I actually had a happy tear watching each clips of dexter improving...Made me imagine my son being able to be like him someday...My son, 2 1/2 yrs old recently got diagnose with autism. It hurts that he hasn’t said mama or dada.
Many blessings for ur child and all the kids out there who have any kind of difficulty to face. Shout out to parents who are always side by side with their kids. My 2.2 year old son is too trying to catch up words.im so proud of him that he's trying
Hi! I came from another video with the comments disabled - one you posted showing videos of Dexter's autistic tendencies. I just wanted to thank you, so much, for posting these things and for having this channel. I'm mum to 2.5 year old Lukas, and my husband and I have noticed quite a lot of the same behaviors in our son in the last 6 months or so. Really, some of the things you have shown Dex doing, our son does the exact same. We are now on the wait list to have autism screening done - and boy are we a bit overwhelmed! But it's people like you who are making me feel a bit more relaxed about things - you've done such an amazing job with Dexter and it's really helpful to hear about his progress and your feelings in all this. Thanks so much.
@Nurturing Neurodiversity I’m so glad I found this channel! Dexter is so so cute and he’s coming on amazingly! Love the yes/ no! I love love love your positivity and all you’ve done to help him. What a fabulous Mummy he has :-) My daughter is 3.2 and being assessed for ASD, and also has a spiky profile: very very speech delayed (although with her, her understanding is delayed too), as well as being really sensory seeking. I saw on one of your other videos talking about a knot in your stomach and how it meant you weren’t enjoying the moment with him previously.... I can really relate to that! At first, I felt it was the end of the world. I think what has calmed me down is talking action: getting SALT, OT etc involved, as well as working on stuff to help her myself and knowing that I’m doing the best I can for her! And also, just appreciating her for her, and not this idea I’ve got in my head about what a 3 year old “should” be like! She’s herself and she’s totally wonderful! :-) Love your positivity and your attitude (there’s so much negative stuff about ASD online and it really annoys me!) - and it’s what I needed, so thanks :-) Off to watch your other videos :-) x
This video is so uplifting! So great to see how Dexter is doing so well!!!! So lucky that you have each other, best teachers- as we parents need our children as much as they need us.❤️ This video gives hope to so many parents that may not believe this is possible. Thank you for sharing, this may be your new path in life as you are doing really well with Dexter and sharing these video's. 🤗
Dexter's progress is amazing! I hope and pray that my Son will be able to just nod yes and shake his head for no. Or let me know when he's thirsty or hungry. The things people take for granted! We got our SALT appointment through for the end of June but I'm not sure how much they'll help. I have been using your tips and suggestions and have managed with alot of persistence and resistance to get him to wave. He will rarely use it at the appropriate moment but this is a huge step for him. thanks again for your guidance and support xx
Holly that's so brilliant you've managed to teach your son to wave! It doesn't matter how inconsistent it is, it proves that he's capable of learning. This is just the start I'm sure. Remind me, how old is your son again? Great about the SALT too, they will probably give you tips on following his lead, getting down to his level, simplifying language and repetition of simple words, expectant waiting and 'sabotaging' his play. They might try and teach him the sign for 'more.' I'd be interested to know how it goes if you don't mind updating us? All therapists and areas seem to have different ideas so I'd love to know what they suggest. The other good thing is that the SALT reports are usually very in depth and well written so will be great for you all to have that on file too x
@@NurturingNeurodiversity thanks for your lovely words. He is 2 and our SALT team is going to be in Devon. It'll be interesting to see what they say and of course I'll update. I watch your videos religiously. You're a wonderful person and a bloomin fantastic mum. X
he is very smart! this video gives lots of hope to parents whose children are non-verbal. he is very lucky to have parents like you who don't give up on finding ways to help their children withstand the challenges this world brings. I absolutely believe your son will be successful in the future. bless you and your family, always!
