Address This Mess: Man’s Wife Falls In Love with Woman from Their Arranged Threesome
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- We’re always in the business of helping our Real fam clean up their messes, and this one definitely needs to be addressed. We share advice with a husband struggling to reconnect with his wife after she fell in love with the woman from their threesome.
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He didn’t suggest it thinking it would bring them closer together. He suggested it just wanting to have his cake and eat it.
*Eat his cake and have it too
@@hannahwalmer1124 😊 that’s what I meant. I was rushing when I was typing. Thanks for clearing it up.
Exactly. If you’re saying you just want your wife back, your scheme should’ve put her in the spot light & made it about her and your love for her. You just wanted sex and felt it wouldn’t be cheating if she’s apart if it… and you played yourself. 😭 Sorry Robert!
@Day The way she said it is technically incorrect, it's just that it's often said incorrectly that it sounds correct. It's kind of like the whole "could care less" thing. It's actually *couldn't care less.
If you have your cake, you can eat it. You cannot have your cake if you've already eaten it. That's why it is incorrect.
@Day Well, either way, they way it was said initially is not correct whether or not the meaning is understood. If your name is Kaitlyn, but I go and spell it Caitlin, I'm wrong, even though the pronunciation is exactly the same, the name is the same and the meaning would get across.
Loni is right don't play with fire. When you invite a third party to your bed everything can happen, he/she may like the other person more, feelings may be involved, Sometimes they want to continue to invite different partners (so its not a one time thing). Or eventually they want to pursue that person on a more emotional level. Anything can happen.
If she is with the other girl than The sex is stall because of him.
I think Andrea eats it better 🤣
I don't think it's the sex. I think she is in love with the other woman because she the other woman pays attention to her and listens to her. Women are nurturing and caring by nature and that may be something missing in the marriage. Sometimes you have to be careful showing your partner something new because they just might realize it's something they've been missing.
Falling in love with another woman while you are married is not a phase… she’s clearly bi may have never acted on it until now with her husband but if she’s in love that’s NO phase!
Thank you!!! I was looking for this comment. Especially when someone suggested bringing in a Pastor. Not realizing that this religious figure may a) call Andrea an adulterer when she was INVITED IN and b) call her a HEATHEN as a woman loving on another woman (wlw). That’s not really the unbiased third party you want (a therapist can do the same thing with no agenda). Also, a therapist doesn’t make the marriage a priority, it makes the PEOPLE a priority. Plenty of people especially women either identify or likely do resonate as bi, Pan, bi-curious or queer/questioning. If she’s clearly in love with Andrea, everyone involved is better off. If not, then depending on her she can still exist in her marriage and work on it.
The entire situation is a No. The marriage was over when he asked for a threesome.
you open your marriage bed to others… you suffer the consequences.
This is just like the F.R.I.E.N.D.S episode with Ross and Carol
Lol for real tho Susan came in and Ross got kicked out 😆🤣
Carol was lesbian...I think the same with this wife honestly.
@@gtdevika2395
They let him watch though 😂😂😂
I thought of it as well 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This why the Lord tells yall not to DEFILE the marriage bed. He ain't talking about what you do sexually between spouses, he's talking about bringing things that are not of him. Which is bringing a freaking third person into your marriage. It's not that he doesn't want us to have fun or spice things up, he don't want folks to be heartbroken over something they could've prevented in the first place. "Don't start none, won't be none" isn't just a good rule to live by in minding one's business, it goes for relationships too!!!
🙌🏾 this
Yep
You're absolutely right
THANK YOU.
Facts
So many funny moments from Loni
“Ohhhh…. In the bed??”
“Well that dream girl took your girl!”
😆
It really just shows you that these individuals expected to be the one “gaining” from this arrangement. He didn’t care about this marriage growing, he wanted his cake and eat it too. So when he was the partner not being fought over/focused on, he didn’t want to continue. I have a strong suspicion that if the wife wanted to end the arrangement because Andrea and him were doing more, he would refuse or sneak off to see Andrea. If you all were not willing to put the work into keeping a marriage alive then think if marriage/life partnership is for you.
Spot on!!
He mad she beat him at his own game
@Day 😂
“I asked” “she asked me if I was sure” “I really want to do this” “she gave in” … Robert do you know that pressuring your wife until she caved in her hopes of saving the marriage is domestic abuse? This example is sexual abuse to be more specific. If this is a real story Robert doesn’t deserve his wife back.
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People are eventually gonna learn to stop inviting other people into your relationship, marriage, or bed. If the only way to reinvigorate or spice up your sex life is to invite in another person then you don’t want the relationship your in cuz there are plenty of other ways to spice up your sex life
Jesus loves you!😊❤
Thank you, well said.
So true . He asked for it and it flipped on him .
Chile, eventually 🙄
@@rogers5622 that’s the real issue. He thought this was his experience and he was the main star and found out he was an extra
He asked for the ménage a Trois and he knew the girl, if this ain’t karma then I don’t know😂🤣
Men like him rlyyyy think a woman can’t take their woman 🤣🤣 that’s what he gets tbh
Agreed . He assumed HE was the interesting part of the 3some 😂
I read lesbian relationships have a high rate of orgasms. The wife probably had an orgasm of life with "Andrea," now she is hooked. 😂
@@rogers5622 lol men always assume they're the interesting part of any sexual encounter
Why do I secretly want the wife to leave her husband for Andrea? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😈😈😈😈
Shhhhh u ain't right for that 😈🤣.
