Fuck school Idk when i finished my studying from my school my classmates were sad af and posted sad shit on the fb I was just happy to get out of school Neved been bullied (not much at least) always good grades still don't like school pretty much useless what they taught us
I honestly feel the same. I’ve been bullied in person and online, and I don’t feel like online bullying is as big of an issue as in person bullying. To me, if they actually feel that way, they would say it to my face, so if people text rude messages, it’s being a coward.
When I was a elementary School I would get beat up all the time I tried going to adults and even though most of them had already seen me get curb stomped they did literally nothing to stop them some of them even watched kids get beat up I tried the joke approach for the longest time I was afraid to go to school while I was at school I had migraines and headaches almost every day I didn't tell anyone about it because no one would listen to me when I was being bullied why would they listen to me now and no one ever found out until I was 7 or 8 when I was visiting my great grandma out of know where I started feeling nauseous and dissy then came the random flashing lights and double vision then the searin pain. now back to our story for a while I had no hope until I discovered the wonderful art of tai chi I took several lessons before I stood up for myself the next time someone tried to beat me up when their leader grabbed my shoulder about to push me to the ground I hit the center of his arm (where the elbow would be if the elbow was on the inside of your arm) used the arm he was grabbing to punch him in the face using the momentum from when his arm bends from the step before then when he feel to the ground on his nees I hold his arm behind his back and struck his arm they left me alone after that
Considering how popular Ryan is on RUclips I'm sure at least one of his bullies have watched this video... It would be hilarious to watch a bullie's reaction xD
I'm sorry but you don't know me and you don't have a chance at the best I can ever do and I am a good man to me you don't know me and I am a good man you will always love me when you do it all the way to my life you know me when he came me when you do that to my heart when he came me when he is in my heart when you know me and I am not the only man I am I don't have a
I agree.. And he's not only a good speaker, he also manages to get his message through in an entertaining but still not offending way.. Like how do you do it Ryan omg xD #mygodmyrolemodel
Maryam Siddiqui Okay but don't be disrespectful to the topic of the video just because you see an ARMY. They're literally everywhere I don't know why you're still surprised/excited enough to needlessly point it out whenever you see one instead of contributing to the topic of the vid :/
Me: *demonization* Well, to be honest, this was back in 2014, when demonization wasn't a thing. So, back then, everyone was _actually_ able to say whatever they want.
As a victim of cyber bullying, I wholeheartedly agree with his opinion. I didn't even need to delete my account or block anyone, I just found a community that accepted me. Cyber bullying is so easy to get out of, and people need to pay more attention to real bullying.
See, your opinion is better than Ryan's. For some people, thankfully you, cyberbullying was not as bad as some others. You got the type of cyber bullying that happens only to you. Other types of cyberbullying can be directed at everyone that knows you. Spreading rumors about you. But thankfully that's not how it was.
LiterallyEverything It really depends on who’s cyberbullying you and how bad it is. Not all situations are the same, some can blackmail you, make new accounts and never stop, leak private information and pictures of you, hack you, spread lies, all kinds of bad stuff.
When I was in elementary, I was the dorky, overly-sensitive kid. People, specifically this one group of three girls, liked to tease me about how I cried easily and how I was a "teacher's pet". No joke, I wanted to die at TEN. One night, I questioned it, and realized: I was at the top of the class, I was in a "gifted" group, I had major rolls in my school musicals, and I had a big circle of friends. The girls bullying me were failing, they weren't in the musicals at all, and as my friends and I could see, the only friends they had were each other. In my head, I concluded they were jealous, and they were just talking advantage of my sensitivity. After that, I just learned how to not care. They said I was a dork? I didn't care, my grades were fantastic. They said I was a cry-baby? I didn't care, people throughout the school knew me for my talents, not my tears. They said no one liked me? I didn't care, because I knew they were wrong. In short, I didn't give them the satisfaction of a reaction. Over time, they didn't find it amusing anymore and stopped.
Brandon cruz That's probably because the teachers know that those kids aren't ones to usually cause trouble and if they are, then they most likely get all their work done unlike other kids who disrupt the class yet don't do any work whatsoever.
Whoooo I was super sensitive as well and dorky. Also I was very smart. I really understand were your coming from I am teachers pet, but I don't get picked on for it anymore. I'm to aggressive the girls that would bully me won't even get near me because everyone knows me when I get angry. I get psycho really fast. Last time I got in a fight I sent the chick to the hospital missing a finger and she was in a coma for a couple of hours. (Don't worry she had been pushing it for weeks and teachers knew so when I lost my shit I really lost it) now I'm the bully well not as much anymore
I can't stand how teachers try to deal with bullying. They are all like "when someone calls you a bad name on Facebook". They just try to ignore the fact that there are kids getting punched in the face and just talk about social media. And they always say "when they call you names just walk away and tell a teacher". That gets on my nerves so much, how am I suppose to walk away when someone has grabbed my arm and is trying to physically hurt me? The worst part about it, is that when they tried to start a physical fight, I won just about every time, and I got in trouble for it. What do you expect me to do? Just let them hit me? What ever happened to "sticks and stones may beak my bones but word will never hurt me"? Now they have giant school meeting things where they talk about words _can_ hurt you. Its true but is being exaggerated and is making kids too sensitive.
I dislike that too! It almost teaches children to walk away from their problems, and not deal with them. "Just ignore them, and tell a teacher" doesn't do anything. And.. the big assemblies about how bullying is a problem in school also don't do anything.
I agree. As soon as you begin fighting back, teachers will stop helping you and tell you that you should've just taken the punch. I hate stupid violence more than anything, but I support self-defense in the truest sense.
And the punishments that are given for the bullies are not at all effective! A detention after school for physically hurting and harassing someone else? That doesn't reform the bully at all; do you really think that the bully is going to stop? No!
Aparna A Personally, I've received a suspension for pantsing someone. But no matter how severe the punishment, it's worthless if the bully doesn't care about school in the first place. The only way to stop it is not to show weakness. Bullies won't pick a fight that they can't win easily.
to be fair though what should a teacher do? he cant smack the bully till hes bleeding he can expell him from school sure but then he just does the same shit at the next school (even though U would be save another guy would have to suffer) like u said detention isnt gonna do shit and u cant really throw him into jail
Not really because they made who Ryan is today and he wouldn't of done you tube if it want for them that's what Ryan said btw I'm not one of the bullies lol
I want to deal with bullying the way that Ryan does but I cry TOO easily. Like the only way I can stop myself from crying is keeping my mouth shut and chin from trembling. So... I'm still searching for a solution.
Hazel Levesque Just know, when someone bullies you, you are still beautiful, and the only reason they are picking on you is because they're jealous, and insecure about themselves. Believe me, I've been bullied for years, this one stupid kid makes it their life decision to make mine hell. But I just laugh it off, as soon as you show them you don't care, they will stop. Don't even listen to them, just let their meaningless words bounce off of you. Let their own failure pass through you, and don't give into it. Just imagine they are a little bug flying next to you. Ignore them. And if it ever gets too serious, don't be afraid to tell a teacher.
They make fun of my appearance. And the way I talk. To be honest, there's nothing special about the way I talk but idk why they like to laugh when I speak.
Ben Franzen cause they're bullied by their parents maybe if the internet was as big as it is today when ryan was young, he would've also become a bully because he could release his anger on people instead of deal with it.
I was viciously bullied in middle school, I had absolutely no friends and was laughed out of chorus class. It was hard, and we did have to get the school's administration involved to ease the problem. Even though those were the worst years of my life and I wouldn't repeat them for a million dollars, I can honestly say it made me much stronger. If someone says crap about me now, I find it much more difficult to care because i know I'll survive and get over it.
Yet for some reason, I think the worst kind of bullying is the one that's cruel but subtle (eg not passing information to you so you can't find the location of your class when it's changed), because you can't/it's harder to confront the bullies. The admin doesn't see it, the bullies can deny it when confronted, and you, the accuser, end up looking like an idiot/douche/complainer. In any case, I'm glad you've overcome bullying!
TheFeyRa I agree, passive aggression is awful because it's so hard to confront (teenage girls are the biggest offenders). It's like opening a big gaping wound then slowly sprinkling salt over it. Nobody else can see it, but for you it just magnifies the pain.
I'm only 11 but I totally agree. The teachers didn't do anything when my friend way bullied but they made a big deal when a mean text was sent to someone.
Same. When I was in school {im 26 now} I was bullied loadssss of times but when a friend got a piece of appear in class that says ‘show tv frined at 5’ or some shit the teacher spent all day looking for who said it. Litterally, we had to stay until 10PM and it turns out it was the headteacher ‘pulling a prank’. Never forgetting that moment in my life ever again
I agree. A couple weeks ago my school had a 2 hour assembly about how cyber bullying exists. That's all. Not how to stop it. Not how to deal with it. Just that it exists. Oh and they talked about vine a lot. Cyberbullying isn't bullying. It's a rude inconvenience.
NifLimited Yeah I was on a server once, and this guy was like, yuki OMG SUCH A LAME NAME EVER LOLLLLLLLL and taht went on 4 like 20 minutes. So I was just like I DON'T CARE WAHT U SAY I LIKE THIS F-ING NAME, GO GET A LIFE :/
Fefe G Ikr xD (btw I watch anime as well, also sorry for the late reply) At first I thought that maybe he was pronouncing it yucky, but after I explained to him exactly how to pronounce it he still went on and on about how dumb and stupid the name yuki was xD
lols you people are actually think im serious I don't give a shit about cyber bullies they can bully me all they want i'll just laugh and send it to all my friends. I have done it before. Probably make a program where the video is on a timer and it sends after the timer is done.
You don't even have to do that. Just don't go to social media at all. Or if you can't help it, block the cyber bullies. You can play games and have fun instead.
i was bullied in school for being the biggest, tallest, and whitest kid in a school full of mexicans and blacks. i dealt with bullying from 3rd grade until 7th grade when i realized that i was bigger than my bullies and started kicking the crap out of them. each time a bully attacked me, which was often, i busted his lip or threw him to the ground. one time, three bullies ganged up at me all at once. i was thoroughly beaten, but i sent one of those kids to the hospital. after that, no one picked one me. sometimes, you can't use humor or other peaceful methods when it comes to bullies. sometimes, you got to use your fists. if that makes me sound violent, so be it. Gandhi once said that if he had the choice between cowardice and violence, he'd choose violence.
