sorry you didnt find your person. I really hope the unoverse smashes you together with your forever person ❤
You deserve a happy, healthy marriage with someone who values the relationship as much as you do. Enjoy dating! It is supposed to be fun! You are present with your children when they are in your custody & a loving mother- what you do when they're with their dad is nobody's business but yours! Love your positivity & that you're happy. When you can be happy alone (which you are), I think that's a good sign you're ready to be happy with someone. 😊
I appreciate how you have clear standards and filters for comments.
Sooo happy for you! Blessings to you both!🎉❤
Preach!💜💜💜 Please continue to live your best life and ignore the idiots that are hating. Love you and your videos!
Girl- don't even worry about what the haters have to say! You're doing amazing! I can tell how much happier you are in your life now after the divorce. Just keep doing you because this is YOUR life. You're doing amazing! 🎉😃💖
Your energy is glowing these days and I love that for you! ❤
Girl, this is crazy. I always seen you as someone successful, beautiful, and collected. These mean commenters are doing nothing but projecting their own insecurities.
All the rude comments you addressed in the video are childish, and if we were to psyco-analyze them, we would find that these commenters have a lot of self-hate or personal dilemmas that they are taking out on you.
Good on you for ignoring them and leading your own life. You know what's best for you and your family, and if you need advice, you'll ask (plus, I'm sure you've got real life people you trust more for advice!).
Myself and other subscribers are always rooting for you. The negitive commenters literally don't even matter.
Sending lots of love, from my family to yours! ❤
You have a super healthy & realistic way of looking at things without losing your sense of humor which is amazing to see. I don't have kids but if I ever did I would never post them online so I completely respect that about you. Like you said--live your life the way you want to because it's your life! Everyone should do the same & then maybe people wouldn't be so quick to judge/hate!
You don't need to explain your decisions. I just enjoy your videos. You don't owe us anything other than that. I'm sorry there are people out there who love to fault find.
So happy for you! Been following you for a few years now and love your content. It totally inspires me to clean and organize when I'm feeling unmotivated. Glad you did this to move on from the messed up comments. Block the haters!
Thank you for sharing with us. My husband is moving out next week after more than a decade. I've been alone for a long time, too, and am ready to move into my next stage of life. You know yourself and your children better than anyone else and I'm glad you're choosing what's best for you instead of worrying about what some buttfaces in the comments have to say about it.
Mai don't listen to any of those hateful things. People have nothing better to do and should worry about their life instead of yours. You're doing great and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤
Those are JEALOUS HATERS ❤! You’re beautiful, informative, fun, don’t listen to the dumb jealous witches! I’ve worked in the fitness industry, with high profile people around, and honestly, those are envious weirdo’s commenting! Take it as a COMPLIMENT 👍🏼keep doing your thing, don’t worry about bots…I really enjoy cleaning and the Costco vids!❤
That fairytale bathroom was perfection 🎉
Mai wearing weights on her wrist while she cleans the kitchen. She will fight y'alls negative asses. 😂
😂😂😂
I relate a lot to what you say as far as being in a marriage with someone who wasn’t acting married to me. This was my exact situation. I am in the process of divorcing him now. I would love to eventually date once everything is finalized but I’m worried how men will perceive me as a mom of 2. I guess I just don’t want to be judged negatively.
I love your channel!! I am sure there are a lot of people who do, so keep doing what you’re doing! You are not hurting your kids or yourself and you are so good on youtube! I never once thought you were promoting divorce, that never occurred to me. My favorite video of yours is when u decluttered/cleaned and then went to get dinner/treats and I think you even went to get popcorn at a movie theater, then went home and watched The Secret Life Of Walter Mitty! That was a perfect ending to a busy productive day! Whatever people say, there are people who love u girl! 😊😊
Mai ~ Let me just say - You are a Strong, Beautiful, Genuine, Intelligent, Witty & Warm Woman!! That is what I have gleaned from watching your channel for several years now! I have been motivated by your cleaning, purging & organizing. Inspired by your cute everyday clothing choices that always look great on you! You crack me up w/your self deprecating humor & quick wit! And finally, I find your genuine & honest way refreshing & endearing! So, it's no surprise that your repsonses to these negative & passive aggressive comments was perfection! Your boys are very lucky to have you as a mom!! You keep on rockin' with yo bad self sister! Be Well ❣
I've always have preferred your long format videos - shorts make it seem like your rushed & makes me anxious/ rushed also. Glad to see you making the regular videos again!❤
Don't worry about those comments. You are a stunningly beautiful woman, and a wonderful mother. Your positivity about everything makes you that much more special! ! You are not a phony!😍😘🥰
GIRL!!! You don’t owe these ppl any explanation about your kids cleaning or not cleaning!
