Best Motivation. I own 2 laundromats in low income areas. I work about 25 hours a week and gross about 240K a year. whilst working with an advisor like Julianne Iwersen Niemann. I used to work in Sears repairs,, so I saved money by fixing my own machines. Believe it or not, the soap detergent vending machines bring in a good amount as well. Trust me starting and maintaining a profitable business starts with properly managing your finance. Stay Motivated!
Laundromats are easy to operate...I know this lady you mentioned. I bought a laundromat from a friend many years ago who retired overseas. Repairs are costly. Try to at least learn the basics. I have bill acceptor machines to exchange for tokens, much better than counting and hauling quarters . My locations are near low income housing and apartments, which are very good for business.
I owned 3 laundromats in SF. The biggest 3 issues? The Lease, the lease and the lease. Got screwed by two owners that didn't renew the lease. If you own the building, different story. Probably, it will not be bad to work with your advisor
Thank you for sharing, I must say, Julianne appears to be quite knowledgeable. After coming across her web page, I went through her resume and it was quite impressive.
Starting my own small business is scary but I know it’s what im supposed to do. I have a dream of how many trucks I’ll have with my logo on each one. Starting with a pickup truck and under equipped but I will make it happen. In 1 year I will have 2 trucks with full service. Stopped being scared and making excuses for myself. Going to make it happen from the bottom! Good luck to anyone out there taking the leap. You aren’t alone
Congratulations Jake, carry on your entrepreneurial journey. Keep Moving forward and stepping out of your comfort. zone. Success is already there, it's automatic when you expand your comfort zone Cheers.
@@carynefuture5778 thank you!! Update …going strong and ahead of my 1 year goal. Have 2 trucks and fully decked out! Expanding and growing our business now in my area. Slow at times but I stay positive and keep it moving !
I’m 13. I’ve been listening to all of these speachs and reallllyyy really just getting into all of these manifestation tequique videos, and I just find them all really awesome. I really like to research about these stuff and use them in my daily life. Honestly, I feel like I’m gonna become a rlly cool person growing up if I start to use these stuff more with coping with my anxiety, procrastination, manifestation, etc. Mel robbins, you helped me a bunch, thanks :)
If you haven't read "The Alchemist", you need to. I didn't like his other books, but that one is excellent. The main idea is that you because rich by solving others' problems - even if you have little or no money at first.
Yay Congratulations You are if a perfect age to start out with this and Do not let anyone sway you..dont talk about your dreams and goals..then you will not have the negative people trying to bring you down to their unhappy level. Soar high and live love free young one..I send great vibes for you and your sucesses.❤
Bro I’m 18 and was on this occult journey for years, but honestly all this pseudoscience did not make life better it actually made it too complicated and I was completely separated from reality. Now I visualize, treat others how I want to be treated, practice smiling and listen to positive affirmations while I sleep. Life is a million times better. I pray too.
I don’t “manifest” I just make it happen. I don’t read self improvement books anymore I read fantasy books now. Please do me a favor and look at the other side of RUclips showing the real truth behind these magical methods. God is the way. Not the divinity. Or higher consciousness.
Resonated with the visualization idea! 1. Visualize the future you interested 2. Visualize the steps, having trouble imaging it? Visualize Jesus is facing all problem and what will he do (leverage objectivity) 3. Feel in your body imaging you r doing the work 4. Take action - good practice for presentations or taking bigger responsibility/steps out in work or reaching out to girls lol Frequency: daily habit
I've never put a name to it before, but this is EXACTLY what I've done in order to go after the things that I want and achieve what I've achieved so far. Another helpful trick, rather than to ask "What would (insert aspirational person's name here) do?" is to create an aspirational alter-ego version of yourself and ask what that super-charged you would do. Regular Me wouldn't dare conduct a live webinar in front of 400 attendees, but Super Me would! Also, thanks so much for addressing what REAL manifestation is all about-it's not about sitting around trying to think and feel your way to the life of your dreams, there is real action involved as well. Thinking, feeling, and acting are all necessary components of manifestion.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 02:31 💡 Feeling stuck when manifesting is common. Visualizing the steps to achieve your goals can be challenging and lead to doubt and caution. 04:10 💪 Leveraging the power of objectivity can overcome mental blocks. Instead of visualizing yourself, imagine a friend or admired person doing the tasks you want to achieve. 08:44 🤔 "What would [someone you admire] do?" Use this question as a simple tool to make decisions when you're unsure of the steps to take toward your goals. 11:57 🏆 Leverage the power of objectivity to shift your mindset and become more creative and bold. It can lead to unexpected opportunities and career advancements. 13:47 🧭 Imagine yourself alongside the admired person doing the work. This visualization will help you take concrete steps towards your dreams and manifest your goals. Made with HARPA AI. Love this tool to help optimize time. Thanks Mel for this great presentation
I use visualisation but I never imagined visualising my goals from the perspective of another person. That was really useful to learn. Thank you, Mel. 🙏
supposedly, one of our forefathers (I think it was Ben Franklin) used vidualization, but also visualized gurus - a set of 12 he selected mostly from long dead geniuses - to guide him through his goals, to ask him questions that lead him to the answers or at least to the creative process
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a long time. I was an actor years ago and gave up the dream but I know it’s my life purpose. I come up with all these excuses but when Mel was talking I immediately thought “what would Matt Damen do “? And then it came to me. Take massive action every day.
