A QUEENS LIST FOR DATING A MAN by RC Blakes
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- Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2023
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A QUEENS LIST FOR DATING A MAN by RC Blakes
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QUEEN’S LIST SUMMARY
- A man that is thoughtful and intentional
- A man that is conversational
- A man that has a job he’s happy with
- A man that has a vision the woman is excited about
- A man that has a mild and stern demeanor all in the same package
- A man that is generous with his means
- A man that is emotionally available
Thank you for writing this!!!
Thank you
Thank you
Loved it.. thanks
Thank you so much. Blessings and love ❤
HELLO FAMILY!!! Please LIKE this one.
We will share this information you don’t have to ask Sir . Your message are important 😊
Done sir. Liked the comment and the vid.
By the way this has absolutely nothing to do with it. But I love love the outfit, for some reason it is giving me 70s Shaft vibes 🧡.
This lady, the funny thing is I thought she was dressed trashy. Me in my mind was like honey that is not what you wear on a first date or to a chique restaurant. She needed to be taken home. On the other hand I give her props for giving a lot of people content. She did that. Hopefully she benefits from it too and didn't only receive criticism (like mine earlier int his text.)
Bishop you do it everytime. After 3 years of listening I still grab my notebook to take notes 😇
📬Thank You For The Information “Pastor RC Blakes Jr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!👀
☝️Respectfully Yessss As It Is Written In The BOOK 📖 BIBLE TESTIMONIES “THAT IT IS MY GPS SYSTEM
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AMEN AND AMEN
Thank you so much I appreciate you 🙏🏾
I just want to say…Thank you!!!🙏🏽☺️
The Queen's List
The man should:
1. Be thoughtful/intentional
2. Be conversational
3. Be happy with the job he has
4. Have a vision that she can get excited about
5. Have a mild/stern demeanor all in the same package
6. Be generous with his means
7. Be emotionally available
Thank you sis for posting this!
Thank you also❤
Thank you for the list! ❤ 🙏🏽
❤. Absolutely 💯.
Thank you!
If he’s not happy with himself he can’t celebrate you. So true Bishop
😂-Your face when mentioning that you learned on Dear Future Wifey that you weren't Lisa's type is too funny!😂
I was with a guy for 9 months.. i met him when he was working a factory job. He was so negative about it though that eventually everything in his life began to be all negative. When i asked him why he didn't get some kind of job that was more to his liking, he said life wasn't about fun. It was about money. 🙈 Wow.. so sad. We are now broke up. It started to corrupt my energy big time. Energy is powerful.. learned this lesson the hard way. 🥵🙈 I'm grateful to have found RC Blakes. I'm here always taking notes and applying it to my life daily 😇🙌💚
2 years since I found Rc Blakes on RUclips and I am not the same woman I was.
Thank you spiritual Father❤
He is so amazing. I too am grateful that I found him 🙏🏼
Women’s whole point in wanting a man to provide luxury is to enjoy it without toiling to earn it. These women are proud of succeeding at that. I actually feel like a failure as a woman because I’ve always had my nose to the grindstone at school and then at work. I’ve been too stressed to attract a mate, and no man except my father and my stepfathers have provided anything for me. My mother, who stays home and takes care of herself, attracts providers. I work, and don’t attract anyone.
Me too girl, I don’t get it either.
@@morganhill5798 Thanks.
Lady you have to go to God because in His presence is the fullness of Joy and at His right Hand are pleasures ever more! Find some margin in your day to day so you are not stressed out. Also find a hobby that you can get lost in and who knows you may meet your special one while executing that hobby i.e. Pickle ball, swimming, ballroom dancing. Lastly keep in mind that we are complete in HIM, not a spouse, child, Dream home, latest car…Foster your relationship with Christ even the more and everything else will be icing on the cake.
I feel you darlin & the struggle can be real!
I ask myself where does the kind of man I’m looking for spend his time & can I be genuinely interested in those things to put myself in that arena?
I learned a lot about myself thinking through that & found some new interests❤️🔥
Me too. 😢
I like that he use scripture as his reference.
Always has 😊
😂 "All that dessert...better get you some vegetables." I love it!
😂😂😂
Straight up 😂
Queen's List:
Conversationally Job contentment, vision/goal minded,mild & stern mannered,generous, emotionally available.
