There is a classic episode of “The King of Queens” that shows EXACTY how to handle this situation 😂 what you need to do is when your girl leaves the room while the other couple is there you gotta just do some weird ass shit like force them to pet your belly hair 😂😂😂
@@Juviefrmda99 What's 'supergay' for you? Are you referring to a cock quota? If so, what numbers should one be aiming for? You know, since you brought it up.
Not hard to say “hey why don’t you girls just go out and get drinks and I’ll do some laundry and clean up?” Or something like that. Or even “hey, I kind of just wanted to stay in this weekend if you and neighbor lady wanna go out for dinner or drinks I could pick you up later?”
@@justin_samplehonestly, I think neighbor guy is the real problem. He needs to be sent subtle but firm signals that he likes him cordially but that he doesn’t make him a priority in his life. It’s hard, but doable.
You need to create a fake instagram profile and trap the dude in an online affair. Then have that profile rat him out. When your wife brings up the drama- you simply advise that you had bad vibes from the start and y’all shouldn’t associate with him if that’s the kind of guy he is.
She is so right! I know what the guy feels bc I socialize at my job all day and it's tough to keep that energy. It gets only harder the older you get too.
I don’t get when people ask questions like this because I’m so blunt with my partners. If I didn’t like these friends my bf wanted to hang out with all the time, I’d tell him that. I wouldn’t go on a podcast to get advice
My wife used to be on this type of stuff at the tail end of college talking about “ creating memories” I’m like baby these motherfuckers is fake “Baby listen They only all talk cause they on the same team they don’t even study together babe” 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ I’m sorry I don’t have time to stand around awkward for your bullshit(not her the other participants)😂😂😂
I keep my neighbors at arms length. I’ll be friendly to you when we see each other outside but we don’t have to be friends like that. I know some people who have become best friends with their neighbors and it looks exhausting. I wouldn’t even want to live in the same neighborhood as my best friends because I don’t need that kind of contact 24/7
Being friends with your neighbors is awesome tbh cause it kinda integrates into your life you don’t really have to go out of your way to keep up that friendship. Plus who else is going to bum you smokes and weed when it’s late asf or you’re too drunk to drive
It can lead to a lot of little great things, man - Hanging out with your buddies, right next door - You can barrow equipment from 'em to make DIY easier -babysitting their kid, if you're like me and enjoy that sort of thing.- Sorry, I dunno It can be rewarding, for some! Edit: I didn't even watch the clip, lol. What am I talking about
I will never miss this, so many awkward nights and feeling unfulfilled going back into the work week. Relationships have a way of fucking you over from time to time
It's interesting that this dude, in reference to his girlfriend wanting to get her boyfriend to hang with the neighbors, refers to it wanting to get her social batteries 'drained' as opposed to 'charged.'
You listened to this clip where a guy talks about how he’s been doing something to make his wife happy that he doesn’t really want to do, and took from it that this guy might be controlling?… the drained comment just means hanging out with these ppl is the main social interaction his girlfriend has so she “needs” it. He said he socializes at work all day so doesn’t need the additional social interaction.
my college boyfriend would flatter me out of evenings out with my (annoying to him) friends all the time... "babe i was really hoping it could just be us tonight, let me take you out." would probably get him out of 2 saturdays a month.
Shout out to my wife who is able to have friends that aren’t mine and how she is chill and doesn’t mind that I have a social life outside of her and I.
Stavvy and Sydnee missed this callers point. It's not even purely the double dates anymore. He said his gf gave out his number and the guy hits him up and the gf wants him to be friendly to not ruin her new friendship. SO her having girls night doesn't fix the fact the neighbor guy is texting him to hangout and it's hard to like when your neighbors lol
Every weekend is nuts. If she's hanging out with them while youre working you may want to find out if she's sleeping with them too. Might not like the answer.
Nothing is more annoying than people who try to force friendships to happen. Its okay to be friendly neighbors that hang out once in a while. That’s a good thing. But like besties, every week? HELL NO. This is usually an immature woman type of thing. Real friendships are rare. Having a real connection and comfort with another human being, is rare. The days of traveling with 12 friends and there being 8 fights during the week are over. We’re not 21 anymore. We all realize that most of us were just people that knew each other, and not actually friends. Bro, you have to talk to her. Explain that they are okay with you, but just okay. Plan something just you and your woman. Plan something just you. Say no sometimes. Say yes sometimes. That shouldn’t be weird or unacceptable.
