The key takeaways for myself: All people have fears. Most fears are learned, and they could be de-learned.Especially for the public speaking. To overcome the fears, follow the 3E pattern: Expectancy, Exposure, and Experience. Thanks for the inspiring speech.
Expectancy. Exposure. Experience. The key here is - either build experience and expertise yourself or just shed ego & ask for help! Ask someone who has the necessary experience and expertise so that you dont have to reinvent the wheel or waste anymore time - because time is the most precious resource we have.
I have always had fear of speaking to people in the room or in a group of small meetings that is not even major public speaking 😂. I hope I can teach my self to get rid of this fear one day.
Am I born with this fear? -unlearn the fears. -Expectency-to believe in the unbelievable. Just believe that everything's going to turn out fine. Srsly. 'Expect the best even when you fear the worst.' Don't do things because you fear the worst. move according to the best expectation. -Exposure-the more you see the less you feel, the less you feel the more you want to do. -Experience-ask for help/advice from who has overcome that fear/or is an expert. Choose a particular fear that I want to overcome, and go through this freedom loop.
I was afraid of water and many times I refused to take bath but when I took the responsibility of my life ,I m loaded with the confidence and I take bath from the cold water even if it's zero degree temperature!!! I m Happy and full of gratitude to God for giving me the strength which has change my life. Now I feel positively 24×7... Thanks God
Very inspiring speech,Iam a teacher I have been encountering this problem from beginning But when I mingle with students and if audience are known to me it is fine
Jazzeth, Do a public speaking course and secondly do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.
As a teacher - my experience says that affection drives away from children in the class! *Strictness invites fear and creates distance between the teachers and students!!
Understanding the message is THE MOST important. Body language of speaker adds a lot to convey the very message in the right way! Mr Manoj has done that. So be receptive in mind !
Afraid of deaths friends or family member After getting colds hands and gas trouble in stomach to nerves,after watching this video helps me to be brave .no fear slowly going better.Thanks to him
Nicely Explained..👍 Yes.., I have experienced "EXPOSURE". More i see, my fears gets lessened to great extent and i get inspired to do any act just by an Observation and Attention towards it. Thereby helping me to combat the balance of fear. Thanks for this Video Sharing.👍🙏🙂
Do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.
Sir very nice the way you present in front of odiance.I have also this problem which is fear of public speaking . Now i am very motivited after watching your video and i try my best . Thank you fron pakistan.
Fear is dominating force in life. Fear of disease,failure,disappointing others,or economic ruin.Fear of enemies, thieves , seculars, or multitude of othr possibilities including doubt in ones direction in life.
Yep..it is damn dominating...but IT CAN BE KILLED....we can kill it easily by learning to CONTROL OUR THOUGHTS....we can make it non dominating if we want to...we just need to be bothered to learn how...let’s not be lazy and KILL THIS BEAST !!!!!
i want to see and feel the freedom, from now on im not scared or have fear to what world might bring i will face the challenges to achieve my dreams. thank you sir for your video
This is great,you have changed my steps toward fighting my fear,please help me fight fear completely fro my life,i have this dream of standing before a crowd and raise my voice,speak my all without a microphone and be able to inspire others to fight the fear.
Great goal. With the right strategy and practice, you will definitely be able to achieve your goal. Keep believing in yourself and be sure to put in the work.
Only a few will try to find out the root cause of anything. Fewer, try to understand their own programming. Programming is not always harmful, but realisation of our own conditioning helps us to live in awareness, and make informed decisions.
Context is as important as content, for deeper reflection into personal circumstances of listeners. If just three points are given, there is lesser reflection and internalisation.
@@ManojVasudevan manoj sir, any plan to come to kerala and take a class ??? I"m a big fan of you....i liked your humorous and effective presentation....
Thank you for sharing this. Expectancy, experience. We can unlearn as we learn something new. What I experienced was that the more interacted with the strange people the more comfortable I am. But I be confident when I interact with them and talk the topics they are interested in
When I look at people when speaking my mind goes blank. Since I am blind without my glasses I just take them off and speak and all my self consciousness goes away because I don't feel that people are looking at me
That's another prevailing perspective among many. Here is something to ponder "Do you do good, because you want to do good? OR Do you do good because others would then like you more and punish you less?" Fear has been used as an instrument for compliance for centuries, around the world, therefore, we believe we do good only when we are afraid of punishments. Therefore, your perspective is a belief for many and you are not wrong, but other perspective exists too.
