@45TROVFX he’s basically saying guys do things to become more attractive for women that never liked them in the first place. If they really liked you all you would have to do is just show up, exist, and be yourself. You don’t need “game” or anything the “dating coaches” tell you to do if they genuinely liked you.
@@Nick2quickOfficial be yourself is the dumbest advice. You don't fully know yourself until you challenge yourself so you consistently have to change and do better.
I agree with everything except for 7. Being a nice guy isn’t the problem, being a people pleaser is the problem because it showcases that you’re a bit dishonest.
Being an actual nice guy is different than being a "nice guy." The difference is a "nice guy" is just a guy who fails to stand up for himself or have boundaries. Just like a guy who is too controlling, it's an unattractive trait because it showcases a personality flaw. And redpill people tend to have personality flaws which puts them there in the first place, so make the "nice guy" thing a bigger deal than it is
@@LOL_MANNTrue all those sacrifices to end up empty handed but hey you should love what you have to do for other to want to be with you but actually not for that, you should enjoy the process of stoping what you deep down really liked but that other don't want to put up with and god forbid if you don't like what others commonly like, sacrifices are unilateral 🤡
your self improvement is masturbation. what are you improving on? your clothes? your hair? muscle fiber? bank account? what exactly have you improved? you still end up as worm food.
Can't agree more 😭 Just mind your own business at that point, men are blind when they think that getting a partner is the cure to a profound lack of self love, confidence or when they go through phases of emptyness and identity crisis. This vid holds far less cliche beliefs, even going against them, though it still failed to mention that the motivation which pushes you to become the best version of yourself shouldn't be that you'll be able to secure your dream date, ever... lol
I think personality matters most. If you're average looking with a great personality, women will probably like you. It's the same thing for women trying to attract men. Personality is most important.
STOP MISLEADING MEN! A "nice guy" does NOT mean a push over, weak or desperate. You need to define your definition of what a nice guy is, as a nice guy 'to me is' a man with respect for others, responsible, hard worker, has personal goals, and yes it not so desperate for a woman's attention that its obvious. Also follows traditional roles but is ok with a wife working if needed or if she wants to. As for the confidence thing, that confidence is his approach to these goals, does he display that focus and drive to it. Not being a pushy or thug character.
It's an internet slang term, but you're right. I also really hate it when they use the term "nice guy" loosely because it can be very misleading. Not everyone know what a "nice guy" is and mistake it for being an actual nice guy, when in fact, it's an internet slang term for men who are being nice to get under a womans pants. "Really? I bought a cupcake for you, and no sex?" is an example of what I'm talking about.
It takes courage and mental strength to be a nice person, male or female. Live if hard and it takes extra energy and sometimes financial strength to be nice. If someone can afford to be nice, he/ she is certainly not weak.
Maybe you don't know but if you aren't showing agression at work then you end up having more work. Nice guy traits that you listed get you nowhere. I was a nice guy and I know how much I had to endure. When you respect the management, they start treating you like a pushover, when you start treating your coworkers with respect, they start to think that you are a suck up. Never give respect, acknowledge others and their position but never give respect!
Never in my life have I ever contemplated what a woman wants. I see one I like, I roll up...simple as that. Either she rides with me or she doesn't, simple as that.
Not girls want "bad boys" if they say so, it means that she wants confident mant, thats it. Be confident Edit: im tired for people to comment "you have to be attractive" and so on but im just trying to give that selfconfidence to people that arent that attractive so can you guys stop, thanks
Guys. Go outside. You will see that there are pretty woman with average looking guys who sometimes are not even tall. My mind shifted aswell since I first only had beautiful girls in my mind that I want. But I got into a situation where there are many pretty girls with me regularly, and ended up falling for the girl who I’d rate a 6/10 in looks, but I am super attractive to her energy, it feels like it’s just what I want in a wife. Her personality is a 9.5 or a 10. And that is in my opinion now way more valuable and attractive than what I first was falling for. Only insecure females will only go for good looking men so they can show it off to people because otherwise she doesn’t get respect.
Ok. I'm going to stop watching videos like this. I've been intimate with over 100 women. One thing I've noticed is that no one knows wtf they are saying or doing. I just have 3 things to say: 1) Be ambitious. You can be broke and homeless, but if you're working towards something, you will be attractive to some women (women judge on status and potential). 2) Recognize attraction signs. 3) Only chase/flirt with women who show interest. Basic stuff, but most guys F them all up lol.
Exactly. Women fall more in love with a guy for what she imagine about him. It's more about having a life experience, having some interesting hobbies, charisma etc., but this comes after you met and actualy started talking. The no 1 issue and most important thing is recognizing the signs that a female is attracted to you and I've seen so many clips trying to teach people how to do it, how to flirt etc but these are complete BS and it's always someone's personal oppinion/experience even if it's a well edited clip on youtube. This is simmilar to documentaries. In History University we were teached that one cannot study and learn history from documentaries because it will always be someone's oppinion and that "someone" can be wrong. Nothing compares to your own personal experience. It's not an exact science and I see that there's a growth in this kind of clips and this suggests that there's a very big need for this and I realize how fcked up things are, because these things should never be taught, this is something that people need to do by socializing a lot. This shit reflects the society how it became lazy and complacent in their own situation and LAZY. Dude will try to find a shortcut to a lady's heart by watching youtube video of an Ai rendered voice reading a prompt made by a guy nobody knows anything about. LMAO
I’m a girl and I have to say that you did a great job describing what girls want. Thank you for taking the time to truly understand what women want . I wonder how you knew all this lol
I’m female and I totally agree. I was surprise. I was not expecting to agree with this video because I seen other videos of what women want and I’ve disagree. But this video here I agree.
i am a 5ft 10 buff 16 year old, i never thought myself of attractive in any way and i am a bit insecure on how my face looks like, however today at the beach i got called sexy by a group of girls in bikinis, i was wearing black shorts and i was topless. When they said that to me i felt so happy and idk just nice
Don't ever think about what you aren't brother. Just take the best care of what you are. Also, don't let a couple of stereotypes shape your view of yourself OR the world😉🫡
@@Nath-sn1mv me being from central asia i always thought that girls wouldnt like us due to our dark facial features and light skin, but eversince then i have a different prespective of how it works my brother and thank you
I hear you. The world has SO SO MANY combinations and possibilities. Try not to end up in a position where you think "now I understand" or "this is it". What I mean is, if you do that, you're implementing mental blocks on your own mind and limiting your perspective of your reality.
Look guys, wealth is monopolized by a specific class, unlike beauty which is distributed among all classes, so work on yourself of course, but be realistic you will get a beautiful girl in most cases.
I think both men and women can rate somebody as attractive or not pretty much instantly. Men supposedly do it more often but it just depends on the person and what dominates their mind. For me a guy, I first saw a girl I work last year and I thought she was pretty and didn't think much of it. Months later I realised I loved pretty much everything about her including her quirks and "imperfections". She's gone from pretty in my mind to cute, beautiful and super hot depending on the moment.
The only part I would disagree on is that girls don’t like nice guys. People nowadays have warped the definition of a nice guy as a weak guys who gets pushed around and is a “simp.” And that is simply not true. The type of wife that I want in the future is a woman who wants nice guys. But other than that I agree with everything else, great video!
As a woman I’m attracted to a man who is confident, masculine, a provider, hardworking, intelligent, romantic, funny, healthy, strong, hygienic, someone who can lead, and has a good heart. ❤️❤
The reason why improving yourself based upon the male gaze works for people; is simply due to improved confidence and self worth. It’s how you carry yourself after the mental effects of self-improvement that’s attractive.