This is brilliant. In all of the 100s of manifestation videos and gurus I have watched over the years this is the first time I’m hearing this technique of objectivity. This video has some real unique techniques. Mel’s content is just brilliant
My dream is to flip houses and I watch HGTV like its my job. I just had that energetic shock when you mentioned that. I will definately use these tips. Thank you so much Mel!
I keep it simple....only imagine the end results. The steps i want the best ones even if i dont know what they are. But i want my subconscious to find them for me...i do like the idea of power of objectivity...because if you think about it...thats the end result.. someone already where you want to be. The end result..seeing yourself there already.
Just my thoughts Renee....ie if my friend was sick , and I wanted to send healing Prayers. I would (visualise her) and send them . What if I replaced her....the healing would go to the person you've visualised. Hope it makes sense....some one at the door
OMG .. thanks for that last Video… last week I filled out your survey and it flowed like a river…each question just felt I had been waiting all year to find a place to lean into the moment to send you my Gratitude for all you do for your audience..and how much I have appreciated you in my kitchen, bathroom (doing my high 5 ) and in my office researching on You Tube. Yes, we are in such a time that we can be in our own homes listening to you. THANK YOU THANK YOU..!!!!
I just watched four of your videos. I’ve been struck hard by everything you have said!! I am crying because it all was exactly what I needed to hear!! I am publishing that book!
Funny thing, after I have reflected (for the last 17 years) on the 31 years of marriage to my late husband, I realize now that it wasn’t as rosy as I had convinced myself it was….it was an illusion. I lied to myself to ‘get through’ it. I did not realize this then, living in the moment. So, no. We do not always think the past was better…..if we can manage to be honest with ourselves. The only thing that may make it better are the fact that we were younger, prettier, more handsome, less pain, or any number of reasons like that. But the past for some, is not a better place for our minds to dwell.
@@TheKaraqi4 That is interesting & I wonder how this way of thinking changes things. I am sometimes scared of the future, but usually think things should be better in a year or 2, compared to the present, I mean for things like career, money. I also think sometimes the past was better, that I missed opportunities. Main challenge for me is to focus in the present.
I've been visualizing, affirmation use and even writing my new self for over 25 years. Any longer I may not be around. Hasn't worked but fantasies are fun to escape reality.
Today I used the power of objectivity. I started an LLC and have everything setup, made a beautiful webpage and was scared to finally promote it to get clients. I was afraid to post it then i said "What would Mel Robbins do?" I knew you would say to do it and that i was one step away from achieving my goal. I uploaded my post after that! Not sure i could have done that had i not found your videos this weekend 😊 You’re changing lives!
I only recently discovered Mel Robbins and I have read/heard a ton of Self-Improvement people. She definitely has changed my life. And..... for the first time ever, I actually believe and get what Mel is saying about Manifestation. Before Mel, I was tired of reading the same woo-woo stuff about LoA and manifesting and the frustration of that not working.
This is GOLD! she is correct 100%,. Manifest the STEPS needed to reach your goal. Successful manifestation of your end goal depends how you deal with the "Mean Time"...the time in between initiation of the goal process and final fruition. Thank you, Mel, you are friggin' amazing!
This reminds me of Jim Cathcart and his daily question “How would the person I’d like to be, do the things I’m about to do?” - I’ve used this, not daily as I should have, many times and have been amazed at the results - I’m not nearly as lazy, at participating in my own life, when I do, lol!
this is SO good and way better than the traditional "visualize the end goal" thing which isn't wrong to do but always makes me feel like a loser. This way doesn't.
This is soooooooo true!!! Anytime I'm stuck in a decision, I ask myself "What would you tell your daughter?" All of a sudden Im giving myself the BEST and clearest advice.😂
It is sooo true what you say! I am consulting other entrepreneurs, and EVERY day, I think. Why is it so much easier to motivate, inspire and coach everyone else? And as you say: I feel more creative, more motivating too, and also a much better coach when I help others than try to get my own s. done!