Great speech! Thanks for sharing. Just back from the swimming pool and totally understand the fear of swimming at least. Love the tips of expectation good outcome. Also, love the tips of exploring networking events. very helpful!
i have this fear of getting myself on a moving object, a vehicle in particular and had goosebumps and fear of its spped, it makes me very nervous and unease. it was like im gonna passed out everytime
Great advice thank you very much, but my problem is looking straight on eye to eye whiles chatting so I wanna ask should I smile or squeeze my face a little when talking to anyone
Be yourself. More you see, the less you fear. You can choose to keep a journal of the number of people you made eye contact with each day. You do not need to stare into the eyes during the entire conversation. It's okay to look away for a bit, and reinstate the contact. Dont look in a threatening way.
We are afraid after making a mistake in life and people (family members) don't forgive us. They stare at us. It made me sit at home for last 6 years. I don't have courage to go out. And I'm afraid of my own family members. I haven't looked into mirror for years. I don't like to look at myself.
I don’t care if he is Indian or Maltese...he’s a cool person cos he’s helping others...I respect and am attracted to people who love helping others,....they are the best...
I always fear the ghost will come, some illusionary images, and if I am alone, my mind will be active whole night, even if I am tired, I cannot sleep. I know for sure ghost is not there but still my mind will be active whole night
Okay, i want you to know one thing, Those things you mention now you really know that they ain't real, but you do fear then, If you want to overcome it,, First you have to stop imagining that they do exist, Don't live on imagination but face the reality, When you look it into a dark room and see some illusionary imagine, First you know that no one is inside the room, then the Images ain't real, Laugh and say i know nothing is there, Stop imagining that someone or anything is there, face the reality that no one is there.. I believe you do understand me,. You will overcome your fear sooner or later.
@@veeydisplay disagree. Ghosts real.. I seen, many people seen.. Ask Indonesian people ( Are There Ghosts?) trust me.. I never belueved in ghosts, but now. I do.
BULE DEWATA you fear the ghost may come? So tell me how the ghost will come when you have nothing to do with it,. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ do you have any relationship with the ghost? You just imagine and imprisoned yourself on it,. Imagine that it never exist and escape from it
Apprehension greater than self-confidence is fear. Does anybody agree ?. It is practicing over and over what you fear is the key to overcome the fear. The worst fear in corporate life is speaking up in front of the crowd. The to overcome this fear is NOT TO GIVE A SHIT AS TO WHO IS SITTING IN FRONT OF YOU and start off.
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The more you see
The less you fear
The less you fear
The more you do
-Manor Vasudevan 💙
*Manoj
The key takeaways for myself:
All people have fears. Most fears are learned, and they could be de-learned.Especially for the public speaking.
To overcome the fears, follow the 3E pattern: Expectancy, Exposure, and Experience.
Thanks for the inspiring speech.
1.Expect the best ,even if u fear the worst(imagination, anticipation).
2.exposure -start taking action.
Expectancy.
Exposure.
Experience. The key here is - either build experience and expertise yourself or just shed ego & ask for help! Ask someone who has the necessary experience and expertise so that you dont have to reinvent the wheel or waste anymore time - because time is the most precious resource we have.
Manoj Sharma ! Great great talk. We indians are... Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
I suffer from very bad anxiety I just started a new job and I really needed to hear this.
Glad you found this video useful and hope the new job is going great.
I think that the biggest fear is the fear of failure. That is what we have to overcome.
The more you see the less you fear, the less you fear the more you do 👍
Glad you like it. Now it's time for action :-)
Fr. Orbos
Thats a fucking jokeee
I am watching this same video for many times as i cannot stop myself coz u spook so well and its really interesting.. ......
The More you see, the less you fear and The Less you fear, the more you wanted to do... - Powerful Statement...
💪
I have always had fear of speaking to people in the room or in a group of small meetings that is not even major public speaking 😂. I hope I can teach my self to get rid of this fear one day.
There are seven days a week and one day is not one of them. Start today.