Omg me too 🤦🏽♀️🤭😂😂😂
Same lmaooo
@@daniellalove143 - that will teach him a life lesson 😏
Omg I do too lol
That's why God created a marriage for 2 persons and only God should be the 3rd person
🤣🤣🤣 I've always heard of the man running off with the 3 party this is a twist for me
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Do not invite other people into your bedroom because 99% of the time you will regret it.
He just wanted to have it's cake and eat it too. That's what he gets. Anybody else marriage is not my business but no man should pick the other woman anyway. Look at him lol
Tbh he was the stale problem apparently lol
Homegirl done went from Paul & got interested into Pauletta ! See never mix and mingle when ur married cuz the moment this happens u gonna end up resenting a person and regretting wanting to “ spice “ up the bedroom by any means
“How do I get that old thing back”
What does that mean sir? You want that self esteem back from when you thought you was the only person who could please your wife? You want that false narrative that your wife’s eyes are only for you even though you clearly ain’t giving that energy in return.
Sounds like he went in this situation like most dudes, thinking all attention was going to be on him. Be careful what you wish for indeed. Hope he had enough fun 🤣🤣
Men always say "let's spice things up by bringing in another woman to please me" never "let's bring in another guy to please you." That's the only extra spice we should be talking about. If I'm not enough for you, I gotta go. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s even more disgusting both are wrong .
#addressthismess Robert should have asked his wife to role play instead.. Multiple personalities doesn't have to be multiple people..😳
CAN WE STOP AND TALK ABOUT LONNIES OUTFIT TODAYYYYYY ?!?
When a person makes a vow in God's presence must honor it
Word!! Too many forget their vows when they get “bored”
Which is code for self serving!
Andrea is doing something that he isn't doing or doing it better. A woman knows a woman's body and what she likes. Claudia is not trying to let her go. Robert is about to get left for another woman.
@Joshua McDowell
This is what happens when you watch too much porn 😂😂😂
@@madikeraisland3927 no..he’s actually right. Lol
Yep
@@TT.3123
I know, i was joking by saying that the husband wanted a threesome because he was watching too much porn and now he's paying the price
@@madikeraisland3927 ohhhh stupid me lol
Garcelle should send me this blazer. Omg she looks amazing.
Jesus loves you!😊❤ so very much!
Loni hit it on the 🎯🎯🎯. 🙃
I’m here for the outfits ladies ❤️
The relationship is fucked already… no coming back. 🤷🏻♀️
whoever is responsible for these segments ideas is a genius
Ive said it for years and i'll say it again whether the man does it or the woman does it, when your man or woman asks for a threesome one time sex night or polyamous relationship something is lacking in the relationship and eventually they will leave you for the third party.
These can’t be real 😂
They need counseling and a couple's retreat.
Any third party in a relationship, is an invitation to trouble .
I’m so happy to see all of them together again
Loaf.
That sounded so fake lol
When one of the names is yours 😳🤣
I don’t think the ladies are necessarily in love, they’re just having great sex. They had no business bringing a 3rd party in. If the sex between them was dry, and stale, that should’ve been addressed strictly between them.
"Shameless" anyone? 👀
Omgosh yes Kevin was so jealous
That is too messy
This is crazy bc usually a guy is the one who falls in “ love “ and he didn’t think his wife would be the one to fall and bc they clicked more it’s a problem I wonder if he was the one what the result would be
This is straight out of FRIENDS. Carol, Susan and Ross
2:29 Loni is too funny 😂😂😂
Am i the only one who misses the old setting of the show? I miss the big table and how they sat around it.
I love this set up because I can see their whole fit
Sorry your Marriage is OVER and your to blame! Also she prefers a WOMAN!!
Oh. This is wild 😂😂😂
The wife needs to figure out if she is bi- or homosexual. Most likely bi if they were happily married at first and with a love life that they both enjoyed! But now she may have fallen in love with Andrea… or she is still in love with her husband but feels a sexual connection with Andrea.
I don’t think she’s in love. I think this woman has helped her experience some awesome orgasms. Unless they mentioned the ladies hanging out outside of the bedroom and I missed it. If he thought their sex life was stale and she was content, then she probably didn’t know what she was missing until Andrea came along and opened the orgasm gates, lol.
@@Dana-bl7gl I feel the same way the other woman obviously gave her the vest orgasms of her life
Friends cough cough 🗣🗣
it may just be lust. Love takes time to establish. If he plays his cards right he can still win his wife back.
Garcelle said pastor lol hahahaha,This. man should have been signed up to get and see a pastor before considering any other girl as in Andrea lol!
So we’re just gonna ignore that the wife might have discovered she’s really into women 🙄
GREENSBORO!!!
