Trying for baby #2, birth in Australia & becoming an American citizen w/ Jess & Gabe | Ep. 43

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Комментарии • 529

  • @saylormckynna
    @saylormckynna 10 месяцев назад +1010

    FINALLY THIS COLLAB

  • @sunlight.travels
    @sunlight.travels 10 месяцев назад +131

    this could have been 4 hours long. There were so many questions left unanswered and I felt like u guys really bonded. I wouldn't mind more episodes with all four of you

  • @victoriaparks1288
    @victoriaparks1288 10 месяцев назад +184

    I can CONFIRM they were the first couple channel I ever followed

  • @Pringle-f4x
    @Pringle-f4x 10 месяцев назад +64

    I love how Matt and Abby are so respectful and gave Jess and Gabe lots of compliments ❤

  • @JJ_yt421
    @JJ_yt421 10 месяцев назад +55

    Gabriel and Matt’s personalities are amazing together

  • @autumnsavage6419
    @autumnsavage6419 10 месяцев назад +309

    I laughed so hard when Jess told Matt to say “Can I have a glass of water” & he goes “can you say that in an Australian accent, oh wait, that is the Australian accent” 😆😆😆😆

    • @sarausage
      @sarausage 9 месяцев назад

      what were they expecting her to say some other language how is america better than aus when u dont even know that other English countries exist ur country is embarrassing

    • @sarausage
      @sarausage 9 месяцев назад

      she thinks about spiders and snakes and the dessert she does not think about the beach then tiktok came around and she kept seeing the beach

  • @katialing5557
    @katialing5557 10 месяцев назад +147

    I keep thinking this is so far so good and not unplanned lol. Gabe is so unhinged even as a guest 😂😂 this collab though is amazing. I can’t stop smiling

    • @Sarah-sr8zw
      @Sarah-sr8zw 10 месяцев назад +2

      lololol so true

  • @alien4414
    @alien4414 7 месяцев назад +9

    jess and gab are THE OG the first couple i followed and i cant believe i have been here for the past 7 years

  • @Natalia_72
    @Natalia_72 10 месяцев назад +90

    Awww, you could hear the emotion in Gabe’s voice as he was talking about being a father to his daughter 🥹

  • @jaymeestahl
    @jaymeestahl 10 месяцев назад +189

    37:59 you know it’s really going off the rails when Gabe is the one saying we need to pull it back😂

  • @isaella4229
    @isaella4229 10 месяцев назад +175

    The collab we all needed 😍😍😍

  • @jessicaarmy-animegirl9454
    @jessicaarmy-animegirl9454 10 месяцев назад +56

    The minute I saw Jess and Gabe with Matt and Abby I clicked so fast
    I always wanted them together
    And now it’s happening
    I’m literally happy

  • @xxthrashiexx
    @xxthrashiexx 8 месяцев назад +3

    been following jess and gabe since the beginning, being able to see them grow and flourish the way they have has been an absolute honor 🤍 what a great episode, and a beautiful beginning to a great friendship!

  • @saylormckynna
    @saylormckynna 10 месяцев назад +181

    been WAITING for jess and gabe! 😍

  • @jennymitchelson9356
    @jennymitchelson9356 9 месяцев назад +4

    I, as an Australian, have never heard of Jess and Gabriel. How is that even a thing? I really like their vibe. Jess seems like a cool person. 😊

  • @anka5699
    @anka5699 9 месяцев назад +15

    Matt and Gabe are an incredible example of how a real man and a gentleman should be. And obviously no need to say anything about Abby and Jess, they're gorgeous. ♥️

  • @lillrich9894
    @lillrich9894 10 месяцев назад +3

    This felt so genuine and authentic, such a true connection 🤍 I hope you will post more with Gabe and Jess

  • @ItsRensMC
    @ItsRensMC 10 месяцев назад +9

    Totally agree, we're meant to be selfless in marriage, not self-centered and focused on "working on our selves". We can be self-centered when we're single, but a marriage definitely works when you're selfless and you put the other person first.

  • @briannarandell6812
    @briannarandell6812 10 месяцев назад +12

    You have no idea how happy I am about this. I’ve loved jess and gabe ever since I seen their wedding video and I never missed a video since. Was always hoping you would have them on your podcast

  • @GamerverseU
    @GamerverseU 10 месяцев назад +8

    I'm so glad to see Jess and Gabe here; plus as a fellow Aussie It's awesome to hear Jess talk about my home country with great pride. Thanks Matt and Abby for the great content.

