It's kinda mean though if an adopting mom thought you were also an adopting mom, to ignore the sadness of what kept someone from having birth and to brag about your uterus.
Why would she assume she adopted? Literally a black mom with darker skinned kids, absolutely no shock at all. She thinks the kids aren’t here because they are a slight shade lighter than her? 😭
It's just a ridiculous over exaggeration of a situation that really doesn't matter. In real life it would be obvious that the kids are biracial. Film has been doing this kind of stuff to make political statements forever
My mom is black and Cherokee Indian. But she looks just black of course. My father is mixed as well. However my baby sister is black and white. So of course she looks WHITE! So many people thought My mom stole my little sister because my mom is a dark chocolate complexion while my sister was white as snow 😂
@cain2523 that's a stupid opinion. I am 100% black along with my siblings, and my sister favors our mother while me and my brother favor our father. People will treat my sister poorly and assume she's my brother's mother when the most reasonable explanation is that they are siblings. White and Asian people assume that we have completely different parents or different fathers. Meanwhile, black people assume we are twins/triplets. People are just as silly as Ann it's not my problem if you've never encountered people like her.
@@andreabobbette825 : Hmm… I’ve seen her in many different roles … She’s been acting from in the 90s and I took notice when she was in Bring it On. (I think she was a co-star). She was also in City of Angels & LA’s Finest, just to name a few. And I can’t leave out Bad Boys 2. Still, no matter the type of role, I just love to see her expressions and gestures. 😁
Not every one you encounter is human. Some are creatures. Once we learn the truth we will no longer be surprised by their ways. No more than when you hear a dog bark or growl. Wake up people. I am sure you have heard that old saying, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks. How many years have theese creature spirits been on the earth. And they do not change. Even in the information age of light. They still prefer the darkness of their cave. Let us keep our head on the swivel and to the sky. The Return of the Son of Man (Matthew 24:26-31; Mark 13:24-27 Luke 21:25And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring; 26Men's hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken. 27And then shall they see the Son of man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. 28And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh. Pray unceasing 🙏🏾🕊⚡️APTTMHY; GLORY HALL'EL'U'YAH
And the fact that we are STILL dealing with this kind of ignorance in 2024 blows my mind. It unfortunately seems like the ignorance has even gotten worse.
Yes it’s crazy! I went to sign my son up for school and the lady at the office had the nerve to ask me and my significant other if we were married. I told her, why? That has nothing to do with me signing my son up for school. People are weird.
The remake is terrible. Changes the story completely. The point of the story is that their are 12 kids. I the remake there are only nine and they all look they are all different races
Since when do you need permission to use a nickname ? That's actually entitlement. Nobody needs your permission to give you a nickname unless it's a friendly fire nickname.
@@denco37you don’t give someone a nickname upon first meeting. However shortening someone’s name without their permission isn’t a nickname it’s a power play. Just like when men we don’t know call someone names Jennifer Jen or Jenny.
@@jsoto322A power play? Seems like it would be a power play if you let it… honestly I don’t think I know somebody who would care if you use a nickname at first, but I guess the tone and the demeanour is the key here
@denco37 Wrong. It is entitled to decide to name someone other than the way they *literally* just introduced themselves. She said "Zoey" not "Zo" they just met. They aren't besties. And she corrects to "Zoey" which means that SHE wasn't feeling it. How did you miss all that??
@@JustMeDidii I would, and do totally care. My name is Rebecca. I am not a Becky, a Beck or Becca to a stranger. I am an adult that prefers to be referred to by my full God given name that my parents chose for me. Unless, I have a know them since childhood relationship with them, then I am a Beck, but only to a few people that I have known for decades now. Not petty just preference!!!😊
Honestly, it would be so much better if people would assume that the kids a woman is with are hers. If it’s not correct, then you could say “oh I just thought so because you seem to have a good connection with them”. Way more positive that way
Agreed....they always asume the nanny thing, idk if that's in real life but I know I see it in shows too often, like why make that asume and embarassment yourself...
I'm a mother of 4. It's also way more dangerous. Many kidnappers do seem like nice people to kids, esp women that work in trafficking trades. They offer the kids to see pets and say they have kittens, puppies. They also say they'll get sweets, ice cream etc but also use it as a way to lure a child away, untill the child is in the car or grabbed. Other times they pretend someone in the family said to come get them, most kids would trust that because mum or dad sent them when they didn't.
Yep, my mom’s mixed, she looks Hispanic, me and my sister are mixed but look white as hell. Once this lady stepped in while my mom was disciplining us to say that it was inappropriate for a babysitter to speak to us like that. The nerve of these people to comment on other’s families is insane
Im white and my husband was Samoan. Someone asked me once, "Where did you get your kids?" My answer," In the Samoan department ....." Reaction was a crazy look... priceless.🌺
@Leyladjdjx Wait. What? She made assumptions, dropped her name in half and went from assuming nanny to adoption with someone she just met. And you don't understand the disrespect? Wow
@@carolynmansager6952 She thought she is a nanny she didn't call her an OF user. Also she adopted children herself, so she just wanted to build a connection with her. It's not her fault that the twins don't resemble their mother.
Black people also come in different shades, especially African Americans. Genetics isnt a complicated subject, just unpredictable. 🤦🏾♀️ As a mixed kid, I feel this. Watching this movie was almost like watching my childhood
The nanny comment, calling her Zo instead of Zoey, and assuming her children aren’t biologically hers. Then playing the victim when she was clearly in the wrong with her rude ass. I can’t stand people like that!!
To be completely honest, I originally thought the lady just assumed Zoey is the nanny because she looks young. That was my first thought. The idea of it being anything else didn’t even register till the convo continued (Obviously, no. I haven’t seen whatever this is from)
@@arrowflames60 people assumed I was a nanny when I had my daughter young. But they didn't proceed to cut my name in half and double down on assumptions. Rude af
I'm a postpartum nurse, and the shade of skin varies so much! We had a very darkskinned S African woman, husband a blonde BOER, and the baby was as white as Queen Elzabeth.
I grew up with a gal that had a dark skinned dad and an Irish mom. Her hair is naturally bright red, beautiful curls (could be from either parent, too), blue eyes, light skin. All her siblings except for one were so much darker than her, nobody ever assumed she was related to them or her dad. It's just wild how DNA works, it'll never cease to amaze and confuse me!
