Oppositional Defiant Disorder in Adults!
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Do you feel you have ODD? If so how have you managed to cope with it?
Hey there, fellow Thrivers! Welcome back to Thriving with Richard Bass, the channel where we dive deep into the realm of personal growth and overcoming life's challenges. I'm your host, Richard, and today we have an important topic to discuss-Oppositional Defiant Disorder in adults. If you've ever wondered if you might be dealing with this condition or you're seeking solutions to cope and manage it on your own, you've come to the right place. So, let's get started!
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Okay, I kinda relate to this. When people sliiightly say things like "You should..." or "well, its good that you..." something inside me is like "now i won't do it, you told me to and now I won't". And I tend to argue a lot and be defiant with people I know, specially my mother. In my job i even got heated up by my boss and sometimes I even start conversations with sarcasm or triggering the button on people and making them mad.
I've been diagnosed with ODD since I was a child. Always thought it was bull, since all the information I read about was always about "how to deal" with us.
Especially when adults would refuse to explain why I was wrong in arguments. I, a child, would do my best to put a logical, sound argument foward, and was usually just told to "let it go" or that "it wasn't really that important." Felt like a slap in face, still does.
People still tell me to let things go, but if they really had empathy, I thought maybe they'd see that the things I argue about were important to me. Because I feel the need to correct/argue more often, that suddenly nullifies any effort I put into the conversation.
Sorry for the word splatter, but I found this video while not doing so great after *another* argument.
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That’s aspd after the age of 18
I've wondered about whether or not I have this. I'm not the type to be openly hostile to people, but anytime someone tells me to do something, or even implies that they EXPECT me to do a particular thing, I get an _overwhelming_ urge to do the opposite; even when it makes my life harder. It's not ever meant to be malicious; I just have a strong instinct towards subverting people's expectations of me. I loathe the idea of being 'predictable'; I don't even know why, I just do. I don't want anyone to make any _assumptions_ about what I'm thinking, what I'm going to do, etc. So I keep'em guessing.
Not saying it's a good thing at all; Ive definitely missed out on a lot of opportunities to get ahead, establish friendships, and maybe even romantic relationships because I just refuse to do the things people want me to do.
A family member has this. It’s hard for them and us both.
Adults with this literally act like children. Its exhausting!
I had ODD as a child and now as an adult my psychologist says he doesn't even recognize odd in adults and just calls it anti-social and doesn't prescribe medication for it like i think i might of used to get as a kid.
I relate to this but I had a withheld dignosis when I was 17 the symptoms only got worse in adult hood
But not to the extent of aspd or conduct disorder
And there's nothing I can do about it
I meet full blown criteria for ODD
Aspd can be ruled out because my moral compass is intact,
Ik it's not bipolar disorder because I don't have any symptoms besides anger
Ik it's not a cluster B personality disorder
I don't meet enough criteria for any cluster B to be dignosed
But no they refuse to make the dignosis official just because I'm an adult...
My dearly elderly evil Sadistically Catholic mother has this along with her Narcissistic famdamnly daze.
I know someone like this. This gave me some insight...thank you!
Can ppl with ODD get along with each other? Because I can’t get along with my other family members and distance helps me. I love them but, I don’t trust them. Why do we lie so much and are so difficult? Ugh and no friends 😮
im supposed to be ODD but i respect authority i have no criminal record i respect common law i dont go out of my way to upset others, Okay i drank some cider when i was 15 so im not perfect but havent we all?
Hello, were you diagnosed as ODD? If so did the Doctor mention what was the reasoning behind the diagnosis? I am curious because I have never heard or experienced someone with ODD who is not defiant.
@@thrivingwithrichardbass defiant is a big word, i struggle to mix in with others, i hate going shopping im not a fan of housework ill avoid it if i can, if the family getting together dont invite me id rather go to bed and sleep ive got extreme social anxiety ive always had problems socially, im Diagnosed Autistic and ODD, also suffering from PTSD, Depression and anxiety, ive often questioned the ODD because i wasnt a bad kid most of my school associates are now in jail for serious crimes, i wouldnt dream of doing the stuff they did im not even tempted too. i know right from wrong. think i did run away from school sometimes because i got frustrated with it i guess that could be seen as defiant but it stops there i didnt run away from school to rob houses and cars THIS is not in my nature im not a thug!
@@NightOwlGames I see, before I clicked read more I was about to say this sounds more like social anxiety. I could see how ODD was associated due to that incident, but as you mention I don’t think you have it. It is also very common to outgrow it as you get older.
@@thrivingwithrichardbass could it be PDA? its never been mentioned maybe PDA has been mistaken for ODD?
@@thrivingwithrichardbass its wrong to run away from school i know that, but theres a much BIGGER story i was violently abused by other kids at school so i felt the need to run away.
The hive mind of the regional government is a textbook example of ODD.
Not at all, but could _you_ have adult ODD?
All people who support leftist ideologies & their sycophants suffer from this at a global level when their preferred candidate loses an election
Is there also a link to narcissism?
Narcissistic personality disorder is something else. ADHD and ODD often occur together, and the patterns can be on a spectrum.
It's similar to NPD
A lot more similar to NPD than aspd but no it's not the same
Someone with ODD will typically feel disliked and misunderstood
Someone with NPD would feel disliked but lie to themselves to create the illusion of confidence that they genuinely believe is actually confidence
@@lapisbuterflythis is really great observation or statement. I also have diagnosed ODD and don’t have a pseudo-confidence.
These seem like very generic solutions that apply to every person.
Psychology has developed a disorder for every personality type. Non-conformists are ostracized unless you’re a gender non conformist that wants your sex organs surgically removed. We live in a society where you are diagnosed ODD if you question trans rhetoric