7 ATTRIBUTES OF A WIFE by RC Blakes
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- Опубликовано: 10 дек 2023
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7 ATTRIBUTES OF A WIFE by RC Blakes
In this RUclips video, RC Blakes discusses the concept of wife consciousness and what it means to be a wife. They explain that being a wife goes beyond just being in a relationship or being married, but it involves having a certain level of internal awareness and character. He highlights several qualities of a wife-conscious woman, including being emotionally available, not compromising dignity, desiring to make her husband's life better, avoiding drama, maintaining balance and self-care, nurturing her husband, and expressing gratitude. RC emphasizes the importance of developing these qualities and striving for harmonious living in order to create a strong and fulfilling marital relationship.
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GREAT DAY FAMILY! I believe this conversation today will be extremely enlightening for women and men. PLEASE LIKE this message, it really helps our message to go farther and reach more people.
It really is the Grace of God coming through you to me. Just try hard not to be proud of it, because it happens to me also to become the channel of God sometimes,but at the same time I'm at the bottom for such a long time. I'm really not at the path of salvation but God uses me as a channel occasionally, these two things are not connected
I have enough and I am enough... Praise the Lord...🙏🙏🙏 Atheist doesn't mean you are from the Devil or the dark side. I respect all Religions but I choose to believe in God of the Universe and His Son made man, Jesus Christ...🙏🙏🙏Yrs, single ess IS the Ideal unless you are lucky enough to find a partner that Believes what you Believe; same yolk...🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🌅🌅🌅💯💓
This message was presented thoughtfully and thoroughly. Godly wisdom was shared to give us the understanding we need. Thank you🙏🏽
I’m so thankful that I found you and your beautiful wife on the “Dear Future Wifey” podcast. I too was molested by my father and an uncle. I have carried this atrocious secret for over 45 years and I desire to be free from the traumas of my past. I have done a lot of inner/shadow work, but I’m STILL healing and growing. Thank you for your wisdom and service to women like me. I look forward to attending the Queenology conference in August and meeting you both.
I am a muslim . And i am a big fan . Ur a great man
I’m a Buddhist. And, I’m here every week to listen to Pastor RC Blakes!
I’m Muslim to too and love listening to him
Im a Muslim too and I love to listening too …💗
I’m not religious and I love listening to him
Catholic here, and he teaches me so much I did not grasp as a younger woman. It’s never too late to figure things out, and I’m so grateful to learn with you all from Pastor Blakes.
"The wife in you is only activated by the husband in a man"....🤯🤯🤯
Real shit!
"He's the safest man you've ever been with." Wow!! Preach!!
On point !! My husband is everything I dreamed of in a man . A true man of God loving ,selfless , honorable, trustworthy , dependable. He’s the man of my dreams . Thanks for your great teaching Pastor Blake’s 🙏🏽❤️👏🏾
So true! We are "raising future adults; not children."
As parents, we must be mindful to raise children who will have the qualities to be healthy spouses.
"A woman enforcing her dignity is the glue that binds the husband's heart to her. " ❤
I think 🤔 you meant the glue to bind her husbands HEART ❤️💓 HEART.... AND NOT HER HURT 😮 to her husband 👞 ♂️ 🎉🎉🙏...😅
@@alishadennis7769 thanks 😊
I love that, “being a wife is a ministry,” indeed it is.
Marriage is wonderful, and my mom was a great model!
“If all you have is God you have enough” hallelujah I agree! If all I have is God that’s MORE than enough!
Great message! 👏🏽
Yes AND AMEN 🙏🏽
In 16 years of marriage thus far….it has been by the GRACE OF GOD!
I am convinced that a stable, healthy and sustainable marriage does not happen APART FROM GOD!
Just wanted to say, THANK YOU Bishop Blakes. You and First Lady Lisa are saving lives through your teachings!!
