This is a powerful video. It hits on so many key points in my life, starting from age 5. I always felt like an actor in a play, even with my own family. Now I dont think Im going crazy. I love the feeling of belonging to myself, and that not being excepted anywhere is okay. I feel stronger, and its a true game changer for me. Thank you
This is me. I had a very lonely childhood and never understood why I never was able to connect with others or make friends. On a whim left my stable hospital job of 10 years and my hometown to move across the country and become a circus artist and from there discovered plant medicine for healing etc. it’s hard when you don’t have actual cptsd trauma but have to spend your life healing to rewrite old programming and forgive the loneliness of the past. Can’t really explain any of this to my family and felt stuck for so long-like I never became my true self until after I moved. Now I’m trying to understand my mission and intuitive gifts. Also have been going thru spiritual awakening and my chakras are being cleared one at a time.
I, can Unfortunately Relate w/ your story .. I, got used to having me &, my time in Solitude not at first but, to Survive my childhood I had to Be Set Apart... Such, a Hard Traumatic Beginning &, the Realization of Not Ever fitting because I was Meant to be Seperate was Transcending.. to say the Least! Happy, to read your pages have Turned for the Better. I, too moved away... have, gone through &, currently still in My Awakening... Chakras, now ..next.. also. Healing, is Fundamental. Stay, ✨🧘🏼♀️🍃🩵
I just quit my job of 10 years last week to start living authenticly. Going to raise my children with a strong connection to the earth, her energy, and spirit. Not an easy road, and people I know may think I'm crazy, but as Maya said, the rewards are worth it. I'm also learning to activate my merkaba through Drunvalo's writings. I want to remember everything and be a guiding light for those also standing alone. 💜✨
@@LimitlessMagic777 I would definitely say you're the lucky one. Take the opportunity to figure how to make money doing something you enjoy. I don't have anything financed, have low monthly bills, and have a years worth of expenses saved in preparation. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do, but I'll be trying different ways of making money off my land (herbs and tinctures are where I'm starting). It's a little scary as I've never not worked a typical job before, but I'm trusting my intuition that tells me I am on the right path.
It's so difficult, especially if you were raised to be a "good girl*, like I did. I am 32. I know I think differently from most people and there is absolutely no group I can feel I belong. Yet I still try to constantly fit any group's I end up in energy so that I can please them or avoid confrontation.. not sure if that helps, just felt to share it!
@@lillimol You're really right to link being a "good girl" to a feeling of belonging. Society's been telling us this all our lives. Even "bad boys" say they want to marry "good girls."
U may have repressed TRAUMA Within inner adult child It’s carried in your upper chest area. U have to work in forgiving your self first and mother father. Inner child wounds. Due to a traumatic childhood event. I found 2 of mine a year half ago a memory popped up and my MOM confirmed it. 💜YAY!!
this has been big lesson for me... the more I understand mySelf, the more I feel I don't belong to anything or anyone in society. My guides told me recently "you're not meant to fit in... stop trying"
Never thought I fitted in in my home country or family. Was abused probably because I unknowingly challenged the old templates as a child. I’ve spent many years trying to fit in, but the discomfort of NOT being authentically myself became greater than the discomfort of not fitting in. It’s a strange thing unless you’ve experienced this. It’s a feeling when you can’t pretend to fit in anymore and the only way to live is to be yourself. I learned to take care of myself, and feel comfortable being along. This all reminds me of when Jesus said “I am not of this world" in John 8:23, we are not supposed to belong because we are not of this world, we come here to challenge the old, and most people are uncomfortable with change. I’m looking forward to becoming stronger and learning what new templates I’m carrying into the world. Blessings to all of you on the same journey ❤
That's crazy! I woke up around 3am. I had this dream/ vision that I was not of this world. I wrote about 6 pages. Then you are on my feed and have this message. Thank you. I really appreciate all you do ❣️
I've never felt like I fit in anywhere, also I've lately realized why I act a little silly and quirky around people, I'm doing it intuitively to raise the vibration in the room. Thank you 💕✨
I've felt that way my entire 66 years. Over the decades I've sought out groups that seemed to have people I thought I might "fit in" with. I've always pondered things that it seemed, no one else did, even as a child. I had a hard time even bringing myself to attend group gatherings of any sort, even if it was something I was really interested in, be it of a spiritual nature or a passion, like trail running or hiking. If I'm even able to get out of the car to attend, (many times I just can't and I attributed it to being a loner)...but I've gone to places I thought might hold some key and I'd belong....I don't. I simply find it very hard to fit in. I never do feel any sense I could fit in or belong and sometimes I might feel sad, but mostly I don't. The only thing that's changed now days is I don't necessarily feel like the outcast or misfit ...I rather like who I am and the fact I don't need any group, people, club to make me happy or give me a sense of purpose and I don't do social media at all, it's just not me and that's good too and better even, I believe. It took a lot for me to go through Reiki and becoming a so called reiki master but I only use it on myself and distance reiki to people. I mostly use reiki on animals and on people crossing over. I could never use it as a 'business' and take money for it. The word, Tribe, ...I thought oh now I'm supposed to have a tribe? I don't..and I don't really think any one needs to belong in a tribe either. It's okay to just be who I am, even if I just do my own thing...
I am in the sixth decade of life on this planet, and, honestly, have never felt like I belong here, have never "fit in" (particularly with most of my own family) and have been doing my best just to carry on, not absorb other people's energies while still serving and aiding where possible (because it feels good, not because of other people's opinions of what we "should" be doing). It's been an interesting ride! Thanks for the video! It's something to watch again. Blessings! 🙏
It's all about authenticity. This gives others permission to be themselves, and so little by little changing the world. The internet connects all of us so we don't feel like we are alone. Thank you for creating this!
I so agree! I have never really felt the need to belong, in fact i feel way more at ease and happy alone, with nature and beauty and amazing things, i get my love. When I'm driving alone I'm at peace enjoying all the wonderful beauty of the day and i get joy seeing things like horses running in a field etc. Thank you!
I totally agree with you. This is true for me too, I am not made to belong and it brought me so much unnecessary suffering to try to. Thank goodness I woke up and realised who I am! Xxx
If you feel like you belong here, then you are still heavily immersed in the human experience and persona. To not only feel, but to know this is not your true state of being; nor is it your true place of being. Many people have this detachment in today's world because, whether they realize it yet or not, they are here to awaken and remember.
Hi Christina, I must confess something: I went through a very painful dark night of the soul that changed me completely. During this transformation, your videos kept popping up out of nowhere, as if they could read my thoughts. As usual, I questioned them just like I question everything else, especially that they used to match each state i am in. But when I got exhausted from seeing all these painful transformations combined with nothing but disappointments and more struggles on the actual ground, I decided to close the door on spirituality and started calling it the "la la land." I began working on myself emotionally and mentally, not believing in spirituality anymore. Yet, I cannot deny the cycles I see. I cannot trust or believe in them anymore, but they are there. Also, I cannot deny that i miss a core part of my energy that i am eager to have it back, my radiant spirit. This has lasted for more than a year now, and your videos stopped popping up until a couple of days ago. This video appeared, and I tried to ignore it many times, but in the end, I surrendered and decided to watch it. Guess what? Again, Every single word you said matches my current state. Even the books you mentioned, I have read them. Honestly, I am not looking for belonging anymore, despite feeling a loneliness I have never felt before. I am seeking stability. I need to feel some security in order to shine. We cannot thrive in survival mode. I hope that soon all the obstacles will be resolved, and I can spread my wings wide to the wind again.
