The Ultimatum Game | The Science of Empathy

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2017
  • Julian is back with an all new season of The Science of Empathy! Twenty dollars is a lot of money...well, maybe not that much. But how much of that money would you be willing to share with another person? How would they feel if they were your spouse, cousin or maybe even a total stranger? On the premiere episode of The Science of Empathy, we investigate the ability to feel what others are feeling with a little game. We gathered strangers, couples, friends, and family alike for our premiere experiment in the Science of Empathy. What cut of the twenty dollars would you give away, when you consider someone else’s feelings?
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  • @towhatdegree
    @towhatdegree 6 лет назад +478

    I'm really suprised more people didn't just give 10 dollars it seems like the most straight forward thing to do.

    • @elyranch1902
      @elyranch1902 6 лет назад +5

      Yeah I feel the same, I don't understand how people had to think about it at all... If I was with the person, I'd give them all of it, cause "what's mine is yours" and I share money in my relationships anyway. If it was a stranger, or someone I'm not close to, I'd have given $10, we're both getting the same amount, why not??

    • @allanfaigao4677
      @allanfaigao4677 4 года назад +5

      Splitting $20 is easy. Now make it $20 million and things will get interesting.

    • @SpokenStuff
      @SpokenStuff 4 года назад

      @@allanfaigao4677 that`s a very good point you are making. How would the amount at stake change the dynamics? I can imagine that for those couples that are wildly in love with each other (like those two girls) the amount would not change anything. You could probably put $2 billion on the table, and the result would be the same. However, if a relationship is driven by reason, tactics, powerplays ... the results could be vastly different and highly unpredictable, I guess.

  • @amimusic3
    @amimusic3 6 лет назад +382

    I'm really surprised more people didn't just split the money 50/50. That was my immediate reaction.

    • @lewisclark978
      @lewisclark978 6 лет назад

      Ibno Zizou gay

    • @armadilloalien854
      @armadilloalien854 6 лет назад +1

      Same

    • @InternetMameluq
      @InternetMameluq 5 лет назад

      That's what I think too, but then I decided it's against the spirit of the excercise... it's an ultimatum, not a comprimise.
      In that vein, I'd offer 8 dollars. Extracting as much as I can while being sure that the offer is palatable.

    • @SpokenStuff
      @SpokenStuff 4 года назад +1

      @@InternetMameluq I don't think it's against the spirit of the exercise. You can offer literally any amount that would be satisfactory to the other person and that is $0 to $20. My first thought was, that if I sat at the table, I'd probably go with 10/10 because it's fair for both sides and thus easy to accept. The variety of results came as a surprise to me, quite frankly.

    • @InternetMameluq
      @InternetMameluq 4 года назад

      @@SpokenStuff That's not an ultimatum though, an ultimatum is unfair.

  • @supashyarc
    @supashyarc 6 лет назад +325

    *The old couple is so loving & adorable*

  • @nolitimeremessorem
    @nolitimeremessorem 6 лет назад +112

    This is actually an exercise in game theory that shows that we aren't purely rational beings. A purely rational person would accept any offer because you're better off with even just one dollar compared to nothing. I guess it's our sense of justice/fairness that tells us not to accept an offer we perceive as unfair even if it is objectively worse for us.

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +12

      Wow, very compelling perspective! Thank you for sharing!!

    • @PheonxD
      @PheonxD 6 лет назад

      Yes! We have a lot of human biases while negotiating and most times we just go with our gut feeling rather than rational thinking. And that's why maybe some day humans will be replaced by negotiating AI.

    • @k.a.3614
      @k.a.3614 6 лет назад +3

      Meg Guzman but on the other hand, if we meet this person again they will remember that they can't do what they want with us. That might benefit us in the future.

    • @PandaLilyZK
      @PandaLilyZK 6 лет назад +1

      My thoughts exactly. Those cousins were illogical. Also, how do you not like your cousin enough to split it 50/50? That's family, man.

  • @ninhbac04
    @ninhbac04 6 лет назад +112

    I don't understand why people just don't offer an even amount. anything less is infair

    • @swisscorn
      @swisscorn 6 лет назад +5

      Especially between strangers. If it's between friends, it might pass off as a joke but if it's just strangers, that's 100% greed.

  • @leatherback8
    @leatherback8 6 лет назад +224

    Wow, amazing to see such different reactions! And that couple who gave all 20 is so beautiful, nearly made me cry too. Both couples were very sweet actually

    • @dinofearme1
      @dinofearme1 6 лет назад +5

      I almost cried too

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 6 лет назад

      Nearly. Well I guess someone was cutting onions around me as I was bawling.