I have found making clever thoughtful jokes relating to a girl or her interests is appealing to a girl they like to know a male has skill in conversation and doesnt take things too seriously.
You're right. It has nothing to do with being rich. Money is just a symbol. A symbol of wealth. Seriously, just be yourself and find things in life that you love. This will naturally draw happiness your way.
As I get older I come to realise I don’t date teenagers anymore, I’m in the adult world now and in this world you stand out on what you do not on how you look or come across, staying within your niche is crucial as the women close by will get closer to you and like you and get to know you more, so many red pillers think women are still like teenagers when they mature much faster than we do so they’re ahead of the game and we’re kinda playing catch up tbh.
Personally me I just keep it real, I’m not gonna change how I naturally act nor look to appeal to a woman or a lot of women and rather focus on bettering myself and how I better myself in all aspects in life, I’m very young (minor) and have a lot of traits that may or may not be attractive to some people and I’ll just be myself whatever social media says I should do, I came to a point in my life where I just DGAF what other people or girls think, and let them come to me, which proved effective based on experience.
Confidence and charisma always win. If you have humor, witty, and sharp in the mind, you get any woman you want. It takes practice. And you have to handle rejection. Who knows, rejection today may be your acceptance tomorrow? People do change their minds, ya know?
Exactly! Women want to feel like their in a story and they like to be entertained, but you don't want to go overboard with it. These things have to be just part of who you are. Girls value authenticity.
@@jhamilton1007 That's right. And women have different flavors. Sure, women like to be entertained, but there are a few women that like stoic guys more than the entertaining guy because the stoic guy seems more balanced with his emotions. But charisma always wins, period.
@darkvalue505 That's the thing though, you can project both. It's all about the right time to portray each of your qualities. I'm usually pretty stoic at work when I'm grinding, but there are times during the day where I may joke with and flirt with female customers or girls I work with to release tension.
Don't chase - attract. The more invested you are in your purpose the more valuable your time is. Women equate their value to your time. The more valuable your time is ie. you're busy genuinely pursuing personal development and worth while goals, the more attracted she will be to you. You guys gotta understand that their are ENDLESS amount of women out their. And even if you slept with 1000 of them you would STILL be unhappy if you're unhappy with yourself. So learn the basics of how to attract, initiate, charm/seduce and maintain a relationship (if that's what you want) THEN GO LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! Stop focusing on them. These chicks are living their own lives and not giving an f about any particular guy until their sexuality can no longer get them attention. Enjoy your life man, it's about you not chicks.
Whatever, some people act dumb and they want to be treated with respect, empathy, compassion, reassurance and financial support from others. It's so weird they are not bothering to return the favour to the givers. So, find a person who has a good personality rather than a good look. If you're aiming for the long term, never forget to do research and analyse on your partner's behaviours and actions Most importantly, be honest with him or her and communicate openly about your concerns and perspectives on your relationship
This is true if the guy wants to get a woman who is not interested in him, but if a woman is interested in a man, the man doesn't need to do any of these things, it's effortless. And you'll know when a woman is interested in you, she makes it obvious. I personally wouldn't bother with a woman who was never interested in me in the first place, i'm not into chasing girls and looking desperate, plenty of girls out there and no girl is worth making that kind of effort for.
@@user-il6vc1xc8v I understand that bro but imagine if you thought about a concept and some other guy just copied your content with exact dialogues and reference images and video and gets views with hardworking wouldn't you feel bad?!.....
That's true, but he is not the only one buddy, there are thousands of yt who do so... So it's better not to object about it... Just chill and collect info...
Shut up! Don't let this AI voice put you dow. Someone who doesn't even have the balls to put himself infron the screen cannot and shouldn't put you down. A samll tip: Identify your weakness and pursue it with a humor when others around. don't make it look like an insecurity. You'll be probably well wihthin the redar :)
Taking into account the ethnicity criteria sounds silly to me -- I mean, there are literally MILLIONS upon millions of most ethnicities - a small amount of people are unlucky that they belong to a very, very small minority of only a few 1000 peeps in the whole world, but when you look at the wider perspective of the word "ethnicity", your chances of finding love still goes up quite a bit -- for instance, american 2-generation descendants of Khoisan from South Africa are, on paper, a different ethnicity from 2-generation descendants of Nuer (from South Sudan) -- but within the framework of the USA, their ethnicities would suddenly be considered much closer, and the barrier towards coupling therefore lower. So, a lot of it is relative, you just have to look at your chances and then maximize those. :)
I disagree with your comment on the money aspect. It absolutely is the money factor that makes a rich guy attractive to women. Girls want a rich guy because they want to be taken care of financially. Most girls wouldn't care if their man got his money as an inheritance or if he made it all from scratch. As long as he has money to treat her and take care of her.
Yes and no. Sometimes a woman will choose a broke man because she sees him as a man who has the potential to be successful. A man with a sense of purpose, direction, hardworking, good social skills, never stops in his pursuit of success, etc.
@@WhalekinMoonGenshin Sure, there are some women willing to wait it out because they see the potential in a guy, but those are outliers. Most women want a man who's already financially stable and able to support them.
ok but is their income average? or what about down there? no girl wants a guy whos average in every sense of the word these average guys got at least 1 good thing about them so that makes them above average
Men can make up for their looks or enhance their looks with fashion and hair for a lot of women. Also a lot of women like a man to be strong but more natural looking way as opposed to those guys who work to hard on arm muscles.
@@28yearsolddbecome a hat guy if it helps. It’s actually a cool way to express your style. I’ve gotten into hats myself, bro.. this new style , Kangol Color Burst Ventair 507 is 🔥. I’m gonna get the brown one first, then definitely the blue for when I wear jeans. Make it your thing and rock it. I don’t know if you have a beard, but I grew out my beard over 6 months and with the help of a good beard barber….i look nice bro I have to say. Length and style of beard depends on you. I also got both ears pierced and I’m so happy I did because I can switch it up however way I want. You got this my dude.
Nice guy part is something I would go against. If you are a good, humble and kind man, who knows how to defend what he loves and himself, then you are golden and a true man. That is what it means to be a man. Pushover and desperate for approval is NOT being "nice".
Better to be a good guy than a nice guy. Good guy is good out of the kindness of his heart. Nice guy is being nice to get something out of it because of desperation.
As a female watching this, your perspective on various topics regarding female and male gaze but mostly female gaze is quite interesting. I think there has been a bunch of reasons why they constantly ask why they keep on attracting the bad boys and never get the right guy. And in my perspective, I think women that go for the bad guys finding them interesting, fun, and entertaining. Especially the handsome and socially charismatic guys. We like how they can make us feel physically and socially good at the moment. And believe as long as we are attractive and have a good heart and can forgive and be open minded, the bad guy will eventually turn into a good guy and take care of us. But we all know that will never happen. I use to be so much getting a guy for female gaze reasons, but after dating around and feeling empty, I just go for a handsome guy that is actually a good guy that might be fun, I don’t know. But he was helpful to me and he seems dedicated to helping and working. As women get older, some women do realize that not every attractive handsome guy is good in the long run, because some of them rather work on looking good than getting a job to pay for groceries and bills. And that quality of handsome men are just covered in baggage.
Rookies. Its a well known fact that women are more attracted to behavioral traits that display status and leadership, also tend to react more to others peoples approval.
