He is actually the husband! They are married! 🤦♀He said that she does not her wifely duties so he sees her as roommate. It is also planned pregnancy, he said that he did not realized the wife would "lazy and cranky" and he still thinks that pregnancy is her sole responsibility and has no responsibility as a father until baby comes to world. So he keeps doubling down and gets worse and worse with each of his comments. I feel really bad for the wife if this is true story.
I really hope his wife leaves him and goes to her family for support because she clearly isn't going to get any from him he sounds like the kind of guy who is gonna complain when she can't have sex after giving birth.
The audacity of the "husband" that calls his wife a roommate. Pregnancy, though it is not an illness, comes with a LOT of symptoms that regular illnesses do, society just expects women to deal with it, but if you honestly take it into consideration, most people would not be on their A-game going through the same thing. Something tells me that this OP is the type of dude that acts like he's dying and cries like a baby when he gets a common cold or has food poisoning.
38:58 Kind of adding to this, I remember seeing multiple tiktoks recounting how in straight relationships, married men live longer then single men BUT single women live longer than married women. The possible reason behind this is cause the wife usually tells the husband to get things check/reminds routine appointment, etc. So married men actually get their recommended checks, but the married women get stressed from reminding/worrying about their husbands. Obviously, this is an approx. overall average, and not the case for all straight relationship. The yelling is probably a result of stress for their partner being misdirected. (Sorry for long comment and thanks for reading till the end💙)
Wetting the bed as an adult has so many causes and none of them are light and almost all of them are bad! She needs to convince him to go to a doctor or a therapist or even see both
As an adult, there is one reason you could do it and it's harmless. I doubt it's the case for this one though. Actually make that 2 reasons. It's not super uncommon even for adults to have accidents following nightmares. The second one I've seen and heard people mention more than once. You think you're on the toilet, but you're actually still asleep and it's just a dream. Some people sleepwalk and actually do it in the bathroom (a friend did that). But it's always best to talk to a medical professional just in case. I had to run around like a madman when I had lumbago ichias (or however it's spelled), because the nerve and my bladder apparently got into a war 😅
Peeing the bed as an adult is a sign of trauma and stress. Also it happens if someone has a seizure. I think he needs to talk to someone and go therapy. I hope he does. I had this happen to an ex. He was so embarrassed and didn’t understand so as a partner I was there to walk him through the process of going to the doctor etc.
Story 5: I remember that vividly and there is a reason the original was removed on the AITA subreddit. This person was a troll and posted different versions of this story on different subreddits, some being really racist. Definitely a troll, the biggest consensus was that it was fake. I went down too many rabbit holes with this one. (Though it made the Jackie joke funnier because he did use Jackie in one of the stories)
1:01:49 he revictimised that poor woman! "Forcing her to remain top less! I really hope its fake. But unfortunately people do react to panic attacks like this! Im more like John, i freeze, i can speak or move. That poor woman!
2nd story For me any story with a woman not wanting someone in the delivery room she is always not the asshole, She's the one giving birth, she's the one whose going to be put in a vulnerable situation it doesnt matter bow great of a person they are she's the one who decides who can be there with her no one else has a say end of story
Knowing the story and knowing that Josh knows, watching his face while Sean and John explain their thoughts after reading is sooooo funny. Also, impressive poker face. 😂
I was going to comment the exact same thing. It's literally just saying who's bringing in the money, which is relevant for relationship dynamics, especially the one in this story
Because it had literally nothing to do with the story… Male or female, they were showboating. Who gives af if he’s in between jobs, and she’s the bread winner? What does that have to do with him wetting the bed. Even if she didn’t work, and he was the bread winner, it’s the exact same situation. It basically seems like she’s saying, “I make the money, so i’m allowed to blow up on my spouse, for anything.” Gave me the ick too
@@CarlyCarlarly No it does matter. It’s part of the relationship dynamic; imagine if she was a stay at home wife & his wetting the bed was a result of him being overwhelmed and stressed out from constantly working
I like how you mentioned that the idea of food can have negative effects. I feel hyper aware of what my food is made off. Some people think it's disgusting to eat insects, and I cannot separate the idea of meat from an animal. It just seems gross to me and finding a piece of misplaced meat in my food results in panic attacks for me. I don't think everyone should be vegan or vegetarian, I just really can't mentally get myself to eat meat
Firstly, I'm really sorry that you have to live life with those issues. I know how often places get food and drink orders wrong, so i can guess how narly it must be to get P.A.s because of it. I have a question about what you wrote: Why don't you think that everyone should be vegan or speaking from your standpoint at least vegetarian? What makes you think that others eating meat is okay? Most people just have cognitive dissonance and push it to the back of their mind so they can live with themselves, but when so clearly seeing a corpse for what it is, how can you not think that it is morally wrong to eat it? I really hope this doesn't come off as rude, because i really only want to understand your standpoint. If it does, please feel free to tell me.