  • @AisforAesthetic
    @AisforAesthetic 6 лет назад +32

    I MISSED THIS SERIES!

  • @kadiren11
    @kadiren11 6 лет назад +81

    The lesbian couple needs their own show, they are SO CUTE!!!

  • @esomoi7197
    @esomoi7197 6 лет назад +424

    I want a love like that lesbian couple's

  • @jillfinkel
    @jillfinkel 6 лет назад +4

    "That's my baby; I'll give her... anything." I'm crying at the love in her voice.

  • @guywittamic
    @guywittamic 6 лет назад +10

    That younger married couple though!!! So sweet!

  • @sonjasimmonds9221
    @sonjasimmonds9221 6 лет назад +27

    What happened too equal shares?

  • @sk8rgirlo
    @sk8rgirlo 6 лет назад +67

    Relationship goals: newlywed lesbians!

  • @B.Christine_W222
    @B.Christine_W222 6 лет назад +46

    The Libra is always about balance 🤗

    • @lilyzemengist8091
      @lilyzemengist8091 6 лет назад +2

      B. Christine
      I'm a ♊ and I would have done exactly the same. The guy in the blue and the cousins are just wrong in my opinion.

  • @HaleKelsey1
    @HaleKelsey1 6 лет назад +11

    I MISSED THIS SHOW SO MUCH

  • @silverbracelet6
    @silverbracelet6 6 лет назад +69

    I would easily give my partner all the money because they gonna buy me dinner! 😂

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +9

      that's definitely one way to look at it! 😂

    • @TriciawiththeTRUTH
      @TriciawiththeTRUTH 6 лет назад +2

      Agreed!!!

    • @ThePolaris07
      @ThePolaris07 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @krautfroggy
      @krautfroggy 4 года назад

      You should have put a full stop, or period if you prefer, after the word money - and delete the rest of your comment. ;-)

  • @ladylionXOX
    @ladylionXOX 6 лет назад

    The young couple literally broke my heart from all the feels!!!! WAY TOO ADORABLE!!!!

  • @nontaliemorrow
    @nontaliemorrow 6 лет назад +15

    This activity is actually an example of game theory which is more or less about rational/strategic decision making. I could see how it could potentially be related to empathy, but I don't think it's that tightly related. I was also hoping Julian would mention that empathy is different from sympathy because empathy means you are able to share in a person's feelings because you have experienced the same (or similar) thing that they currently are, while sympathy means you can be supportive/compassionate, but you can't exactly understand their feelings because you have not had that experience. Both are good to practice, but I think it's an important distinction to make.

  • @GabrielEze
    @GabrielEze 6 лет назад +1

    such a fine episode. beautiful and gratifying insight.

  • @TriciawiththeTRUTH
    @TriciawiththeTRUTH 6 лет назад

    Julian! I love how you break facts down with such a caring and yet unbiased attitude. We definitely need more videos with you breaking awesome science down brotha!!! Peace, love, light and happiness to you and all the other Soul Pancakers :-D

  • @mafeduor
    @mafeduor 6 лет назад +1

    I missed these videos so much

  • @dylab5051
    @dylab5051 6 лет назад +3

    I love this style of video so much!

  • @oliviapendergast1
    @oliviapendergast1 5 лет назад

    I can't imagine keeping any of it unless I was literally hungry and had absolutely NO money!! You could make someones day for a lousy $20. Are we all really so starved for a few bucks? We all see how beautiful it was when the one woman gave her Love the whole amount... Nicely done.

  • @neri4949
    @neri4949 6 лет назад +1

    Omg yesssss I love those series ! So happy you created a new one 😍✌🏻

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +2

      and we're so happy you love it just as much as we loved making it!

  • @Krisberg00
    @Krisberg00 6 лет назад +1

    LOVED this!

  • @thebookishkhmerican4303
    @thebookishkhmerican4303 6 лет назад

    Julian! Your back! I love your "Science of ---" series! 😄👍

  • @Ninaful
    @Ninaful 6 лет назад

    i love this series so much

  • @Faith-bx4ux
    @Faith-bx4ux 6 лет назад

    I'm sooo happy you're back again!

  • @gerardoaguilera4689
    @gerardoaguilera4689 6 лет назад +1

    I LOVE THIS !!

  • @Lisa84542
    @Lisa84542 6 лет назад +1

    Love that Julian is back! :)

  • @elisabeththomas9272
    @elisabeththomas9272 6 лет назад +1

    This is so awesome. 😄❤

  • @Fin-Land
    @Fin-Land 6 лет назад

    That was beautiful, both those couples who shared more with others

  • @caoimheevans9493
    @caoimheevans9493 6 лет назад +1

    i am so happy that this is coming back!!