U are an amazing mother and thank you for sharing this with us. Its deeply personal but to help others by allowing us into your lives we get to learn about autism.. My son is 2 and we think he has autism, he has his 1st appointment next week with the pediatrician who in time will give our boy a diagnostic. I'm petrified of how bad his autism is going to be but I'm watching lots of videos like yours to prepare me for what may come. He is non verbal, flaps his hands a lot, melt down with food and constantly wakes threw the night for up to 4 hours at a time. U have come so far with your son and hes made such progress. He will make so much more with each year that passes because u put the time in and do everything u can so u can both communicate with each other. Your absolutely brilliant and fantastic to watch. U explain things so clearly so we all know the ins and outs of your sons journey. Thanks again because no doctor or specialist could ever show us what u have and it's so much more educating for us parents with the same families. Great big hug to u and your beautiful family. Xxx
Thank you so much for sharing this video. Our 4-year-old son is remarkably similar to Dexter in so many ways. I am planning to use some of your techniques to see if we can make some progress. Right now, we have some hand-leading and word approximations; but I would like to incorporate some sign language and pointing into his routines as well. As a parent of an autistic child, this gave me categories and a better vocabulary to strategize and measure developmental progress. Your video was very encouraging. Thank you.
My son is 21months and autistic, we're going through the whole process of a diagnosis. I felt so alone of how to help my son, I just want to thank you for your video's, they are really helping me to understand autism better. Your son looks like he's made great progress, he's so intelligent! ❤️ you're doing an amazing job ❤️
Autistic doesn’t mean stupid! I am so amazed at his ability to recognize words...so incredible at his young age! You’re doing such a great job ❤️ Dexter is so fortunate to have you as his mommy!
Thank you so much Kirby! Too many people assume things about Dexter's cognitive abilities, so it's really lovely when people can recognise his strengths too. Comments like yours mean a lot to me.
Great video. I love the way you parent. I think it's so important to help our kids pursue their interests and develop their strengths, as well as supporting them in the areas they find hard!
You so rightly say no two children on the Autism Spectrum are the same. My son is 2.5 with a lot of sensory processing difficulties, my son does have basic words, "up", "open", "apple", kangeroo, "whale", "pear", my son's receptive language isn't good, you son is amazing, understanding so much of what you say. My son leads us everywhere, I have managed to teach him how to point for a choice, but not afar, its lovely how Dexter points to the Zebra!! I hope my son's understanding and pointing blossoms like your son! I also have that book, its a fantastic resource. Thank you for the videos!
Ah it really fascinates me how different they all are! It's so great that your son has clear words. The good thing is that in children with receptive language delays, their speech usually improves alongside their understanding, so I've no doubt your son will be a chatterbox in time! There's also a chance that your son understands more than you think but his expressive delays might be preventing him from being able to demonstrate all that he knows. For ages we assumed Dexter wasn't understanding much of what we said because he didn't really respond to us. It's so funny what you said about your son not pointing to things in the distance because Dexter was exactly the same for a lonnnng time! He would only point to things he could physically touch with his finger. Pointing came more naturally as time went on but he still rarely points things out just to show us - only when we ask him where something is or what he wants. Thank you so much for your comment, I will never get bored of connecting with others on this same journey and hearing their stories. x
@@NurturingNeurodiversity It fascinates me to. My son only responding to us I'd say in the last year, that was the first thing I noticed, he will look up and share attention with us, bring us things - mostly because he wants help. He visually stims a lot - running toys across his eyeline - which we only started to see at 2yrs old. They do change over-time and although I'd love the visual stimming and sensory side to ease off atm as its all the time and I think it stops him from learning, he too absorbed in what he is doing that he missing alot of what is going on around him. He is also a terrible eater, thats sensory difficulties and we are only just now getting him to messy play, he doesn't really like his hands being messy. It will be interesting to see how they develop x
OMG Dexter is such a little smartie!!! He is doing so well loads of this is alot of what you guys have done as a family! I am soooo happy for you and to be honest progress helps me alot to feel better and happier and so i celebrate/ appreciate every small win! Really proud of you guys! And isnt it great how us moms become the best and most active singers! lol you are so crazy you look totally fine........ lovely!
Progress definitely drives positivity. I'm learning to accept that the speed of the progress doesn't matter, as long as you're heading in the right direction!
Stanley our son does the pictures and has been a brilliant break through. Thank you all so much. Signs are minimal but will give it ago with showing him with own hands how to. It’s amazing the difference though when he wants a lindor chocolate.
