Why Are So Many People Unhappy?

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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  3 года назад +130

    Biggest takeaway from today’s video?

    • @hamdtauseef1181
      @hamdtauseef1181 3 года назад +12

      Patrick I totally see your perspective, where your coming from but I have a question, I also want that legacy but for that, the goal is productivity, if I don't have enough sleep, will I be as efficient as I could have been with my creativity, work done (instead of hours given to work)?

    • @VALUETAINMENT
      @VALUETAINMENT  3 года назад +24

      Tell that to the most creative human being alive today. Elon Musk.

    • @hamdtauseef1181
      @hamdtauseef1181 3 года назад +7

      @@VALUETAINMENT Okay I get it. I guess the people like us who want to reach to the top have to find ways to get better sleep in less time. Though Elon is driven by his massive vision, I would really like to know he manages his productivity. I want to know about how you manage your time with sleep and how do you maintain your productivity? BTW I'm a fan of your content for about a year now.

    • @gabbythecat4367
      @gabbythecat4367 3 года назад +5

      @@VALUETAINMENT Elon Musk is on team satan. Don't let them beguile you. Your too smart for that.

    • @VALUETAINMENT
      @VALUETAINMENT  3 года назад +15

      @@hamdtauseef1181 To each his own. Meaning, no one know your vision more than you. NO ONE. Some have a big vision that is stemmed from within that can't be explained. The world doesn't understand them. Some are extremely talented who don't have the kind of fire someone else may have. It's tough to give one answer that applies to everyone. You choose your vision and the effort required to make that vision a reality.

  • @mayacote4368
    @mayacote4368 2 года назад +271

    Kobe Bryan once said *the one mistake we make in life is believing we have time*

    • @danicathompson5882
      @danicathompson5882 2 года назад +2

      I am 51 years old without a retirement plan yet, any suggestions on accumulating a million dollar portfolio within 12-18 months? I have currently saved a capital of $1000k

    • @piperwilson8917
      @piperwilson8917 2 года назад +2

      In time like this the best thing any American can do for him or herself is to have another source of income apart from his or her salary, invest wisely people!

    • @taylorgirard5860
      @taylorgirard5860 2 года назад

      @@mariajorge4011 I totally agree with you,Forex trading is the most profitable venture I ever invested in,I reached my goal of $500k yearly trade earnings, setting realistic goals is an essential part of trading

    • @hafsatsuleiman8174
      @hafsatsuleiman8174 2 года назад

      Talking about being successful! I know am blessed because if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Mrs Audrey

    • @agbobernard6613
      @agbobernard6613 2 года назад

      Hello I'm new to forex and I have been making huge loses but recently I see a lot of people earning from it,please can someone please tell me what is going wrong

  • @christians131
    @christians131 3 года назад +176

    I always heard, “comparison is the thief of all joy.”

    • @MH3GL
      @MH3GL 3 года назад +5

      A sidecar you can add along with that is: "expectations are the blue print of disappointment."

    • @christinalw19
      @christinalw19 3 года назад +6

      I agree. Only compete with oneself. 👍🏼

  • @GrowYourWealth101
    @GrowYourWealth101 3 года назад +360

    Most people are unhappy because they dont live their lives.
    They live what is expected from then and not what they really would love to do.

    • @lewis1180
      @lewis1180 3 года назад +3

      Yes sir.

    • @EEEBA1
      @EEEBA1 3 года назад +16

      I agree with you. In my case I have never found any jobs that I'm interested in, in over 28 years. Even though everything I always did I was successful at and a top performer however I never cared about any of them. I think that's my biggest issue. It's an endless circle. I have zero passion for anything out there
      I guess I'm broken.

    • @GrowYourWealth101
      @GrowYourWealth101 3 года назад +4

      @@EEEBA1 maybe you dont Like Work at all?

    • @EEEBA1
      @EEEBA1 3 года назад +8

      @@GrowYourWealth101 I don't mind working hard or 15 hour days as I did for many years. I just wish I could find something I'm at least interested in so it's not a chore.

    • @oceanside88
      @oceanside88 3 года назад +2

      Yes. The soul dies.

  • @ingenierosdeexito2862
    @ingenierosdeexito2862 3 года назад +226

    Biggest takeaway: always evaluate the person giving you advice, it's dangerous to take the wrong advice

    • @christinalw19
      @christinalw19 3 года назад +4

      Discernment in everything, no matter what.

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 3 года назад +2

      100 percent!

    • @robc8468
      @robc8468 2 года назад +5

      All people have a different life, the best advice is do more of what works for you and a lot less of what does not work.

