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  • @mcolville
    @mcolville  Месяц назад +260

    See you folks Saturday morning! 11am Pacific!

    • @123furgie
      @123furgie Месяц назад +2

      For more story time

    • @XanothAvaeth
      @XanothAvaeth Месяц назад +2

      That's when my weekly D&D game starts, so I'll catch the VOD. o/

    • @imissnewspapers
      @imissnewspapers Месяц назад +3

      No GenCon for MCM this year ?

    • @mcolville
      @mcolville  Месяц назад +26

      @@imissnewspapers We're running tables of Draw Steel at GenCon even as we speak!

    • @youtubeaccount3829
      @youtubeaccount3829 Месяц назад +2

      Thanks for more uploads Matt, I really missed these kinds of videos, makes me want to run DnD again!

  • @TractGildart
    @TractGildart Месяц назад +1676

    Two videos in a week? Truly, a river to his people.

  • @nathanlh116
    @nathanlh116 Месяц назад +153

    “Will other players like my character?” Seems to be the great un-asked question at tables I’ve played with.

    • @Bancheis
      @Bancheis Месяц назад +3

      A handful of people I know and have played with would never even ask themselves that question regardless. Very frustrating.

  • @patientzero94
    @patientzero94 Месяц назад +554

    Dang, “here’s this box, the game will run smoother if you’re somewhere in it or on its boundaries” is exactly what I said to my first group 7 years ago.

    • @PalhacoCapitalista
      @PalhacoCapitalista Месяц назад +9

      What happened 7 years later (now)

    • @fredslipknot9
      @fredslipknot9 Месяц назад +3

      It’s an excellent phrase

    • @michaelramon2411
      @michaelramon2411 Месяц назад +16

      There are an infinite number of numbers between any two integers.

    • @lordbiscuitthetossable5352
      @lordbiscuitthetossable5352 Месяц назад +5

      Solid advice. I as a player also let my gm know my broad plans a few days in advance; particularly if we are a bit more ambiguous in direction. It's just great manners to interact with what the host has invested a lot of time into.

    • @patientzero94
      @patientzero94 Месяц назад +5

      @@PalhacoCapitalista I find myself way more willing to roll with the ideas of my current groups. Either because we’ve all changed and expect more or because they’re more genre savvy.
      Less main character syndrome on their end and my box has gotten bigger with system experience

  • @ZerkMonsterHunter
    @ZerkMonsterHunter Месяц назад +204

    One thing I'll add: make the character you're excited to play NOW. not the character you're excited to play in 4 levels. it's very easy to see a broken "build" whatever online. but if that build doesn't come online until level 7, and the party is level 3, make a character who does a thing you can have fun playing at level 3, there's no guarantee you'll last until level 7 or whatever. have fun now.

    • @andrewl9191
      @andrewl9191 Месяц назад +16

      Yes this. Sometimes I think players can get too caught up in wanting to make a build to to get to some kind of multiclass for one reason or another.

    • @evanhoffman7995
      @evanhoffman7995 Месяц назад +16

      100%. The phrase "come online" makes my skin crawl. It implies your character is "offline" and non-functional until then.

    • @Xplora213
      @Xplora213 Месяц назад +7

      I absolutely hate hate hate this aspect of the game since 3e. Crazy multi class combinations that do not evolve over time. The game is building a character rather than playing the game. Playing with Lego isn’t the same as building Lego.
      It’s ok to do either but it’s not the same thing and it’s pretending that it IS the same is folly.

    • @briansmith8898
      @briansmith8898 Месяц назад +5

      @@Xplora213 My issue with "Builds" is the language used. The phrase often used for this idea is "Character Optimization." This implies that these builds are the optimal, or "best" characters. The further implication is that, if you don't have one of these builds, then you are playing "sub optimally". The implication is that you are literally playing worse D&D if you don't use one of these builds. To me, that's a fundamental misunderstanding of how D&D works.

    • @Xplora213
      @Xplora213 Месяц назад +1

      @@briansmith8898 if there is a particular reason for someone to change careers, ok, but the simple reality is that characters are not classes with a label maker on them.
      OSR suggests the classes are not very relevant. At all.

  • @alexb.612
    @alexb.612 Месяц назад +211

    On a similar note: I think it is also really important for the director to always allow a player to change their character. Kill them off or just do a "Boots has always been a bard".
    In other words: don't force your players to play a character they don't enjoy anymore.

    • @deaconlasagna8570
      @deaconlasagna8570 Месяц назад +19

      this is such an important point. esp we games like 5e or pathfinder where you can totally build an unfun character and have no idea before its too late. I usually explicitly tell players (esp new ones) 3 sessions in we'll do a vibe check to see if everyone is enjoying their character. its not always easy to come up with plausible reasons why a PC can completely change class, ancestry, background, etc. (tho it often is) but It usually leads to really creative story telling. Brennan Lee Mulligan is a master of this for people who need examples.

    • @jft4820
      @jft4820 Месяц назад +9

      Yes! Funny enough I had a player be a Half Orc bard who kept playing like a barbarian and saying "why did I pick bard, I just keep trying to smash people". I repeatedly gave him the option to change, even offering immersive solutions to explain the shift but he never took me up on it, haha.

    • @Jay_Hendrix
      @Jay_Hendrix Месяц назад +5

      There's literally nothing written in stone anywhere that says the build a player goes with should be a permanent decision, yet we act like it is

    • @Lurklen
      @Lurklen Месяц назад +5

      Something I encourage a player to do, is not kill of a character they don't vibe with anymore. I can always find another out. I've had players take a character on a suicide run into danger cause they wanted a change of pace or whatever, and then regret it later. It's better to give a player an easy out, change the cast, and then keep that character waiting in the wings for when they, if ever, feel like are back in sync with that character again.

    • @danrimo826
      @danrimo826 Месяц назад +4

      Yep. Totally fine to retcon your own game

  • @JohnnyTightIips
    @JohnnyTightIips Месяц назад +341

    Make a character for the game you're playing is such evergreen advice. People trying to insert their OC or idea into the dm's campaign

    • @derrmeister
      @derrmeister Месяц назад +28

      And for my next trick I will make Wolverine in LotR

    • @agosto310
      @agosto310 Месяц назад +15

      And more often than not their "OC" ain't as original as they think. I've had players who came to the table with their OC and they were clones of other characters they played, and they all were characters that I can assure had been made before by some edgy teenager.