We want a healthy long term relationship! 🙏🏾
I have struggled to forgive myself for wasting so many years on the wrong men due to my toxic standards/list in the past. I even went to therapy to heal this and other things. I didn’t know what I didn’t know at the time. I am so thankful for having the scales removed from my eyes. God bless you, Pastor Blakes, your family, and this wonderful ministry!
That guy did have dinner reservations for the woman and himself at a High-end restaurant, but because she made him wait outside for additional hours without even answering her *phone, he would call but she would only texting him once he arrived to pick her up. They missed the dinner reservation so his next only other option i guess for him was the secondary restaurant which didn't need reservations at all.
According to that woman, she said the reason why she was late was because she was still working HOWEVER, Yet and still, she knew all about the reservations to the high end restaurant, which was the first choice.
People in this world are so ungrateful and entitled even though they are the cause of the chaos and confusion!!
SMH
My dad wasn’t there for me physically and mentally only financially and I'm blessed to have the Lord as my father and a dad on earth thank you for becoming a dad for us women your words and knowledge cost gold God bless you and your family
This message touched me. May God continue to bless you ❤
I'm grateful 🥲
Amen🙏
I like that! The man that can afford you is different than the man that values you.
Yes, I dated a man for a month that was not satisfied with his job and he was absolutely miserable. I was unable to changed his attitude and mindset...tough!
Sounds like he needed a therapist.
It took me only a week to drop such a kind. I saw red flags coming through. Worse he ignored that we had an appointment for 2nd date. Inconsistent much 😾. Vulnerable narcissist, that's what some r called.
HELP US GET OUR 1000 👍
Done 😂
Its 5am in Uganda..and am watching .I love u papa.
I agree with the list. I have a similar list I wrote in 2019 . On the other side of my list, for my husband ,is the list of goals for myself. I check in every daily and overview monthly.
So simple but such a great idea.
I know this video will be great! I am 43 and i have started back dating so this will help me immensely! Thank you Bishop Blakes! You are always right on time! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️
I narrowed my list down to 3 Cs. When all three are checked off I know I’ve found my husband.
1.) Chemistry: We are romantically attracted to each other.
2.) Connection: We have an emotional, spiritual and intellectual connection.
3.) Compatibility: we share similar morals, values, and outlook on life. Our approach to life is on the same page. We align in terms of character and we genuinely agree, like and admire the internal and external workings of each other.
When I used this list to measure past relationships I always find that one of the Cs was not checked off and that’s why those relationships didn’t work.
It’s about how a man thinks and his heart condition. That’s number 1 on my list
Willing to share is a thing to watch for. I had a relationship where he let me know that his possessions were off-limits to me. I couldn't turn the knob on his stereo!
This was right on time. I just stopped dating a man TODAY and I was so upset b/c he became selfish and self centered and sometimes disrespectful. And I realize that I need all the characteristics on this list and he only possessed maybe two of the 2 of the 7 on this list. I feel so much better about letting go of the relationship. And I realize more why things turned out the way they did. I knew the issue with his job was having a major impact on the relationship. But he didn’t want to acknowledge it and I didn’t realize the other things he lacked. I really needed this. Thanks Pastor Blakes
Are you saying that you were bringing more than he was to the table?
Look at GOD! I was just talking with my aunt about this. Can’t wait for the video!
I know me too, I was just told and a good friend about his RUclips videos.
At the risk of sounding redundant, pastor you were exactly on point! You nailed it! My prayer is that our younger queens ( and maybe some older queens) catch this talk and take heed. 🎯🙏🏾🎯
It's always refreshing listening to Bishop, thank you for being a father to us all.
Amen.
Amen Bishop Queen Conscious Woman List is different Thanks for your books & teaching all these years
You're teaching pastor. Well said we can't demand stuff we don't even have or try to match up for ourselves. We got to treat ourselves first🥰
Not just women... Men should as well. Everyone should know what they can bring forth to the table and that list helps to see if those qualities/qualifications are met for someone to contribute to that table. Gotta know your worth so you don't destroy your worth🤷🏽♂️
Also by knowing what you bring as well as the other person you can eliminate time wasting just because the other person looks good. Maybe they're better suited as a friend or business partner.
Agreed 👍
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I dont think thst I csn ask for something in another, that I cant give myself. I like your expression of "leveling up, and "become what you dedire".
Conversational is very important in building lasting relationships spiritual & mentally
Especially for a Queen
“You need to become what you desire” great advice!