    • @hanifjones4914
      @hanifjones4914 2 года назад

      Thank you sir

    • @hanifjones4914
      @hanifjones4914 2 года назад

      Are you a carpenter? Cause you sure squared that nail up

  • @jackgarrett7349
    @jackgarrett7349 3 года назад +130

    Normal, healthy people are unhappy because they have lost the "attitude of gratitude". That's all. When you are not happy with what you have and keep focusing on what you don't, you will ALWAYS be unhappy. The "attitude of gratitude" is the foundation of a happy life. Most people have absolutely NO reason to not be happy or at least content.

    • @SingleTrak6
      @SingleTrak6 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @paulwilliams2024
      @paulwilliams2024 3 года назад +1

      PREACH

    • @kevincurran1783
      @kevincurran1783 3 года назад

      100% correct.

    • @HaneefaTheHaneefa
      @HaneefaTheHaneefa 3 года назад

      Thissssss!!!!

    • @True38
      @True38 3 года назад +2

      Being grateful is definitely important for one's own happiness, but what's even more important is to keep moving forward, make the best out of the opportunities you have in front of you.
      I always say, less is more, but I'd rather have more than less. You don't need a lot of money to be happy, but more money equals more freedom, and the more freedom you have, the happier you'll be in life.

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 3 года назад +187

    Most people are unhappy because they live trying to please others

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 3 года назад +5

      Thanks for your inspiration PBD

    • @karenrussell276
      @karenrussell276 3 года назад +6

      Really? I think people are unhappy because they are in love with money and never have enough. They are too stupid to realize they are being played.

    • @audizul
      @audizul 3 года назад +10

      @@karenrussell276 ppl always like to compare themselves with others, and today's technology allows them to easily do that. Which mostly will result in them feeling bad.

    • @utube7917
      @utube7917 3 года назад +8

      I see it the opposite way. Human nature is selfish. People are typically victims of themselves, but blame others.

    • @JamesThomas-pj2lx
      @JamesThomas-pj2lx 3 года назад +5

      ..... most people are unhappy becasue they do not know themselves, and hence live through others expectations.

  • @Solizeus
    @Solizeus 3 года назад +196

    Loneliness is the main source of sadness these days

    • @brooklynn52dee38
      @brooklynn52dee38 3 года назад +7

      I have a very obese women for a neighbor. Not feminine at all and seem to believe based on our interactions she is one miserable piece of work. I doubt it has anything to do with sleep!

    • @Solizeus
      @Solizeus 3 года назад +12

      @Mister Kazama If we don't keep our head busy we will feel even more alone, if you want to be alone it isn't sad, but if you don't have anyone to bond with and hug you that is just not the same, some people can't find it, and for some, a warm bath is the closest thing they had from a human body touching them in years, i guess that is why people have pets.

    • @benton-benton
      @benton-benton 3 года назад +5

      @@Solizeus You're right. One good cat, or better yet, a few good cats are better than 100 humans as company. Animals love unconditionally.

    • @MyAkachi
      @MyAkachi 3 года назад +8

      @@brooklynn52dee38 Out of curiosity, what does your neighbor being "not feminine" have to do with anything?

    • @criptik5208
      @criptik5208 3 года назад +5

      @@MyAkachi very much think deeply not with gender study logic

  • @MilesLeslie
    @MilesLeslie 2 года назад +26

    “You’re working too hard” don’t let nobody tell you that you’re working too hard because only you know your own limits!

  • @Dan-is2je
    @Dan-is2je 3 года назад +87

    Pat, I wish there were more decent people like you that are media figures. Hope you NEVER get cancelled.

    • @prasadramasamy904
      @prasadramasamy904 2 года назад +6

      I wouldn't really care if society cancels him. I'll just follow his advice 😸

  • @lisakvieira9201
    @lisakvieira9201 3 года назад +36

    As long as I have God in my life I feel content!! Amen, everyone have a blessed day!!😊🙏✌

    • @kelvinryme8618
      @kelvinryme8618 3 года назад

      Yes indeed!!

    • @Tyler_WI
      @Tyler_WI 3 года назад +1

      Amen!! 🙏

    • @lisakvieira9201
      @lisakvieira9201 3 года назад

      @@Tyler_WI Hi Tyler, God bless you and Amen to you brother, llol!! Take care now!!✌

  • @nantumbwelinda5446
    @nantumbwelinda5446 3 года назад +19

    How Mr. Patrick lights up when he talks about his kids... Priceless

    • @SideHustleLane
      @SideHustleLane 3 года назад +1

      this name looks familiar... ☺️

  • @jamesmaduabuchi6100
    @jamesmaduabuchi6100 2 года назад +13

    The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy

    • @andrewmamikins693
      @andrewmamikins693 2 года назад

      you are definitely right , waiting on the government is a big waste

    • @jamesmaduabuchi6100
      @jamesmaduabuchi6100 2 года назад

      Investments are the stepping Stones to success especially if you been guided by a professional

    • @lucythompson5841
      @lucythompson5841 2 года назад

      Investing is good but investing in the right thing is the actual key to success . who is your pro ?

