15 Qualities to Have in Your Inner Circle

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  2 года назад +1

    Get PDF here: valuetainment.com/15-qualities-to-have-in-your-inner-circle/

  • @Cisonspace
    @Cisonspace 3 года назад +92

    -confidentiality
    -zero tolerance for games
    -accessible
    -opportunity magnet
    -someone who gives insight
    -pay attention to details
    -strong Rolodex with credibility
    -respect in your approach
    -what’s said about you behind your back
    -not cheap when we go out
    -dependability
    -exchange of value
    -fun &humble
    -presentable in appearance
    -extra factor

    • @Cisonspace
      @Cisonspace 3 года назад +2

      I know this isn’t Patrick you scammer!

    • @BYENZER
      @BYENZER 3 года назад

      @@Cisonspace Are you sure? If so, please reveal how you know. I mean, his username is PBD's, no?

    • @Cisonspace
      @Cisonspace 3 года назад +1

      If it was him he’ll do that in his videos not in comments which doesn’t even have the badge of authenticity.

    • @BYENZER
      @BYENZER 3 года назад

      @@Cisonspace Sorry. HOW do you know this to be true. Your implying he NEVER responds to comments. That's a bit of a stretch to say, in a declarative tone. So, again, please, HOW do you know it wasn't PBD or, possibly, one of his staff?

    • @Cisonspace
      @Cisonspace 3 года назад +2

      Then he should kindly give this information and contact in his yt videos and not individually commenting on everyone. Hope I’m clear?!

  • @D-Dog1976
    @D-Dog1976 3 года назад +56

    I'm 44 and owned my own business for 11 years now. Patrick has my utmost respect. Mine is a small but profitable business. My Inner Circle are basically friends and Family and I'm learning to stay away from negative people. I'm very nice and giving of myself but if I want to grow I am learning to shed negative impacts on my life and that includes alcohol. God Bless you Patrick.

    • @T1Slam
      @T1Slam 3 года назад

      Erm... I'm actually 45 and i have own business for 12 years already. I think I'm better than you.

    • @ethaningoa7461
      @ethaningoa7461 3 года назад +1

      @Valuetainment reported you for being fak

  • @r.7530
    @r.7530 3 года назад +72

    Been watching you for almost 2 years now. Learnt way more than school could ever teach about life! Love you man💙

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 3 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @overplayed3553
      @overplayed3553 3 года назад +3

      Facts it gets you to start making better decisions that makes a butteryfly affect

    • @mohitdahikar6733
      @mohitdahikar6733 3 года назад +6

      l bro i just forgot everything i learned in school after listening to him 😂😂

    • @FLGurl
      @FLGurl 3 года назад

      @@mohitdahikar6733 That is because school doesn't teach you about life. Your experiences and your learning opportunities are when you have either a success or a loss or both. I personally come from the school of hard knox and am very street smart but also very cautious when it comes to people in general.

  • @corcoranmagriproperties
    @corcoranmagriproperties 3 года назад +20

    Never stop improving your SKILLS and your MINDSET!!! 💪💪🔥🔥

  • @TimeToBeKind
    @TimeToBeKind 3 года назад +65

    When I had money, I had dozens of friends, but the moment they heard that I got hurt in bad investments, they all vanished. I was willing to lose everything I had, just to know exactly who my true friends were, and I did. It was a miracle.

    • @Justforthelulz8
      @Justforthelulz8 3 года назад +1

      i'm happy for you that you found that out :)

    • @TimeToBeKind
      @TimeToBeKind 3 года назад +8

      @@Justforthelulz8 ... I have to say, thank you, because I also found family members to be no different, just a bunch of fake loved ones.

    • @nadiavel8145
      @nadiavel8145 3 года назад +1

      it always happens

    • @dennisrepetitonmiskowski7677
      @dennisrepetitonmiskowski7677 3 года назад +4

      I been in these situations. In my case and the cases that I've been around. It's a product of environment friendship. That's why when you make business partners into your friends you have friends forever. If you make friends into business partners it's only as long as you have the business. Join my team and I show you what I mean. The product of a good environment.

    • @TimeToBeKind
      @TimeToBeKind 3 года назад

      @@dennisrepetitonmiskowski7677 ... TOUCHÉ

  • @InvestmentJoy
    @InvestmentJoy 3 года назад +43

    Great video, and if you're not one of these people that has these qualities, you should aspire to have them.

  • @dvonpache
    @dvonpache 3 года назад +13

    From where I'm from, this is COMMON knowledge....
    I send Pat's vlogs to people as a litmus test...saves me time as they weed themselves out.