Its all about communication between him and his girl, like 99% of all solutions to problems in relationships. Hes gotta talk to his girl and let her know hes not comfortable going every weekend to hang out, that hes not as interested in hanging out with the neighbors husband as she is the neighbors wife. Theres no written social rules that states she cant go hang out with the neighbors wife without him, given that they trust the neighbors vibes. Since the wife is divulging this dudes info without his consent(his number to the neighbors husband), she can divulge that he works a lot and is just tired, or that hes an introvert and its overwhelming for his 'tism, whatever. But the dude should be empathetic to his wife being lonely and should make an effort to either hang out every other week, or see if he cant again, talk with his girl, and see what interests she has that can be explored where they moved. Hobby groups, clubs, theres so much more shit for women to do than men when it comes to social hobbies. Its lazy for him to just be like "I wanna watch Saturday college ball", yes, you can actually have your cake and eat it too, if you just communicated with your girl!!!
😂 evey weekend is so wild. Like when are you doing normal house chores and actually maintaining your home if you work all week. if the gf ain't going to work i think she needs to be
You're a damn adult, you do NOT have to see her friends nor do you have to like or get along with them. Stav your takes over the last few podcasts have been whack lol
Do you think everyone in Alabama lives in the woods or some shit?? Eldis, its a great place thats beautiful. Yeah most people kinda suck but name a place qhere they don't. Sorry. Hurt my Alabama love.
- wool socks to sleep - Sydney finer than a mf - this dudes just needs to do some out of pocket shit. Like figure out where they stand on abortion and go on a deranged rant on the opposite side
Literally just tell her exactly what you are asking this comedian. Saying you don’t like people she likes is not a major problem in a healthy relationship.
Tell them about OJ Simpson’s stats in the NFL and how it excuses his behavior.
Problem solved.
It's Alabama. He has to go the woke route.
Who’s to say those girls didn’t like what R. Kelly was doing to them.
Who’s not to say that Michael Jackson didn’t dance amazing and kinda overpowers the allegations
“I voted for Kamala”. Problem solved.
@@mrage22r”I think trans women should play in women’s sports.”
I love how many people call stab for legitimate advice on relationships and life and assume he has the answer😂 stav is omnipotent
No just a leftist.
To be fair, Stav does (sometimes) give great advice
@ wtf are you idiots talking about. He gives great advice.
The dude is very sensitive, probably because of having a great relationship with his mother.
just wait til his ankles heals from that basketball game 7 years ago, he’ll start taking his own advice!!
Should be able to tell his wife that he doesn't like that guy
It’s really that simple
Yea. Who cares. Just say you're tired and not into it. Nbd
Yea idk why he doesn’t just tell her, if y’all can’t work something that simple out then your relationship just isn’t going to work
I love how Sydnee’s advice can be both reasonable and complete chaos
There is a classic episode of “The King of Queens” that shows EXACTY how to handle this situation 😂 what you need to do is when your girl leaves the room while the other couple is there you gotta just do some weird ass shit like force them to pet your belly hair 😂😂😂
Exactly what I was thinking 😂
Watch out. They may be into that. The three of them may already be banging on the side and trying to figure out a way to involve him.
I've got this clip on repeat. Something about Snydee Washington's energy really works for me.
Same 😹 no nonsense but super chill
She’s dumb as hell
This comment was super gay 😂😂😂😂
@@Juviefrmda99 What's 'supergay' for you? Are you referring to a cock quota? If so, what numbers should one be aiming for?
You know, since you brought it up.
Never heard of her before this but she was killing it. Get her on here more
Not hard to say “hey why don’t you girls just go out and get drinks and I’ll do some laundry and clean up?” Or something like that. Or even “hey, I kind of just wanted to stay in this weekend if you and neighbor lady wanna go out for dinner or drinks I could pick you up later?”
Am sorry but common sense advice has no place in this comment section 💀
@ sorry you’re probably right.
Overbearing girlfriend. He needs to set a boundary clearly
@@justin_samplehonestly, I think neighbor guy is the real problem. He needs to be sent subtle but firm signals that he likes him cordially but that he doesn’t make him a priority in his life. It’s hard, but doable.
Gotta set boundaries
You need to create a fake instagram profile and trap the dude in an online affair. Then have that profile rat him out. When your wife brings up the drama- you simply advise that you had bad vibes from the start and y’all shouldn’t associate with him if that’s the kind of guy he is.
Lol, my BEST FRIEND wants to hang out once a week, and that's a lot for me. Giving your whole Saturday to a stranger? Nah
She is so right! I know what the guy feels bc I socialize at my job all day and it's tough to keep that energy. It gets only harder the older you get too.
I feel this caller fr.