It would be nice to see genuinely happy couples. You see males with dead eyes. Love starved women. A worn out man with a dominant wife :) My ex husband was a narcissist monster. He once told a story about this beautiful girl he really liked. They went to bed right away. He said after it he was furious and threw her clothes at her and made her leave. She must have been devastated. People are so broken. I’ve given up on any expectations. I would be impressed if I observed others happy. If a man does not love God. He will never love you girls. Don’t do it! Keep your kids safe. Get wise please. 🙏🏻
Wife conscious:
32:40 1. She’s emotional available
37:30 2. Never compromises her dignity
42:31 3. When you desire to make your husbands life better
45:28 4. Not given to drama
47:16 5. Balance and self care
51:14 6. Nurture your HUSBAND intimately/sexually
55:03 7. Grateful and appreciative
❤
Thank you ❤️
AMEN AMEN 🎉
Thank you😊❤
I did all these things in my marriage. He finally comes out and says : he was too young to have gotten married, & he couldn't give me what I deserved due to all his brokenes and that he hope to one day find himself." ...
I wasn’t taught to be a wife but I choose to be one. Thank you for this message❤
I understand now why I could never really fully submit to a man … I have never been married. I felt used by most men I went out with. How sad. I never felt completely loved by anyone.
You are like the father I never had. I believe that your advices are gold for so many women.
"If the only thing you have in your life is God you have enough"❤❤
43:58
Yesssss
If you have no desire to HELP him then he doesn’t need a HELP MEET.
Help him in the vision God has given him or his dream and/or goals.
Help him build and support a family.
Help him make a house a home.
Help his health improve.
Help his finances improve.
Help him laugh and relax.
Help meet his sexual needs.
Key word “help”
If you can’t or won’t
Why would he want to be in covenant with you 🤔
@@joycewatt8289 and vice versa! U are 💯 correct!
I thank God I found this Channel. God knows this is what I needed. My desire to be a wife and a mother one day is so great. I’m thanking God for you and having the power to pray over us women. God brought me here.
Absolutely! We have to be humble and teachable in order to grow and become an amazing spouse.
My husband died 2/12 years ago . We had a good marriage. My heart was shattered . He was the second husband lost through death. I had to learn who I was all over again.
I cant imagine the pain you go through. May The Lord’s peace be with you dear!
Sharing a lot of death with strangers.
I was emotionally available but after a recent breakup I’m currently temporarily emotionally unavailable while in my season of healing and growth.
“ A wife consciousness will never compromise her dignity & self respect “ 👏👏
Thank u so much father RC , that comes in the very right time.
I’m a muslim girl yet i love your messages and it empowered me to end a lot of shit in my life ❤❤
Good for you
Intro:
9:31 Wives must be developed
13:22 A girl is raised through observation to be a wife
15:21 She’s shaped through intentional mentoring
25:47 the wife inside her is activated by the husband in the man
29:09 what does a husband look like?
❤
Thank you for this.
19:16 A wife may be molded by the grace of God
Just want to add this too 😊
Amen!!! God calls us to have dominion over animals, not each other.
Indeed 💯
Great message Bishop Blakes
You are such an inspiration to us … I am a wife and because I know it , I walk with dignity and pride as I work on myself and wait for my husband…
It’s a lot of work to stay focus at times, but the daily confidence I gain from keeping my virtue intact is amazing..
Also I would love to hear your views on
Women who are divorce and still believe in abstinence until they re- marry ..
the reason for this is that a long time ago one guy told me I should be happy he is talking , because I told
Him even though am
Divorced with children, I still believe in sex only in marriage..
The date ended and I took a taxi home and blocked him
Long story short.. I think some men think because you were married before, you are free for all
-trust your own judgment
- dont get stuck in the trauma of your past
-healthy enough to give man opportunity to prove himself
Thank you 🙏🏽
As a BM I can appreciate this message. As a BM single no children in college I often meet BW with children with at least 2 kids the hardest part is I get called selfish for not wanting to date or entertain SBM being a step dad is such a thankless job you know it bothers me because I see a lot of BW don’t have standards for a man until they have birthed children by other men that didn’t partake in these BW becoming SBM🙏🏾👑
As a single mom I totally understand both sides. I hate I didn't value myself enough and wait until marriage. I truly believe everyone is entitled to what they desire in a spouse.
Thank you so much for teaching on woman’s issues. Some of us didn’t have an emotionally present father/mother. The church sometimes does more damage than good when they should be talking about certain things they rather judge those that speak on these important subjects. Thank you a million ❤
You hit the bell on the head
Yes! I totally agree that’s why the divorce rate is so high in and out of the church
To each his own , everyone is on their own journey. And your words of encouragement are appreciated! Thanks to you and your videos! Watch you for few years while I was single and overcoming certain obstacles with men and within myself! I’m now married to an amazing and God send man who continues to allow me to grow and become the wife I was always meant to be!
