How To Cure Your Fears Forever | Manoj Vasudevan, World Champion of Public Speaking 2017

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2019
  • Manoj Vasudevan leads a global mission to help 20,000,000 people to overcome their fear of public speaking. In this talk, he shares a 3 step framework you can use to break free from the fears that are holding you back.
    // About Manoj Vasudevan
    Manoj Vasudevan is an internationally renowned Next Level Leadership Readiness Expert who helps executives and entrepreneurs to breakthrough to the next level of their career, business and life. Manoj is the author of the international bestseller Mastering Leadership The Mousetrap Way. He is also the 2017 World Champion of Public Speaking and Founder of Thought Expressions.
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Комментарии • 453

  • @aniig3969
    @aniig3969 3 года назад +67

    The more you see
    The less you fear
    The less you fear
    The more you do
    -Manor Vasudevan 💙

  • @pratikghosh1995
    @pratikghosh1995 4 года назад +94

    1.Expect the best ,even if u fear the worst(imagination, anticipation).
    2.exposure -start taking action.

    • @ManojVasudevan
      @ManojVasudevan 4 года назад +10

      Expectancy.
      Exposure.
      Experience. The key here is - either build experience and expertise yourself or just shed ego & ask for help! Ask someone who has the necessary experience and expertise so that you dont have to reinvent the wheel or waste anymore time - because time is the most precious resource we have.

  • @user-is3zg5fe6m
    @user-is3zg5fe6m Год назад +6

    The key takeaways for myself:
    All people have fears. Most fears are learned, and they could be de-learned.Especially for the public speaking.
    To overcome the fears, follow the 3E pattern: Expectancy, Exposure, and Experience.
    Thanks for the inspiring speech.

  • @StephenObiero
    @StephenObiero 4 года назад +91

    I am Mr. Summary: Take home is: We learn our fears and we can unlearn them by getting favorable Expectancy, Experience, Exposure..

    • @spageddie3266
      @spageddie3266 4 года назад +3

      Thank you. Do you summarize other things or subjects?

    • @IdeasInspiration
      @IdeasInspiration  4 года назад

      Thanks for sharing your summary.

  • @champskills5245
    @champskills5245 4 года назад +140

    The more you see the less you fear, the less you fear the more you do 👍

  • @xavierwilliam688
    @xavierwilliam688 3 года назад +9

    I think that the biggest fear is the fear of failure. That is what we have to overcome.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад +2

    Manoj Sharma ! Great great talk. We indians are... Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @mohameduzair
    @mohameduzair 4 года назад +39

    14:50 3 E's to Fear to freedom loop.
    1. Expectancy
    2. Exposure
    3. Experience

  • @rajunagial3883
    @rajunagial3883 3 года назад +2

    Marvellous talk and information

  • @therevolution1615
    @therevolution1615 3 года назад +5

    Great, helping myriads of people to come out from their own self made fear to freedom.👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @zarghona7491
    @zarghona7491 4 года назад +82

    I have always had fear of speaking to people in the room or in a group of small meetings that is not even major public speaking 😂. I hope I can teach my self to get rid of this fear one day.

    • @nafaa-news
      @nafaa-news 4 года назад +13

      There are seven days a week and one day is not one of them. Start today.

    • @zarghona7491
      @zarghona7491 4 года назад

      Nafaa Boutefer agree 👍

    • @manjarisivakumar3279
      @manjarisivakumar3279 4 года назад

      I have the same

    • @srivasudev
      @srivasudev 4 года назад +6

      @@manjarisivakumar3279 if you have authentic knowledge on some aspects automatically you will feel confident and fear will go away from you manjari!

    • @manjarisivakumar3279
      @manjarisivakumar3279 4 года назад +1

      @@srivasudev very true...iam working hard on my profession to gain confidence...thanks for your kind words

  • @Thegaoat
    @Thegaoat 4 года назад +6

    I suffer from very bad anxiety I just started a new job and I really needed to hear this.

    • @IdeasInspiration
      @IdeasInspiration  4 года назад

      Glad you found this video useful and hope the new job is going great.

  • @indian3197
    @indian3197 4 года назад +54

    I would say keep no expectations. Just act.