Hahhahahahahaha it feels like reading my own story, sorry I have to laugh, cause now I know I'm on the right path. Her Vids found me and once I was fed up with spirituality believing the universe isn't there for me anymore her Vids sort of disappeared. Now that I'm gaining back trust in the Universe and in myself, my growth, her vids are back on my "sight"
I feel the same way about Christina's videos...I am pretty practical but open, and it seems like these videos pop up with the exact content I need to hear. I have listened to a lot of folks over the years, and Christina stands out as among the most attuned and genuine.
The more rested your nights are the better are your energy system energized. 1. Blueprint is dormant ( can become victims of bullying, loneliness, self judgement) 2. Merkabah activates- the walls spin faster and shake where old beliefs and templates shed. Lower dna sheds. Can become an entirely different person. Discovery of who they wanna be. The faster it spins, the authentic blueprint is revealed. 3. Merkabah emanates - unique blueprint emanates out ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE WORTHY OF LOVE
At some point I stopped blaming myself for not fitting in and also stopped judging those who wanted to. I like many others have come to usher in a new reality that is a true paradigm shift, one rooted in love and authenticity.
Brené Brown is one of my most loved guides here on earth. Her work helped me so much, I do not even have the words to discribe it. Maslows hiearchy of needs also my top human need system. So, this is by far one of my favorite video's of yours that I have ever watched. I find this video to be 100 % spot on. I'm at my most true authentic self when I have no expectation or need for belonging and belonging becomes a byproduct or a "nice to have" while I'm fully being my authentic self. Through my spiritual awakening, I now know what Brené meant with, 'We are all inextricably connected'.
This brought me the peace I needed tonight. I tried out NOT shaming and pressuring myself over failing to 'fix' this perpetual outsider feeling. And it's been such a peaceful and nurturing few hours. Thank you!
I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. I've always been an outsider and lived as a bit of a hermit most of my life. I'm 37 and going through a bit of a dark night of the soul. It has me questioning myself and my life's choices but I have no alternate way to be. It's left me feeling a bit trapped. I have lost many many friends due to my deconstruction of Christianity and pursuit of alchemy. I have one friend left from my old life. I've lived in forests, on mountains, in wild, remote places. I connect with nature. I talk to trees and plants. They are my friends. But thank you for this because it gives me courage on my journey, to embody this person. My greatest fear is I will not fully be myself in this life. Thank you.
I’m not a joiner…as an HSP I prefer to be alone or only with one other person at a time. This works for me extremely well. During the eclipse this past April 8th, I was blessed to be somewhere I could be completely alone. Not a cloud to be seen, horizon to horizon. I laid in the grass put on my eclipse specs and reveled in the experience…I wept w 0:03 ith the beauty, joy and magnificence of creation. Another click on my bucket list accomplished. 😎👍🏻 (I’m not unsociable though. I just don’t fit. Didn’t someone once say to be IN the world but be not OF it?)
This video came to me when I needed it. Love you Christina I also truly believe that the topic of belonging often gets filtered through a human-centric perception, where society becomes fixated on the human experience and neglects the vast, miraculous, and magical natural world. We are surrounded by powerful living forces, such as the intricate communication system between trees through their roots, and the complex lives of ants, birds, whales, and other wonderful beings. Even the powerful weather changes and the energetic vibrations they carry are part of this natural wonder. There is so much divine intelligence in this lifetime and many teachers who do not embody human form, from whom we can all strive to learn and connect. Much love.
Thank you for this video! I am entering stage 3 and I can physically feel what you are describing here. I shifted one day when I walked into the elevator at work with 4 men all dressed similarly and I clearly stood out. Usually I would cower to the back and feel uncomfortable but I didn’t this time. I was completely amused and I realized that my purpose was to be a ‘glitch in the matrix.’ It was so liberating!
Yes, I know I came to hold space for mother Giai as she has gone through her planetary transformation. I now live completely immersed in nature. I love how you talk about these things so understandably. Thank you Christina I'm 64, coming into this knowingness and my life is so easefull and beautiful these days. I'm blessed and super grateful for where I'm at in my life now. It's been a rough road to getting here for sure.
Dear one, the kind of life you are describing is the one I am striving for..what are your advices from One woman to another? I lost the partner who would support this kind of life and don’t have one who would now. I tried alone but it is to hard. Any supportive ideas? 🙏
YES 🙌🏼 Thank you for this teaching, @ChristinaLopes ! As I’ve been navigating my spiritual awakening, I’ve been acknowledging the People-Pleaser within me who has served the Belonging Committee for decades now. With love, compassion, and respect, I encourage her to retire so that I may perform the work for which I am intended. For about 3 years now, I have been distancing myself from family and narrowing my Friend Zone (not that I’ve ever been one for many “friends” because when they’re aligned, I pour my heart into them) so drastically that it’s pretty much just _me_ now staring into my own eyes, my own being, and truly finding the connection and “belonging” I’ve sought outside myself this entire lifetime. I SUN·SCRIBE to these words: “You don’t need a “community”, you just need to commune with your Higher Self.” ♥️ xxMeryn
Me too never fit in. Lord I come to you asking for your blessings as a single mom because I’m raising my children with courage, despite the challenges I face. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord give me strength as I struggle to pay my rent every month and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children I’m ashamed Lord help me. I ask that you bless me with your wisdom and guidance, as I navigate parenthood on my own.💕💕
I hope one day you might be able to change the focus from speaking about struggles and giving them attention instead to accepting the lessons in those struggles and speaking your power and energy into more positive ways. Thanking God for Him guiding you and giving you those lessons to walk through so your spirit strengths as it becomes bigger. Speak as if it’s already happened, been provided and experienced. “Lord, I thank you for those lessons even the smallest of them while I’m on this beautiful journey on this earth with you always beside me. Thank you for always making sure my financial obligations are already fulfilled ahead of time. Thank you for reminding me that it’s always in Your timing and not mine. I’m humbled by your presence, kindness, grace and easy forgiveness. I ask you Lord that you continue to help me grow in your unconditional, pure, raw, easy, powerful and gentle love so that I may know you more everyday as I learn to know myself as well.” When we change the simplest way to simply speaking from having the focus switch from what we don’t have to what we do have just from a solid knowing it will happen in the future because we have belief and faith and living as if we already have what we are lacking and have experienced the experience of it already. It creates space to allow it to come into your life. Positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative. Be present in this moment, not the past or the future. The past is gone and we can’t change anything about it, the future isn’t in this very moment it hasn’t happened yet. Both past and future can cause stress that is unnecessary and keeps your attention stuck either way rather than focusing your attention in the here and now present moment. Keep going Momma, you got this. You ARE enough! You DO matter! You DO belong! You are ALWAYS exactly right where you’re supposed to be in this very moment! You ARE valued! You ARE worthy! You ARE beautiful inside and out! You ARE loved! You ARE perfectly created to be exactly who you are! You ARE already whole, never broken (our spirits (the truest self) is powerful, pure, perfect and whole). Have a beautiful and blessed day, week, month, year, decade, lifetime ❤❤❤
I also since childhood never felt like I belonged, or fitted in with anyone or anything! As I grew up I accepted who I was. A loner and friends were their only when we got together. My own parents seemed not to accept me as family as I became an adult! They are gone and so is my brother. Not accepted by my brother was a doing by my dad, making sure he could get a argument going between us, then sitting back and watching the separation happen between us. He did this with my Mom also. I love who I have become and love Mom and my brother. As for dad it still sparks a trigger in me at times and have been working on me to let go.