I didn't used to think like that but after I went to school in Scotland and I am 1/2 Iranian 1/4 English 1/8 Irish and 1/8 Scottish so you can imagine they hated me a lot! I had about 5 good friends but my best friend at the time had a brother who would kick me, punch me, pull my hair, call me names etc and one time he wrestled me to the ground and strangled me his sister had to get him off cos I didn't know what to do I was 9 ( I'm 12 now ). So after that he and his sister where at my house and he punched me in the stomach and I had enough so I grabbed him by the neck and chucked him onto the ground where his back landed on a piece of concrete which stabbed into his back - he never bothered me again. Now I anyone bully's me the get what they deserve and I'm not horrible or anything I just think sometimes you gotta stand up for yourself and sometime you have to be violent!!! Sorry that was so long!!!
This Sudanese kid I used go to high school with would constantly bully Me and one day in the school library He pulled My pants down in the library (undies too). I immediately tried to throttle Him but a staff member jumped in the way and the kid ran off. So I bided My time, and on the bus back home I saw Him laughing with friends. so I picked up My friends tennis racket (I only found out later as I blacked out) beat Him over the head twelve times yelled incoherently and got off at My stop about half a minute later.
He hardly bothered Me after wards. Mainly because when We went to the year coordinators office at the same time I told Him on the way that if He kept it up I would do it again.
see, this is EXACTLY what I try to talk to my friends about all the time! The only reason anybody ever bullies you or tries to take advantage of you is because they get a reaction out of you and this reaction makes them feel a sense of superiority. Whether you yell at them or give them what they want or cry or whatever, point is they get what they want. No amount of school meetings or talks or campaigns stop these actions because if it ultimately gets you what you want why WOULDN'T you do it? It makes you feel empowered, it makes you feel like you have legitimate control over something, which is a rare feeling at a time where you're subjected to being punctual at the ring of a bell and the idea that submission and respect towards elders is insisted upon you. If you act like you don't care, you take the fun and satisfaction out of bullying. If you turn it into your own joke, suddenly people don't have control over you. Since it doesn't phase you, what do they accomplish by doing these things to you? Besides, hard ship NEVER goes away no matter how much you want it to. People don't just start respecting you because "they ought to" they respect you because you have earned their respect. Maybe you've made them laugh, maybe you've made them think critically, maybe you've moved them with your life story or enthralled them with your talents. People do all these things and more to feel relevant, but sometimes people think relevancy means they have to be better then somebody else. THAT is where bullying comes from.
I hate how adults always say, "Bullies are just sad people who pick on you to make them feel bigger." Most of the time, no, that's not why they do it. They do it because it's funny, and because there's just nothing better to do at the moment. I would know, I was a bully at one point in my life. It was hilarious to see this other girl get upset at some of the things me and my friend would do. And we would never get in trouble for it. Yet, no matter what we did, that other girl was always nice to us. So then I finally realized that I was being a huge, like, Nicki Minaj sized ass for doing this crap, and I stopped.
RUclips started seeing growth around 2012-2013, so a lot of new kids who came to youtube didn't know internet culture cuz they used to think internet is a cooperation thing
Whenever people talk about bullies, they say it as if people always know that they're bullying people. Sometimes, people don't realize that they're bullying anyone and think they're just having fun. Not always, but sometimes.
Step 3: Open your computer. Step 4: Watch videos on youtube. Step 5: Just stay away from the... Facetwitter and... Instabook and stuff. You can't live without a computer... Just sayin'
Ryan, I aboslutely loved this video. It's really great that you weren't afraid to state your honest opinion about cyber bullying. I really hope you don't get a ton of hate for this. I agree with you 100%. I've been bullied my whole life for being gay and it really sucks, but that's exactly why social networks have block buttons. You're such a big inspiration Ryan, I really hope my channel can be as amazing as yours one day. :)
last year i was in 7th grade we had a a thing in our school talking about cyber bulling. our teacher asked about our opinion on how we can stop it and how it effects the community. when it was my turn i said that bullies will never stop no matter what we do. then i told here the same thing you said on the video we should teach kids how to deal with. the teacher got in a big argument with me and i got detention for a month and she fucking sent a letter to my parents saying i fucking support bulling and cyber bulling even tho i was being bulled at school. but i learned to deal with it
Yea they usually say watever and walk of looking like they want to kill me in my sleep but for some reason every thing that happens in school i dont care about
Yea i see your logic but still all you have to do for a bully to leave you alone is not to care or atleast pretend to and if the hit you then kill them
PREACH. And teaching kids to just be decent humans, we lack just being taught compassion and empathy. You are SO amazing for choosing and DOING what works for you. Much love!
Bullying isn't "just how kids are". It's how they are raised. Kids who bully people were raised poorly. I think, if anything, people need to learn how to raise kids properly.
I have been binging Ryan’s vids and I realized how eye opening they have been. Cyber bullying is literally a first world problem and it makes total sense.
Don't you hate that moment when you attempt to comfort someone who's been bullied but then they're too stubborn or find some other way to feel more depressed? ._.
For anyone one who is getting bullied I know how to deal with the bully, this will work for all situations. Tell your bully or bullies "you know... I remember on the news, a kid was getting picked on and finally got tiered of it and brought an automatic gun to school and killed over 50 people." Then wink at them.
Yeah, there are plenty of situations where that won't work. Everybody will probably just think you're creepy and weird, which could make you much more likely to be bullied. I don't know if you tried this and it worked for you, but don't assume that means it's going to work for everyone else too.
I got bullied alot at home and at school, I got threw it by fighting them even though i was half their size. I didn't fight fair and I didn't stop til I won. Then they feared me. Now I'm just an asshole who has a really hard time getting close to anyone because of a very thick shell I built up. Being bullied broke me mentally, now I don't get sad, cry, smile, laugh, I'm either indifferent or pissed off.
Mootje G You find the wrong meaning out of my username. It's a reference to my xbox username of 7 years CircadianHorse. People had a hard time pronouncing it and a moderately inebriated individual tried reading it but instead of the correct pronunciation CirclePony slipped out. No connection to the horrid fandom that is Fedora Tippers and hypocrisy. After that as I was talking to acquaintances that I frequently play with it just sort of stuck.
Ryan, thank you for making this video. It’s truly amazing. This made my day and probably life. I have been bullied verbally and it’s horrible. Thank you Ryan. Really. This will most likely help me through my life when things get tough. And when I get odor I hope I can tell other people about this too. Thank you Ryan. Teehee.
2:05 THANK YOU! I've been saying that to people for a long time now! If you don't like what people are saying online, just shut the frikken computer down, turn off your phone, and go outside!!! If they're bullies outside... Then THAT'S the issue. But come on. Cyber bullying isn't a real problem, unless someone threatens you right off the bat. Other than that, people CHOOSE to continue to read hateful comments. That's THEIR fault, not anyone else's. They're bringing unnecessary pain to themselves, when they can easily avoid extra problems such as that in life. Just because it's called the "internet", doesn't mean you can't get yourself out...ternet :D
The problem is that if you're targeted over the internet by someone (like a humiliating picture or something) this will affect you everyday, everywhere you go. You can't just shutdown your computer when everybody else can see it whenever they want.
If I were a mum and my kid was bullied, I'd pull him/her off the school, and either change schools or tutor him/her. Kids don't have to be in school if the school is an awful environment for them. If that school is not able to prevent bullying, then that's definitely not the place for my kid. They need to be in a place where they can enjoy life and make friends and be surrounded by cool people, because you don't have to suffer and struggle. I don't understand how any parent who knows their kid is being bullied can tell their kid to suck it up and go to school.
Are you kidding me?? I see where you're trying to get at, but I STRONGLY disagree. Have you ever been bullied? If so what was your solution? And if not I see why you put this comment. You cannot teach kids to run away from their issues, it does nothing. Wherever they go they will still have many more problems including the same one you tried to "help" them avoid. It's not a good solution at all. And really? Where is a place to just "enjoy life"?! Please let me know so I can go there! News flash, that doesn't exist. Unless you are a billionaire with all your solutions just laid out to you. People really just don't understand the importance of dealing with their problems. Idk if you've ever been bullied, IT IS NOT A GOOD FEELING. However, like Ryan says, everyone has their own way with DEALING with it. I just "ignored them" (showed them I really didn't care about what they're problems were with me) and stayed happy with all my friends. Once they saw that I was still happy no matter what & I stood up for myself, they ran out of tactics to try and make me feel like I was a nobody. I showed them that I didn't gaf anymore because I was still going to do me. Running is not dealing with your issues. You can't run from your problems, and how can you allow others to lead you to doing that? That's very weak and just seems like an insult to me, honestly. To me it's just like not even teaching your kids how to defend themselves. Like in the future if they ever felt the same hurt again they wouldn't know what to do with themselves. Cuz they were never taught how to deal with it. NO WHERE is able to prevent bullying. It's never going to stop. Hense the hashtag! You're not telling your kid to suck it up and go to school. It's called helping them through it. Making them stronger. Helping them know that they can deal with it and that it's going to be okay.
Not everybody is surrounded by 10 schools. In a normal school district, there is only one highschool that you are qualified to get bus transportation to. Same with middle and elementary. And if you're working, you can't drive them yourself. Moving is way out of reach and private school is out of the question. People go to public school for many reasons, and for many it's what they can afford.