  • @hudsonj995
    @hudsonj995 3 года назад +29

    "If you fall in love, you can name your child after me" jus nailed it.

  • @anderwmaetdeng.greatmanina3984
    @anderwmaetdeng.greatmanina3984 4 года назад +9

    I always admired when seeing Manoj speaking

  • @tara90725
    @tara90725 4 года назад +11

    Sir Thank you for your valuable speech

  • @ebenmonic5748
    @ebenmonic5748 3 года назад +4

    I just love the talk..

  • @sankaranj
    @sankaranj 4 года назад +11

    The More you see, the less you fear and The Less you fear, the more you wanted to do... - Powerful Statement...

  • @anumagar2627
    @anumagar2627 3 года назад +2

    I am watching this same video for many times as i cannot stop myself coz u spook so well and its really interesting.. ......

  • @amirasheed2415
    @amirasheed2415 3 года назад +5

    I am learning a lot from your presentations. Thank you dear sir.

  • @rimshamagsi4303
    @rimshamagsi4303 4 года назад +9

    very nice lecture Mr. Manoj

  • @haqueshahidul8003
    @haqueshahidul8003 2 года назад

    It's a great way to change the man life of fear in the world class presentation for the man.

  • @nour8563
    @nour8563 4 года назад +42

    Well said manoj! I would definitely jump up with you on the stage very soon!

  • @olufolahanfaseyitan193
    @olufolahanfaseyitan193 3 года назад +6

    This changed me and from now will do more . Thank you so.much for this recalibration exercise.

  • @user-ce9fu7zi1w
    @user-ce9fu7zi1w 3 года назад

    Tq sir you changing many people

  • @Allinone-yj5ne
    @Allinone-yj5ne 3 года назад +1

    Just awesome 👍✌️👍

  • @smritituteja900
    @smritituteja900 2 года назад +3

    As a teacher - my experience says that affection drives away from children in the class! *Strictness invites fear and creates distance between the teachers and students!!

  • @sarfarazali3622
    @sarfarazali3622 4 года назад +13

    Sir very nice the way you present in front of odiance.I have also this problem which is fear of public speaking . Now i am very motivited after watching your video and i try my best . Thank you fron pakistan.

    • @ManojVasudevan
      @ManojVasudevan 4 года назад +1

      You are welcome. I plan to post more videos on my channel later. Subscribe and stay tuned.

  • @PDclassesManojsharma
    @PDclassesManojsharma 4 года назад +29

    Appreciation from Manoj 👌

  • @MentalHealthwithFalakNiaz
    @MentalHealthwithFalakNiaz 4 года назад +13

    Mental health is the real wealth, very well explanation

  • @Morganroyle
    @Morganroyle 4 года назад +3

    Super enlightening. Thank you so much sir ☺

  • @sagorsamitroy6541
    @sagorsamitroy6541 4 года назад +3

    Fantastic stories, Thanks

  • @davisayugey5398
    @davisayugey5398 3 года назад +1

    FANTASTIC,,,❣️❣️

  • @selvaselva-tg1zy
    @selvaselva-tg1zy 4 года назад +10

    I enjoy to listen your speech. Thank you so much sir

  • @Sid-bc7oj
    @Sid-bc7oj 4 года назад +5

    Thank you very much for providing kind of information....I have learnt a lot from you.... Keep it up sir

  • @nandita0203
    @nandita0203 4 года назад +2

    Yeah,the minute of you said fear of public speaking..I can totally relate it sir with myself

  • @nikhilanand1541
    @nikhilanand1541 4 года назад +4

    When he asked "What's the biggest fear in the world ?", I guessed it as public speaking and it turned out true!

  • @Enterprise-Architect
    @Enterprise-Architect 3 года назад +3

    The greatest fear people have is fear of death! When one is able to overcome the fear of death then no other fears matter in this world...

  • @eliadamokwena4812
    @eliadamokwena4812 4 года назад +1

    AMAZING!!!!