What a beautiful little boy....I can see that he is very intelligent but has difficulty expressing all that he has inside. I believe God placed him in the perfect family , where he will reach his greatest potential with a balance of love, patience, and acceptance.God doesn't make mistakes and He has a unique plan for each person's life. I truly believe that our kids with special needs teach us far more than we teach them ....the greatest lesson of all is to learn unconditional love and acceptance, living in the moment and appreciating the little treasures each day .These children teach us how to be better human beings with compassion , to value ALL people and to recognize that different is beautiful.Autism isn't something to fear but something to learn from, a unique and interesting way to view the world.God bless your family ❤💙💚💛💜💖
Couldn't have said it better! Thank you for your comment. And thank you for recognising that expressive language doesn't define Dexter's ability to think! I wish everyone could see that!
Yep. Dexter is doing great. His progress is amazing. I have a friend who's nephew was non verbal until he was 8 years old. Now at 10 he speaks almost non stop. But it isnt so much communication in a back and forth way for 95% of it. It is just a monologue on his favourite subject of trains. But that doesnt necessarily mean he wont improve the amount of time his verbal communication is two way.
My son is motivated by music as well. That was so cute of your son was so cute in the car. I really feel like your son will thrive in your care. Working on nodding is something I’m excited to try.
Awww thank you so much! Comments like this mean everything to me! Good luck with teaching nodding! It took us a while but when he got it it really was life changing for us! We actually found teaching 'no' was much harder but he got there in the end (think he was nearly 3 though). I truly believe that these kids are very capable, they just need a little more patience and persistence.
Nurturing Neurodiversity You’re very welcome. Thank you as well. Wow that is very interesting seeing most children learn “No” first and use it often lol. I have a 3 year old as well besides my 2 year old w/ Autism. My 3 year old says No 100x a day 😫. But that Shows you what big and gentle hearts children with Autism have ❤️. Your son is probably such a happy boy to learn yes first. And also yes is harder for most children.
Hello :) please can I ask what app you used in this video for Dexter? I am starting my journey with my son who is 23 months and I just wanted to thank you so much for your amazing videos you have posted they are helping me so much - I think you are an incredible mother x
Just to say great work we have a son with nonverbal he is 6 and I have relied on nhs and school but we did learn to cope due to my mental depressive mode it took a long
Hi can i ask if what is your dexter diagnosed? My son had diagnosed asd level 3 and we do the same thing you do to your dexter,were happy because we can see his improvements..thank you for your video we love this
No levels are given here in the UK at present (not in most areas anyway). It's difficult to say for sure as Dexter's 'profile' is very spiky... he is placid and can be redirected fairly easily, his play skills are good and he has no problem with change in routine but his communication difficulties are very very significant and he doesn't interact with people often so I'd say based on that he'd be level 3. Try not to get too caught up in diagnoses, they serve only as a means to get him the support that will help him thrive. With the right support there's no telling how he could progress and what he could achieve in the future ❤
When Dexter was non verbal, was he totally silent? Or did he make sounds? My son (2 yrs next month) will make “bababa” “Mamama” “dadada” “mmmm” and a few other little Grunty or screech noises (although he doesn’t do that very often). I know all children are different, I’m just interested to find your experience and anyone else’s that’s ready this comment. Thank you!
Thank you for explaining how your speech therapy works. My son is nonverbal and the therapist is still trying to have him repeat sounds. It feels frustrating even to me. I like the overall helping with communication in general. I do have a slight advantage in that I grew up learning sign with deaf parents and so my son knows some signs but his dexterity isn’t good so it’s been difficult to teach him new ones as he can’t coordinate his fingers. Overall wonderful video and lots of good insights. I will be further pursuing our options. My son was born with a PVL (brain injury) usually associated with cerebral palsy and hasn’t been tested for autism yet. I find your channel to have beautiful videos and wonderfully encouraging! Thank you!
I thought my son was neurotypical, but the longer I watch, the more I worry. He does the hand flapping, covers his ears (not because of loud sounds), bangs his head against the wall and our foreheads. he's also very interested in music. He was also a bit late with his gross motor skills (4 months late, which at 7m is A LOT), we had to attend therapy. Nobody was very concerned tho (except for me). He's really good with mimicking and eye contact, I don't think his speech is delayed, but who knows. He was also from the very beginning hating being touched by basically anyone who was not mom or dad. He wasn't a cuddly baby. I feel like a fool coming here and looking for what's wrong with my child. Maybe he' perfectly fine, and I'm just crazy.