  • @excelli3971
    @excelli3971 3 года назад +15

    "This is America, freedom of speech, but I choose the inner circle."

  • @TheLastCodebender
    @TheLastCodebender 3 года назад +13

    You are such an engaging speaker Pat!

  • @josedeluna2245
    @josedeluna2245 3 года назад +25

    Ah the circle of trust! Drama is an excuse! The inner circle needs value with strong group of people and integrity.

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад +6

    I think dependability is one of the most important qualities to hold yourself to on a personal level too. You should keep your word to yourself, it builds self trust.

  • @lisakvieira9201
    @lisakvieira9201 3 года назад +4

    It's not about being first it's about the stories!!

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 года назад +4

    Network = Net Worth

  • @enzoparilli3865
    @enzoparilli3865 3 года назад

    I am successful now because of all your videos I started watching in 2019

  • @Rambleon444
    @Rambleon444 3 года назад +18

    That crap magnet vs opportunity magnet is just brilliant. The victimhood mentality of crap magnets never leads to success.

  • @CarlosRodriguez-kh3df
    @CarlosRodriguez-kh3df 3 года назад +4

    Patrick, Thank You for helping us who listen!

  • @tung7015
    @tung7015 3 года назад

    Too many haters dislike love from London this man is a realistic Legend this information is so Valuable to those who wants to succeed

  • @ryancarson951
    @ryancarson951 3 года назад

    Years ago, i discovered that both the positive and negative thoughts you have towards/about yourself and others are also a crucial part of your inner circle.....your mental/emotional inner circle. Meditation and positive reflection/introspection are very important. Slow is smooth,...and smooth is fast...

  • @mukeshv9466
    @mukeshv9466 3 года назад +9

    Covid made me so awkward talking and being social with people, it will be really amazing if we have any content related to isolation

  • @clowntowndawg6399
    @clowntowndawg6399 3 года назад +1

    I’m so glad you mentioned Covid as an excuse people use

  • @Doombap4life
    @Doombap4life 3 года назад +1

    I must express a tremendous amount of gratitude for all of your content, Mister Bet-David. If there is anyone lesson I walk away with, regardless of which episode, it is to think, act, and feel stellar. We should all aspire to see what you have seen, and to learn what you share so freely. Blessings to all you and yours.

  • @TylerSinden
    @TylerSinden 3 года назад +6

    Love all the information you provide for everyone, Pat! Build the right inner circle and you will succeed in life in how you want.

  • @conrad2nr
    @conrad2nr 3 года назад +2

    Perfect timing...
    Like minded yet willing to push you to your limits regardless of whether you like it or not.

  • @issamelhaje8528
    @issamelhaje8528 3 года назад +1

    I am in my mid 40s and this is my first comment on any platform ever. I do have lots of respect for individuals like you Patrick and the people around to deliver content. I really appreciate sharing this wealth of knowledge! Greetings from Canada!

  • @rushiljain9423
    @rushiljain9423 2 года назад

    Truly phenomenal video. I am 18 years old, these advices are like pieces of gem. Thank you Patrick truly

  • @jacobwaldrop7968
    @jacobwaldrop7968 Год назад

    Again, very clear and concise.
    My wife and I are raising 6 sons age 17 down to 7. They will be watching these videos. Thanks.

  • @scm731
    @scm731 3 года назад +1

    You are a marvelous inspiration. Thank you. Love and respect to you and your family.

  • @modelingsuccesssuccessfull2607
    @modelingsuccesssuccessfull2607 3 года назад +6

    Watched it all the way. The Escalade story was really meaningful for me. Thank you guys ❤️

  • @Supreme-Emperor-Mittens
    @Supreme-Emperor-Mittens 3 года назад +19

    These days, with people being so untrustworthy ...
    it's tough to have a so-called "inner circle" to begin with.

    • @hathwayh3209
      @hathwayh3209 3 года назад +3

      Yeah I agree, very difficult to find these people aswell especially irl

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 3 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @AverageAngel
      @AverageAngel 3 года назад

      I second that

    • @gilchenyi
      @gilchenyi 3 года назад

      It just takes time. Negative Events/circumstances help me
      distant myself from them.

    • @kevinuc1514
      @kevinuc1514 3 года назад +3

      why so negative??
      be good one, maybe you fulfil someone's need who are complaining like you.

