Filming a relaxer touch up/update video this weekend! Make sure you’re subscribed if you’re interested in seeing it! And feel free to comment any questions so I can answer in that video 🤗
My arms are tired! My scalp hurts! I'm tired of tryna deal with this. I spent 3 hours washing, hot oil n deep conditioner, straighten, curled, and wrapped My hair. Next morning I woke up to an afro!!!! "This shyt is killing me" 😩😩🤣
@Mrs J I roller set my hair on Monday night 4 hours out of my life with the whole process...yaaaayyyy🙂🤗 😵💫😵💫 Checked my hair Tuesday morning b4 I went to the gym. I was still good!🤗🤗 I kept it tied up in the gym, came home feeling good, took the scarf off and screamed!!! 😱😱😱 My whole head was curly except the ends😭😭😭😭🤣 Wth!! At this point I'm definitely converting over to a relaxer...2.5 years Natural.... Hard work, time and hours!! Man....my arms are tired of being tired👀😫😩🤦♀️
I hate when people say things like: "Oh, YoU sHoUlD lEaRn To LoVe YoUr HaIr" to us re/texlaxed folk. Because if we didn't, then why would we even give af to make certain accommodations for our hair and for our time overall and not just shave it all off lol.
I'm natural and have been told that when I mention I want to straighten or texlax... like bruh this is MY hair stop with that fake positivity to make me feel and yourself feel better
I think people need to worry about the hair on their own Halas. To have relax or texlaxed hair you have to do it and take care of it too everyone I know with relax hair do love their hair, which is why they stretch their relaxers so it won’t go thin.… people are literally miserable and have to take their frustrations out on others
OMG YES Im virgin headed with like half 4a half type 3. The middle is the 4a. The front sides and back are all perfectly natural type 3 curls. However I need to texlax the crown to get it to the rest of my head texture, I guess. Glad I came to this video because I was googling if I can intentionally under or partly relax my hair thinking I made it up since my all natural mom looked at me crazy. I saw you say TEXLAX and I looked it up and thats exactly what I wanna do so now Im happy to know its a thing.
Definitely feel your pain. For me, it's my crown that won't behave. I have 5 (yes FIVE) different textures in my hair and I've never been able to blend them in the 12 years I've been natural. My braid/twist outs look awful. Every part of my hair will stay defined, then the crown will turn into a fully shrunken fro. Love my hair but I'm tired 😫
@@sincerelysandi Hey Love it was still curly in some areas loose curls much more manageable than before I wore it straight for about 2weeks now she back in a curly bun😆
I’ve been natural since birth🥺 Never cut or died my hair so I’m making 25 and I’m but to relax it on Monday. I’m tired of crying over my hair. And I need something different 😭 But I’m also scared as hell😂
My natural hair is defeating me. I’m in my feelings today. I’m so confuse on what to do with my hair. I don’t want to wear wigs or braids and I don’t want to loc my hair. I think I’m having a midlife crisis
@@islandpersuasion4690 I’m going to hold off on that for now. I’ve been doing a lot of research on my hair type/hair science and I believe it’s starting to pay off. 🤞🏾 In couple months I’ll see if it really pays off. 🙏🏾
Girl I have been thinking about locking my hair, a short cut, relaxing my hair or something. ANYTHING to feel different rn but I'm trying to think if I do it will I have any issues while stretching my relaxers. I've been natural for 6 years and every 2 years I cut all my hair off. Last time I cut it was last August so it's been a year and I'm ready for a change. I'm trying to figure out what i can do with my hair if I relax it. I just want to style my hair and it last until I decide it's time for something new.
Girl while stretching ur relaxers, remember u have braids, wigs ,locs etc just be sure to wear the styles properly so it doesn't damage or weakens your relaxed hair. Go for it
It’s been 10 years for me and I’m ready to relax it again now. My curls are beautiful but my shrinkage is crazy, and I have a huge head. Lol. Plus I usually have to wear my hair wet but I have excema on my scalp so that doesn’t mix well. So my hair is just always in nappy ponytail and just dry and not done. I honestly don’t take good care of it in this state. I’m ready to relax it.