I drove myself CRAZY doing exactly what you're doing now! It's mentally draining isn't it? Go easy on yourself , you're doing a great job. I promise you your son IS perfectly fine, regardless of whether he receives a diagnosis or not. If he's autistic, you might just need to think outside the box a little on this slightly different parenting journey that is still just as joyous and rewarding as parenting a neurotypical child. It will be ok and time will give you the answers you need, but meanwhile don't forget to enjoy your lovely little boy :)
fuckoffyoutube I'm in the same boat as u are, how old is your son? My daughter does the flapping, rocking back and forth while standing, right foot,left foot, over and over, humming, strange sounds, she's very happy although she does have break downs sometimes outta nowhere, and sometimes bc u can tell she's trying to communicate something and she can't stand that she can't do it. She doesn't do imaginative play, and she's 2 1/2, so I feel ya 100%! I come here looking for answers too, but I don't feel like a tool and here's why, it's simple. I DO NOT TRUST DOCTORS, now I know all doctors are not bad, but some are and then some just don't have appropriate training with this issue and to me that's bad,but possibly not their fault, but either way I don't feel like my daughter is in good hands with this medical system we have in the US. And the biggest thing, is I believe 110% if she does have Autism, it's bc of VACCINES. Have u reseached that? And finally, I've tried CBD oil, bc a lady with a daughter who has autism caused from VACCINES and multiple other parents have used it to treat the symptoms and almost immediately, every SINGLE child that has been givin this for one reason or another it has helped in the biggest way imaginable! So I've tried it, but then I ran out of it and couldn't seem to find the same brand and so we have had a few weeks without it, so her progress has been kinda thrown off, but I've found and reordered it and can't wait till it gets here. I hope I've kinda helped, and I hope to hear from u, as I am VERY isolated and alone myself, so.. much luv for you and your sweet baby!
my son is now almost 7 just started the speech therapy (we live in the developing country with limited facilities for autism). do you think it's too late for him?
It was just a cheap app i found on the App Store called speech assistant. It uses words only, but we've also just started using a more comprehensive AAC app called Dynavox Snap + Core. I should do a video on it!
My son is 2yrs old seems that he cant understand any words we say.. but if he wants something he just grab my hands like what your son does. I hope soon i will see a progress from him.. to be honest i cannot even sleep well i feel so sad for my son. I want to help him but dunno how. I feel bad and lonely 😢
Oh bless you. It is such an emotionally draining time, but it gets better, I promise you. Just keep on being the amazing parent you are and the rest will work itself out in time.
I actually had a happy tear watching each clips of dexter improving...Made me imagine my son being able to be like him someday...My son, 2 1/2 yrs old recently got diagnose with autism. It hurts that he hasn’t said mama or dada.
Is your child start speaking please tell me
Many blessings for ur child and all the kids out there who have any kind of difficulty to face.
Shout out to parents who are always side by side with their kids.
My 2.2 year old son is too trying to catch up words.im so proud of him that he's trying
Aw that's brilliant, what a superstar. All we can ask of our kids is for them to try their best right? Thanks for watching.
Hi! I came from another video with the comments disabled - one you posted showing videos of Dexter's autistic tendencies. I just wanted to thank you, so much, for posting these things and for having this channel. I'm mum to 2.5 year old Lukas, and my husband and I have noticed quite a lot of the same behaviors in our son in the last 6 months or so. Really, some of the things you have shown Dex doing, our son does the exact same. We are now on the wait list to have autism screening done - and boy are we a bit overwhelmed! But it's people like you who are making me feel a bit more relaxed about things - you've done such an amazing job with Dexter and it's really helpful to hear about his progress and your feelings in all this. Thanks so much.
You're the MVP! Dexter's videos bring me joy! I'm happy for his progress! I know that he will keep going!