  • @garylandry4071
    @garylandry4071 Год назад

    I love the above And beyond attitude it has served me well

  • @FLGurl
    @FLGurl 3 года назад

    I totally connect with him. I am a type A personality with O+ blood. I really think there is something with that combination. Every point made is just a homerun out of the park. The 2 biggest are trust and respect. Most of the rest can fall into place if you have those two. Being honest is part of those two. This video is very uplifting for those who are seeking opportunities outside of the box. When you are under someone and depend on them how can you sustain yourself? Get out there. Be very strong but in a very courageous and positive way and make it happen. Keep those around you whom fit into these categories that are listed and anyone who doesn't, keep them at arms length with raised eyebrows. Like he was saying, take points away when people disobey and want to do harm.

  • @cjrwars
    @cjrwars 3 года назад

    No, this means alot. This video is gold because we as people do not consider our own value as often as we should let alone what value others bring to our lifes or take away as distractions. Love it.

  • @SlyKola
    @SlyKola 3 года назад +2

    This is one of THE BEST videos on the internet today. Thank you Pat for the amazing content and great refresher.

  • @balkanmerch8218
    @balkanmerch8218 3 года назад

    Everything said here is facts and rules I live by, never lose somebody with these qualities because they're hard to find.

  • @ChristianTrucker
    @ChristianTrucker 3 года назад +6

    Great honest video. Kick them fake folk out of your circle ASAP no value they bring will be worth it in the long run

  • @slimgirl1712
    @slimgirl1712 3 года назад

    Every day looking great, my dear David. Love you, living school!😉😊

  • @jamescordova2186
    @jamescordova2186 3 года назад

    Going to watch my behavior in my inner circle, making sure I follow what to do.

  • @tomwessling7065
    @tomwessling7065 3 года назад +1

    This was useful - not just as an employee or entrepreneur but for family and friends. I listened to this, to see if I need to change or modify MY behavior - I can always improve.

  • @Ratimira_Simundic
    @Ratimira_Simundic 3 года назад +2

    This is fantastic! Breathtaking! You gave me a list to check myself in relation to others and others in relation to me. It's all well known but you structured it in a presentable and understandable way. I will sign up for the newsletter being from Croatia. Thank you for your time and dedication you put in this type of videos. May God bless you! And the friend's father who drove your kids away.

  • @juliekostas7322
    @juliekostas7322 Год назад

    Value added to my life here--- Thank you for sharing this.

  • @thethomasj1795
    @thethomasj1795 3 года назад +1

    I definitely have some of these positive qualities. It has contributed to the success that I have had. However, I also have some of the negative issues that Pat spoke of too. I am constantly working on the 15 qualities and putting the effort in to resolve the negative issues.

  • @savannahmanzone3394
    @savannahmanzone3394 3 года назад

    I love the way you think you have very good qualities about you Patrick you are awesome you are totally amazing I wish everybody thought like you you are true to your word and you speak your mind everything you do you give it your all which is a beautiful mind

    • @mediocretut0rialsandreview284
      @mediocretut0rialsandreview284 3 года назад +1

      𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘

    • @mediocretut0rialsandreview284
      @mediocretut0rialsandreview284 3 года назад +1

      + I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7

    • @mediocretut0rialsandreview284
      @mediocretut0rialsandreview284 3 года назад +1

      𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑

  • @bluestarliving5928
    @bluestarliving5928 3 года назад

    This is so important! We talk about the inner circle all the time. This video lays out a great foundation and set of rules for your inner circle.
    Excellent Patrick👏👏👏

  • @clinstar3237
    @clinstar3237 3 года назад +1

    My partner and I were just talking about forming an Inner circle and how to go about it. Thank you Pat. I've been hearing a lot about inner circles thank you for explaining it. Party on Rockstar!!

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 3 года назад

      idk man, I think it would be better to have your friends separate from your wife. I think it's important to have little breaks from each other.

  • @amishpatel4242
    @amishpatel4242 3 года назад +1

    Video I clicked with no expectation buy ended up subscribing.
    💯👏👍

  • @Simone-uj7ko
    @Simone-uj7ko 3 года назад +1

    FINALLY BACK TO THE ORIGINAL ONE! 👊

  • @Cookiemanscity
    @Cookiemanscity 3 года назад +2

    I know we’re not far in age but you’re the dad I never had as crazy as that might seem

  • @RockawayCCW
    @RockawayCCW 3 года назад

    These blackboard videos are my favorite.

  • @myyntisuurvisiiri
    @myyntisuurvisiiri 2 года назад

    I just loved the Extra Factor.