OMG!! You've clarified the confusion of the past 72 years. Thank you!! I've learned just recently to accept myself, good, bad, dark light. Very freeing!
Thank you for sharing this. My father always says to me: “why can’t you just be normal like everybody else? You should’t try to be different at all times.” Well, I really tried being normal. But it just didn’t work out. I was just always different. I was bullied in school and my dad said it’s no wonder when I am this way. I have now realized that I was just forced to be around the wrong people and at the wrong place. I am now grateful to have a supportive community around me where I am valued the way I am. 💜🦁
Damn accurate.. I always adjusted, kept others as first priority now iam trying to come out of people pleasing or fit in phase❤.. It actually gave me peace
Omg thank you so very much for this!!!!! I can’t even begin to explain how much I have suffered from thinking something was wrong with me because I have never felt any connection with people. I have never had any close friends or even family except my mother and brother. My kids have always been my focus but as a single mother. No partner has stuck. No job has lead to attachments. No one has ever excepted me my whole life. At 44, I realized I had two people that understood me. My mom and next door neighbor. But I can live without them too. I have dreamed of having a home of my own and not need to see anyone else if I don’t want to. But pipe dreams are what that is. I take care of my parents and daughter and grandson. I am a total people pleaser and peacemaker. ❤
Thank you so much! I agree that we suffer most when we try to fit ourselves into a template that doesn't work for us, to try and please people, rather than being guided by our own authenticity.
wow I can so relate. Always have felt like I don't fit in anywhere. Different in every way. going through the loneliest Time in my life right now. No family. I am getting restless in existing this way. Need to get that mercaba powered somehow!
This video resonated with me, and I really needed to see this viewpoint. I have never “fit in” like you, though I kept trying. Now, I realize that I was never meant to. So freeing! Thank you! You, Christina, Michael Singer, and The Law of One have changed my life.
its just semantics, it is really connection and relationship, could be with a person, an animal, nature, God , objects etc. When you say you don't belong here ,meaning this planet there is still longing that you are a part of/connected to somewhere else, bigger, omnipresent and eternal, so literally still belonging somewhere, even to this spiritual community😇
This lesson that you shared was so intense I had to watch little bits of it three times. I had a session with you five years ago after my daughter passed over and my divorce and you told me if I don’t follow through with my ascension my daughter would stay within this loop, and of course the open heart chakra. I did everything you said and today’s lesson is brilliant. I have a dream of coming out to Portugal and being with you and the group someday.❤❤❤❤
This resonates so deeply. I've always struggled with belonging for as long as I can remember. Even though it wasnt necessarily painful, I often feel like an outsider, even in my family. Before I watched the video, I was thinking to myself: "I do belong, I belong to myself and I belong in the world". Little did I know that Maya Angelou, whom I love, said it!! Thank you so much for this video and helping me reframe this natural feeling. ❤
My soul is here for an adventure, an experience. Make the most of it, be serious when you have to, and be silly when you can. None of us are getting off of this ride alive, lol.
Christina, I’ve tried to force myself to be normal, like everybody else belong part of the 3-D world. But when I realized that I couldn’t fight, and opress the feelings of the intense need to be an anime girl, I knew I didn’t go through this world. I also had noticed the hotter I tried to belong my true authentic feelings, inside of being and feeling liking anime girl the more painful it got inside. Nearly trying to fight it and run from it. You killed me a few times in this body. It’s not just an intense need to be an anime girl, but I also feel like one and feel the soul of an anime girl. So I figured that I must be a Starseed/Blue Ray that’s the only thing that makes sense.
Since my spiritual awakening in 2020 and feeling the love the exists beyond my human comprehension, I no longer feel that I don’t belong. I am one with the earth and everything that exists and there’s nowhere that I don’t belong. I no longer need to seek human love or acceptance, I’m exactly who I should be and I’ll allow the universe to continue to guide me ❤
One of your best videos for me.. As an Israeli Jew psychodramatist that works with Merkaba... and more, you gave a great explanation .. you gave me the chills 😂 thank you sooo much 🙏🏻
I am a 1st wave Blue Ray. I belong everywhere yet nowhere. Belonging to the tribe(s) on this planet in this current timeline occurs to me as quite scary as humans can be such barbaric savages. At the same time I remain very social, useful, loving & contribute as I can to others given my extreme empathetic nature & purpose here. I’m here for a bigger reason hence my tolerance for those who are victims to the regressives hell-bent on destroying & controlling all in their way. Thank you Christina, 🙏K
Absolutely agree with this!! Since I was a child, I didn’t feel I belonged to my family, I was not emotionally attached to any of them and I was okay with that. I have friends but I don’t need to see them all the time. I’m perfectly content living my life and don’t need to belong anywhere. The one issue with this is that spiritual teachers tell us we need to find our community. Well, I haven’t needed community before so why do I now? I absolutely believe some of us are on the earth plane because of soul contracts but we originated from a place where community isn’t emotion based, but functional based. I can get along with anyone, but I don’t suffer fools or BS. Thanks for this video.
This absolutely resonates for me. I feel like this since I was a child. Never fitted in, feeling different than others. Always feeling like a watcher. In Human Design I am a Reflector and that is an exact match with what you are explaining.
I feel better alone to my thoughts. And when engage in tve world I feel like im under a magnifying glasses burning holes through me in judgment. Peace ✌️ to all that are feeling not connected. Love you all. ❤❤❤
omg...so glad I don't belong... never have... never cared... as a result, life has been blissful...I've always had a sense of who I am and whose I am... yay!!
That is exactly I have always felt " not belonging to a place, society , community". I belong to me and my soul. I never accepted the belief that "belonging" to a society, place, group is a "necessity". No it is not . I am a special edition (and each one of us we are) and I do not need to belong a place. Love Maya's qutation "The price is high, the reward is great". OMG as well Maya just mentioned " I belong to my self. I love my self" Yes lady !!! Thank you Christina. I have started to follwo you just two days ago (and I am inmy awakening process since a bit more than 4 years) and I have saw many YT videos and have listened to many podcast of yours from your site. This is one of my faves.
Thank you for explaining it so clearly. Now I understand why I am the way I am. Have no need to belong any longer. In my younger years I often wondered why I felt so different
When she said it's not the longing to fit in that causes suffering but the pressure to feel like you should long to fit in that causes the suffering (I'm paraphrasing), that hit the nail on the head for me! I've always felt like that my whole life. I loved my alone time and I felt like I experienced and reached moments of bliss while making discoveries in my own life. What caused issues in my life was people telling me what I should want and about how horrible loneliness is. They were projecting their feelings on to me. They might have felt lonely but I loved my solitude.
My natal chart says I'm to go it alone, but it also says that this is rare. Thanks for this video. I have similar feelings as you do about this. "The price is high. The reward is great." ~ Maya Angelou - Whoa.
This definitely spoke to me and feel like I’ve always had a deeper and different thought process than my family or most people. And have had family say that even at how surprised they are at how I think about things but it never clicked somehow it just felt normal to me in a way and didn’t realize it was different but appreciated how I’ve been during this time. Been finding it interesting finding myself and going deeper into this all. But kinda think as well don’t almost all who go through a spiritual awakening shed old beliefs and etc that was said?