I appreciate your sound doctrine in the area of marriage and family relationships. Keep up the good work. Ronda Miller
Amen. He that findsa wife finds a good thing not she that finds a man. Wait on the Lord hear his word. Tk u pastor Blake's great message
Merci Pasteur. Je suis française et je vous remercie pour vos vidéos. Elles m'aident à guérir doucement de mes traumatismes et à apprendre ce que veut dire d'entretenir une relation saine avec les Hommes. Je ne comprends pas tout en anglais mais avec vous c'est fluide😊 Merci :) Magaly
Pastor can you also do the 7 attributes of a husband
AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love rc Blake's encouraging word how to be a woman not to beg or to chase men im loves being a woman who intelligence
I’m excited for my spiritual change to open myself up for a real relationship again. I def. Need to set boundaries because I’m always told,” you wear your heart on your sleeve” but I really pray about things and fail a lot of times listening to God during his protection. I’ve never understood love as I came from a 2 parent home and they were never married, but I desire to break the stigma of broken Black homes. I’m “ old considering bc” but I just know my husband is looking for me
10:04am. This is true because God Himself has covered me with grace to become the woman wife and ambassador that I am still becoming today. It’s Hid divine intervention that continues to mold me. He brought your ministry into my life to empower me with language for the work in me He’s been doing to restore my virtue and dignity. He’s always positioned me under ministry that aligns with the work He’s doing in me and my purpose. So grateful for you and First Lady ❤. Love you!!!
Amazing Message for KINGDOM WOMEN. We trying out here to get the marriage thing in order for our husbands. 😊
This is exactly what I needed today.
I have been hurt deeply and suffered trauma from the pain of being in relationships with selfish men. After giving my life to Christ and working on myself, I have recently tried out dating. It's not been the most successful so far but I can feel that I am healing thanks to our Lord and Father. I have been able to practice all of the things you've mentioned naturally. Many things have been scary to me, like opening up, but with Faith, I have been able to open up and to enjoy the experience. I have also been terrified to fail miserably as I've done in the past but now, I just don't see that being a possibility. When I walk with God, He guards my heart. He lets me know if I should leave or stay and that keeps my heart away from the suffering I have been afraid of.
I can now walk away with dignity and feel relieved that I am healed and I shall not be afraid.
@RCBlakesJr I am a middle aged woman, Ive never been married. I have always feared marriage,
mostly because my parents had a dysfunctional marriage. My mother was a “superwoman” when it came to our home, she was more of the head of the house than my father who was extremely passive. I always felt I could not live up to the type of wife she was. I have read books listened to your and others RUclips channels but I can’t seem to shake the fear. I’ve always sabotaged my relationships. Any advice on how to get past my fear and trauma?
I’ve successfully cultivated these qualities thanks to your help ❤
Listen! When I tell you that God always uses this man to deliver a timely, needed message for me! Whew!! Praise the Lord!!!!
10:25 This all day long. I love my parents unconditionally but they were no where to be found in my childhood 🙏🙏🙏
Absolutely!
The role of a wife is a ministry in and of itself and
Singleness “in righteousness” works well for those God has called to that ministry as well.
I am a Whole Wife by the Grace of God, Whilst Walking in my God Given Assignment ⭐️
Absolutely, social media is a blessing and a curse.
One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched.
That was here in Detroit when the young lady said she was content with being a single Christian woman. I remember her.
❤God chose you for a resource for females,I'm thankful 🙏🏽 🙌🏽
Good morning Pastor this was indeed a great message. God bless you.
My sorrowful heart really enjoyed this word today♥️
Wow these are some very good points on being wife material I truly believe I'm wife material because of the things you pointed out I been married before but he wasn't God choice it's was my own doing but I'm going to be even better wife because God healed me from my brokenness now I'm ready for my God ordained spouse I'm.going be best wife every way since now that God mold me into woman after his own heart Thanks Pastor RC Blake's for this very incredible message it's very excellent teaching God bless you and Lisa and your family Love you guys ❤
Amen! I don't play about me!
I don't compromise my dignity or respect.
Thank You!!
