Why the People You Love Don’t Motivate You
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2019
- Most people only give credit to those that supported them on their way to success. In this Motivation Monday, Patrick Bet-David shares his thoughts on why you should give credit and appreciate your haters as well.
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Wow.. this is so on point man. For years I hated my father because he made me feel like I was never good enough. No matter how many degrees, money, status or intellect his response was always the same.. invalidation. Finally, in my 30s I saw a therapist and he said I should try and resolve this with my father.. eventually we did. But then I noticed a change in myself.. the relentless drive energy I had started to dissipate.. literally over the next few days I almost didn’t recognize myself - I thought I was entering depression or something was wrong physically. Finally I realized what had happened.. I worked so hard for so long to try and get his validation, that when I finally got it, the game was over. I had nothing to prove anymore.. now I am trying to rebuild my motivation and drive, this time internally without seeking external validation.
Dear Patrick.
Grief is a powerful, but not only one sort of motivation.
I think, pain is the right word.
I'm glad, you succeed to turn meaningless pain to something meaningful.
Go on, bro!
I appreciate this message so much. Thank you, Patrick. Now I want to embrace haters even more. You are amazing. Thank you for all the awesome videos you've shared. With Gratitude & Abundant Blessings to you and your family, L.
Thanks man
PBD you have literally changed my view in life I really appreciate it God Bless you I hope I will carry the spark you shared for me for the youth 1 day
"I LOVE MY HATERS, I'M VERY GRATEFUL FOR THEM. THEY DON'T HAVE ANY CLUE WHAT KIND OF FIRE THEY CREATED" 🔥🔥
Extremely Powerful !!
Thank You to ALL My Haters !!!
„Peace is a lie, there is only passion...”
Yes!! I have a similar outlook , I use the hate as fuel. Everytime people hurt me tried to ruin me or have turned their back on me..I took that energy & used it as fuel to better myself to get to my goals & turn it into something positive for my life.
Never thought of that before
People who cause us to suffer, cause us to seek solutions to live a better life!
Exactly. Incentive to grow.
Damn thats deep
@@dongadoballdongadoball2715 thanks :)
@@osse1n spot on my friend
Yes, just like when you are drowning.
"If something moves you, no one can stop you." - Patrick 2019
Lol. I was just working on Amimation before this, so at first I read the quote in Patrick Star's voice. Then, I was like, "Wait... what? Patrick Star isn't inspirational."
Whenever I need motivation I come back to this video, most valuable video I’ve ever watched.
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The reason people you love don't motivate is because you have become comfortable with each other. People don't like change and they dont want you to change. They want you to stay the same so that they can stay comfortable.
Could not be more true
You'll get some weird reactions from people you love when you're life starts changing, when situations start getting better. It's funny how that works but like you said, they knew you as you were, not as who you want to be. It comes with the territory.
@@alexfowler9785 Aint that the truth!
So true 🔥🔥
Hmmm,also new competition will destroy relationship
"I love you so much, baby. Baby, baby, baby, baby.." Lol lol that tickled me Pat.
not my proudest fap
@@ferfiti 😂😂😂
@@ferfiti hilarious xD
When there is no enemy from the inside the enemy from outside can do you no harm- African Proverb
you saw that video spreading around Instagram lol
Baby baby baby.... Baby baby baby baby I love you baby - PBD 2018
Jk I still love you Patrick
*2019
Amork Voc that baby baby baby baby got me ! That’s for baby baby shit is for European! My mom whooped me every chance she gets and I’m happy now
ComedyLake Channel fuck u talkin about
2020 😀
*Know your enemies and use them.*
💯
There you go.
48 laws of power shit
48 laws
How do you do that? I know them but cant figure how to use them. I'm not trying to do anything negative but just trying to protect myself from their attacts... either from their shit talking to my managers or them trying to learn my craft.
This video made me on tears and also fired me up ..
use tht fire brothers F**k'em all
Lol, the mood change from Ahmed to MTB. Great
This one hit me hard brotha. I’m doing 1100% more than I did in business from last year. I won’t stop. My old boss told me. There’s no way you can paint for 52 weekends a year. We would make from 2-14k a weekend, in profit. And I found a way. Your content has changed my life. Thank you
Wise words, more people should watch this. I can relate, I used to be doubted a lot growing up by friends and family and I have to admit that really pushed me to be who I am today. Don't get me wrong i'm nowhere near where I want to be but so far it has been a fun ride proving them wrong.
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m33x haha
No words for this Video....
Tears in my eyes.
Wonderful Line
The real battle is between You v/s You.
Superbbbbbbb Patrick Bet David...