    • @merrickmiller1224
      @merrickmiller1224 Месяц назад +8

      Ive seen a plethora of games recently where everyone is their own homebrew races and classes.

    • @derekskelton4187
      @derekskelton4187 Месяц назад +16

      @@merrickmiller1224 Their table. Hopefully they are having fun

    • @derrmeister
      @derrmeister Месяц назад +5

      @@derekskelton4187 yeah, as long as the races make sense in the world, why not incorporate them in some way. the problem is not having anything that isn't in the books but rather having people that make absolutely no sense fpr the world

  • @hazelmayn2465
    @hazelmayn2465 Месяц назад +139

    Collaboration! Once, I had a player that wanted to play a Lizardfolk that did not understand the language of the other players. I sensed that being a bit problematic, ha. So, not wanting to be dismissive, I invited that we all talk about it and eventually we had the idea that one of the players could be a sort of Han Solo for the Lizardfolk that could translate for them, and they went way back, etc. We all approved and It was great!

    • @anarchclown
      @anarchclown Месяц назад +24

      We did this one with an actual wookie in a Star Wars campaign at one point. It worked just fine as well. And actually in that story whenever they were interacting with others. The player playing the wookie would just make a noise and then the character that could understand him just made up whatever he said leading to some pretty funny scenes.

    • @m_d1905
      @m_d1905 Месяц назад +5

      Sounds like great fun.

    • @OKsweetcheeks
      @OKsweetcheeks Месяц назад

      Did we play together? I feel like I met this pair on Roll20 years ago. The partner was maybe some kind of halfling druid/cleric mix?

    • @JosephHeller-el8zo
      @JosephHeller-el8zo Месяц назад +2

      I would make the player play two characters, one of which would be the translator.

  • @MarkCherkowski
    @MarkCherkowski Месяц назад +246

    I have watched them. ALL of them. You were a big part in taking me from someone 1 year ago that had never played or DM'd before, to today where I DM 2 different weekly games, 73 sessions, and still going strong. Thank you.

    • @cordingdesert9566
      @cordingdesert9566 Месяц назад +6

      Same. Had to watch them all.

    • @gornser
      @gornser Месяц назад +4

      Thank you! We need people like you, Mark

    • @stevebusiness965
      @stevebusiness965 Месяц назад

      Yeah, basically each session I've ever run was in some way inspired by the most recent MC video

  • @crimsonhawk52
    @crimsonhawk52 Месяц назад +246

    I've seen all three cases in games before: a player likes their character and the party likes the character but the DM doesn't, a player likes and the DM likes but the party doesnt, and the party likes and the DM likes but the player doesn't. Always results in either the untimely death of that character or the player ultimately dropping out (or everyone dropping out). This video rings so true

    • @lordbiscuitthetossable5352
      @lordbiscuitthetossable5352 Месяц назад +2

      It depends. It's unnecessary for the party to like the character, as long as they don't hate them. There was one character I was tired of rescuing from their own carelessness, so I just stopped doing so beyond what was strictly necessary. He was a Doctor and a Jedi after all, all I had to do was not follow them when they would go off alone. Within the space of six months they were blinded, lost both of their arms (got better with cybernetics), and actually lost their life (which I then resurrected out of sheer spite using the dark side and the lives of several stormtroopers. Because they didn't deserve to die yet and was a fantastic perversion of my moral high ground up to this point) and to this day I couldn't tell you what that character actually did. Even then, they survived despite the party being indifferent to their continued existence, just simply because everyone else was indifferent. As long as they aren't hated the PC's can tolerate a lot.
      These days I am far less tolerant of annoying characters; I've started voicing and removing particularly problematic characters because, at the end of the day, we are not a marriage, I can choose not to work with someone who makes my life more difficult.

    • @rmcunningham3874
      @rmcunningham3874 Месяц назад +3

      Let’s forget the fourth option: nobody likes the character!

    • @toddgrx
      @toddgrx Месяц назад +2

      I’ve got two of four players: one doesn’t like playing his monk (but then changes his character without consulting the DM); the other player is trying to make a cleric that doesn’t fit what’s available in the core rules- I’m guessing he’ll soon also not like playing his character

  • @arkdeniz
    @arkdeniz Месяц назад +83

    “Red Elf needs food badly.
    Red Elf. You are about to die”
    I loved Gauntlet.

  • @dawildbear
    @dawildbear Месяц назад +37

    "At the table with your friends, or even random weirdos" Ah but you repeat yourself

  • @ColinsScienceProject
    @ColinsScienceProject Месяц назад +133

    One thing I wish I told my friends when I was younger is that as the DM, I am a player too, and I also need to have fun.
    I have fun when all of our cool ideas flow together, not when Goku shows up in the middle of a Game of Thrones scene (that can be cool, but different sort of game).

    • @Jay_Hendrix
      @Jay_Hendrix Месяц назад +6

      Thank you for putting it this way
      I love running heroic fantasies where the players are generally good, and it seems like every player and their mother wants to just play a murder hobo. But it's like "Hey guess what man, that's unbelievably annoying for me to run a game for and I'd rather we just cooperate on something I actually WANT us to do!"

  • @Victor.Alteria
    @Victor.Alteria Месяц назад +70

    More distilled wisdom from Uncle Matt, not just with gaming advice, but including an interesting history and psychology lesson if you know where to look. (DRAW STEEL! Did we just get a name spill?)

    • @Matthew.thirtyseven
      @Matthew.thirtyseven Месяц назад +4

      Sweet christmas gravy, you may be right!! If that is the name I like it!

    • @ThomB0ne
      @ThomB0ne Месяц назад

      @@Matthew.thirtysevenThat is the name! Patrons got a playtest packet a few days ago that came with the name reveal.

    • @davidmartin5145
      @davidmartin5145 Месяц назад

      @@Matthew.thirtysevenThat is indeed the name! Many of the patrons are talking about their experiences with the playtest packet both in the Discord and the MCDM subreddit

    • @crimsonhawk52
      @crimsonhawk52 Месяц назад +2

      It's not a spill, the patreon packet is out and announced the name! Backerkit packet to follow!