Humor is healing at end of video it was funny when you sang video is over. Radiate love, detach or un-attach, shed or let go of old beliefs or programs, become FREE to love and belong to self, and awaken or ascend. Let your light shine or let your cleansed Merkaba light grow. I no longer want to hide my light. Yes. I want to be Template Changer or I call it just making a difference in the world. Yes. My identity, purpose, and path or journey are becoming clearer each day. Humor, light-heartedness, or becoming open rather than old ways were serious, dense, and ego or negative thought matrix driven. My whole being feels lighter and I am emanating or shining more light and Christ-Consciousness. Feeling excited, hopeful, and energetic for 1st time in a very long time. The light at the end of the tunnel is me finding my worth and belonging by finding my purpose and identity. The veil or covering is being removed. My authentic or true self was there all of the time. It was just hidden by the programs of family, false friends, culture, jobs, or the matrix. I am letting go of people, places, and things which no longer serve me. Interesting the mystery is resolving itself slowly, but surely for me. Thank you for your wisdom, mastery, and guidance to ascend. Gratitude, compassion, and connection is increasing. Love and light.
As long as you love yourself and who you are, it is better to be alone and in good company than to not be alone and in terrible company. We are indeed social animals, but I focus my efforts on lining things up for a better life where I am more likely to meet people who align with me, and try to keep my closest friends at a count of one hand worth of fingers or less.
I lol’d because probably the most uncomfortable I’ve been in a group setting recently was at the Portugal retreat last year. Definitely felt like a misfit there, but it was very interesting and enlightening and difficult on many levels. I’m very comfortable where I live and with the work I’m doing and have a handful of my soul people here. I wish the same “home base” to all other misfits.
belonging is also know as "fitting in". And we are not here to "fit in". We are here to expand our love and wisdom because we are particles of god, and that's what happens when we incarnate on earth. At least that's the aim. Love your channel.!
"True belonging is the spiritual practice of believing in and belonging to yourself so deeply that you can share your most authentic self with the world and find sacredness in both being a part of something and standing alone in the wilderness. True belonging doesn't require you to *change* who you are; it requires you to *be* who you are". ~ Brené Brown, Braving the Wilderness 🩶
Totally agree with you. I had always feel that l do not belong here and to no one, nor even to my parents nor my 2 sons belonging to me. Happy of listening to your vidéo Christina.... 🙏🙏
You are absolutely right. Belongingness is not a fundamental need. Today only I was pondering over beliefs of collective consciousness and how difficult it would be to change them. Thank you so much for guiding us and strengthening our faith in our power. 🙏🙏🙏❤
First of all, THANK YOU! I've been in a bit if a funk for a couple days and this message helped brighten my day. Secondly, for me, it's not so much a need to belong as it is I just feel lonely and isolated because I simply don't resonate with the people around me anymore. I can relate, as I remember what it was like before my awakening, but to live in a world that thinks they are awake when in reality they are still dreaming, is weird and lonely at times. My only comfort now comes from meeting others online going through the same thing. I share my journey on my own youtube channel hoping it helps others on their journey.❤
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife I just want you to know that your words on a few of your videos did help. I did subscribe, and I know it's very challenging and often frustrating too---having a small YT channel-I have one too. It was 3am here, when I woke and found Christina's wonderful video. I was feeling very alone in my thinking. I actually love being alone, and hardly ever feel a feeling of loneliness, but it sure is nice to see that so many here are so like-minded. So, I send a big THANK YOU, Big HUGS, and lots of love to both of you! Hope you can FEEL it! 💞🤗🤗💞Actually, this goes for everyone here, and I'm hoping to read each comment and hopefully connect with more! That would be amazing!!! 🙂
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Thanks sweet soul. I was still very tired when I left that comment (I did get some sleep) and I realized I wanted to say more. For one, you & your channel are awesome! You speak with such clarity & insight and I know you will be reaching the right target audience, when timing is in divine order. So please, keep it going! It's all normal to feel as you do. My purpose is more through my 'Spirit Writing' (Automatic writing as they call it) so most insight & inspiration are in descriptions, under in Vlog.. 🙂Been taking some time in silence since my B-day, and hoping to feel inspired real soon to discover what's next. (I've had to reword my comment--hope it still makes sense. Hehehe)~ I hope we can stay connected. I would love that 💗
@@tina74166 Thank you for your lovely message of hope. I, like you, feel the most important thing we can do is stay true to ourselves and encourage others to be authentic. That is how change happens, within each person first. You can leave comments on my videos too, I just monitor them and approve them to keep the trolls at bay. I've had a problem in the past with internet bullies so I'm more strict now. Happy Belated Birthday my beautiful friend ❤️ Namaste 🌅
Oh look someone explaining my life 😂 I’m so thankful I got comfortable with myself and loved myself through it all and now I help others do the same. I often joke that my center is like the island of the misfit toys. We all seem to gather together and create that safe home space for ourselves and each other through our sisterhood circles. It’s interesting you mention the Merkaba bc I use that regularly in meditation. Thanks for sharing these gems of recognition ❤
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Wow, that explains a lot! One of my favorite Quotes: Why fit in, when you were born to stand out (Dr. Suess)
Perfect avatar for this video. 😊
This is a powerful video. It hits on so many key points in my life, starting from age 5. I always felt like an actor in a play, even with my own family. Now I dont think Im going crazy. I love the feeling of belonging to myself, and that not being excepted anywhere is okay. I feel stronger, and its a true game changer for me. Thank you
This is me. I had a very lonely childhood and never understood why I never was able to connect with others or make friends. On a whim left my stable hospital job of 10 years and my hometown to move across the country and become a circus artist and from there discovered plant medicine for healing etc. it’s hard when you don’t have actual cptsd trauma but have to spend your life healing to rewrite old programming and forgive the loneliness of the past. Can’t really explain any of this to my family and felt stuck for so long-like I never became my true self until after I moved. Now I’m trying to understand my mission and intuitive gifts. Also have been going thru spiritual awakening and my chakras are being cleared one at a time.
I, can Unfortunately Relate w/ your story .. I, got used to having me &, my time in Solitude not at first but, to Survive my childhood I had to Be Set Apart... Such, a Hard Traumatic Beginning &, the Realization of Not Ever fitting because I was Meant to be Seperate was Transcending.. to say the Least! Happy, to read your pages have Turned for the Better. I, too moved away... have, gone through &, currently still in My Awakening... Chakras, now ..next.. also. Healing, is Fundamental. Stay, ✨🧘🏼♀️🍃🩵
I am unapologetically myself.....all day........every day of my life....
Me too ~ @lindatallon9217 🙂
Been in hermit mode for a while now, stopped trying to fit, I am learning to accept my role/purpose ❤
Same ❤
Same ❤❤❤
I just quit my job of 10 years last week to start living authenticly. Going to raise my children with a strong connection to the earth, her energy, and spirit. Not an easy road, and people I know may think I'm crazy, but as Maya said, the rewards are worth it. I'm also learning to activate my merkaba through Drunvalo's writings. I want to remember everything and be a guiding light for those also standing alone. 💜✨
@@LimitlessMagic777 I would definitely say you're the lucky one. Take the opportunity to figure how to make money doing something you enjoy. I don't have anything financed, have low monthly bills, and have a years worth of expenses saved in preparation. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do, but I'll be trying different ways of making money off my land (herbs and tinctures are where I'm starting). It's a little scary as I've never not worked a typical job before, but I'm trusting my intuition that tells me I am on the right path.