  • @LaneyKate
    @LaneyKate 10 месяцев назад +27

    Matt playing with abbys hair is so sweet. I love that he just does it subconsciously while deep in conversation❤

  • @kimoconnell8411
    @kimoconnell8411 10 месяцев назад +46

    The best podcast yet, I was hoping for this, the most geniune couple /family on you tube

    • @ehleesaw
      @ehleesaw 10 месяцев назад +2

      i definitely AGREE

  • @lucybarron3893
    @lucybarron3893 10 месяцев назад +56

    Might have been my favourite episode yet. So fun! Such great chemistry between you all.

  • @koralgarcia4533
    @koralgarcia4533 10 месяцев назад +9

    This episode is just pure serotonin! I smiled the entire time and the best two couples in one… what’s a blast! Absolutely amazing!!

  • @avblank71
    @avblank71 10 месяцев назад +11

    I have never heard of Jess & Gabe but I was sucked into this entire podcast. Very good, informative and you all just collaborated together very well. Now I need to check out their podcast as well. But I never miss a Matt & Abby podcast. Love it all. ❤

  • @karlaherrera311
    @karlaherrera311 10 месяцев назад +10

    Man I really loved this episode alootttt. It seems y’all click very well and that y’all had fun and laughed a lot. It’s special when you can find people that bring those giggles out of you.

  • @kristismyk1930
    @kristismyk1930 10 месяцев назад +3

    Yesss FaceTiming and phone calls were the best when my husband-then-boyfriend and I did long distance (America & South Korea) for a year. Lots of eating breakfast/dinner together for dates 🥰 you really get to know each other well through all the long talks!

  • @mj_9450
    @mj_9450 10 месяцев назад +4

    This was honestly THE BEST collab from both your podcasts 🤩🔥 We need MORE, please!!! All the laughs seriously made my day🥰

  • @SamanthaL
    @SamanthaL 10 месяцев назад +5

    As a cancer patient I actually like America’s healthcare system. In other countries, patients have to wait a long time for certain tests, procedures, and treatments and that can be the difference between life and death in the cancer world. I’m incredibly thankful for how quickly we can get things in the US

    • @aleesharilatt5513
      @aleesharilatt5513 Месяц назад

      You dont have to wait for cancer treatment in Australia and it wont make you bankrupt.

  • @kranae
    @kranae 10 месяцев назад +4

    THIS DUO. I love Abby’s personality this episode too, she’s so funny. They would all make really good friends! Best podcast episode.

  • @alyssakruse5414
    @alyssakruse5414 10 месяцев назад +12

    so happy to come to this podcast!! it came out right when i wasn't feeling too great, and this just made it so much better ❤

  • @racheltherese4161
    @racheltherese4161 10 месяцев назад +29

    I’ve never clicked so fast on a video! These are two of my favorite couples merged!!!!!! Like wow! And the way Jess reacted to “bull riding” killed me 😂

  • @samanthabaxter8688
    @samanthabaxter8688 10 месяцев назад +14

    Jess, I agree with you saying that your baby has added purpose and confidence. I definitely feel the same. Before I had my son I didn't know my purpose, I wasnt too confident. Since having him I have found my purpose and I will confidently say I am a great mom.

  • @kylee1234hehe
    @kylee1234hehe 10 месяцев назад +8

    What a beautiful episode and genuine connection and conversation!! Thank you guys🩷

  • @hayleydavis1449
    @hayleydavis1449 10 месяцев назад +40

    Love this!!! Jess reps us Aussies so we'll ❤️🇦🇺 Very meaningful and enjoyable conversation! Xx

    • @peekabooicancu
      @peekabooicancu 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was going to comment the same thing! She's the best ambassador

  • @ashleymarie6585
    @ashleymarie6585 10 месяцев назад +21

    So true what jess said about kids make you love certain parts of yourself that you didn’t before. Like when you realize your daughter has you exact nose and think it’s so perfect and cute on her and you start to wonder why you always though it looked so bad on you

  • @clairesnelson9961
    @clairesnelson9961 10 месяцев назад +8

    Loved this episode! Its cool seeing friendships form on the pod. You all so chill and happy

  • @tahliatenbrink
    @tahliatenbrink 10 месяцев назад +4

    I grew up with a very similar homeschool background as Gabe and it was so nice hearing him talk about that 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @AmandaLovesHolidays
    @AmandaLovesHolidays 10 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve watched all your podcasts and honestly this one is my favorite. It’s just fun, hilarious and laid back. Great convo.