She sounds gorgeous! My father is from Yugoslavia & mother Irish. I basically look American with a slight European thing. Husband doesn’t know his background beyond American but I’m guessing maybe Indian somewhere. I had 3 children. First 2 blonde hair, blue eyes. My third had dark brown hair, brown eyes and slightly darker skin. Literally EVERYONE always assumed mine & my husbands third child somehow has a different father, even though we’re still together 29 yrs later. And let me tell you that NO ONE is afraid to ask because they think it’s going to be a juicy story! It’s always blown my mind!
It happend once live to a journalist who was married to an asian woman. He was at home and live on camera, the kids came playing into the room where he was. We saw a lady rushed into the room taking back the kids. And immediatly his colleague said we saw the nanny. He replied " she is not the nanny, she is my wife" ! Don't assume just ask.
Passive agressive arguments are tiring for both parties... I like it how she stoped it and just brought out directly what is bothering her. Hooray for assertive communication 😅
@@rhondarowland5921 sing it! Or when they're a narcissist. I wish more people were taught to accept their mistakes with grace & humility. It makes for less repeat offenders 🤙
@@rhondarowland5921sounds like a personal problem for them. I'd rather be direct, then we all know where we stand. Also, if you assume so much without asking 🤷🏾♀️. You kinda deserve it and get what u get
I'm a white woman who nannied for a child who was Korean and Arabic. people were like "that's so awesome that you adopted." I said "me? No, I'm her nanny!" and they looked so dumb. Liked flipping the script.
that is racist because than happend with all woman. just in my extended family, we have so many different cousins(hair color, skin color, features...). Im from latam.
@@joyoriana the FIRST woman and being on this planet was a BLACK woman and she birthed all nations and races of people including yours. So my comment is not racist it’s a FACT. Stay bitter because you seem to be the one who is racist.
@@joyoriana the black woman was the first being on this entire planet which means she birthed all nations of people including yours. This is FACTS so stay bitter in your delusion.
@@joyoriana yea but y'all don't have dark skin like BLACK skin, almost or the color black. your family being mixed is not the same because that's anyone. what she's saying is that black women can make any shade of baby without stepping outside her race.
@@joyoriana the black woman was the first being on this planet and she birthed all nations and races of people including yours. That’s not racism, it FACTS. Either stay in your delusion or read a book!!
And since they won’t just not, could we normalize following Zoey’s example and standing up for ourselves and our children putting the onus back on them.
Notice how she says, “I’m Anne Vaughan,” giving her first and last name, at the same time that she shortens the other woman’s name to “Zo.” Super rude power move. Love it that she gets corrected.
Can you please explain why assuming the kids are adopted disrespectful? Is it because it's based on skin color? If so, imagine if she made the same mistake with ginger kids and a blonde or brunette mother, we wouldn't be shouting racism, would we? (with all my respect am just trying to understand your point of view)
Anne Vaughn: "Hi Zo!" Zoey: "Ey, yeah!" Love how she corrected her concerning her name! And definitely love how she "CLARIFIED EVERYTHING ELSE!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍 Loved her acting in this movie ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m a biracial kid, the most hurtful thing when I was little was kids would look at me, see I was mixed, then see my red hair, fair skinned mom and immediately insist I was adopted. Even made me question if I really was a few times (my dad wasn’t in the picture to really confirm I wasn’t, I now realize I’m definitely my moms kid but so many voices can make you doubt yourself at a young age). I’m from a small midwestern town that was behind the times, these kids just didn’t know any better.
As a biracial kid, it was really hard for anyone to understand the concept of being biracial. You're one or the other and that was in the 80s and 90s and it's pretty sad it's still like that.
Honestly these type of comments make me feel sad. I live in a country where everyone is a mix of races, it's so hard knowing somewhere in the globe this still is an issue...
@Artemis_Odyssey it's crazy to me because I grew up with a mixed race friend. We were best friends completely inseparable and I never looked at him or his family weird nor did anyone else. I'm not saying you're making this up. I just find it hard to believe that someone would do this. It's crazy. Maybe it's where and how I grew up, idk. Then when I got married half my wife's family is mixed, and I found out I have black family members literally living in Africa while having white family in ireland amd native family here in the states.
I was a stepdad to a mix child.. and I got praise as my then girlfriend who is actually my kids mom got treated like the Nanny.. I felt bad for her.. as I cud see she was upset.. but we now have two other girls and it still happens.. theres not a good ending to this because we also broke up years ago.. I still see my kids and they show more love for me than their own mom
The nanny part wasn't bad since she gave a logical reason that she never saw her in group moms before but assuming she adopted is weird but doesn't seem it was from a bad place
Delivery day prepared me. The night shift nurse rolled my Casper-looking baby in and out of the room three times with confusion once she saw me. She then verified the info on our wrists before passing the baby to me. Instead of showing me how to nurse my crying baby, she lectured me on skin color, “Just to give you heads up, most African-American babies usually don’t stay this color. You’ll need to go by the color of the baby’s ears and knuckles. And the blue eyes will eventually turn brown like yours….” That was my first introduction to being a mom of biracial children. 😮😮😮😮😮😢
I swear, I've seen an almost identical story on another shortmon RUclips once before - I wonder if was you telling the story on another video! 😊 I'm SO sorry this happened to you! That instead of checking up on your health, introducing your beautiful new bundle to you, helping with nursing (if needed/desired) or ANY other postpartum needs for that matter, she chose to make your/your baby's skin color front-and-center for discussion! 😢 I hope your baby/child is doing well and so are you! ❤😊
@@KitKat10281 Thank you! This happened many, many moons ago, and is my first time sharing it. One thing that I learned from that incident was not to engage or become outraged. It taught me how to handle future encounters and what to teach my children going forward. Things were a lot tougher back then than they are now.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS‼️💯 I go through this all the time with my kids and it's more than frustrating how people react to my children and me being their mother. The way that lady acted was completely disgusting 🤬
That's what happens when you jump to conclusions without first being willing to engage in a normal conversation and wait for the information to flow. It's like seeing a woman with a big tummy and congratulating her on her pregnancy without being pregnant. The right thing to do would be to start with a compliment and then a non-judgmental question: “What a cute children, are they yours?” and continue the conversation depending on the other party’s response.
As a biracial kid who watched people ask my mom if she was my nanny…try to remove me from her in a store to go find my parents despite me holding her cart or skirt…this is uncomfortably accurate.
The, “ …I also adopted” is what brought on the FACTS & shade respectfully because the apology was never authentic BUT her ASSumptions made a ssa outta her for sho’😎
I get this constantly with my daughter. Even though she's mixed, she looks completely white. Since she was born, I've been asked if I'm the nanny, babysitting, if she's adopted or fostering. It's exaughsting because a white woman can have a biracial looking kid or even a black kid but no questions them it seems.
