CHATTY CLEAN WITH ME | ADHD style ✨Cleaning Motivation✨

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  • Опубликовано: 23 сен 2024

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  • @thisgirljd3611
    @thisgirljd3611 Год назад +41

    Okay 43 seconds in & I am LOVING your vibe. I love the shirt, I love the profanity lol I feel like you've shed a bit of hesitancy? Idk you shed something & whatever it was, left a beautiful Mai 💜 stay positive & true to yourself, its leaving you glowing!

  • @chylekauffman4468
    @chylekauffman4468 Год назад +47

    I appreciate these divorce updates. I am getting ready to go through this and I am having a really hard time. I really appreciate you.

  • @juliefranc7443
    @juliefranc7443 Год назад +57

    I thought my heart was safe with my ex-husband, needless to say I was devastated when he asked me for a divorce. The silence was deafening. I cried so much and so hard that it aged me. I cried myself to sleep most nights, would cry at my desk at work, would even cry in the shower. I was so embarrassed to face family and friends. I felt like a failure. It was awful. Each woman is different, just know you're not alone. The only thing that truly helped me was attending mass, praying and reading the Word.

    • @MAYBEMAYBS
      @MAYBEMAYBS 5 месяцев назад +1

      I hope time has helped you, and you are well.

  • @sleepingwhale
    @sleepingwhale Год назад +29

    You're doing amazing! I was a single mom for several years. I'm sure many women will really appreciate your sharing your life and will feel less isolated. For me there are some big positives to parenting solo and having your "own" space. Every situation has its own upsides and challenges.

  • @jessicamcmenamin4511
    @jessicamcmenamin4511 Год назад +28

    I absolutely love how real and honest and just so down to earth you are! ❤️

  • @mamadee5190
    @mamadee5190 Год назад +6

    I find myself saying "One day at a time" out loud as I struggle through life sometimes. It trains my brain to not worry about tomorrow, next week, or any othe future concerns. "One day at a time" reminds me to stay in the present, not the past or future, where guilt, shame and worry reside. Lol You're doing great, Mai! So happy to see you smiling and joking around again. 💗

  • @saraibr411
    @saraibr411 Год назад +5

    It's not easy to get used to a new way of living especially in the beginning.
    I'm sure slowly you'll find a new norm and you'll love it.
    I send you good vibes to help you through this difficult time.
    Thanks for the great content and the motivation!!

  • @njb1814
    @njb1814 2 месяца назад

    I'm a year late watching this video lol. I was thinking about a quote for your board. "Nothing changes, if nothing changes". That's an al-anon thing, but I love it. I remember all those days of cleaning up after my girls. Sometimes I'd say "I'm coming up there with a trash bag". You'd think I was opening a vein right there. They moved fast. Thanks for sharing all your cleaning and like someone here said, "no one would hate you"! I agree.

  • @rbodhoo9840
    @rbodhoo9840 Год назад +1

    You are so loved or I am enough or I love myself, I trust myself, I honor myself & I value myself ❤

  • @newmoondarkmoon
    @newmoondarkmoon Год назад +9

    I know I made a snarky comment about you throwing shade at your husband early on when I started watching your videos. I wanted to tell you I’m still watching and enjoying your work. I’m sorry for your loss and the pain you are experiencing over not having the life you wanted for you and your kids. I know it’s hard. You look like you are handling it with grace. I hope you find happiness and peace moving forward. Keep the decluttering videos coming. Much love. 🌲❤️🌲

  • @juliadoyle7478
    @juliadoyle7478 Год назад +2

    This 90's gal is so happy flared jeans are back!

  • @patkern185
    @patkern185 Год назад +12

    Mai, I hope things are going as well for you as it seems in your videos. 🥰 I use the tray method for my clutter, too. It IS magical..lol.
    I got one of those message boards in a subscription box so I made this sign for one of our bathrooms: "We aim to please.
    You aim, too, please."
    Have a great day! XXOO ❤️

  • @Seems_R
    @Seems_R 6 дней назад

    Aaahhh!! You listen to Caroline too? I love that my favorite RUclipsrs are connected like that. I’m watching your videos to get me in the cleaning mood, it’s a struggle but we’re here lol

  • @zvoncek00
    @zvoncek00 Год назад +10

    Why would we judge you? Everyone have some obstacles on their path, we (your subscribers) are not perfect either. Love watching your videos. Greetings from Slovenia, Europe 🌍

  • @loriclapper3663
    @loriclapper3663 Год назад +4

    I've been in your shoes Mai. You're doing great. Keep looking forward and preparing for the next chapter. You're a great person and mom. I enjoyed your "lazy" clean as much as any other clean.

