The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck | Mark Manson

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @mystery369
    @mystery369 Год назад +8

    So many gems hidden in this long episode 🙏🏼

  • @kimkuhlman4444
    @kimkuhlman4444 Год назад +14

    I love how human and open he is about self help authors not always taking their advice!! that alone helped me so much- knowing that even when you know what to do- you won’t always do it and that’s normal

  • @veronikailovepuppies9489
    @veronikailovepuppies9489 Год назад +2

    Mark has a special place in my heart cause I randomly discovered his blog about 10 years ago and was reading it at work when I felt depressed cause I didn´t like my job and didn´t know where my life was going. It always made me feel better.

  • @silviavanderheiden5123
    @silviavanderheiden5123 Год назад +13

    nice opening about the realisation of our own mortality! Makes me want to like the whole talk at once!

  • @MiaStayingCreative
    @MiaStayingCreative Год назад +12

    “When you’re being rewarded by the world for a certain identity, it’s very very hard to refuse it.” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @SophiaAphrodite
      @SophiaAphrodite Год назад +2

      Jim Carrey is the epitome of managing to refuse it.

    • @Baketoast
      @Baketoast 4 месяца назад

      Word yo! ​@@SophiaAphrodite

  • @DebDeb56
    @DebDeb56 Год назад +7

    WOW!!
    This is Life Changing...feels SO good to let go of the BS
    Thank you!!!

  • @NatalieVukman-n3i
    @NatalieVukman-n3i Год назад +4

    Great conversation and your interviewing skills are next level💫

  • @HaiperEXE
    @HaiperEXE Год назад +1

    underrated value.

  • @brandonbarash9177
    @brandonbarash9177 Год назад +14

    I appreciate your ability to follow up on questions that flowed with the thought process Mark brought us along on...that's really rare to see in a interview, keep up the good work

  • @lomigreen
    @lomigreen Год назад +10

    This is a great conversation. Thanks for letting us listen in 😊

  • @ginalibrizzi5204
    @ginalibrizzi5204 Год назад +1

    I was so pleasantly surprised by this conversation. It’s beautiful how the dialogue seems to flow effortlessly; at the same time, I recognize that this is a reflection of your interviewing skills. I haven’t (yet) read Mark Manson’s books, so I had no idea that his insights would be so life changing. Thank you both. 💞

  • @goodinthehead
    @goodinthehead Год назад +7

    AWESOME podcast gentlemen! Thank you SO MUCH for your work and how it influences so many. Keep it up!!!

  • @kristycika5546
    @kristycika5546 Год назад +6

    Such a great book. I listened to the audiobook twice because it has so much info to think about.

  • @sacredlobas
    @sacredlobas Год назад +8

    You keep bringing the best ones ❤

  • @AwakeThriving
    @AwakeThriving Год назад +4

    This was a lovely episode with such down-to-earth topics! And very practical solutions to the various problems that many people face. I loved the thoughts about the perspective shift. Thank you both so much! ❤️🕉️✨

  • @wildsoulalice252
    @wildsoulalice252 Год назад +6

    Interesting comments on the paradox of progress…Why do the wealthy and abundant parts of countries/cities also have the highest suicide rates and highest levels of depression? When we solve the issue of physical abundance (when we do not worry about survival) we then ask who do we want to be? Live a heart based existence…enjoy the question. Go easy on yourself. Allow and surrender to what comes…

  • @peaceful_universe
    @peaceful_universe Год назад +24

    To the person reading this message.. don't worry.. the
    pain your feeling is temporary, close your eyes and
    remember tomorrow is a new day, a fresh start! Take
    deep breathes, your gonna be alright! I promise.
    Wishing you a lifetime of happiness, peace, and
    abundance! I love you❤

  • @anastasiiapavlova2840
    @anastasiiapavlova2840 Год назад +6

    I’ve been listening to this podcast almost since the beginning and kept thinking ‘ what would happen when Andre will run out of amazing people to invite ‘ , but you continue surprising me! Never was expecting to see Mark Manson in here , his books are absolutely incredible ! Thank you for that!

  • @cmf0627
    @cmf0627 Год назад +4

    Deep gratitude for the guests you bring on
    Your interview skills are fire 🔥
    Conversation always flows with well thought out, introspective questions
    🎆💫

  • @cassierabe2491
    @cassierabe2491 7 месяцев назад

    Wow!! I've been listening to all of Mark Manson's interview on youtube. I've seen a lot already and I'm really surprised about the way you asked your question. It has depth and awareness. Really. Of all the interviewer I've seen. You're the best so far Mr. Andre Duqum. So, I subscribed and follow you on Intsa. I'm a fan now of yours. From The Philippines!! I will watch this again. I had a lot of notes on this descussion that I need to process yet. So much info and learning. Thanks to the both of you. Love, from The Philippines ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daniellejadespeaks
    @daniellejadespeaks Год назад +5

    this was a great conversation!
    ! It would be cool to see you do an episode with Dan Koe!

  • @robmedina143
    @robmedina143 Год назад +5

    Can you do a video on your skin routine ?
    Flawless!