Nafaa Boutefer agree 👍
I have the same
@@manjarisivakumar3279 if you have authentic knowledge on some aspects automatically you will feel confident and fear will go away from you manjari!
@@srivasudev very true...iam working hard on my profession to gain confidence...thanks for your kind words
Great, helping myriads of people to come out from their own self made fear to freedom.👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Am I born with this fear? -unlearn the fears.
-Expectency-to believe in the unbelievable. Just believe that everything's going to turn out fine.
Srsly. 'Expect the best even when you fear the worst.' Don't do things because you fear the worst. move according to the best expectation.
-Exposure-the more you see the less you feel, the less you feel the more you want to do.
-Experience-ask for help/advice from who has overcome that fear/or is an expert.
Choose a particular fear that I want to overcome, and go through this freedom loop.
14:50 3 E's to Fear to freedom loop.
1. Expectancy
2. Exposure
3. Experience
Thanks for sharing.
@@IdeasInspiration thanks a million to you
I was afraid of water and many times I refused to take bath but when I took the responsibility of my life ,I m loaded with the confidence and I take bath from the cold water even if it's zero degree temperature!!! I m Happy and full of gratitude to God for giving me the strength which has change my life. Now I feel positively 24×7... Thanks God
Haha
I am Mr. Summary: Take home is: We learn our fears and we can unlearn them by getting favorable Expectancy, Experience, Exposure..
Thank you. Do you summarize other things or subjects?
Thanks for sharing your summary.
This changed me and from now will do more . Thank you so.much for this recalibration exercise.
Very inspiring speech,Iam a teacher I have been encountering this problem from beginning But when I mingle with students and if audience are known to me it is fine
Your name is very interesting 🙏
public speacking really a fear of mine but watching makes me feel better and it help me a lot to overcome my fear.
Awesome. Be sure to keep practicing and over time you will sure overcome your fear.
Jazzeth, Do a public speaking course and secondly do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.
As a teacher - my experience says that affection drives away from children in the class! *Strictness invites fear and creates distance between the teachers and students!!
Understanding the message is THE MOST important. Body language of speaker adds a lot to convey the very message in the right way! Mr Manoj has done that. So be receptive in mind !
👆👍
"If you fall in love, you can name your child after me" jus nailed it.
I know 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Really super ,
Ma Sha ALLAH!!
I love what he's saying, Perfect 👌
Big Big Thumbs Up to Manoj Sharma...
May Have more success.Ameen
Glad you enjoyed it. :)
raise your hand if u ever fear of something. put them all together you get me!
I am learning a lot from your presentations. Thank you dear sir.
Afraid of deaths friends or family member
After getting colds hands and gas trouble in stomach to nerves,after watching this video helps me to be brave .no fear slowly going better.Thanks to him
F= false evidence
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Wil i fill in the blanks?
Nicely Explained..👍
Yes.., I have experienced "EXPOSURE". More i see, my fears gets lessened to great extent and i get inspired to do any act just by an Observation and Attention towards it. Thereby helping me to combat the balance of fear.
Thanks for this Video Sharing.👍🙏🙂
Do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.
Marvellous talk and information
Sir very nice the way you present in front of odiance.I have also this problem which is fear of public speaking . Now i am very motivited after watching your video and i try my best . Thank you fron pakistan.
You are welcome. I plan to post more videos on my channel later. Subscribe and stay tuned.
The greatest fear people have is fear of death! When one is able to overcome the fear of death then no other fears matter in this world...
When he asked "What's the biggest fear in the world ?", I guessed it as public speaking and it turned out true!
You got it right
It's a great way to change the man life of fear in the world class presentation for the man.
I would say keep no expectations. Just act.
Fear is dominating force in life. Fear of disease,failure,disappointing others,or economic ruin.Fear of enemies, thieves , seculars, or multitude of othr possibilities including doubt in ones direction in life.
Yep..it is damn dominating...but IT CAN BE KILLED....we can kill it easily by learning to CONTROL OUR THOUGHTS....we can make it non dominating if we want to...we just need to be bothered to learn how...let’s not be lazy and KILL THIS BEAST !!!!!
i want to see and feel the freedom, from now on im not scared or have fear to what world might bring i will face the challenges to achieve my dreams. thank you sir for your video
All the best Alvin.