MsSarahJoseph and livelaughlove2016ju it's better to teach the kid to be strong and learn how to deal with bullies, but if the school where he or she is placed is a school full of bullies, where he or she has no friends, and the teachers do nothing about it, why be stranded in a place like that, when the kid can be in a school with people who share the same interests, similar view in life, and with good teachers who care about kids. There's this idea that we need to teach our kids to be able to live in the real world, but I say we have to change the real world. I'm an adult and I've been under a lot of stress the last years, a lot of prolonged stress and it hasn't made me stronger, even though I have a strong personality, it has made me very very depressed and in need of therapy. Imagine the children who are still ill equipped to deal with that kind of pressure. They go through a war zone everyday which means they have no social support, no love, no kindness, and the only way they can survive it is if they become bullies and bully someone weaker. There are children who are naturally born leaders and they can change the environment of their school because they're immensely popular and can make everyone else want to be kind, but most children don't have that kind of charisma. There are so many suicides of children who were bullied because they were gay or for other reasons, or of children who snapped and shot people in school. Mental health is very important for our children, and if the school is not doing everything to stop bullying and provide an good environment for the child to live and grow up happily, then that's not the school for my child. I'd rather homeschool them, move, find another school, protest against the staff to the media, and youtube. I'd do everything I can not to let my child face that kind of pressure because no kid should have to face that kind of psychological pressure. I'm a psychology major and I believe that the most important thing in mental health is to start by providing positive environments for our children. They shouldn't have to deal with PTSD from school bullying. They shouldn't have to be afraid for their life to go to school. We never had that in our schools when I was growing up. I had great friends, and we grew up much healthier. I read the news about children hanging themselves because of school. I don't want to put my kind under that pressure. This is not survival of the fittest!
Ryan I love how honest and original your content is. you really motivate me to keep producing my own videos and I just hit 34,000 subscribers!! Thanks for the inspiration man I really respect you
Though I might be stronger and more resistant to bullies today, I am definitely not grateful for being bullied when I was younger. Bullying took every drop of confidence from me, and I struggle with that even today at 22. It forced me to convince myself that it didn't matter, that we're all gonna die someday and that feelings are arbitrary. This has had serious side-effects later in my life. I tried doing everything I could control to be more accepted: I bought new clothes, I got a haircut, I started working out, I got a job and started working A LOT, I even had surgery to correct my prominent ears. These vain things helped me to be somewhat happy with my day to day life, but the memories from my past haunt me every single day. A grim reminder of how I lost my confidence, and what is forcing me to fake it just to get by. Bullying may build up some strong walls, but living in their shadows is exhausting.
Mind over matter bro. What's the difference between you and a confident person? Your mindset. Also, it helps if you choose to think of things in funny manner, just like Ryan did with his bullying. Remember, you can choose who you want to be with enough strength and willpower
I stopped breathing for a second when he said he wanted to kill himself back then due to bullying. *actually, I didn't just stop breathing for two seconds. My eyes watered a little* You make many people happy, Ryan. Thanks for being strong back then ♡
Hm. I think there are a lot of misconceptions about cyber bullying. If the only problem is someone is insulting you on social media, I agree, blocking works. However, there's a worse form. Shaming. Posting pictures and blogs publicly that shame an individual. An embarrassing photo, something that makes the person seem sexualized, and anything that turns the person's peers against them. This is using social media to make in-person bullying occur. That's the part of cyber bullying that I take issue with.
Takkuri, with the kind of bullying you speak of the best option and the one people should choose is calling the police as it is invasion of privacy(pictures), for when blogs come into play I think you may be able to ask to have the blog taken down, or maybe the blog has a "flag" option. I think a lot of bullying, especially cyber bullying can be avoided if dealt with calmly, and not just raging and destroying yourself for just someone saying some bad things about you, everyone has flaws and people need to accept that, but yes if the bullying isn't dealt with, it can get quite severe.
True, going to the police is a good idea, but once a blog is up, things can be downloaded, reposted, and people can still make fun of you because of it in public. The Internet is a very quick way to spread nasty lies and rumors instantly.
Why don't bullies ever post their experience: So when I was in elementary, I used to tease and beat up this short skinny asian kid and it was awesome, but then one day he said things like - good shove Garry, I totally rolled over. - who does that, I mean, it totally killed the fun for me. So then I got depressed, because there was nobody else in school that really stood out much and I seemed to lose a lot of respect from the other kids, until guess what, a short FAT Asian kid shows up in school!!!
lol.. You do know that deep down inside asian people are trained in hand to hand combat? Have you not seen martial art movies at all? Keep pickin on an asian kid and hopefully you don't get your ass karate whooped one day!
Yo Ryan, here's the reason why people are fussing a lot about cyber bullying -- it's because it has started to regularly accompany normal bullying. On its own, cyber bullying is pretty tame, you're right, but it's never isolated. Basically, kids are coming home after being taunted and shoved and generally beaten down and then they're literally bombarded by messages et al telling them to kill themselves and shit like that. Considering that those same kids would naturally gravitate to the internet for escapism and secure socialization, then cyber bullying is perpetrating the torment they receive at school and continuing it, even while the at-risk kid in question is in what should be considered a safe place. Simply put, it would be like your charter school bullies following you home and beating you up in your bedroom.
I agree with this. It's like not being able to escape a torment that follows you wherever you go, and these days, use of the Internet, especially for socializing, is constantly on the rise which you can see by all the new social media platforms that are still constantly being created and used by many.
Exactly this, especially the escapism part. And consider that the other way around also happens: when cyber-bullying becomes real-life bullying. When people on the Internet find your real life identity (not hard to do these days) and torment you in real life, through mail or stalking or turning your friends and family against you. It's not uncommon (Amanda Todd case, as well as many many more).
mintily But can't you always, not use social media? Or block people? How about creating a new account and such? Honestly, if anyone is mortified by cyber-bullying, then you probably deserve it. There are many ways to escape cyber-bulllying. Also, when it comes to real bullying, you can try the suggestions that Nigahiga said. It worked for me, long before I even saw this video. It's got to the point, whenever a bully provokes me, they end up looking like losers instead.
I agree with this apart from the fact that when bullies post pictures that are socially degrading of others, it can affect your life, in more ways than just emotionally but sometimes academically.
I totally agree with you Ryan, cyber bullying shouldn't even be a thing IMO because it's not bullying if you can just stand up and leave, you're not forced to stay. I was bullied when I was young, but I powered through it, and #cyberbullyingisntgoingtostopsoletsteachkidshowtodealwithitandstuff
Look I don't know this but I don't think bullying will end but cyber bullying WILL end because maybe in the future bad emails or texts will be blocked and maybe the computer will block them from texting you or emailing you is what I think will happen
Anoosh Kumar No, it's not worse. You can close your laptop or turn off your phone. You don't NEED to be on the internet. If someone is "bullying" you, ignore them or block them.
no actually instead of being calm people dont think before what they say then once they text or email the message they cant take back what they said so the right thing to do is exactly what supatvshowuploader but before you write something take a few minutes to calm yourself down from sadness or anger and then reply
AtypicalWeirdo blocking them has so many flaws. They can make new accounts, spread lies about you without knowledge or have more power and call you a “bitch” or “coward” and spread it to other and eventually to your friends and it’ll get so much worse
I've been bullied, online and offline. Kids at my school wouldn't leave me alone. But I agree with Ryan. I didn't deactivate my accounts, or else it would make me seem cowardly. But I just ignored the fact that I had social networking sites, and trust me. Best idea ever. The thing is, people don't change. You can change though. If someone's being bullied, that person wouldn't be able to change the bully's opinion. Trust me, they just laugh in your face if you try to change THEIR perspective on you. It's YOUR attitude that matters though. Your thoughts create your reality. If someone's bullying you, you have the option to just don't let it hurt you. And people usually say it's hard, but that's just how YOU take it to be. Life's a challenge, is what I learned. And you can learn to face it. Head on. Or you can run. But feeling sorry for yourself, is something that'll get you into a hole. That's what I experienced; and that's what saved me. So thanks for sharing this video, and your opinion.
Cyber bullies are cowards. Sitting behind a computer screen, insulting someone they don't even know. Makes me sick! #bullyingisntgoingawaysoletsteachthekidshowtodealwithbullyingandotherstuff
Closing the lid on a laptop to stop cyber bullying is like closing the curtains on an angry mob outside your house. The problem is still there and hasn't been solved, nor will you just forget it's there.
The cyberbully will only be a problem after closing the page or turning the computer off if he knows your identity and other personal info, other than that, it's not much.
Do you not realize, that bullying is going to always be around? It's not something that can be solved. It's a problem that shall always remain. Just deal with it.
i never care when someone says im ugly or they keep commenting mean stuff, i think it's really stupid. if you can't handle social media, then don't use it.
Actually I am a kind of nerd and I am usually the shortest guy in class but I have never gotten bullied in my school everybody is a nerd like me and I have a lot of friends who are nerds
I was never terribly bullied ever because my dad told me my whole life that people only say things to get a reaction. So whenever anybody said anything hurtful I'd just say something like "Cool"
I used to have this friend who I was so close to, but they started to hang out with those "popular" kids and they started bullying me (i'm not gonna say what they did). i got better friends after that.
I can relate. :/ However, in my circumstances I didn't find other/new friends for most of my school years but it turned out the exact same after graduation with them but it was their boyfriends who would make fun of me. I'd point it out and my "friend" (who btw laughed at me with their boyfriend after the joke made at me) would immediately defend their boyfriend. It's a lot worse when it's someone you were so close to, who you stood up for too and they think it's okay for something like that. Super depressing but I learned to move forward without them. P.S. YOUR HAIR. O.M.G YAS.
Pics Zhou something similar happened to me too They wouldn’t really physically hurt me bc it was a christian school and they don’t wanna go to the principal’s office but my best friend would ignore me and hang out with the people that are always spreading rumors about me And like those boys would say bad things about me in class with a loud voice but yeah you know thank god that they’re not my classmates anymore i felt so sad back then I know it bc it was pretty obvious but our adviser wouldn’t admit it that she is picking the side of the bullies bc she would tell me it’s not about me and she would actually tell other grades/levels that I am the most sensitive student in our class like I am not even exaggerating a kid in other level told me about it It was the actual worst bc everyday i would sit on my chair while my bully saying things about me and everyone avoided me that I became used to being alone
You do make great points in this video, but also cyber bullying includes leaking embarrassing pictures of you and you can’t escape that. 😕 R.I.P. Amanda Todd
Teachers: Bullying is bad
Kid: *gets bullied*
Teachers: Not my problem
True...
*Bullied kid fights back*
Teacher : you're suspended
very true
Facts
Fuck school
Idk when i finished my studying from my school my classmates were sad af and posted sad shit on the fb
I was just happy to get out of school
Neved been bullied (not much at least) always good grades still don't like school pretty much useless what they taught us
I love how he used to get bullied because he was small but now he's some kind of ninja wrestler
“Ninja wrestler” XD
666 likes 😦
MD Starfaith he is black belt in judo i think
MD Starfaith
Ultimate rapper gangster judo-technique ninja?