There are a few things this video gets wrong: -beauty is not subjective, it is very objective, there is no variance. There was a survey asking thousands of women to build the ideal man on looks alone. The vast majority built the same man (5’10” to 6; tall minimum height, V torso with 1.64 golden ratio, symmetrical face, square jawline, full hair, large hands, gym body, no obesity). Also if looks are so subjective, why do the top 5% of men in looks get over 80% of the swipes from women on dating apps? -the BTS thing is BS. Take any of the seven, delete his celebrity and money and status, and any western women who sees a pasty bleached white skin skinny Korean guy with blond hair and obvious plastic surgery in the club or bar, she would laugh her @$$ off at him. The teenage girls like BTS due to their celebrity and not one of them would ever date or marry an Asian guy. -always ignore what women say and observe what they do. Women either lie about or don’t know what they want, them claiming they want an average height nice guy is a blatant shameless lie.
There is a lot of projection and self-doubt in your response. First, dating apps are set up to be based on physical appearance. It’s literally “drive thru” mentality. Look at the pictures and choose what you like the best (that’s also why the survey you mentioned has no basis in reality). It’s also mostly used as an “intimacy” app, so that’s no surprise there. However, beauty is subjective. If over 80% of women choose the “top 5% of guys”, how come that’s not reflected in relationships? Shouldn’t only 5% of men be in relationships? If beauty is objective, then life should follow tinder, but it doesn’t. How did the world population rise 1 billion people from 2011 to 2023? Was that due to 5% of the men? There is a time to stop blaming the world for our problems and start looking in the mirror.
No what he said was truth, but you butthurt so you attack. We live in a world where people would rather be on the defensive and attack than admit the other person knows something I don't
@@standardofexcellence He has his opinions about the world and I have mine. Both our opinions are biased based off our life experiences. If he is complaining about how rigged the dating game is against men, it's because he is projecting based on his own experience. We cling to the information that confirms our biases. I'm trying to help him understand with logic (which you clearly did not read) that his perception on reality isn't true. Let the man defend himself if he was offended instead of coming to his defense.
@@dudleysquibbles6366 there is a lot wrong here: -dating apps are very accurate because it is one of the few avenues where women are brutally honest about what they want. The swipes are indicative of what women actually prefer for looks, income, education, height, etc., instead of the comforting lies women tell themselves and each other to avoid social rejection. -yet again, beauty is not subjective, that is cope that ugly people tell themselves. Women overwhelmingly want tall handsome men with muscles and no obesity, men overwhelmingly want hourglass figure women with long hair, beautiful faces, and no obesity. Those are proven objective facts. -the women with the non 5% men show one of two things. Those women either finally matured and settled for a guy on their actual level when they got older and the simps stopped giving them free attention or the average guy they chose have other traits such as immense wealth. Also if women are getting with average guys, why is the marriage rate so low? Why is female marital dissatisfaction so high? Yet again, it is a shameless provable lie when women claim they want average guys. -you delusional people always yell projection when facts and reality visit your bubble wrapped safe space lives. I’m actually in the 5% of men when factoring my height, income, education level, physical fitness, and overall attractiveness.
I am not a Fan of k Pop but I think bts worked for there status no reason to not ackknowledge that and saying they wouldnt date them anyways. But I can agree that beauty is related to many aspects that are objective and yes you shouldnt listen to women because they dont even know what they want. I think the problem with a nice guy is its getting boring for them. Women are talking so much trash you shouldnt agree to all
@@orianogiorgetti6459 I guess that's very obvious. The point is to genuinely become a successful person, attract, and select. Maybe you're speaking of experience? That would be crazzy. 🤔
In response to point 3 about average guys being in relationships, this is obviously true, but you have to ask yourself what are those relationships actually like? Is she happy? Does she truly find him attractive? I'll just say this: Every single one of my friends from back in high school (we're all late twenties - thirty now) has been cheated on or treated like complete trash. I don't actually know a single "average" (or below) dude who has ever found a woman who loves and respects him. Sure, average guys can "get" average women sometimes, but is that a win? To not be loved or wanted, but just tolerated? To be the guy who pays her bills for a while until a better option comes along? The reality is that only the top ~10% of men will ever actually be desired and loved. Just the way it is. Better hope you won the genetic lottery or you find something else to put your time into, because the way you feel towards women will never be reciprocated.
2:47 Bro really used looksmatch as a outlier 🗿 When you cherry pick at least do it right 🗿 Even if you found outlier you don't know the dynamic of the realitionship, could be simple betabuxxer, there is no BP antidote.
As a 20 years old man, the only thing for me is that I'm Just about 170cm, soft voice and modest facial hair, it's hard cause most girls in my region are somewhere between 160-175 cm, i mean 15-20% of girls are around my height or taller than me, and those, you can't be perceived as charismatic when you have these factors that you can't control, yeah sometimes you have to accept that you were not made to be attractive, maybe you were made to become a scientist or something else
Here's a freaking good advice I'm going to give you... Stop watching this types of Videos/content. Don't focus on what women want. Focus on where you actually want to get better. Go to gym (for your health), eat healthy (for your health), learn valuable skills (if you only think it'll be worth), improve your looks ( ONLY if that's what makes YOU happy), there are more options in this world than 'giving up'. Don't seek attentions from others Seek opportunities for yourself
To keep it simple your body language needs to show you’re sophisticated and confident and when you approach and speak to her it needs to genuinely show that you deserve to be around her. The moment you put her on a pedestal you showed her that you need to overcompensate because she’s above your league
Liked most parts but 6:35 I call BS there. If women like rich men not for their wealth but quality, why do women leave rich men when they gone broke? Don't they still have the quality to make money? And 7:04 you said 'don't change personalities just to appeal to a girl' but you just said nice guys are unattractive, so do you suggest nice guys to change personalities or not?
High value women will most likely like a rich man because of his qualities; at least that’s my opinion. And when I talk about „nice guys”, I mean guys who lack confidence and chase girls in a desperate way. I don’t mean being respectful and caring.
I usually avoid videos like these because the person who narrates usually has some kinda controversial take, or completely misses the point. But damn dude this was a really good video. I’ve had my fair share of women even at 5’4, but yet so often I hear from ONLINE short men that they aren’t having any success. Yet anytime you step out doors you still see average dudes, short dudes, and unattractive dudes being social. Guys trust me. Being above average is a huge fing plus, but it is not then end all be all. I had my ex fiancé for 6 years, and in that time span I shaved my head bald, went fat, got ripped, back to fat, long *ss nasty hair etc. And that women still slept with me 3 times a week. I kept her laughing and having a good time. Never was I ever in a negative space 24/7. Only reason we aren’t dating anymore is because we amicably separated to chase our careers. Anyways good video! EDIT: This right here can not be any more true, but however… lol it can still play out 4:21 Quick story When I was in college I had a lady friend who told me twice that she would never date me because I was short. Bruh tell me why I was clapping them cheeks and receiving invisible ink text from her literally days after her ugly comments. Its all subjective
As a woman, this is still such stupid advice. Please don't fall into the trap of believing that all women are the same, and so simple minded at that. My advice would be to prioritize your character. The best man I know is my grandfather. He isn't 6 ft tall, and he never made above minimum wage. He didn't even go to school beyond the eighth grade. But he worked hard to provide for his family, and has always been kind, strong and considerate. He has a love of learning, and he's attuned to the beauty of this world. He is very well respected in his community, and very well loved by his family, even though men might not see him as "high value" today.
my success is always be stoic, not too laugh while everyone is laughing, stay cool and alone and grind your game to be wealthy, like my mama always told me women will always be attracted to money while men get older money, wealth, and business if you own many never gets old
So I’ll give you my take on this theme. I’m in my early 20s and have met very beautiful women in my life. Moreover, such women were physically attractive and solid 9s and above. I learned a couple of things that these women loved, which are the following: - Intelligence -Good hygiene - Healthy physique - Emotional intelligence - Confidence - Assertiveness I feel like these are attributes every man should work for THEMSELVES, not women. If you work out or improve for the sake of women, forget it about bro. You have to love yourself and then just not care about what women think. A lot of women confuse arrogance over confidence, which is why some date “ass holes”. At the end of the day, you have to raise your standards.