@Nurturing Neurodiversity I’m so glad I found this channel! Dexter is so so cute and he’s coming on amazingly! Love the yes/ no! I love love love your positivity and all you’ve done to help him. What a fabulous Mummy he has :-)
My daughter is 3.2 and being assessed for ASD, and also has a spiky profile: very very speech delayed (although with her, her understanding is delayed too), as well as being really sensory seeking. I saw on one of your other videos talking about a knot in your stomach and how it meant you weren’t enjoying the moment with him previously.... I can really relate to that! At first, I felt it was the end of the world. I think what has calmed me down is talking action: getting SALT, OT etc involved, as well as working on stuff to help her myself and knowing that I’m doing the best I can for her! And also, just appreciating her for her, and not this idea I’ve got in my head about what a 3 year old “should” be like! She’s herself and she’s totally wonderful! :-)
Love your positivity and your attitude (there’s so much negative stuff about ASD online and it really annoys me!) - and it’s what I needed, so thanks :-) Off to watch your other videos :-) x
This video is so uplifting! So great to see how Dexter is doing so well!!!! So lucky that you have each other, best teachers- as we parents need our children as much as they need us.❤️ This video gives hope to so many parents that may not believe this is possible. Thank you for sharing, this may be your new path in life as you are doing really well with Dexter and sharing these video's. 🤗
Dexter's progress is amazing! I hope and pray that my Son will be able to just nod yes and shake his head for no. Or let me know when he's thirsty or hungry. The things people take for granted! We got our SALT appointment through for the end of June but I'm not sure how much they'll help. I have been using your tips and suggestions and have managed with alot of persistence and resistance to get him to wave. He will rarely use it at the appropriate moment but this is a huge step for him. thanks again for your guidance and support xx
Holly that's so brilliant you've managed to teach your son to wave! It doesn't matter how inconsistent it is, it proves that he's capable of learning. This is just the start I'm sure. Remind me, how old is your son again? Great about the SALT too, they will probably give you tips on following his lead, getting down to his level, simplifying language and repetition of simple words, expectant waiting and 'sabotaging' his play. They might try and teach him the sign for 'more.' I'd be interested to know how it goes if you don't mind updating us? All therapists and areas seem to have different ideas so I'd love to know what they suggest. The other good thing is that the SALT reports are usually very in depth and well written so will be great for you all to have that on file too x
@@NurturingNeurodiversity thanks for your lovely words. He is 2 and our SALT team is going to be in Devon. It'll be interesting to see what they say and of course I'll update. I watch your videos religiously. You're a wonderful person and a bloomin fantastic mum. X
Any medication or supplement cbd oil, mineral oil, vitamin tablets to dexter...
One of the best and informative Chanels so far.
Love ❤️
Thank you so much!
He’s beautiful! You’re a wonderful mommy🥰
he is very smart! this video gives lots of hope to parents whose children are non-verbal. he is very lucky to have parents like you who don't give up on finding ways to help their children withstand the challenges this world brings. I absolutely believe your son will be successful in the future. bless you and your family, always!
Such a smart child Dexter is. So proud of him.
U are an amazing mother and thank you for sharing this with us. Its deeply personal but to help others by allowing us into your lives we get to learn about autism.. My son is 2 and we think he has autism, he has his 1st appointment next week with the pediatrician who in time will give our boy a diagnostic. I'm petrified of how bad his autism is going to be but I'm watching lots of videos like yours to prepare me for what may come. He is non verbal, flaps his hands a lot, melt down with food and constantly wakes threw the night for up to 4 hours at a time.
U have come so far with your son and hes made such progress. He will make so much more with each year that passes because u put the time in and do everything u can so u can both communicate with each other. Your absolutely brilliant and fantastic to watch. U explain things so clearly so we all know the ins and outs of your sons journey. Thanks again because no doctor or specialist could ever show us what u have and it's so much more educating for us parents with the same families. Great big hug to u and your beautiful family. Xxx
How is your kid doing now ?
Thank you so much for sharing this video. Our 4-year-old son is remarkably similar to Dexter in so many ways. I am planning to use some of your techniques to see if we can make some progress. Right now, we have some hand-leading and word approximations; but I would like to incorporate some sign language and pointing into his routines as well. As a parent of an autistic child, this gave me categories and a better vocabulary to strategize and measure developmental progress. Your video was very encouraging. Thank you.
This was hands down the most helpful info I’ve came across on my quest to verbal communication with my son! Thank you so much
My daughter learned how to say "no" yesterday. I know it seems small, but I know it will Change our lives! I am so happy!