For the husband wetting the bed story, there are multiple reasons for having accidents honestly. I understand her frustration but he seriously needs to go to the dr, gets some accident underwear or diapers, get some sheets thats deal with that and they also set off an alarm when it happens so that might help ect but honestly he needs to see a therapist or dr because hes been unemployed for quite awhile, hes not changing anything or really communicating and the drinking definitely does not help especially if shes making all the money and taking care of the kids and him acting like nothing is wrong. Communication is always key in a relationship and it seems to me hes the kind of guy who probably says yes dear or nods his head but thats just my opinion. My grandpa and my mom(r.i.p momma and pawpaw) always told me, "you have two ears and one mouth so you can listen twice as much as you speak." Oh shes nta btw haha sorry for the long comment everyone! Love yall, this pod and the wikimaniac fam! P.s i lovvvveeee Krispy Kreme donuts which sucks for me since im type 1 diabetic 😅 le sigh common sense isnt that common anymore that poor OP lol.
A few drops of pee its normal I think...but if you often full on pee yourself after drinking alcohol, PLEASEEE VISIT YOUR DOCTOR, you could have diabetes!
I've had friends who've peed the bed because they were just too deep in sleep. Some have even dreamt of going to the bathroom, doing their business and then going back to bed. And it resulting in an accident. A friend of mine had a really bad nightmare once when I slept over, and he had an accident. Adult guy, 26 at the time.
Imagine how awful it would feel to wake up covered in someone’s pee. Absolutely disgusting.. I had an alcoholic father and I had a hunch it has to do with drinking before she said anything
#3: There is a nasal spray made for this issue. My ex peed the bed every night that he forgot his nasal spray. In his case, he sleeps so deep that the need to go doesn't register. Lastly, I would say that he NEEDS to see a doctor about this to rule out kidney issues, urinary tract issues, diabetes, prostate problems, etc.🤷🏽♀️
They did stop. They were just pointing out "hey, let's make sure "vegan guy" gets appropriate options.. when the "vegan" was annoyed they stopped.. 🤷♀️
@varpuvanhapiha1537 No, they did not. The first time, he was upset. They then proceeded to do it multiple more times. Not to mention, the way they talk about his eating habits are weirdly judgmental. Like I said, not sure about being an asshole, but OP needs to just step back.
@brett8259 I didn't hear that at all. When I'm with a vegetarian friend and planning to order food, I say hey, let's not order there, they don't have veg option.. as my friends do for me since I have a lot of food restrictions..
The husband peeing the bed NEEDS TO go to a hospital get all medical issues rules out and if its not medical issues go to therapy. I doubt hes enjoying it, there was no need to yell at him.
I would like to add to the Panic attack story while that guy was 100% the asshole. I don’t think if anyone in general is disgusted by a panic attack it means they’re a horrible person. Panic attacks can be very not pretty to say the least especially if it involves bodily fluids it’s OK to be disgusted by that, but that’s not being disgusted by the intrinsic thing. It’s being disgusted by the results in a normal fashion, this guy, just as sociopath
It was bad enough and then when he said he grabbed her clothes away from her, NOoooooo! wth??? The only one thing I can *slightly* understand is the frustration of being with someone who has panic attacks they are not managing. Like if she consistently puts herself in situations he even knows will give her an attack. But them just home alone, I think that would be a good time for her to take that chance to try it. I haven't dealt with panic attacks but have known several people with PTSD. They are always allowed to back out. But we'd all rather they try something they want to get comfortable with again and then back out if necessary. No big deal! Wow, what a crazy idea right, CARING about your friends and SOs! That guy was horrible and I hope she finds someone who is what most of us would call NORMAL. And if you are dealing with someone who consistently sets themselves up for a breakdown, expecting you to comfort them, you have to have a conversation about that in a calm moment. "In the future, if you want to try something we know will probably upset you, I am not ready to be there for that every time. We have to discuss it and I get to opt out of being caretaker today." For example. But this really didn't seem like that and even if it was, his reaction was out of line and CRUEL.