People get rich through the effort, sacrifice and hard work of others, like 99% of rich people are rich from inheritance or stealing capital gain from others, or both 😊
great video brother! you have done a well thought observation and study on the subject and have good grip over the female gaze. will like to see more indepth analysis
I go to gym and work out to be healthy and not for the goal of attracting women. I just being my honest self and not acting like someone else because that what makes me comfortable and happy. Love yourself first. If God really give you the woman for you what ever happen you'll be together.
I kind of broke out of that super hyper looks focused once I started realize how many average looking guys even more average than me scored a beatiful chick or notice that the guys chicks were sleeping with weren't all that. Its good to improve yourself and looks to better your competition and stand out but its not the end all be all like we've been lead to believe.
The first thing I notice when I see a couple is how rich the man looks and what car he has. Girls have been asked "rich ugly guy or broke hot guy?" and most of them said "rich ugly guy".
Just have confidence. Have your life in front of you. Come from a place of joy and be yourself. Most importantly, have a good personality. Be kind to everyone.
Some women like nice guys, but if you are only a "wannabe-nice" guy to be liked by her or others, and you are always giving her what she wants and basically putting her on a pedestal, then you will be placed into the friendzone, or not even that. Women like nice guys who can be funny, who show respect for themselves and others (and sometimes that means putting limits and not accepting bs from her) and of course, in bed you have to become a BAD guy
Who gave this person all the knowlegde? Everything you said is true. (Even though I don't agree with the first part of the 'nice guy' topic, I personally love nice guys, but like they said: being confident, (social,) standing up for yourself and the people around you, setting boundaries, not letting people run over you and everything after that (6:00) I think is true.)
The biggest mistake guys make in trying to become more attractive to women is trying to become more attractive to women.
what
@45TROVFX he’s basically saying guys do things to become more attractive for women that never liked them in the first place. If they really liked you all you would have to do is just show up, exist, and be yourself. You don’t need “game” or anything the “dating coaches” tell you to do if they genuinely liked you.
Hes right guys. Lets start putting effort into become more attractive to guys
@@Nick2quickOfficial this is terrible advice.
@@Nick2quickOfficial be yourself is the dumbest advice. You don't fully know yourself until you challenge yourself so you consistently have to change and do better.
I agree with everything except for 7. Being a nice guy isn’t the problem, being a people pleaser is the problem because it showcases that you’re a bit dishonest.
....dishonest to yourself.
Being an actual nice guy is different than being a "nice guy." The difference is a "nice guy" is just a guy who fails to stand up for himself or have boundaries. Just like a guy who is too controlling, it's an unattractive trait because it showcases a personality flaw. And redpill people tend to have personality flaws which puts them there in the first place, so make the "nice guy" thing a bigger deal than it is
people pleasing comes from bad relationship with their parents
I would add that it’s ok to be nice, just don’t be stupid nice.
nice guy = people pleaser = trauma
Well
I say at the end self improvement is better than self sabotaging
Waste of time is self sabotaging for many lol
@@LOL_MANNTrue all those sacrifices to end up empty handed but hey you should love what you have to do for other to want to be with you but actually not for that, you should enjoy the process of stoping what you deep down really liked but that other don't want to put up with and god forbid if you don't like what others commonly like, sacrifices are unilateral 🤡
your self improvement is masturbation.
what are you improving on? your clothes? your hair? muscle fiber? bank account? what exactly have you improved? you still end up as worm food.
What is your idea of self improvement. This video said nothing against that, why are you saying this in defiance
@@collinharris4848 i ain't gonna answer someone who's trying to argue just to argue
Watched the whole video and my final conclusion is that IDGAF LOL
Can't agree more 😭
Just mind your own business at that point, men are blind when they think that getting a partner is the cure to a profound lack of self love, confidence or when they go through phases of emptyness and identity crisis.
This vid holds far less cliche beliefs, even going against them, though it still failed to mention that the motivation which pushes you to become the best version of yourself shouldn't be that you'll be able to secure your dream date, ever... lol
Real
Thanks you saved my time.
I think personality matters most. If you're average looking with a great personality, women will probably like you. It's the same thing for women trying to attract men. Personality is most important.
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STOP MISLEADING MEN! A "nice guy" does NOT mean a push over, weak or desperate. You need to define your definition of what a nice guy is, as a nice guy 'to me is' a man with respect for others, responsible, hard worker, has personal goals, and yes it not so desperate for a woman's attention that its obvious. Also follows traditional roles but is ok with a wife working if needed or if she wants to. As for the confidence thing, that confidence is his approach to these goals, does he display that focus and drive to it. Not being a pushy or thug character.
It's an internet slang term, but you're right. I also really hate it when they use the term "nice guy" loosely because it can be very misleading. Not everyone know what a "nice guy" is and mistake it for being an actual nice guy, when in fact, it's an internet slang term for men who are being nice to get under a womans pants.
"Really? I bought a cupcake for you, and no sex?" is an example of what I'm talking about.
It takes courage and mental strength to be a nice person, male or female. Live if hard and it takes extra energy and sometimes financial strength to be nice. If someone can afford to be nice, he/ she is certainly not weak.
there is a difference between being nice and being kind.
Maybe you don't know but if you aren't showing agression at work then you end up having more work. Nice guy traits that you listed get you nowhere. I was a nice guy and I know how much I had to endure. When you respect the management, they start treating you like a pushover, when you start treating your coworkers with respect, they start to think that you are a suck up. Never give respect, acknowledge others and their position but never give respect!
I love the point about “niche” - trying to be appealing to one girl or small group. Not to ALL women. This is very helpful
Try to appeal to other barbarians.
If her friends dont find you then your cooked.
Never in my life have I ever contemplated what a woman wants. I see one I like, I roll up...simple as that. Either she rides with me or she doesn't, simple as that.
Respect bro. I love this.
How long have u been doing Uber?
Busy on weekends?
@@seandafny That's clown behavior on your part bro...stop it, get some help! 🤣
@@tima.478 go ahead and make another comment like that and I'll give u 3 stars. Go ahead...
Be yourself, go do the thing you wanna do, and pray; because sometimes life really breaks you and you need a miracle.
Exactly
Exactly, we should invest time in ourselves instead of getting attention from opposite sex
@@Broccoli-m9h I just do both
be your BEST self
Not girls want "bad boys" if they say so, it means that she wants confident mant, thats it. Be confident
Edit: im tired for people to comment "you have to be attractive" and so on but im just trying to give that selfconfidence to people that arent that attractive so can you guys stop, thanks
It’s the face
@@Tha_Potatoo “That’s it bro just be confident bro!”
@@imafkingbeastandrewtateise9563 Well, ofc the looks also matter but if you are confident they see it and its attractive
@@Tha_Potatoo any woman would choose an attractive confident man over an unattractive confident man.