  • @andrestorres4568
    @andrestorres4568 2 года назад

    Fire. I’m looking at myself and my potential business partners in a more effective way. Thank you.

  • @siegfreidsujide299
    @siegfreidsujide299 3 года назад

    Harvard should be proud to have had you as their student. It should be their honor that you applied to them. Seriously. And GPA means almost nothing in entrepreneurship when you’ve been in the game long enough

  • @Ethanphelps
    @Ethanphelps 3 года назад

    I’m so grateful that you make videos like this. Almost no one in your financial and current life position would think of making videos like this because they have so many other things going on. Thank you

  • @Isabela-ic6sy
    @Isabela-ic6sy 3 года назад +1

    Amazing video, as always! Especially the "crap magnet" part👏👏👏👏👏👏
    Thank you so much Pat and team for everything you do!

  • @MrHonigkuchenpferd
    @MrHonigkuchenpferd 3 года назад

    to me this is actually your most helpful video yet, dont run no business but do have immense trouble looking for the right people to surround myself with.

    • @didafm
      @didafm 3 года назад

      Same

  • @alexi2706
    @alexi2706 3 года назад

    Thank you Patrick for all the knowledge you provide. I like the way you think and act. God bless you!

  • @JimmyJones206
    @JimmyJones206 Год назад

    3:29 People get addicted to the adrenaline of going through these traumatic issues and like you said it’s like a magnet me those things are motivators inspirator’s it makes me want to become a better man be more efficient in life and more effective and solving problems 3:31

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 3 года назад

    The is one of your most important videos for anyone looking to go above and beyond. Thanks Pat.

  • @gregoryshannon8849
    @gregoryshannon8849 3 года назад

    Grab your pen and paper there is lots of information here 👍👍👍
    Thank you Patrick

  • @isaias5114
    @isaias5114 3 года назад

    Hi Patrick bet David
    Very please to see you ..I was confused and now reactivate my self thank you...

  • @NM-xj6qr
    @NM-xj6qr 3 года назад +2

    Great video Patrick. I have some questions:
    - how does a leader maintain the respect of a group without betrayals or lack of respect?
    - if in a group, members have equal equity, and the work/results of each one are different in value and with different productivity results, how do you remain peaceful and make equilibrium again without problems happen?
    - to lock drama, and be extremely confidential, how can you have real friends, since when shit happens, with that mentality is difficult to trust someone? another factor is if you are not transparent, how do you really know that person?

  • @darla5371
    @darla5371 3 года назад

    Pat, these were all spot on. I’ve learned many of these principles throughout the years. Many that were already part of my own personal life. Others I’ve learned through business conferences I’ve attended. This video captures every point perfectly. Thank you for this presentation and sharing your knowledge with us. God Bless.

  • @Sixer88
    @Sixer88 3 года назад

    the extra factor is a game changer !!

  • @kassandrasabean6020
    @kassandrasabean6020 3 года назад

    I have to watch this when I'm rested. Thank you Patrick.

  • @DevilOrange666
    @DevilOrange666 3 года назад

    Late 20s here. Really wish people my age would share this mindset more. Making money is a lot more fun compared to complaining about the lack of money. Can't wait for the pandemic to be over so I can build a better circle of friends.

    • @didafm
      @didafm 3 года назад

      Go work construction. Then tell me making money is fun

  • @artinmassihimd7082
    @artinmassihimd7082 3 года назад

    Proud of you. Keep up the good work Pat.

  • @luluhen72
    @luluhen72 3 года назад

    Wowzaaaaa...definitely the billionaires and paying for dinner & the going extra by asking his dad to pick up the kiddos! Great Video....💯🌺

  • @actuallybusiness1622
    @actuallybusiness1622 3 года назад +4

    *A salary is a drug they give you to forget your dreams!*

  • @kristenepirotte
    @kristenepirotte 3 года назад +1

    This is SO TRUE, this video speaks to me on a whole 'nother level.

  • @benjivanloo8050
    @benjivanloo8050 3 года назад

    Priceless value like always! One day I wish to meet you! During 5 years you always have been managing to create new and interesting topics! many thanks for creating this channel!

  • @dwaynestewart2368
    @dwaynestewart2368 3 года назад

    I don't have that business inner circle. I'm naturally a loner. But I feel I need a person who is experienced I can bounce ideas and thoughts off of. I am grateful I found your channel because you've been great on the advices. But I want that mentor element because being alone in this is not for the mentally weak.