Expect the best even if u fear the worst.
The more you see
The less you fear
The less you fear
The more you do.
Lovely
I just love the talk..
Thanks.. I want to try this technique I hope I 'm best in my all kind of fear...
Yeah,the minute of you said fear of public speaking..I can totally relate it sir with myself
This is great,you have changed my steps toward fighting my fear,please help me fight fear completely fro my life,i have this dream of standing before a crowd and raise my voice,speak my all without a microphone and be able to inspire others to fight the fear.
Great goal. With the right strategy and practice, you will definitely be able to achieve your goal. Keep believing in yourself and be sure to put in the work.
Brilliant Sir. I want to be coached by you in public speaking .
Wow!!! really u are a good speaker.... In love with your confidence....❤❤
My fear is public speaking.
Dont talk to strangers.. Resulted in fearing talking to new people.
Yess i have that expectancy to speak even if i am scared
Well done Nikky
Great
Content
Thank
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1Expectancy.
Unlearn
Things will go well instead
Expect the best
2Exposure
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3ask
I always admired when seeing Manoj speaking
We have fears because of some irrational beliefs. Yes, we do learn these from our society. Our beliefs create our response.
Only a few will try to find out the root cause of anything. Fewer, try to understand their own programming. Programming is not always harmful, but realisation of our own conditioning helps us to live in awareness, and make informed decisions.
The more you see is the less you fear and the less you fear is the more you do
Well said manoj! I would definitely jump up with you on the stage very soon!
I for one am all what he's saying. Very fearful.
Insah allah my brother.
Why not?
Good on yA......all the best...I’ll watch out for your Ted talk....
Nicely explained make lot of sense
i am 13yr old and ur speech gv me an idea to gv my ted talk tom in my school......thank u so much
Start the video from 8.20.
Really Great Effective Helpful advice.
thanks a lot
Better to watch from the beginning. Then it would be more effective
Context is as important as content, for deeper reflection into personal circumstances of listeners. If just three points are given, there is lesser reflection and internalisation.
@@ManojVasudevan manoj sir, any plan to come to kerala and take a class ??? I"m a big fan of you....i liked your humorous and effective presentation....
Thanks for ur smart advise on art of pub speaking
Thank you very much for providing kind of information....I have learnt a lot from you.... Keep it up sir
Thank you for sharing this. Expectancy, experience. We can unlearn as we learn something new. What I experienced was that the more interacted with the strange people the more comfortable I am. But I be confident when I interact with them and talk the topics they are interested in
perfect speech for fear
Really this speech is inspiring and knowledgeable 👍
Appreciation from Manoj 👌
🙏
Excellent experience to watch this video
Wonderful speech 👌🏻🔥
Expect the best even when you fear the worst
Thank you so much . I have learnt a lot ❤
Mental health is the real wealth, very well explanation
Good video Manoj we certainly have to arrest our fears ,just do what you have to do ,pick yourself up and find your voice
👍👆
This session is for the general public
I enjoy to listen your speech. Thank you so much sir
Glad you liked it
fear cannot be cured but driven to cinfidence until we feel it .fear needs to be because it is that, generates confidence .
very nice lecture Mr. Manoj
Super enlightening. Thank you so much sir ☺
Well explained! Really your video inspired me alot..
When I look at people when speaking my mind goes blank. Since I am blind without my glasses I just take them off and speak and all my self consciousness goes away because I don't feel that people are looking at me
Now I know more and feeling better,not too fear in people when I talk to a group
It's nice motive
Sir Thank you for your valuable speech
Tq sir you changing many people
Thank you graet speech and this is my best speech 😍😍😍
Great personality 💕💕💕
Great video. thank u very much
Fantastic stories, Thanks
Sir actually sometime we need to have fear for something ,it's needed coz fear is teacher and it make us to behave good in society
That's another prevailing perspective among many. Here is something to ponder "Do you do good, because you want to do good? OR Do you do good because others would then like you more and punish you less?" Fear has been used as an instrument for compliance for centuries, around the world, therefore, we believe we do good only when we are afraid of punishments. Therefore, your perspective is a belief for many and you are not wrong, but other perspective exists too.
