'The universe is conspiring against me...'

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2023
  • Story time! I felt inspired to share with you what I learned after I let go of the resistance of feeling defeated by not successfully transferring my baby to his bed after 4 attempts. I should note that I never actually had the thought "God is conspiring against me" I'm just exaggerating for the purposes of this example, I personally have faith in God and I share with you what my unwavering belief is in this video.
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Комментарии • 87

  • @Daisylilly_
    @Daisylilly_ 8 месяцев назад +19

    You and Stefan seem to be perfectionist, I watched your videos before baby and you seemed to map out eevryrhing and expected it to go a certain way and it seem like it often did go your way, you attained success and your goals but when it came to the baby you finally realized God is in control not you, you can’t control a baby he’s controlled by the heavens you guys seem really humbled.

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  8 месяцев назад +12

      Haha yes there is a lot of truth in this! I wouldn’t say I’m a perfectionist I just have very high standards for myself and how I show up and I’ve realized now how i have rlly high standards for the type of mom I want to be for Lucas so I’m very selfless when it comes to him but I e seen now how that’s not always a good thing. So I’ve been doing a lot of letting go of trying to meet those standards all the time.

  • @TheLadyDred
    @TheLadyDred 8 месяцев назад +7

    Cherish the moments that you have with him right now as a mother of four with three teenagers. That time goes by so fast. I'm so glad that you came to the realization that God was letting you know to be present with that beautiful sweet baby because that is the most important

  • @marciejade1408
    @marciejade1408 8 месяцев назад +6

    Oh gosh my now 20 year old daughter was the baby queen of opening her eyes when I thought I had a chance to get a moment. I tell her now she was my stalker lol. My son was the complete opposite and I had to wake him up after having too much time for myself . These times go by so fast so enjoy them ❤

  • @Rac2nd
    @Rac2nd 8 месяцев назад +12

    Tatiana is back 🫡

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson1477 8 месяцев назад +5

    You should know you sound like a great mother, keep it up!

  • @TheEternalTranquilitySounds
    @TheEternalTranquilitySounds 8 месяцев назад +5

    Beautifully said! Awareness is everything

  • @valsbeautylife7196
    @valsbeautylife7196 8 месяцев назад +9

    Tatiana, this was so enjoyable to hear. What a great reminder for everyone! It brought me to tears because as a mother myself, I do get caught up in thinking of the future, but then catch myself and bring myself back to the present.
    Btw I'm not sure if you're aware, but when babies start changing their sleep patterns, It usually means they are going to meet a new developmental milestone. 🙂
    I gotta give you props because I would've given up at the second transfer. 😂
    You're an amazing mama ❤️

  • @JW99736
    @JW99736 8 месяцев назад +3

    The Greeks call these “negative thoughts” - Logismoi. In the ancient Greek Christian tradition, these are considered to be like arrows that spirits with evil intentions are constantly shooting into your mind…exposing them and protecting yourself by connecting with God are great ways to neutralize their impact. I find that when I really take the time and discipline to pray/meditate on God every single day (preferably both morning and night) I just have soooooo much more natural peace throughout the day, I think because making that conscious effort to connect or become closer to God…really truly does strengthen that bond and connection, and it does take regular effort to maintain because the Logismoi will continue to attack us, because they want our attention and…they don’t sleep…lol.
    I love your realization after all of those things happened! Great lesson!

  • @victoriazhang3413
    @victoriazhang3413 8 месяцев назад +2

    “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
    ‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭NIV‬
    Sending you so much love and prayers for this time for you to experience peace and meditate on God and for the Holy Spirit to bring you comfort🤍🧸

  • @makeupaddictive381
    @makeupaddictive381 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this content! Thank you ❤️

  • @MamaMilkBubbles
    @MamaMilkBubbles 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love you, sis ❤ You've got this.

  • @luxtravel4970
    @luxtravel4970 8 месяцев назад +2

    So happy to see your uploads!

  • @Spancy
    @Spancy 8 месяцев назад +2

    Loved this so much and needed it. Will be rewatching regularly to help bring me back to awareness ❤

  • @XercesWoop
    @XercesWoop 8 месяцев назад +4

    Everything happens for us ,your right. I felt similar this morning too, thank you for posting this video :)

  • @nicholaspindler3066
    @nicholaspindler3066 8 месяцев назад

    I really needed to hear this today! Thank you!💜

  • @bandmakers
    @bandmakers 8 месяцев назад +3

    You are so inspiring and every video you create I learn so much from. Please keep sharing all your knowledge with us 😅 I try to remind myself to be aware and present all the time and remind myself that God is always on my side! Thank you for this reminder ❤

  • @07marchcat
    @07marchcat 8 месяцев назад

    Great video! Thank you! This is gem!