HECK YEAH!! so much love to you. It’s the right choice.
Sending you so much love and support!❤️
I don't understand at 64 still don't know why I so keep trying to feel loved and belonging somewhere in this world.
It's so difficult, especially if you were raised to be a "good girl*, like I did. I am 32. I know I think differently from most people and there is absolutely no group I can feel I belong. Yet I still try to constantly fit any group's I end up in energy so that I can please them or avoid confrontation.. not sure if that helps, just felt to share it!
@lillimol I can attest to the unhealthy effects of being a "good girl".
I can relate. I'm in my 50s. I believe I am worthy of love but no one can see that
@@lillimol You're really right to link being a "good girl" to a feeling of belonging. Society's been telling us this all our lives. Even "bad boys" say they want to marry "good girls."
U may have repressed TRAUMA Within inner adult child
It’s carried in your upper chest area.
U have to work in forgiving your self first and mother father. Inner child wounds. Due to a traumatic childhood event. I found 2 of mine a year half ago a memory popped up and my MOM confirmed it. 💜YAY!!
as RJ Spina said “quit trying to fit in, you weren’t meant to stay!”
I am standing ALONE. All pieces of myself.
Yes it seems as if I am an alien at times. I was not meant to fit in that is for sure.
You just described me 2:49: Being told I need to belong caused me a lot of suffering. Thank you 🌸
this has been big lesson for me... the more I understand mySelf, the more I feel I don't belong to anything or anyone in society. My guides told me recently "you're not meant to fit in... stop trying"
Never thought I fitted in in my home country or family. Was abused probably because I unknowingly challenged the old templates as a child. I’ve spent many years trying to fit in, but the discomfort of NOT being authentically myself became greater than the discomfort of not fitting in. It’s a strange thing unless you’ve experienced this. It’s a feeling when you can’t pretend to fit in anymore and the only way to live is to be yourself. I learned to take care of myself, and feel comfortable being along. This all reminds me of when Jesus said “I am not of this world" in John 8:23, we are not supposed to belong because we are not of this world, we come here to challenge the old, and most people are uncomfortable with change. I’m looking forward to becoming stronger and learning what new templates I’m carrying into the world. Blessings to all of you on the same journey ❤
That's me. Trying to belong and being like everyone else is what causes all my pain and suffering growing up.
That's crazy! I woke up around 3am. I had this dream/ vision that I was not of this world. I wrote about 6 pages. Then you are on my feed and have this message. Thank you. I really appreciate all you do ❣️
I've never felt like I fit in anywhere, also I've lately realized why I act a little silly and quirky around people, I'm doing it intuitively to raise the vibration in the room. Thank you 💕✨
I think the first song I ever heard in my life was Pat Benatar "We belong to the light...."
I've felt that way my entire 66 years. Over the decades I've sought out groups that seemed to have people I thought I might "fit in" with. I've always pondered things that it seemed, no one else did, even as a child. I had a hard time even bringing myself to attend group gatherings of any sort, even if it was something I was really interested in, be it of a spiritual nature or a passion, like trail running or hiking. If I'm even able to get out of the car to attend, (many times I just can't and I attributed it to being a loner)...but I've gone to places I thought might hold some key and I'd belong....I don't. I simply find it very hard to fit in. I never do feel any sense I could fit in or belong and sometimes I might feel sad, but mostly I don't. The only thing that's changed now days is I don't necessarily feel like the outcast or misfit ...I rather like who I am and the fact I don't need any group, people, club to make me happy or give me a sense of purpose and I don't do social media at all, it's just not me and that's good too and better even, I believe.
It took a lot for me to go through Reiki and becoming a so called reiki master but I only use it on myself and distance reiki to people. I mostly use reiki on animals and on people crossing over. I could never use it as a 'business' and take money for it. The word, Tribe, ...I thought oh now I'm supposed to have a tribe? I don't..and I don't really think any one needs to belong in a tribe either. It's okay to just be who I am, even if I just do my own thing...
I am in the sixth decade of life on this planet, and, honestly, have never felt like I belong here, have never "fit in" (particularly with most of my own family) and have been doing my best just to carry on, not absorb other people's energies while still serving and aiding where possible (because it feels good, not because of other people's opinions of what we "should" be doing).
It's been an interesting ride!
Thanks for the video! It's something to watch again.
Blessings! 🙏
Same here
same!
It's all about authenticity. This gives others permission to be themselves, and so little by little changing the world. The internet connects all of us so we don't feel like we are alone. Thank you for creating this!
I so agree! I have never really felt the need to belong, in fact i feel way more at ease and happy alone, with nature and beauty and amazing things, i get my love. When I'm driving alone I'm at peace enjoying all the wonderful beauty of the day and i get joy seeing things like horses running in a field etc. Thank you!
I totally agree with you. This is true for me too, I am not made to belong and it brought me so much unnecessary suffering to try to. Thank goodness I woke up and realised who I am! Xxx
If you feel like you belong here, then you are still heavily immersed in the human experience and persona. To not only feel, but to know this is not your true state of being; nor is it your true place of being. Many people have this detachment in today's world because, whether they realize it yet or not, they are here to awaken and remember.
I love this! 😘
Hi Christina,
I must confess something: I went through a very painful dark night of the soul that changed me completely. During this transformation, your videos kept popping up out of nowhere, as if they could read my thoughts. As usual, I questioned them just like I question everything else, especially that they used to match each state i am in. But when I got exhausted from seeing all these painful transformations combined with nothing but disappointments and more struggles on the actual ground, I decided to close the door on spirituality and started calling it the "la la land." I began working on myself emotionally and mentally, not believing in spirituality anymore. Yet, I cannot deny the cycles I see. I cannot trust or believe in them anymore, but they are there. Also, I cannot deny that i miss a core part of my energy that i am eager to have it back, my radiant spirit. This has lasted for more than a year now, and your videos stopped popping up until a couple of days ago. This video appeared, and I tried to ignore it many times, but in the end, I surrendered and decided to watch it. Guess what? Again, Every single word you said matches my current state. Even the books you mentioned, I have read them. Honestly, I am not looking for belonging anymore, despite feeling a loneliness I have never felt before. I am seeking stability. I need to feel some security in order to shine. We cannot thrive in survival mode. I hope that soon all the obstacles will be resolved, and I can spread my wings wide to the wind again.
Hahhahahahahaha it feels like reading my own story, sorry I have to laugh, cause now I know I'm on the right path. Her Vids found me and once I was fed up with spirituality believing the universe isn't there for me anymore her Vids sort of disappeared. Now that I'm gaining back trust in the Universe and in myself, my growth, her vids are back on my "sight"
I feel the same way about Christina's videos...I am pretty practical but open, and it seems like these videos pop up with the exact content I need to hear. I have listened to a lot of folks over the years, and Christina stands out as among the most attuned and genuine.
The more rested your nights are the better are your energy system energized.
1. Blueprint is dormant ( can become victims of bullying, loneliness, self judgement)
2. Merkabah activates- the walls spin faster and shake where old beliefs and templates shed. Lower dna sheds. Can become an entirely different person. Discovery of who they wanna be. The faster it spins, the authentic blueprint is revealed.