You just read my mind... It's so crazy... I remember having one of my sisters grand babies at the mall he's biracial.. several black men passed by while I was putting him in the stroller.. One of them continued to look back.... the question was, in his eyes, is that her child.....
Had this with my own daughter and even worse it was from another black woman. Another white male friend asked if was blind as my daughter facially looks like me. However it was clear the woman was going on skin colour and hair type.
If you don't want to offend someone. You simply say your children are beautiful ❤ Then and only then do you wait for a response. None of this back and forth sh1t talk! She is too good for their little friend group!
😮So glad I’ve never sat at a table with such an awkward conversation! 🙏 raising kids is a blessing. sharing in the joy of raising kids amongst friendship groups, with support and understanding, something I’m full of gratitude for.
I get constantly asked the same thing if I'm out with my daughter as well. She's biracial and favors her Dad more than she favors me, especially her eyes. They charge colors!! One of the time's someone asked if I was her, Nanny at the ER when she wasn't feeling well her eyes turned from their natural hazel to black!! It was pretty interesting to see...
Wow that's amazing My 14 yr old daughter and I also have changing eye color. They are green most of the time, but when moods change, they go all blue to almost all hazel with a hint of green. It's so cool to find someone else whose eyes change. I'm 52 and find it totally amazing 😲
Please remember that this is a movie/ tv show that was written by a writer (s). These comments sound as if people are watching a live undercover feed. Snap out of it. Go read a book. Make real conversations. As in live no staged dialogue. Whatever that looks like
As they say, fact is stranger than fiction. Keep that in mind when attempting to dismiss scenes like this… they often have their basis in real life, as the comments would suggest.
please remember there are people like me who are kids of mothers who go through this bullshit scenario all the time. it used to happen all the time when i was younger.
It doesn’t just happen to black women with biracial kids. My husband and I both have brown hair brown eyes and our little girl is blond and blue-eyed. People assume I’m the nanny all the time. I’ve been asked if she was conceived naturally 😬😂. I find it hilarious.
They never studied genetics. My youngest brother is 6"2" & brown eyes. My other 3 bros and I are 5"4" like our parents. He looks just like my moms grandpa I'll never forget the look My mom gave a neighbor when he asked if the mailman fathered him. We called my mom St. Mary so yes she was insulted but bc she never responded to stoopid she only gave the look 😅
Thats funny. I thought the nanny thing was bias, but the adoption thing seemed more on the fence? Assuming someone is "hired help" IS SO RUDE, but nothing wrong with giving birth or adoption. I wanna watch the full thing! ❤ u right tho she looks so young! Gorgeous!
This happened to my little sister who is black and has two biracial children she’s got asked if she’s the nanny so many times smh 🤦🏾♀️ the ignorance is real
Let’s make pretending ppl who make everything about race doesn’t exist & then we have comments like yours in response to those ppl’s obvious racial implications!
@@ancientafricanblood1547 If you always make things about race then you can’t tell when if actually is and when it’s not. It’s crying wolf. Pretty sure that’s a well know thing.
One of the racist, I don't think stereotypes is right, preconceived notions maybe? Is assuming that black people must be "wild" and"rowdy" so even if they're sitting nice any playing people will be like "move aside! The rowdy black kids are here!" no matter what they are or aren't doing. Racism doesn't really have a rhyme or reason to it.
Thank you for putting her in her place. We have to be straightforward when it comes to people trying to pre-consume some things. I appreciate it what you did thank you.
She will be leaving for the rest of her life and teaching her children to leave. A person needs to learn how to overcome or triumph in the midst of a situation and ignorance.
@@robertaclemmons7999not at all. It’s not her place to explain to every ignorant person, how she gave birth to lighter children. My oldest is 31, I raised her 30 year old bestfriend who is white hispanic also, alongside my 28, 25, 19, and 16 year old… It’s more exhausting to stay around people who purposely are ignorant than to choose those who understand genetics!
My grown eldest daughter is biracial...she looks more like her father...She has very light skin for a biracial person and I am a very dark skinned black woman. Everyone thinks we are the same age or are just friends. No one ever believes that I'm her mother even after we tell them. ...like we would need to lie 😂 So many of her online friends don't even believe she is biracial until she calls me down to bring my black hand into the camera view. Remember never assume anything....so annoying.❤
I'm a South African mixed race woman and grew up among thousands of others. Just as we are not white, we are also not black, but the human race is blessed through many cultures, religions, and unfortunately colors. I am so grateful for being mixed race. We were mostly conceived through loving color-blind people.
My kids are biracial, hispanic and white, one is lighter and one is darker, but they don't say they are not white & not Hispanic. They say they are Hispanic and European. You don't feel like you are white, and black? Like Euro-African (as We say African American here for black people, Making up all kinds of crazy mixes of nationalities or races to explain ourselves like a recipe for a cake, Irish italian, chinese american, etc) Not ( not white or not black) as you said? I'm just curious. ❤ I'd be kind of mad if my kid said they were not white because i'm in there somewhere. I'm sure their dad would not be happy if they said they were not hispanic. So we just tell them to claim all their nationalities and ancestors in there somewhere.❤
You're from I'm assuming a black & a white parent, so you can identify with either one, Embrace it! Why should you be told or believe you don't belong to any check the box race. You're belong to the human race
I’m always afraid of people who claim not to see color in a world that definitely sees color. Being color blind seems to erase people in a way. Like it erases the lived experiences of huge swaths of people. That’s frightening because it makes it okay to paint some people out of existence.
That's what comes with having biracial kids. My sister goes through the same thing. Her kids look Mexican and she's black. There's no point of in being upset about it, it's just gonna keep happening. Because I'm dark skin and dealt with a lot of colorism, racism and negative treatment I'm pretty immune to ignorance. Don't ever waste your energy, let it be and focus on things you like.
@@QueenAlita True for most but harsh unwarranted treatment did help me evolve early on. So much to the point where I be looking at other people not able to relate to their anger or upset feelings because people gone people. I try to incorporate a God like perception, all my children. They know not what they do.
Very happy for u but unfortunately a lot of people have real TRAUMA because of annoyingly igno--ranant people....People needs to shamed for it because it's 2024 there is no more excuses....I use to ignore I don't anymore....