  • @duncanmacneil4759
    @duncanmacneil4759 Месяц назад +58

    I loved how Darksun Campaign setting - massively changed the races to make them unique, and it let people start to think Races could be different than the books description.

    • @dragonfire7354
      @dragonfire7354 Месяц назад +6

      Yes! Cannibal Halflings, Renegade Elves. That setting is amazing.

    • @tonysladky8925
      @tonysladky8925 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@dragonfire7354it's been a while since I read anything about Dark Sun, but are the Halflings really technically cannibals, or do they just eat *other* humanoids? I feel like the received wisdom is "cannibal halflings", but I always got the impression they were primarily eating elves and humans and Muls, not their fellow halflings.

    • @dragonfire7354
      @dragonfire7354 Месяц назад +3

      @@tonysladky8925 I think you're right, I don't recall it mentioned they eat other halflings, but its been a minute.

    • @briansmith8898
      @briansmith8898 Месяц назад +6

      @@dragonfire7354 Don't forget dwarves that have a life goal; if they fail to fulfill that goal, they become undead Banshees.

  • @PCCyborg
    @PCCyborg Месяц назад +17

    Draw Steel! sounds pretty dope. It's also a way cooler way to announce the start of combat.
    "Three goblins drop out of the trees into the path in front of you, as more leap out of the bushes. An ambush! Draw Steel!".

    • @godofzombi
      @godofzombi Месяц назад

      Or "grab staff!" for the wizard. Then again maybe not the best choise of words.

  • @kadmii
    @kadmii Месяц назад +23

    as much as you lamented "Uncle Matt" digressions, I think they're immensely valuable because you have a storytelling skill and you use it to introduce lore from the early decades of TTRPGs that benefit a lot of people who are young or older but only recently getting into it or seasoned but disconnected from the wider experience. The prospective DM yearns for the lore
    For one, that part about dungeon designers as artists made me think about the matter in a different perspective, and that book on the elusive shift sounds really interesting!

  • @pkWreck
    @pkWreck Месяц назад +15

    Your point on 'doing the voice' really resonated with me. I'm quite a naturally shy person, and it has always felt a little unfair to me that physically weak people get to roll a dice to bench press a bull, clumsy people get to roll to do backflips off a rooftop, but shy people have to flirt with the DM to pass a Charisma check, all in the name of 'Roleplay'.

    • @Javalar
      @Javalar Месяц назад +4

      Yeah, I don't understand DM who force players to do that. You have a charisma score for a reason. I don't care you just gave me an eloquent speech in real life, roll that dice. And the opposite is also true.

    • @CodyJakubowski
      @CodyJakubowski 27 дней назад +1

      super validating to read this. i have a weird experience where I feel more charismatic in real life than I ever could in game, like being "on the spot" at the table strips me of any confidence lol. after 5 years of 2x weekly roleplaying it has not improved. chatgpt has helped some. i play with a lot of really strong roleplayers which can be a bit intimidating. i go back and forth on this idea all the time. and unfortunately it keeps me away from charisma-based classes

  • @MrZeyami
    @MrZeyami Месяц назад +46

    I remember my first DM telling me about a hand drawn world map he had hanging in his living room that was the size of his couch. Hope it's still around.

    • @JoeAuerbach
      @JoeAuerbach Месяц назад +6

      I had one of those. I still do. It's on the wall in my basement !

  • @carlfishy
    @carlfishy Месяц назад +14

    I'm reminded of the time I decided to make a Lawful Good character because I had a cool idea for how I could make it interesting. By session two it was obvious everyone else at the table wanted to murder-hobo their way through the game, so I had him walk off into the forest to wrestle with his moral conflict, and showed up the next week with someone who fit in better.

    • @2-question-marks
      @2-question-marks Месяц назад

      Did the first character ever show up again in the campaign

    • @carlfishy
      @carlfishy 22 дня назад

      @@2-question-marks I kept him in reserve for a while, leveling him up whenever the party leveled, because I thought it might be fun for him to reappear some time, but there was never an opportunity. Which made sense as the whole problem was he didn’t fit into the campaign thematically.

  • @scottyoung6564
    @scottyoung6564 Месяц назад +15

    That tangent about the Letter Zines is wild to me, because I though "debates in the comments" were a post 1990 concept but old school TTRPG fans were doing it by SNAIL MAIL in the 70s.

  • @numapompiliusful
    @numapompiliusful Месяц назад +76

    wow you did not lie when you said the next video would come soon!

  • @patonnight
    @patonnight Месяц назад +15

    In my experience I have found that coming to the table with a complete blank canvas and an open mind, designing a character with a backstory/motivation heavily involved with the setting and/or the plot, gives me and the table a level of fun no amount of rules, builds and dices are able to provide. Everything just flows naturally.

    • @voland6846
      @voland6846 Месяц назад +3

      I don't get to play at a new table that often (DMing two of my own D&D games, a player in a VtM game), but whenever I do I read/listen to the GM's pitch and latch onto the thing in it that most excites me, and then proceed to build a character around that thing. It's a technique that's never failed me thus far.

  • @cassi6528
    @cassi6528 Месяц назад +16

    I like to give my characters somewhat vague connections via their backstory so that the DM has plenty of room to cook and make meaningful ties to their world. Recent example: My druid in a recent campaign grew up in a mountainous druid circle with her parents. The DM made an evil druid that was sucking the life force out of the forest. That Druid was her mom and I had to fight and kill my character's mom. I also like to give little hints for dynamics I'd like to explore with my character and let the DM get an idea to springboard off of. My Paladin became a Paladin for the sole reason that she admired the idea of her brother being an honorable knight, so she wanted to follow in his footsteps even if he never came back to see her after he became a popular hero/adventurer. The DM made him an Oath breaker too ashamed to come back home. Trust in the DM's creativity and you'll be rewarded for it 🙏

  • @XanothAvaeth
    @XanothAvaeth Месяц назад +23

    One thing to loop back around: Remember if you ask what a party needs and that's not something you'd enjoy playing, don't make your self miserable, find a compromise.
    Most games don't have group requirements or a holy trinity. D&D isn't WoW, and I can't think of any major TTRPG that works that way.
    If the party has 4 casters and you think they need a front line fighter even though you wouldn't enjoy it. There's a good chance if you make that character, you'll just cause issues with all their AOEs and everyone will be frustrated, just easy an example of assumed need that's anti-synergistic.
    The same can be true for non-mechanical needs. A group of misfits doesn't always need someone straight lace to be the face of the party in more serious situations if you feel you'd hate feeling forced to always take that path and the moral conflict that could cause between the group.