    • @jamesmaduabuchi6100
      @jamesmaduabuchi6100 2 года назад

      @@lucythompson5841 That was exactly what I did, I trade with a professional stock expert "Tamara Diane Hagan " who i met in one of the seminars..

    • @jamesmaduabuchi6100
      @jamesmaduabuchi6100 2 года назад

      There are so many investment out there but if profits must be considered then not all investments are good to go into.

  • @712gln
    @712gln 3 года назад +24

    chasing money makes me unhappy and realize that life is short

    • @Ivontayfitzgerald
      @Ivontayfitzgerald 3 года назад

      That's another way to look at it I guess 😩

    • @8all8at8once8
      @8all8at8once8 3 года назад +1

      Point made

    • @Easyfinesse
      @Easyfinesse 3 года назад +3

      Life is actually long

    • @TL-rh1lf
      @TL-rh1lf 3 года назад +1

      @@Easyfinesse sometimes.. sometimes not

    • @Dtella55
      @Dtella55 3 года назад

      Truth...💯💯👍

  • @teresamorales6850
    @teresamorales6850 3 года назад +134

    *Successful people don't become that way overnight. most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life..*

    • @garaitzadele8905
      @garaitzadele8905 3 года назад +2

      It's not ignorance, people are scared of investing due to high rate of scammers in the market......

    • @claudettedelmy3927
      @claudettedelmy3927 3 года назад

      But of a truth they are scammers but real brokers are out there too waiting for investors.

    • @claudettedelmy3927
      @claudettedelmy3927 3 года назад

      So don't be scared of giving any one a try.

    • @ginnyhaylie6902
      @ginnyhaylie6902 3 года назад

      Expert Mrs Svetlana has changed my financial status for the best. All thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.

    • @theronmalhotra2707
      @theronmalhotra2707 3 года назад

      She is obviously the best, I invested $3,000 and i made profit of $28,000 just in 7 days.

  • @Juantobiasarango
    @Juantobiasarango 3 года назад +28

    2nd time quoting NF.
    “Only thing I'm cool with losing is losing sleep
    And it's only cool with me
    If it means I get to watch my dreams
    Come true.”

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 3 года назад +1

      Why not just put the name of the person you're quoting? 🙄

    • @Juantobiasarango
      @Juantobiasarango 3 года назад +1

      @@phoenixmichel9610 Rapper NF or Nathan John Feuerstein. Deep lyrics in his music. More than a rapper, and artist.

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 3 года назад +1

      @@Juantobiasarango now that wasn't so hard...thanks

    • @mattirwin6089
      @mattirwin6089 Год назад

      @@phoenixmichel9610 he literally did douche. His rap name is NF lol

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 года назад +83

    Protect your energy and get enough sleep. Business culture is toxic with regards to those two essentials.

    • @20kevron
      @20kevron 3 года назад

      What do you think is enough hours sleep?

    • @rottenproten142
      @rottenproten142 3 года назад +6

      @@20kevron I think It's really important to mention quality of sleep, that's really important

    • @shingiroaimable5905
      @shingiroaimable5905 3 года назад +1

      Sleeping makes you poor even oldest wisdom knew that

    • @Sigmanovar
      @Sigmanovar 3 года назад +3

      @@20kevron depends onthe person,and depends on how u feel,if u still feel tired than u need to sleep more

    • @bommaritohawaii
      @bommaritohawaii 3 года назад +5

      Right. To me it’s not the amount of hours you’re awake it’s about the results your produce while you are awake. If you need nine hours of sleep, then fine go get nine hours of sleep. The sleeping time doesn’t matter for all intents and purposes. Always comes down the results.

  • @EliteAutomation
    @EliteAutomation 3 года назад +38

    I love having those conversations with my kids. "Daddy, aren't you the boss? So you can't get fired right? Just don't work today." Then I get the luxury of explaining to them my role within the company and that "the company needs me and we need to make the money to we can get Hawaii and see the mermaids." My daughter started the mermaid thing and now she helps tell her the story of why daddy needs to get to work. Heck, some times when I'm not working they tell me I need to get to work so we can go on vacation.

    • @cechichan
      @cechichan 2 года назад +3

      I will never want to have kids but I think that..i would be tell them..."guys, I really really love you and to this to help and support your dreams, but the first reason I do it its becouse I love what I do"

    • @safaaltinisik1652
      @safaaltinisik1652 7 месяцев назад +1

      😂 thats sweet, God bless

    • @simonfurman8007
      @simonfurman8007 5 месяцев назад

      Haha that's awesome

  • @reeb9016
    @reeb9016 3 года назад +300

    I'm happy. Got God in my life.