Hello friend! I often wake up in the middle of the night and overhear some sort of internal conversation going on that seems important. I now know it to be my guidance crew. I have received several really cool bits of info and leading that have felt so yummy and so true that it has been a big part of my anticipation about going to bed at night....knowing I may receive some kind of important guidance or insight for my life. What I heard two nights ago was (paraphrased) "be like Mel Robbins, not to emulate her, but to borrow from her confidence and her way of moving through the world". The thing is, I really hadn't seen any of your work! I have been reading like a mad fool, Martha Beck included, but hadn't had any connection yet to you or what you stood for. So, this middle-of-the-night intro to you was out of left field. I just listened to you being interviewed by Jonathan Fields and what you said about scarcity absolutely pulsed into my soul. This video just made me smile from ear to ear. It is the essence of the message I heard two nights ago. Be like Mel Robbins, but not really, be yourself entirely. I love how Spirit is working. Thank you for this message and I look forward to hearing more of the work you're doing.
I resigned for my job for 3 years because it’s not giving me fulfillment and now I am walking to the unknown but I know what I really want and I’ve been a frustrated Entrepreneur and I think it’s about time. It seems like everything is falling apart but somehow it feel its falling into its places. This video is really for me. Thanks Mel 🙏✨
I has this feeling when I saw people on Instagram with 100+ houseplants. I love houseplants! I had 100 houseplants and a grow system set up in 6 months. I need to tap into that feeling. Have a tour at the gym scheduled for tomorrow, and a meeting to set up an excercise plan. Thanks for being here Mel!
I have used visualization as described by Mel. But I still don’t get much done on my own. So I’m going to hire some folks to help me get stuff done, because I’m 72 years old! I need to get stuff done! I don’t have time to do it all by myself! So indirectly this has helped me! Wow!!!
I just got goosebumps all over when you spoke about the article and what happend next ! Thank you for sharing !!! i am a hug fan of you and your work!! Big hug from munich
This makes total sense. It always helps to start something you are apprehensive to do when a friend goes along with you on the journey. Let’s all make Mel Robbins that friend. See you on the other side: successful and happy!
Exactly what Mel said. "You just know." I attended University of the District of Columbia when I graduated from H.S. in 1985. I did two two semesters then entered a college program at a school in DC that was about 9 - 10months program and did really well, got honors. One day, I received this elongated brochure full color of Southeastern University that was located here in Washington, D.C. and I thought to myself, I'm going to graduate from this school." It was an innate feeling. I got a job at a bank, doing wire transfer after finishing that 9 month diploma program from the second college. Eight months in that job, I enrolled into the fall semester at Southeastern and finished in '91, got my degree B.S. with honors in computer information systems June 92'. Well, life changes things and this and the other, so I'm not working in the computer field and actually, after several attempts before, looking to get work for my self, finally, and earn my own worth. But what Mel said before, "You just know." 😊🙏🏼
This is pure gold, thank you SO much Mel! I really resonate with that download / zing / ping / gravitational pull you were talking about at the start of the video when you see someone doing something you want to do with your life and you think: "oh my gosh, that's it!" About 5 years ago, I volunteered for Gabby Bernstein's The Universe Has Your Back book tour in San Fransisco and I was working on getting my own tech start-ups off the ground at the time. I saw her speak that night and felt that download of "this is what I need to be doing with my life too." Fast forward 5 years later, I just traditionally published my very first book last year (it's called P.S. You're A Genius) and here I am, promoting my book, sharing my message, speaking to groups, and it's incredible!! I am so excited to see what other dreams come my way through the power of that download / zing / ping!!!
Mel, you are wonderful and relatable. I've had trouble with motivation when there's no deadline. Need to step into the person who can get things done when don't 'have to' but 'want to'!
When I was a kid my father would always talk about manifestations, I remember we were playing a board game and every time he’d roll a six then he said I would roll a six and I did, ever since then iv always wanted to learn more about it.
I have manifested my dreams from 3 years ago and now my dreams are so big that I had honestly forgotten that I have achieved my dream once. Now it's time for a bigger dream and I’m ready to do the work.
I was so in doubt to pursue my network marketing career again... But when I saw someone who have done it 3x rebuilding and starting from being alone, I FELT THE EXTREME BOOST IN ENERGY like how is he was doing that, or i want to be like as strong as him. I think it's a huge sign of high energy vibration that I should do it again. Thanks Mel same as you saw Martha. ☝️☝️☝️☝️
I love everything about this video. I can relate to your story of seeing Martha Beck and getting that jolt of, "OH YEAH! THAT is what I want to be doing." In the past, I would hold my vision of myself doing what I wanted to do. Even though I knew that I didn't have a clue to the steps I needed to get me there, in my meditation I would see myself opening up to all of the possibilities of seeing the next step, then the next one then the next one. For me, it was a matter of being aware, aware and trusting that I truly was meant to do what that JOLT inspired within me. This video has given me another tool for finding those next steps. THANK YOU for your generosity in sharing.