  • @johnsajis9664
    @johnsajis9664 3 года назад +2

    Really this speech is inspiring and knowledgeable 👍

  • @happyzone4532
    @happyzone4532 4 года назад +3

    Great personality 💕💕💕

  • @anumagar2627
    @anumagar2627 3 года назад +5

    Wow!!! really u are a good speaker.... In love with your confidence....❤❤

  • @arifali6762
    @arifali6762 4 года назад +3

    Great info

  • @shehwardhuny1055
    @shehwardhuny1055 3 года назад +1

    Nicely explained make lot of sense

  • @ushanouduri
    @ushanouduri 4 года назад +6

    Excellent

  • @vijaysharma0076
    @vijaysharma0076 2 года назад +3

    Wonderful speech 👌🏻🔥

  • @AVZ24
    @AVZ24 4 года назад +4

    i want to see and feel the freedom, from now on im not scared or have fear to what world might bring i will face the challenges to achieve my dreams. thank you sir for your video

  • @1953sharoha
    @1953sharoha 3 года назад +4

    Brilliant Sir. I want to be coached by you in public speaking .

  • @amituniyal3412
    @amituniyal3412 4 года назад +16

    I was afraid of water and many times I refused to take bath but when I took the responsibility of my life ,I m loaded with the confidence and I take bath from the cold water even if it's zero degree temperature!!! I m Happy and full of gratitude to God for giving me the strength which has change my life. Now I feel positively 24×7... Thanks God

  • @komaljain8014
    @komaljain8014 4 года назад +7

    Nicely Explained..👍
    Yes.., I have experienced "EXPOSURE". More i see, my fears gets lessened to great extent and i get inspired to do any act just by an Observation and Attention towards it. Thereby helping me to combat the balance of fear.
    Thanks for this Video Sharing.👍🙏🙂

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад +1

      Do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.

  • @abhilashyt7115
    @abhilashyt7115 4 года назад +5

    Afraid of deaths friends or family member
    After getting colds hands and gas trouble in stomach to nerves,after watching this video helps me to be brave .no fear slowly going better.Thanks to him

    • @michaelheery6303
      @michaelheery6303 4 года назад

      F= false evidence
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      Wil i fill in the blanks?

  • @girigiri2167
    @girigiri2167 4 года назад +1

    You are welcome 💓 Manoj ji 🌹 GIRI Coimbatore Tamil Nadu 🙏

  • @suryasurendran2554
    @suryasurendran2554 4 года назад +1

    Supbbbbbb sir... It makes me so proud that You are my Alumini....

  • @srinivasancheenu1908
    @srinivasancheenu1908 4 года назад +6

    Nice...

  • @sarsadasharathareddy2246
    @sarsadasharathareddy2246 3 года назад +1

    Love of nature on this Born on this day

  • @drpyne4628
    @drpyne4628 4 года назад +9

    Understanding the message is THE MOST important. Body language of speaker adds a lot to convey the very message in the right way! Mr Manoj has done that. So be receptive in mind !

  • @tabiiwatchfree
    @tabiiwatchfree 3 года назад +2

    Ma Sha ALLAH!!
    I love what he's saying, Perfect 👌
    Big Big Thumbs Up to Manoj Sharma...
    May Have more success.Ameen

  • @shruthidevadiga8033
    @shruthidevadiga8033 3 года назад +1

    Awesome 👍

  • @tittlez1178
    @tittlez1178 4 года назад +2

    Great salute sir😍

  • @rajlakshmirajlakshmi1540
    @rajlakshmirajlakshmi1540 3 года назад

    Very inspiring speech.

  • @josuatv8681
    @josuatv8681 4 года назад +3

    public speacking really a fear of mine but watching makes me feel better and it help me a lot to overcome my fear.

    • @IdeasInspiration
      @IdeasInspiration  4 года назад

      Awesome. Be sure to keep practicing and over time you will sure overcome your fear.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 года назад

      Jazzeth, Do a public speaking course and secondly do anilom Vilom meditataion for 10 minutes early morning and night. Meditation reprogrammes the mind. Watch "Anilom Vilom video on you tube. Make meditation part of your life. Life transforming.

  • @TheMarketingMan4U
    @TheMarketingMan4U 3 года назад +1

    Fear is dominating force in life. Fear of disease,failure,disappointing others,or economic ruin.Fear of enemies, thieves , seculars, or multitude of othr possibilities including doubt in ones direction in life.

