Thank you! We should probably stop wasting our time reading or watching articles about signs of autism or worrying wether he has it or not, I will instead use my time to play and have fun with my child while he was young. With or without autism, he's still our child and we love him. And I think, that's what matters the most. Thank you for this video again! We really appreciate it.
great video mom! I am the parent to a now 12 year old boy on the spectrum. When he was diagnosed at 4 he had completely regressed from talking and walking flat foot to non verbal, tippy toe walking all the time and many behaviors that were to say the least, Scary (self harm etc...) If you see my son today, you wouldnt even know he is the same boy! Although dont get me wrong joshua was ALways very sweet but in His way, bc he never really needed hugs or my approval. I will tell you and this is without a ton of therapy in fact he only had therapy for 2 and a half years total! He has the rest of the time been home with me, and I give hugs, tell him i love him and he goes Everywhere with me always....(maybe i wouldnt say that is the best bc you need to refuel too!:)) But today (and we have a channel about Joshua as well) he is doing FABULOUS, Loving, NO self harm, melt downs are almost always predicted and stopped b4 they happen, completely and Extremely VERBAL...lol! He still comes with many challenges and struggles bc of course each year comes with new tween angst lol but We are getting through it and Joshua is doing fabulous, and he hasnt had therapy in years (I am Definitely Not supporting "No therapy' either bc at a certain time in his life that is what worked for him, and the only thing that would have worked. When it stopped working we stopped it) so we eventually pulled him from all of it and today we have a very healthy, happy, loving and now even looking towards his future 12 year old boy! We are also now looking at what he wants to do with his life (he edits film and does videos plus much more!) and autism is just what he was diagnosed with and thats it! I hope ALL families can learn to find that "thing" that works with their child but please do not give up bc there is so much fun, love and life with these incredibly talented kids(we have met a lot of kids with autism since starting our channel and journey) Work towards what Your child needs bc they are all different! Sending this in Love and much Support to all mommas and dads struggling and if you need anything ever, just ask me! I am on facebook, twitter and IG too! Xx Great video you guys🤗💜👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Please reply iam an autism mom for 5 years old.which age your boy had communicated with you. What types of therapy you had done for him.now his condition is normal. Iam so depressed. Please help me.
@@pranavsophya6864 She has a youtube channel. Click on her photo to see it. I'm mother of 7 year old autistic child and I know how it hurts. But I can tell you one thing love your child with all your heart for who he is and find ways to have fun with him. That is the best thing you can do for him.
@@daphnehrx thanks for your kind words. How is your child. He or she is better than before. Life is so hard.i give lots of love for him but he didn't. It's hurting. automatically my eyes are filled with tears and so depressing. What can I do.
Thank you for this video. I definitely needed this today. My almost 20m old will be evaluated in a few weeks. I need to stop worrying and just enjoy him for him. Thank you for the reminder.
Your smile gives me so much hope. We are currently waiting for assessment but my mama intuition already knows the answer and I have been... sad and angry and anxious and a million things that are taking away the joy of having my beautiful son. You're so right. On everything you said. I am so glad I found your videos.
It's an emotional rollercoaster, there's no denying it, but once you get your head around the shift in thinking/ parenting approach, life gets so much easier! You have to learn to block out the voices that don't make you feel so good about your situation (this includes some professionals too sadly and other well meaning but misinformed people) but this gets easier as well over time. It will be ok lovely. I promise x
Thank you for thoughts and advice I had been through in deep anxiety after knowing the fact that my daughter may have symptoms of autism .. diagnosis is still in the process but I know my child and accepted her autism. People around me too judgemental and they keep on pointing her wierd habits Infront of me. Pray for me to be strong.
I needed you today. Thank you so so much. I'm starting to realise that my "worry" is actually frustration about this stupidly long wait for an assessment. 7:00 is me 100% at the moment. I'm trying so hard to think of something else but I too just video and annoy my Son with the constant reading and analyzing his every move. Your videos help me so much. You'll never know how much. Thank you xx
I'm doing the same thing with my son. This was an excellent reminder that no matter what, it's not going to change our children. I don't want to look back and only remember my worry and frustration.