3. Merkabah emanates - unique blueprint emanates out
ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE WORTHY OF LOVE
Thank you for sharing this. I just wrote it down in my journal ❤
At some point I stopped blaming myself for not fitting in and also stopped judging those who wanted to. I like many others have come to usher in a new reality that is a true paradigm shift, one rooted in love and authenticity.
@jdeburen Totally feel the same~ It's ok to stand alone- anyway-if need be~😊
Just be the unique light that you came here to be and shine bright🌞.. Be you ❤ love yourself. You are magical and powerful ✨️ Enjoy! 🎉 Love you 😘
@@JaneFields-x8d 💞
Brené Brown is one of my most loved guides here on earth. Her work helped me so much, I do not even have the words to discribe it. Maslows hiearchy of needs also my top human need system. So, this is by far one of my favorite video's of yours that I have ever watched. I find this video to be 100 % spot on. I'm at my most true authentic self when I have no expectation or need for belonging and belonging becomes a byproduct or a "nice to have" while I'm fully being my authentic self. Through my spiritual awakening, I now know what Brené meant with, 'We are all inextricably connected'.
This brought me the peace I needed tonight. I tried out NOT shaming and pressuring myself over failing to 'fix' this perpetual outsider feeling. And it's been such a peaceful and nurturing few hours. Thank you!
I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. I've always been an outsider and lived as a bit of a hermit most of my life. I'm 37 and going through a bit of a dark night of the soul. It has me questioning myself and my life's choices but I have no alternate way to be. It's left me feeling a bit trapped. I have lost many many friends due to my deconstruction of Christianity and pursuit of alchemy. I have one friend left from my old life. I've lived in forests, on mountains, in wild, remote places. I connect with nature. I talk to trees and plants. They are my friends. But thank you for this because it gives me courage on my journey, to embody this person. My greatest fear is I will not fully be myself in this life. Thank you.
I’m not a joiner…as an HSP I prefer to be alone or only with one other person at a time. This works for me extremely well. During the eclipse this past April 8th, I was blessed to be somewhere I could be completely alone. Not a cloud to be seen, horizon to horizon. I laid in the grass put on my eclipse specs and reveled in the experience…I wept w 0:03 ith the beauty, joy and magnificence of creation. Another click on my bucket list accomplished. 😎👍🏻 (I’m not unsociable though. I just don’t fit. Didn’t someone once say to be IN the world but be not OF it?)
The path of the Indigo. 😇🥰 Peace to you.
This video came to me when I needed it. Love you Christina I also truly believe that the topic of belonging often gets filtered through a human-centric perception, where society becomes fixated on the human experience and neglects the vast, miraculous, and magical natural world. We are surrounded by powerful living forces, such as the intricate communication system between trees through their roots, and the complex lives of ants, birds, whales, and other wonderful beings. Even the powerful weather changes and the energetic vibrations they carry are part of this natural wonder. There is so much divine intelligence in this lifetime and many teachers who do not embody human form, from whom we can all strive to learn and connect. Much love.
Yes just to accept that you don't belong to certain places and being with my authentic self. I don't want to fit anywhere where I don't belong.
Thank you for this video! I am entering stage 3 and I can physically feel what you are describing here. I shifted one day when I walked into the elevator at work with 4 men all dressed similarly and I clearly stood out. Usually I would cower to the back and feel uncomfortable but I didn’t this time. I was completely amused and I realized that my purpose was to be a ‘glitch in the matrix.’ It was so liberating!
WOOOOOOH!! lets goo
Na tato, na mata...
Indian philosophy🌹
I am...Who I am!
I was there, I am here and I will be🙏
I am one with the Cosmos...
Great insights Lopes🙏🙏🙏
Yes, I know I came to hold space for mother Giai as she has gone through her planetary transformation. I now live completely immersed in nature. I love how you talk about these things so understandably.
Thank you Christina
I'm 64, coming into this knowingness and my life is so easefull and beautiful these days.
I'm blessed and super grateful for where I'm at in my life now. It's been a rough road to getting here for sure.
Dear one, the kind of life you are describing is the one I am striving for..what are your advices from
One woman to another? I lost the partner who would support this kind of life and don’t have one who would now. I tried alone but it is to hard. Any supportive ideas? 🙏
YES 🙌🏼 Thank you for this teaching, @ChristinaLopes ! As I’ve been navigating my spiritual awakening, I’ve been acknowledging the People-Pleaser within me who has served the Belonging Committee for decades now. With love, compassion, and respect, I encourage her to retire so that I may perform the work for which I am intended. For about 3 years now, I have been distancing myself from family and narrowing my Friend Zone (not that I’ve ever been one for many “friends” because when they’re aligned, I pour my heart into them) so drastically that it’s pretty much just _me_ now staring into my own eyes, my own being, and truly finding the connection and “belonging” I’ve sought outside myself this entire lifetime.
I SUN·SCRIBE to these words: “You don’t need a “community”, you just need to commune with your Higher Self.” ♥️
xxMeryn
I am an old soul....an indigo child....a queen....royalty...
Me too never fit in. Lord I come to you asking for your blessings as a single mom because I’m raising my children with courage, despite the challenges I face. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord give me strength as I struggle to pay my rent every month and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children I’m ashamed Lord help me. I ask that you bless me with your wisdom and guidance, as I navigate parenthood on my own.💕💕
I hope one day you might be able to change the focus from speaking about struggles and giving them attention instead to accepting the lessons in those struggles and speaking your power and energy into more positive ways. Thanking God for Him guiding you and giving you those lessons to walk through so your spirit strengths as it becomes bigger.
Speak as if it’s already happened, been provided and experienced. “Lord, I thank you for those lessons even the smallest of them while I’m on this beautiful journey on this earth with you always beside me. Thank you for always making sure my financial obligations are already fulfilled ahead of time. Thank you for reminding me that it’s always in Your timing and not mine. I’m humbled by your presence, kindness, grace and easy forgiveness. I ask you Lord that you continue to help me grow in your unconditional, pure, raw, easy, powerful and gentle love so that I may know you more everyday as I learn to know myself as well.”
When we change the simplest way to simply speaking from having the focus switch from what we don’t have to what we do have just from a solid knowing it will happen in the future because we have belief and faith and living as if we already have what we are lacking and have experienced the experience of it already. It creates space to allow it to come into your life.
Positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative. Be present in this moment, not the past or the future. The past is gone and we can’t change anything about it, the future isn’t in this very moment it hasn’t happened yet. Both past and future can cause stress that is unnecessary and keeps your attention stuck either way rather than focusing your attention in the here and now present moment.
Keep going Momma, you got this. You ARE enough! You DO matter! You DO belong! You are ALWAYS exactly right where you’re supposed to be in this very moment! You ARE valued! You ARE worthy! You ARE beautiful inside and out! You ARE loved! You ARE perfectly created to be exactly who you are! You ARE already whole, never broken (our spirits (the truest self) is powerful, pure, perfect and whole).
Have a beautiful and blessed day, week, month, year, decade, lifetime ❤❤❤
You belong you helped save my life during my awakening with your videos in 2020-23
That happened to me. The merkaba. Everything about me shifted. I now live with a quiet mind, love for all and connected to the Universe. Blessed
❤Love this ❤ this is a temporary illusory home. We never gonna belong here, thank God! No one deserves to live in duality for eternity ❤
I also since childhood never felt like I belonged, or fitted in with anyone or anything!