@@imafkingbeastandrewtateise9563 yes, ofc
The man she want: 😎
But she: 🤡
Him 🗿
Her 🧌🦧🥸
She will realize later
You're saying this because girls rejected you، it's okay buddy
Vice versa
When she's 40yo catlady@@danielpiispanen9155
Guys. Go outside. You will see that there are pretty woman with average looking guys who sometimes are not even tall. My mind shifted aswell since I first only had beautiful girls in my mind that I want. But I got into a situation where there are many pretty girls with me regularly, and ended up falling for the girl who I’d rate a 6/10 in looks, but I am super attractive to her energy, it feels like it’s just what I want in a wife. Her personality is a 9.5 or a 10. And that is in my opinion now way more valuable and attractive than what I first was falling for. Only insecure females will only go for good looking men so they can show it off to people because otherwise she doesn’t get respect.
Height is cope. Face is everything.
Spoken like a true incel 😂 face matters a lot, height is bonus to that... Personality comes later
@@abel3874Exactly
@@abel3874I am too focused on girls face hence why I’m still single at 29 and practice semen retention for improving my attractiveness and inner self
You’re a rare 1% buddy.
Ok. I'm going to stop watching videos like this. I've been intimate with over 100 women. One thing I've noticed is that no one knows wtf they are saying or doing. I just have 3 things to say:
1) Be ambitious. You can be broke and homeless, but if you're working towards something, you will be attractive to some women (women judge on status and potential).
2) Recognize attraction signs.
3) Only chase/flirt with women who show interest.
Basic stuff, but most guys F them all up lol.
This should have been said in the video. No jokes
What is atraction signs ?
I completed zero so far. Just three to go!
Exactly. Women fall more in love with a guy for what she imagine about him. It's more about having a life experience, having some interesting hobbies, charisma etc., but this comes after you met and actualy started talking. The no 1 issue and most important thing is recognizing the signs that a female is attracted to you and I've seen so many clips trying to teach people how to do it, how to flirt etc but these are complete BS and it's always someone's personal oppinion/experience even if it's a well edited clip on youtube. This is simmilar to documentaries. In History University we were teached that one cannot study and learn history from documentaries because it will always be someone's oppinion and that "someone" can be wrong. Nothing compares to your own personal experience. It's not an exact science and I see that there's a growth in this kind of clips and this suggests that there's a very big need for this and I realize how fcked up things are, because these things should never be taught, this is something that people need to do by socializing a lot. This shit reflects the society how it became lazy and complacent in their own situation and LAZY. Dude will try to find a shortcut to a lady's heart by watching youtube video of an Ai rendered voice reading a prompt made by a guy nobody knows anything about. LMAO
facts
A man's voice and the way he talks is more important than physical looks.
Also confidence and a sense of calmness is another important factor
I want similar features in women too. Physical look isn't that important (it's just bonus)
Confudence is the key. If she's not interested in you, fine, dump her and move on.
Everyone wsnts what they can't have.
I’m a girl and I have to say that you did a great job describing what girls want. Thank you for taking the time to truly understand what women want . I wonder how you knew all this lol
I’m female and I totally agree. I was surprise. I was not expecting to agree with this video because I seen other videos of what women want and I’ve disagree. But this video here I agree.
Fish don’t know how to catch fish, the fishermen do that’s how they catch them. relax
Yall sound like bots. Y u talking lik Mr miagi
@@seandafny why you spelling like an infant
😡😡😡😡
i am a 5ft 10 buff 16 year old, i never thought myself of attractive in any way and i am a bit insecure on how my face looks like, however today at the beach i got called sexy by a group of girls in bikinis, i was wearing black shorts and i was topless. When they said that to me i felt so happy and idk just nice
Hey homie make sure to stretch, eat healthy and exercise so you could keep growing
Don't ever think about what you aren't brother.
Just take the best care of what you are.
Also, don't let a couple of stereotypes shape your view of yourself OR the world😉🫡
@@mikeypauly8371 thank you for the tips g
@@Nath-sn1mv me being from central asia i always thought that girls wouldnt like us due to our dark facial features and light skin, but eversince then i have a different prespective of how it works my brother and thank you
I hear you.
The world has SO SO MANY combinations and possibilities.
Try not to end up in a position where you think "now I understand" or "this is it".
What I mean is, if you do that, you're implementing mental blocks on your own mind and limiting your perspective of your reality.
Guys, I have no chance💀
Me fr😔☝🏻
Same
Try lookmaxxing😉❤🔥
Look guys, wealth is monopolized by a specific class, unlike beauty which is distributed among all classes, so work on yourself of course, but be realistic you will get a beautiful girl in most cases.
My girl is taller than me, makes more money than me and is overall more sexy than me.
Folks get perspectives twisted. We all just like who we like.
Not true because beauty is universal and recognized by all people
U gotta have a big rod m8😅
You sir are an exception not the norm.
You're clearly a safe choice. Good for you.
@@raidarubruh lmao
It only takes 4 things, guys. A man who is (1) in finance (2) trust fund (3) 6'5" (4) blue eyes
Misleading.
😂😂😂😂😂
yeah blue eyes, that's why so many white women are into black guys lol
height,money and eyes dont matter
@@toptiercrip He's making fun of a female meme that's been floating around. He wasn't being serious.
I think both men and women can rate somebody as attractive or not pretty much instantly. Men supposedly do it more often but it just depends on the person and what dominates their mind.
For me a guy, I first saw a girl I work last year and I thought she was pretty and didn't think much of it. Months later I realised I loved pretty much everything about her including her quirks and "imperfections". She's gone from pretty in my mind to cute, beautiful and super hot depending on the moment.
Not even a click bait it's definitely worth it. You've just just got a Subb fam!
2:34 Loved the subtle Stevie Emerson nod with the 'insecure' mention! Haha
The only part I would disagree on is that girls don’t like nice guys. People nowadays have warped the definition of a nice guy as a weak guys who gets pushed around and is a “simp.” And that is simply not true. The type of wife that I want in the future is a woman who wants nice guys. But other than that I agree with everything else, great video!
As a woman I’m attracted to a man who is confident, masculine, a provider, hardworking, intelligent, romantic, funny, healthy, strong, hygienic, someone who can lead, and has a good heart. ❤️❤
Did you miss anything ?
Lmao it’s okay you can say someone who has money. I thought women were independent and don’t need a provider? Or is that just some nonsense ?
The reason why improving yourself based upon the male gaze works for people; is simply due to improved confidence and self worth. It’s how you carry yourself after the mental effects of self-improvement that’s attractive.
Just have confidence & look at her & walk with your shoulders back.
This video is actually informative wtf, as soon as it said you can’t break it down to a science I knew this was a good one
Long story short : Men is the Book , Women is the reader .
It can be other way too
@@Broccoli-m9h no.
Then who's the writer ?
@@Broccoli-m9h God
@@suravinayan2753 then why did the God create the book before the reader
I have found making clever thoughtful jokes relating to a girl or her interests is appealing to a girl they like to know a male has skill in conversation and doesnt take things too seriously.
You're right. It has nothing to do with being rich. Money is just a symbol. A symbol of wealth. Seriously, just be yourself and find things in life that you love. This will naturally draw happiness your way.
As I get older I come to realise I don’t date teenagers anymore, I’m in the adult world now and in this world you stand out on what you do not on how you look or come across, staying within your niche is crucial as the women close by will get closer to you and like you and get to know you more, so many red pillers think women are still like teenagers when they mature much faster than we do so they’re ahead of the game and we’re kinda playing catch up tbh.
As a woman, I can confirm. It would be interesting to see your take on men too
If you have to ask that, then you will be single for a long time, because you dont know what men find attractive in women
He talked about female gaze here
step one: be handsome
step two: repeat step one .