A functional 'no' is HUGE! So happy for you guys!
Glad to see progress in Dexter
😢😍 that’s like my son... he’s none verbal as well he’s 3years old many blessings lots of hugs to you all
My son is 21months and autistic, we're going through the whole process of a diagnosis. I felt so alone of how to help my son, I just want to thank you for your video's, they are really helping me to understand autism better. Your son looks like he's made great progress, he's so intelligent! ❤️ you're doing an amazing job ❤️
This means a lot to me. Thank you so much for watching. Lots of us on this crazy ride together! X
Autistic doesn’t mean stupid! I am so amazed at his ability to recognize words...so incredible at his young age! You’re doing such a great job ❤️ Dexter is so fortunate to have you as his mommy!
Thank you so much Kirby! Too many people assume things about Dexter's cognitive abilities, so it's really lovely when people can recognise his strengths too. Comments like yours mean a lot to me.
Love your videos so much...bringing so much motivation and encouragement
I love all your videos so much. Such positive energy and informative for everyone. Keep posting up. We really appreciate so much.
Great video. I love the way you parent. I think it's so important to help our kids pursue their interests and develop their strengths, as well as supporting them in the areas they find hard!
lovely video! you're an amazing mum, Dexter is one lucky boy
You so rightly say no two children on the Autism Spectrum are the same. My son is 2.5 with a lot of sensory processing difficulties, my son does have basic words, "up", "open", "apple", kangeroo, "whale", "pear", my son's receptive language isn't good, you son is amazing, understanding so much of what you say. My son leads us everywhere, I have managed to teach him how to point for a choice, but not afar, its lovely how Dexter points to the Zebra!! I hope my son's understanding and pointing blossoms like your son! I also have that book, its a fantastic resource. Thank you for the videos!
Ah it really fascinates me how different they all are! It's so great that your son has clear words. The good thing is that in children with receptive language delays, their speech usually improves alongside their understanding, so I've no doubt your son will be a chatterbox in time! There's also a chance that your son understands more than you think but his expressive delays might be preventing him from being able to demonstrate all that he knows. For ages we assumed Dexter wasn't understanding much of what we said because he didn't really respond to us.
It's so funny what you said about your son not pointing to things in the distance because Dexter was exactly the same for a lonnnng time! He would only point to things he could physically touch with his finger. Pointing came more naturally as time went on but he still rarely points things out just to show us - only when we ask him where something is or what he wants. Thank you so much for your comment, I will never get bored of connecting with others on this same journey and hearing their stories. x
@@NurturingNeurodiversity It fascinates me to. My son only responding to us I'd say in the last year, that was the first thing I noticed, he will look up and share attention with us, bring us things - mostly because he wants help. He visually stims a lot - running toys across his eyeline - which we only started to see at 2yrs old. They do change over-time and although I'd love the visual stimming and sensory side to ease off atm as its all the time and I think it stops him from learning, he too absorbed in what he is doing that he missing alot of what is going on around him. He is also a terrible eater, thats sensory difficulties and we are only just now getting him to messy play, he doesn't really like his hands being messy. It will be interesting to see how they develop x
Kindly name of book plz
Name of book plz
OMG Dexter is such a little smartie!!! He is doing so well loads of this is alot of what you guys have done as a family! I am soooo happy for you and to be honest progress helps me alot to feel better and happier and so i celebrate/ appreciate every small win! Really proud of you guys! And isnt it great how us moms become the best and most active singers! lol you are so crazy you look totally fine........ lovely!
Progress definitely drives positivity. I'm learning to accept that the speed of the progress doesn't matter, as long as you're heading in the right direction!
Been watching all your videos and have found them very informative keep up the great work 💕
How amazing and smart little guy!
Stanley our son does the pictures and has been a brilliant break through. Thank you all so much. Signs are minimal but will give it ago with showing him with own hands how to. It’s amazing the difference though when he wants a lindor chocolate.