  • @cassieleefryeklund5623
    @cassieleefryeklund5623 Год назад +1

    I love that you are real and don't hide when things are hard

  • @Naomi-of3tz
    @Naomi-of3tz 3 месяца назад

    "Progress over perfection" for the letter board.

  • @magicduckairlines
    @magicduckairlines Год назад +2

    You look vibrant and healthy. Keep up the positive attitude and you'll see your spirit be happy 😊

  • @kellypruitt2362
    @kellypruitt2362 Год назад +1

    Carpe diem girl!!!! SIEZE THE DAY. For your letter board. Thanks for another great one

  • @TianaAsia123
    @TianaAsia123 Год назад +2

    I love that you watch Caroline I love her! Your videos make me happy, and even though you have one more child than I do.. you help me feel like I’m not alone whether it comes to having messes to clean, attention span or lack thereof, and your hacks are super helpful!
    Only thing I want for Christmas is a day to myself 😂😂

  • @anitapatience6332
    @anitapatience6332 Год назад +2

    Hi Mai, no one could ever hate you, you're awesome!🤗💖

  • @jjjljuls2237
    @jjjljuls2237 Год назад +2

    Big hug to you!! no matter the hurt you are going through the show must go on. I can't imagine the 50/50 situation with kid's 😭. I wish you and your kiddo's nothing but peace right now.

  • @katiestotler5408
    @katiestotler5408 Год назад +9

    I love your bed separating idea for the twins! And omg congratulations on having one relatively neat kiddo. I was not blessed with one, both of my boys are messy. 😂

  • @rosevee2689
    @rosevee2689 Год назад

    I'm happy you found yourself again and can do your cleaning. You motivate me, every time. I'm so excited for this video!
    I have now finished the video and what I want for Christmas, a coffee bar or a really good blender for smoothies and so good that it makes puree without clumps. I'm over the ancient ninja bullet my husband has had for many years. I need a good blender!! I also want my coffee bar. I have accessories for it and love Halloween all year, but those accessories/mugs have taken over my kitchen and I need the bar to declutter. I have so much to do by this weekend with visitors coming and I needed this inspiration. I'm sure I've said it before, but your videos are my nightly go to before bed and during the day when I need my inspo. Thank you for being the totally awesome you that I see you as. Stay strong!
    I can relate to the feeling of no kids home for periods of time and it's not just a boredom I feel because I love my kid chaos, but a guilt because I feel they should be with me. I'm not big on the silence and love the sound of my children around because that's my normal. We get so used to a sound and routine that without it, it's a helpless feeling. Or maybe it's just me? Anyway, you're doing great! I'm in a military life because of my husband and I'm still not used to those moments where it's all on me. I spent all last year alone with two of my kids while my husband was out of country or state and it's a huge adjustment to have help and then suddenly feel single and doing it all alone. Was quite the year.
    Happy Holidays Mai, I look forward to joining you virtually on your journeys in life. ❤️

  • @Charlotte-bc7vj
    @Charlotte-bc7vj Год назад

    Leather jackets are always in style 👌🏾 one of the best things I ever heard is.. style is for ever. Trends come and go 💋

  • @mariakelso2167
    @mariakelso2167 Год назад +4

    If you can you might want to think about redoing your bedroom even getting a new bed out with the old and in with the new might make you sleep better and not have those older memories.

  • @wateroffaduck2353
    @wateroffaduck2353 Год назад

    As a kid, doing anything in the non-traditional way was much more enjoyable (i.e. doing homework on the staircase instead of the table) so I'm sure the twin that sleeps on the floor feels like the winner, lol!!!
    For the letter board: "Just Breathe!!!"
    Had that on my phone's lock screen for the longest time bc I needed that reminder to do so. It truly helped me alot.

  • @Mybougiehippylife
    @Mybougiehippylife Год назад

    I just found your videos when I was searching for some cleaning motivation. Thank you so much! I am going through depression and it motivates me to watch these videos and clean along with you so I actually get some cleaning done. Many blessings and much love to you and yours!

  • @jolenebreen5489
    @jolenebreen5489 Год назад +3

    Nobody's life is perfect girl. From day one, I have watched ya because you were NOT perfect. That's why we 💓 ya! Stay true to you and be gentle on yourself ❤️

  • @Dancenjayj
    @Dancenjayj Год назад +1

    Please make another video soon! I look forward to your content releases!! I hope everything is going well ❤

  • @nadinewilliamson1037
    @nadinewilliamson1037 Год назад +1

    Love this. I asked for sneakers and a few new work out outfits. I figured I am a better person when I take care of myself.