I don’t think looks are enough
Personally me I just keep it real, I’m not gonna change how I naturally act nor look to appeal to a woman or a lot of women and rather focus on bettering myself and how I better myself in all aspects in life, I’m very young (minor) and have a lot of traits that may or may not be attractive to some people and I’ll just be myself whatever social media says I should do, I came to a point in my life where I just DGAF what other people or girls think, and let them come to me, which proved effective based on experience.
Confidence and charisma always win. If you have humor, witty, and sharp in the mind, you get any woman you want. It takes practice. And you have to handle rejection. Who knows, rejection today may be your acceptance tomorrow? People do change their minds, ya know?
Exactly! Women want to feel like their in a story and they like to be entertained, but you don't want to go overboard with it. These things have to be just part of who you are. Girls value authenticity.
@@jhamilton1007 That's right. And women have different flavors. Sure, women like to be entertained, but there are a few women that like stoic guys more than the entertaining guy because the stoic guy seems more balanced with his emotions. But charisma always wins, period.
@darkvalue505 That's the thing though, you can project both. It's all about the right time to portray each of your qualities. I'm usually pretty stoic at work when I'm grinding, but there are times during the day where I may joke with and flirt with female customers or girls I work with to release tension.
You can be handsome and have a bunch of charisma and charm you want, but if you’re lazy and you don’t have a job, you’re just baggage.
@@bplovelove3119 Go tell that to Robert Dinero in the movie Casino. Sharon Stone, his wife, cheated on him to a lowlife pimp.
I am usually skeptical about videos on this topic, but this one is brilliant.
Pretty sure it depends entirely on their mood, but doing some bicep curls helps.
Same can be said for women. The difference is, society doesn't coddle men, so they have to learn or die alone.
Don't chase - attract.
The more invested you are in your purpose the more valuable your time is. Women equate their value to your time. The more valuable your time is ie. you're busy genuinely pursuing personal development and worth while goals, the more attracted she will be to you. You guys gotta understand that their are ENDLESS amount of women out their. And even if you slept with 1000 of them you would STILL be unhappy if you're unhappy with yourself. So learn the basics of how to attract, initiate, charm/seduce and maintain a relationship (if that's what you want) THEN GO LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! Stop focusing on them. These chicks are living their own lives and not giving an f about any particular guy until their sexuality can no longer get them attention. Enjoy your life man, it's about you not chicks.
This !!
Whatever, some people act dumb and they want to be treated with respect, empathy, compassion, reassurance and financial support from others.
It's so weird they are not bothering to return the favour to the givers.
So, find a person who has a good personality rather than a good look.
If you're aiming for the long term, never forget to do research and analyse on your partner's behaviours and actions
Most importantly, be honest with him or her and communicate openly about your concerns and perspectives on your relationship
"Female gaze" but says she sees your humour and smell which cannot be seen with eyes lol
0:01 she reminds me of someone but idk, who was she?
Madison Beer
Only one thing: MONEY.
I was waiting him to say it, but it was you. I am very that there are still wise men like you.❤
And you get a gold digger
Money can't compete with dick and attention. #D&A.
Not talking abt gold diggerss
Your gold digger will be cheating on you daily with some "good looking" dudes XD
This is true if the guy wants to get a woman who is not interested in him, but if a woman is interested in a man, the man doesn't need to do any of these things, it's effortless. And you'll know when a woman is interested in you, she makes it obvious. I personally wouldn't bother with a woman who was never interested in me in the first place, i'm not into chasing girls and looking desperate, plenty of girls out there and no girl is worth making that kind of effort for.
This is true, but a girl can lose interest in you once she gets to know you more. Speaking from experience here
Full copied video.
Does it matter that the video is copy or not, we are here to just collect the information...
@@user-il6vc1xc8v I understand that bro but imagine if you thought about a concept and some other guy just copied your content with exact dialogues and reference images and video and gets views with hardworking wouldn't you feel bad?!.....
That's true, but he is not the only one buddy, there are thousands of yt who do so... So it's better not to object about it... Just chill and collect info...
@@user-il6vc1xc8v Collection of information is good but atleast somebody should acknowledge the credits to the respective person brother....
@@AnayRJ785 fair...
*this is so depressing. I can't just make myself taller, more handsome, or different ethnicity.*
Shut up! Don't let this AI voice put you dow. Someone who doesn't even have the balls to put himself infron the screen cannot and shouldn't put you down.
A samll tip: Identify your weakness and pursue it with a humor when others around. don't make it look like an insecurity. You'll be probably well wihthin the redar :)
Bro,just improve yourself as best as you can
Buy a cute puppy dog and walk it every day in busy streets you'll be fine...
same here.
Taking into account the ethnicity criteria sounds silly to me -- I mean, there are literally MILLIONS upon millions of most ethnicities - a small amount of people are unlucky that they belong to a very, very small minority of only a few 1000 peeps in the whole world, but when you look at the wider perspective of the word "ethnicity", your chances of finding love still goes up quite a bit -- for instance, american 2-generation descendants of Khoisan from South Africa are, on paper, a different ethnicity from 2-generation descendants of Nuer (from South Sudan) -- but within the framework of the USA, their ethnicities would suddenly be considered much closer, and the barrier towards coupling therefore lower.
So, a lot of it is relative, you just have to look at your chances and then maximize those. :)
I disagree with your comment on the money aspect. It absolutely is the money factor that makes a rich guy attractive to women. Girls want a rich guy because they want to be taken care of financially. Most girls wouldn't care if their man got his money as an inheritance or if he made it all from scratch. As long as he has money to treat her and take care of her.
Exactly
I am woman and you’re right but also wrong
Yes and no. Sometimes a woman will choose a broke man because she sees him as a man who has the potential to be successful. A man with a sense of purpose, direction, hardworking, good social skills, never stops in his pursuit of success, etc.
Amen😊
@@WhalekinMoonGenshin Sure, there are some women willing to wait it out because they see the potential in a guy, but those are outliers. Most women want a man who's already financially stable and able to support them.
Men are attracted to looks.
Women are attracted to status.
Take this rule to heart.
If you go outside, you'll see that most average guys are with average girls or lower.
ok but is their income average? or what about down there?
no girl wants a guy whos average in every sense of the word
these average guys got at least 1 good thing about them so that makes them above average
Here is the summary for everyone:
If you are Sub 5. Its over, dont bother. Anything above 5, you can perhaps looksmaxx and have a chance.
Small but with the basics spot on, very good and true
Men can make up for their looks or enhance their looks with fashion and hair for a lot of women. Also a lot of women like a man to be strong but more natural looking way as opposed to those guys who work to hard on arm muscles.
that's because most women are out of shape and they're embarrassed and standing next to a muscular fit man
i dont have hair 😞
@@28yearsoldd Hair is not the magic ingredient, so don't worry about it so much. Focus on what you have control over.
@@Crazea thank you
@@28yearsolddbecome a hat guy if it helps. It’s actually a cool way to express your style. I’ve gotten into hats myself, bro.. this new style ,
Kangol Color Burst Ventair 507 is 🔥.
I’m gonna get the brown one first, then definitely the blue for when I wear jeans. Make it your thing and rock it. I don’t know if you have a beard, but I grew out my beard over 6 months and with the help of a good beard barber….i look nice bro I have to say. Length and style of beard depends on you. I also got both ears pierced and I’m so happy I did because I can switch it up however way I want. You got this my dude.