  • @ofentsemaluleka5836
    @ofentsemaluleka5836 3 года назад +34

    Pat we love you, This nearly made me cry because we all dont start off on the same line so there is no way our schdules can be the same.

  • @Testeverything123
    @Testeverything123 3 года назад +9

    Other takeaway is slow down and pay attention to what is important. When you sleep better you feel better and make better decisions.

  • @actuallybusiness1622
    @actuallybusiness1622 3 года назад +3

    *Successful people aren't afraid to fail, loosers are!*

  • @rpshark7672
    @rpshark7672 3 года назад +5

    Reinvent yourself everyday but most important have a goal/mission/direction where you want to get to in the future.

  • @GrowYourWealth101
    @GrowYourWealth101 3 года назад +29

    Most people dont realize that not money or being a workaholic makes you happy...
    It is doing what you really love. The money comes automaticly.
    Most people just chase the money and not their passion!

    • @zenbrucelee2653
      @zenbrucelee2653 3 года назад +1

      hmm i have a shadowban ;(

    • @GrowYourWealth101
      @GrowYourWealth101 3 года назад

      @@zenbrucelee2653 What do you mean?

    • @zenbrucelee2653
      @zenbrucelee2653 3 года назад

      ​@@GrowYourWealth101 since 3 days bigger meaningful informational comments donot get through. They get deleted by the RUclips-Algorithm or from a RUclips-Worker immediately. And big controverial comments from me that are very informative and still somehow stick on the comment section get very often a lof of like and nearly always if a lot of people might get attention to that. But then it gets deleted as well. I know a lot about shadowban and bans in gerneral the last years ago. But it is the first time since some days i very clearly know that i am not allowed to talk about everything.... Even this here might be deleted but i donot think so because here arenot a lot of information that might start an interresting conversation or thinkingprocess to rethink .

    • @GrowYourWealth101
      @GrowYourWealth101 3 года назад +1

      @@zenbrucelee2653 Ok i get what you mean.

    • @didafm
      @didafm 3 года назад +1

      You could argue your passion gets boring after a while

  • @jessevilla8571
    @jessevilla8571 2 года назад +2

    Every time I feel like I can’t keep going or I just don’t want to. I listen to you & have been listening for you for the past 8 months… the turn around in my life has been crazy & I can’t believe that I’ve gone as far as I have in such a short time… thank you for motivating a 21 year old to go harder & further than anyone ever thought he could

  • @TheMusicVII
    @TheMusicVII 3 года назад +8

    This is one of those videos I never knew I needed. Thank you Patrick Bet-David!

  • @Pedipossible
    @Pedipossible 3 года назад +7

    Sleep : depth, not length
    Guilt : effects individuals with lack of self stem
    Jealousy: Bad comparison - Bringing others down
    Envy: Good comparison - lift myself up

  • @rdas072
    @rdas072 Год назад +1

    I've been facing exactly these two problems for last 3-4 years. This video is exactly what I needed.

  • @thecoder7188
    @thecoder7188 3 года назад +1

    I never comment on videos, but when i watch this kind of videos which patrick makes, I feel like i'm growing up as a human being and i'm getting lifelong lessons, i have to say it has improved my life drastically. So thanks Patrick.

  • @briansteen8853
    @briansteen8853 3 года назад +5

    As a new dad up since 3am cuz baby was screaming, I love this story.

  • @modelingsuccesssuccessfull2607
    @modelingsuccesssuccessfull2607 3 года назад +5

    We appreciate the transparency Pat, thank you so much for sharing this with us. It helps me personally a lot.

  • @OperatorTrickshot
    @OperatorTrickshot 3 года назад

    I pray all of your pain gets better, I pray you all find strength to keep going. Know there are people who care. People who feel just alone as you do. Keep going. I love you all.

  • @prodigygod1
    @prodigygod1 Год назад +2

    I love that the answer isn't to do less but to do more. PBD this is why you can speak to everyone of all classes. Your message is straightforward and honest.

  • @seanwieland9763
    @seanwieland9763 3 года назад +25

    “Although the most acute judges of the witches and even the witches themselves, were convinced of the guilt of witchery, the guilt nevertheless was non-existent. It is thus with all guilt.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

    • @sawtoothbygeorge
      @sawtoothbygeorge 3 года назад +5

      Nietzsche is full of it.