The second story is so sad. She has every right to feel what she feels,especially about birth. Screw the husband and her mother. She should just focus on her baby and becoming a mommy❤
I mean, yes partners can and should support each other, BUT some things are their own responsibilities. Like the dude either getting medical help or buying diapers. His issue, his responsibility.
I had a slightly disgusting experience when I was a child and I can eat peppers if they are uncoocked and entire or sliced, bit if they are coocked I cannot stand even smelling them if they are entire (not sliced), I cannot bear with it, some people find it hilarious and don't understand it but it's my reality
I'm with you on this. There are some vegetables that I do not want if they are cooked or grilled. Bell peppers being the nr 1 culprit. Which is kinda sad, because my grandpa used to make this food, stuffed bell peppers, with minced meat in them. I just turned them upside down, got the meat, cheese and rice out and his the bell pepper so I could throw it away 😅
Both of you cracking me up, I have some quirks like this, too. 😂 I lost track of who said what but I was dying laughing when someone said he thought rice was roach eggs. I love rice. But put it in soup, Nooo! It just makes me think of maggots! That's the only way I CAN'T STAND rice. But even something like a goulash or pepper steak usually ladeled over a base of rice, nope. Still love those but I need it side-by-side. 😁 Was it John who had the meat quirks? I completely understood that, too. Notice the ones he doesn't like are more recognizably meat. That one I got over, man do I love a steak, now. But until well into my 20s I was quite picky about meat. And I was like him, fine with things like hot dogs or some cold cuts but the more recognizably meat it was, less I could take. At least we're cheap dates because most of what people like this like is actually lower quality. 😂 The funny thing to me is, things like hot dogs are probably more gross than something that is clearly a clean cut of only meat with no additives. But hey, we all know what we like and just have whatever YOU like. 😁
I mean, mayo.. maybe not everyone realise there's egg in it. But cheese?! How do you not know cheese is an animal product? Also op totally saved his ass from embarrassment. Imagine him being around people, other vegans even, claiming to be a vgan and styffing his gave with cheese.. 😂
I sadly wish I didn’t ignore the TW, the last story reminds me of my boyfriend. He’s definitely not as bad but he has belittled and taunted me during my panic attacks and it is the worst feeling to go through that. I really hope the last story was fake.
“I just think good partners help eachother”. I think you’re thinking in a codependent mindset. You’re taking away his agency and placing part of the blame on her even though it’s not her job to take care of a grown man pissing the bed
So i am not a doctor however wetting the bed sounds like a trauma response. He might have a deep seated issue. While you think that qould be easy work out. Its not easy to connect it to the main issue. Example- I had night terrors- where my night demon would try to choke the life out of me. That was supposed to be connected with me not feeling like i can talk in person in a relationship. I had ro evaluate each relationship until i found who made me feel that way.
Sorry but men have pride. Most would be too embarrassed to go to the dr. Taking care of my in laws. My father in law has gotten to the point he goes to the bathroom in his pants. We bought him disposable briefs, left them in his room and didn’t say anything. He started using them then.
Story two.... People need to suck it up when they decide to keep a baby. Actions have consequences, part of that is keeping a child with someone. You need to try to get along and not show hate towards each other in front of your kids no matter what you went through. I know you guys dont agree with that but it is horrible parenting and scarring for the kids to be crappy towards each other
He is actually the husband! They are married! 🤦♀He said that she does not her wifely duties so he sees her as roommate. It is also planned pregnancy, he said that he did not realized the wife would "lazy and cranky" and he still thinks that pregnancy is her sole responsibility and has no responsibility as a father until baby comes to world. So he keeps doubling down and gets worse and worse with each of his comments. I feel really bad for the wife if this is true story.
Wow, thanks for this :)
Sorry for all the typo and missed words. 🤦♀️😅
she needs to leaveeee
ain't noooo way
I really hope his wife leaves him and goes to her family for support because she clearly isn't going to get any from him he sounds like the kind of guy who is gonna complain when she can't have sex after giving birth.
Whats extra crazy abt the first story is that they're MARRIED and the baby was planned, op's just a major AH
The audacity of the "husband" that calls his wife a roommate. Pregnancy, though it is not an illness, comes with a LOT of symptoms that regular illnesses do, society just expects women to deal with it, but if you honestly take it into consideration, most people would not be on their A-game going through the same thing. Something tells me that this OP is the type of dude that acts like he's dying and cries like a baby when he gets a common cold or has food poisoning.