Thanks for uploading this vid. I too, have wore my hair natural for a LONG TIME. And like you I have a lot of hair, so I purchased 3 KITS.Thanks again.
Im relaxed but my hair hasn't thrive relaxed but when i was texlaxed bk then it was healthy and thick. I might jus go natural stay . I dnt want cancer or thinning hair later in life ... i do believe relaxers do damage internal but I do go to a professional to relax my hair my hair hasn't really grew to its best ability. Your hair l hope you enjoy the journey always go to professional and try training your hair as natural straight next time silk press ... everyone can't do curly stuff ... l love natural staight thats what l will be doing ...
Yup know that now lol. As I said in the video I didn’t do any research and I’m not that picky with my hair so I didn’t really care while doing it. But thank you!
I’ve been natural 15 years yall. I’m scared to perm it but I don’t even want to deal with taking the time to straighten it just to wake up with the Florida Evans 😩
@@asiarobinson2194 I just recently had twins they are 6 months and I've natural for about 10 years now and its time for a change but since I've had them my hair line is soo bad on one side now 😩 and I'm scared it's going to make it so much more noticeable 😭
The results look good I can feel the relief of more manageability through the screen Lml, I only made it to a little under 3 years, I just texlaxed it so its not fully straight so it still looks like a blow out and thick still, i'm glad I did lord knows I could not dedicate hours to half the day with this 4c hair anymore especially since my hair is getting longer and gets dirty faster so I have to wash it more often, i'm losing less hair now and wash and detangle is only and hour then 30 min to style outside the shower since I can now vs before 3 or 4 hours with styling in shower, I kept my hair in big twists or braids all that time so my hair could retain length better
I gotta do mines better in December I’m doing it again I gotta add it to my ends n leave it longer cuz mines turn to curls then a fro. It’s okay I spent hours washing it out I did better last time from washing in the sink took my hair out. I did in shower this time.
Girlll its only been 3years for me and idk if it a midlife crisis but sis the crack is calling me & now this video popped up if this isn’t god then idk 😭😭
Amazing job u did perfect for the frist time that relaxer made your super bone straight I love it ♥️i relaxed my natural hair 8 months ago it turn'd my hair like brownish redish color.
Thanks for sharing, I just relaxedmy hair after being relaxed for 5 yrs. Nonethe less I don't regret it, I love uploading my journey to see the growth. keep it up love I had to sub. thank you.
We must always do what works for us at the end of the day 😍😍If you’d like to switch up your look & give your hair a breather our AMARACHI tape in extensions would blend in so well with your texture with unlimited volume and style possibilities 🎉
I just did a relaxer after 10 years, I only left it on for 10 minutes, the hair kept a ton of texture and is just softer and easier to comb. I’m in a really humid state so now when I straighten my hair it actually stays straight. I was wearing braids all the time anyway so why keep it natural.
I have relaxed hair I'm currently growing it out because long story short my hair got damaged because it was scared for properly. Also my relaxed hair would've be long if I my I didn't cut my hair accidentally with braids and if I didn't flat iron my hair cause that caused it to be damaged even more. Wish me luck y'all❤
the result is amazing, it looks amazing on you. however i have a question, do u necessarily need to wash your hair 1 week before relaxing it? i’m tired of taking care of it and i’m currently wearing wigs so i don’t need to maintain it. i just want to take those braids off and relax it and be like fck that 😩 helpp
The only issue with relaxers is that some people were doing them wrong they were leaving them in too long relaxes are actually good for the hair because they open up the hair follicle to bring in moisture because your hair is now more moisturized than it was in the first video. I'm not saying your natural hair wasn't healthy I'm just saying moisturized hair hair that is easier to get product through promotes growth faster. But again that's one of the relaxer is done correctly and it looks like you did your relaxer correctly because your hair is shiny It looks like it's well moisturized and nourished and that's what the bottom line of a professional relaxer will do If you do the relaxing wrong then that's when you get over processing breakage scalp irritation things of that nature but it looks like you did this right
So I decided long ago I will be doing a lot experimenting with my hair. All im doing is waiting until after my wedding which I really don't have to do considering I'll be wearing a wig but that's what my fiancé wants. I currently have it in a split dye and I will be bleaching and touching it up for my bday next month. It will be following a lot of bleaching after that until I chop it again and when grows back I will be relaxing it.