  • @stephanied6711
    @stephanied6711 7 месяцев назад

    I love watching your vids without music it gives me cleaning motivation

  • @loridaou2897
    @loridaou2897 Год назад

    Thank you for being real. It’s very refreshing.

  • @heatherwippel6955
    @heatherwippel6955 Год назад

    It’s a good day to have a good day.

  • @joyindrelie6715
    @joyindrelie6715 Год назад

    All the laundry and trash in one trip!! YES!

  • @thebarefoothobbit
    @thebarefoothobbit Год назад

    For quotes I love "opportunities dont happen. You create them"

  • @michelelauricella8967
    @michelelauricella8967 Год назад

    My favorite quote is You are Enough 😊

  • @sspiker
    @sspiker Год назад +1

    I would stay BUSY or visit people because they house got 'so quiet' and felt so big and empty at times. It gets easier... and the kids actually would want you to invest your free time on making yourself whole and happy (my kids told me this recently many YEARS after I divorced their father). Take care of yourself hun. Also, don't forget to PREP for winterizing since your in charge of your home maintenance and god forbid another snowmageddon occur this winter. So prep early and slowly so you aren't stressed.

  • @samanthadurrant4904
    @samanthadurrant4904 Год назад +1

    “Good people bring out the good in people” that’s on mine like 6 months out of the year. 😂

  • @parkerrose3590
    @parkerrose3590 Год назад

    " you'll never get it all done!" My favorite quote.

  • @cherylhoward9441
    @cherylhoward9441 Год назад

    Mai, a great quote and my favorite….
    Everything Happens for a Reason!
    Very fitting for what you’re going through right now. ❤️

  • @ulawojcik2599
    @ulawojcik2599 Год назад +1

    Looks like your doing great with everything going on in your life … you got this and are doing a great job being a mom, woman, and just an overall good person 🥰🥰…. I live in Dallas if no one has been chose

  • @kittykooky
    @kittykooky Год назад

    For your letter board.... One day at a time !

  • @hopefully2224
    @hopefully2224 11 месяцев назад

    It starts being really nice to have time for yourself. When kids grow up they barely call so dont think youre a bad mom if you enjoy down time, lol.

  • @susie7336
    @susie7336 Год назад

    My son also uses a lot of tissues. Me issue with them all over the place, but I told him once to step in the trash to push them down, and add more and repeat- and he loves to do that, so everyone wins!

  • @lauramatsuyama9742
    @lauramatsuyama9742 Год назад

    Mia, it's the truth that pulls me in.. please keep being real with me/us. This part of the divorce (missing the children) may never get easier but it is the new normal. you can only do your very best for you and your children and holding it together is possible!! keep it up!

  • @reneegarrison1178
    @reneegarrison1178 Год назад +1

    There is a little hex wrench that generally comes with your garbage disposal, if you have it, try going under the sink and sticking that in the hole underneath the garbage disposal. It loosens the blade if by clogging it, you locked it up. Worth a try. Good luck.

  • @luckycatipa
    @luckycatipa Год назад +1

    The faux leather jacket will always be in 🖤

  • @christinemacleod2145
    @christinemacleod2145 Год назад +1

    Quote- “ Inhale the future - Exhale the past”

  • @lindsayjordan4161
    @lindsayjordan4161 Год назад

    Yes I love bell bottom jeans! I need more of them!

  • @lisahuntley9704
    @lisahuntley9704 Год назад

    Love your videos 😍😍 real life mess and home life!!u can get an electric toothpaste dispenser on Amazon so it dispenses just what you need xx

  • @melissahammersley7678
    @melissahammersley7678 Год назад

    I love how real you are

  • @Valschapero
    @Valschapero Год назад

    I just love all your videos and commentary

  • @DS-rm7px
    @DS-rm7px Год назад

    My favorite quote on my message board is “Alexa, do the laundry” 😂

  • @pualanicrawford8007
    @pualanicrawford8007 Год назад

    Hmmmm for Christmas this year I would like the new iPhone 😊. I wouldn’t mind the pet vac, we have two rotties = daily vacuuming. I’m in NW Plano

  • @amystewart9228
    @amystewart9228 Год назад

    Love your videos

  • @caitlinmayi
    @caitlinmayi Год назад +2

    I was so ashamed of my divorce for a while because my ex and his family made it their mission to let everyone know the divorce was my fault and I left him. We grew up in a very religious group where people would rather live in misery than divorce. It took me time to see that if people treated me poorly because of divorce than I really didn't need them in my life and most other people didn't care or had been there themselves. Divorce is hard even when it's the best thing for everyone. Just know it gets easier.