38:58 Kind of adding to this, I remember seeing multiple tiktoks recounting how in straight relationships, married men live longer then single men BUT single women live longer than married women. The possible reason behind this is cause the wife usually tells the husband to get things check/reminds routine appointment, etc. So married men actually get their recommended checks, but the married women get stressed from reminding/worrying about their husbands.
Obviously, this is an approx. overall average, and not the case for all straight relationship.
The yelling is probably a result of stress for their partner being misdirected.
(Sorry for long comment and thanks for reading till the end💙)
Huh... time for me to find a man then 😂
@@lina9535 so either a queer man wanting to live longer or a fellow suicidal woman like me.... wrlcome to the club, i guess haha :')
Wetting the bed as an adult has so many causes and none of them are light and almost all of them are bad! She needs to convince him to go to a doctor or a therapist or even see both
As an adult, there is one reason you could do it and it's harmless. I doubt it's the case for this one though.
Actually make that 2 reasons.
It's not super uncommon even for adults to have accidents following nightmares.
The second one I've seen and heard people mention more than once. You think you're on the toilet, but you're actually still asleep and it's just a dream. Some people sleepwalk and actually do it in the bathroom (a friend did that).
But it's always best to talk to a medical professional just in case.
I had to run around like a madman when I had lumbago ichias (or however it's spelled), because the nerve and my bladder apparently got into a war 😅
Peeing the bed as an adult is a sign of trauma and stress. Also it happens if someone has a seizure. I think he needs to talk to someone and go therapy. I hope he does. I had this happen to an ex. He was so embarrassed and didn’t understand so as a partner I was there to walk him through the process of going to the doctor etc.
Re: Story #2- if "mechanical/cold" sex will make this man cheat I can guarantee what happens in the delivery room wouldn't help.
I choked when Josh said ayo 😂😂
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Story 5: I remember that vividly and there is a reason the original was removed on the AITA subreddit. This person was a troll and posted different versions of this story on different subreddits, some being really racist. Definitely a troll, the biggest consensus was that it was fake. I went down too many rabbit holes with this one.
(Though it made the Jackie joke funnier because he did use Jackie in one of the stories)
1:01:49 he revictimised that poor woman! "Forcing her to remain top less! I really hope its fake. But unfortunately people do react to panic attacks like this! Im more like John, i freeze, i can speak or move. That poor woman!
2nd story For me any story with a woman not wanting someone in the delivery room she is always not the asshole, She's the one giving birth, she's the one whose going to be put in a vulnerable situation it doesnt matter bow great of a person they are she's the one who decides who can be there with her no one else has a say end of story
Definitely agree with Josh on Story 3. Dude is an adult, he should be responsible for himself.
Knowing the story and knowing that Josh knows, watching his face while Sean and John explain their thoughts after reading is sooooo funny.
Also, impressive poker face. 😂
Thank you for including the part of the visit to the museum - thank you for reminding people. It means alot!
You are Skyrim FANS??! Already didn't think I could adore you more!!!
37:46 idk why they’re so offended by the bread winner comment. Men do it all the time & honestly ppl ask for that info to get the full picture.
I was going to comment the exact same thing. It's literally just saying who's bringing in the money, which is relevant for relationship dynamics, especially the one in this story
Because it had literally nothing to do with the story… Male or female, they were showboating. Who gives af if he’s in between jobs, and she’s the bread winner? What does that have to do with him wetting the bed. Even if she didn’t work, and he was the bread winner, it’s the exact same situation. It basically seems like she’s saying, “I make the money, so i’m allowed to blow up on my spouse, for anything.” Gave me the ick too
@@CarlyCarlarly No it does matter. It’s part of the relationship dynamic; imagine if she was a stay at home wife & his wetting the bed was a result of him being overwhelmed and stressed out from constantly working
@@stepha_Fhuh??
They're offended when men do it too.
I like how you mentioned that the idea of food can have negative effects. I feel hyper aware of what my food is made off. Some people think it's disgusting to eat insects, and I cannot separate the idea of meat from an animal. It just seems gross to me and finding a piece of misplaced meat in my food results in panic attacks for me. I don't think everyone should be vegan or vegetarian, I just really can't mentally get myself to eat meat
Firstly, I'm really sorry that you have to live life with those issues. I know how often places get food and drink orders wrong, so i can guess how narly it must be to get P.A.s because of it.