Fear isn't need, because you can use your inner voice and intelligence to take a decisions.
Great speech! Thanks for sharing. Just back from the swimming pool and totally understand the fear of swimming at least. Love the tips of expectation good outcome. Also, love the tips of exploring networking events. very helpful!
😂 I fear the pool too but I'm hoping I get over it soon
@@komolafebenjamin8505 , you will, Komolafe. I am getting much better now...by facing my fear and keeping coming back ....
@@yanqi8367 fear keeps coming back all the Same but we keep fighting it anyways
That's good to know Yan Qi... Can we go to the pool together and have a holiday chilling...
Glad you liked it.
Sir I need to connect with you the next 10years I really want to improve in my public speaking
very useful video i must say. Thanks for sharing !
🙏👆👏
i have this fear of getting myself on a moving object, a vehicle in particular and had goosebumps and fear of its spped, it makes me very nervous and unease. it was like im gonna passed out everytime
Did you get help for it?
@@Zeddex2965 not yet cause i still need to try to atleast overcome it on my own, however its been almost a year
Great advice thank you very much, but my problem is looking straight on eye to eye whiles chatting so I wanna ask should I smile or squeeze my face a little when talking to anyone
Be yourself. More you see, the less you fear. You can choose to keep a journal of the number of people you made eye contact with each day. You do not need to stare into the eyes during the entire conversation. It's okay to look away for a bit, and reinstate the contact. Dont look in a threatening way.
Sir very nice explanation 👍
Love of nature on this Born on this day
Just awesome 👍✌️👍
We are afraid after making a mistake in life and people (family members) don't forgive us. They stare at us. It made me sit at home for last 6 years. I don't have courage to go out. And I'm afraid of my own family members. I haven't looked into mirror for years. I don't like to look at myself.
Don't focus on the problem. Think about what you can do to get rid of that problem.
I think manoj and nishant ...are indians ... I proud of my country 🇮🇳
I don’t care if he is Indian or Maltese...he’s a cool person cos he’s helping others...I respect and am attracted to people who love helping others,....they are the best...
Nice tips
I always fear the ghost will come, some illusionary images, and if I am alone, my mind will be active whole night, even if I am tired, I cannot sleep. I know for sure ghost is not there but still my mind will be active whole night
Okay, i want you to know one thing, Those things you mention now you really know that they ain't real, but you do fear then, If you want to overcome it,, First you have to stop imagining that they do exist, Don't live on imagination but face the reality, When you look it into a dark room and see some illusionary imagine, First you know that no one is inside the room, then the Images ain't real, Laugh and say i know nothing is there, Stop imagining that someone or anything is there, face the reality that no one is there.. I believe you do understand me,. You will overcome your fear sooner or later.
Do some yoga and meditation
@@veeydisplay disagree. Ghosts real.. I seen, many people seen.. Ask Indonesian people ( Are There Ghosts?) trust me.. I never belueved in ghosts, but now. I do.
BULE DEWATA oh men that means you will never kill the fear for real because you strongly make it your fear and not willing to let it go
BULE DEWATA you fear the ghost may come? So tell me how the ghost will come when you have nothing to do with it,. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ do you have any relationship with the ghost? You just imagine and imprisoned yourself on it,. Imagine that it never exist and escape from it
The think of things getting better can't always the right way. We just need to think the best i can do.
Very inspiring speech.
Great salute sir😍
Supbbbbbb sir... It makes me so proud that You are my Alumini....
I wish you were from my placed.... Nice speech.
Awesome 👍
Dar k aage jeet h👍👍
Cure of fear is to do what you fear most
Apprehension greater than self-confidence is fear. Does anybody agree ?. It is practicing over and over what you fear is the key to overcome the fear. The worst fear in corporate life is speaking up in front of the crowd. The to overcome this fear is NOT TO GIVE A SHIT AS TO WHO IS SITTING IN FRONT OF YOU and start off.
Hmmm, nice tips......expectancy, exposure, experience..... thank u sir...
All the best.
I have accepted the challenge.
Awesome talk
I just loved your 15 second exr
expectations of getting negative comments from the audiance. make me fear. oh if i could be in your training i just hope i could ovetcome thid
You can overcome this. Focus also on the possibility of getting positive comments from the audience.