Its crazy because a lot of us gotta remember why we went natural in the first place Natural hair is a lot but for some it works for some it don’t I did notice a lot of woman going back natural everything fine than bomb back to breaking off shedding etc. now there going back natural again always do your research perm hair has to be treated with care just like natural hair I’m just tired of hair period 😵💫🥹
I can’t wait to see videos, where our health is as important, as our “hair”.. Black women in America are classified as 80% obese… Covid-19 showed us, clearly there is an issue within our community.
She’s not American, doesn’t live in America… you have deep-rooted issues. America isn’t the epicenter of the world and VAST MAJORITY black women don’t live there and aren’t obese. Instead of maybe volunteering somewhere and being useful since you feel the need to “help”, you decide to be slick, judgmental, and arrogant.
Filming a relaxer touch up/update video this weekend! Make sure you’re subscribed if you’re interested in seeing it! And feel free to comment any questions so I can answer in that video 🤗
My arms are tired! My scalp hurts! I'm tired of tryna deal with this. I spent 3 hours washing, hot oil n deep conditioner, straighten, curled, and wrapped My hair. Next morning I woke up to an afro!!!! "This shyt is killing me" 😩😩🤣
That's why I don't bother straightening my hair. It never stays straight 🤣
😂😂😂 thats why im here, im tired as well 😂 wanted some inspiration
@@ProjectosSemFuturo me too sis me too 😭😭😭😭
@Mrs J I roller set my hair on Monday night 4 hours out of my life with the whole process...yaaaayyyy🙂🤗 😵💫😵💫 Checked my hair Tuesday morning b4 I went to the gym. I was still good!🤗🤗 I kept it tied up in the gym, came home feeling good, took the scarf off and screamed!!! 😱😱😱 My whole head was curly except the ends😭😭😭😭🤣 Wth!! At this point I'm definitely converting over to a relaxer...2.5 years Natural.... Hard work, time and hours!! Man....my arms are tired of being tired👀😫😩🤦♀️
Lmaoo guurl it's real out here 🤣
I hate when people say things like:
"Oh, YoU sHoUlD lEaRn To LoVe YoUr HaIr" to us re/texlaxed folk.
Because if we didn't, then why would we even give af to make certain accommodations for our hair and for our time overall and not just shave it all off lol.
I'm natural and have been told that when I mention I want to straighten or texlax... like bruh this is MY hair stop with that fake positivity to make me feel and yourself feel better
This is a good a$$ train of thought! Thank you!!!
I think people need to worry about the hair on their own Halas. To have relax or texlaxed hair you have to do it and take care of it too everyone I know with relax hair do love their hair, which is why they stretch their relaxers so it won’t go thin.… people are literally miserable and have to take their frustrations out on others
Exactly!!
OMG YES Im virgin headed with like half 4a half type 3. The middle is the 4a. The front sides and back are all perfectly natural type 3 curls. However I need to texlax the crown to get it to the rest of my head texture, I guess. Glad I came to this video because I was googling if I can intentionally under or partly relax my hair thinking I made it up since my all natural mom looked at me crazy. I saw you say TEXLAX and I looked it up and thats exactly what I wanna do so now Im happy to know its a thing.
Definitely feel your pain. For me, it's my crown that won't behave. I have 5 (yes FIVE) different textures in my hair and I've never been able to blend them in the 12 years I've been natural. My braid/twist outs look awful. Every part of my hair will stay defined, then the crown will turn into a fully shrunken fro. Love my hair but I'm tired 😫
I feel you! Why the lord thought it would be cute to give me a 4b/4c crown and 4a/3b/3a sides and nape I will never understand
6 years natural and I’m over it at this point. So now I’m here watching your videos!