Thank you 🙏
Thank you!
Bishop I could listen to you all day.
No one ever took a slack for me! That happens to very few women . God bless those
This was wonderful and clear! Thank you for this!❤
I’m excited for this
Amen, God bless you brother. I'm from Ethiopia.The right lesson on the right time!!
This is the most amazing video on the subject out there. Thank you! Much love
Thank you, RC. This is very timely and Greatly appreciated that you continue to expand on your wisdom and pour into us. Your insight has been Mind Renewing and I Thank You 😊!
I just want to say thank you for all you and Lisa do Bishop Blakes🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾! This really has touched me and I will be listening over a couple times and taking notes! GOD Bless you both and I send my love from Rhode Island❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your content is incredible. Thank you so much. I oftentimes listen to the same video several times. God bless you
Thank you
Never going to take this damn crown off again! 👑
This message was on time and Thank you for pinning the store information I’ve been looking for the queenology hoodie ❤❤❤
This absolutely blessed me and the message was clearly an answered prayer 🙏🏾 I really Thank God for using you for the people!
Mr & Mrs Blakes: Thank you so much for this video. I absolutely love how inspiring your marriage is and being raised strong in my faith, I have lost faith due to wanting a husband more than anything else. In turn taking it out on those closest to me. When there was more work for me to do internally and your video made that clear in such a sense that was poetic. Reason being; how you referred to your love for your wife Lisa. You both are wonderfully inspiring and I truly appreciate the content you create. Thanks so much!!
Thank you Bishop for these wise words of wisdom. I love you so much and have an amazing day Sir!❤️🙏🏽
Thank you, 😊it's a blessing to hear your encouraging words.
Thank you Pastor ❤
Thank you so much for your teachings.
I'm old school, I was southern raised and also raised by healthy masculine men as well as the healthier black women to be a wife. I'm not ashamed of that
Great words as usual very well said.Great message.Thank you R.C Blakes!Amen🙌🙌👏👏👏👏
This was a very inspirational message you’ve delivered! Thank you for sharing, it’s given me hope and recognizing that I’m headed in the right direction as I know I’m destined to be married
Thank you for your ministry. It’s life changing.
On top and going higher. Another teaching hit out the park. TGBTG🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This message really touched and uplifted my heart. It was very interesting to listen about wife-consciousness. Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! May God Bless you and your family.
Truly its The Grace of God, Hallelujah. I cant remember how I bumped in to this channel and my life has been greatly impacted by you Bishop. Thank you and may The Grace of God continue to abound
Thank you so much for this message!!
I can see that…. What an honorable statement concerning your home & Lady Lisa! Love it!!!
That's a darn good question 🤔 👀 🤣 😉 😅
Thank you, Pastor Blake, your teaching has been a powerful inspiration to me I have no problem moving on and keeping my values. ❤God bless you and Mrs. Blake
When i enforce my dignity...thats the glue that binds my husband's heart to me
Thank God for you too pastor
The better I treated men the worst they acted 🔥🙏
You have to choose the right man who actually deserves that treatment.
What an excellent discussion! Thank you for taking the time to be clear, define terms, address common misconceptions, and set the record straight about what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. I really appreciate you describing what a husband is and how he behaves. I pray many souls are healed from this video. Thank you!
I love you so much and all that you’re doing for my generation. You’re the father I’ve never had! So much wisdom. ❤
I think this is one of the best ones yet.
I have been following your advice for years and I’m proud to say that I am ready to be a wife 💕
I keep repeating the music 🎶 in this video. Simply inspiring. Thank you RC Blakes Jr.
Do you know the title of the music please
Fabulous video. Thank you for all you do and share with us ❤
That intro song is AMAZING!!!!
I know, it’s a beautiful into. I love it!!!
I love it and wonder who it is
what is the title please 😍
Thank you for your videos. May God bless you and your family ❤
This has been really genuine!
What a bless powerful word of the Lord Jesus Christ Amen I will send this message out to others in the family. Bless u pastor Blake's and your wife and ministry
Thank you so much for pouring into women with your biblical words of wisdom, the way you do. It truly helps me receive advice when it's referenced from the Bible! God is truly using you to minister to us women and probably even men. You've helped me so much in these last few months! Please continue all that you do by the grace of God! 🙏🏾
Wow wow