…amazing video I had a lot of these qualities on my list ! Thank you 🙏🏾 😊
Although my father was a pastor he had unhealed childhood trauma and was very abusive of me and my sisters. The people in the church saw one side of him his family saw another. Four daughters who learned nothing abouten or dating. I appreciate your teachings I wish I had gotten this teaching from him I believe my life would have been very different.i would have asked the right questions and understood the importance of asking the right questions and watched their patterns and temperment
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr.
Hello New Life Church!
Hello Everyone! Greetings from Atlanta,GA😊😊😊 Be Blessed!
Hello Queen
Absolutely, and that list is necessary.
Definitely on time again with your message💯. Thank you, Pastor RC Blake's and first lady Lisa❤💛
Yes sister... perfect timing for sure ❤
❤ thank you . I’m a better woman because of your teaching
This the most honest podcast and message I seen the whole year
Your messages have been a blessing in my life. I'll be tuned in...thank you.
Ohhh can’t wait for this one! Your videos have been such a blessing! The timing is always on point ❤
Thank you RC Blake's for GOD uses you to help us women! Because GOD knows we need help! But my list is for a man to have a love and respect for GOD. Honesty! Loyalty! Communications! Understanding! Intimacy! Romance! Fun! Like to enjoy! Go places! And to be loved! Family! Stand in his truth! We're able to talk about financial stability for us both!
No argumental! No disruptness! Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church and gave his very life for it. Looks has nothing to do with it. Height has nothing to do with it! Its what's in the heart for me! And I'm 62😊🫶🏾🙏🏾✝️ Oh yeah take me to the Cheese Factory! Applebee's! take me to Red lobster. Olive Garden!
Well said 😊🎉❤
Girl, you go on with your bad 62 self. I love everything you said in this comment. This is so on point. 🎯💯
Papa Blakes so funny, you still need therapy from mom saying “he was not my type” 😂 I loved that one. Thank you as always for these divinely ordered teachings ❤
"Lisa said, he wasn't my type, your boy still need therapy for that one". Uncle R.C feeling some kind of way about that🤣🤣 34:00
Was a blessing to me! I'm married now. I can see my husband having a lot of those qualities. He mentioned having a purpose while dating but has put it off to the side for now. Because we are looking for a house. I told him he can focus on two things at one time. I really believe that women are more versatile than men.
Love the new intro with the photos! You were really preaching. I definitely added a some of these qualities to my list.
All the points you made big brother are on point. I will continue to use my discernment and wait on my King. I know he is on the way. Thank you for sharing big brother we all needed this. 🙏🏾
Pastor Blakes thank you for the teachings, your wisdom and your prayers for all the Queens. ❤
❤ One of the greatest issues of so many women today is getting involved with a man that they are fixing because they are still trying to fix daddy. I finally caught myself in recognizing that is why I would pick men that if they had quality masculine attributes they were not whole unto themselves and happy with themselves because my father was the same and I was still trying to resolve my daddy issues. I've faced starting over many times from zero. Now I must learn how to grow financially without burning myself out and grow in wisdom in attracting a man who is solid, healthy, happy with himself, and a good match. I'm 53 and I pray for the means to rise up in my feminine energy and work through wisdom not through struggling, through abundance and not struggle.
Another great video Mr. Blakes! Gratitude for sharing this important message!😊
Praise the Lord Pastor Blakes! Greetings and blessings to you and your family. This message was right on time for me. I am a thirty something woman, and I've been married for 16 years. I woke up differently one day and realized that I no longer wanted to just go through the life existing with a partner that doesn't know me...I'm ready to live life with my soul mate. I am praying and willing to do what I have to be be happy and fulfilled. Keeping God first every step of the way! Listening to you is helping me better understand my needs and wants. God bless you and sister Lisa tremendously ❤ 56:52
1) Thoughtful and Intentional
2) Conversational - have conversations that intrigue her. A queen starts off where she finishes. Eventually, sex will no longer hold relationship together. It will be intellect.
3) Must have a job that he is happy with. Fulfilled and makes enough money to take care of self and family. When a man is content with his life he can celebrate his woman's achievements and accomplishments.
4) Have a vision that she can get excited about. (a job is where he is at. a vision is where he is going). This is where the woman finds purpose in his life.
5) Has a mild and stern demeanor. She feels safe and respects him at the same time.
6) Generous with his means.