Pain can get so much you give up on life. A little hate motivates, to much is to much....
i will never forget those who treated me like shit, those who was the reason I have to change school 7 times. will never forget those faces, they are deep in my mind
Yes you are right i stopped doing my workouts and taking care of myself. Until i met someone that told me that i was fat like a pig. That got me mad and i told myself i'll show you i got back to my workouts, i'm taking good care of myself and doing better than ever.
Success is The Greatest Revenge!
Am I the only one or are the last 2 motivational videos the new all time favourites ?
I love this , everyday we go thru this... people wanna push us down cuz they couldn’t do more for themselves.. 🥊
Hearing his voice i think pat should become the next "BATMAN".
Or the next scarface
Sounds like Vitaly with a brain
So many people talking loud or yelling to get you to listen. Pat, you come in with the subtle music, low soothing tone... it's peaceful and yet has an eerie "Godfather" feel. It says, "listen to me. This is going to impact your life." Great stuff, man. I love it!
No one can motivate me. They might inspire me a bit, but my inspiration comes 100% from within. From my why. From my purpose. Don't count on the OUTSIDE stuff to motivate you. But I agree to use the haters, naysayers, and BS to fuel your greatness....they're just a little kindling for now but it all comes down to us to fan our fires! 👊
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I agree it's something about "that edge" that motivates you more. Not sure why humans tend to cling to the negative more than the positive, but truly it helps take things to the next level if you channel your haters
My haters were my biggest motivations. Thanks GOD ! I made it after all I've been through.
Pain/anger/fear is the motivator! Brings out the fire!
Patrick. This message means so much to me. I’m truly inspired and appreciate you taking the time out to make this video. Truly an emotion jerker for sure. Bless you Pat for being an example and proof that the underdog is never really the underdog. Thank you sir.
The lessons of this video are spot on and so true. Let us thank all our haters for hating us and helping and motivating us along the way. It is our loved ones that give us pain often. Life's lessons are incredible indeed.
Hell Yeah! I loved my struggle ..taught me how to keep pushing forward and then they get real made when you leave them in the dust!
Great message. Right on point for us with a drive and passion. Keep motivating us all!
Patrick, you've previously said that you built this business because you wanted to take care of your father and your family. A noble motivation to be sure, but if you're going to take the position that being challenged is the real motivation, all I can say is, you're absolutely right.
You're such an inspiration Pat. I love the way you make your point and tell your story. Thank you for sharing your experience, knowledge and most of all, for caring....it's so evident that you care about people.
I have been documenting the growth of my business on youtube for over a year now. Always trying to implement the wisdom Valuetainment provides. Thanks you for your words.
There is nothing stronger than what this video is all about. If you would lose all your videos and leave just one, anyone it doesn't matter, you stand out great, you are the man. Now, if you would lose all of them videos and leave only THIS, you'd still be the f**king best man, the best of the best. Thanks
Thank you Mr. David, is heaven no one would doubt anyone. Sadly were on earth, with dishonorable people who'd disrespect you but ask for respect back. Very powerful video Mr. David, THANK YOU for the motivation you give us.
Patrick the way you talk in this video, paused and with a lower tone of voice it´s one of the factors that made it one of the best pieces you have. That cold you got was the hater that made you better.
Thanks for the boost brother! You're the genuine article!
Jealousy is a massive motivator for me
@Valuetainment I came to this video when I felt like giving up. Thank you for working so hard to produce these videos. Your videos get me in the right frame of mind!
I kinda love you right now. That is exactly what I needed to be remembered of... A big thank you!
I'm almost in tears already... Thx u Patrick.
Facts! I'll never forget what two bitches said to me.. 6+ years later and it still motivates me every time I think about that shit.
Why do I absolutely LOVE these personal, one on one videos. I really hope to meet and work with you one day.
True most of us keep pushing to prove the haters wrong
Thank you for that video, Patrick! Really touched the right spot there.
Absolutely agree with you..... I found my purpose and goal because of haters And not because of the motivators! I m gonna do "that" thing just to prove THEM wrong! And I m ready to sacrifice pretty much everything in order to get it!
I recieved words from the 1 person, who should have been a pillar. My focus is making sure my son who has autism will be provided for.
I felt every word, and I realized my 2nd focus is prove them wrong.
Thanks Patrick
That was beautifully said. Thank you so much ! Thank you opening my eyes to a different perspective. I will create the list. Have a blessing day sir.
Hope you have a great week to pat. Best one yet
Haters are extra fuel for motivation, but the real motivation that I learned comes from within. Seeing the person everyday in the mirror , and knowing that you can do more than where you are is fire for me.