You won’t please most of us all the time! You are doing a great job! All this has been a whole new learning curve for you! I admire your take on sharing the boys and how you spend your time w them! Keep up the good mothering!
LOL some people have too much time on their hands! I'm glad you don't let the haters get you down
i am so sorry that you have had to deal with this
i am excited tyhat you have another video up I love your cleaning videos
Fantastic video again, I always love when you film while discarding things/takeout the trash to feel the house fresh and clutter less again 😊 Something that I always hope to see that can trigger people to be upset it's while discarding clothes that can't be donated. Most people film these declutter off cameras probably for this reason as people will probably be upset unless you show each items and explan why it can't be donated 😅
You’re amazing, Mai. It’s been a pleasure watching you flourish and grow through this process. Ignore the haters. They’re simply ignorant, bitter, jealous, etc. I love seeing your longer video content on here again!❤️Sending all the good vibes your way✨
Mai, I love watching your cleaning vlogs, it motivates me to get rid of things which I no longer need. 👏👏👏
I found you through shorts and really connect with you! there's surprisingly a lot of conservative judgemental people I'm glad you know to ignore them and live your life as it's best for you and your babies! ❤
You have nothing to hate - you are sweet, smart, cute, funny, and down to earth! People must be projecting and I'm so sorry :(
Just remember there are people who have nothing better to do than sit on the internet and talk crap about people they know nothing about . Why do they wanna see your kids ? Are they gonna give them cleaning tips or parenting tips ? I would definitely delete those people , it is creepy !
You’re amazing Mai💕💕💕 Those people leaving negative comments are unhappy & pessimistic human being, delete those comments, nobody needs that. Your supporters from Portland, Oregon🍁🌿🥮
Mai, you are so cute and I love your personality! I stumbled on your Costco video and now I'm a subscriber!
Girl you’re doing your best, and doing a great job. People on the internet get way to bold and think they have a right to see everything in your life, including your kids. I don’t think you’re promoting divorce at all, just sharing perspective of your life. I wanted to start a cooking channel on yt but everything you said about washing the chicken is why I haven’t! Lol girl you do you!🤗
The dogs bark, Sancho, a sign that we are moving forward. A terrific quote from "El Quijote"...YOU GO GIRL. Love from LIma, Peru
honestly, you GO girl. believe in yourself
I love your short so much I actually subscribed, you are such a great role model and carry major big sister vibes haha 💖
I hope you find someone that makes you happy and can have a great relationship ❤️ that would be a great example for your kids if they see you happy. 😊
I like you. Why would anyone criticize unless they are insecure. It no one’s business what you do. No one else knows your life like you do. Carry on lady!
Yay! A longer video!
You are doing great!!❤
“No one ever shames a man for going out and trying to find love after a divorce.”
💐 You’re an actual inspiration. You’re strong and doing great for yourself and kids, post marriage. I’m sure your boys are gorgeous but glad you don’t “expose” them to the weird world out there. I believe you make the best decisions for them and yourself. I don’t do instagram or other things but RUclips and phasing out FB. I’ll keep up here. 👍🏼 Continue to be safe and patient just the way you have been. Good job, girl. 👏🏼🌺
I don't think you've promoted divorce. Also, I don't like that RUclipsrs feel like they have to defend how much cleaning their kids do. I had to do a lot of cleaning as a kid and determined not to make my kids do too much. You do what works for your family. I think you're doing great. Ignore the haters. They probably don't know you as your long form viewers do. Best wishes. Also i used to wash chicken until I saw on food network that I don't have to. People are ridiculous.