He was almost a state champion. A STATE CHAMPION.
How schools deal with fights:
Bully punches you
You punch back in self defense
You get suspended for physically harming another student
Exactly
I hate that situatiion... god knows what people should do before it
That's so true.
Man, i know that feel.
So true.
I honestly feel the same. I’ve been bullied in person and online, and I don’t feel like online bullying is as big of an issue as in person bullying. To me, if they actually feel that way, they would say it to my face, so if people text rude messages, it’s being a coward.
I think They might be Jealous
I agree
When I was a elementary School I would get beat up all the time I tried going to adults and even though most of them had already seen me get curb stomped they did literally nothing to stop them some of them even watched kids get beat up I tried the joke approach for the longest time I was afraid to go to school while I was at school I had migraines and headaches almost every day I didn't tell anyone about it because no one would listen to me when I was being bullied why would they listen to me now and no one ever found out until I was 7 or 8 when I was visiting my great grandma out of know where I started feeling nauseous and dissy then came the random flashing lights and double vision then the searin pain. now back to our story for a while I had no hope until I discovered the wonderful art of tai chi I took several lessons before I stood up for myself the next time someone tried to beat me up when their leader grabbed my shoulder about to push me to the ground I hit the center of his arm (where the elbow would be if the elbow was on the inside of your arm) used the arm he was grabbing to punch him in the face using the momentum from when his arm bends from the step before then when he feel to the ground on his nees I hold his arm behind his back and struck his arm they left me alone after that
@@aperson5411 damn I happy that your ok now
@@joshclancy4675 thanks
One time a mean bully told me to take a hike. The scenery was beautiful and I felt refreshed upon returning so i’m not even upset anymore.
XD
Dude your awesome
Hahahahaha omg
Arwa Hilal You're
"Сходил нах№й, офигенно отдохнул"
I use the Miranda Voice as defense. It works incredibly. Everyone gets confused.
lol
What is that?
But you forgot... Its cyber bullying.
Unless... You have superpowers?! :O ConanXCanon
I lovveeeeee your videos! And you Conan!
Hahahhaha STOP IT! (Miranda voice)
"This is RUclips I can say what I want this is the land of the free." *Sigh* how times have changed.
DEMONITIZED
Remember Numa Numa?
Ahhh yes the land of the free and the home of the bees it's all gone now
me: *breathes*
RUclips: *DEMONETIZED*
Oh No I'm the 666th like
I am a teacher and I am doing a lesson on bullying. I needed an opposing view. This is great. Thanks.
Do you pee
no offense
:D
@@ar9735 what do you mean by do you pee
@@osmosisv9502 does he pee :pensive: :flushed:
He's literally correct tho
@@-Teague- :flushed::flushed::flushed::pensivive:
"I can say what I want!"
De-monetized
Badum schhchh
I got an ad
+Moldred 123 r/woooosh
Lol
RUclips post-2016 be like
Considering how popular Ryan is on RUclips I'm sure at least one of his bullies have watched this video... It would be hilarious to watch a bullie's reaction xD
True
+Sophia Li bully's
+Dhruv Gramopadhye bullies
+Gokhan Fusion | AMV the word bullies is used when there's multiple people.
JohnSanity I mean bullie's is incorrect. If it is plural possessive, then bullys'
I actually agree with him on everything.
Oh, screw off.
Wow. Say whatever you want, I'm leaving now.
+Sasuke Uchiha Look it's a weeaboo who wasn't accepted by his family so he starts shit online with random people so he can feel better about himself.
***** You just said you are impersonating an Anime character you fucking weeaboo.
***** Read the comment thread again.
Why did i start crying and clapping this was actually so inspiring
sure naomi.
@@nou5114 ...ok you read Korean well done-
@@Naomi-xr3th that wasn't the point of the comment bruh
@@nou5114 Then what was the point? Confusion-
@@Naomi-xr3th whats there to be confused about ?? its simple sarcasm
"This is youtube, I can say what I want"
Well... Not anymore.
Scarce
+Mathmath 101 hey guys its scarce here...
Yeah pretty much same thing I was thinkng
i was thinking exactly that
I'm sorry but you don't know me and you don't have a chance at the best I can ever do and I am a good man to me you don't know me and I am a good man you will always love me when you do it all the way to my life you know me when he came me when you do that to my heart when he came me when he is in my heart when you know me and I am not the only man I am I don't have a
I completely agree with this video. I made a video with his same premise about cyber bulling 2 years ago. He has the same thoughts as me.
Hey Rep, love your vids!
MrRepzion, you are like my idol. love ur vids
HI THERE REP, LOVE YOUR VIDS
:D
Well hello, Daniel! Fancy meeting you here!
I bet the people who bullied Ryan feel so stupid right now
Julia Anderson ikr I would because he has 19M subs now
AsianStation ッ yup
AsianStation ッ Precisely.
How the hell does being famous or well known or even almost 20 million wanna make someone feel bad for bullying someone?
Triple_SeLeXX there gonna feel stupid its a fact there gonna be like fuck....i bullied that guy
Teacher: YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN
Me: No I’m here because it’s the law
Alexi Felton lmao
Facts😂
Police officer: Hey you! Kid, aren't you supposed to be at school?
You: well.. Yes...
Police officer: *YOURE UNDER ARREST*
Not the law but parents force their kids to go
Multi Man it is the law
This is why you're such an inspiration to me... such a great speaker
David i love i bro
i know you from my insta hi mate :) im afg_azimi shout me out please
hey david i didnt know u watched nigahiga :)... i LOV ur and his videos thx for everything guyz :)...it means alot :)
I agree.. And he's not only a good speaker, he also manages to get his message through in an entertaining but still not offending way.. Like how do you do it Ryan omg xD #mygodmyrolemodel
DAVID! YO SUH! IM GUESSING YOU WATCH ALL HIS VIDEOS DAILY!
3 years later and still inspirational
Kookie Monster okay but ARMY
Maryam Siddiqui Okay but don't be disrespectful to the topic of the video just because you see an ARMY. They're literally everywhere I don't know why you're still surprised/excited enough to needlessly point it out whenever you see one instead of contributing to the topic of the vid :/
Kookie Monster army😍☺️❤️❤️
Kookie Monster ARMYYYY YASSS
Yasss Army!
You inspired me to keep pushing that little kid in my school. I'll be doing it for his own good, in the future he would be thankful
That made me lol
Why are you guys cyber bullying him? He's just trying to help a kid succeed in life.
Bailey Edgerton don't tell him what to do -__- especially telling him to take his life >:0
Bailey, no matter who someone is or what someone says NO ONE deserves to die. Don't make that joke, or comment. It's worse then the main one itself.
Jrkeane10 f u! you stupid people who bully other people!
"This is RUclips, I can say whatever I want!"
Me: ....
Me: Alright who's gonna tell him?
Me: *demonization*
Well, to be honest, this was back in 2014, when demonization wasn't a thing. So, back then, everyone was _actually_ able to say whatever they want.
@@awsomegamer71 That's the joke he was making
Ashith Oil , wtm this was before demonetization .
Bob Hoskins This was a joke.
The BlueNite , nope wasn’t he made this video back when that was still true :’( sad how things change
I wonder how the people who bullied ryan feel now about him being a super famous youtuber.....
"I'm a failure." -Ryan Higa's bully.
+IncrediblePrism ha mean
they'll call him fake and gay
+Naked Tiger more like REAL AND GAY!!
+TheForeverPhan lol I remember that vid
As a victim of cyber bullying, I wholeheartedly agree with his opinion. I didn't even need to delete my account or block anyone, I just found a community that accepted me. Cyber bullying is so easy to get out of, and people need to pay more attention to real bullying.
See, your opinion is better than Ryan's. For some people, thankfully you, cyberbullying was not as bad as some others. You got the type of cyber bullying that happens only to you. Other types of cyberbullying can be directed at everyone that knows you. Spreading rumors about you. But thankfully that's not how it was.
LiterallyEverything It really depends on who’s cyberbullying you and how bad it is. Not all situations are the same, some can blackmail you, make new accounts and never stop, leak private information and pictures of you, hack you, spread lies, all kinds of bad stuff.
Justin. I. the act of harassing, blackmailing, or trying to sabotage someone online.
Justin. I. Reporting doesn’t always work. Social networks don’t always do anything about it. And sometimes even the law doesn’t either.
@Justin. I. Bullying sombody thru the internet ( social media or not ) somebody cyberbullied my firend and I got really angry and made her block them.
When I was in elementary, I was the dorky, overly-sensitive kid. People, specifically this one group of three girls, liked to tease me about how I cried easily and how I was a "teacher's pet". No joke, I wanted to die at TEN.
One night, I questioned it, and realized: I was at the top of the class, I was in a "gifted" group, I had major rolls in my school musicals, and I had a big circle of friends. The girls bullying me were failing, they weren't in the musicals at all, and as my friends and I could see, the only friends they had were each other. In my head, I concluded they were jealous, and they were just talking advantage of my sensitivity.
After that, I just learned how to not care. They said I was a dork? I didn't care, my grades were fantastic. They said I was a cry-baby? I didn't care, people throughout the school knew me for my talents, not my tears. They said no one liked me? I didn't care, because I knew they were wrong. In short, I didn't give them the satisfaction of a reaction.
Over time, they didn't find it amusing anymore and stopped.
Yep just don't care about what they say or do and eventually they will think it's not funny and walk away
TheGuardian163 Hitler had an army, u slap him and u get shot
Yo for real i hate class pets they get away from everything when they get in trouble
Brandon cruz That's probably because the teachers know that those kids aren't ones to usually cause trouble and if they are, then they most likely get all their work done unlike other kids who disrupt the class yet don't do any work whatsoever.
Whoooo I was super sensitive as well and dorky. Also I was very smart. I really understand were your coming from I am teachers pet, but I don't get picked on for it anymore. I'm to aggressive the girls that would bully me won't even get near me because everyone knows me when I get angry. I get psycho really fast. Last time I got in a fight I sent the chick to the hospital missing a finger and she was in a coma for a couple of hours. (Don't worry she had been pushing it for weeks and teachers knew so when I lost my shit I really lost it) now I'm the bully well not as much anymore
Bully : Shut up ******!