  • @mollyschmit9350
    @mollyschmit9350 Год назад +1

    You are my favorite youtuber because you keep it real. Please never change that. You make me laugh at least once every post with some of your real-life comments and lord knows we could all use some more laughter in our lives right now. As far as your question about what I want for Christmas.........a Cricut Joy. I never wanted one because they seemed intimidating but watching your posts where you make things with your Cricut Joy you always break down in a way that makes me think, ok maybe I can do that. So you are the reason I am going to put one on my Christmas list. 😀

    • @gretchenphillips9787
      @gretchenphillips9787 Год назад +1

      I too put a cricut joy on my ideas list thanks to Mai showing us how hers works. I've been collecting ideas of sayings/designs and things I might end up doing if I receive one. 🙂
      Mai, sending you all sorts of good vibes from Missouri. Thank you for sharing your content.

  • @carolynridlon3988
    @carolynridlon3988 Год назад

    It nice to see the house again !

  • @SillyKelty
    @SillyKelty Год назад

    My letter board says smile you’re on camera. In my bathroom.
    And there’s not a single camera in or around my house. I just love the reactions 😂

  • @yesiperez5548
    @yesiperez5548 Год назад

    Hi Mai! I can relate to your wardrobe preferences. I’m loving the bell bottoms too!! I feel like it really favors my shape since I have big calves lol. Loved your video ❤

  • @kirstenhansen51504
    @kirstenhansen51504 Год назад

    My son goes to his dad's frequently. You get used to it after a while. You miss them but you kno that's what's best for them. I love to clean when my DS is gone.

  • @reginacharley3075
    @reginacharley3075 Год назад

    Love that kaboom smells good haha 👍💝

  • @cmak1212
    @cmak1212 Год назад +5

    I think part of the ease/quickness of the cleaning is at least partly how you've simplified. It's probably easier to clean up because you have less to manage. A hobby is a great idea or take a class in something you're interested in. Really enjoyed seeing a cleaning video from you. Thanks for keeping me company on a Monday morning.

  • @jessicaehirsch9557
    @jessicaehirsch9557 Год назад +2

    I’m so happy to see your face this morning. 🎉❤

  • @gloriabatista8619
    @gloriabatista8619 Год назад

    OMG! you are too..funny! love your channel, love your realness, just went through a divorce myself it's never easy but you got this!!

  • @kristinestocker
    @kristinestocker Год назад +1

    My new garbage disposal was about $120 plus $50 for my handy man to install. You don't need a master plumber for this job and can save a few dollars. Mine broke when a penny slipped down the drain 😀

  • @maidforthedarkness180
    @maidforthedarkness180 Год назад

    Got so happy when the new videos come up. De cluttered my whole house in the last week while watching your vids. You looking abit more positive in this vid happy to see it 💜 love from the uk 🇬🇧

  • @vivianarosa1825
    @vivianarosa1825 Год назад

    If you can't get a new one through your warranty Costco has American Standard (my husband swears by this company)ones. My husband bought one for my daughter for Mothers Day. Wish we lived nearby he could of helped you out. Hint always do your research and buy your own stuff (whenever possible) when it comes to plumbing. They'll sometimes even charge double for their products (My husband use to work for a plumbing company)

  • @aidarivera2768
    @aidarivera2768 Год назад +1

    Remember how far you’ve come,not how far you have to go. You are not where you want to be but neither are you where you used to be
    -Rick warren

  • @ashleymaldonado8381
    @ashleymaldonado8381 Год назад

    Lifetime has the best fitness classes, take a free yoga class. It’s the thing I miss the most about pre-kid life. Also, you’re killing it ❤

  • @fanntarded
    @fanntarded Год назад

    I love that you call them hair binders and not hair ties!!

  • @lydiaramos46
    @lydiaramos46 Год назад

    Love this video always put you on when I need motivation to clean and tidy!.
    Put a Matthew McConaughey quote "Just Keep Living "

  • @MissKrisss
    @MissKrisss Год назад

    Loving the new you!!!! Moms curse too!

  • @lettyalvidrez8449
    @lettyalvidrez8449 Год назад

    You really did so much! Thank you for the cleaning motivation.

  • @sarahkoltz8017
    @sarahkoltz8017 Год назад

    Using that amazing mirror cleaning hack today!!