  • @katrinagorsuch0519
    @katrinagorsuch0519 10 месяцев назад +3

    The Author of the book he talked about is Meg Meeker-Strong Father's, Strong Daughters, she also has one Strong Mothers, Strong Sons. She would be an amazing guest to have on!

  • @cinnamonroll8662
    @cinnamonroll8662 10 месяцев назад +1

    I literally have been praying for this collab!! My two favorite RUclipsrs I’m so proud of both of y’all’s journey . Very entertaining. Keep doing what you’re doing !! 💕

  • @kaylag.14
    @kaylag.14 10 месяцев назад +4

    out of every single podcast, seriously one of my favorite episodes along with having your brother- and sister-in-law on (x2)

  • @melissaogas9817
    @melissaogas9817 10 месяцев назад +4

    So I excited and happy to have my two favorite creator couples finally come together💛 just love Jess and Gabe and Matt and Abby you guys are truly the best!!!

  • @theofficialmadihart
    @theofficialmadihart 10 месяцев назад +8

    Probably my favorite one yet! I laughed so hard the whole time!! Y’all just flow so well! Thanks for this collab!

  • @Adrienne.Granados
    @Adrienne.Granados 8 месяцев назад +3

    Back here to check the timing of the interview (and you lowkey outing them lmao) since Jess just announced she’s pregnant!! 🎉

  • @oliviab4412
    @oliviab4412 10 месяцев назад +6

    y’all’s conversation about selflessness and parenting was SO refreshing to hear!!❤

  • @raynaroy157
    @raynaroy157 10 месяцев назад +1

    Explaining what Jess did to make you feel better etc was really clarifying bc you had only been vague in the past and I think it’s INCREDIBLY helpful and open. Thank you.

  • @Raerae0125
    @Raerae0125 10 месяцев назад +2

    THE BEST COLLAB PLEASE DO A PART TWO SOMETIME! I was smiling at my phone and laughing this was the best!

  • @nicoleholmanprincess3419
    @nicoleholmanprincess3419 10 месяцев назад +15

    Good morning Matt and Abby. Can't wait to see what today holds in your podcast. Never stop smiling 😊

  • @nadjavandenbroek8053
    @nadjavandenbroek8053 10 месяцев назад +35

    Knowing how much you suffered to film this episode I am really happy for you how amazing it turned out 😄👌🏻

  • @MT-hb7ts
    @MT-hb7ts 10 месяцев назад +4

    JESS IS STUNNING

  • @montano2953
    @montano2953 10 месяцев назад +20

    It’s so late for me right now but I can’t wait to watch this as I get ready tomorrow morning !! This remind me of when I was little and my 2 favorite Disney shows collaborated 😂 ugh 2 of my fav families !!!

  • @SolieDayGaming
    @SolieDayGaming 10 месяцев назад +12

    Hospitals in Australia have their own rules. Some allow partners to stay and others don’t. It has nothing to whether you are at a private or public hospital.

  • @Dreamer96g
    @Dreamer96g 10 месяцев назад +25

    Can you please do Kristin and Marcus next?💗💗💗

  • @amberj3941
    @amberj3941 10 месяцев назад +8

    We need a part 2! Lol I could have listened to this the whole day!

  • @naraquika
    @naraquika 10 месяцев назад +3

    i waited so much for this collab!

  • @keilalevis3534
    @keilalevis3534 10 месяцев назад +4

    Healthcare system is broken in the US, but health workers (nurses, doctors, clinicians, physical therapist, etc..) are the true MVPs.

  • @leen34568
    @leen34568 10 месяцев назад +20

    matt playing with abby’s hair is so sweet❤️

  • @DelaneyWalker
    @DelaneyWalker 10 месяцев назад +6

    I remember when Jess and Gabe posted their first vlog. I can’t believe how long it’s been 🥹

  • @moggy9331
    @moggy9331 10 месяцев назад +8

    Matt & Abby this was a light hearted and fun episode. I live in the land down under we too have the occasional kangaroo near our home but they are plentiful in the nearby bushland and we live 25km from one of the major cities. I am surprised Jess didn't mention the very dangerous drop bears and hoop snakes! 🤣🤣

    • @cristinamerlini
      @cristinamerlini 10 месяцев назад +2

      I think she was trying not to scare them too much. Hahaha I’ve been there and loved it and would return for sure!!!