The way she corrected her with FACTS & SHADE 🫢🥹👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😭🤣🤣😂😂😂💀
And all with a SMILE😀
😂😂😂Through my own personal uterus😭😭😭😹😹😹
Loved it❤❤❤ how she kept so calm tho.... don't know if I could have🎉
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯👸🏾❤
It's kinda mean though if an adopting mom thought you were also an adopting mom, to ignore the sadness of what kept someone from having birth and to brag about your uterus.
Love how she set the record straight about the children, and who the mom is. Yes!
@@simbaokuoku5387 , ...and who the dad is
What’s this movie called?
Trish she needs Vodka not wine 😂😂😂
My wife of 35 years has had this very discussion years ago about our two biracial daughters!
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Why would she assume she adopted? Literally a black mom with darker skinned kids, absolutely no shock at all. She thinks the kids aren’t here because they are a slight shade lighter than her? 😭
There a lot lighter and bc they don't share ANY featured and she adopted so its normal to assume just apologize after
It's just a ridiculous over exaggeration of a situation that really doesn't matter. In real life it would be obvious that the kids are biracial. Film has been doing this kind of stuff to make political statements forever
My mom is black and Cherokee Indian. But she looks just black of course. My father is mixed as well. However my baby sister is black and white. So of course she looks WHITE! So many people thought My mom stole my little sister because my mom is a dark chocolate complexion while my sister was white as snow 😂
IK
@cain2523 that's a stupid opinion. I am 100% black along with my siblings, and my sister favors our mother while me and my brother favor our father. People will treat my sister poorly and assume she's my brother's mother when the most reasonable explanation is that they are siblings. White and Asian people assume that we have completely different parents or different fathers. Meanwhile, black people assume we are twins/triplets. People are just as silly as Ann it's not my problem if you've never encountered people like her.
The moral of the story is loud & clear!!
Just love Gabrielle’s acting.
She can practically “speak” with gestures & expressions only.
Well...she kinda always acts the same just different scenarios. It's not like her range is anything but suburban or well off black woman.
What the movie name
That's what I wanna know
@@andreabobbette825 : Hmm… I’ve seen her in many different roles … She’s been acting from in the 90s and I took notice when she was in Bring it On. (I think she was a co-star).
She was also in City of Angels & LA’s Finest, just to name a few.
And I can’t leave out Bad Boys 2. Still, no matter the type of role, I just love to see her expressions and gestures. 😁
@@RhoydahKabwe Disney’s Cheaper by the Dozen
She is the queen of correcting you and getting you straight in a movie
What’s it called
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@@itz_michaela.12cheaper by the dozen
That she is
@@itz_michaela.12 Cheaper by the Dozen from I think like 2022
“ i birthed them through my very own personal uterus” got me😂😂😂😂😂
Me Toooo!🤣🤪🤦🏽♀️
I would have used the V word but I have no filter 😅
Yh she didn't borrow anyone's own 😂
Likeee!😂 had to set the record straight so she wouldn’t assume she borrowed that too😂😂
Sweet jeez how did she not feel embarrassed to no end like how do you talk to anyone like that of any race
Ignorance usually lol
That's part of the character
Colonials will be colonials
Yeah, Zoey really needs to chill out. Lady made a simple mistake. She asked if she was a nanny, which means she looks young. It’s a compliment
Not every one you encounter is human. Some are creatures. Once we learn the truth we will no longer be surprised by their ways. No more than when you hear a dog bark or growl. Wake up people.
I am sure you have heard that old saying, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks. How many years have theese creature spirits been on the earth. And they do not change. Even in the information age of light. They still prefer the darkness of their cave.
Let us keep our head on the swivel and to the sky.
The Return of the Son of Man
(Matthew 24:26-31; Mark 13:24-27
Luke 21:25And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring; 26Men's hearts failing them for fear, and for looking after those things which are coming on the earth: for the powers of heaven shall be shaken. 27And then shall they see the Son of man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. 28And when these things begin to come to pass, then look up, and lift up your heads; for your redemption draweth nigh.
Pray unceasing 🙏🏾🕊⚡️APTTMHY; GLORY HALL'EL'U'YAH
And the fact that we are STILL dealing with this kind of ignorance in 2024 blows my mind. It unfortunately seems like the ignorance has even gotten worse.
Sadly it has smh
You do know this is just a made up TV show right? 🙄
@@JoyTothesummer yah but this kind stuff happens in real life
Yes it’s crazy! I went to sign my son up for school and the lady at the office had the nerve to ask me and my significant other if we were married. I told her, why? That has nothing to do with me signing my son up for school. People are weird.
It has.
Movie: Cheaper by the dozen
Hopes this helps❤
I forgot they remade it 😂❤
This is not the cheaper by the dozen I remember. They did a redo when??
Never knew there was a remake...bout to watch...thanks😁
@ThoughtTreats this made you *want* to watch?
The remake is terrible. Changes the story completely. The point of the story is that their are 12 kids. I the remake there are only nine and they all look they are all different races
The fact she dropped her name to a nickname without permission screams "entitled" before any of the rest.
Since when do you need permission to use a nickname ?
That's actually entitlement.
Nobody needs your permission to give you a nickname unless it's a friendly fire nickname.
@@denco37you don’t give someone a nickname upon first meeting. However shortening someone’s name without their permission isn’t a nickname it’s a power play. Just like when men we don’t know call someone names Jennifer Jen or Jenny.
@@jsoto322A power play? Seems like it would be a power play if you let it… honestly I don’t think I know somebody who would care if you use a nickname at first, but I guess the tone and the demeanour is the key here
@denco37 Wrong. It is entitled to decide to name someone other than the way they *literally* just introduced themselves. She said "Zoey" not "Zo" they just met. They aren't besties. And she corrects to "Zoey" which means that SHE wasn't feeling it. How did you miss all that??
@@JustMeDidii I would, and do totally care. My name is Rebecca. I am not a Becky, a Beck or Becca to a stranger. I am an adult that prefers to be referred to by my full God given name that my parents chose for me. Unless, I have a know them since childhood relationship with them, then I am a Beck, but only to a few people that I have known for decades now.
Not petty just preference!!!😊
Honestly, it would be so much better if people would assume that the kids a woman is with are hers. If it’s not correct, then you could say “oh I just thought so because you seem to have a good connection with them”. Way more positive that way
Agreed....they always asume the nanny thing, idk if that's in real life but I know I see it in shows too often, like why make that asume and embarassment yourself...
For real. She even could've covered better and been like "omg you look so young!" And used that as an excuse or something.