I do NOT do guy play dates at all. I cant. It doesn't work. Ladies, stop pushing your men into these things.
💯
sounds gay
What ladies? Theres like 3 chicks watch this show.
As a woman neither do i
I don’t get when people ask questions like this because I’m so blunt with my partners. If I didn’t like these friends my bf wanted to hang out with all the time, I’d tell him that. I wouldn’t go on a podcast to get advice
Facts, people are weird😅😅🤣
My wife used to be on this type of stuff at the tail end of college talking about “ creating memories” I’m like baby these motherfuckers is fake “Baby listen They only all talk cause they on the same team they don’t even study together babe” 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ I’m sorry I don’t have time to stand around awkward for your bullshit(not her the other participants)😂😂😂
I keep my neighbors at arms length. I’ll be friendly to you when we see each other outside but we don’t have to be friends like that. I know some people who have become best friends with their neighbors and it looks exhausting. I wouldn’t even want to live in the same neighborhood as my best friends because I don’t need that kind of contact 24/7
Being friends with your neighbors is awesome tbh cause it kinda integrates into your life you don’t really have to go out of your way to keep up that friendship. Plus who else is going to bum you smokes and weed when it’s late asf or you’re too drunk to drive
Yea. Also if anything goes wrong they know all your most personal info and habits etc. Never a good idea.
It can lead to a lot of little great things, man
- Hanging out with your buddies, right next door
- You can barrow equipment from 'em to make DIY easier
-babysitting their kid, if you're like me and enjoy that sort of thing.- Sorry, I dunno It can be rewarding, for some!
Edit: I didn't even watch the clip, lol. What am I talking about
I will never miss this, so many awkward nights and feeling unfulfilled going back into the work week. Relationships have a way of fucking you over from time to time
When Sydnee said "Oh, you gotta leave her!" 😍
thank you god for answering my prayers!!!! i LOVE seeing sydnee on the pod YIPPEE!!!!!
It's interesting that this dude, in reference to his girlfriend wanting to get her boyfriend to hang with the neighbors, refers to it wanting to get her social batteries 'drained' as opposed to 'charged.'
Introvert type shii
Drained makes more sense
@@michaelpacinus242 It's just the idea that it sounds like this dude might be a bit controlling.
@@michaelpacinus242 Does it though? 'Draining' something, unless we're talking about a toilet that's clogged or a cyst, is rarely a good thing.
You listened to this clip where a guy talks about how he’s been doing something to make his wife happy that he doesn’t really want to do, and took from it that this guy might be controlling?… the drained comment just means hanging out with these ppl is the main social interaction his girlfriend has so she “needs” it. He said he socializes at work all day so doesn’t need the additional social interaction.
Go talk to the dude. He's probably doing it for the same exact reason, trying to please your girl.
this is a good suggestions
he literally got the number and texte dlmao
This is a great dynamic, I love Sidney’s co hosting
my college boyfriend would flatter me out of evenings out with my (annoying to him) friends all the time... "babe i was really hoping it could just be us tonight, let me take you out." would probably get him out of 2 saturdays a month.
Sydnee is a top tier guest
Top tier rack. Those are some heavy heathens.
"just leave her" yooo I haven't laughed that hard in like 3-4 days 🤣
Shout out to my wife who is able to have friends that aren’t mine and how she is chill and doesn’t mind that I have a social life outside of her and I.
“I’m glad they make you happy, I don’t wanna see this mf” hit me in my soul 💀💀
Stavvy and Sydnee missed this callers point. It's not even purely the double dates anymore. He said his gf gave out his number and the guy hits him up and the gf wants him to be friendly to not ruin her new friendship. SO her having girls night doesn't fix the fact the neighbor guy is texting him to hangout and it's hard to like when your neighbors lol
If stav called me baby girl I would fold immediately
same
Sydnee is awesome 🎉🎉🎉
the end of that call was gold Lmafo
What's the guest's @?
@justsydbw
@ justsydbw
Give the man back his college football Saturdays
Lol when she said get a hobby i was like, is that why old dudes used to like build mini ships inside bottles lol
Be honest with your girl or dumo her.
Is this one on patreon? I need more 😂
now this my kinda people lmfao chillest call in a while😂
Love to see Shane Gillis on this pod 😂❤
Tell them that you are swingers and REALLY into spending more time with them, when your gf is not around.
Sydnee there's something about her.
Every weekend is nuts. If she's hanging out with them while youre working you may want to find out if she's sleeping with them too. Might not like the answer.
In other cultures like france you dont socialize with neighbors. Just the cordial salute when needed.
Avoids issues.