Ryan : ok! *smiles*
Me : *Dies Laughing*
RIP
Eric, The Demon Hunter oof!
"Land of the bees"
Thanks for warning us about the Bee Movie memes.
beybaktube10 I know right
beybaktube10 STAY WOKE
thx for the warning!
beybaktube10 I
I can't stand how teachers try to deal with bullying. They are all like "when someone calls you a bad name on Facebook". They just try to ignore the fact that there are kids getting punched in the face and just talk about social media. And they always say "when they call you names just walk away and tell a teacher". That gets on my nerves so much, how am I suppose to walk away when someone has grabbed my arm and is trying to physically hurt me? The worst part about it, is that when they tried to start a physical fight, I won just about every time, and I got in trouble for it. What do you expect me to do? Just let them hit me? What ever happened to "sticks and stones may beak my bones but word will never hurt me"? Now they have giant school meeting things where they talk about words _can_ hurt you. Its true but is being exaggerated and is making kids too sensitive.
I dislike that too! It almost teaches children to walk away from their problems, and not deal with them. "Just ignore them, and tell a teacher" doesn't do anything. And.. the big assemblies about how bullying is a problem in school also don't do anything.
I agree. As soon as you begin fighting back, teachers will stop helping you and tell you that you should've just taken the punch. I hate stupid violence more than anything, but I support self-defense in the truest sense.
And the punishments that are given for the bullies are not at all effective! A detention after school for physically hurting and harassing someone else? That doesn't reform the bully at all; do you really think that the bully is going to stop? No!
Aparna A Personally, I've received a suspension for pantsing someone. But no matter how severe the punishment, it's worthless if the bully doesn't care about school in the first place. The only way to stop it is not to show weakness. Bullies won't pick a fight that they can't win easily.
to be fair though what should a teacher do?
he cant smack the bully till hes bleeding he can expell him from school sure but then he just does the same shit at the next school (even though U would be save another guy would have to suffer)
like u said detention isnt gonna do shit
and u cant really throw him into jail
The only reason someone would try to bring you down is if you're already above them
Benjamin L Oh shot that's deep
Before: The bullies bullied Ryan
After: The bullies are big _lamps_ of Ryan's videos
Now: The bullies regret bullying Ryan
Not really because they made who Ryan is today and he wouldn't of done you tube if it want for them that's what Ryan said btw I'm not one of the bullies lol
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Yeah international shame for being horrible as a kid.
No they're thankful for bullying Ryan because now have have entertaining content lol
A police officer came to my school to talk to us about bullying, he said if ur ever being bullied to say: Stop! Ur being mean!
That is the gayest thing I've heard (Not that's there any wrong with being gay)
+David Frost how is that gay?
Rdizzler try to say it in a sarcasm voice.
wtf... how does a statement have a sexuality -.-
+Anam Ahmed idk I was hoping u would know
Ryan's old bullies must being feeling really stupid 'cause now he's famous on youtube.
Really, I thought he worked in construction!
it's just a comment. Nothing to get sarcastic over.
hanako miyomi I'm just kidding. Your comment was pointless so I gave my pointless reply. Neither of us did anything wrong.
oh. lol sorry then.
***** You're just a cyberbully!!! No seriously I don't need you to tell me I'm not funny, and your comment wasn't very interesting either.
When you were one of his bullies and realize he is more successful than you would ever be
Are you one of his bullies?
Ya were you
Hero?
Seriously..R u???
enmanuel rodriguez faq ya
“This is RUclips... You can’t control what I say!”
Oh how times have changed
Copy
Just because you get demonetized doesn't mean your can't say it
stop stealing the same comments literally everyone else put
I want to deal with bullying the way that Ryan does but I cry TOO easily. Like the only way I can stop myself from crying is keeping my mouth shut and chin from trembling. So... I'm still searching for a solution.
Hazel Levesque Just know, when someone bullies you, you are still beautiful, and the only reason they are picking on you is because they're jealous, and insecure about themselves. Believe me, I've been bullied for years, this one stupid kid makes it their life decision to make mine hell. But I just laugh it off, as soon as you show them you don't care, they will stop. Don't even listen to them, just let their meaningless words bounce off of you. Let their own failure pass through you, and don't give into it. Just imagine they are a little bug flying next to you. Ignore them. And if it ever gets too serious, don't be afraid to tell a teacher.
Romono Pilowki
Thank you. ☺
Hazel Levesque Maybe you can try punching them in the belly? the belly will make them double over and make them try to breath.
They make fun of my appearance. And the way I talk. To be honest, there's nothing special about the way I talk but idk why they like to laugh when I speak.
Hazel Levesque Holy shit your name.
It's sad that most cyber bullying comes from people that got bullied
OliMation true
OliMation not true, most bullies are made from their parents
Ben Franzen cause they're bullied by their parents
maybe if the internet was as big as it is today when ryan was young, he would've also become a bully because he could release his anger on people instead of deal with it.
TalTheBest like Jake from daddyo5
His stepdad is making him grow in an abusive environment and now he is bullying Cody
His 6 year old brother
OliMation and regular bullys
I was viciously bullied in middle school, I had absolutely no friends and was laughed out of chorus class. It was hard, and we did have to get the school's administration involved to ease the problem. Even though those were the worst years of my life and I wouldn't repeat them for a million dollars, I can honestly say it made me much stronger. If someone says crap about me now, I find it much more difficult to care because i know I'll survive and get over it.
Yayyy (Y)
Dude, that's awesome. I can't begin to understand what you've gone through, but I bet things have gotten better right?
Yet for some reason, I think the worst kind of bullying is the one that's cruel but subtle (eg not passing information to you so you can't find the location of your class when it's changed), because you can't/it's harder to confront the bullies. The admin doesn't see it, the bullies can deny it when confronted, and you, the accuser, end up looking like an idiot/douche/complainer.
In any case, I'm glad you've overcome bullying!
AtomicSpatula Oh yes, I moved 3 years ago and am about to start college. Life's good:)
TheFeyRa I agree, passive aggression is awful because it's so hard to confront (teenage girls are the biggest offenders). It's like opening a big gaping wound then slowly sprinkling salt over it. Nobody else can see it, but for you it just magnifies the pain.
I'm only 11 but I totally agree. The teachers didn't do anything when my friend way bullied but they made a big deal when a mean text was sent to someone.
Schools praise their “anti bullying policies” but when it happens. They look the other way. We’ve all been there.
You're supposed to be 13, he careful
Same. When I was in school {im 26 now} I was bullied loadssss of times but when a friend got a piece of appear in class that says ‘show tv frined at 5’ or some shit the teacher spent all day looking for who said it. Litterally, we had to stay until 10PM and it turns out it was the headteacher ‘pulling a prank’. Never forgetting that moment in my life ever again
Hey don't say like that.. They are not gonna stand still and do nothing..
Just wait until you start a fight with that bully..
I agree. A couple weeks ago my school had a 2 hour assembly about how cyber bullying exists. That's all. Not how to stop it. Not how to deal with it. Just that it exists. Oh and they talked about vine a lot.
Cyberbullying isn't bullying. It's a rude inconvenience.
NifLimited same
NifLimited Yeah I was on a server once, and this guy was like, yuki OMG SUCH A LAME NAME EVER LOLLLLLLLL and taht went on 4 like 20 minutes. So I was just like I DON'T CARE WAHT U SAY I LIKE THIS F-ING NAME, GO GET A LIFE :/
yuki moon omg I love the name yuki( not being nice I genuinely love that name since I watched the anime vampire knight)
Fefe G Ikr xD (btw I watch anime as well, also sorry for the late reply) At first I thought that maybe he was pronouncing it yucky, but after I explained to him exactly how to pronounce it he still went on and on about how dumb and stupid the name yuki was xD
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Ryan Higa should talk to schools about bullying
if his principle is watching this video XD
Naomi Zhang
Zhang is my last name
Naomi Zhang this video made me cry.
Naomi Zhang YES!!!!!
Naomi Zhang truuuuuuuuuueeeeeeeeeee
The best way to stop cyber-bullying? Turn your cell-phone, computer,and tablets OFF.
RedDotIsAwake shut the fuck up
^^^yea because you can totally send the video right after you're dead
RedDotIsAwake how would you send it to the bully if you're already dead
RedDotIsAwake you do that
lols you people are actually think im serious I don't give a shit about cyber bullies they can bully me all they want i'll just laugh and send it to all my friends. I have done it before. Probably make a program where the video is on a timer and it sends after the timer is done.
Imagine Ryan's bullies after seeing him now....
Even when talking about a sensitive topic with an unpopular opinion, Ryan still manages to make me smile :)
That's because he has a magical sneeze:)
#Bullyingisntgoingawaysoletsteachkidshowtodealwithitandotherstuff
+goldheartxx #BullyingIsntGoingAwaySoLetsTeachTheKidsHowToDealWithItAndStuff
+Elise Russell #BullyingIsntGoingAwaySoLetsTeachTheKidsHowToDealWithItAndOtherStuff* 👍
It's supposed to be in full caps :(
fack
+goldheartxx Or just skin the bullies alive...
I know how to solve cyber bulling in two words: power button
lil waddlin penguin well yeah
You don't even have to do that. Just don't go to social media at all. Or if you can't help it, block the cyber bullies. You can play games and have fun instead.
I’m so sorry that you went through bullying Ryan, you didn’t deserve it and you’re so strong. You’re amazing thank you
i was bullied in school for being the biggest, tallest, and whitest kid in a school full of mexicans and blacks. i dealt with bullying from 3rd grade until 7th grade when i realized that i was bigger than my bullies and started kicking the crap out of them. each time a bully attacked me, which was often, i busted his lip or threw him to the ground. one time, three bullies ganged up at me all at once. i was thoroughly beaten, but i sent one of those kids to the hospital. after that, no one picked one me.
sometimes, you can't use humor or other peaceful methods when it comes to bullies. sometimes, you got to use your fists. if that makes me sound violent, so be it. Gandhi once said that if he had the choice between cowardice and violence, he'd choose violence.