I'm a mother of 4. It's also way more dangerous. Many kidnappers do seem like nice people to kids, esp women that work in trafficking trades. They offer the kids to see pets and say they have kittens, puppies. They also say they'll get sweets, ice cream etc but also use it as a way to lure a child away, untill the child is in the car or grabbed. Other times they pretend someone in the family said to come get them, most kids would trust that because mum or dad sent them when they didn't.
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@@PropercornishmaidIf it was a situation where they're picking up the kids, sure, that would be more dangerous. But if it's like the clip, then no
For anybody wondering, this movie is called cheaper by the dozen❤❤
Thanks for the tip.
Thank you
Never allow yourself to be humiliated for someone else’s comfort.
👏👏👏 Best comment. But most people don't learn that until they get older. It took me a long time to do that even though I knew it in my heart
Same 💯@@debfyfe7051
May l pliz have the name of the 😊movie
I have 2 biracial kids too. The worse question I got is how much do I charge an hour and if I am a live out or live in nanny 😅
Well a live in i guess 😂 but only for your own
Very sad folks are sooo dated with their opinions. Mixed kids are not new🤓 we’re all part of the beautiful rich human family 🙏🏽💗
Wow that's crazy, you're a great mom
I'm 11 should I be reading this? Idk,but what is biracial?
Yep, my mom’s mixed, she looks Hispanic, me and my sister are mixed but look white as hell. Once this lady stepped in while my mom was disciplining us to say that it was inappropriate for a babysitter to speak to us like that. The nerve of these people to comment on other’s families is insane
She’s such a great actress.. Her face expressions are always on points
The two of them are, actually 😊
I just adore Gabriel Union.
I hate that blonde woman in every role I see her and that makes me love her as an actress lmao
What is this called?
@@Mimi89_7It's the remake of Cheaper by the Dozen
Im white and my husband was Samoan. Someone asked me once, "Where did you get your kids?" My answer," In the Samoan department ....." Reaction was a crazy look... priceless.🌺
A crazy question....deserve a crazy answer
😂😂😂
That's a crazy question, WOW 😳 Love your response 💕
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 this cracked me up !
She’s the pretty mom of the group
Tbf, they all look decent
@@taurussho86 sorta rude but almost all Caucasian women look the same lol
@@cancerussss lol
@@cancerusssslol
No actually if you look at them closely all of them look older than 30 but the black mom of twins look younger than them@@taurussho86
“I could use some wine because I don’t know how to cope with someone not allowing me disrespect them”
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How was she disrespecting her? None of the children resemble her it's only natural to think that none of them are hers
Exactly
@Leyladjdjx Wait. What? She made assumptions, dropped her name in half and went from assuming nanny to adoption with someone she just met. And you don't understand the disrespect? Wow
@@carolynmansager6952 She thought she is a nanny she didn't call her an OF user. Also she adopted children herself, so she just wanted to build a connection with her. It's not her fault that the twins don't resemble their mother.
For anyone wondering, the movie is called: Cheaper by the dozen
Thank you!!
Thank you
She's in the 2022 adaptation
Thank you. The rest of the comments were unnecessary. You gave the people what they wanted❤
Thank you 🎉❤
I feel bad for Ming and Kenny 🫠
Black people also come in different shades, especially African Americans. Genetics isnt a complicated subject, just unpredictable. 🤦🏾♀️ As a mixed kid, I feel this. Watching this movie was almost like watching my childhood
What movie is this?
What's it called boo?❤
Cheaper By the Dozen it’s on Disney+
@@michaellakosia6876cheaper by the dozen
@@Empress_ShaeShaeis this a new version of Cheaper by the Dozen?
The nanny comment, calling her Zo instead of Zoey, and assuming her children aren’t biologically hers. Then playing the victim when she was clearly in the wrong with her rude ass. I can’t stand people like that!!
This is what many teachers go through as well in our own ways. I felt that.
@@TheBizzMiss I could see that. That’s awful.
Yes say with chest!!!😂😂
Don't forget not caring enough to extend the correct hand with a normal grasp either, just a weak limp left hand
@@theresap50177 good eye
To be completely honest, I originally thought the lady just assumed Zoey is the nanny because she looks young. That was my first thought. The idea of it being anything else didn’t even register till the convo continued (Obviously, no. I haven’t seen whatever this is from)
I think that's why she dismissed it at first but then got annoyed when she implied they were adopted😅
Honestly samee
Guess what, many blacks age slowly. So don't assume otherwise next time
@@arrowflames60 people assumed I was a nanny when I had my daughter young. But they didn't proceed to cut my name in half and double down on assumptions. Rude af
She doesn't look as young as you're making it seem.... She looks like a normal black don't crack mom....
For everyone asking...The name of the movie is CHEAPER BY THE DOZEN, came out in 2022.😊
I was definitely wondering thx
oh so it is a re make
For sure @@Raquel-o9f The original from the 60s is better. Lucille Ball and Henry Fonda.
I'm a postpartum nurse, and the shade of skin varies so much! We had a very darkskinned S African woman, husband a blonde BOER, and the baby was as white as Queen Elzabeth.
I grew up with a gal that had a dark skinned dad and an Irish mom. Her hair is naturally bright red, beautiful curls (could be from either parent, too), blue eyes, light skin. All her siblings except for one were so much darker than her, nobody ever assumed she was related to them or her dad. It's just wild how DNA works, it'll never cease to amaze and confuse me!
She sounds gorgeous!
My father is from Yugoslavia & mother Irish. I basically look American with a slight European thing.
Husband doesn’t know his background beyond American but I’m guessing maybe Indian somewhere.
I had 3 children. First 2 blonde hair, blue eyes. My third had dark brown hair, brown eyes and slightly darker skin. Literally EVERYONE always assumed mine & my husbands third child somehow has a different father, even though we’re still together 29 yrs later. And let me tell you that NO ONE is afraid to ask because they think it’s going to be a juicy story! It’s always blown my mind!
My favorite part of humanity
I believe every child is so beautiful, and people shouldn't just assume things 😢 it seemed so uncomfortable how she came up to her like that
Because EVE GENE 🧬 FOLKS
Anne asking Zoey if she's their Nanny meanwhile she has Ming and Kenny 😂
😂😂😂
Lmao for real. Like girl, if anything you should be empathetic and understand that kids don't always look like their mom!
😂🤣😅Word!!!😂🤣😅
😂😂
What show/movie is this?
Status seeking Anne is five minutes from touching Zoey's hair (without asking) and ten minutes from "you are so articulate!"