I have a question about what you wrote: Why don't you think that everyone should be vegan or speaking from your standpoint at least vegetarian?
What makes you think that others eating meat is okay?
Most people just have cognitive dissonance and push it to the back of their mind so they can live with themselves, but when so clearly seeing a corpse for what it is, how can you not think that it is morally wrong to eat it?
I really hope this doesn't come off as rude, because i really only want to understand your standpoint.
If it does, please feel free to tell me.
For the husband wetting the bed story, there are multiple reasons for having accidents honestly. I understand her frustration but he seriously needs to go to the dr, gets some accident underwear or diapers, get some sheets thats deal with that and they also set off an alarm when it happens so that might help ect but honestly he needs to see a therapist or dr because hes been unemployed for quite awhile, hes not changing anything or really communicating and the drinking definitely does not help especially if shes making all the money and taking care of the kids and him acting like nothing is wrong. Communication is always key in a relationship and it seems to me hes the kind of guy who probably says yes dear or nods his head but thats just my opinion. My grandpa and my mom(r.i.p momma and pawpaw) always told me, "you have two ears and one mouth so you can listen twice as much as you speak." Oh shes nta btw haha sorry for the long comment everyone! Love yall, this pod and the wikimaniac fam!
P.s i lovvvveeee Krispy Kreme donuts which sucks for me since im type 1 diabetic 😅 le sigh common sense isnt that common anymore that poor OP lol.
I knew IMMEDIATELY which character Sean was talking about on VPR 🤣
Omg when the story was taking about mayo there was a vegan mayo commercial
A few drops of pee its normal I think...but if you often full on pee yourself after drinking alcohol, PLEASEEE VISIT YOUR DOCTOR, you could have diabetes!
My dad was an alcoholic and pissed the bed most nights bc he was just too drunk to wake up. He didn't have diabetes. But everyone is different
I've had friends who've peed the bed because they were just too deep in sleep.
Some have even dreamt of going to the bathroom, doing their business and then going back to bed. And it resulting in an accident.
A friend of mine had a really bad nightmare once when I slept over, and he had an accident. Adult guy, 26 at the time.
Men like the husband in Story No. 5 LOVE their gfs and wives, until they show that they too are human and have flaws.
Imagine how awful it would feel to wake up covered in someone’s pee. Absolutely disgusting.. I had an alcoholic father and I had a hunch it has to do with drinking before she said anything
Right. They took that lightly
The LAT story made me cry.
One month later and history is trying to repeat itself
Was literally about to comment this. It's devastating.
#3: There is a nasal spray made for this issue. My ex peed the bed every night that he forgot his nasal spray. In his case, he sleeps so deep that the need to go doesn't register.
Lastly, I would say that he NEEDS to see a doctor about this to rule out kidney issues, urinary tract issues, diabetes, prostate problems, etc.🤷🏽♀️
With the vegan thing, I don't know about the AH, but I would stop pushing after the friend starts getting annoyed.
They did stop. They were just pointing out "hey, let's make sure "vegan guy" gets appropriate options.. when the "vegan" was annoyed they stopped.. 🤷♀️
@varpuvanhapiha1537 No, they did not. The first time, he was upset. They then proceeded to do it multiple more times. Not to mention, the way they talk about his eating habits are weirdly judgmental. Like I said, not sure about being an asshole, but OP needs to just step back.
@brett8259 I didn't hear that at all. When I'm with a vegetarian friend and planning to order food, I say hey, let's not order there, they don't have veg option.. as my friends do for me since I have a lot of food restrictions..
That husband with the incontinence NEEDS to go to a doctor. Thats such a red flag for health issues
It's 4 tomorrow but I'll be waiting
Im still waiting jajajaja
The husband peeing the bed NEEDS TO go to a hospital get all medical issues rules out and if its not medical issues go to therapy. I doubt hes enjoying it, there was no need to yell at him.
I would like to add to the Panic attack story while that guy was 100% the asshole. I don’t think if anyone in general is disgusted by a panic attack it means they’re a horrible person. Panic attacks can be very not pretty to say the least especially if it involves bodily fluids it’s OK to be disgusted by that, but that’s not being disgusted by the intrinsic thing. It’s being disgusted by the results in a normal fashion, this guy, just as sociopath
It was bad enough and then when he said he grabbed her clothes away from her, NOoooooo! wth???
The only one thing I can *slightly* understand is the frustration of being with someone who has panic attacks they are not managing. Like if she consistently puts herself in situations he even knows will give her an attack.