I didn't used to think like that but after I went to school in Scotland and I am 1/2 Iranian 1/4 English 1/8 Irish and 1/8 Scottish so you can imagine they hated me a lot! I had about 5 good friends but my best friend at the time had a brother who would kick me, punch me, pull my hair, call me names etc and one time he wrestled me to the ground and strangled me his sister had to get him off cos I didn't know what to do I was 9 ( I'm 12 now ). So after that he and his sister where at my house and he punched me in the stomach and I had enough so I grabbed him by the neck and chucked him onto the ground where his back landed on a piece of concrete which stabbed into his back - he never bothered me again. Now I anyone bully's me the get what they deserve and I'm not horrible or anything I just think sometimes you gotta stand up for yourself and sometime you have to be violent!!! Sorry that was so long!!!
***** I don't support crazy violence but...
dude thats amazing
Yasmine Lyndle Yasmine is a girls name. He beat up a little girl?
This Sudanese kid I used go to high school with would constantly bully Me and one day in the school library He pulled My pants down in the library (undies too).
I immediately tried to throttle Him but a staff member jumped in the way and the kid ran off. So I bided My time, and on the bus back home I saw Him laughing with friends. so I picked up My friends tennis racket (I only found out later as I blacked out) beat Him over the head twelve times yelled incoherently and got off at My stop about half a minute later.
He hardly bothered Me after wards. Mainly because when We went to the year coordinators office at the same time I told Him on the way that if He kept it up I would do it again.
see, this is EXACTLY what I try to talk to my friends about all the time! The only reason anybody ever bullies you or tries to take advantage of you is because they get a reaction out of you and this reaction makes them feel a sense of superiority. Whether you yell at them or give them what they want or cry or whatever, point is they get what they want. No amount of school meetings or talks or campaigns stop these actions because if it ultimately gets you what you want why WOULDN'T you do it? It makes you feel empowered, it makes you feel like you have legitimate control over something, which is a rare feeling at a time where you're subjected to being punctual at the ring of a bell and the idea that submission and respect towards elders is insisted upon you. If you act like you don't care, you take the fun and satisfaction out of bullying. If you turn it into your own joke, suddenly people don't have control over you. Since it doesn't phase you, what do they accomplish by doing these things to you? Besides, hard ship NEVER goes away no matter how much you want it to. People don't just start respecting you because "they ought to" they respect you because you have earned their respect. Maybe you've made them laugh, maybe you've made them think critically, maybe you've moved them with your life story or enthralled them with your talents. People do all these things and more to feel relevant, but sometimes people think relevancy means they have to be better then somebody else. THAT is where bullying comes from.
LOL DIDNT READ LOL
Justin Liu . . . .thanks for sharing that . . .
TomboTime lol
Wow even though Justin Liu is being a troll... very nice thought! And yes i did actually read the whole thing :) very nice man
No, to be honest I only read the first part and so I agree with you.
I hate how adults always say, "Bullies are just sad people who pick on you to make them feel bigger."
Most of the time, no, that's not why they do it. They do it because it's funny, and because there's just nothing better to do at the moment. I would know, I was a bully at one point in my life. It was hilarious to see this other girl get upset at some of the things me and my friend would do. And we would never get in trouble for it.
Yet, no matter what we did, that other girl was always nice to us. So then I finally realized that I was being a huge, like, Nicki Minaj sized ass for doing this crap, and I stopped.
good job.
im proud of you.
Finally! I found someone who agrees with me! I think this so very true because this is what I have experienced at my school.
0:40 ryan: “i’m pretty sure you guys know what memes are”
... did we not have memes in 2014?
RUclips started seeing growth around 2012-2013, so a lot of new kids who came to youtube didn't know internet culture cuz they used to think internet is a cooperation thing
Will we clearly did because he was talking about them🤦♂️
Whenever people talk about bullies, they say it as if people always know that they're bullying people. Sometimes, people don't realize that they're bullying anyone and think they're just having fun. Not always, but sometimes.
That's true..
J T Kinda like that but not fun, they think it is natural BC they were abused
J T -A bully
I agree, took me some time to realize I was actually hurting my friend's feelings
*How to deal with Cyber Bullying:*
Step 1: Close your laptop.
Step 2: -
Step 3: Open your computer.
Step 4: Watch videos on youtube.
Step 5: Just stay away from the... Facetwitter and... Instabook and stuff.
You can't live without a computer... Just sayin'
Michael Thomsen Dat le truuuuuthhhh
P.S epic profile pic :3
Step 6:Bully pulls out your internet.
Step 7:-
Step 8: Sits in corner and cries "No... Internet!" D:
Step 9 : Plug internet back in.
Step 10 : Glue plug in place.
Step 11 : Continue watching youtube.
Ryan, I aboslutely loved this video. It's really great that you weren't afraid to state your honest opinion about cyber bullying. I really hope you don't get a ton of hate for this. I agree with you 100%. I've been bullied my whole life for being gay and it really sucks, but that's exactly why social networks have block buttons. You're such a big inspiration Ryan, I really hope my channel can be as amazing as yours one day. :)
JAMES I LOVE YOU
This comment got you a new subscriber and I haven't even watched ur videos yet. That will change
Time to watch another video! :)
James Charles #1 youtuber.
Just got a new subscriber! :D
Don’t you love those days when you have magical sneezes?
Yesss
Don't you love these days when sneezing was normal?
@@Aj3.14 lol
#BulleyingIsntGoingAwaySoLetsTeachTheKidsHowToDealWithBullyingAndOtherStuff
BigBillz I can't believe you actually did it 😂😂
BigBillz u spelt bulleying wrong, yuor so bsd at splelling
+SpoiledHalo29 check your spelling please.
#BulleyingIsntGoingAwaySoLetsTeachTheKidsHowToDealWithBullyingAndOtherStuff
BigBillz Oh my God, yes please.
last year i was in 7th grade we had a a thing in our school talking about cyber bulling. our teacher asked about our opinion on how we can stop it and how it effects the community. when it was my turn i said that bullies will never stop no matter what we do. then i told here the same thing you said on the video we should teach kids how to deal with. the teacher got in a big argument with me and i got detention for a month and she fucking sent a letter to my parents saying i fucking support bulling and cyber bulling even tho i was being bulled at school. but i learned to deal with it
... Obviously you're teacher doesn't know how to deal with bullying
Wooooooowwww really?!!?!? That sucks :/
Man u have a fucked up teacher
This is me at school
Bully: ur so ugly and short
Me: hmmm thats nice i dont care
Bully: what ur supposed to be sad
*sigh* all I'm gonna say is Go to Jackfilms on RUclips and watch YGS.
Holy shit. That's super edgy and the bully totally didn't beat the absolute shit out of you. #morelegitthanbushdoing9/11
Yea they usually say watever and walk of looking like they want to kill me in my sleep but for some reason every thing that happens in school i dont care about
Bashar Al Ani Well, by posting this comment you have proven that you do care about bullies.
Yea i see your logic but still all you have to do for a bully to leave you alone is not to care or atleast pretend to and if the hit you then kill them
PREACH. And teaching kids to just be decent humans, we lack just being taught compassion and empathy.
You are SO amazing for choosing and DOING what works for you. Much love!
Bullying isn't "just how kids are". It's how they are raised. Kids who bully people were raised poorly. I think, if anything, people need to learn how to raise kids properly.
That is very true but it would be a very very slow process... and sadly it would be very hard for anyone/ organization to do it
i am a bully wully
That's not necessarily true in all cases. Some people are straight up psychopaths that can't be molded into an okay person regardless of parenting
I know people which very good raising who are bullies :/
JPAnnichiarico This is an incredibly rare case.
I wish I had a friend like Ryan
Same, I would love a RUclipsr with 10 million subscribers for a friend
Planet Monkey LOL he has 19 mil (u write this like 5 days ago, meaning he had well over 10mil subs)
19.5 Million when I replied to this now x3
I wish I had a friend...
I wish I had... a life
Science shows that you can stop people from cyberbullying you by logging off
Oh my goodness XD
PREACH WITH YOUR FACEPALM KYON PREACHHHH
timemedalian But you're not there to perceive its existence, so what difference does it make?
timemedalian FUCKING KYON PREACH IT!
timemedalian What if you cant and it's like SAO... think about it
I have been binging Ryan’s vids and I realized how eye opening they have been. Cyber bullying is literally a first world problem and it makes total sense.
Don't you hate that moment when you attempt to comfort someone who's been bullied but then they're too stubborn or find some other way to feel more depressed? ._.
Maybe your comfort is not what they need.
yeah some people just want an excuse to be a victim
Well, at least you try to cheer them up, it at least lets them know that someone cares. :l
For anyone one who is getting bullied I know how to deal with the bully, this will work for all situations. Tell your bully or bullies "you know... I remember on the news, a kid was getting picked on and finally got tiered of it and brought an automatic gun to school and killed over 50 people." Then wink at them.
***** They will get in trouble by bullying
MIND FREAKIN' BLOW
That is kind of amazing.
Yeah, there are plenty of situations where that won't work. Everybody will probably just think you're creepy and weird, which could make you much more likely to be bullied. I don't know if you tried this and it worked for you, but don't assume that means it's going to work for everyone else too.
***** So? At least they will be terrified
I got bullied alot at home and at school, I got threw it by fighting them even though i was half their size. I didn't fight fair and I didn't stop til I won.
Then they feared me.
Now I'm just an asshole who has a really hard time getting close to anyone because of a very thick shell I built up. Being bullied broke me mentally, now I don't get sad, cry, smile, laugh, I'm either indifferent or pissed off.
ur name says different..
Mootje G You find the wrong meaning out of my username. It's a reference to my xbox username of 7 years CircadianHorse. People had a hard time pronouncing it and a moderately inebriated individual tried reading it but instead of the correct pronunciation CirclePony slipped out. No connection to the horrid fandom that is Fedora Tippers and hypocrisy.
After that as I was talking to acquaintances that I frequently play with it just sort of stuck.
Don't worry about how big someone is. Sometimes it puts them at a disadvantage
Same here
I reached the stage of emotionless indifference by not doing nothing because of my inability to do anything about it.
10% comments: *Something about the actual video*
90% comments: "This is RUclips I can say whatever I want" RUclips demonetization: nope
thank you those comments were driving me insane, finally a good one not about being bullied
a r e y o u s u r e a b o u t t h a t
I experienced both before and cyber bullying is bad and all but getting bullied irl was another level
I have a great way to stop cyber bullying.