Maddison Beer got man slippin' 🤣🤣
Nice guy part is something I would go against. If you are a good, humble and kind man, who knows how to defend what he loves and himself, then you are golden and a true man. That is what it means to be a man. Pushover and desperate for approval is NOT being "nice".
Better to be a good guy than a nice guy.
Good guy is good out of the kindness of his heart.
Nice guy is being nice to get something out of it because of desperation.
As a female watching this, your perspective on various topics regarding female and male gaze but mostly female gaze is quite interesting. I think there has been a bunch of reasons why they constantly ask why they keep on attracting the bad boys and never get the right guy. And in my perspective, I think women that go for the bad guys finding them interesting, fun, and entertaining. Especially the handsome and socially charismatic guys. We like how they can make us feel physically and socially good at the moment. And believe as long as we are attractive and have a good heart and can forgive and be open minded, the bad guy will eventually turn into a good guy and take care of us. But we all know that will never happen. I use to be so much getting a guy for female gaze reasons, but after dating around and feeling empty, I just go for a handsome guy that is actually a good guy that might be fun, I don’t know. But he was helpful to me and he seems dedicated to helping and working. As women get older, some women do realize that not every attractive handsome guy is good in the long run, because some of them rather work on looking good than getting a job to pay for groceries and bills. And that quality of handsome men are just covered in baggage.
Getting a job to pay for groceries and bills ?
You could say 'Breadwinner' instead of that
So what is your pint of commenting here ??? Telling women that girls handsome men are good for long run just take them bla blah blah
Rookies. Its a well known fact that women are more attracted to behavioral traits that display status and leadership, also tend to react more to others peoples approval.
There are a few things this video gets wrong:
-beauty is not subjective, it is very objective, there is no variance. There was a survey asking thousands of women to build the ideal man on looks alone. The vast majority built the same man (5’10” to 6; tall minimum height, V torso with 1.64 golden ratio, symmetrical face, square jawline, full hair, large hands, gym body, no obesity). Also if looks are so subjective, why do the top 5% of men in looks get over 80% of the swipes from women on dating apps?
-the BTS thing is BS. Take any of the seven, delete his celebrity and money and status, and any western women who sees a pasty bleached white skin skinny Korean guy with blond hair and obvious plastic surgery in the club or bar, she would laugh her @$$ off at him. The teenage girls like BTS due to their celebrity and not one of them would ever date or marry an Asian guy.
-always ignore what women say and observe what they do. Women either lie about or don’t know what they want, them claiming they want an average height nice guy is a blatant shameless lie.
There is a lot of projection and self-doubt in your response. First, dating apps are set up to be based on physical appearance. It’s literally “drive thru” mentality. Look at the pictures and choose what you like the best (that’s also why the survey you mentioned has no basis in reality). It’s also mostly used as an “intimacy” app, so that’s no surprise there. However, beauty is subjective. If over 80% of women choose the “top 5% of guys”, how come that’s not reflected in relationships? Shouldn’t only 5% of men be in relationships? If beauty is objective, then life should follow tinder, but it doesn’t. How did the world population rise 1 billion people from 2011 to 2023? Was that due to 5% of the men? There is a time to stop blaming the world for our problems and start looking in the mirror.
No what he said was truth, but you butthurt so you attack. We live in a world where people would rather be on the defensive and attack than admit the other person knows something I don't
@@standardofexcellence He has his opinions about the world and I have mine. Both our opinions are biased based off our life experiences. If he is complaining about how rigged the dating game is against men, it's because he is projecting based on his own experience. We cling to the information that confirms our biases. I'm trying to help him understand with logic (which you clearly did not read) that his perception on reality isn't true. Let the man defend himself if he was offended instead of coming to his defense.
@@dudleysquibbles6366 there is a lot wrong here:
-dating apps are very accurate because it is one of the few avenues where women are brutally honest about what they want. The swipes are indicative of what women actually prefer for looks, income, education, height, etc., instead of the comforting lies women tell themselves and each other to avoid social rejection.
-yet again, beauty is not subjective, that is cope that ugly people tell themselves. Women overwhelmingly want tall handsome men with muscles and no obesity, men overwhelmingly want hourglass figure women with long hair, beautiful faces, and no obesity. Those are proven objective facts.
-the women with the non 5% men show one of two things. Those women either finally matured and settled for a guy on their actual level when they got older and the simps stopped giving them free attention or the average guy they chose have other traits such as immense wealth. Also if women are getting with average guys, why is the marriage rate so low? Why is female marital dissatisfaction so high? Yet again, it is a shameless provable lie when women claim they want average guys.
-you delusional people always yell projection when facts and reality visit your bubble wrapped safe space lives. I’m actually in the 5% of men when factoring my height, income, education level, physical fitness, and overall attractiveness.
I am not a Fan of k Pop but I think bts worked for there status no reason to not ackknowledge that and saying they wouldnt date them anyways. But I can agree that beauty is related to many aspects that are objective and yes you shouldnt listen to women because they dont even know what they want. I think the problem with a nice guy is its getting boring for them. Women are talking so much trash you shouldnt agree to all
This is the exact same video that OnPointFresh made nearly a year ago. Your channel won’t grow if you’re stealing content. It’s not original.
Happiness comes from within
Happiness come from God
@@EgyptianEagle334Same thing ;)
i viewed the thumbnail with contempt, but i have to say, this video was actually decent
The more you invest in yourself, the more they value you.
OK, but if you invest too much time on yourself, you'll get old, ha ha, and then you won't find any woman, and you'll have to find a housekeeper 🤣🤣🤣
@@orianogiorgetti6459 I guess that's very obvious. The point is to genuinely become a successful person, attract, and select. Maybe you're speaking of experience? That would be crazzy. 🤔
Conclusion : Good Looks + Good Talks + Good Money = Fucking Attractive Man ❤🙌🏻
"Good talks" cringe
Be someone your girl can rely on is enough.
"your" girl?
You have a lot to learn if that is what you believe.
@@lolife1981 ok i agree monogamy is overrated pr whatever you're talking about but the other possessive pronouns sound weird.
@@lolife1981 i dont disagree with you, but is it that bad? Aren't there real women out there?
I mean the amount of single moms out there complaining about deadbeats and fuckboys means that being reliable isn't the end all be all of attraction.
@@square4678 monogamy is overrated? wtf if wrong with you ? how did you normalize sleeping around with tons of women then complain about monogamy
In response to point 3 about average guys being in relationships, this is obviously true, but you have to ask yourself what are those relationships actually like? Is she happy? Does she truly find him attractive? I'll just say this: Every single one of my friends from back in high school (we're all late twenties - thirty now) has been cheated on or treated like complete trash. I don't actually know a single "average" (or below) dude who has ever found a woman who loves and respects him. Sure, average guys can "get" average women sometimes, but is that a win? To not be loved or wanted, but just tolerated? To be the guy who pays her bills for a while until a better option comes along?
The reality is that only the top ~10% of men will ever actually be desired and loved. Just the way it is. Better hope you won the genetic lottery or you find something else to put your time into, because the way you feel towards women will never be reciprocated.
Remember he's talking about Canaanite/Caucasian/Amorits. Not US!
I be givings no Fs, I say whatever i want, i do what ever want!... 🗿
2:47 Bro really used looksmatch as a outlier 🗿
When you cherry pick at least do it right 🗿
Even if you found outlier you don't know the dynamic of the realitionship, could be simple betabuxxer, there is no BP antidote.