SPOT ON MEL Visualizations change the world around you and in doing that it changes how you act. You have changed so many lives. I have a feeling you visualized doing that years ago when you started this journey.
Absolutely the perfect moment for me to have watched this. So glad Martha Beck did that for you so that now you can do that for us! The power of objectivity - what a great technique. About to invite Erma Bombeck and Dave Barry into my 'inner motivational circle' and take some long overdue action. I can't wait!
I love your content so much! It has helped me when I feel stuck. I actually reprinted your 2019 “let’s plan your best year ever” and went through it to prepare for 2022!❤️
There is a wonderful documentary "What would Sophia Loren do?" About the grandmother of Italian origin in USA. She would ask herself that question whenever she encountered obstacles in life. And it always helped her. That question came her intuitively 50 years ago. She didn't have any manual. Sofia Loren is her personal idol of course.
Thank you! I'm in a transition to a new job and I nervous about it but now I would say what Mel Robbins would do ? I frickin love your and thank you for the video.
Mel Robbins you know for what I am working right now?I am manifesting to meet you as soon as possible and I can't wait to meet you and hug you,because you change my life .I hear you and I see every single day your video because every single moment I learn new thing from you .I have in my life everything i want and you know what?Because YOU WAS THE KEY !!!!GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
OMG! That’s my life coach! I went to Martha Beck’s first classes in Arizona. Funny! I never got that vibe from her but I learned in a small group. I literally live my life as a life coach… not getting paid…:)
This is such a FABULOUS TOOL, Mel, and very original. Thank you so much ! I will use it for myself and my clients. I was using Quantum Jumping, which is working with my quantum "Double" who has it all, and then merging with this quantum Double, during visualization. I like the rational scientific approach in your method. The power of Objectivity as you name it. It's reassuring as not every body is comfortable with the quantum approach based on multi dimensions, parallel universes, or spirituality. Quantum Jumping is very powerful as well, it's a shortcut, but some people don't accept to practice it. Now, I will use both. Thank you again, you are a true BLESSING.
I was so good at this when I was 13 I didn't even try I would just sit in class and manifest for hours and eventually it all came I could see if I could feel it I could think of the steps and write them down
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Best Motivation. I own 2 laundromats in low income areas. I work about 25 hours a week and gross about 240K a year. whilst working with an advisor like Julianne Iwersen Niemann. I used to work in Sears repairs,, so I saved money by fixing my own machines. Believe it or not, the soap detergent vending machines bring in a good amount as well. Trust me starting and maintaining a profitable business starts with properly managing your finance. Stay Motivated!
Laundromats are easy to operate...I know this lady you mentioned. I bought a laundromat from a friend many years ago who retired overseas. Repairs are costly. Try to at least learn the basics. I have bill acceptor machines to exchange for tokens, much better than counting and hauling quarters . My locations are near low income housing and apartments, which are very good for business.
I owned 3 laundromats in SF. The biggest 3 issues? The Lease, the lease and the lease. Got screwed by two owners that didn't renew the lease. If you own the building, different story. Probably, it will not be bad to work with your advisor
Thank you for sharing, I must say, Julianne appears to be quite knowledgeable. After coming across her web page, I went through her resume and it was quite impressive.
The thing is people often doubt the prospects of financial advisors like Julianne Iwersen Niemann in business/markets today.
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this comment to know; Awakening is not changing who you are, but discarding who you are not ✨
Love this. Beautifully put 💖
AahHaa🤔
Lurve that!!xx
Wow ty for writing this
Beautiful
Starting my own small business is scary but I know it’s what im supposed to do. I have a dream of how many trucks I’ll have with my logo on each one. Starting with a pickup truck and under equipped but I will make it happen. In 1 year I will have 2 trucks with full service. Stopped being scared and making excuses for myself. Going to make it happen from the bottom! Good luck to anyone out there taking the leap. You aren’t alone
You got this!
Go for it..I love your energy. Of course you can do it. 👍
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Congratulations Jake, carry on your entrepreneurial journey. Keep Moving forward and stepping out of your comfort. zone. Success is already there, it's automatic when you expand your comfort zone
Cheers.
@@carynefuture5778 thank you!! Update …going strong and ahead of my 1 year goal. Have 2 trucks and fully decked out! Expanding and growing our business now in my area. Slow at times but I stay positive and keep it moving !
I’m 13. I’ve been listening to all of these speachs and reallllyyy really just getting into all of these manifestation tequique videos, and I just find them all really awesome. I really like to research about these stuff and use them in my daily life. Honestly, I feel like I’m gonna become a rlly cool person growing up if I start to use these stuff more with coping with my anxiety, procrastination, manifestation, etc. Mel robbins, you helped me a bunch, thanks :)
If you haven't read "The Alchemist", you need to. I didn't like his other books, but that one is excellent. The main idea is that you because rich by solving others' problems - even if you have little or no money at first.