    • @annjimenezbrisbane
      @annjimenezbrisbane 10 месяцев назад

      Sending love ❤ from Brisbane 🇦🇺

  • @nataliedeel8497
    @nataliedeel8497 10 месяцев назад +2

    The collab I’ve been YEARNING for

  • @Chandler-ReceMuro
    @Chandler-ReceMuro 10 месяцев назад +3

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS COLLAB FOR SOOOO LONG!! 😍

  • @smellemageddon
    @smellemageddon 10 месяцев назад +11

    My Australian husband and I did this in reverse - I’m an American in Australia now! It’s so invasive, but worth it to be together

  • @dot_dots123
    @dot_dots123 10 месяцев назад +11

    I pray Abby loves her sassy side fully and Matt accepts and validates that to her. ❤

  • @harshinijain9403
    @harshinijain9403 10 месяцев назад +5

    The collab we all needed
    Eeeeeeee

  • @zsb99
    @zsb99 10 месяцев назад +4

    been waiting for this collab! listening asap.

  • @nickib2342
    @nickib2342 10 месяцев назад +3

    The sweetest 2 ladies of internet in one podcast 🥰

  • @yanab4
    @yanab4 10 месяцев назад +2

    My husband and i knew eachother from childhood..he was 5 and i was 3..but then we moved to different countrys and after many many years we met by accident at youth conference when i was 16 and he was 18..from there we texted eachother and started dating for 3 years long distance relationship..weve been married for 9 years now and have 4 children:) it is possible if u really want it..i always remember my husband would tell me before flying back home that there will be a time when we'll look back and say oh remember we used to say good bye and lesve for another 6-8months without seeing eachother..that would make me cry so much because when ur in that moment u want it now but true love waits and it waits patiently

  • @jennS9311
    @jennS9311 10 месяцев назад

    Our kids have been homeschooled and in the public school system. Hands down, no questions about it, when we homeschool they get more socializing. We meet with three different school groups 3 times a week, plus our church group. We have a broader, bigger, social group when homeschooling than when going to public school.

  • @janhavisatpute-il4ev
    @janhavisatpute-il4ev 10 месяцев назад +93

    The amount of serotonin I had the entire episode ❤️😭

  • @caitlingaweda2153
    @caitlingaweda2153 10 месяцев назад +5

    The collab we’ve all been waiting for!!!

  • @sarahbarber1637
    @sarahbarber1637 10 месяцев назад +2

    32:04 The jellyfish that Gabe is talking about is an Irukandji jellyfish. They are extremely tiny and can kill due to the symptoms from the sting (cardiac complications). They are found in Northern Queensland! Where I’m from in the stinger season of November to May they are everywhere and you can either only swim in patrolled (swept every day) nets at the beach or in a full wetsuit known as a stinger suit. Also every patrolled beach has vinegar in an accessible place so if you are stung you can neutralise the spot. It’s pretty intense but stings are pretty rare! 😅 It’s still very safe to swim and not a “everything’s trying to kill you” situation.

    • @kimberlypettit2038
      @kimberlypettit2038 10 месяцев назад +2

      When I first moved to Townsville from Tassie, I was so confused by the stinger nets and vinegar at the beach!! Wild times 🤣

  • @k.k7208
    @k.k7208 10 месяцев назад +3

    the entire beginning about the order of names feels like the max and ruby theme song 😂 “max and ruby… ruby and max”

  • @marta.villatoro
    @marta.villatoro 10 месяцев назад +5

    THE COLLAB I WAS MOST EXCITED ABOUT 😍🤩

  • @beckyjo3697
    @beckyjo3697 10 месяцев назад +3

    Haha love this! I’m learning so much. Y’all make me so happy and brighten my day!