    • @ceilconstante7813
      @ceilconstante7813 3 года назад +2

      That is unimpressive BS

    • @scartissuefilms
      @scartissuefilms 3 года назад +2

      Nietzsche used to sleep with little boys, he caught syphilis and went insane. His opinion on everything is irrelevant.

    • @sawtoothbygeorge
      @sawtoothbygeorge 3 года назад

      @@scartissuefilms If true, it wouldn't surprise me!

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 3 года назад

      @@scartissuefilms ok...that still doesn't take away from his introspections.

  • @dustywilson5461
    @dustywilson5461 2 года назад +4

    PBD -- i know this might sound weird, but you remind me of my father who died a few years ago, in terms of your demeanor and your style. He was much less disciplined than you, but still...
    When a man loses his father, he turns to other older gentlemen to look up to; you are one of the role models i've adopted as that figure.
    Keep being you! You've changed lives !
    DW

  • @thebitcoinalchemist3877
    @thebitcoinalchemist3877 Год назад +2

    Hi Patrick. I just wanted to say how I think you are one of the most authentic guys on social media. You are so very blessed, and you seem to have your head on straight. God bless you man. You deserve it. TY Patrick.

  • @last1out
    @last1out Год назад

    This is one of the best "real talks" i have ever heard on youtube.

  • @nutriwellth
    @nutriwellth 3 года назад +6

    Personally I believe we're unhappy because we fail to understand what enjoy the process means. We quit not because what we're trying to do it hard. But because we failed to make it enjoyable. We quit because we want to be allowed to be happy again. It's out of self preservation.
    Three things that helped me are: pick something you like doing,design a way to make the everyday enjoyable, and enjoy your life outside of what you like to do. Those three things are what encompass "enjoy the process" when one suffers they all suffer including you.
    I made a video on this yesterday if you'd like another perspective. Be kind to yourself ❤️!

  • @sevenswords8781
    @sevenswords8781 3 года назад +43

    Your heart belongs to God, when you take him out you have a hole that is the source of all hurt.

    • @user-gk1cj1wu8g
      @user-gk1cj1wu8g 3 года назад +1

      Yeah you are right

    • @catears3053
      @catears3053 3 года назад +2

      If you dont have faith in God you will always have an empty feeling, no amount of money can heal that emptiness inside you. Were more than just flesh and bones.

  • @c.s.7266
    @c.s.7266 3 года назад +1

    So very true. Guilt is the worst affliction.

  • @angelvelazquez8493
    @angelvelazquez8493 3 года назад

    This is exactly what I was trying to explain to someone but they couldn’t understand anything I was saying. 🙌🏼💯

  • @bananarama6808
    @bananarama6808 3 года назад +12

    When it comes to sleep, I have a tough time sometimes. I have crazy super realistic dreams that feels so real. When I wake up I question if the dream was real.
    When it comes to be being happy, i am extremely happy. I had nothing, I found God . God blessed me and gave me purpose, a wife and 3 amazing kids.
    Love your show bro

    • @valuetainment3353
      @valuetainment3353 3 года назад

      𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘..

    • @valuetainment3353
      @valuetainment3353 3 года назад

      + I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7...

    • @valuetainment3353
      @valuetainment3353 3 года назад

      𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑...

  • @TylerSinden
    @TylerSinden 3 года назад +5

    There are sacrifices with our choices, you have to be willing to sacrifice certain aspects of your life.

  • @DePalma.
    @DePalma. 3 года назад

    Gratitude foe what you have & the good stuff to come is what makes me happy.
    No gratitude, not much happiness.

  • @samamedia47
    @samamedia47 3 года назад

    Mr David, everytime you post a video talking about a problem, it coincidence with my struggling with that exact problem in the same day,
    Thank you infinitely, you are a godfather and a savior to me 🙏🏻

  • @lovepeacebliss
    @lovepeacebliss 3 года назад +3

    The more quality sleep you get, the more efficient you operate. Your goals will come easier.

  • @keahilumho8914
    @keahilumho8914 3 года назад +1

    Thank you PBD. You bless me with your wisdom and heart. May God bless all the works of your hands

  • @copperinstaller9215
    @copperinstaller9215 3 года назад +1

    When you work for yourself you understand what your getting into .
    Our passion is more important to us than any one else .

  • @daltonho7728
    @daltonho7728 3 года назад +30

    "The majority of the world is just looking for an excuse to sleep more and work less." - So true... don't be in the majority.

  • @ChefBoyareB
    @ChefBoyareB 3 года назад +3

    This is exactly why living together before marriage is so important. You can talk about how things will be until you're blue in the face and never know what it's like until you're living it.

    • @reeb9016
      @reeb9016 3 года назад

      Funny how many live together "before" getting married who never get married. The guys love that free lay with no strings. No commitment means the lady is giving it up for free and usually no marriage to show for it.