Yay Congratulations You are if a perfect age to start out with this and Do not let anyone sway you..dont talk about your dreams and goals..then you will not have the negative people trying to bring you down to their unhappy level. Soar high and live love free young one..I send great vibes for you and your sucesses.❤
Try vipasana meditation as well ...
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Bro I’m 18 and was on this occult journey for years, but honestly all this pseudoscience did not make life better it actually made it too complicated and I was completely separated from reality. Now I visualize, treat others how I want to be treated, practice smiling and listen to positive affirmations while I sleep. Life is a million times better. I pray too.
I don’t “manifest” I just make it happen. I don’t read self improvement books anymore I read fantasy books now. Please do me a favor and look at the other side of RUclips showing the real truth behind these magical methods. God is the way. Not the divinity. Or higher consciousness.
Resonated with the visualization idea!
1. Visualize the future you interested
2. Visualize the steps, having trouble imaging it? Visualize Jesus is facing all problem and what will he do (leverage objectivity)
3. Feel in your body imaging you r doing the work
4. Take action
- good practice for presentations or taking bigger responsibility/steps out in work or reaching out to girls lol
Frequency: daily habit
Thank you for writing the steps out!!
it's really crazy how nobody is talking about the book the cosmic wealth frequencies on borlest
She is not over emphasising the power of manifestation. She just explained everything scientifically. Thank you for honesty
I've never put a name to it before, but this is EXACTLY what I've done in order to go after the things that I want and achieve what I've achieved so far. Another helpful trick, rather than to ask "What would (insert aspirational person's name here) do?" is to create an aspirational alter-ego version of yourself and ask what that super-charged you would do. Regular Me wouldn't dare conduct a live webinar in front of 400 attendees, but Super Me would!
Also, thanks so much for addressing what REAL manifestation is all about-it's not about sitting around trying to think and feel your way to the life of your dreams, there is real action involved as well. Thinking, feeling, and acting are all necessary components of manifestion.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
02:31 💡 Feeling stuck when manifesting is common. Visualizing the steps to achieve your goals can be challenging and lead to doubt and caution.
04:10 💪 Leveraging the power of objectivity can overcome mental blocks. Instead of visualizing yourself, imagine a friend or admired person doing the tasks you want to achieve.
08:44 🤔 "What would [someone you admire] do?" Use this question as a simple tool to make decisions when you're unsure of the steps to take toward your goals.
11:57 🏆 Leverage the power of objectivity to shift your mindset and become more creative and bold. It can lead to unexpected opportunities and career advancements.
13:47 🧭 Imagine yourself alongside the admired person doing the work. This visualization will help you take concrete steps towards your dreams and manifest your goals.
Made with HARPA AI. Love this tool to help optimize time. Thanks Mel for this great presentation
Thanks for this summary ⭐️
OMG! I have said for years that I'm going to start giving myself advice like I would give it to someone else! Awesome!
I use visualisation but I never imagined visualising my goals from the perspective of another person. That was really useful to learn. Thank you, Mel. 🙏
supposedly, one of our forefathers (I think it was Ben Franklin) used vidualization, but also visualized gurus - a set of 12 he selected mostly from long dead geniuses - to guide him through his goals, to ask him questions that lead him to the answers or at least to the creative process
This so resonates with myself too. I wish nothing but love and positivity to you and to whoever else is reading this. You got this ❤️
"Visualizing my goals from the perspective of another person". Thanks for another "tool for my tool box"! ✨🧘♀❤
Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan Immigrant writer, ecologist, entrepreneur...🇻🇪
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a long time. I was an actor years ago and gave up the dream but I know it’s my life purpose. I come up with all these excuses but when Mel was talking I immediately thought “what would Matt Damen do “? And then it came to me. Take massive action every day.
To anyone manifesting wealth, it’s already yours. If you believe this, hit like. 🙏💙
This is brilliant. In all of the 100s of manifestation videos and gurus I have watched over the years this is the first time I’m hearing this technique of objectivity.
This video has some real unique techniques.
Mel’s content is just brilliant
I don’t think anybody can’t imagine, visualisation is imagination it’s the same
Imagine your dream self every day
This person is just.... like my second mother, honest.
I am so grateful to have come across her.
My dream is to flip houses and I watch HGTV like its my job. I just had that energetic shock when you mentioned that. I will definately use these tips. Thank you so much Mel!
I keep it simple....only imagine the end results. The steps i want the best ones even if i dont know what they are. But i want my subconscious to find them for me...i do like the idea of power of objectivity...because if you think about it...thats the end result.. someone already where you want to be. The end result..seeing yourself there already.
Just my thoughts Renee....ie if my friend was sick , and I wanted to send healing
Prayers. I would (visualise her) and send them . What if I replaced her....the healing would go to the person you've visualised.