    • @BalooSJ
      @BalooSJ Месяц назад +1

      Yeah, that's an area where D&D and its derivatives stand out. It's not as hard-coded in D&D as it is in WOW and other MMOs, but you really notice when there's no tank, and to some extent healer, in the group. I like to say that if no-one is going toe-to-toe with the enemy, *everyone* is going toe-to-toe with the enemy, and some characters really really don't being toe-to-toe. That doesn't necessarily mean you need to build your character for top defense the way a WOW tank does, but there should be someone who can keep the spikey stuff from getting to the squishy stuff.
      Most games aren't as combat-oriented as D&D, which means those kinds of tactical considerations don't matter as much. That leaves more room for doing the things *you* find interesting. Some games have enough non-combat stuff that combat itself can be siloed off into a particular character role ("the Hitter" in Leverage, for example), rather than having each character specialize in their own type of combat.

  • @micahhonig1575
    @micahhonig1575 Месяц назад +26

    I don’t care if it made your point clearer I like your rambling. Your random rambles tend to inform me of things I never knew about or encourage me to adjust my thinking/expextations in ways I didn’t know I could.

  • @crimsonhawk52
    @crimsonhawk52 Месяц назад +23

    This video is going to set the Good Society community on fire

  • @davidwatches
    @davidwatches Месяц назад +4

    Collaboration is such an important part of tabletop roleplaying games. I'll be holding a character creation class at our local library next week and this is the main focus: collaborating with the Director and other players as early as character creation.

  • @IVIaskerade
    @IVIaskerade Месяц назад +10

    One of the things I think it's important to add is that restrictions can be fun. If a player is struggling because they keep trying to make characters that don't fit within the game because they're coming to the game with pre-set ideas about what they want their characters to be, I find it's easiest to completely reframe their thinking as "starting from the basis of this game, what character do you want to make?" which helps them let go of their ideas that are standing in their own way.
    That, and you ask them how they'd feel if they'd eaten breakfast this morning.

  • @Calebgoblin
    @Calebgoblin Месяц назад +23

    You invoked the previous video and rolled pretty well 👌
    I love how the term "director" is inevitably entering the greater ttrpg parlance. Long live the Unnamed MCDM RPG!

    • @eleintblood
      @eleintblood Месяц назад +4

      It’s called Draw Steel :D

    • @Calebgoblin
      @Calebgoblin Месяц назад +2

      Oh heck yeah ​@@eleintblood

  • @hermes667
    @hermes667 Месяц назад +8

    Hi there from Germany. I started playing D&D back in the late 80s, first with english copies we got from the US because it was not avaible in German.
    Since 2 years I run a 5th Edition homebrew campaign as a DM and even after all these years I still learn a lot from your videos.
    Fun fact: In my homebrew campaign I named a saint Matthew.

  • @Deliriumend
    @Deliriumend Месяц назад +9

    Solid advice all around. One of my groups went from 6 players to 4 really quickly after a game wrapped up. There wasn't any discussion. We took a break after campaign wrap, and when we started up again the people who were causing problems/anxiety weren't invited back. We can still hang out outside of the game, but they're not in that game anymore.

  • @flametitan100
    @flametitan100 Месяц назад +4

    I recently got into a game of the new edition of Pendragon. Whenever I brainstorm ideas for my character, I make sure to have an open discussion with the other players and the GM, so that nothing comes as a complete blindside to anyone else, and so that I can make sure it's not going to lead to any hard feelings. This is especially important when you and another player have this dramatic tension between your characters (My character hating hers, her character thinking of mine as her closest friend) as it would be super easy to leave people feeling burned otherwise.

  • @brettloo7588
    @brettloo7588 Месяц назад +7

    The rambling on random details that clarify why you love tiny details of the hobby are what we are here to learn about and see that we are all in love with the same thing!

  • @zenith110
    @zenith110 Месяц назад +12

    This video released in a timely manner - it was shared immediately after I stumbled upon it PERFECTLY timed for a discussion on creating characters and interpreting them!
    A great time as always!

  • @MrUncredible02
    @MrUncredible02 Месяц назад +2

    14:17 is such a good point. Building characters to fit what's missing from the team is such a good way to help everyone at the table have a good time.

  • @sylvansmithy5262
    @sylvansmithy5262 Месяц назад +16

    I'm running Draw Steel tomorrow with an adventure I whipped up, can't wait to try it!

  • @kynan1232
    @kynan1232 Месяц назад +8

    I fucking FEEL how important it is for everyone to be on the same page on what character you're playing. I had a player who made a new character after he got tired if his old one and wanted to kill him off. The new character seemed like he was perfectly crafted to fit into my world and plot. The way he played the character, however, was to be rediculous and obnoxious to the point that others had to play WAY out of character just to keep from murdering the other PC. I soon found a way to "end" the game so we could continue without him.