As a 20 years old man, the only thing for me is that I'm Just about 170cm, soft voice and modest facial hair, it's hard cause most girls in my region are somewhere between 160-175 cm, i mean 15-20% of girls are around my height or taller than me, and those, you can't be perceived as charismatic when you have these factors that you can't control, yeah sometimes you have to accept that you were not made to be attractive, maybe you were made to become a scientist or something else
So what i learned is i will never be good enough. So i don't need to waste time trying.
yup its clear that many people are just unlucky
just like very few hoard the wealth
very few hoard the women and the rest of us get nothing
😔
Here's a freaking good advice I'm going to give you...
Stop watching this types of Videos/content. Don't focus on what women want. Focus on where you actually want to get better. Go to gym (for your health), eat healthy (for your health), learn valuable skills (if you only think it'll be worth), improve your looks ( ONLY if that's what makes YOU happy), there are more options in this world than 'giving up'.
Don't seek attentions from others
Seek opportunities for yourself
open relationship or be cheated on
you pick
bc thats all an average man is gonna get at best
@@MikeJensen-w2v you can be average if you want but I’m the Top G
To keep it simple your body language needs to show you’re sophisticated and confident and when you approach and speak to her it needs to genuinely show that you deserve to be around her. The moment you put her on a pedestal you showed her that you need to overcompensate because she’s above your league
Liked most parts but 6:35 I call BS there. If women like rich men not for their wealth but quality, why do women leave rich men when they gone broke? Don't they still have the quality to make money? And 7:04 you said 'don't change personalities just to appeal to a girl' but you just said nice guys are unattractive, so do you suggest nice guys to change personalities or not?
High value women will most likely like a rich man because of his qualities; at least that’s my opinion. And when I talk about „nice guys”, I mean guys who lack confidence and chase girls in a desperate way. I don’t mean being respectful and caring.
Holy shit all this right as a girl I can confirm that
But about " nice guy" no we love nice guys but we hate
naive men who are easily influenced
It’s your skills in your face that’s about the size of it
I usually avoid videos like these because the person who narrates usually has some kinda controversial take, or completely misses the point.
But damn dude this was a really good video. I’ve had my fair share of women even at 5’4, but yet so often I hear from ONLINE short men that they aren’t having any success. Yet anytime you step out doors you still see average dudes, short dudes, and unattractive dudes being social.
Guys trust me. Being above average is a huge fing plus, but it is not then end all be all.
I had my ex fiancé for 6 years, and in that time span I shaved my head bald, went fat, got ripped, back to fat, long *ss nasty hair etc. And that women still slept with me 3 times a week.
I kept her laughing and having a good time. Never was I ever in a negative space 24/7.
Only reason we aren’t dating anymore is because we amicably separated to chase our careers.
Anyways good video!
EDIT: This right here can not be any more true, but however… lol it can still play out
4:21 Quick story
When I was in college I had a lady friend who told me twice that she would never date me because I was short. Bruh tell me why I was clapping them cheeks and receiving invisible ink text from her literally days after her ugly comments. Its all subjective
As a woman, this is still such stupid advice. Please don't fall into the trap of believing that all women are the same, and so simple minded at that. My advice would be to prioritize your character. The best man I know is my grandfather. He isn't 6 ft tall, and he never made above minimum wage. He didn't even go to school beyond the eighth grade. But he worked hard to provide for his family, and has always been kind, strong and considerate. He has a love of learning, and he's attuned to the beauty of this world. He is very well respected in his community, and very well loved by his family, even though men might not see him as "high value" today.
my success is always be stoic, not too laugh while everyone is laughing, stay cool and alone and grind your game to be wealthy, like my mama always told me women will always be attracted to money while men get older money, wealth, and business if you own many never gets old
There are a few things that are off in this video but most of this information is correct.
So I’ll give you my take on this theme. I’m in my early 20s and have met very beautiful women in my life. Moreover, such women were physically attractive and solid 9s and above. I learned a couple of things that these women loved, which are the following:
- Intelligence
-Good hygiene
- Healthy physique
- Emotional intelligence
- Confidence
- Assertiveness
I feel like these are attributes every man should work for THEMSELVES, not women. If you work out or improve for the sake of women, forget it about bro. You have to love yourself and then just not care about what women think. A lot of women confuse arrogance over confidence, which is why some date “ass holes”.
At the end of the day, you have to raise your standards.
People get rich through the effort, sacrifice and hard work of others, like 99% of rich people are rich from inheritance or stealing capital gain from others, or both 😊
great video brother! you have done a well thought observation and study on the subject and have good grip over the female gaze. will like to see more indepth analysis
And also many girls don't like Chad men what I mean by this is men who r overly masculine girls like men who has a touch of femininity in them
Alain Delon, he was a very handsome man and actor. Do you know him?
Try to look at the actor Alain Delon when he was young, he is beautiful with masculine and feminine features. Do you like him? How do you rate him?
You made the mistake of saying women’s preferences…. The word you’re looking for is expectations.
this actually IS science. Science is about the pursuit of the truth, not necessarily a short convenient explanation that you seem to equate it to.
I go to gym and work out to be healthy and not for the goal of attracting women.
I just being my honest self and not acting like someone else because that what makes me comfortable and happy.
Love yourself first. If God really give you the woman for you what ever happen you'll be together.
6 figures 6 feet 6 pack = 666
Oh no, I only have a left and a right foot. I need four more feet.
The Beauty always choose the Beast. 😉
El Diablo!
6 inches too😂
That's the devil's number 😭
I kind of broke out of that super hyper looks focused once I started realize how many average looking guys even more average than me scored a beatiful chick or notice that the guys chicks were sleeping with weren't all that. Its good to improve yourself and looks to better your competition and stand out but its not the end all be all like we've been lead to believe.
TFW when you watch this video and realize you possess all the negative traits 💀
Me too
get to work
Work on it for yourself brother
it's over
The first thing I notice when I see a couple is how rich the man looks and what car he has. Girls have been asked "rich ugly guy or broke hot guy?" and most of them said "rich ugly guy".
this video is so good and true this dude got to make more he for sure will go viral
Thanks man
Just be yourself. If there's anything to improve in a reasonable way, do it, but to be a better you, not to impress women.
I find this a very accurate and balanced video. Without going to the extremes of red or black pill philosophy’s.
Just have confidence. Have your life in front of you. Come from a place of joy and be yourself. Most importantly, have a good personality. Be kind to everyone.
You can be attractive, but without confidence, you have nothing!
@@GetBettter Exactly
This video made me subscribe. Very helpful.
Awesome, thank you!
Some women like nice guys, but if you are only a "wannabe-nice" guy to be liked by her or others, and you are always giving her what she wants and basically putting her on a pedestal, then you will be placed into the friendzone, or not even that.
Women like nice guys who can be funny, who show respect for themselves and others (and sometimes that means putting limits and not accepting bs from her) and of course, in bed you have to become a BAD guy
What if you are short?
Well then find someone even shorter
@@shubhamagarwal3626 That's what an insecure guy would do
Meet & connect with girls in real life as opposed to a blind date from a dating app
over
@@DragonMasterBG And who made you the expert?
Not true, I’ve dated girls taller than me and many my own height. Different rules for different men
Exactly. Women want superior man. Doesn’t have to be height. It could be ambitions, wealth, physical dominance
Bro roasted bts in the process 😂
Who gave this person all the knowlegde?
Everything you said is true.
(Even though I don't agree with the first part of the 'nice guy' topic, I personally love nice guys, but like they said: being confident, (social,) standing up for yourself and the people around you, setting boundaries, not letting people run over you and everything after that (6:00) I think is true.)
an actual good video explaining how it works in life