Hope it makes sense....some one at the door
OMG .. thanks for that last Video… last week I filled out your survey and it flowed like a river…each question just felt I had been waiting all year to find a place to lean into the moment to send you my Gratitude for all you do for your audience..and how much I have appreciated you in my kitchen, bathroom (doing my high 5 ) and in my office researching on You Tube. Yes, we are in such a time that we can be in our own homes listening to you. THANK YOU THANK YOU..!!!!
I just watched four of your videos. I’ve been struck hard by everything you have said!! I am crying because it all was exactly what I needed to hear!! I am publishing that book!
Good luck, share your book with us when it’s officially published...! 🙏
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*"The past always looks better than it was. It's only pleasant because it isn't here." - Finley Peter Dunne*
Could say the same about the future?
Funny thing, after I have reflected (for the last 17 years) on the 31 years of marriage to my late husband, I realize now that it wasn’t as rosy as I had convinced myself it was….it was an illusion. I lied to myself to ‘get through’ it. I did not realize this then, living in the moment.
So, no. We do not always think the past was better…..if we can manage to be honest with ourselves.
The only thing that may make it better are the fact that we were younger, prettier, more handsome, less pain, or any number of reasons like that.
But the past for some, is not a better place for our minds to dwell.
@@gracebe235 it’s self preservation! But then from there we can always build more and build better! If you chose to!
@@TheKaraqi4 That is interesting & I wonder how this way of thinking changes things.
I am sometimes scared of the future, but usually think things should be better in a year or 2, compared to the present, I mean for things like career, money. I also think sometimes the past was better, that I missed opportunities. Main challenge for me is to focus in the present.
I don't agree Demetrì
I've been visualizing, affirmation use and even writing my new self for over 25 years. Any longer I may not be around. Hasn't worked but fantasies are fun to escape reality.
Today I used the power of objectivity. I started an LLC and have everything setup, made a beautiful webpage and was scared to finally promote it to get clients. I was afraid to post it then i said "What would Mel Robbins do?" I knew you would say to do it and that i was one step away from achieving my goal. I uploaded my post after that! Not sure i could have done that had i not found your videos this weekend 😊 You’re changing lives!
love you Mel, each time i listen to you I move on a notch. thanks for staying in touch.
I only recently discovered Mel Robbins and I have read/heard a ton of Self-Improvement people. She definitely has changed my life. And..... for the first time ever, I actually believe and get what Mel is saying about Manifestation. Before Mel, I was tired of reading the same woo-woo stuff about LoA and manifesting and the frustration of that not working.
This is GOLD! she is correct 100%,. Manifest the STEPS needed to reach your goal. Successful manifestation of your end goal depends how you deal with the "Mean Time"...the time in between initiation of the goal process and final fruition. Thank you, Mel, you are friggin' amazing!
This reminds me of Jim Cathcart and his daily question “How would the person I’d like to be, do the things I’m about to do?” - I’ve used this, not daily as I should have, many times and have been amazed at the results - I’m not nearly as lazy, at participating in my own life, when I do, lol!
thank you for putting this in such an accessible way. i needed this
this is SO good and way better than the traditional "visualize the end goal" thing which isn't wrong to do but always makes me feel like a loser. This way doesn't.
Did you actually read enough Neville to see what you were doing wrong?🤔
This is soooooooo true!!! Anytime I'm stuck in a decision, I ask myself "What would you tell your daughter?" All of a sudden Im giving myself the BEST and clearest advice.😂
It is sooo true what you say! I am consulting other entrepreneurs, and EVERY day, I think. Why is it so much easier to motivate, inspire and coach everyone else? And as you say: I feel more creative, more motivating too, and also a much better coach when I help others than try to get my own s. done!
Do you have a coach?
@@spontaneousjane I do, thank you!
I love how you are so generous with your insights Mel. Thank you.
This is the best piece of advice I've received this year. Thank God for your life Mel ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love seeing your face & hearing your voice pop up here … energetic shift for sure! Thanks Mel!🙏🏼💥
Hard touched by the video. Small tears and a warm heart ❤️ thank you for you as a friend to fill up as a companion
Wonderful for the self visualization thru consciousnes thy will be done.Service to humanity is to make others Happy. Congratulation
Hello friend! I often wake up in the middle of the night and overhear some sort of internal conversation going on that seems important. I now know it to be my guidance crew. I have received several really cool bits of info and leading that have felt so yummy and so true that it has been a big part of my anticipation about going to bed at night....knowing I may receive some kind of important guidance or insight for my life. What I heard two nights ago was (paraphrased) "be like Mel Robbins, not to emulate her, but to borrow from her confidence and her way of moving through the world". The thing is, I really hadn't seen any of your work! I have been reading like a mad fool, Martha Beck included, but hadn't had any connection yet to you or what you stood for. So, this middle-of-the-night intro to you was out of left field. I just listened to you being interviewed by Jonathan Fields and what you said about scarcity absolutely pulsed into my soul. This video just made me smile from ear to ear. It is the essence of the message I heard two nights ago. Be like Mel Robbins, but not really, be yourself entirely. I love how Spirit is working. Thank you for this message and I look forward to hearing more of the work you're doing.