Hi edagdwg life is real pay attention to. What you ask for she was given him what he is wanted do they still love each other people change Linda j. Peace
It’s only a mess cause it’s a women , had it been a man people would have said oh it’s normal for a man to want to be with both women after .
we will need an update from Robert!
Pure Fiction
I think too.
Definitely. It even read as a comedy
Actually….you’d be surprised at how many couples are doing strange things behind closed doors.
It’s called be careful what you wish for.
They need to divorce, because if they even allowed someone else into their marriage they was done with the marriage. & Andrea is there to stay rather the other one knows about her still being around or not., it's not careful what you ask for, it's accept what you ask for.
Nah that’s a wrap. If she stays she’ll just cheat with Andrea!
Great help
I think it's fair to say she is bi but more into woman than men. No therapy will fix that
You asked for it papi 😎
That’s what you get when you mess with covenant! Next
This is the perfect example of be careful what you wish for anybody need a husband
😂😂😂😂😂 this has killed me.
Karma 😂
I think that she is already gone dude.
This is why I wouldn't date a bisexual woman, dudes be wanting a bisexual woman until she leaves you for another woman
He's so incredibly dumb because it initially started off as his idea and now he can't handle it so unless there's kids involved divorce your wife & let the two women be together.
That's what Robert gets
I understand
This is why you don’t do things like this
Would y’all marry someone you weren’t sexually compatible with?
Nope. Hell to the nah
No
I married my husband without having sex with him. We did nothing sexual at all before marriage (just a few kisses). We are verrrry sexually compatible. I think it’s because we made sure we were mentally and spiritually compatible first. I know that’s not the popular thing to say but it’s what we did and it worked. People be so focused on sexual compatibility that they forget about everything else.
By the way, 4 months into marriage I needed a major abdominal surgery (unexpected). We couldn’t have sex for weeks afterward. And he was/we were fine because our connection wasn’t first built on sex. Plus, I had already learnt that he had sexual discipline.
Do you know what we did share before marriage though? A bank account!!
@@jansonovia that's good
@Day I’m telling you… so much can be learned from sharing a bank account. Money, debt and financial secrets cause a lot of issues in marriage. Also, are they disciplined with spending? Even learning if someone is extremely cheap (where they won’t even buy the essentials for themselves) is a red flag. Money talks.
They should bring another guy in and maybe he will have someone who he can connect with lol all jokes aside, they probably aren’t pleasing each other so need to communicate their needs in the bedroom.
Hi edagdwg Miss A .playing miss I told you what to do sad Linda j peace
WhTs wrong with loni’s eye? I hope she’s ok I love her
When did Adrienne become so dark? She's as dark as Garcelle! 😬
You act like melanin is a bad thing. It's the fountain of youth baby, a Gift from mother nature. It's like money, it's either you have it or you don't have it and having it is a privilege.
@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 thats right .pro melanin , the more you have the better. Nothing wrong having darker skin.
You reek what you sow
Yup, he reaped what he sowed
It’s ok to bring in a third person but it has to be someone u don’t know and only one session with that person
Well sometimes that 1 time its enough to like the other person and spark the interest and because you both decided that it would be one time your partner end up sneaking to see the other woman (the invited one). Definitely heard some cases like that.
@@mmconceicao that is true
@@rachelthomas7976 ☺️☺️☺️
@Day I agree I not sure why have a three some when your in a relationship
Ummmm “Claudia” is gay. Marriage is over 🤷🏻♀️
I bet if he was getting too close to the outsider he would have excuses as well. Just don't invite ppl in your bedroom, they usually never work.
He was missing something in the relationship, Brought an other women in and the wife finally did get was she didn't know she was missing in her marriage.
🤣 she's probably been praying to find a way to be herself. This man helped her.
I agree with you all. Plus this is NOT a good reason to have a threesome. People do it for fun knowing what’s up but don’t use it as a fixer.
This is like Why Women Kill 😭
I love how she said bring in a pastor yet he's wife is having relations with a women lol end of this marriage
All his fault, might as well become Sister Wives now
Yikes! Just messy.
Robert has never seen Friends ......
Ok oompa loompa. I mean adeienne
it’s giving Ross, Susan and Carol
Andrea was always there I think
2:25
I mean he said the wife asked if he was sure she probably kept it a secret from him that she is bisexual! And prefers women over men…..
What happened to Tia tamera
Adrienne is a white woman and she’s the same skin tone as Garcelle. Weird
She isn't white. Hispanic is not white. She can tan.
@@mnqolivia yeah she’s white. She’s Latina but her race is white. You can clearly see both of her parents are white. Also she did the dna test and she was mostly European
@@kc-un7by she is not white ,one parent is Puerto Rican,the other Ecuadorian. Neither are white races. Puerto Rican is a mixture of African,Indian and Spanish . She's 26% Native American. She is a person of color which is why she is on the show that is for women of color.
Is weird being tanned? Wtf? 🤡 Lmfaoo
@@kc-un7by Neither of her parents is white. They are a mixture of different races in incuding white, native American and black. The term 'white' generally means white European origin which is not her heritage or race.
I will never be convinced that these letters are written by actual viewers but whatever. 😂