  • @softlaunchinc
    @softlaunchinc 8 месяцев назад +1

    I really needed to hear this this morning 🤍🤍

  • @thyharmony8
    @thyharmony8 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love this thanks for Sharing Tatiana, so resonates ❤❤

  • @ElenaDenisaOfficial
    @ElenaDenisaOfficial 8 месяцев назад +2

    This really spoke to me right now ❤ thanks Tatiana

  • @lamialaaraichi877
    @lamialaaraichi877 8 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful story, love you Tatiana🧡

  • @tmamasaurusrex3895
    @tmamasaurusrex3895 8 месяцев назад +2

    The world is a better place because you exist. Thank you.

  • @Imeemee4
    @Imeemee4 8 месяцев назад +1

    Such a beautiful message ❤❤

  • @tinoroselyn2783
    @tinoroselyn2783 8 месяцев назад

    Tatiana you are a blessing

  • @RameshKumar-ng3nf
    @RameshKumar-ng3nf 8 месяцев назад +5

    Please do share the secret of your fitness . How to reduce belly fat quickly ? Any tips will be helpful 🙏🏻

  • @anngeisheimer
    @anngeisheimer 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sad to say coffee sometimes is the best part of my day so I totally understand! You are a great mom, wife and human Tatiana!

  • @adrianaheredia900
    @adrianaheredia900 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this moments with us. I have a 5 year old and it’s sad to remember that I missed lots of this moments and all because I had negative thoughts at the moment and didn’t know how to come to the present moment! Thank you!!!!

  • @SandraDidzgalvyte
    @SandraDidzgalvyte 8 месяцев назад

    I love that your being so honest and genuine. I have a baby too, and it’s really nice to listen to you because I can relate so much! Thanks so much for making these videos 🌸

  • @melanygost6934
    @melanygost6934 8 месяцев назад

    Really thank you, this video came just in the perfect time❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 8 месяцев назад +1

    Yayyy!! Finally Finally Tatiana is back with a new video and your videos are really really helpful to me in my life and I wish you have a best week ahead🥺🥺💫💖

  • @nr6701
    @nr6701 8 месяцев назад

    Love this video ❤❤❤

  • @lessacamains
    @lessacamains 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this message! I really needed to hear this. Happiness is a choice. In presence you can shift your thoughts to gratitude and faithfulness. ❤❤❤

  • @RosaVazquez
    @RosaVazquez 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love Kobe in the video !!
    Thank you for sharing .. I have a 2 year old and a four month old baby and definitely needed to hear this !
    Thanks so much ❤

  • @ApplesThatRead
    @ApplesThatRead 8 месяцев назад +2

    These are really amazing problems in my view! I wish my morning was like that when it's not going my way. I'll keep this in mind when I'm having a difficult moment, someone else might be grateful to have my problems, too 😁

  • @knowen32
    @knowen32 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @luxtravel4970
    @luxtravel4970 8 месяцев назад +6

    Loved this video! I will say it did make me a bit sad 😢 to know that you feel the need to dull down/use different words for what you believe in. Being afraid or nervous to stand in your truth with god to prevent others from feeling offended is so sad and I did really feel bad for everyone who feels that way❤

    • @gissybatyah
      @gissybatyah 8 месяцев назад

      Truly

    • @PeterAcrat
      @PeterAcrat 8 месяцев назад

      🤔I had these thoughts I though I'd share with 'insightful kindness' and respect.
      The paradox here; is that while Tatiana is her own 'version' of _everyone_ anyway (as she is the one applying meaning to the reflection from others she is witness to), she is _likely_ simply showing _genuine empathy in validation of others_ with the realisation _they_ may hold their own versions of her, which may be expressed to varying degrees, as being in conflict with who she personally _knows herself_ to be.
      🖼 Frame is important also: Your 'sadness' is _probably_ coming from a judgement you hold about those 'others;' in that it appears to be your own style of 'feeling offended' at those others who feel offended.
      It is yet another paradox. And yet such presuppositions are often where one's 3D power gets 'messed up' - if the 3D view (Good Vs Bad - at the expense of acceptance) is insisted on.