woah, this blows my mind...oh my gosh---i used that tool as a teenager, but I am going to bring it back "what would ____ do" thank you for this
I resigned for my job for 3 years because it’s not giving me fulfillment and now I am walking to the unknown but I know what I really want and I’ve been a frustrated Entrepreneur and I think it’s about time. It seems like everything is falling apart but somehow it feel its falling into its places. This video is really for me. Thanks Mel 🙏✨
I has this feeling when I saw people on Instagram with 100+ houseplants. I love houseplants! I had 100 houseplants and a grow system set up in 6 months. I need to tap into that feeling. Have a tour at the gym scheduled for tomorrow, and a meeting to set up an excercise plan. Thanks for being here Mel!
I have used visualization as described by Mel. But I still don’t get much done on my own. So I’m going to hire some folks to help me get stuff done, because I’m 72 years old! I need to get stuff done! I don’t have time to do it all by myself! So indirectly this has helped me! Wow!!!
5:55am and Mel giving me what I need. love you.
I just got goosebumps all over when you spoke about the article and what happend next ! Thank you for sharing !!! i am a hug fan of you and your work!! Big hug from munich
This makes total sense. It always helps to start something you are apprehensive to do when a friend goes along with you on the journey. Let’s all make Mel Robbins that friend.
See you on the other side: successful and happy!
this found me right on time. thanks 4 this. i nearly shed a tear, literally. Universe is strange.
Exactly what Mel said. "You just know." I attended University of the District of Columbia when I graduated from H.S. in 1985. I did two two semesters then entered a college program at a school in DC that was about 9 - 10months program and did really well, got honors. One day, I received this elongated brochure full color of Southeastern University that was located here in Washington, D.C. and I thought to myself, I'm going to graduate from this school." It was an innate feeling. I got a job at a bank, doing wire transfer after finishing that 9 month diploma program from the second college. Eight months in that job, I enrolled into the fall semester at Southeastern and finished in '91, got my degree B.S. with honors in computer information systems June 92'. Well, life changes things and this and the other, so I'm not working in the computer field and actually, after several attempts before, looking to get work for my self, finally, and earn my own worth. But what Mel said before, "You just know." 😊🙏🏼
This is pure gold, thank you SO much Mel! I really resonate with that download / zing / ping / gravitational pull you were talking about at the start of the video when you see someone doing something you want to do with your life and you think: "oh my gosh, that's it!" About 5 years ago, I volunteered for Gabby Bernstein's The Universe Has Your Back book tour in San Fransisco and I was working on getting my own tech start-ups off the ground at the time. I saw her speak that night and felt that download of "this is what I need to be doing with my life too." Fast forward 5 years later, I just traditionally published my very first book last year (it's called P.S. You're A Genius) and here I am, promoting my book, sharing my message, speaking to groups, and it's incredible!! I am so excited to see what other dreams come my way through the power of that download / zing / ping!!!
Thank you for all you do from East coast of Canada 🇨🇦
Mel, you are wonderful and relatable. I've had trouble with motivation when there's no deadline. Need to step into the person who can get things done when don't 'have to' but 'want to'!
Set your own deadline and follow it very strictly.
My struggle also
Thanks Mel.
It is me.
Yes, it is always easier to give advice to other people than it is to yourself. 👍
Something is meant for you🌎 Thanks.
Oh my God this video came at the perfect time. I love you woman!
This is absolute gold! Honestly felt a shift straight away and all the self talk and doubt feel to one side 👏🏼👏🏼
Excellent advice...thanks for sharing!
Many thanks, Mel!!
When I was a kid my father would always talk about manifestations, I remember we were playing a board game and every time he’d roll a six then he said I would roll a six and I did, ever since then iv always wanted to learn more about it.
Amazing! It not just what Mel says but how she says it! Truly captivating!
omgg ~ this will change my life !! just needed this !!
This video has made me so excited thinking about the possibilities. What would my friend Mel Robbins do 🤔
I have manifested my dreams from 3 years ago and now my dreams are so big that I had honestly forgotten that I have achieved my dream once. Now it's time for a bigger dream and I’m ready to do the work.
This has been me all my life. It’s what has stopped me from succeeding.
thanks very inspiring. i just got your book. I treated myself to a christmas gift. god bless.
Thanks, I always use visualisation for my goals, first time I heard the objectivity now I'm gonna use that.