As I grew up I accepted who I was. A loner and friends were their only when we got together.
My own parents seemed not to accept me as family as I became an adult! They are gone and so is my brother.
Not accepted by my brother was a doing by my dad, making sure he could get a argument going between us, then sitting back and watching the separation happen between us.
He did this with my Mom also.
I love who I have become and love Mom and my brother. As for dad it still sparks a trigger in me at times and have been working on me to let go.
Thank you.❤
" You keep being you. "
Exactly the same I discovered about belonging. And my experiences give me many proofs for that true.
Wow, I grew up fascinated by the beauty spots (or moles) on my body because, if I connect them with a pen, they form triangles.
You’re right. The hierarchy of needs also isn’t a hierarchy because you can get all those needs met at any point in your development.
ALL THIS! That quote from Maya Angelou CHANGED MY LIFE and I still live by those words.
OMG!! You've clarified the confusion of the past 72 years. Thank you!! I've learned just recently to accept myself, good, bad, dark light. Very freeing!
Thank you for sharing this. My father always says to me: “why can’t you just be normal like everybody else? You should’t try to be different at all times.”
Well, I really tried being normal. But it just didn’t work out. I was just always different. I was bullied in school and my dad said it’s no wonder when I am this way. I have now realized that I was just forced to be around the wrong people and at the wrong place. I am now grateful to have a supportive community around me where I am valued the way I am. 💜🦁
You're explaining why I was shut down my whole life.
So true, and for this we are many times cursed..not understood. But aas said...i belong to myself and God..inside me.
Damn accurate.. I always adjusted, kept others as first priority now iam trying to come out of people pleasing or fit in phase❤.. It actually gave me peace
A few days ago I legit was meditating and heard the word merkaba , then visualized it around my body. Insane synchronicity!
Brene Brown has an entire book about learning to belong to yourself. It’s called “Braving The Wilderness.”
Omg thank you so very much for this!!!!! I can’t even begin to explain how much I have suffered from thinking something was wrong with me because I have never felt any connection with people. I have never had any close friends or even family except my mother and brother. My kids have always been my focus but as a single mother. No partner has stuck. No job has lead to attachments. No one has ever excepted me my whole life. At 44, I realized I had two people that understood me. My mom and next door neighbor. But I can live without them too. I have dreamed of having a home of my own and not need to see anyone else if I don’t want to. But pipe dreams are what that is. I take care of my parents and daughter and grandson. I am a total people pleaser and peacemaker. ❤
Thank you so much! I agree that we suffer most when we try to fit ourselves into a template that doesn't work for us, to try and please people, rather than being guided by our own authenticity.
wow I can so relate. Always have felt like I don't fit in anywhere. Different in every way. going through the loneliest Time in my life right now. No family. I am getting restless in existing this way. Need to get that mercaba powered somehow!
This brought tears, knowing that am not alone and that I belong but to myself was the best revelation. Thank you ❤
This video resonated with me, and I really needed to see this viewpoint. I have never “fit in” like you, though I kept trying. Now, I realize that I was never meant to. So freeing! Thank you! You, Christina, Michael Singer, and The Law of One have changed my life.
its just semantics, it is really connection and relationship, could be with a person, an animal, nature, God , objects etc. When you say you don't belong here ,meaning this planet there is still longing that you are a part of/connected to somewhere else, bigger, omnipresent and eternal, so literally still belonging somewhere, even to this spiritual community😇
This lesson that you shared was so intense I had to watch little bits of it three times. I had a session with you five years ago after my daughter passed over and my divorce and you told me if I don’t follow through with my ascension my daughter would stay within this loop, and of course the open heart chakra. I did everything you said and today’s lesson is brilliant. I have a dream of coming out to Portugal and being with you and the group someday.❤❤❤❤
This resonates so deeply. I've always struggled with belonging for as long as I can remember. Even though it wasnt necessarily painful, I often feel like an outsider, even in my family. Before I watched the video, I was thinking to myself: "I do belong, I belong to myself and I belong in the world". Little did I know that Maya Angelou, whom I love, said it!!
Thank you so much for this video and helping me reframe this natural feeling. ❤
I couldn’t agree with you more. What you said is absolutely my whole life experience.
Good to know many of us felt this way. Since a child Ive always felt like i didn't belong to this earthly realm. Thanks for your insight.
My soul is here for an adventure, an experience. Make the most of it, be serious when you have to, and be silly when you can. None of us are getting off of this ride alive, lol.
Thank you Christina.
Your gift for articulating
this truth is very helpful. ❤
Christina, I’ve tried to force myself to be normal, like everybody else belong part of the 3-D world. But when I realized that I couldn’t fight, and opress the feelings of the intense need to be an anime girl, I knew I didn’t go through this world.
I also had noticed the hotter I tried to belong my true authentic feelings, inside of being and feeling liking anime girl the more painful it got inside. Nearly trying to fight it and run from it. You killed me a few times in this body.
It’s not just an intense need to be an anime girl, but I also feel like one and feel the soul of an anime girl. So I figured that I must be a Starseed/Blue Ray that’s the only thing that makes sense.
Since my spiritual awakening in 2020 and feeling the love the exists beyond my human comprehension, I no longer feel that I don’t belong. I am one with the earth and everything that exists and there’s nowhere that I don’t belong.
I no longer need to seek human love or acceptance, I’m exactly who I should be and I’ll allow the universe to continue to guide me ❤
One of your best videos for me..
As an Israeli Jew psychodramatist that works with Merkaba... and more, you gave a great explanation .. you gave me the chills 😂 thank you sooo much 🙏🏻
I am a 1st wave Blue Ray. I belong everywhere yet nowhere. Belonging to the tribe(s) on this planet in this current timeline occurs to me as quite scary as humans can be such barbaric savages. At the same time I remain very social, useful, loving & contribute as I can to others given my extreme empathetic nature & purpose here. I’m here for a bigger reason hence my tolerance for those who are victims to the regressives hell-bent on destroying & controlling all in their way. Thank you Christina, 🙏K
Absolutely agree with this!! Since I was a child, I didn’t feel I belonged to my family, I was not emotionally attached to any of them and I was okay with that. I have friends but I don’t need to see them all the time. I’m perfectly content living my life and don’t need to belong anywhere.
The one issue with this is that spiritual teachers tell us we need to find our community. Well, I haven’t needed community before so why do I now?
I absolutely believe some of us are on the earth plane because of soul contracts but we originated from a place where community isn’t emotion based, but functional based. I can get along with anyone, but I don’t suffer fools or BS. Thanks for this video.
This absolutely resonates for me. I feel like this since I was a child. Never fitted in, feeling different than others. Always feeling like a watcher. In Human Design I am a Reflector and that is an exact match with what you are explaining.
I feel better alone to my thoughts. And when engage in tve world I feel like im under a magnifying glasses burning holes through me in judgment. Peace ✌️ to all that are feeling not connected. Love you all. ❤❤❤
Just... thank you.
omg...so glad I don't belong... never have... never cared... as a result, life has been blissful...I've always had a sense of who I am and whose I am... yay!!
Wow! I just recently got an intuitive message that I’m here to shake up the world and literally help change the world to the new one coming.