But them just home alone, I think that would be a good time for her to take that chance to try it.
I haven't dealt with panic attacks but have known several people with PTSD. They are always allowed to back out. But we'd all rather they try something they want to get comfortable with again and then back out if necessary. No big deal!
Wow, what a crazy idea right, CARING about your friends and SOs!
That guy was horrible and I hope she finds someone who is what most of us would call NORMAL.
And if you are dealing with someone who consistently sets themselves up for a breakdown, expecting you to comfort them, you have to have a conversation about that in a calm moment. "In the future, if you want to try something we know will probably upset you, I am not ready to be there for that every time. We have to discuss it and I get to opt out of being caretaker today." For example.
But this really didn't seem like that and even if it was, his reaction was out of line and CRUEL.
The second story is so sad. She has every right to feel what she feels,especially about birth. Screw the husband and her mother. She should just focus on her baby and becoming a mommy❤
With the bed wetting guy I strongly think he needs to go to see a doctor.
I mean, yes partners can and should support each other, BUT some things are their own responsibilities. Like the dude either getting medical help or buying diapers.
His issue, his responsibility.
I had a slightly disgusting experience when I was a child and I can eat peppers if they are uncoocked and entire or sliced, bit if they are coocked I cannot stand even smelling them if they are entire (not sliced), I cannot bear with it, some people find it hilarious and don't understand it but it's my reality
I'm with you on this.
There are some vegetables that I do not want if they are cooked or grilled. Bell peppers being the nr 1 culprit.
Which is kinda sad, because my grandpa used to make this food, stuffed bell peppers, with minced meat in them. I just turned them upside down, got the meat, cheese and rice out and his the bell pepper so I could throw it away 😅
Both of you cracking me up, I have some quirks like this, too. 😂
I lost track of who said what but I was dying laughing when someone said he thought rice was roach eggs. I love rice. But put it in soup, Nooo! It just makes me think of maggots!
That's the only way I CAN'T STAND rice. But even something like a goulash or pepper steak usually ladeled over a base of rice, nope. Still love those but I need it side-by-side. 😁
Was it John who had the meat quirks? I completely understood that, too. Notice the ones he doesn't like are more recognizably meat. That one I got over, man do I love a steak, now. But until well into my 20s I was quite picky about meat. And I was like him, fine with things like hot dogs or some cold cuts but the more recognizably meat it was, less I could take. At least we're cheap dates because most of what people like this like is actually lower quality. 😂
The funny thing to me is, things like hot dogs are probably more gross than something that is clearly a clean cut of only meat with no additives.
But hey, we all know what we like and just have whatever YOU like. 😁
I mean, mayo.. maybe not everyone realise there's egg in it. But cheese?! How do you not know cheese is an animal product? Also op totally saved his ass from embarrassment. Imagine him being around people, other vegans even, claiming to be a vgan and styffing his gave with cheese.. 😂
Story 4 is just a lazy vegan
I sadly wish I didn’t ignore the TW, the last story reminds me of my boyfriend. He’s definitely not as bad but he has belittled and taunted me during my panic attacks and it is the worst feeling to go through that. I really hope the last story was fake.
I’m dying to know your zodiac signs. I’d guess Shaun as a fire sign, Josh as earth and Jon as Water.
I think Sean is more of an Air sign tbh!
“I just think good partners help eachother”. I think you’re thinking in a codependent mindset. You’re taking away his agency and placing part of the blame on her even though it’s not her job to take care of a grown man pissing the bed
So i am not a doctor however wetting the bed sounds like a trauma response. He might have a deep seated issue. While you think that qould be easy work out. Its not easy to connect it to the main issue. Example- I had night terrors- where my night demon would try to choke the life out of me. That was supposed to be connected with me not feeling like i can talk in person in a relationship. I had ro evaluate each relationship until i found who made me feel that way.
Sorry but men have pride. Most would be too embarrassed to go to the dr. Taking care of my in laws. My father in law has gotten to the point he goes to the bathroom in his pants. We bought him disposable briefs, left them in his room and didn’t say anything. He started using them then.
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Story two.... People need to suck it up when they decide to keep a baby. Actions have consequences, part of that is keeping a child with someone. You need to try to get along and not show hate towards each other in front of your kids no matter what you went through. I know you guys dont agree with that but it is horrible parenting and scarring for the kids to be crappy towards each other
"Get along" =/= allow into the birthing room