  • @togerumisu
    @togerumisu Месяц назад +5

    Agree. Hard agree. With everything.
    The most fun I’ve ever had playing a character was as the goofball with 1 Wisdom. Not because I played them well or had smart moments though that probably came into effect. But because I enjoyed playing them, and when I had to miss a session the moment I came back all of the players and the DM agreed the game felt worse because of that lacking character. That was my proudest moment at any table, and it didn’t even happen during a session itself just beforehand.
    And regarding each bit of advice you gave. I’ll go over how they worked or were hard to work with too, call ‘em examples:
    1-Making a Character for the Game. This is something I do religiously, both before and after this point. Until I’ve sat down at the table for Session 0, skimmed the rulebook, and heard over what the Director says the game will be about, only then do I truly start making a character. And I always keep this ‘premise’ in mind. Because even in DnD not all games are dungeon crawls and not all games are going to be political soap operas. Communication is key.
    2-The Director must like the Character. Can’t comment on this because I don’t have them available to ask directly. But as it was a Point Based system I double checked my builds with them every so often. Just to be safe.
    3-Collaboration. That also happened. Mainly in the moment. As a lot of what determined how they ended up was how they interacted with all the other PCs and the Director. I also had a very ‘light’ pair of background characters - just a name, role and a bullet point or two - that they played in a way I could never expect! And it was great! My Character interacted with them in ways I couldn’t have anticipated because I left them open to interpretation. Left the chance to collaborate.
    4-Avoiding Annoying Others. This was a thing I constantly kept in mind and stressed about at times between sessions. Because of how I made the Character I had to balance how competent and incompetent they can be in social settings. Because they suck at that, but I managed to carefully do so. The others were also really welcoming and I managed to figure when I could do a bit versus when I shouldn’t. Because there were several serious and emotionally charged moments that really would’ve been terrible to break the mood of.
    Overall: collaboration is key. That’s what I’m taking away from all this retrospective thinking I’ve been doing. Figure out the games premise, atmosphere and hash out what you’re all doing with it. And have fun.

  • @paulbigbee
    @paulbigbee Месяц назад +9

    This is an excellent, approachable expression of the fundamental “Social Contract”. I wish more RPGs had more explicit guidance about what is owed to the table in their player-facing content. Some do, but many do not or are incomplete.

  • @snoobertwilliamson
    @snoobertwilliamson Месяц назад +4

    i’ll never forget the cowboy in my party during a campaign set in conan’s hyperborea… this video does a good job putting to words what i’ve been feeling for a while

    • @godofzombi
      @godofzombi Месяц назад

      So the player sure made a memorable character?
      Yee-haa, taste lead, you Nemedian varmints!

    • @snoobertwilliamson
      @snoobertwilliamson Месяц назад +3

      @@godofzombi i was a fellow player and the cowboy of it all felt very out of place. took me out of it a little. no biggy tho, still had fun

  • @themejin93
    @themejin93 Месяц назад +11

    The Elusive shift was an amazing read. It has shifted the way I view running the game

    • @RottenRogerDM
      @RottenRogerDM Месяц назад

      And the humble bundle has it in a bundle this week.

  • @RingXross
    @RingXross Месяц назад +4

    When it comes to cooperating with even long time friends, you can make no assumptions. I've sat down to play D&D for the first time with people who I have known for years only to realize they are VERY different people when roleplaying. You can see a side that you never knew was there.

  • @Somber_Knight
    @Somber_Knight Месяц назад +3

    I needed this advice 6-7 years ago, which leads me to believe how helpful this video will be for newer players.

  • @Ryoku1
    @Ryoku1 Месяц назад +3

    I actually had this lesson dawn on me years after a game. GM was using Mutants and Masterminds to play some dark modern fantasy-esque adventure in a setting he had made. Using a super hero ruleset, we made super heroes for essentially Elden Ring. The DM made it work and we all had tons of fun. But years later it dawned on me that my character didn't really fit the setting nor the game. My modern group literally had a session 0 last night where we discussed the game we were about to start and get rough outlines of what characters we were going to play to ensure we all fit the game.

  • @SophisticatedBanjo
    @SophisticatedBanjo Месяц назад +15

    I wish this had included more long, rambling anecdotes that didn't support the core message of the video.

  • @veraxiana9993
    @veraxiana9993 Месяц назад +5

    Oh gee as someone who isn't a trained artist but makes all the layouts of my world in color pencil on paper I feel so seen & encouraged by this video, thank you 😊

  • @Octa9on
    @Octa9on Месяц назад +3

    as a GM I am SO guilty of saying yes when for everyone's sake I should have said no.
    as just one example, my most recent attempt to start an online game: I was already struggling because I had accepted too many players (first mistake), and then a player joined who wanted to play a character that had nothing at all to do with the game I was running, including being a species that didn't even exist in the setting (I had provided the players with plenty of setting and background info). I let the player have that character (Nth mistake), and that was what tipped a near-unmanageable game over into being completely beyond my ability, and even interest, to run.
    GMs: be ready and willing to say no. as kindly and gently as possible, of course, but for the sake of your own sanity and everyone's fun, stand up for the game you've decided to play

  • @gandhigun2304
    @gandhigun2304 Месяц назад +3

    I made a "Collaborative Campaign Creator" to make my games out of the inputs from the players. The Campaign takes place around their home towns, with land features they chose. The plot centers in their friends and foes out of the player backstory. The themes built around their fears and fantasies.

  • @venni4881
    @venni4881 Месяц назад +3

    Ive finally built up the confidence to ask my friends to join my game and finding the characters that they want to play has been my biggest worry - Thanks for this one Matt!

  • @WeFightForever
    @WeFightForever Месяц назад +15

    "i have no idea wgen the next video will be. It depends on when i have a good idea."
    That statement is the difference between video quality staying high and videos going to shit because of some forced adherence to an upload schedule

  • @horophim
    @horophim Месяц назад +4

    I have 3 rules for making characters:
    1)They want to join the adventure (for whatever reason, they can be reluctant heroes but they follow the adventure the master made without having to be chased down)
    2)They want to go with the other PCs
    3)The other PCs want them to join the group (if you are useless or a liability I don't want you "looking for my back" in a life and death situation)
    That seems similar to what Matt described :D

    • @srhall79
      @srhall79 Месяц назад

      Yeah, your 1st point was the main thing I was thinking of. Refusing the call may work in literature, but at the table it's "I came to play by not playing!"

    • @horophim
      @horophim Месяц назад

      @@srhall79 It could work as in "I don't want to be here but I have to" (like Rincewind or Raistlin)

  • @theuncommonviewer
    @theuncommonviewer Месяц назад +1

    I found DnD about 2 months ago and a month after. I've gained so much delight from it! I truly love your thoughts and anecdotes and knowledge sharing and can honestly say I relish a longer video! Those tangents and asides are where the gold lies for me. Thank you!