He can point. Wow
What a beautiful little boy....I can see that he is very intelligent but has difficulty expressing all that he has inside. I believe God placed him in the perfect family , where he will reach his greatest potential with a balance of love, patience, and acceptance.God doesn't make mistakes and He has a unique plan for each person's life. I truly believe that our kids with special needs teach us far more than we teach them ....the greatest lesson of all is to learn unconditional love and acceptance, living in the moment and appreciating the little treasures each day .These children teach us how to be better human beings with compassion , to value ALL people and to recognize that different is beautiful.Autism isn't something to fear but something to learn from, a unique and interesting way to view the world.God bless your family ❤💙💚💛💜💖
Couldn't have said it better! Thank you for your comment. And thank you for recognising that expressive language doesn't define Dexter's ability to think! I wish everyone could see that!
Yep. Dexter is doing great. His progress is amazing. I have a friend who's nephew was non verbal until he was 8 years old. Now at 10 he speaks almost non stop. But it isnt so much communication in a back and forth way for 95% of it. It is just a monologue on his favourite subject of trains. But that doesnt necessarily mean he wont improve the amount of time his verbal communication is two way.
Aw thank you. I love hearing others' stories too!
My son is motivated by music as well. That was so cute of your son was so cute in the car. I really feel like your son will thrive in your care. Working on nodding is something I’m excited to try.
Awww thank you so much! Comments like this mean everything to me! Good luck with teaching nodding! It took us a while but when he got it it really was life changing for us! We actually found teaching 'no' was much harder but he got there in the end (think he was nearly 3 though). I truly believe that these kids are very capable, they just need a little more patience and persistence.
Nurturing Neurodiversity You’re very welcome. Thank you as well. Wow that is very interesting seeing most children learn “No” first and use it often lol. I have a 3 year old as well besides my 2 year old w/ Autism. My 3 year old says No 100x a day 😫. But that Shows you what big and gentle hearts children with Autism have ❤️. Your son is probably such a happy boy to learn yes first. And also yes is harder for most children.
Dexter great achievements
Faye you are an amazing mother!!
Hello :) please can I ask what app you used in this video for Dexter? I am starting my journey with my son who is 23 months and I just wanted to thank you so much for your amazing videos you have posted they are helping me so much - I think you are an incredible mother x
Thanks for the video . You have given me good advice on how to make it easier for my daughter
Kindly send me video too thanks
It's soooooo inspiring ❤
love for him as well both of your efforts
You have helped us so much with this, and the rest of your videos. Thank you
Comments like this mean everything. Thank you.
What a beautiful clever little boy
May god cure your child soon. God bless you and all your family
You are great parent
Just to say great work we have a son with nonverbal he is 6 and I have relied on nhs and school but we did learn to cope due to my mental depressive mode it took a long
your way of description things is v good
Thank you x
Great video
Hi can i ask if what is your dexter diagnosed? My son had diagnosed asd level 3 and we do the same thing you do to your dexter,were happy because we can see his improvements..thank you for your video we love this
No levels are given here in the UK at present (not in most areas anyway). It's difficult to say for sure as Dexter's 'profile' is very spiky... he is placid and can be redirected fairly easily, his play skills are good and he has no problem with change in routine but his communication difficulties are very very significant and he doesn't interact with people often so I'd say based on that he'd be level 3. Try not to get too caught up in diagnoses, they serve only as a means to get him the support that will help him thrive. With the right support there's no telling how he could progress and what he could achieve in the future ❤
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Hello ! Thanks soo much for the video is very detail and informative . Please can l have the name of the app you use on the tablet?
Thanks so much for sharing!! Very helpful 😁
Very good video
Hi. I love your videos and your son has made remarkable progress. Do you do ABA with him?
Thank you so much 🤗 No we don't x
exactly same is my story
When Dexter was non verbal, was he totally silent? Or did he make sounds? My son (2 yrs next month) will make “bababa” “Mamama” “dadada” “mmmm” and a few other little Grunty or screech noises (although he doesn’t do that very often). I know all children are different, I’m just interested to find your experience and anyone else’s that’s ready this comment. Thank you!
Thank you for explaining how your speech therapy works. My son is nonverbal and the therapist is still trying to have him repeat sounds. It feels frustrating even to me. I like the overall helping with communication in general. I do have a slight advantage in that I grew up learning sign with deaf parents and so my son knows some signs but his dexterity isn’t good so it’s been difficult to teach him new ones as he can’t coordinate his fingers. Overall wonderful video and lots of good insights. I will be further pursuing our options. My son was born with a PVL (brain injury) usually associated with cerebral palsy and hasn’t been tested for autism yet. I find your channel to have beautiful videos and wonderfully encouraging! Thank you!