Nothing is more annoying than people who try to force friendships to happen. Its okay to be friendly neighbors that hang out once in a while. That’s a good thing. But like besties, every week? HELL NO. This is usually an immature woman type of thing. Real friendships are rare. Having a real connection and comfort with another human being, is rare. The days of traveling with 12 friends and there being 8 fights during the week are over. We’re not 21 anymore. We all realize that most of us were just people that knew each other, and not actually friends.
Bro, you have to talk to her. Explain that they are okay with you, but just okay. Plan something just you and your woman. Plan something just you. Say no sometimes. Say yes sometimes. That shouldn’t be weird or unacceptable.
Is it he doesn’t want to hang out every week and wants to rest. Or is it because he doesn’t like the neighbor.
Stav's set is big Greek restaurant vibes
Where’s the episode with Sydnee, I don’t see it on the videos list ?
It might be a Patreon episode
Its all about communication between him and his girl, like 99% of all solutions to problems in relationships. Hes gotta talk to his girl and let her know hes not comfortable going every weekend to hang out, that hes not as interested in hanging out with the neighbors husband as she is the neighbors wife. Theres no written social rules that states she cant go hang out with the neighbors wife without him, given that they trust the neighbors vibes. Since the wife is divulging this dudes info without his consent(his number to the neighbors husband), she can divulge that he works a lot and is just tired, or that hes an introvert and its overwhelming for his 'tism, whatever. But the dude should be empathetic to his wife being lonely and should make an effort to either hang out every other week, or see if he cant again, talk with his girl, and see what interests she has that can be explored where they moved. Hobby groups, clubs, theres so much more shit for women to do than men when it comes to social hobbies. Its lazy for him to just be like "I wanna watch Saturday college ball", yes, you can actually have your cake and eat it too, if you just communicated with your girl!!!
Become a hardcore racist that way most people will leave you alone
Not in Alabama 😂
Yeah there's no black people in Alabama
Facts
Not around racist white people lmao
I have found this is the fastest way to stop getting group chatted.
this dude let's his girl run his life 😂
I’ve got an amazing question, but i’m not sure when to call in?? i have the number saved
I think you just call in and leave a voicemail
Never meet your neighbors
Just make the friend watch football with him while the girlfriends do something else and act crazy 😂
She needs to start respecting the sanctity of college football saturdays
I never thought I was going to be that commenter, but damn she is fine!
"Take your bitch down, brother." "That's the answer." [CUE MUSIC]
Sydnee ily
😂 evey weekend is so wild. Like when are you doing normal house chores and actually maintaining your home if you work all week. if the gf ain't going to work i think she needs to be
Make them come watch football instead of you going there
Just ask her for some weekend alone atbthr crib
Hey maybe the guys can do football Saturday with the beers and shit and the girls can go do something else
how do you only have 50K followers? Such a legend, people need to wake up lol
That's just the clips channel
You're a damn adult, you do NOT have to see her friends nor do you have to like or get along with them. Stav your takes over the last few podcasts have been whack lol
Do you think everyone in Alabama lives in the woods or some shit?? Eldis, its a great place thats beautiful. Yeah most people kinda suck but name a place qhere they don't.
Sorry. Hurt my Alabama love.
socks to bed = best sleep possible , if you say no and havent tried that makes no sense cuz your experience is the base 😂😂🎉🎉😢😢😮
I tried it for one night and now I have tuberculosis. Thanks a lot for the false advertising, pal!
@@HjaelteomslagYeah, socks to bed gave me herpes!
- wool socks to sleep
- Sydney finer than a mf
- this dudes just needs to do some out of pocket shit.
Like figure out where they stand on abortion and go on a deranged rant on the opposite side
1st again!!!😊
This lady has a bad logic chip. The guest
Worst guest in a while
Sounds like his gf wants to hang with the bf of the other couple.
The accent says that the people in his community are pretty upset about the coal mine closing
@@harrybirchall3308 do you also overly annunciate words that are more than 2 syllables?
@@ANobleRabbit This comment says that OP has binged on prescription antidepressants at one point in their life
@@jingbot1071 that's average southerner behavior
@@ANobleRabbit Same dif at this point. Brain damage comes out the same
@@jingbot1071 agreed, however southerners are the ones getting taxpayers to subsidize their laziness, and fentanyl
Never EVER take advice from a single black woman … like EVERRRRRRRR😂😂😂😂😂
Or someone who uses a lot of emojis in their response
The single white men though, that’s where the best advice is amirite?
Literally just tell her exactly what you are asking this comedian. Saying you don’t like people she likes is not a major problem in a healthy relationship.