You go girl! You have every right to live your life as you choose. I hope I'm the kind of person who would think so even if I didn't agree with you.
I tell my husband all the time that if I die he should NOT get into a serious relationship until the kids are out of the house. It comes from past experiences. Step-parents can be awful. Very disruptive and sometimes abusive. I am a step-parent to a disabled child and I worry that another step-parent might abuse her. On the other hand, my husband married me and we are exceptionally happy.
Totally get that you feel that way based on past trauma. 🩷
Ahhhh I’ve missed your channel! Welcome back! So I didn’t get divorced but I was with my oldest son’s father for 6 years. I think I started dating like a month later but I had known the relationship was over for like 3 years. I sort of fell into the trap of sticking around for my son until I realized that we were giving him a toxic environment to grow up in. So we broke up and 4 months later I met the love of my life and we’re married now and my son adores my husband and he lives with us and is growing up in an environment where he can see what love is supposed to look like. I feel like as long as you feel mentally ready and you’ve let go of the past relationship, there’s nothing wrong with dating soon after you’ve ended the relationship. Either way, it’s no one’s business. I was also a “married single mom” so I totally feel you on that.
Block the jealous haters who have NO lives !!
All the best ! You do you !!!
I don’t typically comment, but even if you were “promoting” divorce, so what? Why does it matter to them? I think the saddest thing is someone staying married “for the kids” or whatever other reason but they don’t actually want to be in the relationship anymore just staying because they “should”.
I don’t put my kid out for the masses either. There’s too many crazies.
DO YOU GIRL !!!!!
I' m happy that you are happy!!! Keep going! Have fun and laugh!!! Take care!!!
LMAO!!! I'VE SEEN THAT GROUP!!! 😂😂💜 Wishing you the best, as always. Haters gonna hate, but us bitches appreciate lol!
You keep doing you!!! Sending positive vibes to you and I love your content. It’s so real and honest so thank you ❤
I want those jeans !
Your a great Mom, you just keep doing you. 💜
I’m sorry you have had unnecessary rude comments. You do you! ❤
Yes, you have never put your kids out there
I think kids should be kids!! Let them play & have fun! The kids can learn how to clean - it’s not rocket science 🙄
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Glad you are doing well
Also you are doing the right thing by not plastering your kids online. I actually look down on the influencers who make money off of their kids. Pedophilia is not a joke
Yeay for your strength🎉 you deserve so who respects you
People are always going to be judgmental, it's natural unfortunately. IHowever when others judge another mother, that makes me super angry. Being a mom, a parent in general, is a hard job! Yes it's rewarding, but it tough. Every stage has there own obstacles, but seriously. People are doing their best and trying to do what's best for their family. We need to show more grace.
Those who think they know it all should write a book on their life then. It would be fiction of course.
Instead of judging others, maybe help then or encourage them.
I totally agree if you are the only one showing up in a marriage it's time to go. I have no regrets..
Being sick of them and leaving. 😂😂😂. Hilarious! Ignore those idiots and you live your best life ❤.
For the majority of my adult life I never knew to wash my chicken.... also.... shocker to some people, I NEVER washed fruit and veggies too!!! LOL! I started to but still sometimes I don't! I am alive, don't get sick often and it hasn't killed me yet. LOL!
Mai, I truly hope the love and positivity we're sending you today will wipe out the creepy, thoughtless questions and criticism that loser keyboard commandos post on your content. Good for you for going to therapy and having a group of friends you can meet with and share your "trickle down therapy" (kudos to whoever came up with this term 😂). I'm in your corner as are your loyal supporters here and in your actual life. I'm happy that you're in a good place and navigating your life with class and grace. Stay strong and here's a huge virtual hug!! XXOO ❤️
Ignore those people, I also was divorced after 22 years and like you, I did everything and felt alone. I dated before my divorce was final! We were separated and divorce took forever! I think you are right not to plaster your kids all over the internet! So you keep doing you👍🙂❤️ one more thing, my friends husbands wouldn’t let their wives hang out with me!! I was a great wife and mother and did all the things, was a room mother , cleaned exceptionally cooked dinner every night etc but I was a “bad influence “ for my friends!