  • @traciebrown1882
    @traciebrown1882 Год назад

    Divorce is a big deal for those directly involved. Be kind to yourself and take lots of deep breaths.❤️

  • @Vick77777
    @Vick77777 Год назад

    You and your kids with quarters is too cute!

  • @nickieweinman5131
    @nickieweinman5131 Год назад

    "One day at a time" 🥰

  • @thisgirljd3611
    @thisgirljd3611 Год назад +2

    if you face one shoe forwards & the other backwards, they should fit better in the cube.

  • @chrisdiefenderfer9721
    @chrisdiefenderfer9721 Год назад

    go for it

  • @newmoondarkmoon
    @newmoondarkmoon Год назад +1

    You could baby sit for a single mom who never gets a break😂

  • @cindywiemers9149
    @cindywiemers9149 Год назад

    Loved this video! Your house looks great. I hope you get your disposal fixed soon and without hassle😊 Love ya, Cindy🌻💗

  • @effrayechilde1363
    @effrayechilde1363 Год назад

    I recently found joy in cooking and baking. So, I asked for some new baking and cooking supplies like fancy serving dishes and silicone baking mats.

  • @TeaBrew4
    @TeaBrew4 Год назад

    If you have both sides of the closet one side can be warm weather clothes and the other side for cold weather 😂

  • @Wytewinde
    @Wytewinde Год назад

    A new video game, a fuzzy robe, a new fuzzy blanket, and something else I can't think of right now .

  • @michelesusanne1
    @michelesusanne1 Год назад

    Some board quote ideas: Find the Calm in the chaos, Just Breathe, Start the day with Gratitude, I will be better than OK, Be Kind no matter what, Do one act of kindness today, When in doubt, have some chocolate..

  • @ber1779
    @ber1779 Год назад +1

    I’m Muslim and I’m not a mom, so I don’t have any holidays coming up or kids, but I want Taylor Swift tickets lol

  • @cosmicshy637
    @cosmicshy637 Год назад

    Been there before as well girl! I've got your back! 🫂 ❤️

  • @kamiifae
    @kamiifae Год назад

    I already bought myself the mini Bissell cleaner from Costco for Christmas.
    Not sure what I really want that's not super practical... maybe just a day to myself in the house so I can declutter and clean in peace. My toddler has been obsessed with mom lately.
    I hate leaving the house so I can get alone time. Just wanna stay in sometimes.

  • @AliSells
    @AliSells Год назад +1

    Change your Wifi password, email linked to your RING and change all of your passwords (and PINS) to something your ex would never guess, and not in the same pattern of anything you know. Sorry about your divorce. I am 4 years post sep. I'm still changing ALL THE THINGS. Also change the email password linked to Ring, so it can't be reset...Keep up the great videos.

  • @KCnRP
    @KCnRP Год назад +1

    New subscriber. Sorry to hear about your divorce. Just remember it all happens for a reason! ❤️

  • @bonessam9618
    @bonessam9618 Год назад +1

    Oh Mia....Sorry you thought we'd look down on you because you aren't perfect and getting a divorce. No one is perfect. I love that you keep things real. I went through a divorce in my 20's and had 1 son. I know you miss your kids when they are gone but you will get use to and eventually enjoy having a little "me" time. I don't have anything expensive or even big on my Christmas wish list this year. Keeping it very simple.

  • @elizabethwright7979
    @elizabethwright7979 Год назад

    Omg those keds!!! Lol I had a pair

  • @onairwitherika4644
    @onairwitherika4644 Год назад

    Youre doing a really great job, Mama!! Hang in there!
    Im asking my husband for new birkenstocks and the T3 curling wand with detachable heads!

  • @dianerobertson7988
    @dianerobertson7988 Год назад

    If you want to get the brown spots off your stove burners, use either Scrub Mommy power paste OR spray lightly with oven cleaner, wrap in plastic (around outside) and let sit for 20-30 minutes. Remove plastic and wipe.

  • @yvonnelanese-coppola4999
    @yvonnelanese-coppola4999 Год назад

    You know, I hate to tell you young mom’s
    You will come out on the other side
    Stop bitching how tough things are. We know, other mom’s have been there
    You will triumph!!
    Let no man make you small or put you down

  • @darloonie9465
    @darloonie9465 Год назад +1

    Short quote idea: God is great. And if you want it a little longer add all the time!

  • @smorelli1031
    @smorelli1031 Год назад

    I always want the same thing for my birthday/holidays. A massage!

  • @danilaselva
    @danilaselva Год назад

    Love your videos no matter what your marital status is! Was wondering what type of cleaner you use on your bathroom mirrors. Windex just isn’t cutting it for me anymore!