  • @jippiedoe
    @jippiedoe 6 лет назад +4

    Regardless of the precise definitions, this video was a bit of an eye-opener for me. There are definitely situations, most recently when I talk with and about gay people, where I find it much more logical to imagine what they are feeling than to imagine me being in the same positon. However, I'm sure that in more everyday situations, where I have been in the same position as the other person, I too often only look at how I felt or would feel, rather than how the other person is actually feeling about said position. After all, it's about the emotions that are actually being felt and not about the ones that would be 'logical' to feel. :)

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +2

      aah, that last sentence! great perspective, we really appreciate your your thoughts and ideas :)

  • @captainwatercress
    @captainwatercress 3 года назад

    I love this

  • @mariah_7654
    @mariah_7654 6 лет назад +1

    This is awesome!!! This video really highlights the fact that you don't have to go through what someone else is going through in order to feel the emotion that they feel.
    An argument I hear frequently from people who have a ton of privilege is that they don't know what it's like not to have it so they can't understand how someone without their same privillage would feel. That's sympathy and not as helpful as empathy. Connecting with emotions of others is hard.

  • @dannydasilva2540
    @dannydasilva2540 6 лет назад

    Good to have you back 😉

  • @alexanderaguilar8864
    @alexanderaguilar8864 2 года назад

    well-done video!

  •  6 лет назад +7

    I really learned something insteresting today!

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +2

      So glad to hear it!

    • @GoogleAccount00
      @GoogleAccount00 6 лет назад +1

      Dal Jaam what did you learn

    •  6 лет назад

      Jello k. I learned that empathy could play a deep role in a process of making decisions that actually are gonna impact to people's happiness. It would be no more about putting yourself into people's position to make the choice they probably would make if they were in your place, but to make the right choice based on how they would feel out of your action.

  • @Romy_880
    @Romy_880 6 лет назад

    For the next part series Soulpancake should do a series on 'The science of Hope and optimism' since it has already covered most of the other positive emotions.

  • @Samuraiox
    @Samuraiox 6 лет назад

    I missed this and caught it when I saw the second vid! Could you maybe put 'science of empathy' on the thumbnail so it does get lost in the sea of videos? Already enjoying these immensely

  • @lilliesnlilacs3582
    @lilliesnlilacs3582 6 лет назад +1

    I missed this series so much

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +1

      aah, didn't we all?! time to enjoy!

  • @jessicamarinaro9699
    @jessicamarinaro9699 6 лет назад

    Awww! Both the married couples were so cute

  • @kaycgrocks
    @kaycgrocks 6 лет назад +2

    6:22 they're so cute stooooop 😭

  • @fennxfox6241
    @fennxfox6241 6 лет назад +1

    The lesbian couple was actual on a reality tv show called Stripped! They were just as adorable there!

  • @MatejVelican
    @MatejVelican 6 лет назад +3

    The guy with 1$ theory is right. But not only about what he said. Here's another.
    If you gave them 21$ to share, I could almost guarantee almost 3/10 pairs would share it 2/3 to 1/3 in personal advance.
    And if you would have gave them that money - not telling them amount - and tell them to split 50/50... Who gets a dollar more?

  • @bigbang6382
    @bigbang6382 6 лет назад +1

    We all are born with insecurities , when some mirror it and show some care about it....that's EMPATHY

  • @marsvideos6273
    @marsvideos6273 6 лет назад +1

    the gay couple was so cute! and they started crying at the same time i was like “same”

  • @emilybell7984
    @emilybell7984 Год назад +1

    Please add real Closed Captions (auto-generated ones don't count) to make this accessible

  • @mayursoowamber7549
    @mayursoowamber7549 3 года назад

    Whatever the offer might be, the person accepting should take whatever is on offer as they will be better off. (S1 still better than $0). But a fun lil' video with great production value btw! :)

  • @Fuar11
    @Fuar11 6 лет назад +1

    Normally I would go 50/50. But the Hawthorne Effect would kick in causing me to probably give all the money.

  • @TheGoldenwolf522
    @TheGoldenwolf522 6 лет назад +5

    I dont think this is about empathy and more whats the least amount i can give this person so i dont lose the money so really its self preservation

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +3

      Perhaps that's the lesson of the experiment. Those who acted out of self preservation were not being as empathetic as those who took a moment to feel what the other person would feel receiving a certain amount of money.