  • @kellimon3517
    @kellimon3517 Месяц назад +1

    This one video encapsulates in a neat little package everything I think a new player should learn in their first 2 years.

  • @tonysladky8925
    @tonysladky8925 Месяц назад +2

    "You don't have to do the voice if you don't want to" is such important advice. Back in the 4E days, my friend insisted you had to sing if you wanted to play a Bard at his table, and since I hadn't yet fallen in love with karaoke and destroying my vocal cords with gravelly-voiced punk rock, guess what class I never played with that friend...

    • @godofzombi
      @godofzombi Месяц назад

      Did he also insist you hit him with a wiffle bat if your fighter wanted to attack with a mace?

  • @Zapdos7471
    @Zapdos7471 23 дня назад

    Thank you for succinctly explaining what I’ve been trying to find the best words for.
    For me, it was “roleplaying only happens between people at the table, so your prewritten background, your ambition to play a certain character, it isn’t real until someone else responds to it.”
    And what I call the “three hour rule of thumb”, if you wouldn’t spend three hours trapped in a room with your character IRL, don’t play that character.
    For player/dm relations, I refer to “the power of the camera” as a counter balance to the authority and responsibility of the DM. A DM can introduce an unpleasant NPC knowing they will die, leave the scene, or receive a comeuppance. However, the camera is always trained on the players, so if they are unpleasant characters that nobody likes it becomes inescapable. Players have the responsibility of playing characters that are broadly entertaining, regardless of if they are good or bad people.

  • @user-ve3bs2ye7w
    @user-ve3bs2ye7w Месяц назад +4

    Very happy to be this early. Your work inspired me to be a DM so long ago, and four years later you still have so much wisdom for me to take in.

  • @craigrussell7542
    @craigrussell7542 Месяц назад +2

    Great video!
    As a director I love it when players choose to connect their character to other PCs and NPCs. Even a superficial connection can blossom!

  • @neurongames8911
    @neurongames8911 Месяц назад +2

    This video immediately reminded me of Lyndibeige's video on the Drama System. There are sort of mechanical ways of increasing player cohesion between themselves and the story with some simple principles.
    That video was released years ago, and it's impressive that this exact discussion is almost 50 years old. Truly a unique hobby.

  • @isaacstephanus8579
    @isaacstephanus8579 Месяц назад +1

    I couldn’t agree more! The first character I made was done in heavy collaboration with my DM. He helped me work through the ideas I had to fit the game he was running, and to this day that character remains my all-time favorite I have ever played. The group disbanded too soon, unfortunately, but I will pursue that same level of collaboration in the future.

  • @JoshuaBeaty
    @JoshuaBeaty Месяц назад +1

    I really appreciate you putting this video out.
    As a DM, I've had some games fizzle out due to this exact problem and I was struggling to understand what I was doing wrong. Now I can start collaborating character design with players to help them get connected to the world

  • @whatbreaksthesilence8508
    @whatbreaksthesilence8508 Месяц назад +2

    The first time I played, I ran into the “wanting to shoehorn a character idea into the campaign” situation. Since it was my first time playing, I didn’t know that the DM has to like my character and that it should have some measure of synergy with the campaign. Fast forward several years the same thing happened with me as a DM and one of my players wanting to shoehorn a character idea into my campaign. Only then did I realize what I should have done when I was just starting out. Thankfully, I didn’t encounter any problems with all of the games that I DMed. And it’s quite interesting that recently, the latest group of players would rather just give me a character concept and they leave me to come up with a character as close to that. I’m lucky that they have a better feel for the game than me when I was new.

  • @michaelramon2411
    @michaelramon2411 Месяц назад +2

    As a GM, I find that one of the most important pre-campaign prep things to do is to go ahead and give the players the starting adventure hook before character creation starts. That lets them design someone who is ready and motivated to do the first quest, and you can extrapolate from there.

  • @danmanmtn2331
    @danmanmtn2331 Месяц назад +2

    I want that dungeon map coffee table book! I will definitely be using the 1 page campaign description when I start my next campaign and will be sharing this video with my players. Thank you!

  • @keatonhughes7269
    @keatonhughes7269 Месяц назад +3

    The lighting & framing on this video makes me happy

  • @Martick05545
    @Martick05545 Месяц назад +2

    As someone that runs games, I am a part of character creation for all of my players. I want their character to fit the world and campaign I am running! Makes it fun for them and fun for me.

  • @merpins
    @merpins 24 дня назад

    I ran a game that lasted a couple years that had player restrictions. I've done it a couple times, and my players love it. The first time was archetypes: I gave players a list of characters to play, with the stipulation that these characters know each other. These were something like "the last king or queen of the elves," and "great warrior from the polar north." Each came with a boon of some kind, and would allow the player freedom of character choice so long as they based their character on the prompt. It was a hit.

  • @Calebgoblin
    @Calebgoblin Месяц назад +1

    This is such an important topic for players and DMs!
    I've been having difficulties with a couple particular players and trying to reign in their character ideas to be both more setting-appropriate and system-appropriate.
    But I do appreciate the amount of responsibility I as the DM have in facilitating this, with onboarding and using effective communication.
    Remember, creativity within constraints is paradoxically even better than creativity with no boundaries! I think this was a paraphrase from Sid Mead, the mentor of my design professor in university.

  • @paragon7554
    @paragon7554 Месяц назад +2

    That coffee table book would be great, you should definitely do that.

  • @Corsicade
    @Corsicade Месяц назад +1

    Style is knowing what kind of play you’re in.” - Sir John Gielgud.
    I think this video is a really good breakdown and illustration of this quote ... with 'play' being replaced by 'game' or 'table', of course

  • @Will_Forge
    @Will_Forge Месяц назад +1

    Man, Letter zines are news to me, and that's so cool. They were like analogue social media forums. Sounds dope!