I thought my son was neurotypical, but the longer I watch, the more I worry. He does the hand flapping, covers his ears (not because of loud sounds), bangs his head against the wall and our foreheads. he's also very interested in music. He was also a bit late with his gross motor skills (4 months late, which at 7m is A LOT), we had to attend therapy. Nobody was very concerned tho (except for me). He's really good with mimicking and eye contact, I don't think his speech is delayed, but who knows. He was also from the very beginning hating being touched by basically anyone who was not mom or dad. He wasn't a cuddly baby. I feel like a fool coming here and looking for what's wrong with my child. Maybe he' perfectly fine, and I'm just crazy.
I drove myself CRAZY doing exactly what you're doing now! It's mentally draining isn't it? Go easy on yourself , you're doing a great job. I promise you your son IS perfectly fine, regardless of whether he receives a diagnosis or not. If he's autistic, you might just need to think outside the box a little on this slightly different parenting journey that is still just as joyous and rewarding as parenting a neurotypical child. It will be ok and time will give you the answers you need, but meanwhile don't forget to enjoy your lovely little boy :)
fuckoffyoutube I'm in the same boat as u are, how old is your son? My daughter does the flapping, rocking back and forth while standing, right foot,left foot, over and over, humming, strange sounds, she's very happy although she does have break downs sometimes outta nowhere, and sometimes bc u can tell she's trying to communicate something and she can't stand that she can't do it. She doesn't do imaginative play, and she's 2 1/2, so I feel ya 100%! I come here looking for answers too, but I don't feel like a tool and here's why, it's simple. I DO NOT TRUST DOCTORS, now I know all doctors are not bad, but some are and then some just don't have appropriate training with this issue and to me that's bad,but possibly not their fault, but either way I don't feel like my daughter is in good hands with this medical system we have in the US. And the biggest thing, is I believe 110% if she does have Autism, it's bc of VACCINES. Have u reseached that? And finally, I've tried CBD oil, bc a lady with a daughter who has autism caused from VACCINES and multiple other parents have used it to treat the symptoms and almost immediately, every SINGLE child that has been givin this for one reason or another it has helped in the biggest way imaginable! So I've tried it, but then I ran out of it and couldn't seem to find the same brand and so we have had a few weeks without it, so her progress has been kinda thrown off, but I've found and reordered it and can't wait till it gets here. I hope I've kinda helped, and I hope to hear from u, as I am VERY isolated and alone myself, so.. much luv for you and your sweet baby!
Wow this is amazing progress sooo encouraging
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my son is now almost 7 just started the speech therapy (we live in the developing country with limited facilities for autism). do you think it's too late for him?
How did you teach Dexter to point.can u pls tell us
Have u tried dmg/tmg supplement in order to help him?
Ur great mom .....my son is not autism but he is echolalia communication he is not understanding
What a great amazing boy, how old is he
He's three and a half. Thank you for your lovely comment.
How do u get dexter to point? Would like to get more tips?
By watching your videos I realized that my 2.5 years old son is autism, what should I do now? What kind of Dr is needed to my child
Madhuchanda Paul go to a Developmental Pediatrician
Hi.. what is the app that you are using in this video?
It was just a cheap app i found on the App Store called speech assistant. It uses words only, but we've also just started using a more comprehensive AAC app called Dynavox Snap + Core. I should do a video on it!
@@NurturingNeurodiversity sure, please share more details on the apps that can really work wonders ! Thanks.
Where are you based? US?
My son is 2yrs old seems that he cant understand any words we say.. but if he wants something he just grab my hands like what your son does. I hope soon i will see a progress from him.. to be honest i cannot even sleep well i feel so sad for my son. I want to help him but dunno how. I feel bad and lonely 😢
Oh bless you. It is such an emotionally draining time, but it gets better, I promise you. Just keep on being the amazing parent you are and the rest will work itself out in time.
Nemecheckprotocol from Dr nemecheckprotocol it is very very good and helpful