Some ladies have the time to deal with super thick long natural hair, others don't. Do what's best for you, happy growing and styling ladies
Ayeeee 💫🙌😌✅💅💯☝️😏🌃🥂
Thanks, I been natural 7 years but after having twins i need easy!! in any part of my life🙌🏾😣 I think im goin to relax my hair next weekend
How did it go🥰
@@sincerelysandi Hey Love it was still curly in some areas loose curls much more manageable than before I wore it straight for about 2weeks now she back in a curly bun😆
I’ve been natural since birth🥺
Never cut or died my hair so I’m making 25 and I’m but to relax it on Monday. I’m tired of crying over my hair. And I need something different 😭
But I’m also scared as hell😂
@@kailahathomas466 oooooo honey I kno you are scared but follow ya heart and embrace change💜 I wish u the best on your hair journey💜
@@kailahathomas466how'd it go??? 💁💁💁
I’ve been natural for about 8 years now and idk what my impulse is but I’m wanting a relaxer… crazy but true!
My natural hair is defeating me. I’m in my feelings today. I’m so confuse on what to do with my hair. I don’t want to wear wigs or braids and I don’t want to loc my hair. I think I’m having a midlife crisis
How I’m feeling at this moment
Put a weave in. I've gone back to weaves much less stress on my edges.
@@islandpersuasion4690 I’m going to hold off on that for now. I’ve been doing a lot of research on my hair type/hair science and I believe it’s starting to pay off. 🤞🏾 In couple months I’ll see if it really pays off. 🙏🏾
Giiiiirl, i have the urge to perm my hair right now! Im so over my natural hair atm
Girl I have been thinking about locking my hair, a short cut, relaxing my hair or something. ANYTHING to feel different rn but I'm trying to think if I do it will I have any issues while stretching my relaxers.
I've been natural for 6 years and every 2 years I cut all my hair off. Last time I cut it was last August so it's been a year and I'm ready for a change. I'm trying to figure out what i can do with my hair if I relax it. I just want to style my hair and it last until I decide it's time for something new.
Definitely feel you, hair frustration is real!
Girl while stretching ur relaxers, remember u have braids, wigs ,locs etc just be sure to wear the styles properly so it doesn't damage or weakens your relaxed hair. Go for it
It’s been 10 years for me and I’m ready to relax it again now. My curls are beautiful but my shrinkage is crazy, and I have a huge head. Lol. Plus I usually have to wear my hair wet but I have excema on my scalp so that doesn’t mix well. So my hair is just always in nappy ponytail and just dry and not done. I honestly don’t take good care of it in this state. I’m ready to relax it.
I feel you
@@RifaC girl I watched your video and permed mine 4 days ago & I've been loving it!!
Is it all of us going back relaxed lol I've been binge watching videos for weeks now... 😅 I might do it my hands is itching me
Slims_she Same lol
Thanks for uploading this vid. I too, have wore my hair natural for a LONG TIME. And like you I have a lot of hair, so I purchased 3 KITS.Thanks again.
You’re welcome!
its beautiful i wouldnt dye it keep it moisturized and wrapped itll grow long and healthy. the key is to not over manipulate your hair. great job
Thank you
RUclips algorithm giving me these types of videos a lot. I LOVE IT!! youre so pretty, im happy youre happy with your decision!
Thank you gorgeous! ❤️
Try to use chelating shampoo to remove calcium buildup from the no lye relaxer. Your hair look nice and healthy.
Im relaxed but my hair hasn't thrive relaxed but when i was texlaxed bk then it was healthy and thick. I might jus go natural stay . I dnt want cancer or thinning hair later in life ... i do believe relaxers do damage internal but I do go to a professional to relax my hair my hair hasn't really grew to its best ability. Your hair l hope you enjoy the journey always go to professional and try training your hair as natural straight next time silk press ... everyone can't do curly stuff ... l love natural staight thats what l will be doing ...
Girl I'm so over my natural hair. It's too much. Bought relaxer. I'm doing it
Omg,you don’t need it to burn to be processed,by then it will be over processed then break off
Yup know that now lol. As I said in the video I didn’t do any research and I’m not that picky with my hair so I didn’t really care while doing it. But thank you!
This was the motivation I needed!!!!