The report button/ power button
works 100% of the times it works
i have a great way to stop physical bullying
telling your teacher.
what do you mean that does not work get out here.
Tell that to Roblox
Chairman Meow Not 100% of the time, like 15% of the time
Sasen Wittachi A nice way to land your ass in jail.
Puts "unpopular opinion" in the title
Says something most people agree with
rekt
Parents don't really agree
It wasn't a popular opinion in 2014
+Sachin Johri first world parents
+XBR4Da Not my language teacher, felt like we watched a cyber bulling short movie every other week.
shit myself when his hair changed
Your videos are so sweg
ur fked up
look kids its another pranking channel spamming comments across popular youtubers videos just to get subs
I was actually taking a shit
When is ur new video coming?
Ryan, thank you for making this video. It’s truly amazing. This made my day and probably life. I have been bullied verbally and it’s horrible. Thank you Ryan. Really. This will most likely help me through my life when things get tough. And when I get odor I hope I can tell other people about this too. Thank you Ryan. Teehee.
2:05 THANK YOU! I've been saying that to people for a long time now! If you don't like what people are saying online, just shut the frikken computer down, turn off your phone, and go outside!!! If they're bullies outside... Then THAT'S the issue. But come on. Cyber bullying isn't a real problem, unless someone threatens you right off the bat. Other than that, people CHOOSE to continue to read hateful comments. That's THEIR fault, not anyone else's. They're bringing unnecessary pain to themselves, when they can easily avoid extra problems such as that in life. Just because it's called the "internet", doesn't mean you can't get yourself out...ternet :D
yES
Gasai Yuno xD Caps?
The problem is that if you're targeted over the internet by someone (like a humiliating picture or something) this will affect you everyday, everywhere you go. You can't just shutdown your computer when everybody else can see it whenever they want.
Then don't post humiliating pics of yourself, or show humiliating pics of yourself to somebody else. Easy.
Rellemann23 That'd be real life bullying that continues via internet
That haircut bit was the cleanest jump-cut I have ever seen.
Ikr it's like magic lol
If I were a mum and my kid was bullied, I'd pull him/her off the school, and either change schools or tutor him/her. Kids don't have to be in school if the school is an awful environment for them. If that school is not able to prevent bullying, then that's definitely not the place for my kid. They need to be in a place where they can enjoy life and make friends and be surrounded by cool people, because you don't have to suffer and struggle. I don't understand how any parent who knows their kid is being bullied can tell their kid to suck it up and go to school.
Are you kidding me?? I see where you're trying to get at, but I STRONGLY disagree. Have you ever been bullied? If so what was your solution? And if not I see why you put this comment.
You cannot teach kids to run away from their issues, it does nothing. Wherever they go they will still have many more problems including the same one you tried to "help" them avoid. It's not a good solution at all. And really? Where is a place to just "enjoy life"?! Please let me know so I can go there! News flash, that doesn't exist. Unless you are a billionaire with all your solutions just laid out to you.
People really just don't understand the importance of dealing with their problems. Idk if you've ever been bullied, IT IS NOT A GOOD FEELING. However, like Ryan says, everyone has their own way with DEALING with it. I just "ignored them" (showed them I really didn't care about what they're problems were with me) and stayed happy with all my friends. Once they saw that I was still happy no matter what & I stood up for myself, they ran out of tactics to try and make me feel like I was a nobody. I showed them that I didn't gaf anymore because I was still going to do me.
Running is not dealing with your issues. You can't run from your problems, and how can you allow others to lead you to doing that? That's very weak and just seems like an insult to me, honestly. To me it's just like not even teaching your kids how to defend themselves. Like in the future if they ever felt the same hurt again they wouldn't know what to do with themselves. Cuz they were never taught how to deal with it.
NO WHERE is able to prevent bullying. It's never going to stop. Hense the hashtag! You're not telling your kid to suck it up and go to school. It's called helping them through it. Making them stronger. Helping them know that they can deal with it and that it's going to be okay.
That would probably solve a lot of the problems but when you have social anxiety, there's no escape... >.
wait a min johnny is a girl name... ( look at the pic )
Not everybody is surrounded by 10 schools. In a normal school district, there is only one highschool that you are qualified to get bus transportation to. Same with middle and elementary. And if you're working, you can't drive them yourself. Moving is way out of reach and private school is out of the question. People go to public school for many reasons, and for many it's what they can afford.
MsSarahJoseph and livelaughlove2016ju it's better to teach the kid to be strong and learn how to deal with bullies, but if the school where he or she is placed is a school full of bullies, where he or she has no friends, and the teachers do nothing about it, why be stranded in a place like that, when the kid can be in a school with people who share the same interests, similar view in life, and with good teachers who care about kids. There's this idea that we need to teach our kids to be able to live in the real world, but I say we have to change the real world. I'm an adult and I've been under a lot of stress the last years, a lot of prolonged stress and it hasn't made me stronger, even though I have a strong personality, it has made me very very depressed and in need of therapy. Imagine the children who are still ill equipped to deal with that kind of pressure. They go through a war zone everyday which means they have no social support, no love, no kindness, and the only way they can survive it is if they become bullies and bully someone weaker. There are children who are naturally born leaders and they can change the environment of their school because they're immensely popular and can make everyone else want to be kind, but most children don't have that kind of charisma. There are so many suicides of children who were bullied because they were gay or for other reasons, or of children who snapped and shot people in school. Mental health is very important for our children, and if the school is not doing everything to stop bullying and provide an good environment for the child to live and grow up happily, then that's not the school for my child. I'd rather homeschool them, move, find another school, protest against the staff to the media, and youtube. I'd do everything I can not to let my child face that kind of pressure because no kid should have to face that kind of psychological pressure. I'm a psychology major and I believe that the most important thing in mental health is to start by providing positive environments for our children. They shouldn't have to deal with PTSD from school bullying. They shouldn't have to be afraid for their life to go to school. We never had that in our schools when I was growing up. I had great friends, and we grew up much healthier. I read the news about children hanging themselves because of school. I don't want to put my kind under that pressure. This is not survival of the fittest!
Thank u Ryan for being the older brother I never had. You're so inspirational! You're awesome!
Ryan I love how honest and original your content is. you really motivate me to keep producing my own videos and I just hit 34,000 subscribers!! Thanks for the inspiration man I really respect you
YOU ADVERTISE IN LIKE EVERY OTHER FAMOUS RUclips CHANNELS
Dude stop spamming people's comment section or I'll call the fuckincops man
Han Schardinger Just report his comments as spam.
Don't read my reply, read the other one with 27 likes
Haa GAAAAAYYYYY!!!!
This guy has a good point.
Though I might be stronger and more resistant to bullies today, I am
definitely not grateful for being bullied when I was younger. Bullying
took every drop of confidence from me, and I struggle with that even
today at 22. It forced me to convince myself that it didn't matter, that
we're all gonna die someday and that feelings are arbitrary. This has
had serious side-effects later in my life. I tried doing everything I
could control to be more accepted: I bought new clothes, I got a
haircut, I started working out, I got a job and started working A LOT, I
even had surgery to correct my prominent ears.
These vain things helped me to be somewhat happy with my day to day life, but the memories from my past haunt me every single day. A grim reminder of how I lost my confidence, and what is forcing me to fake it just to get by. Bullying may build up some strong walls, but living in their shadows is exhausting.
Amen
+Tom Martin Hei Tom Martin. Det var veldig fin tekst du skrev. Har du hørt om Vipassana? Kanskje det kan hjelpe, jeg har gjort det selv.
+Tom Martin I hope you get your confidence back, and I hope you can come to terms with your past and make peace.
Mind over matter bro. What's the difference between you and a confident person? Your mindset. Also, it helps if you choose to think of things in funny manner, just like Ryan did with his bullying. Remember, you can choose who you want to be with enough strength and willpower
+Tom Martin Fuck those bullies, don't let them control you, you are your own person and deserve the best!
I stopped breathing for a second when he said he wanted to kill himself back then due to bullying.
*actually, I didn't just stop breathing for two seconds. My eyes watered a little*
You make many people happy, Ryan.
Thanks for being strong back then ♡
How to stop cyberbullying:
Step 1: open your pc
Step 2: close your pc
can't you just close it?
It has to be open to close it
Duh
nope, you can't just run away, idiots. you wanna use the web and facebook connects to school basically
what about your phone?
Hm. I think there are a lot of misconceptions about cyber bullying. If the only problem is someone is insulting you on social media, I agree, blocking works. However, there's a worse form. Shaming. Posting pictures and blogs publicly that shame an individual. An embarrassing photo, something that makes the person seem sexualized, and anything that turns the person's peers against them. This is using social media to make in-person bullying occur. That's the part of cyber bullying that I take issue with.
Takkuri, with the kind of bullying you speak of the best option and the one people should choose is calling the police as it is invasion of privacy(pictures), for when blogs come into play I think you may be able to ask to have the blog taken down, or maybe the blog has a "flag" option. I think a lot of bullying, especially cyber bullying can be avoided if dealt with calmly, and not just raging and destroying yourself for just someone saying some bad things about you, everyone has flaws and people need to accept that, but yes if the bullying isn't dealt with, it can get quite severe.
True, going to the police is a good idea, but once a blog is up, things can be downloaded, reposted, and people can still make fun of you because of it in public. The Internet is a very quick way to spread nasty lies and rumors instantly.
#BULLYINGISNTGOINGAWAYSOLETSTEACHTHEKIDSHOWTODEALWITHBULLYINGANDOTHERSTUFF I love it its just so catchy
+Louis “Pretzels16” Corby #stopBullyingOrIwillForceYouToReadThisTillTheEndOfThisLineLolGotYouDontWorryIcanBeAnnoyingButYouAreStillReadingThisSoIwillLetyouBeMyNumber1Fan lol :V
+Arianit Haliti #thanksforlettingmebeyournumber1fanitwasmylifegoalsincethesecondiwasborn
#NoWayIWantToBeHisNumber1SenpaiM8ReadThisHashtagForASecretLolTheMegaCoolSuperAmazingSecretIsAnime
#AnimeIsBeautifulAndSoIsAnimeLogic
Please tell this to my school, because literally every year they give some pointless lesson.