    • @TheLolo8718
      @TheLolo8718 6 лет назад +1

      Agreed. I also think empathy could be studied both ways... the person accepting it would feel empathetic to the person that offered. The guy who got 8 dollars could be happy his friend got to keep 12. Where as the one that rejected the offer didn't have empathy towards his cousin.

  • @youcan_change_handle_3june_
    @youcan_change_handle_3june_ 3 года назад

    im trying to find a video they put money in a box , jubilee vibe. not on this channel

  • @autumnscene
    @autumnscene 6 лет назад

    the married couples both were so lovely, i

  • @sandragagain6310
    @sandragagain6310 10 месяцев назад

    I wish they had also broken it down by the relationships people have with each other. Married people figure they already share that money. It is different in other relationships.

  • @ninab8437
    @ninab8437 6 лет назад +1

    That lesbian couple made me cry 😭❤️💕

  • @Everything-qk2lo
    @Everything-qk2lo 6 лет назад

    The two girls made me cry

  • @blaisemarcc1172
    @blaisemarcc1172 3 года назад

    One dollar is one dollar more than you had :-) This is emotion over logic.

  • @ellakim6976
    @ellakim6976 6 лет назад

    THE COUPLE WHO OFFERED $20 IS SO BEAUTIFUL.

  • @RichardWilkin
    @RichardWilkin Месяц назад

    I would say that the two with the 100% looked like infatuation rather than empathy.
    However, I'm still waiting to see a video about the science of empathy.

  • @mrlnxf8455
    @mrlnxf8455 6 лет назад

    The old and the gay couple were so cute, I want this.

  • @t-jizzyproductions
    @t-jizzyproductions 3 года назад

    Had me and my girlfriend played this game i would have given her all the cash & she would have given me nothing & we would have won. She knows i hate carrying cash on me 😭😂 I’m not bad with my money, but i feel it goes a lot faster when you aren’t able to keep track of how much you’re spending 24/7. I don’t have it in me to keep a mental tab each time i spend. I like the simplicity of just checking my account 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

  • @Mari-ti2hv
    @Mari-ti2hv 3 года назад

    The women at the end 🤧❤️

  • @Fleetato
    @Fleetato 6 лет назад

    I’m swooning over the girl with the hat she’s gorgeous

  • @jamesbell1613
    @jamesbell1613 8 месяцев назад

    If it's only 20 bucks you better offer me 10. 😂

  • @ktqt8544
    @ktqt8544 6 лет назад

    I'm surprised more people didn't do a 50/50 split

  • @TPainWhatitDo
    @TPainWhatitDo 8 месяцев назад

    Playing with married couples or friends defeats the validity of the exercise. It only makes sense if it's between strangers who won't interact again

  • @melontreat0308
    @melontreat0308 4 года назад +1

    it should have been 19 dollars to make everything more spicy

  • @sevdea2768
    @sevdea2768 6 лет назад

    Can I add Turkish subtitle to your videos??

  • @Lgisas
    @Lgisas 6 лет назад

    I’m having trouble seeing the difference between both emotions. I felt like all the participants were being empathetic.

  • @elyranch1902
    @elyranch1902 6 лет назад

    If you're married/together, give them all of it (buy burgers together afterwards??), if you're strangers/have a meagre relationship, split it in half??

    • @esigra
      @esigra 4 года назад

      Exactly. Therefore it was silly to include married couples in the experiment. But it created emotion porn which is popular content.

  • @drdrogo8938
    @drdrogo8938 6 лет назад +1

    i think there were more people who gave 10 dollars but they did not put them because they wanted to show different reactions

  • @EllaEllaEh
    @EllaEllaEh 6 лет назад

    If it was a stranger, I would have given $10. If it was someone I know, I would have given them $20.

  • @rikki2891
    @rikki2891 6 лет назад +2

    0:05 *I have a beard now*

  • @Ava-nz4kz
    @Ava-nz4kz 6 лет назад +1

    I LOVE THE NEWLYWEDS AHHHH THEYRE SO SWEET

  • @thegreatestislove8604
    @thegreatestislove8604 3 года назад

    How did the black and white guy know each other? Every other pair we knew their relationship to each other. This is important to me because I couldn’t figure out why the white guy was wanting more of the money. He made a big deal out of not feeling it was okay to give any more than he did.

  • @sumdorian
    @sumdorian 6 лет назад

    Why didn't they give 50/50? Was that not allowed?