    • @hleedina5567
      @hleedina5567 3 года назад +1

      Living together before marriage and real marriage whether you lived together before or not is not the same. People always change after marriage, it's a subconscious reality that sets in with the commitment it takes to finally decide to be a man and a woman and get married. People always think that it is a good idea to live together and that they get a sense of what that married life is going to be, but that's the problem, it's not the full image, and people are still on audition just like you are when you are dating someone. Once you marry someone and move in with them you get to see who they really are, how they really live, and they truly reveal themselves to you. Something that you will never see when living with someone before marriage. They will change whether you like it or not, because that's what people do...and you know what, you will change too, and sometimes you won't know that you did. Your true self will only get revealed once you are not on an audition and marriage is the final act. Most couples actually divorce at a higher rate and at an unrepairable rate if they had lived together before marriage. You can look it up, most of the time, its because they have missed out on that time of discovery and learning that couples that move in together after marriage usually get. It all just blends in and life becomes monotonous, especially as reality begins to insert itself. The person will reveal themselves to you and you will be shocked, either way, you can't really avoid it. Some for the better, some for the worst. You should be more worried about the quality of person to marry that the quantity of time you get to spend with them before marriage, because they have no reason to reveal themselves and let their guard down to you knowing that there is no reason stopping either of you from moving on if you has to. Don't get fooled, It's what everybody does, but not everything good we do is beneficial.

    • @reeb9016
      @reeb9016 3 года назад +2

      @@hleedina5567 Good stuff. Although I did live with my wife before we married, it began as roommates. I was living in the Czech Republic (she's Czech)and we became best friends. Anyway, we married and had our ups and some pretty bad downs our first few years but I never went into marriage to divorce. We found Christ about 7 years after we married and that has made a world of difference. We have three children and will be advising they go to pre-marriage counseling when they find "the one". So these two young people can discuss the things that matter in a marriage that don't tend come up during just dating. I think that is essential to an enduring marriage.

    • @ChefBoyareB
      @ChefBoyareB 3 года назад

      @@reeb9016 would that not be both ways? She's getting all the same without the commitment. Why is it always just the guy is getting something? Why does marriage imply commitment? People cheat all the time.

    • @ChefBoyareB
      @ChefBoyareB 3 года назад

      @@hleedina5567 what you are describing is complacency, not commitment. People change because that is who they are. They think the other will never leave.

  • @lashoncampbell6479
    @lashoncampbell6479 2 года назад +2

    Love the content biggest takeaway being a successful entrepreneur gives you more options period. If you want more control in your life you gotta go out there and make it happen no matter what!

  • @WilliamOBio
    @WilliamOBio 3 года назад

    It's a super timely topic Pat. And your advice on comparing to the point of envy is a real one. Comparison games are only helpful to an extent, but go too far and you begin to negatively impact yourself by envying

  • @DavidWilliams-qm9qt
    @DavidWilliams-qm9qt 3 года назад +3

    As an aspiring billionaire I’m glad I found this video 🔥🔥🔥

  • @karenrussell276
    @karenrussell276 3 года назад +3

    Greed Seems to be the end-all. Greedy people want to be on the run all the time. Why do people need so much money? I sleep from about 11 to 7 every night. What’s the big deal? I have plenty of money, because I live within my means

  • @farrukhkhakimov6781
    @farrukhkhakimov6781 3 года назад +1

    Wow. Shoulds and guilt. That was insightful. Never noticed how these two things were limiting my potential

  • @margaretschultz8159
    @margaretschultz8159 3 года назад

    Oh my goodness... thank you very much ... lot to think about here... when I need a smile I will think of the little one that did not like sand. I had one of those - she became a mighty warrior as an adult and both of us are shooting for the stars .. differently but non the less ... always growing hopefully

  • @wallacesouza2678
    @wallacesouza2678 Год назад +15

    I'VE BEEN SEEING POST EVERYWHERE ABOUT FOREX TRADING AND CRYPTO CURRENCY, A LOT OF PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THINGS ABOUT THIS TRADING PLATFORMS PLEASE CAN SOMEONE LINK ME TO SOMEBODY WHO CAN PUT ME THROUGH..?

    • @montserratherrero782
      @montserratherrero782 Год назад

      All you need is a professional trader to avoid
      making losses

    • @rebeccalittle1921
      @rebeccalittle1921 Год назад

      As a beginner who don't understand how
      Bitcoin trade really works and you really want
      to make profit from it. I will advise you to first
      start working with a professional

    • @marinefernandez3166
      @marinefernandez3166 Год назад

      Because my portfolio has been going down the drain while I try trading, I just don't know what I do wrong!