  • @Energy.Healer
    @Energy.Healer 8 месяцев назад

    Exactly ❤❤❤❤… take it slow and enjoy your baby ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @athinahaadji
    @athinahaadji 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wow resonated so much, Surrender - i am taking this with me

  • @alexklara816
    @alexklara816 8 месяцев назад

    great video, you and your family are blessings, that ring is shining

  • @blist245
    @blist245 8 месяцев назад +1

    a very inspiring reminder

  • @StellaDreamMix
    @StellaDreamMix 23 дня назад

    LMAO amazing, the story of my life was this most of the time.
    Yes, sometimes I get attached to that one thing of the day that makes me feel miserable, I'm learning to let my life feel like a journey and let myself be happier in the present.

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks a lot girl.
    Have a good Night 😊👍

  • @elizabethpsy4403
    @elizabethpsy4403 8 месяцев назад

    So inspiring this video🫶💛

  • @naimaabdi6933
    @naimaabdi6933 8 месяцев назад

    I know how you felt because I felt like that with my now nearly four year old , but you learn so much about yourself through baby

  • @k888k
    @k888k 8 месяцев назад +4

    555 views
    This is certainly a message for me ❤

  • @shdsjsja.d
    @shdsjsja.d 8 месяцев назад +1

    You're a perfectionist that's the problem. I don't have kids but I'm a nanny I know babies are challenging but if you flow more with the day stuff will be easier for you!

  • @516estrela
    @516estrela 8 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤ ur a positive role model to me:)

  • @user-do2pc9ii2r
    @user-do2pc9ii2r 8 месяцев назад +3

    Wow it’s been a while since I have seen your videos. Congrats on being a parent… it will teach you more about life more than anything else. Well it has me… that and being a combat veteran.

  • @elydan6049
    @elydan6049 8 месяцев назад

    You in this beautiful hammock!! Like a dream!!! Very beautiful
    Thank you for bringing this subject because sometimes I also think this thought so we got to be mindful of thought projected

  • @christinadonovan5117
    @christinadonovan5117 8 месяцев назад +6

    If you can girl have a friend come watch him for a little bit if you don’t feel comfortable with a sitter I wish I had that luxury but if you’re feeling mom guilt don’t hesitate to look for community to you and every other mama reading this 🙏

  • @stephenhawkins9476
    @stephenhawkins9476 8 месяцев назад

    Where has this woman been?! And never leave us again!!!!!!!!!🦄T👑

  • @Boats_N_Hoez
    @Boats_N_Hoez 8 месяцев назад +7

    So, you gave birth 6 months ago you need to let motherhood take over and not worry about staying active. You need to focus and be with baby. Don’t worry about what your body looks like. If you’re tired, SLEEP while he sleeps!!! Be okay with what some call “lazy” in reality it’s perfectly good to do this when you are breast feeding, it takes half your energy! You’ll be okay if you accept true motherhood since you’re at home mom. Calm down and be with baby:) meal prep, sleep, soft yoga… do calming things

  • @marklewis1884
    @marklewis1884 8 месяцев назад

    Keep calm and carry on

  • @creativesexpression4929
    @creativesexpression4929 7 месяцев назад

    For me raising my son was about stepping out of my rational conscious mind that can lead to overthinking and letting go of control and stepping into an intuitive instinctive way of being. And my son never ever slept separated from me lol . x

  • @stephenhawkins9476
    @stephenhawkins9476 8 месяцев назад

    Oh she's a Mom!! I get it!! 🤌🏽Bless you Woman! 💝👑

  • @marylouminati
    @marylouminati 8 месяцев назад +1

    If you made a playlist with videos you have on leading your mind / emotions, that would be very helpful! I have noticed before that you are incredible at it! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @PeterAcrat
    @PeterAcrat 8 месяцев назад

    I love your insight, intentions and the growth-on-the-fly you share here. I ALSO want to highlight one point, to "intervene" on the chance of unintentionally perpetuating conflicts through a 'narrowed distortion':
    👉- 5:17 An Astrologist 'worships' the stars no more than a weather forecaster 'worships' the atmosphere. They are 'cosmic weather forecasters'.
    🙏I would ask the uber-religious :please be kind to astrologers, as they are simply people who have a passion and curiosity for the cycles and patterns outside the planet, just like the person who studies atmospheric info within it ☮

  • @triplex278
    @triplex278 8 месяцев назад

    Reminds me of : “The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.” Dr. Charles Swindoll

  • @nicelookash
    @nicelookash 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is the day im having and the mindset im having, so I'll be giving this video my full attention lol

