Your Looks Are Your Personality
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- Your looks are your personality. In this video I discuss this topic. Many guys are gaslighted into not having success with females, it's because they are lacking in personality. The reality is you just don't meet their looks criteria.
When you are the girls first option and choice, things will be very smooth and easygoing. You will never feel like you have to work hard to do simple things. Hold her hand, kiss her, it's doubtful that she will give you a hard time with things like this.
When you are good looking, you are naturally confident and possess some baseline level of charisma and personality. It's because all your life you've had positive reaffirming from others. The less attractive guy in contrast, because they hadd never received this treatment, may have low self esteem, etc.
This is not to say looks are your entire personality but a lot of women's perception of your personality will be directly linked to how good looking you are. It's the same way with guys who tolerate poor treatment/personality from a very attractive female. It's because in their mind, despite her flaws, the male may choose to disregard them just because she's good looking.
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"Looks are your personality" is another way of saying "Personality doesn't matter." Which it no longer does.
@@Mehlmanmedical ya. Not as much of it matters as much as guys like to lead themselves to believe. Insofar as you're not a complete weirdo, semi-confident and somewhat normal, which most guys probably are
It does matter, but the external is what draws us in to gaf about what’s inside.
With that said, even hot D or hot cat can get boring/old if that’s all that’s offered
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Facts, looks determine mostly how you will be treated not just with women but life in general.
I've met many men i considered attractive, but he was a jerk or we didn't have chemistry. So yes, it was personality.
The point of the video is not about extremes. And in many cases females still won't care insofar as the male is good looking
@@nilechtv People tend to try to overlook bad behavior if the other person is good-looking regardless of their sex. It's called halo effect. The question is for how long they're willing tolerate it.
I think you might be surrounding yourself with shallow or immature people. Not eveyrone is like this. In fact, I've known very few women like this.
Some stayed a bit with toxic men, because they caught feelings, but it almost invariably ended in separation.
personality matters but looks matter a lot more.
@@nothing563019 ya looks are most important but there are workarounds for normal or even uglier guys
Solid clip
Its not even that serious holmes you shouldn't care.
appearance is indeed a big aspect of our personality. But remember that this is just a superficial view. A deep connection looks further than the physical appearance. It's easy to generalize and put people in boxes. Are you looking for the right lady?
@@zhaneharred2709 it's not to say you can be an airhead. Even in some situations like that women will not care. Look at felon Jeremy Meeks for example, despite being a criminal, has women sending him love letters, etc. The point is guys with plenty of personality are still struggling, and a lot. Even those who are decent looking but not in the upper upper tier of looks.
A man might not look the most attractive to you at first and that can rapidly change when you get to know him. And the other way around. However there's some things that should be there I think (like looking presentable) I'm sure you'll eventually find someone that's just right for you!
I agree. But in a non-social circle context, most men won't get many chances to get to know the female for long enough to be the case. Because he will get ghosted or she won't meet up again. I appreciate your thoughts and discussion.
@@nilechtv there's still people out there who don't do the ghosting shit, fortunately :)
@@clau_sing_ 100% and I have huge respect for those people
but don’t men do the same thing? 🤭 they put emphasis on looks first too, don’t they ..
Most males will happily stay around with a girl if she is equal looks level. Women won't majority of the time
@@nilechtvnah men place a higher emphasis on looks compared to women. Women place a higher emphasis on finances
@@redsalviarathi3695 And sense of humor, intelligence, work ethics, generosity and altruism (maybe even more than finances ).
@@nilechtv "equal looks level?" what does it mean?
@@user-yk9ry2nn8e it means if you are a 6/10 man, then you should easily be able to attracf a 6/10 female. Equal looks rating
I like a man's energy and that can come in a variety of sizes and shapes.
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Meanwhile you'd reject a guy with "our personalities didn't match" for not meeting your height requirement
There are women who date shorter guys. I am one of them.
@@NatureFreak1127 Of course there are exceptions. That doesn't make it the norm.
@@nilechtv Yes, in this case i agree. But how do you know the woman would say "our personalities don't match"? I would just say the attraction isn't there, sorry. Also, there is a more forgiving angle - if a woman says this, it might be an attempt not to hurt the guy's feelings if she doesn't find him attractive.