    • @carolineknudsen5306
      @carolineknudsen5306 Год назад

      I have also been trading with her. profits are
      secured and over a 100 percent return on
      investment

    • @antoniaprieto5390
      @antoniaprieto5390 Год назад

      Investing in crypto is a plan for the future so
      it's high time people understand the
      importance of investment.

  • @devinwdunn
    @devinwdunn 3 года назад +3

    “Homie homie homie homie”
    “Bro bro bro bro”

  • @thekareercoach9090
    @thekareercoach9090 3 года назад

    Pat, I just want you to know how much I appreciate you. Those last few moments of this video made me cry because I realized that I am unlike anyone else in this world and God has called me to do things average people are truly unwilling to do. Thank you and I appreciate your wisdom. I hope I have a chance to meet you one day and thank you in-person.

  • @animus3328
    @animus3328 Год назад

    One thing i know...you are a good man giving us always smart info...bravo et merci!

  • @glasgowrangers5583
    @glasgowrangers5583 3 года назад +13

    Maybe because we have been locked up like animals for over a year

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 3 года назад

      Speaking in terms of reality....we kinda are, we're a higher mammal type...

    • @investigateeverything6328
      @investigateeverything6328 2 года назад

      @@phoenixmichel9610 don’t believe that lie

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 2 года назад

      @@investigateeverything6328 really...so what are we then; if our female counterparts lactate our young with their breast milk?

    • @investigateeverything6328
      @investigateeverything6328 2 года назад

      @@phoenixmichel9610 I’m saying the we are just monkeys myth

    • @phoenixmichel9610
      @phoenixmichel9610 2 года назад

      @@investigateeverything6328 WTH do you think a "monkey" is!?

  • @Chano601
    @Chano601 3 года назад +1

    Thanks you so much!! This is great sanario that nobody ever talks about . You hit it on the head.

  • @cariehughey3392
    @cariehughey3392 3 года назад

    Love this! This is what I say all the time! Don't just listen to the "experts" Listen to those who are where YOU want to be. Great video! Glad that I found your channel.

  • @CloudTribe
    @CloudTribe 3 года назад +3

    I was fortunate to learn in my early 20's I can handle going 30 hours without sleep. That I can survive months at a time off 3-5 hours of sleep. It's not healthy but I know when I'm under pressure I can take punishment most people aren't willing to take for a extended period of time.

    • @Daisy-ml3og
      @Daisy-ml3og 3 года назад

      How do you manage? Do you have any tips?!

    • @CloudTribe
      @CloudTribe 3 года назад

      @@Daisy-ml3og Shameless plug but if you search "Daniel Coyne" on Amazon I have a $2 ebook detailing how I survived and my experience.

    • @krishkrish8213
      @krishkrish8213 2 года назад

      That is super risky my dude, if you look at the data you are more of a risk of getting things like alzihmers for example , more at risk if getting certain cancers , this is not a healthy habit you have got there my dude , your just running your life for no reason, trust me have watched a family member die of alzihmers its not good man.

  • @A.J_inJapan
    @A.J_inJapan 3 года назад

    I am extremely greatful for this video! I am an enterpenure and have been fighting in my head about this.... bless u pat. May u succeed even more in your life. Your family stays healthy and safe.... i am very greatful for this video.

  • @timothykangethe7700
    @timothykangethe7700 3 года назад +1

    Perspective...Work Hard, Play Harder. Listen to Great Music and Dance as Well. Just maintain the right balance ✊

  • @drakevonduke
    @drakevonduke 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video, and thank you for sharing time with your family. Take care 🙏

  • @nextbars
    @nextbars 2 года назад +1

    This is changing my priorities, thank you I was about to waste a lot of time in something that will not fulfill my real potial and goals only because of guilt

  • @ramble_on1
    @ramble_on1 3 года назад +1

    RUclips needs to put a heart ❤️ button not just likes and dislikes. Because this video deserves a heart ❤️

    • @siloton
      @siloton 2 года назад

      This and all videos need better audience that cares more. Here is supposed to be future top class? Alfas? And even you all combined cannot get rid of crap spam posts from the chat by simply outvoting them? Not care physical nor digital environment? RUclips needs many more detailed buttons, but some "heart" is last in the row.

  • @irondeep
    @irondeep 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this video, this was very eye-opening! We really need self-reflection at some point of our lives and think about our happiness. Happiness is when you enjoy what you are doing, you are happy that you want to do it without anyone telling you that you must do it. I also agree that to stay happy, stop comparing yourself to others and stay hungry. Go after the life that you want, do not let other people dictate how you live your life!

  • @AlexMcDaniels
    @AlexMcDaniels 3 года назад +1

    Can't stress enough how much valuable is your content Pat, thank you for leading a whole new generation of entrepreneurs. Cheers From Chile...