  • @sesto194
    @sesto194 6 лет назад +11

    why wouldn't you accept the money? 5 bucks are better than nothing

    • @auroraborealis675
      @auroraborealis675 6 лет назад +4

      Pride...ego

    • @MissPinkyLover101
      @MissPinkyLover101 6 лет назад +4

      Sesto194 because then the other person gets $15 and I only get $5. I’d rather we both suffer than they gain more than me. To take the $5 is settling.

    • @auroraborealis675
      @auroraborealis675 6 лет назад

      Ilovepancakes you would be hurting yourself because of your pride

    • @swisscorn
      @swisscorn 6 лет назад +2

      Mind Flowers
      There's pride and also unfairness. If you're the kind of person that would split it equally but you do not receive the same treatment, it would'nt be odd to refuse the deal.

  • @swisscorn
    @swisscorn 6 лет назад

    I thought sympathy was suffering with someone since sym- means with in greek

  • @racheljilek964
    @racheljilek964 6 лет назад +1

    Someone give me a relationship like that lesbian couple's! They were so sweet 😭

  • @comradetrip5958
    @comradetrip5958 Год назад

    But what is the Nash equilibrium?!?!

  • @xavier_iyer
    @xavier_iyer 6 лет назад

    Hi

  • @nevilledynamics
    @nevilledynamics 2 года назад

    I wanna play

  • @HentaiSweetie
    @HentaiSweetie Год назад

    Why would anyone say no to any offer? Even if it's just $1 it's more money than if they said no.
    Also, how cute was that lesbian couple? 🥰

  • @KING20007009
    @KING20007009 6 лет назад

    If the guy in the coat flapped his ears. He could probably fly away.

  • @laluna922
    @laluna922 6 лет назад

    Oh man the lesbian couple was so insanely cutr

  • @willardbouwmeester2607
    @willardbouwmeester2607 6 лет назад

    Bob Marley would dislike this video and be like: 'Possession make you rich? I don’t have that type of richness. My richness is life, forever.'

  • @lillianmorris871
    @lillianmorris871 6 лет назад

    I’d give 10 dollars equal share

  • @ikuyas5227
    @ikuyas5227 Год назад

    They can just share the $20 later after the interview by giving $20. It is just an intelligence test rather than the empathy experiment.

  • @MalloryCorben
    @MalloryCorben 6 лет назад +1

    I missed Julian.

  • @hobbes296
    @hobbes296 6 лет назад

    I don't get it. Why wouldn't you accept it, you get nothing by turning it away. Also it really just makes sense to me to just split it 50/50.
    Also it was such a small amount of money, so there weren't any real stakes, so I think that probably influenced people here.

  • @ihavegreatcomments8532
    @ihavegreatcomments8532 6 лет назад +18

    The science we learn in school never comes to use. Because how the flying fk am I gonna use the DNA and the way a leaf work to pay my rent every month?

    • @dylab5051
      @dylab5051 6 лет назад +2

      wiik wiik Lol

    • @MinecraftThorHammer
      @MinecraftThorHammer 6 лет назад +10

      It would help pay rent if you wanted to become a scientist studying plants or DNA

    • @krautfroggy
      @krautfroggy 4 года назад

      Change your nickname, coz inappropriate as of today. ;-)

  • @kung-fukennyfamily
    @kung-fukennyfamily 6 лет назад +5

    Don't let this distract you from the fact that Eminem is back and his freestyle is dope🔥🔥🔥

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 лет назад +1

      Haha Eminem is a dope artist. But maybe there's enough time in the day to watch both Eminem and SoulPancake ;)

    • @TriciawiththeTRUTH
      @TriciawiththeTRUTH 6 лет назад

      I love your response SoulPancake :) Very empathetic and also dope

  • @penthing
    @penthing 6 лет назад

    W h a t? Why not just divide it in two? Seems fair?

  • @khandarwilliam5439
    @khandarwilliam5439 4 года назад

    it's free money either way

  • @lilyroberts8813
    @lilyroberts8813 6 лет назад

    Twice the win ahahhah

  • @marie-eve822
    @marie-eve822 6 лет назад

    But why would you refuse ? Because I’m the end, 5$ is better than nothing

  • @vivylovatic1327
    @vivylovatic1327 6 лет назад

    OH MYGOOOOD THE GIRL WHO GAVE HER WIFE THE WHOLE 20$ I WANT A LOVE LIKE THAT

  • @elviraazpilcueta8531
    @elviraazpilcueta8531 5 лет назад

    Why not share 10 dollers and a win

  • @silverbracelet6
    @silverbracelet6 6 лет назад

    I clicked because I thought that was Miranda Sings! 😁