7) Emotionally available
This message came at the right time! 🙏🏼Thank you Pastor RC Blakes and Lady Lisa ❤
This elder Queen concurs with you💯%!!!Mutual Communication with Respect is Key and Thank You Pastor Blakes for the confirmation
You are one of my favorite human men on earth thanks rc for all your insight absolutely priceless I agree . You are also hilarious and you crack me up. Thanks bless you and yours sir ❤
Hello to everyone! God Bless ♥️ My ears are open! Sending lots of love from Chicago 🫶🏽👏🏾😀
That was so good Pastor. Me and my daughter listened together.
Always a powerful message.Lots of women have a very low self esteem and are looking for love in all the wrong places.Only realising in your later yrs as King Solomon said it was all vanity and vexation of spirits.Then live lifes of regret.Thanku very much for all your words of wisdom.A word to the wise is sufficient .Ladies let us remember we are daughters of our King, Jesus Christ and live as such.
On & on til the break of dawn❣️
Preach Bishop👏🤩🥰
So excited to hear the message from Pastor Blakes, with full support from the “lovely” Mrs. Lisa Blakes.
I have learned so much listening to your videos. Keep them coming. Be blessed! 💜
Wow WonderFuL youv'e said aLot or ALL in This ; Preaching Tonight! I in Last 20yrs of try!40-60 i Like Done! Beaters & Then Cheaters so,Area Ut! So Like to Listen Once in WhiLe! But
Ok Thank You So Much Helping People God BLess!!!
❤
Great message! 👍
Oo Pastor you breaking some hearts with this truth. Some of these women live so much in fantasy. They going to learn today.😊😊
I heard a guideline to anyone who wanted to go out on a date. My deceased husband was handed one.
Please tell me more
Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa for this amazing message! Well needed for me! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you RC for all your help ❤ I have been able to change my life around and based of Queenology concept have created my YT channel.
You are one of the most important people in my life ❤
This was very relevant and needed. Thanks
CONSISTENCY, GROWTH, VISION,
LOVE, AND UNDERSTANDING...AMEN
Greetings everyone here and soon to join in. I know this is going to be off the hook enlightening; can't wait for this one Pastor 🙌
Yes, indeed 💯
« Boy still needs therapy for that » 😂😂😂
Thank you Bishop, this confirms what I want as a woman AKA Queen.
Amen 🙏🏼 this a confirmation of my list society is so messed up they make
You think the opposite.
Thoughtful, intentional that's a great one. Blessed Monday night Bishop, Lady Lisa, and everyone ❤🙏 Greenville,SC
I’m almost there pastor, thank you!!!!
That six-pack isn’t so easy to come by. Getting one requires a tremendous amount of work. Another potent talk, Pastor. Thank You. ❤
Peace and Love!! Ready for another great one Pastor RC! 🙏🏽❤️✨️
AMEN!! And we will see you on the TOP. Excellent - thank you Pastor. 🙂
I am sharing this with my dating coaching clients! Every point in this is true. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
Thank you once again .we really appreciate your teachings. 🇸🇿
Amen! Love this!!
Pastor Blakes, thank you for this lesson. God bless you and Lisa. May His peace be with you!
This was good teaching I enjoyed this life lesson
Great message!
Love it! Always on point Pastor 🙌
Thank you sooo much for the priveledge to join in live
I gave one person my list, and he is the only one thar has had access to it. I now keep it to myself and God.
This teaching was phenomenal!
Good Evening Pastor, Lady Lisa and everyone! 😊❤️
Thank you Bishop. My African father never teached me anything in regards to how you deal with men . Learning the hard way !
God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤️
Bishop Blake's this teaching was so good. That 5th point - I felt that one down in my "sha-na-na"! Thank you so much for helping us on this journey. Blessings to you and your wife Lisa ❤️
This was a Really Great Message ❤
I enjoyed this tonight Pastor. Thank you so much for tonight. I’m looking forward to Queenology next year.
Listen food is food it goes in one way and comes out the other! I am looking at the qualities of a man within
Great 👍🏾 message Pastor. 😊❤️
Wow I needed to hear this! Thank you ❤
This was an excellent message. Well needed . Thank you Bishop.
It is a good message. As always ❤
Awesome message as always Pastor RC and Lady Lisa. God’s blessings to your family and ministry.
Great teaching as usual RC!! Thank you!! The points were extremely helpful. Communication is important.
Wonderful message thank you