  • @Jindarella_
    @Jindarella_ 10 месяцев назад +1

    You guys need to do this on a regular basis, this is such a good collaboration! ❤

  • @alex_danceskpop
    @alex_danceskpop 10 месяцев назад +4

    The manscape ad just sent me over the edge with laughter and I just DIED XD

  • @colonelquakers
    @colonelquakers 10 месяцев назад +27

    I definitely didn’t expect to laugh as much as I did 😂

  • @nataliagonzalez8623
    @nataliagonzalez8623 10 месяцев назад +11

    i relate SO HARD to Gabe with “latino/a loud”

  • @lizzygrace6322
    @lizzygrace6322 10 месяцев назад +72

    Matt trying to do an Australian accent 😂

  • @lihuenayala3024
    @lihuenayala3024 10 месяцев назад +16

    As a Latina I can relate so deeply to how Gabe described his family 😅😅 Latinos are like that 100%

  • @AndrewsiPhoneable
    @AndrewsiPhoneable 10 месяцев назад +1

    Finding your meaning in being selfless is TOTALLY the key to happiness. 100% agree. Especially when both have the same commitment to the Lord as Christians. We are in our 9th year of marriage and I am more in love than the day we got married, and that love grew after two kids. It’s awesome

  • @Adimenera
    @Adimenera 9 месяцев назад +3

    Gabe literally made me laugh throughout the whole thing. HAHAHA

  • @JB11334
    @JB11334 10 месяцев назад +8

    Another couple I have never heard of with millions of followers 😂 seriously where do you guys find these people?!? I enjoyed them both. Strong Fathers Strong Daughters is a great book. There’s also a movie.

    • @sarahmulqueen6079
      @sarahmulqueen6079 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm not alone in not having heard of them😅

    • @luna-mo3ol
      @luna-mo3ol 10 месяцев назад +1

      I've heard of them, I'm not sure how I first came across them but I've known their channel for years actually

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli 10 месяцев назад +3

    You all are so wholesome and I just laughed and loved this convo. I’m 42 so as Jess and Gabe knows I always tell them I’m their Aunt when I comment to them! Happy Holidays! 🫶🏽🥰🙏🏽🎄

  • @avaluhring2228
    @avaluhring2228 10 месяцев назад +5

    You were on my Spotify wrapped list. I love you guys so much. I'm your number three fan

  • @juliamahoney1509
    @juliamahoney1509 10 месяцев назад +2

    Best episode yet! Just such genuine conversation and connection!

  • @bhavyasharma4398
    @bhavyasharma4398 10 месяцев назад +2

    Literally manifested a Collab of them omgggggg🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @ainaaa
    @ainaaa 10 месяцев назад +1

    i actually screamed when i saw the thumbnail ive been waiting for this collab

  • @angelicamarliza
    @angelicamarliza 10 месяцев назад +2

    I absolutely loved this episode! It’s so great seeing all of you together! 😊

  • @odeetteplascencia
    @odeetteplascencia 10 месяцев назад +4

    Yay!!! Finally! Love Jess and Gabriel!!❤️❤️

  • @mommyandalexia
    @mommyandalexia 10 месяцев назад +3

    Oh my goodness I love Jess and Gabe you guys are just the coolest!! ❤❤❤

  • @alexandradobroiu2449
    @alexandradobroiu2449 10 месяцев назад +2

    The way Matt plays with Abby's hair 😍 loved the episode 🔥

  • @alyssabmcdaniel
    @alyssabmcdaniel 10 месяцев назад +1

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS COLLAB!!!!

  • @one_l3ve165
    @one_l3ve165 10 месяцев назад +3

    I re be watching Jess and Gabes surprise trip to Australia years back and getting emoji bc our friends that are from Australia were then living in Spain with us and they went back to surprise their family and it was just kind of deja vu. Total lost track of them their channel but now I ll definitely look more into it 😊

  • @taystronaut
    @taystronaut 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve been waiting for this collab!!!

  • @pixiedust7402
    @pixiedust7402 10 месяцев назад +11

    Matt and Abby, you guys are really good togther and have something really special. I know that this will stick for eternity. I really do. Lots of Love

  • @emilygraham1312
    @emilygraham1312 10 месяцев назад +1

    “What if we put all our energy into being selfless?” 💯

  • @patrickgilhuly06
    @patrickgilhuly06 9 месяцев назад +1

    I’m American, and it’s so funny when they start talking about the accents because my long distance best friend is half-British/half-Australian (he grew up in Bristol, England), and we make fun of each other’s accents constantly 😂

  • @Itsjustwidad
    @Itsjustwidad 7 месяцев назад +5

    The fact that she was actually pregnant and didn’t know it is wild (I think they didn’t know it if it’s before December 19th) 😂