Don't you hate those comments, 😒
Whew Chile 😂😂😂
LMAO
I love this movie so much also if anyone was wondering it's called cheaper by the dozen
Thanks for the name dear❤
Thanks. Was looking for it.
Wow, they pulled it off of Disney plus for some reason 🙄
It happend once live to a journalist who was married to an asian woman. He was at home and live on camera, the kids came playing into the room where he was. We saw a lady rushed into the room taking back the kids. And immediatly his colleague said we saw the nanny. He replied " she is not the nanny, she is my wife" ! Don't assume just ask.
I remember this incident. Incredibly frustrating.
Don't even ask! Just mind your business!😮
I remember this happening but I never heard the nanny part.
Yeah! I remember ... This was during the initial covid times
That was horrible 😢
Passive agressive arguments are tiring for both parties... I like it how she stoped it and just brought out directly what is bothering her. Hooray for assertive communication 😅
Unfortunately, not everyone likes "assertive communication", especially when they've assumed so much.
@@rhondarowland5921 sing it! Or when they're a narcissist. I wish more people were taught to accept their mistakes with grace & humility. It makes for less repeat offenders 🤙
Walk away. From them. Or don’t go near in the first place.
@@rhondarowland5921sounds like a personal problem for them. I'd rather be direct, then we all know where we stand. Also, if you assume so much without asking 🤷🏾♀️. You kinda deserve it and get what u get
Stupidity 😂absolutely stupid conversation to begin with
I would never think she is the nanny before thinking she is the mother
I'm a white woman who nannied for a child who was Korean and Arabic. people were like "that's so awesome that you adopted." I said "me? No, I'm her nanny!" and they looked so dumb. Liked flipping the script.
Given the fact that those kids look mixed and she happens to be the only black mom, I would 100% assume she's their biological mom.
The Black Woman is the mother to ALL humanity. We birth all shades and skin tones!
that is racist because than happend with all woman. just in my extended family, we have so many different cousins(hair color, skin color, features...). Im from latam.
@@joyoriana the FIRST woman and being on this planet was a BLACK woman and she birthed all nations and races of people including yours. So my comment is not racist it’s a FACT. Stay bitter because you seem to be the one who is racist.
@@joyoriana the black woman was the first being on this entire planet which means she birthed all nations of people including yours. This is FACTS so stay bitter in your delusion.
@@joyoriana yea but y'all don't have dark skin like BLACK skin, almost or the color black. your family being mixed is not the same because that's anyone. what she's saying is that black women can make any shade of baby without stepping outside her race.
@@joyoriana the black woman was the first being on this planet and she birthed all nations and races of people including yours. That’s not racism, it FACTS. Either stay in your delusion or read a book!!
Movie name: Cheaper by the Dozen (Disney+)
I love Zoe’s explanation of her & her kids!! Brilliant!!!
Zoey
*ey
"and then, I birthed them through my very own personal uterus "
Something serious brought out in a very humorous way 😂😂
Love the actress Gabby❤
What's the name of the movie?
What’s this movie called?
As a black woman with two biracial children, I can assure you this scene was not exaggerated.. Side Note: It's exhausting, so could we just not?!?!?
Exactly! I definitely know the feeling.
And since they won’t just not, could we normalize following Zoey’s example and standing up for ourselves and our children putting the onus back on them.
Notice how she says, “I’m Anne Vaughan,” giving her first and last name, at the same time that she shortens the other woman’s name to “Zo.” Super rude power move. Love it that she gets corrected.
Condescending bc of skin tone
They’re all so beautiful; the kids, the moms and the terrible mom who assumes the worst. Gorgeous individuals!
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤭🤭🤣🤣
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Can you please explain why assuming the kids are adopted disrespectful? Is it because it's based on skin color? If so, imagine if she made the same mistake with ginger kids and a blonde or brunette mother, we wouldn't be shouting racism, would we?
(with all my respect am just trying to understand your point of view)
Best response ever! She is the Queen
Anne Vaughn: "Hi Zo!"
Zoey: "Ey, yeah!"
Love how she corrected her concerning her name! And definitely love how she "CLARIFIED EVERYTHING ELSE!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍 Loved her acting in this movie ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Im so glad that whoever wrote the script identified her children correctly. They're biracial. Not black. Huge difference.
90% of black people are mixed with other races…ok
I’m a biracial kid, the most hurtful thing when I was little was kids would look at me, see I was mixed, then see my red hair, fair skinned mom and immediately insist I was adopted. Even made me question if I really was a few times (my dad wasn’t in the picture to really confirm I wasn’t, I now realize I’m definitely my moms kid but so many voices can make you doubt yourself at a young age). I’m from a small midwestern town that was behind the times, these kids just didn’t know any better.
I'm so sorry about that. Those kind of people chose to remain ignorant. Don't pay them any mind.
As a biracial kid, it was really hard for anyone to understand the concept of being biracial. You're one or the other and that was in the 80s and 90s and it's pretty sad it's still like that.
Honestly these type of comments make me feel sad. I live in a country where everyone is a mix of races, it's so hard knowing somewhere in the globe this still is an issue...
@Artemis_Odyssey it's crazy to me because I grew up with a mixed race friend. We were best friends completely inseparable and I never looked at him or his family weird nor did anyone else.
I'm not saying you're making this up. I just find it hard to believe that someone would do this. It's crazy. Maybe it's where and how I grew up, idk.
Then when I got married half my wife's family is mixed, and I found out I have black family members literally living in Africa while having white family in ireland amd native family here in the states.
I was a stepdad to a mix child.. and I got praise as my then girlfriend who is actually my kids mom got treated like the Nanny.. I felt bad for her.. as I cud see she was upset.. but we now have two other girls and it still happens.. theres not a good ending to this because we also broke up years ago.. I still see my kids and they show more love for me than their own mom
So its just naturally ASSUMED shes the help and cleans,cooks, chases after and waits on all the other kids. THEE CAUCASITY...