    • @artwithmamafairybreadd
      @artwithmamafairybreadd 3 года назад

      Yep..it is damn dominating...but IT CAN BE KILLED....we can kill it easily by learning to CONTROL OUR THOUGHTS....we can make it non dominating if we want to...we just need to be bothered to learn how...let’s not be lazy and KILL THIS BEAST !!!!!

  • @mydivinelife4774
    @mydivinelife4774 4 года назад +6

    very useful video i must say. Thanks for sharing !

  • @dravyadach66
    @dravyadach66 2 года назад +2

    Very inspiring speech,Iam a teacher I have been encountering this problem from beginning But when I mingle with students and if audience are known to me it is fine

    • @srivasudev
      @srivasudev Год назад

      Your name is very interesting 🙏

  • @reennirvana5755
    @reennirvana5755 4 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @oisbios
    @oisbios 3 года назад +5

    i am 13yr old and ur speech gv me an idea to gv my ted talk tom in my school......thank u so much

  • @dees900
    @dees900 Год назад

    Great video. thank u very much

  • @rooparoopa5552
    @rooparoopa5552 3 года назад +2

    Well explained! Really your video inspired me alot..

  • @rahulpagidimarri4677
    @rahulpagidimarri4677 4 года назад

    Awesome talk

  • @MuhammadAamir-dj9lg
    @MuhammadAamir-dj9lg Год назад +1

    This session is for the general public

  • @yesuraj9355
    @yesuraj9355 4 года назад +1

    thank you sir

  • @shakhzod6043
    @shakhzod6043 3 года назад +2

    This mention for admin!
    Can you upgrade the sound quality

  • @cutekids2745
    @cutekids2745 4 года назад +21

    Start the video from 8.20.
    Really Great Effective Helpful advice.

    • @ma-nh9zg
      @ma-nh9zg 4 года назад

      thanks a lot

    • @shammaideen6628
      @shammaideen6628 4 года назад +1

      Better to watch from the beginning. Then it would be more effective

    • @ManojVasudevan
      @ManojVasudevan 4 года назад +3

      Context is as important as content, for deeper reflection into personal circumstances of listeners. If just three points are given, there is lesser reflection and internalisation.

    • @636jackie
      @636jackie 4 года назад

      @@ManojVasudevan manoj sir, any plan to come to kerala and take a class ??? I"m a big fan of you....i liked your humorous and effective presentation....

  • @rajbeekie7124
    @rajbeekie7124 4 года назад +18

    We have fears because of some irrational beliefs. Yes, we do learn these from our society. Our beliefs create our response.

    • @ManojVasudevan
      @ManojVasudevan 4 года назад +2

      Only a few will try to find out the root cause of anything. Fewer, try to understand their own programming. Programming is not always harmful, but realisation of our own conditioning helps us to live in awareness, and make informed decisions.

    • @nwankwosoniaadaobi-sonifox1966
      @nwankwosoniaadaobi-sonifox1966 Год назад

      The more you see is the less you fear and the less you fear is the more you do

  • @lillygray6568
    @lillygray6568 4 года назад +2

    This is great,you have changed my steps toward fighting my fear,please help me fight fear completely fro my life,i have this dream of standing before a crowd and raise my voice,speak my all without a microphone and be able to inspire others to fight the fear.

    • @JitPuru
      @JitPuru 4 года назад

      Great goal. With the right strategy and practice, you will definitely be able to achieve your goal. Keep believing in yourself and be sure to put in the work.

  • @Raja-tt4ll
    @Raja-tt4ll 4 года назад +4

    Nice Video

  • @naatchiarvel
    @naatchiarvel 4 года назад +16

    Thank you for sharing this. Expectancy, experience. We can unlearn as we learn something new. What I experienced was that the more interacted with the strange people the more comfortable I am. But I be confident when I interact with them and talk the topics they are interested in

  • @SanjayKumar-xp7bw
    @SanjayKumar-xp7bw 3 года назад

    Sir very nice explanation 👍

  • @soriebashirbangura4375
    @soriebashirbangura4375 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much . I have learnt a lot ❤

  • @JOJOUNCLEBLOGS
    @JOJOUNCLEBLOGS 2 года назад

    Great talk.