Thanks for this message pat... been following you for a while and this really got me
I love you man.. goose bumps over goosebumps
Pat, you are right. We are motivated by people that didn't believe in us and made us reach greatness. But we must credit those who helped at the time we needed that one push towards not stopping. We shouldn't give back to those who made us achieve what we have today the hard way.
Amazing video and very wise words Patrick , thank you very much and I wish you a great week!
My God, Pat...I haven't flinched nor done a thing for the past 7 minutes except look into your eyes and listen. I'm shaking like l just came from a cold shower. Beast mode unleashed!!
This dude is a living legend.
Really needed this Pat! Thanks for sharing! 💪
Man l Love you ,you just gave me a reason to rise back up
Thank you! Stay strong! Love from portugal! 🇵🇹✌
THIS is what I NEEDED To HEAR! From someone like Patrick. I suspected I should make a list of haters but thought I would be messing the negative dark side. Since it's put this way, I think differently. Thanks PAT!
wow. absolutely agree. i know y. Because I am angry. because of my anger I love more, I try harder, I want the best to be better.
you know what else. i hate money.. messed up or what.
Wow Patrick. This really opened my eyes. Just what I needed. Thank you as always.
I've learned that I NEED to prove people wrong to be successful. Once people start telling me they believe in me, and encouraging me... I lose motivation, and then they are just so confused as to why I don't go anywhere. I crave that smug self-satisfactory moment of "You told me I couldn't, and that's why I DID."
thank god 4 you 4 your video 4 god guiding me to this path
This video should be reuploaded. It's underrated.
All I can say to you is, thank you!
this video goes to my playlist, fucking masterpiece
Sure did resonate n boyyy at the time when I needed to hear this the most. A big thank you
I thank GOD for your, Mr. Bet David. You have no idea how much your pursuit of purpose has impacted my life and the lives that I impact everyday. "Thank you."
I had an abusive stepfather and an absent father i look at my past as I made it through that I can make it through anything
Stop overthinking and start over doing. Thats my motivation for you all.
You did it again, Patrick. Thanks for this.
What an icon in his prime
We have all bin there I was the black sheep in the family suck at school didn't go to college started my I.T business 10years ago and I'm keep moving foward and I'm doing this to prove the haters wrong.
Strategic Computer Systems 👊🏼
This is so true!!!! Thank the haters. I’ve had many. It’s great fuel
This video made me cry. Thanks for this video. Patrick Bet David
This video validated how my mind works but for a long time I felt isolated and weirded out as to be honest I love the people are in my life but they just don't move me the way a change does in life. I need more people who can positively push me forward by challenging me to become the best.
Recently challenged by my aunt that you can't make money online and it's not easy. That pissed me of and lit a fire within me. So I am grateful for those who have creates chaos in my life as it makes me want to crave success to point i felt obsession. I currently need that rush so I may need to create an enemy to crush it. 2019 we are going to make history and I wish best for you Pat and the team at valutainment :)
Thank you Pat. Thank you.
The people we love also motivate us, just in different ways...... However, point taken.
Facts. Thank u PBD.
Appreciate the people one who created issues to you in your professional front. This gives you an opportunity to resolve which differentiate to the rest of the world.
Pat - Very well articulated this clip.
Thanks a lot for sharing this video clip.........!!!
Strong emotions with this video Patrick...very strong...
August 2022. Powerful. Timeless.
I lost my demon cause my family is supportive, you just brought him back Pat. He is very excited
haters always create motivation we need haters to create motivation so we can prove them wrong so haters lets get going you fuel our fire to work
Amazing... You drive me to achieve greatness! My #1 virtual mentor!
This video is f**king fire (in multiple ways)! Love it brotha :)
Damn, PBD this is one of your best videos....right on the money. Good job.
PBD is a beast of a mentor. Thanks.
Thank you for the reminder
This video hit home for me pretty hard. Even though my list of haters is short, the motivation I tapped into from them has lasted all my life and has fueled me to become what I am today.
A child labeled on the autistic spectrum from the age of 4 told by a nurse that I will never become a doctor, lawyer, or teacher is now teaching group fitness classes at gyms.
A mother who never said I could make it in a job of IT because it did not pay enough money. Now, I run the technology in an elementary school with a new car and money to spare to go back to college again and travel more.
Thank you Patrick for making this video. Let the haters hate...for their salty tears feed us the fuel to prove we are better than they will ever be!
Wise words. I need you in my world!
This video was so meaningful for me. Thank you for this message.
LOVE YOU PAT! THANK YOU!
I strongly agree, thanks Dear Patrick
One of the realest talks ever !
This made me emotional. SO TRUE!!!
A 18 year old from Iraq being told be his parents that he won't achieve any of his dreams just because he's from Iraq. I really needed this Pat. Khaili dostit daram.
Omg you're amazing. I needed this