  • @dawnfmEnthusiast
    @dawnfmEnthusiast Год назад +2

    great interviewing skills

  • @franco.cillie
    @franco.cillie 3 месяца назад

    Under rated🙌🏻

  • @nicolettefaddel3505
    @nicolettefaddel3505 Год назад +3

    Wow will look into your 📚

  • @Banditxam5
    @Banditxam5 Год назад +1

    Legend 💫

  • @JulieAnnCanal-mx5nw
    @JulieAnnCanal-mx5nw 6 месяцев назад

    Awesome conversation 😁😁

  • @jamesbutler5908
    @jamesbutler5908 Год назад +2

    Thanks lads. We live on words, instead of action 😅

  • @franciscosifuentes3007
    @franciscosifuentes3007 Год назад +2

    Thank you congrats on 100k subscribers

  • @lisahinkofer2085
    @lisahinkofer2085 Год назад +1

    Your fried Josh was your awaking. His death and just so you know his death was planned previously to him being born. His contract was up and he was there with you to lead you on your journey by leaving and going home. You have an amazing story and your journey isn’t done yet. Josh gave you the lead by him leaving you but he is always with you and you must remember that all this was planned.

  • @benjaminchew8442
    @benjaminchew8442 Год назад +1

    Hi there, ever since I started watching your videos, I was able to tap so much into my consciousness and discover that I am Awareness and it all felt so good, but now my mind seems to be clamping down really hard, and it's like there's an entity in my head that's constantly over-reactive and causing all sorts of clenching or tightness in my body, it makes me unable to burp or fart or poop easily, it's amplifying the pain I feel from all sorts of things and feelings, and it's affecting my life really much. When I try to talk to this entity, I always get the same answers, it wants me to suffer, and the reason it is here is because of all the consciousness work that I did, and that it is killing it, so it wants me to stop, but I have already stopped for so long, almost weeks, but this entity is still here, and it's just making life harder and harder by the day, I'm like having constipation and bloating just from the fact that mind is so tight that it won't let me release, and my entire life is now centered around finding ways to burp and fart and poop. No matter how hard I try to make peace or be friends with it, it just stays silent, and gives me no answer, and whenever I even think about anything that's slightly triggering to it, like abiding in God consciousness, or meditating, or simply being jolted by sudden movements, and noises, it just goes absolutely nuts, and clenches up completely, making the top of my head feel like there's a clamp on it. I really need help on this, have you or anyone here encountered such a phenomenon before? And what would you guys recommend I do to put an end to this? Is there a way to come to peaceful terms with it? A way for it to just let go if I would stop the meditations? Do I just give it time to calm down? It seems worse and worse each day. Do I keep on practicing meditation regardless of how painful it is and maybe it will be gone forever? But it just feels worse and worse the more I do it, and it always comes back, and it feels wrong to be forcing things like this. I feel like my life is really going to end if I don't find any solutions, anyone who has any idea what's going on and what I should be doing, I would be so grateful to hear from you!

    • @yessical6514
      @yessical6514 Год назад +1

      You are describing my life right now, I can't get my self to meditate im forcing myself to for 3 min every morning and it's nice actually at this point im seeing that I need to stop being so hard on myself the fact that im aware of the nurture and care my spirit soul mind need is a step forward everyday I work on taking little step that way and that's enough for me right now

    • @benjaminchew8442
      @benjaminchew8442 Год назад

      @@yessical6514 The burping and pooping and peeing part too? How do you handle it all?

  • @CADAVREFILMS
    @CADAVREFILMS Год назад +1

    "Neccesity is the Mother of all Invention." MacGyver (It's Plato actually) 😉

  • @armanke13
    @armanke13 Год назад

    1:23:00 yeah, I'm from Indonesia btw.. hi

  • @andreakiss7719
    @andreakiss7719 4 месяца назад

    Fuck yeah! Good conversation! 🙏🏻❤

  • @hnz123
    @hnz123 Год назад +2

    Andre you had mentioned that you weren’t interested in certain psychedelics.. I find everyone is doing it these days and not sure if it’s for everybody . What were ur reasons not to pursue that path ? Thank you

  • @terraprojects
    @terraprojects Год назад +7

    @ 27:08 RE: higher prosperity leading to increased stats on suicide etc......This appears to not be true in countries where it is common to have a connection to the divine/ god. For instance in affluent countries in the Middle East such as Kuwait, Saudi Arabi etc.

    • @terraprojects
      @terraprojects Год назад +3

      and RE: André's reply @ 30:40 discussing the self-centeredness that can occur. This can be mended with Spiritual/ Religious community.

    • @larsstougaard7097
      @larsstougaard7097 Год назад +1

      You completely forget that in many countries suicide is still a great tabu or even illegal especially in the middle east. Much data is inaccurate and many suicides are not reported. It is true that highly developed countries with high stress and pressure and not religious like South Korea has high rate of suicide. Children there often have very long school days with extra training, saw a documentary about it, some children has like 10-12 hours school days. And take India that is considered very spiritual , here according to a World Health Organisation (WHO) report, India has the highest number of depressed individuals in the world. This means that one out of three individuals in India suffers from depression.

  • @imgreenie
    @imgreenie Год назад

    Andre's intermittent obsequious cliches make it challenging for the adept viewer.

  • @Andrea-Rose
    @Andrea-Rose Год назад +2

    💜💜💜

  • @gawdpratyush
    @gawdpratyush Год назад

    54:00

  • @Banditxam5
    @Banditxam5 Год назад

    55:03

  • @sophieoshaughnessy9469
    @sophieoshaughnessy9469 Год назад +2

    Does mark practice the subtle art of not giving a sh*t about the trash? 😉