  • @itsmeprophecy1628
    @itsmeprophecy1628 2 года назад

    Expect the best even if u fear the worst.
    The more you see
    The less you fear
    The less you fear
    The more you do.
    Lovely

  • @kunnicodu2
    @kunnicodu2 4 года назад +1

    Nice tips

  • @dilseave859
    @dilseave859 2 года назад

    I just loved your 15 second exr

  • @santkumarsahpastmemory812
    @santkumarsahpastmemory812 2 года назад

    Thank you graet speech and this is my best speech 😍😍😍

  • @michaelwiberg9173
    @michaelwiberg9173 3 года назад

    Fear fear itself🎇

  • @irfanhashim3741
    @irfanhashim3741 3 года назад

    Very indrestive

  • @MegaKOBIA
    @MegaKOBIA 4 года назад

    GREAT

  • @franciscazeni709
    @franciscazeni709 3 года назад +14

    Expect the best even when you fear the worst

  • @poonamgiharshorts
    @poonamgiharshorts 3 года назад

    Thanks.. I want to try this technique I hope I 'm best in my all kind of fear...

  • @dattatraynagargoje8789
    @dattatraynagargoje8789 3 года назад

    A very nice video of you Sir

  • @kathleenmonsano2926
    @kathleenmonsano2926 4 года назад

    Good video Manoj we certainly have to arrest our fears ,just do what you have to do ,pick yourself up and find your voice

  • @MrMirak83
    @MrMirak83 4 года назад

    Very interesting tips.. Thanks

  • @God_3712
    @God_3712 3 года назад +6

    When I look at people when speaking my mind goes blank. Since I am blind without my glasses I just take them off and speak and all my self consciousness goes away because I don't feel that people are looking at me

  • @SanthoshKumar-rr1kl
    @SanthoshKumar-rr1kl 4 года назад +31

    I always fear the ghost will come, some illusionary images, and if I am alone, my mind will be active whole night, even if I am tired, I cannot sleep. I know for sure ghost is not there but still my mind will be active whole night

    • @veeydisplay
      @veeydisplay 4 года назад +11

      Okay, i want you to know one thing, Those things you mention now you really know that they ain't real, but you do fear then, If you want to overcome it,, First you have to stop imagining that they do exist, Don't live on imagination but face the reality, When you look it into a dark room and see some illusionary imagine, First you know that no one is inside the room, then the Images ain't real, Laugh and say i know nothing is there, Stop imagining that someone or anything is there, face the reality that no one is there.. I believe you do understand me,. You will overcome your fear sooner or later.

    • @srinidhi7140
      @srinidhi7140 4 года назад +1

      Do some yoga and meditation

    • @BuleKwOfficial
      @BuleKwOfficial 4 года назад

      @@veeydisplay disagree. Ghosts real.. I seen, many people seen.. Ask Indonesian people ( Are There Ghosts?) trust me.. I never belueved in ghosts, but now. I do.

    • @veeydisplay
      @veeydisplay 4 года назад

      BULE DEWATA oh men that means you will never kill the fear for real because you strongly make it your fear and not willing to let it go

    • @veeydisplay
      @veeydisplay 4 года назад

      BULE DEWATA you fear the ghost may come? So tell me how the ghost will come when you have nothing to do with it,. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ do you have any relationship with the ghost? You just imagine and imprisoned yourself on it,. Imagine that it never exist and escape from it

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding 4 года назад +9

    Great
    Content
    Thank
    You
    Man
    1Expectancy.
    Unlearn
    Things will go well instead
    Expect the best
    2Exposure
    do
    3ask

  • @saikrishna7226
    @saikrishna7226 3 года назад

    Yeah... Expectancy drives us

  • @NkhahlisengRamabele-rx7od
    @NkhahlisengRamabele-rx7od Год назад

    Helpful

  • @horidashdebonath5205
    @horidashdebonath5205 4 года назад +3

    Good speech

  • @superhuman4747
    @superhuman4747 4 года назад +2

    Raise your hand if u ever had a Fear of something. As u see some people are Even afraid to raise the Hand.

  • @Blossom1992
    @Blossom1992 4 года назад +3

    awesome