I know EXACTLY how you're feeling. I promise you won't always feel this way. Go easy on yourself and know that there is light at the end of the tunnel, whatever the outcome. x
I am from Pakistan.. mother of 10.5 months old with possible autism. Ur videos are so inspirational.. living in a country whre good facilities are hardly available for austitic children i am still trying hard to provide best possible early interventions. I can relate with ur evry word.. most of the time i make videos for documentation. N actually missed enjoying those moments with my baby.. ur videos really give hope for my baby and his future.God bless u and ur famiy :)
Thanks very much. Its really help me. My son is thirty two years old. He wants to work. But no luck for job. Nearly four years we keep going to the job centre. But they just talk talk that's it. They doing nothing. I am very tired and angry. I keep crying every day try not to worry about his future.. I spend so much money on homapathic and private doctors home reamdys. I went everywhere.
My prayers are with you and your family. My son is high functioning autism and it has been rough. I do believe We should be positive but we should not wash over the truth. Autism is not normal development and many of these child will need assistance their whole lives.🙏🏼
Loving your videos thank you! My 6 year old has been waiting for an assessment for 7 months and it's been killing me. But honestly I get this!!! Day to day we have so much fun and he is just my clever, witty, handsome, creative, happy little boy! xxx
Ah thank you :) I know, the waiting can be so hard! Your little boy sounds amazing, I'm so glad that you have fun together and that you remember to enjoy him as well! It's the most important thing x
I smile while tears stream down my face whenever I watch your videos. It’s like you know exactly how I’m feeling and doing in this stage of life with my son. You remind me everyday that I can’t get these moments back. Thank you 🙏
this was a great video I had a huge melt down about autism the other day, not that Benny may have it but no one was giving my fears that he had it any truth, because he is so verbal and seems to be very ahead in alot of ways people think there are no signs, in fact he does not have many red flags but the ones makes me think he may. My Dr is not interested in evaluated, he thinks he is just clever. He is great one way or the other, he is going to be who he is no matter how much I worry. I just want to get the help he may need as early as I can.
I understand. In many ways having a nonverbal child is easier in terms of accessing help because it's such an obvious thing. Remember, YOU are best placed to help your son at this age, not therapists. There is lots of advice online to help you (god bless the internet haha). As he gets older, if his brain is wired differently, that will become more apparent and then you can access additional help. You won't 'miss the boat' with it, don't worry. Just nurture his strengths and work on his difficulties as a family. All you can do is your best, the rest will fall into place over time.
My son is 2 years old and i understand he has autism I'm very worried about him all the time I'm crying because i don't know how can I help him and all community are close for coronavirus.
Try and see if a developmental pediatrician is taking new patients and KEEP Trying! Look up games keep him engaged ( or try to) and see if you have early intervention available in your state.
Thank you! We should probably stop wasting our time reading or watching articles about signs of autism or worrying wether he has it or not, I will instead use my time to play and have fun with my child while he was young. With or without autism, he's still our child and we love him. And I think, that's what matters the most. Thank you for this video again! We really appreciate it.
great video mom! I am the parent to a now 12 year old boy on the spectrum. When he was diagnosed at 4 he had completely regressed from talking and walking flat foot to non verbal, tippy toe walking all the time and many behaviors that were to say the least, Scary (self harm etc...) If you see my son today, you wouldnt even know he is the same boy! Although dont get me wrong joshua was ALways very sweet but in His way, bc he never really needed hugs or my approval. I will tell you and this is without a ton of therapy in fact he only had therapy for 2 and a half years total! He has the rest of the time been home with me, and I give hugs, tell him i love him and he goes Everywhere with me always....(maybe i wouldnt say that is the best bc you need to refuel too!:)) But today (and we have a channel about Joshua as well) he is doing FABULOUS, Loving, NO self harm, melt downs are almost always predicted and stopped b4 they happen, completely and Extremely VERBAL...lol! He still comes with many challenges and struggles bc of course each year comes with new tween angst lol but We are getting through it and Joshua is doing fabulous, and he hasnt had therapy in years (I am Definitely Not supporting "No therapy' either bc at a certain time in his life that is what worked for him, and the only thing that would have worked. When it stopped working we stopped it) so we eventually pulled him from all of it and today we have a very healthy, happy, loving and now even looking towards his future 12 year old boy! We are also now looking at what he wants to do with his life (he edits film and does videos plus much more!) and autism is just what he was diagnosed with and thats it! I hope ALL families can learn to find that "thing" that works with their child but please do not give up bc there is so much fun, love and life with these incredibly talented kids(we have met a lot of kids with autism since starting our channel and journey) Work towards what Your child needs bc they are all different! Sending this in Love and much Support to all mommas and dads struggling and if you need anything ever, just ask me! I am on facebook, twitter and IG too! Xx Great video you guys🤗💜👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Please reply iam an autism mom for 5 years old.which age your boy had communicated with you. What types of therapy you had done for him.now his condition is normal. Iam so depressed. Please help me.