The nanny part wasn't bad since she gave a logical reason that she never saw her in group moms before but assuming she adopted is weird but doesn't seem it was from a bad place
Leave it to Gabrielle to say it eloquently 😂
Delivery day prepared me. The night shift nurse rolled my Casper-looking baby in and out of the room three times with confusion once she saw me. She then verified the info on our wrists before passing the baby to me. Instead of showing me how to nurse my crying baby, she lectured me on skin color, “Just to give you heads up, most African-American babies usually don’t stay this color. You’ll need to go by the color of the baby’s ears and knuckles. And the blue eyes will eventually turn brown like yours….” That was my first introduction to being a mom of biracial children. 😮😮😮😮😮😢
I swear, I've seen an almost identical story on another shortmon RUclips once before - I wonder if was you telling the story on another video! 😊 I'm SO sorry this happened to you! That instead of checking up on your health, introducing your beautiful new bundle to you, helping with nursing (if needed/desired) or ANY other postpartum needs for that matter, she chose to make your/your baby's skin color front-and-center for discussion! 😢 I hope your baby/child is doing well and so are you! ❤😊
@@KitKat10281 Thank you! This happened many, many moons ago, and is my first time sharing it. One thing that I learned from that incident was not to engage or become outraged. It taught me how to handle future encounters and what to teach my children going forward. Things were a lot tougher back then than they are now.
Unfortunately nurses are still saying sh*t like that and even worse spreading it online.
I’m 35 years old and still get asked if my white mom is my real mom! Can’t believe it’s 2024 and people still don’t get mixed race families!
Racist choose on purpose, not to get Mixed Race people.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS‼️💯 I go through this all the time with my kids and it's more than frustrating how people react to my children and me being their mother. The way that lady acted was completely disgusting 🤬
That's what happens when you jump to conclusions without first being willing to engage in a normal conversation and wait for the information to flow. It's like seeing a woman with a big tummy and congratulating her on her pregnancy without being pregnant. The right thing to do would be to start with a compliment and then a non-judgmental question: “What a cute children, are they yours?” and continue the conversation depending on the other party’s response.
As a biracial kid who watched people ask my mom if she was my nanny…try to remove me from her in a store to go find my parents despite me holding her cart or skirt…this is uncomfortably accurate.
I love how she said personal uterus. The level of petty in those words
Do u know name of movie
Cheaper by the dozen@@eymbliss
Gabrielle Union plays these parts so well 😂😂😂😂
She's so pretty, too. ❤
Because she wishes to be fully white
Been there, felt that. It's such a good feeling when you're able to educate someone past their state of ignorance. 😇
Assumptions are like assholes, everybody has one.
And most of them stink! 💩
Reasons and excuses are the assholes because they cause the assumptions!
😂😂😂
And some of them stink.😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The, “ …I also adopted” is what brought on the FACTS & shade respectfully because the apology was never authentic BUT her ASSumptions made a ssa outta her for sho’😎
I get this constantly with my daughter. Even though she's mixed, she looks completely white. Since she was born, I've been asked if I'm the nanny, babysitting, if she's adopted or fostering. It's exaughsting because a white woman can have a biracial looking kid or even a black kid but no questions them it seems.
You just read my mind... It's so crazy... I remember having one of my sisters grand babies at the mall he's biracial.. several black men passed by while I was putting him in the stroller.. One of them continued to look back.... the question was, in his eyes, is that her child.....
Had this with my own daughter and even worse it was from another black woman.
Another white male friend asked if was blind as my daughter facially looks like me.
However it was clear the woman was going on skin colour and hair type.
literally no one would assume this woman wasn't the mother of those kids.
If you don't want to offend someone. You simply say your children are beautiful ❤ Then and only then do you wait for a response. None of this back and forth sh1t talk! She is too good for their little friend group!
😮So glad I’ve never sat at a table with such an awkward conversation!
🙏 raising kids is a blessing.
sharing in the joy of raising kids amongst friendship groups, with support and understanding, something I’m full of gratitude for.
I get constantly asked the same thing if I'm out with my daughter as well. She's biracial and favors her Dad more than she favors me, especially her eyes. They charge colors!! One of the time's someone asked if I was her, Nanny at the ER when she wasn't feeling well her eyes turned from their natural hazel to black!! It was pretty interesting to see...
Wow that's amazing
My 14 yr old daughter and I also have changing eye color. They are green most of the time, but when moods change, they go all blue to almost all hazel with a hint of green. It's so cool to find someone else whose eyes change. I'm 52 and find it totally amazing 😲
I love this movie
Title: cheaper by the dozen
Somebody PLEASE tell me the name of this movie. I wanna watch.
Cheaper by the dozen (2022) which you may have already gotten the answer to your question by now .😂.😂
I love ❤️ d way she knows how to people in their space..
Her words selected with confidence 👏
I ❤❤❤❤loved the come back!!! Ann Van is a witch for real!😂😂😂
Please remember that this is a movie/ tv show that was written by a writer (s). These comments sound as if people are watching a live undercover feed. Snap out of it. Go read a book. Make real conversations. As in live no staged dialogue. Whatever that looks like
It's obvious u have never experienced such behavior. This happens quite often and shouldn't!
As they say, fact is stranger than fiction. Keep that in mind when attempting to dismiss scenes like this… they often have their basis in real life, as the comments would suggest.
please remember there are people like me who are kids of mothers who go through this bullshit scenario all the time. it used to happen all the time when i was younger.
What's the name of the movie/TV show?
@@sheilacato3483 You're right. I have never experienced that specific scene from the movie. And neither have you. It's a movie.
I got my own personal uterus too!😭🤦🏻♀️🤣
I love it!🫡👏👏👏👏👏💅🏼
It doesn’t just happen to black women with biracial kids. My husband and I both have brown hair brown eyes and our little girl is blond and blue-eyed. People assume I’m the nanny all the time. I’ve been asked if she was conceived naturally 😬😂. I find it hilarious.
They never studied genetics. My youngest brother is 6"2" & brown eyes. My other 3 bros and I are 5"4" like our parents. He looks just like my moms grandpa
I'll never forget the look My mom gave a neighbor when he asked if the mailman fathered him. We called my mom St. Mary so yes she was insulted but bc she never responded to stoopid she only gave the look
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Even when you see a black mother with a fully white child you should assume that she is the child’s mother. It’s 2024. 🙂
lol the clap back wasn’t big enough 😂😂😂 but I respect it
That "E", silently SCREAMED... "YOU DON'T know me"!!!! 😅
I thought she thought that was the nanny cos of how young and beautiful she looked to be a mom. She looks so lovely.
Thats funny. I thought the nanny thing was bias, but the adoption thing seemed more on the fence? Assuming someone is "hired help" IS SO RUDE, but nothing wrong with giving birth or adoption. I wanna watch the full thing! ❤ u right tho she looks so young! Gorgeous!
People are rude everyday, no matter what color they are. Just ignore them and move on. Its life.