  • @Alex24998r
    @Alex24998r 3 года назад

    EXCELLENT INFORMATION PAT . THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WISDOM.

  • @deviprema2750
    @deviprema2750 3 года назад

    I love this guy. God bless

  • @yamitf77
    @yamitf77 3 года назад

    great video! love all of your videos as well, you bring amazing content.
    I was unable to find my inner circle since I never met ppl to have this qualities and I belive I do have them. my inner circle are my kids and husband, no complains it's all I need!

  • @Randall2023
    @Randall2023 3 года назад

    Dauphin River First Nation Canada 🇨🇦

  • @wingtrek8914
    @wingtrek8914 3 года назад

    lol crap magnets. I'm dealing with that in my inner circle right now. Family member. Oh and the trust is in jeopardy too. Very timely video, thank you.

  • @TheBiggestAlEver
    @TheBiggestAlEver 3 года назад

    This is BEYOND POWERFUL Pat!🙌🏾💯
    These are the very secrets that keep so many from aligning with those that can help each other reach their top!
    I LOVE THIS STUFF MAN!!!
    GOD bless and keep it pushin’!✊🏾🦉💯

  • @TheGabeWorld
    @TheGabeWorld 3 года назад +1

    The blackboard is back

  • @niurkalopezcuba4230
    @niurkalopezcuba4230 3 года назад

    I loved your information I am that type of person you need me I am there
    Very educational thank you

  • @alena1vlog474
    @alena1vlog474 3 года назад

    The COVID pandemic/shut down has forced many people to retreat into their inner social circles, exposed those relationships that were not strong enough.

  • @RNBHLIST
    @RNBHLIST 3 года назад

    This is going on my wall! Thank you so much Valuetainment !

  • @anairenemartinez165
    @anairenemartinez165 3 года назад

    A " friend" hit me unexpectly with " you never paid for the cab ride". I tried to remember WHEN we shared a cab ride I was supposed to pay for, never happened. Like 50 years ago ( yes, I am old) not her, another friend picked me up at Madrid airport and she paid for the cab ride, SHE never asked me to pay and I genuinely never thought about it. To think for 50 years she resented that, and it wasn't ever her!

  • @leonoradompor8706
    @leonoradompor8706 3 года назад +3

    I like your shirt Patrick *** bright ***

  • @ArmelleGueye
    @ArmelleGueye 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @Randall2023
    @Randall2023 2 года назад

    Dauphin River First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

  • @BrianAdamkowski
    @BrianAdamkowski 3 года назад

    Really appreciate everything you do and teach!

  • @chriskjeldsen6175
    @chriskjeldsen6175 3 года назад

    Love this video Pat. Real knowledge for a real entrepreneur. Very underrated video.

  • @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
    @robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 3 года назад

    Thank you and your team for this! Take good care as well Pat!
    ~💪💗

  • @Filo9400
    @Filo9400 2 года назад

    Straight 💎’s … Thank You 🙏🏾

  • @marklaudenschlager4207
    @marklaudenschlager4207 3 года назад

    Great video - I love the example of the Escalade driver.

  • @twhiteofrd_1102
    @twhiteofrd_1102 3 года назад

    Personal summary:
    Confidential
    trust
    respect
    dependable
    brings opportunity/value/insight
    detail orientated
    fair/not cheap
    fun
    humble
    Presentable
    X-factor

  • @chris347foxbodycoupe7
    @chris347foxbodycoupe7 3 года назад

    I need all the knowledge you will share.
    Always quality information,thank’s

  • @KyserClark
    @KyserClark 3 года назад +3

    I recently broke up with a girl because she was a "crap magnet". I realized She was getting in the way of where I want to go.

  • @mrsamberwood
    @mrsamberwood 3 года назад

    Great video as usual! Glad my IC has passed the test! Thank you for brining awareness to so many important topics. Your content is top notch.

  • @kgosiserame
    @kgosiserame 3 года назад

    This video was really worth it.

  • @ashishnair28
    @ashishnair28 3 года назад

    When you choose to be right, the future looks Bright :-}

  • @mikebouch9705
    @mikebouch9705 2 года назад

    Such a great video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @hajaranasir427
    @hajaranasir427 3 года назад +1

    Thank you!amazing video as always.

  • @craigscott2315
    @craigscott2315 3 года назад

    a famous british comedian or presenter type thing, said. It is okay to look like you're homeless if you are homeless. But if you can afford to present yourself in the best possible way, you should.

  • @sunnybatters5044
    @sunnybatters5044 3 года назад

    This is GOLD! thank you