  • @swatipai168
    @swatipai168 8 месяцев назад +2

    You are saying everything Sadhguru said in his videos few years ago. Its nice to see you put it in practice in your life. I still struggle sometimes

  • @jennifermarie8979
    @jennifermarie8979 8 месяцев назад

    We can only control how we react to things👌

  • @sabrinajaber
    @sabrinajaber 8 месяцев назад

    Im a mom as well! Please do more videos when you can 🤗💗🙏

  • @sachabey
    @sachabey 8 месяцев назад

    Some amazing insights here. Curious to know how your priorities changed between success and spirituality and how it was for a productive high achiever to feel the importance of slowing down and feeling more. For some of us, the orders are reversed and the importance of depth/feeling comes before the importance of success. Keep going, you’re doing great ))

  • @krissozz
    @krissozz 8 месяцев назад +2

    Mine is 4 months. And its tought. He sleeps through the night but not so much of napping through day. And theres not much i can do. Butbi learned already in hospital to eat and drink while the little man eats..

  • @liveforkingjesus
    @liveforkingjesus 8 месяцев назад

    God is good

  • @jacobcherian4384
    @jacobcherian4384 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice great wisdom. It is a long story, it is not a perfect world Batman 1989

  • @marketacomorkova9944
    @marketacomorkova9944 8 месяцев назад

    Hi Tatiana, I absolutely believe in everything you are saying the only problem I have with this are the moments like when people get tortured to death by other people or animals, all the wars, or the Holocaust. where is the bigger picture in that, that is my struggle..

  • @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets
    @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets 8 месяцев назад +1

    Greetings from California. Good video, Mrs. Tatiana James. Happy autumn from our channel: Australian Parakeets Stars * Prince Alexander

  • @gissybatyah
    @gissybatyah 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hola!

  • @cherainee5160
    @cherainee5160 8 месяцев назад +2

    5:56 when you say God is everything.. what about the pockets of evil that exist in different areas all around the world? Just curious how you feel about the evil forces, are they part of the universe and God?

  • @johnparra7501
    @johnparra7501 8 месяцев назад +1

    You are a Goddess! You rule the Universe.

  • @lexyabby278
    @lexyabby278 8 месяцев назад

    Oh one thing I should have added to my previous comment is that she had 3 little kids when she was diagnosed with MS at age 31 ...but life was about the kids totally and that kept her out of her Own thoughts.

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 8 месяцев назад +3

    0:10 You are perfectly gorgeous, ngl

  • @gissybatyah
    @gissybatyah 8 месяцев назад +6

    God Created the universe

  • @lexyabby278
    @lexyabby278 8 месяцев назад

    Most mom's drink coffee on the run 😂
    And my sister drops her phone and can't pick it up because she has MS and can't get out of the wheelchair...

  • @bongjamesbong00420
    @bongjamesbong00420 8 месяцев назад

    I want all the smoke

  • @martycapetz9300
    @martycapetz9300 8 месяцев назад +3

    C’mon Tatyana, just say “God “and let the pagans deal with who you really are.

  • @diinta6468
    @diinta6468 7 месяцев назад

    I wish you were able look for Islam ☪️ ! - this is the way of life. Being a muslim doesn't make you have less problems, but it will make your priorities straight. If you only knew the rewards for being a Mother by Allah.

  • @joshblacker3232
    @joshblacker3232 8 месяцев назад

    God created the universe. Worship him only romans 1 says they worshipped the creation rather than the creator. why you might say, because they didn't want the true God. They wanted God to be what they wanted him to be. So they reject the God of the Bible who has standards and morals that people don't want to follow

    • @Gameking92888
      @Gameking92888 2 месяца назад

      😂😂 how do you know that because man told you that? You're a programed npc

  • @XOMelissaQue
    @XOMelissaQue 4 месяца назад

    What I don’t understand is why you don’t just put the baby down and let them go back to sleep? Sometimes they fuss but they need to know how to go to sleep on their own anyway. Also where is your husband? Why isn’t he helping you? It seems like you’re doing it all on your own. 🤷‍♀️

  • @sonjagrubisa3439
    @sonjagrubisa3439 8 месяцев назад

    The New Testament is the best resource on learning how to surrender to God’s will, not yours.

  • @marylouminati
    @marylouminati 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was very interesting! I’d love for you to talk more about awareness of thoughts and emotions and how to lead yourself in it. It is very empowering but very complex! 🙏🏻 I appreciate you and I admire your strength as a person. I look up to you for that! 🩷