I am a big fan. I want to learn only from you on how to become a great speaker I will do whatever it takes
I was so in doubt to pursue my network marketing career again... But when I saw someone who have done it 3x rebuilding and starting from being alone, I FELT THE EXTREME BOOST IN ENERGY like how is he was doing that, or i want to be like as strong as him. I think it's a huge sign of high energy vibration that I should do it again. Thanks Mel same as you saw Martha. ☝️☝️☝️☝️
Wow! This is mindblowing. Thank you Mel Robbins. I Have the power of the Power of Objectivity.
I love everything about this video. I can relate to your story of seeing Martha Beck and getting that jolt of, "OH YEAH! THAT is what I want to be doing." In the past, I would hold my vision of myself doing what I wanted to do. Even though I knew that I didn't have a clue to the steps I needed to get me there, in my meditation I would see myself opening up to all of the possibilities of seeing the next step, then the next one then the next one. For me, it was a matter of being aware, aware and trusting that I truly was meant to do what that JOLT inspired within me. This video has given me another tool for finding those next steps. THANK YOU for your generosity in sharing.
Your Awesome ! Very inspiring! Thank you!!!
Wow love this video definitely going to share with my family and friends
SPOT ON MEL Visualizations change the world around you and in doing that it changes how you act. You have changed so many lives. I have a feeling you visualized doing that years ago when you started this journey.
Brilliant! What would Mel Robbins do? The power of objectivity!!
Hello Mel, thank's for this video and your time
Self doubt, take action and overcome...Very nice Mel / Thanks. I am looking forward to achieving success...and make the World better on the way 🌎
DAMN. You're advice is so good.
Thanks for this and all the great tools and information that you share with us. Peace and 🙌
Absolutely the perfect moment for me to have watched this. So glad Martha Beck did that for you so that now you can do that for us! The power of objectivity - what a great technique. About to invite Erma Bombeck and Dave Barry into my 'inner motivational circle' and take some long overdue action. I can't wait!
Thanks so much for this! My copy of The High 5 Habit arrived today and I'm so excited to read it!
I love your content so much! It has helped me when I feel stuck. I actually reprinted your 2019 “let’s plan your best year ever” and went through it to prepare for 2022!❤️
There is a wonderful documentary "What would Sophia Loren do?" About the grandmother of Italian origin in USA. She would ask herself that question whenever she encountered obstacles in life. And it always helped her.
That question came her intuitively 50 years ago. She didn't have any manual.
Sofia Loren is her personal idol of course.
I love your energy, your Positive Energy... Blessings 🌅🌅
Thank you! I'm in a transition to a new job and I nervous about it but now I would say what Mel Robbins would do ? I frickin love your and thank you for the video.
This was the best visualisation tool I have ever heard!
It was useful thank you 🌹❤️
i love you so much and i'm so lucky that i know you and i have the opportunity to educate myself by you
Mel Robbins you know for what I am working right now?I am manifesting to meet you as soon as possible and I can't wait to meet you and hug you,because you change my life .I hear you and I see every single day your video because every single moment I learn new thing from you .I have in my life everything i want and you know what?Because YOU WAS THE KEY !!!!GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
I owe a great deal of my success to your advice, Star Friend. Your insights have truly made a difference.
OMG! Thank you!!! I needed this video ;)
Thankyou thankyou thankyou
What would Mel Robbins Do!!!
So grateful to your words of wisdom. Love from a new youtuber
Thanks for reminding me about the shiver experience, I’ve been forcing things lately and lost touch with it.
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Love you and your content!
OMG! That’s my life coach! I went to Martha Beck’s first classes in Arizona. Funny! I never got that vibe from her but I learned in a small group. I literally live my life as a life coach… not getting paid…:)
BIG THANKS FOR THESE WORDS, I’m already on fire 🙏🙏 🔥🔥
Very much appreciated 🧘🏽♂️🍃
Hello Mel Robbins 🌎 Thanks.
This is such a FABULOUS TOOL, Mel, and very original. Thank you so much ! I will use it for myself and my clients. I was using Quantum Jumping, which is working with my quantum "Double" who has it all, and then merging with this quantum Double, during visualization. I like the rational scientific approach in your method. The power of Objectivity as you name it. It's reassuring as not every body is comfortable with the quantum approach based on multi dimensions, parallel universes, or spirituality. Quantum Jumping is very powerful as well, it's a shortcut, but some people don't accept to practice it. Now, I will use both. Thank you again, you are a true BLESSING.
You have become my mentor for my journey in life...i love you❤🙏
Thank you so much for this video Mel.
It's going to be really helpful for sure.. and to a lot of people.
God Bless you 🙏🏻😇
I was so good at this when I was 13 I didn't even try I would just sit in class and manifest for hours and eventually it all came I could see if I could feel it I could think of the steps and write them down