You're so pretty and your hair came out so good💕
Thank you! ❤️
Doing good
It doesn't have to burn
I’m so tempted to relax mine too 😆
I’ve been natural 15 years yall. I’m scared to perm it but I don’t even want to deal with taking the time to straighten it just to wake up with the Florida Evans 😩
Florida evans is SENDING me😭 I feel you though, I’m almost 10 years natural and I can’t do it anymore
Gorgeous hair! How often would you recommend re-relaxing and should I apply relaxer to the whole hair again or just the new growth? :)
10-12 weeks, new growth only
@@tnsha06 Thank you! ❤️
@@ella.beautyxo8204 you’re welcome ☺️
@@tnsha06 thanks been natural 7 years but now i have twins and not enough salon money sis bout to get relaxer ASAP😣
@@asiarobinson2194 I just recently had twins they are 6 months and I've natural for about 10 years now and its time for a change but since I've had them my hair line is soo bad on one side now 😩 and I'm scared it's going to make it so much more noticeable 😭
Jamaican in the house!
Girl I've been feeling the same vibe. That's how I got here because...yeah, it's better that I mash my hair than someone else.
On God!
The results look good I can feel the relief of more manageability through the screen Lml, I only made it to a little under 3 years, I just texlaxed it so its not fully straight so it still looks like a blow out and thick still, i'm glad I did lord knows I could not dedicate hours to half the day with this 4c hair anymore especially since my hair is getting longer and gets dirty faster so I have to wash it more often, i'm losing less hair now and wash and detangle is only and hour then 30 min to style outside the shower since I can now vs before 3 or 4 hours with styling in shower, I kept my hair in big twists or braids all that time so my hair could retain length better
I gotta do mines better in December I’m doing it again I gotta add it to my ends n leave it longer cuz mines turn to curls then a fro. It’s okay I spent hours washing it out I did better last time from washing in the sink took my hair out. I did in shower this time.
Girl stop giving me ideas
It came out so freaking good! I'm so tired of my natural hair, creamy crack is calling my name.
Lmaooo I was fed up!!
@@atmanda lol 😹 em creamy crack called you mogirl 😹
How long did you let the relaxer stay for?
Girlll its only been 3years for me and idk if it a midlife crisis but sis the crack is calling me & now this video popped up if this isn’t god then idk 😭😭
Lmaoo it’s a sign sis!
meeeee right now struggling
Been natural 5.5 years and I can't deal with it no more. I love my hair but damnnnnn, maintenance is a bish! The creamy crack is calling me too!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😭😩 been at it for 5 years its beyond thick but I’m tiredddd
Amazing job u did perfect for the frist time that relaxer made your super bone straight I love it ♥️i relaxed my natural hair 8 months ago it turn'd my hair like brownish redish color.
Thank you
Did you find out what caused the color changes🤔
Bruh so many of your questions could have been answered just by reading the instructions 😭😭
I like it. It is a little thin but add some clip ins for volume not much will be needed just a few and your good 😊
It’s giving thin af sis
Thanks for sharing, I just relaxedmy hair after being relaxed for 5 yrs. Nonethe less I don't regret it, I love uploading my journey to see the growth. keep it up love I had to sub. thank you.
"I shoukd probably watch a RUclips video, but.... I just don't want to"❤ you sound like me! I like you!
I just did mine today it been 5 years for me too
You did a great excellent job! Looks healthy and pretty 😍 ❤
Stop and please go to a good hairstylist
I’m doing it tomorrow
I’m ready finally after 6 years natural
This gonna b me after 21 years I'm tiiied
We must always do what works for us at the end of the day 😍😍If you’d like to switch up your look & give your hair a breather our AMARACHI tape in extensions would blend in so well with your texture with unlimited volume and style possibilities 🎉
I just did a relaxer after 10 years, I only left it on for 10 minutes, the hair kept a ton of texture and is just softer and easier to comb. I’m in a really humid state so now when I straighten my hair it actually stays straight. I was wearing braids all the time anyway so why keep it natural.
I also relaxed my hair and it looks amazing
I always advise people to give it a chance for at least 5 years, you know, deprogramming etc etc and then do whatever you wish.
I’m doing this TUUUDAAAEEEE
Great result dear,beautiful healthy long hair,welcome to the relaxed hair gangs
Thank you!