  • @pawsen9
    @pawsen9 Месяц назад +3

    The best DM-teacher is back with another banger. Love it

  • @legendzero6755
    @legendzero6755 Месяц назад +1

    If your RPG book has an advice section, this should definitely be in it. It's an excellent consolidation of the what truly matters. Even as I was watching I was thinking back on games that went poorly or went well that line up with characters both fitting into the game rules and fitting into the vibe of the table.
    I think some of us in the TTRPG community are definitely hesitant to draw hard boundaries for what player characters look like. Nobody wants to be the bad game master who forces everyone to live out the GM's fantasy rather than the player's, stealing away all agency. But not helping to "edit" a character created by the player, or failing to communicate the boundaries of what will make for a fun choice, is also a form of negligence.
    I started TTRPGs after the Running the Game series, but a lot of this advice rings even more true after expanding out to several other games in the past few years. Looking forward to adding Draw Steel to that list.

  • @ouroboros_1355
    @ouroboros_1355 Месяц назад +3

    People outside of my table often find weird that I restrict races in my games, but when I told my players that Humans were extinct in my setting, and they had to choose as a team 1 of 4 kingdoms which all had different race restrictions (whose only overlap was Half-elf) they all jumped and made appropriate characters

  • @Nclnl
    @Nclnl Месяц назад

    Always excited to see a video from Matt Colville!

  • @johnwyatt2555
    @johnwyatt2555 Месяц назад

    Matt, YOU should publish a coffee table art book of old, hand drawn dungeons and fantasy art. You have enough of an audience, reach, and network to simply put out the call for submissions. Hundreds, if not thousands, would be happy to dig up their old ring binders and folders. It would be a great project and homage to the homegrown nature of the hobby!

  • @ThorBlevins
    @ThorBlevins Месяц назад

    Matt I just finished a campaign I ran for 5 years and your advice was incredibly helpful, and this video comes right at the time I'm handing the DM Mantle off to one of the players so it isnquite serendipitous. Thanks for all the support you've shown the hobby

  • @Akasen1226
    @Akasen1226 Месяц назад

    I honestly think this right here is probably the most important video you have released Matt.
    By coincidence, I had written a document earlier this year that I might need to rewrite and link this video.
    The core idea of the document was to put my foot down from the get go to a prospective player and current players that I as the GM have strong ideas of the kind of game I want to run, that saying yes to ideas I am not comfortable with will certainly spell an early death to the game being ran, and then detail to my players the tools to be deployed to make sure we are on the same page. Those being a one page handout about the game, the idea of a three character pitch, and finally a one page backstory (no minimum word count, so a player is justified in just saying "I swing axe good").
    A concern I had in recent years running D&D/PF was that I had slowly been developing a homebrew fantasy setting, with its own gods, countries, history, and more. However, I realized pretty quickly that there are those who assume that what is in the book is gospel or they had not considered the possibility there was more to D&D than the Forgotten Realms. That me saying that "half-orcs live as long as humans" (or something similar) is some change to inherent lore. It of course isn't, I just had a player who I believe just had not fully considered the nature of such statistics.
    As an aside, when it comes to the homebrew setting details of someones fantasy world, there is a huge vulnerability that the GM is putting out there for others to step upon. To have even the smallest detail of these worlds rejected can be a small stab wound to the heart. Furthermore, having a player clearly enthused about some fantasy race they'd seen in official material and say "No" to them about this choice can feel like I am being a burden to someones fun.
    I will end this off with a story from this year:
    I was talking about the campaign we were doing and giving some reflections on it to my players in a post-session chat. It is six or so months into this game and a player of mine heard me say that I didn't think Craft checks would be all that useful in this game due to the internal logic of the system at the time and how I was running the game currently (Pathfinder 2e craft checks at the time assumed you'd be crafting items over the course of days).
    Upon hearing this, the player chose to make a new character and work with me on how to introduce them in the ongoing plot. It went about smoothly, and his new character by all means was a more fitting character. However in hindsight, I think had I worked with the player more with making this character that could have been avoided. Especially since it was SIX MONTHS IN this player realized "Oh, this isn't going to work". Do not ask why it took them six months and me pointing this one bit out for them to conclude this was a problem warranting making a new character.
    A takeaway I have had from my experience, that I have avoided for the longest time, is that a proper Session 0 probably does need to be had if only for the sake of just going over and verbally discussing the points in the one pager (and unspoken parts), fielding and answering questions, and so forth. I play online with people who, while I think they are fantastic players, make me question how effective even an expertly crafted document with large font and a word count less than 500 is for conveying the most important points of a game

  • @sonder_ua
    @sonder_ua Месяц назад +1

    «You don't have to watch all of my videos or any of them»
    Man, it's too late. I've watched them all. And will watch all of them every year again. It's like a Bible :)

  • @johnreiland9180
    @johnreiland9180 Месяц назад +1

    Perhaps the most insightful videos in quite awhile. This really lights a fire in me, I want to play DND again now. Maybe try DM-ing.

  • @shield_rat221
    @shield_rat221 Месяц назад

    One thing about making the "opposite" to the party is that if you do it right you can have your character be a foil others can interact with. I'm currently playing a campaign with a greek like setting where the party are heroes, so i made an insecure person whose lineage was tarnish by the titans (*in the eeeend*) of the setting to live in misery. not only does this change the way we interact with NPCs (especially cultists) but it also generates some tension and roleplay scenes where i can get other players involved, so we're having a blast). I think it's all about how you interact with the other players and being able to work with the DM to make something interesting that fits the scenario, but still feels like a character you want to play.
    Another thing i would add is to consider how the character's mechanics reflect their background. In this example i made her a hyper agressive fighter with intentions of going hexblade. They would 100% accept any offering of power , use any equipment at their disposal and try to finish things off as fast as possible out of despair, and be very reckless in the process, giving the party opportunities to aid them in and out of combat for being vulnerable, and seeing the party do so is part of the process of them bonding together more. Planning out weaknesses in the character can also make them more fun to play, since as Colville said, limitations can force creativity.

  • @squeakandsquawkinc.2330
    @squeakandsquawkinc.2330 Месяц назад

    We talk about this stuff every darn day dude... This is the good stuff Matt, more than any stat block, more than any how to do 600 dmg at 5th level, our community needs this, and I appreciate you being a sherpa.