@@pranavsophya6864 She has a youtube channel. Click on her photo to see it. I'm mother of 7 year old autistic child and I know how it hurts. But I can tell you one thing love your child with all your heart for who he is and find ways to have fun with him. That is the best thing you can do for him.
@@daphnehrx thanks for your kind words. How is your child. He or she is better than before. Life is so hard.i give lots of love for him but he didn't. It's hurting. automatically my eyes are filled with tears and so depressing. What can I do.
Thank you for this video. I definitely needed this today. My almost 20m old will be evaluated in a few weeks. I need to stop worrying and just enjoy him for him. Thank you for the reminder.
You are a wonderful mom and The most positive and optimistic person I have ever come across
I really needed this video, it made me cry. Thank you.
The way you have processed this is is amazing. Such a champion and inspiration 🤍 blessings to you and your family.
Your smile gives me so much hope. We are currently waiting for assessment but my mama intuition already knows the answer and I have been... sad and angry and anxious and a million things that are taking away the joy of having my beautiful son. You're so right. On everything you said. I am so glad I found your videos.
It's an emotional rollercoaster, there's no denying it, but once you get your head around the shift in thinking/ parenting approach, life gets so much easier! You have to learn to block out the voices that don't make you feel so good about your situation (this includes some professionals too sadly and other well meaning but misinformed people) but this gets easier as well over time. It will be ok lovely. I promise x
This video is so much of what I’ve needed to hear. My son turns 2 next month so I’m early in the acceptance process. Thank you. ❤
Thank you for thoughts and advice
I had been through in deep anxiety after knowing the fact that my daughter may have symptoms of autism .. diagnosis is still in the process but I know my child and accepted her autism.
People around me too judgemental and they keep on pointing her wierd habits Infront of me.
Pray for me to be strong.
How she is doing now???
Is she talking??is she following instructions
@Alia Jabeen
She is ten years old now. She does speak and follow instructions.
@@aliajabeen9852 when did she started speaking
@@aliajabeen9852 when did she start following instructions
This was such a powerful video. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
I needed you today. Thank you so so much. I'm starting to realise that my "worry" is actually frustration about this stupidly long wait for an assessment.
7:00 is me 100% at the moment. I'm trying so hard to think of something else but I too just video and annoy my Son with the constant reading and analyzing his every move. Your videos help me so much. You'll never know how much. Thank you xx
I'm doing the same thing with my son. This was an excellent reminder that no matter what, it's not going to change our children. I don't want to look back and only remember my worry and frustration.
I know EXACTLY how you're feeling. I promise you won't always feel this way. Go easy on yourself and know that there is light at the end of the tunnel, whatever the outcome. x
You are amazing and your family is beautiful. Thank you for giving us a different perspective of autism. Wishing your family all the best.
You're a big inspiration! And you are so right. Thank you!
I’m an autistic adult. Just care for your child. Let them be themself.
I am from Pakistan.. mother of 10.5 months old with possible autism. Ur videos are so inspirational.. living in a country whre good facilities are hardly available for austitic children i am still trying hard to provide best possible early interventions. I can relate with ur evry word.. most of the time i make videos for documentation. N actually missed enjoying those moments with my baby.. ur videos really give hope for my baby and his future.God bless u and ur famiy :)
Why not travel to another country for treatment?