  • @earthwater9964
    @earthwater9964 2 года назад

    Dude, u r a madman, in the best of ways. God bless.

  • @jeewssam8418
    @jeewssam8418 8 месяцев назад

    Pat is some of the best story tellers ive ever seen!! The delivary is immaculate. No wonder hes smashing sales

  • @khalidbornaparte6250
    @khalidbornaparte6250 3 года назад +1

    You channel is one of the most valuable on youtube.I still don't know how you keep creating all this amazing content while being the CEO of a big company.

  • @randydasilva6420
    @randydasilva6420 Год назад

    Love this video. I can watch it everyday. Thank you PBD!

  • @KennethDcouto
    @KennethDcouto 2 года назад

    This is such a fantastic video!!! Thank you. I like to sleep less to do more and this helps me be less guilty.

  • @pauloisidro9207
    @pauloisidro9207 3 года назад

    much appreciated, thanks a lot. keep pouring out your patrickness

  • @lovefunbeer
    @lovefunbeer 3 года назад +1

    I love the family stuff. Make him more reliable. Keep it up Pat!

  • @danielgavin7285
    @danielgavin7285 3 года назад

    Thank Mr. Bet-David, this a very well thought out video. Good job sir.

  • @ysf6309
    @ysf6309 3 года назад +1

    What a wise guy.. Patrick is a life beast. Great advice..

  • @ennolensch1337
    @ennolensch1337 3 года назад +1

    Very good video! New perspective on sleeping. Thank you Patrick🙏🏼

  • @andreitimofte5339
    @andreitimofte5339 3 года назад

    Pure gold. Thank you!

  • @365tiktok5
    @365tiktok5 3 года назад

    Patrick, great video per usual. Thank you for being such a motivation, the world appreciates it.

  • @chrisramos2979
    @chrisramos2979 3 года назад

    Thanks Patrick I value your videos so much positive & amiable!

  • @charlesadamsjr9857
    @charlesadamsjr9857 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Pat! Love you brother!

  • @jonathanbonilla7643
    @jonathanbonilla7643 2 года назад

    I needed to hear this, thank you brother

  • @GlazeEm
    @GlazeEm 3 года назад +1

    13:18-14:18 that minute of knowledge is GOLD 💰 Thanks Pat 🙏🏽

  • @bennm.9288
    @bennm.9288 3 года назад +1

    Great Vlog! Thank you, GOD bless

  • @4our_
    @4our_ 3 года назад +1

    Wow Patrick, Thank you!! You’re a 💎

  • @frankentrepreneur7821
    @frankentrepreneur7821 3 года назад

    This is just what I needed. Thank you Pat

  • @randydasilva6420
    @randydasilva6420 Год назад

    Love this video PBD, thank you!

  • @kelvinnguyen6048
    @kelvinnguyen6048 3 года назад +1

    You are my mentor. Thank you for showing me the light on the other side. You are my mentor. Now and forever brother.

    • @kriptoteknik986
      @kriptoteknik986 3 года назад

      𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵,
      𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘳 𝘈𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘶𝘳 𝘙𝘢𝘧𝘢𝘦𝘭 𝘈𝘺𝘣𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘴𝘈𝘱𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳,𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘩,𝘩𝘦'𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨.

    • @kriptoteknik986
      @kriptoteknik986 3 года назад

      + 𝟣 𝟩𝟣𝟨 𝟫𝟣𝟫 𝟩𝟩𝟣𝟦

  • @mahimakhandelwal5119
    @mahimakhandelwal5119 2 года назад

    You arevery good at finding the root causes to things that even the people suffering from these problems don't realise. Thanks a lot for that

  • @rodneynkosi8707
    @rodneynkosi8707 2 года назад

    i LITERALLY WATCHED THIS VIDEO 6 TIME AND DAMN YOU REALLY CHANGED MY VIEW AND THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS WONDERFUL INSIGHT. THIS VIDEO WILL BE SAVED

  • @Chasbrown7
    @Chasbrown7 3 месяца назад

    Thank you ! I love your message.... Go Hard ! No excuses !

  • @markzschech8340
    @markzschech8340 3 года назад +1

    Freaking amazing! Thank you Patrick.

  • @brandonvotaw3408
    @brandonvotaw3408 3 года назад

    Thanks Patrick, needed

  • @poisonPpaully
    @poisonPpaully 3 года назад

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today Thanks

  • @melaniediaz9017
    @melaniediaz9017 Год назад

    Loveee this! Hadn’t thought of it this way! So true!

  • @RivassJuan
    @RivassJuan 3 года назад

    Holy Smokes! This video was phenomenal! Got so many takeaways ✅‼️