Every word in your video gave me goosebumps. I am speechless ❤
That is exactly I have always felt " not belonging to a place, society , community". I belong to me and my soul. I never accepted the belief that "belonging" to a society, place, group is a "necessity". No it is not . I am a special edition (and each one of us we are) and I do not need to belong a place. Love Maya's qutation "The price is high, the reward is great". OMG as well Maya just mentioned " I belong to my self. I love my self" Yes lady !!! Thank you Christina. I have started to follwo you just two days ago (and I am inmy awakening process since a bit more than 4 years) and I have saw many YT videos and have listened to many podcast of yours from your site. This is one of my faves.
Thank you for explaining it so clearly. Now I understand why I am the way I am. Have no need to belong any longer. In my younger years I often wondered why I felt so different
Thank you for this timely message. I always feel like a rebel at heart. I hope my merkaba activated soon so my blueprint can come online!
As if your work didn't help me enough during my awakening and lost days... It just keeps getting better
When she said it's not the longing to fit in that causes suffering but the pressure to feel like you should long to fit in that causes the suffering (I'm paraphrasing), that hit the nail on the head for me! I've always felt like that my whole life.
I loved my alone time and I felt like I experienced and reached moments of bliss while making discoveries in my own life. What caused issues in my life was people telling me what I should want and about how horrible loneliness is.
They were projecting their feelings on to me. They might have felt lonely but I loved my solitude.
My natal chart says I'm to go it alone, but it also says that this is rare. Thanks for this video. I have similar feelings as you do about this.
"The price is high. The reward is great." ~ Maya Angelou - Whoa.
This definitely spoke to me and feel like I’ve always had a deeper and different thought process than my family or most people. And have had family say that even at how surprised they are at how I think about things but it never clicked somehow it just felt normal to me in a way and didn’t realize it was different but appreciated how I’ve been during this time. Been finding it interesting finding myself and going deeper into this all. But kinda think as well don’t almost all who go through a spiritual awakening shed old beliefs and etc that was said?
Humor is healing at end of video it was funny when you sang video is over. Radiate love, detach or un-attach, shed or let go of old beliefs or programs, become FREE to love and belong to self, and awaken or ascend. Let your light shine or let your cleansed Merkaba light grow. I no longer want to hide my light. Yes. I want to be Template Changer or I call it just making a difference in the world. Yes. My identity, purpose, and path or journey are becoming clearer each day. Humor, light-heartedness, or becoming open rather than old ways were serious, dense, and ego or negative thought matrix driven. My whole being feels lighter and I am emanating or shining more light and Christ-Consciousness. Feeling excited, hopeful, and energetic for 1st time in a very long time. The light at the end of the tunnel is me finding my worth and belonging by finding my purpose and identity. The veil or covering is being removed. My authentic or true self was there all of the time. It was just hidden by the programs of family, false friends, culture, jobs, or the matrix. I am letting go of people, places, and things which no longer serve me. Interesting the mystery is resolving itself slowly, but surely for me. Thank you for your wisdom, mastery, and guidance to ascend. Gratitude, compassion, and connection is increasing. Love and light.
As long as you love yourself and who you are, it is better to be alone and in good company than to not be alone and in terrible company.
We are indeed social animals, but I focus my efforts on lining things up for a better life where I am more likely to meet people who align with me, and try to keep my closest friends at a count of one hand worth of fingers or less.
Maya was a GREAT example...she will always be my girl and a bag of pearls!❤
Wow just what I needed to hear, thank so much Christina another amazing video 💕
I lol’d because probably the most uncomfortable I’ve been in a group setting recently was at the Portugal retreat last year. Definitely felt like a misfit there, but it was very interesting and enlightening and difficult on many levels. I’m very comfortable where I live and with the work I’m doing and have a handful of my soul people here. I wish the same “home base” to all other misfits.
I belong to myself...Awesome...
belonging is also know as "fitting in". And we are not here to "fit in". We are here to expand our love and wisdom because we are particles of god, and that's what happens when we incarnate on earth. At least that's the aim. Love your channel.!
"True belonging is the spiritual practice of believing in and belonging to yourself so deeply that you can share your most authentic self with the world and find sacredness in both being a part of something and standing alone in the wilderness. True belonging doesn't require you to *change* who you are; it requires you to *be* who you are". ~ Brené Brown, Braving the Wilderness 🩶
This makes so much sense to me now…I have felt this way since I was a child…
I just love the golden Buddha analogy. ❤❤
You are your own Shiva and Shakti
Totally agree with you. I had always feel that l do not belong here and to no one, nor even to my parents nor my 2 sons belonging to me. Happy of listening to your vidéo Christina.... 🙏🙏
You are absolutely right. Belongingness is not a fundamental need.
Today only I was pondering over beliefs of collective consciousness and how difficult it would be to change them.
Thank you so much for guiding us and strengthening our faith in our power. 🙏🙏🙏❤
First of all, THANK YOU! I've been in a bit if a funk for a couple days and this message helped brighten my day. Secondly, for me, it's not so much a need to belong as it is I just feel lonely and isolated because I simply don't resonate with the people around me anymore. I can relate, as I remember what it was like before my awakening, but to live in a world that thinks they are awake when in reality they are still dreaming, is weird and lonely at times. My only comfort now comes from meeting others online going through the same thing. I share my journey on my own youtube channel hoping it helps others on their journey.❤
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife I just want you to know that your words on a few of your videos did help. I did subscribe, and I know it's very challenging and often frustrating too---having a small YT channel-I have one too. It was 3am here, when I woke and found Christina's wonderful video. I was feeling very alone in my thinking. I actually love being alone, and hardly ever feel a feeling of loneliness, but it sure is nice to see that so many here are so like-minded. So, I send a big THANK YOU, Big HUGS, and lots of love to both of you! Hope you can FEEL it! 💞🤗🤗💞Actually, this goes for everyone here, and I'm hoping to read each comment and hopefully connect with more! That would be amazing!!! 🙂
@@tina74166 Thank you, it feels good to connect with like minded people. I will check out your channel too ❤️
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Thanks sweet soul. I was still very tired when I left that comment (I did get some sleep) and I realized I wanted to say more. For one, you & your channel are awesome! You speak with such clarity & insight and I know you will be reaching the right target audience, when timing is in divine order. So please, keep it going! It's all normal to feel as you do. My purpose is more through my 'Spirit Writing' (Automatic writing as they call it) so most insight & inspiration are in descriptions, under in Vlog.. 🙂Been taking some time in silence since my B-day, and hoping to feel inspired real soon to discover what's next. (I've had to reword my comment--hope it still makes sense. Hehehe)~ I hope we can stay connected. I would love that 💗
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Seems, I'm not able to say more to you in this comment- sweet soul. Thank you and I hope we can stay connected💞
@@tina74166 Thank you for your lovely message of hope. I, like you, feel the most important thing we can do is stay true to ourselves and encourage others to be authentic. That is how change happens, within each person first. You can leave comments on my videos too, I just monitor them and approve them to keep the trolls at bay. I've had a problem in the past with internet bullies so I'm more strict now. Happy Belated Birthday my beautiful friend ❤️ Namaste 🌅
Oh look someone explaining my life 😂 I’m so thankful I got comfortable with myself and loved myself through it all and now I help others do the same. I often joke that my center is like the island of the misfit toys. We all seem to gather together and create that safe home space for ourselves and each other through our sisterhood circles. It’s interesting you mention the Merkaba bc I use that regularly in meditation. Thanks for sharing these gems of recognition ❤