I listened over and over.. just because my name is Trish 😂❤
Too wild… they’re literally just sitting 😂
You literally misunderstood what she was saying 😂😂😂
Yup! Sometimes that's all it takes honestly! Ijs😭🤦♀️
And another snippy role for Gabriel 😂.. typecast much 🎉
This happened to my little sister who is black and has two biracial children she’s got asked if she’s the nanny so many times smh 🤦🏾♀️ the ignorance is real
NO, I'm not the nanny! However I am looking for one! I prefer white ones!🤍🤍🤍 😂
@@TammyGaines-t4mBest response ever!
@@TammyGaines-t4mс чего вы решили, что подобные вопросы задают только белые? Или у вас какие-то предубеждение против белых?
Funny, how this is so the reality of many people. I have witnessed on several occasions.
Let’s make race an issue always.
Let’s make pretending ppl who make everything about race doesn’t exist & then we have comments like yours in response to those ppl’s obvious racial implications!
@@ancientafricanblood1547 If you always make things about race then you can’t tell when if actually is and when it’s not. It’s crying wolf. Pretty sure that’s a well know thing.
In this case the scene was clearly written about race.
But then again you know it's from a movie...
They picked the perfect BLACK WOMAN to do this role here 👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤦🏾♂️
If you have a doubt, err on the side of positivity. I’ve been a nanny and it made me so happy when people mistook me for the elder sister
Imagine how much you can LEARN about people by TALKING to them and not assuming
I always loved how gabby will check a chick with out a sweat I’m still learning 😂
This role fits her!!! Love her as an actress
How would they be too wild, they’re just sitting there nicely 😢
She has like 7 or 9 other kids...they're wild! 😂
They’re just sitting there being … uncauscasian. To certain folks, that’s disturbing enough to get the cops out there . 🙄
@@MimiNwabuokuMD😂😅😂😅😂😅❤
One of the racist, I don't think stereotypes is right, preconceived notions maybe? Is assuming that black people must be "wild" and"rowdy" so even if they're sitting nice any playing people will be like "move aside! The rowdy black kids are here!" no matter what they are or aren't doing. Racism doesn't really have a rhyme or reason to it.
Because to a lot of white Americans, just having melanin makes you a threat. Source: I'm a white American.
These lessons/exposees of bigotry and racism are really well acted and interesting.
Best follow up would have been "im so sorry you look so young, i just assumed. My mistake."
It was never a thought. It’s a class and race issue
@@sabinagomez2082yep!!
So lie
The fact she assume she adopted 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ i knew.
Thank you for putting her in her place. We have to be straightforward when it comes to people trying to pre-consume some things. I appreciate it what you did thank you.
"Its an honest mistake." ...and the lady continues to assume, "I also adopted. "
that’s insane that she thought she was the nanny 😭 her kids are adopted so she should understand not every child looks exactly like their parents.
That’s why I don’t assume anything. It’s not my business unless they tell me.
It's so darn strange being around them folks. I just avoid them as much as I can. Girl, just take your sons and leave
She will be leaving for the rest of her life and teaching her children to leave. A person needs to learn how to overcome or triumph in the midst of a situation and ignorance.
@@robertaclemmons7999yes ma’am 👌🏽
@@robertaclemmons7999not at all. It’s not her place to explain to every ignorant person, how she gave birth to lighter children. My oldest is 31, I raised her 30 year old bestfriend who is white hispanic also, alongside my 28, 25, 19, and 16 year old…
It’s more exhausting to stay around people who purposely are ignorant than to choose those who understand genetics!
I feel like this is a conversation ppl have with themselves in a mirror that never actually happened to them in real life.
My grown eldest daughter is biracial...she looks more like her father...She has very light skin for a biracial person and I am a very dark skinned black woman. Everyone thinks we are the same age or are just friends. No one ever believes that I'm her mother even after we tell them. ...like we would need to lie 😂 So many of her online friends don't even believe she is biracial until she calls me down to bring my black hand into the camera view. Remember never assume anything....so annoying.❤
She doesn't have light skin for a biracial person she just is who she is.
I love the Zoey's reponse to that annoying lady's insinuations
It is a movie. Those are the written lines😊
@@mojoe3012 no shi
Gabby is the queen of factual shade 👏👏👏⭐️⭐️⭐️
I'm a South African mixed race woman and grew up among thousands of others. Just as we are not white, we are also not black, but the human race is blessed through many cultures, religions, and unfortunately colors. I am so grateful for being mixed race. We were mostly conceived through loving color-blind people.
Almost all black Americans are mixed race to be honest
My kids are biracial, hispanic and white, one is lighter and one is darker, but they don't say they are not white & not Hispanic.
They say they are Hispanic and European.
You don't feel like you are white, and black? Like Euro-African (as We say African American here for black people, Making up all kinds of crazy mixes of nationalities or races to explain ourselves like a recipe for a cake, Irish italian, chinese american, etc) Not ( not white or not black) as you said? I'm just curious. ❤ I'd be kind of mad if my kid said they were not white because i'm in there somewhere. I'm sure their dad would not be happy if they said they were not hispanic. So we just tell them to claim all their nationalities and ancestors in there somewhere.❤
We should appreciate our uniqueness, similarities and differences. Not seeing color is very problematic.
You're from I'm assuming a black & a white parent, so you can identify with either one, Embrace it! Why should you be told or believe you don't belong to any check the box race. You're belong to the human race
I’m always afraid of people who claim not to see color in a world that definitely sees color. Being color blind seems to erase people in a way. Like it erases the lived experiences of huge swaths of people. That’s frightening because it makes it okay to paint some people out of existence.
Bro Zoey is SO PRETTY AND BODACIOUS AND WHIMSICAL IM GONNA FAINT
That's what comes with having biracial kids. My sister goes through the same thing. Her kids look Mexican and she's black. There's no point of in being upset about it, it's just gonna keep happening.
Because I'm dark skin and dealt with a lot of colorism, racism and negative treatment I'm pretty immune to ignorance.
Don't ever waste your energy, let it be and focus on things you like.
I was the only black girl in kindergarten and primary school.
I can relate to being immune to ignorance ❤
That’s maturity and we need more of this.😀
@@QueenAlita True for most but harsh unwarranted treatment did help me evolve early on.
So much to the point where I be looking at other people not able to relate to their anger or upset feelings because people gone people.
I try to incorporate a God like perception, all my children. They know not what they do.
@@Riel-q7l beautifully said!
Very happy for u but unfortunately a lot of people have real TRAUMA because of annoyingly igno--ranant people....People needs to shamed for it because it's 2024 there is no more excuses....I use to ignore I don't anymore....
I looooooo❤e Gabrielle Union😍 she's a vibe💞