  • @user-mp5lb7sh5r
    @user-mp5lb7sh5r Месяц назад

    Loved how you put it, a gauge of creativity/self-expression is the extent of exploration within that boundary of the lore of worldbuilding. May you players and DMs out there have fun while collaborating!👍

  • @fantasticfedoraman6537
    @fantasticfedoraman6537 Месяц назад +4

    “Short video” after the last is funny

  • @theaverageglasses6197
    @theaverageglasses6197 Месяц назад

    The fact that you make these criminally good advice videos in a length, that I can foist upon most any player, is really a gift that we cannot appreciate enough.

  • @stevey1263
    @stevey1263 27 дней назад

    So I just had my first kid, at the baby shower we put out slips saying what traits they hope the baby takes from either of us. One of my players said my creativity. I never thought of myself as a creative person at all; so thank you Matthew Colville for reminding me us we are all creative.

  • @aidanmoore4214
    @aidanmoore4214 Месяц назад

    I found Matt after DMing for a few months with no idea what I was doing. I learned a lot through roughing it or seminars with my friends about the game. But as soon as I found this channel I knew I had struck gold. I spent a whole summer catching up on years of content and I’ve never looked back. Thank you wise Mr. Colville. You should make videos about your general wisdom too, a good storyteller needs to tell his stories!

  • @j3gum
    @j3gum 26 дней назад

    Thanks, it's good to hear from Uncle Matt.

  • @planarlucille
    @planarlucille Месяц назад +1

    SO EXCITED TO CHECK OUT THE ELUSIVE SHIFT NOW

  • @arthurbarelli3315
    @arthurbarelli3315 Месяц назад

    This is the best Roleplaying Advice video I've seen.
    I think I've watched every single Matthew Colville video, (and from many other channels) and there are a few I keep on hand to send to players whenever we're starting for inspiration/mindset. I don't believe in mandatory reading/watching, but if I did, this would be it.

  • @seanleclerc9666
    @seanleclerc9666 Месяц назад +1

    Loved the gauntlet reference!!! 😂 14:45

  • @jeremiahpointer1299
    @jeremiahpointer1299 Месяц назад

    Thanks Matt, been loving your videos since 2019. I do appreciate your thesis. I have often told people I consider new to the game that the elevator pitch they might have heard about RPGs or D&D in general is fundamentally wrong. No, you cannot do everything or anything you want. Restrictions are not only good but necessary. I often then say when I am running a game I will construct a box for your to play in, but that box has boundaries. No dragonborn, no warforged, no monks or what have you. No Leomund's Tiny Hut or Hexblade Warlocks. No explicitly evil PCs and all that jazz. But, once you have you character you can attempt to do what ever is fitting within those boundaries and the milieu of the game.

  • @Treglar_Shadowleaf_XJ9
    @Treglar_Shadowleaf_XJ9 Месяц назад +1

    I love the reference to Gauntlet. That 'damn box' stole hundreds of dollars in quarters from me when I was younger!😉

  • @zackb6102
    @zackb6102 Месяц назад

    I’m sure people appreciate the shorter videos and I’m glad you’re working toward videos that you are proud of. However, the little side notes and small tangents in the videos are artifacts of your personality that seep through the internet barrier. I for one really enjoy them

  • @RobertBilodeauVA
    @RobertBilodeauVA Месяц назад +1

    Three comments, for three things that need to be true!
    1) God, I absolutely agree on Tip 1: build AROUND the events/details/adventure, and the game system itself. Inspiration can strike all the same! I think I've got to do a bit more of it myself; get less neurotic about spell lists, keywords and such for my characters.
    2) Thank you for letting people know it's okay, and preferrably for me at least, to have a short 'pitch page' for their setting. I'll check out the 50 page google drive doc later...eventually...if I have to make knowledge checks.
    3) Appealing to other players has thankfully been my strongest suit. I weigh my success by how much my friends laugh at my antics. That said I'm absolutely the only "does the voice" guy!
    Bonus) I'll take a look for the Elusive shift! (I like reading TTRPG related books for my vocal warm ups)

  • @romantheflash
    @romantheflash Месяц назад

    Great video Matt, creating characters for the game is so important. Best games I have had were where everyone bought into the game I was running.

  • @liammackey961
    @liammackey961 Месяц назад

    Haven’t been in the TTRPG scene for a while and coming back to watch a Colville video reminds me how much I love the way you do stuff here! Best info up front, take what works best attitude and great storytelling. Gets me excited to run a game again!

  • @bfett3773
    @bfett3773 Месяц назад

    This series has been infinity useful to our running game. I could use some tips to make playing online more engaging.

  • @howirunit2033
    @howirunit2033 Месяц назад +1

    Ah! The fairly straightforward and obvious advice that took me a decade and a half of playing/running D&D to understand and internalize. Good video!

  • @jamestaylor3805
    @jamestaylor3805 Месяц назад

    Paused at the mention of your 3 items to make a good PC because I too actually have a 3 point process and want to share prior to watching and have no idea what you're about to say.
    1. A motivation for why they're willing to risk their lives in such extreme ways. I'll accept simple reasons like 'to feel alive' or 'wealth' as easily as something more long winded. This is an internal mechanism of the character that is now on the players mind as they play.
    2. I don't care about using accent at the table, but I want every character to have two common phrases, sayings, or proverbs the character is likely to say when appropriate(or not). 'A stitch in time saves nine,' and 'keep your eyes on the horizon' can show a character's general desire for preredness or that they have a maritime background of repairing nets and sailing the seas. This is an external mechanism of the character and can give insight about them to everyone at the table.
    3. An ideal, a behavior the character will resent themselves for betraying. Some would resent themselves for stealing from anyone while others will resent not taking the easy opportunity to enrich themselves. This is a mixed internal and external mechanism for embracing who a character is and may be the best way I have found for trying to encapsulate a characters "alignment".
    If you think through these three things about any character you are creating you will learn a lot more about how to portray them in most situations.
    Example...
    A character who risks their lives because they struggle with feeling worthless, that is prone to saying things like "when pigs fly" and "let's just get this over with", and would resent not taking the opportunity to enjoy what scant moments which could have been enjoyed.
    One could take this to lean into an almost Spicoli (Fast Times) long abused but just going with it type of character or even a Ross(Friends) sort of pessimistic and nuerotic character. Either way your formed more of the character in your minds eye.