Cute❤
I have relaxed hair I'm currently growing it out because long story short my hair got damaged because it was scared for properly. Also my relaxed hair would've be long if I my I didn't cut my hair accidentally with braids and if I didn't flat iron my hair cause that caused it to be damaged even more. Wish me luck y'all❤
I wouldn’t recommend you do the next relaxer - it may shed.
She left the relaxer on for two long, I mean if she left it for less time she could have thicker relaxed hair but love the results
My hair is still very thick
@@RifaC No it’s Thin😳
@@RifaC Your Hair is thick. Your hair came out beautiful
Mi Right behind you. Tired of my hair. It's too much for me
😭
I miss the texture of the relaxer but i dont miss my hair falling out 😒
Omg it's so shiny
the result is amazing, it looks amazing on you. however i have a question, do u necessarily need to wash your hair 1 week before relaxing it? i’m tired of taking care of it and i’m currently wearing wigs so i don’t need to maintain it. i just want to take those braids off and relax it and be like fck that 😩 helpp
Subscribed just caz yah Jamaican 😂😂
Beautiful lady beautiful job
Youre so beautiful
I hope my hair gets this straight... My hair is 3 of your heads 😩
have u try to do box braids with relaxed hair? i wonder if it’s harder to keep your hair in braids
Haven’t tried box braids but I did passion twists and they turned out fine. I think box braids would be more secured than the twist
About to be me in a few days can't wait lol
How long did U let it in ?
Roughly 15 mins
Your wrap turned out pretty. You did a good job.
Thank you
@@RifaC you're welcome sweetie
I’m so glad I watched this because I have a lot of hair too and I was gonna do it tomorrow but I don’t think one box is going to be enough 😭 thanks !
Np!!
Ur so gorgeous
Thank you!
Girl i relaxed mine the other day
Hair looks great
You don’t need it straight straight,it will be over processed,you need some kinks for the flat iron
@@sophiam9886 most white women hair diameter larger than our ,their hair strength stronger than ours especially when we process our hair.
👍👍
You look much prettier with the relaxed hair.
This back handed comment
It looks good👍
It looks great
you are beautiful!!
Thank you love
Hey hun! What do you use to edit?
Inshot
It looks gr8!
Thank you
The only issue with relaxers is that some people were doing them wrong they were leaving them in too long relaxes are actually good for the hair because they open up the hair follicle to bring in moisture because your hair is now more moisturized than it was in the first video. I'm not saying your natural hair wasn't healthy I'm just saying moisturized hair hair that is easier to get product through promotes growth faster. But again that's one of the relaxer is done correctly and it looks like you did your relaxer correctly because your hair is shiny It looks like it's well moisturized and nourished and that's what the bottom line of a professional relaxer will do If you do the relaxing wrong then that's when you get over processing breakage scalp irritation things of that nature but it looks like you did this right
So I decided long ago I will be doing a lot experimenting with my hair. All im doing is waiting until after my wedding which I really don't have to do considering I'll be wearing a wig but that's what my fiancé wants. I currently have it in a split dye and I will be bleaching and touching it up for my bday next month. It will be following a lot of bleaching after that until I chop it again and when grows back I will be relaxing it.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Its crazy because a lot of us gotta remember why we went natural in the first place
Natural hair is a lot but for some it works for some it don’t
I did notice a lot of woman going back natural everything fine than bomb back to breaking off shedding etc. now there going back natural again always do your research perm hair has to be treated with care just like natural hair I’m just tired of hair period 😵💫🥹
I can’t wait to see videos, where our health is as important, as our “hair”.. Black women in America are classified as 80% obese… Covid-19 showed us, clearly there is an issue within our community.
What? You're weird.
She’s not American, doesn’t live in America… you have deep-rooted issues. America isn’t the epicenter of the world and VAST MAJORITY black women don’t live there and aren’t obese. Instead of maybe volunteering somewhere and being useful since you feel the need to “help”, you decide to be slick, judgmental, and arrogant.
Stfu 🤫 every race of women care for their hair. Go suck on a d*ick
Did you cut ur ends before?
No I didn’t
Uff I told my mom I want this I hope she doesn’t fuck up my hair..been a long time since I relaxed it 😂