Midhat Khatri i am also from pakistan and i also came to know my son also might have autism.can we get in contact for further discussion
Try gaps diet. Dan protocol. Mms
Midhat khatri. Can we talk?
Hy from which city you are from pakiatan. How do they diagonse in pakistan for autisam.
Loved this video. You are absolutely right! Thank you
Thank you thank you thank you so much. I have been so worried. Your calm manner and good sense is helpful to me
Thanks for this. It really helped me
autism is fine. My son is very tidy and is great at communication and woodwork is his interest and hobby.
Fiona Gregory maybe he is not autistic. I mean the4e are tons of kids who are misdiagnosed especially in the US.
Thank you for your videos!!! You are helping me on this journey.
I can’t tell you how much I needed this I want to collaborate with you💕💕💕
Wonderful video again. Thank you. You make people smile
Thank you d
So much about your advice. you right we have to enjoy our child instead worried the future I will always remember that
Thanks very much. Its really help me. My son is thirty two years old. He wants to work. But no luck for job. Nearly four years we keep going to the job centre. But they just talk talk that's it. They doing nothing. I am very tired and angry. I keep crying every day try not to worry about his future.. I spend so much money on homapathic and private doctors home reamdys. I went everywhere.
My prayers are with you and your family. My son is high functioning autism and it has been rough. I do believe We should be positive but we should not wash over the truth. Autism is not normal development and many of these child will need assistance their whole lives.🙏🏼
I am having my son assesed next week. I love him so much! This video helped me a lot! Thank you.
Very empowering, thank you!
Loving your videos thank you! My 6 year old has been waiting for an assessment for 7 months and it's been killing me. But honestly I get this!!! Day to day we have so much fun and he is just my clever, witty, handsome, creative, happy little boy! xxx
Ah thank you :) I know, the waiting can be so hard! Your little boy sounds amazing, I'm so glad that you have fun together and that you remember to enjoy him as well! It's the most important thing x
Why not do it elsewhere?
It’s called impact bias, but when something you worry abt does actually happen, it usually becomes less of a big deal than what you were worried about
You and your son are amazing 👍
I smile while tears stream down my face whenever I watch your videos. It’s like you know exactly how I’m feeling and doing in this stage of life with my son. You remind me everyday that I can’t get these moments back. Thank you 🙏
I do know exactly how you're feeling. It's an emotional road! You won't always feel this way, I promise. xx
Thank you for this video 🥰
You said that so. Truely
We live in the presents 👍
Thankss for Sharing 👍
my son is lucky because he will never have to sign on at the Jobcentre.
my son spoke ok and made up his own words.
You are a great mom. Did he ever become verbal
I needed this today
this was a great video I had a huge melt down about autism the other day, not that Benny may have it but no one was giving my fears that he had it any truth, because he is so verbal and seems to be very ahead in alot of ways people think there are no signs, in fact he does not have many red flags but the ones makes me think he may. My Dr is not interested in evaluated, he thinks he is just clever. He is great one way or the other, he is going to be who he is no matter how much I worry. I just want to get the help he may need as early as I can.
I understand. In many ways having a nonverbal child is easier in terms of accessing help because it's such an obvious thing. Remember, YOU are best placed to help your son at this age, not therapists. There is lots of advice online to help you (god bless the internet haha). As he gets older, if his brain is wired differently, that will become more apparent and then you can access additional help. You won't 'miss the boat' with it, don't worry. Just nurture his strengths and work on his difficulties as a family. All you can do is your best, the rest will fall into place over time.
My son is 2 years old and i understand he has autism I'm very worried about him all the time I'm crying because i don't know how can I help him and all community are close for coronavirus.
Try and see if a developmental pediatrician is taking new patients and KEEP Trying! Look up games keep him engaged ( or try to) and see if you have early intervention available in your state.
How he is doing now??
Is he talking??
@@alekyadodla8579 He is 5 years now and nonverbal
Sigh, thank you.
Thanks
Thank you!
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I can't understood American English can u explain in detail plzz
She speaks British English 🤷🏻♀️
Xoxo