We spent about 6 months learning about cyberbullying and we never learned about real bullying
Why don't bullies ever post their experience: So when I was in elementary, I used to tease and beat up this short skinny asian kid and it was awesome, but then one day he said things like - good shove Garry, I totally rolled over. - who does that, I mean, it totally killed the fun for me. So then I got depressed, because there was nobody else in school that really stood out much and I seemed to lose a lot of respect from the other kids, until guess what, a short FAT Asian kid shows up in school!!!
Lol! It would be nice if someone commented something like that!
Dude... did you even watch the video?
lol.. You do know that deep down inside asian people are trained in hand to hand combat? Have you not seen martial art movies at all? Keep pickin on an asian kid and hopefully you don't get your ass karate whooped one day!
Lol!
guys please dont feed the troll
i was never bullied
YOU can't get bullied
The Mammalizer
Good point
Your movie got cancelled
Chip Ralph it wasn't my movie it was about trying to kill me
...fat...
Yo Ryan, here's the reason why people are fussing a lot about cyber bullying -- it's because it has started to regularly accompany normal bullying. On its own, cyber bullying is pretty tame, you're right, but it's never isolated. Basically, kids are coming home after being taunted and shoved and generally beaten down and then they're literally bombarded by messages et al telling them to kill themselves and shit like that. Considering that those same kids would naturally gravitate to the internet for escapism and secure socialization, then cyber bullying is perpetrating the torment they receive at school and continuing it, even while the at-risk kid in question is in what should be considered a safe place. Simply put, it would be like your charter school bullies following you home and beating you up in your bedroom.
I agree with this. It's like not being able to escape a torment that follows you wherever you go, and these days, use of the Internet, especially for socializing, is constantly on the rise which you can see by all the new social media platforms that are still constantly being created and used by many.
theburrito king oniondust's comment was 5 sentences. ItGirlDebby's comment was 2 sentences.
"too much long text!"
Seriously?
theburrito king My problem is how you think 7 sentences is long.
Exactly this, especially the escapism part. And consider that the other way around also happens: when cyber-bullying becomes real-life bullying. When people on the Internet find your real life identity (not hard to do these days) and torment you in real life, through mail or stalking or turning your friends and family against you. It's not uncommon (Amanda Todd case, as well as many many more).
mintily But can't you always, not use social media? Or block people? How about creating a new account and such? Honestly, if anyone is mortified by cyber-bullying, then you probably deserve it. There are many ways to escape cyber-bulllying. Also, when it comes to real bullying, you can try the suggestions that Nigahiga said. It worked for me, long before I even saw this video. It's got to the point, whenever a bully provokes me, they end up looking like losers instead.
I agree with this apart from the fact that when bullies post pictures that are socially degrading of others, it can affect your life, in more ways than just emotionally but sometimes academically.
I totally agree with you Ryan, cyber bullying shouldn't even be a thing IMO because it's not bullying if you can just stand up and leave, you're not forced to stay. I was bullied when I was young, but I powered through it, and #cyberbullyingisntgoingtostopsoletsteachkidshowtodealwithitandstuff
#cyberbullyingisntgoingawaysoletsteachkidshowtodealwithandstuff
Look I don't know this but I don't think bullying will end but cyber bullying WILL end because maybe in the future bad emails or texts will be blocked and maybe the computer will block them from texting you or emailing you is what I think will happen
Jānis Andersons
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Anoosh Kumar No, it's not worse. You can close your laptop or turn off your phone. You don't NEED to be on the internet. If someone is "bullying" you, ignore them or block them.
no actually instead of being calm people dont think before what they say then once they text or email the message they cant take back what they said so the right thing to do is exactly what supatvshowuploader but before you write something take a few minutes to calm yourself down from sadness or anger and then reply
Want to know how to get rid of cyber bullies?
Block them. Done.
*CLAPS* Inspirational
AtypicalWeirdo blocking them has so many flaws. They can make new accounts, spread lies about you without knowledge or have more power and call you a “bitch” or “coward” and spread it to other and eventually to your friends and it’ll get so much worse
What If they make new accounts
@@KingAlexGaming_Official Block them again? Make a new account for yourself? Delete your social media?
@@WAFBLOEF why would I delete my RUclips channel?that's so stupid that just means the haters beat me and forced me to quit that's what they want
I've been bullied, online and offline.
Kids at my school wouldn't leave me alone.
But I agree with Ryan. I didn't deactivate my accounts, or else it would make me seem cowardly. But I just ignored the fact that I had social networking sites, and trust me. Best idea ever.
The thing is, people don't change. You can change though.
If someone's being bullied, that person wouldn't be able to change the bully's opinion. Trust me, they just laugh in your face if you try to change THEIR perspective on you.
It's YOUR attitude that matters though.
Your thoughts create your reality. If someone's bullying you, you have the option to just don't let it hurt you.
And people usually say it's hard, but that's just how YOU take it to be.
Life's a challenge, is what I learned. And you can learn to face it. Head on.
Or you can run. But feeling sorry for yourself, is something that'll get you into a hole. That's what I experienced; and that's what saved me.
So thanks for sharing this video, and your opinion.
you here, definitely did the right things. c: continue to stand strong, show the world that you're greater than what the bullies see you as.
liek ef u crid evritim
1:04 definitely off the pill today
couple years later makes podcast off the pill
You realise off the pill podcast is based of one of his old youtube series where he talked about stuff of the pill
My old guidance counselor only talked to me about it, they didn't do anything to stop it *annoyed face*
Akwardness 101 😇😇😇😉😉😉😇
Akwardness 101 bOi
Cyber bullies are cowards. Sitting behind a computer screen, insulting someone they don't even know. Makes me sick!
#bullyingisntgoingawaysoletsteachthekidshowtodealwithbullyingandotherstuff
***** Rather be a "poopy head" than a cyber bully
i am so confused on this comment thing
***** You and me both, friend.
You just cyber bullied cyber bullies by your standards hypocrite.
***** So the comments is happy? It doesn't depend on your beliefs with gay marriage you sound pretty dumb when using "gay" as an insult.
Closing the lid on a laptop to stop cyber bullying is like closing the curtains on an angry mob outside your house. The problem is still there and hasn't been solved, nor will you just forget it's there.
Not really. The mob can burn your house to the ground. The people on the internet can do well, nothing
The cyberbully will only be a problem after closing the page or turning the computer off if he knows your identity and other personal info, other than that, it's not much.
Do you not realize, that bullying is going to always be around? It's not something that can be solved. It's a problem that shall always remain. Just deal with it.
soanthegreat But most of the time constant cyberbullying comes from people you know in real life, i.e people who go to school with you.
Well, just deal with the ones in school. Why deal with them on the net?
You CHOSE to think!!!!! Hatsoff Ryan😘
i totally agree with you
i never care when someone says im ugly or they keep commenting mean stuff, i think it's really stupid. if you can't handle social media, then don't use it.
+AnD PegGy wouldn't bullying a bully make you a bully?
Sean Zam yes
yeah but then it's self defence
darthbubbaaa
I can't take u seriously with ur profile pic 🤣🤣
(No offense 🌚)
#BULLYINGISNTGOINGAWAYSOLETSTEACHTHEKIDSHOWTODEALWITHBULLYINGAND
OTHERSTUFF
Wat
pacey connolly he didn’t copy it, the hashtag was in the video.
Giraffee Awesome i
U. Guys are being cyberbulkys
Giraffee oinklm
I get bullied and I took your advise. Now I win comedy awards at school so thank you
Scorge awwww well done!!! Tell me a joke !!😂
+Nonisconinal Cubone dont you get it? he's joking
HALE IRWIN he might not be don't be pessimistic :)
Nonisconinal Cubone You dont get the joke.
Delicious Radio naaaaaaa I get it I'm just being optimistic :)
When I fall down in public I just say:
"Sorry it's been a while since I inhabited a body." Some people's reactions are priceless
Avocadokiwi lol
Actually I am a kind of nerd and I am usually the shortest guy in class but I have never gotten bullied in my school everybody is a nerd like me and I have a lot of friends who are nerds
Funny
I was never terribly bullied ever because my dad told me my whole life that people only say things to get a reaction. So whenever anybody said anything hurtful I'd just say something like "Cool"
which is lame but i was in second grade so
Sounds like a good way to disturb someone. Doing something unexpected.
I'm gonna do that now :D
Cool
You should thank your dad for that reaction-thing he said :p
I used to have this friend who I was so close to, but they started to hang out with those "popular" kids and they started bullying me (i'm not gonna say what they did). i got better friends after that.
I can relate. :/ However, in my circumstances I didn't find other/new friends for most of my school years but it turned out the exact same after graduation with them but it was their boyfriends who would make fun of me. I'd point it out and my "friend" (who btw laughed at me with their boyfriend after the joke made at me) would immediately defend their boyfriend. It's a lot worse when it's someone you were so close to, who you stood up for too and they think it's okay for something like that. Super depressing but I learned to move forward without them. P.S. YOUR HAIR. O.M.G YAS.
Pics Zhou something similar happened to me too
They wouldn’t really physically hurt me bc it was a christian school and they don’t wanna go to the principal’s office but my best friend would ignore me and hang out with the people that are always spreading rumors about me
And like those boys would say bad things about me in class with a loud voice but yeah you know thank god that they’re not my classmates anymore i felt so sad back then
I know it bc it was pretty obvious but our adviser wouldn’t admit it that she is picking the side of the bullies bc she would tell me it’s not about me and she would actually tell other grades/levels that I am the most sensitive student in our class like I am not even exaggerating a kid in other level told me about it
It was the actual worst bc everyday i would sit on my chair while my bully saying things about me and everyone avoided me that I became used to being alone
:(
@@zenisay6078 Why didn't you start telling your parents to sign you up for homeschooling, then you wouldn't be bullied ever again
Melody Safo well it was sad back then but I'm better now🙂
You do make great points in this video, but also cyber bullying includes leaking embarrassing pictures of you and you can’t escape that. 😕 R.I.P. Amanda Todd
Lazy Lilac which is why you don't make mistakes. Amanda made one small mistake which gave a big impact on her life, which I find unfair.
yeah but dont go sending weirdos nudes... that can be avoided
August Y. M
amanda's situation blew into a real life bullying problem
Ya boi can call the police
RUclipsrs: DON"T BULLY PEOPLE
RUclips: hehe stats for nerds hehe