Overcoming Vaginismus & Choosing Faith Over Religion With Tito The Writer

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024

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  • @EniolaDivine
    @EniolaDivine 11 месяцев назад +62

    I love Tito so much! Discovered her last month and omo she's on fire for God

  • @favourmuodebelu3959
    @favourmuodebelu3959 11 месяцев назад +60

    Tay, you should totally invite her a second time. This was a beautiful session!

  • @usonwaagbo6331
    @usonwaagbo6331 11 месяцев назад +66

    I laughed, i screamed, i learnt a lot, i even carried Bible. This is beautiful, i totally enjoyed myself.

    • @kekennysaint
      @kekennysaint 11 месяцев назад

      Say it again pleaaaaase!! Same for me.

  • @akpogumajoanna1509
    @akpogumajoanna1509 17 дней назад

    God does not need me to be perfect, He just needs me to carry Jesus😫😫

  • @munwaakin-britto4974
    @munwaakin-britto4974 11 месяцев назад +31

    This podcast is a reminder to ALWAYS be kind... people have stories, they live with those stories and then they heal and become intentional to live new and wholesome lives!!!

  • @eli-stringz8656
    @eli-stringz8656 7 месяцев назад +5

    THIS IS THE REALEST AND BEST PODCAST INTERVIEW I'VE SEEN. It's relatable because i'm also going through the phase of coming out of religion into knowing God for myself. Thank you for being so honest to share very sensitive past, this was so helpful. I will sure watch it again.

  • @gbongwom
    @gbongwom 11 месяцев назад +14

    What a show 😂😂😂😂 it had everything emotion, jokes, lessons, spirituality. Well done Tay

  • @Cherub123
    @Cherub123 11 месяцев назад +7

    I have been crying since 😢😢😢 how come no one ever told us this. Nobody to talk to. From abomination to duty

  • @agunyegojoy8017
    @agunyegojoy8017 11 месяцев назад +8

    God doesn't trash your past.. He recycles it so that u can know that he is a transformer.. (This word from Tito sank in me so deep).
    ❤❤❤

  • @Nisile_116
    @Nisile_116 11 месяцев назад +20

    Hello Tay- a Zambian fan here but currently in China. I really really enjoyed this conversation thank you for bringing Tito here, saw her first from Aproko Dr.
    A kind request Tay, if possible, would you be on the other side of the chair and tell us about your burn out and if at all you had a fall out from Faith? I think you were sort of communicating something too 😅but didn’t want to interrupt your guest.
    Much Love ♥️

  • @Nickyjey11
    @Nickyjey11 11 месяцев назад +16

    This particular episode is an embodiment of mixed feelings, you will feel it all but most importantly you will learn! I love love it so much the honesty, all of it ❤

  • @MoviewithMusic
    @MoviewithMusic 9 месяцев назад +2

    One can tell Tay really enjoyed conversation... because the laughter was😊

  • @heyOmotayo
    @heyOmotayo 11 месяцев назад +5

    Naa you rushed the second half we need the complete unedited version! Release part 2/ Directors cut/ behind the scenes/ whatever you want to call it ooo 😂👏🏽

  • @LifeAsWeSeeItPodcast
    @LifeAsWeSeeItPodcast 11 месяцев назад +12

    Listened to the podcast and had to come on here to see Tito. Such an impressive young lady with a very powerful testimony. Appreciate the vulnerability and openness. Welldone! 👍

  • @nwabunomarble1905
    @nwabunomarble1905 11 месяцев назад +8

    The beautiful thing about this podcast is that I laughed sooo hard.
    It kept me company while I was working
    thank you Tito for making Jesus known and for bringing me back to tea with tay

  • @DavidEdet-bf2ds
    @DavidEdet-bf2ds 2 месяца назад

    There's a lot to learn, God doesn't trash Ur past this podcast was amazing and educative there are a lot of things to be talked about so our society can be free from seeing things as abomination

  • @meekness3385
    @meekness3385 11 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry that you had to go through that 🥺🥺

  • @Theonlinebillionaire22
    @Theonlinebillionaire22 11 месяцев назад +3

    This is what you call TEA!
    Nahh this was toooo good!

  • @taiwo_king
    @taiwo_king 11 месяцев назад +11

    When I saw the duration of this podcast I was like “no I can't watch it, It's very long “ I was amazed that I watched it to the end and I wanted more.
    Thank you very much, I learned a lot.
    I'm so enlightened and blessed

  • @ezinneezinne7264
    @ezinneezinne7264 Месяц назад

    Seeing Tito alone made me to click on this channel and looo you've just gained a new subscriber 😊😊😊,

  • @Bethel_Tamilore
    @Bethel_Tamilore 11 месяцев назад +6

    This was so beautiful to watch. Thank you, Taymesan for bringing Tito ❤️

  • @akaasamuel4851
    @akaasamuel4851 6 месяцев назад +1

    Knew her back then when she was serving in Benin City

  • @DavidEdet-bf2ds
    @DavidEdet-bf2ds 2 месяца назад

    Best podcast I've ever watched ❤❤ God bless you Ma

  • @godsent113
    @godsent113 11 месяцев назад +4

    I was checking RUclips every 5 mins.
    I watched this with my whole heart and as soon as Tito signed out at the end, I started watching from the beginning again. This was so edifying ❤

    • @heyOmotayo
      @heyOmotayo 11 месяцев назад +1

      I feel like watching it all over again as well! A really great episode

  • @SunFlower-jv1kw
    @SunFlower-jv1kw 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love Tito so much😭❤️

  • @a.o.stokeman5458
    @a.o.stokeman5458 11 месяцев назад +1

    What?! Titooo...
    What did I just listen to on Spotify ? You are just something else. Thank you. 🙏

  • @treasurevlog__
    @treasurevlog__ 11 месяцев назад +1

    Titoluwa Sam Oladapo my all time fave❤❤❤Thank you Taymesan for inviting her🙌I have read her book and it is mindblowing❤

  • @vanessanneoma5163
    @vanessanneoma5163 11 месяцев назад +6

    I love this podcast tooooo much😍😍😍this episode is wayyyyy too funny😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mideblack430
    @mideblack430 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love tito sooo much. . She make you see Christianity at its simplest

  • @busolaak
    @busolaak 10 месяцев назад +1

    Aww I remember Tito in salt&light camp and UI. That camp was where God anchored my faith. Thanks for sharing your amazing story ❤

  • @deborah2094
    @deborah2094 10 месяцев назад +1

    This was insightful Tito! Thank you Tay for bringing her. I have a question; Didn't she say she was raped at ages 6 and 13, then how come she said she was a virgin when she got married who then suffered vaginismus as a result? Just a thought.

  • @toluwalopejoshua1823
    @toluwalopejoshua1823 11 месяцев назад +2

    Tay and Tito 😢 this is my third time listening to this podcast today... thank you for this explosive session, quite revealing 😢 thank you Tito for those salient points, Thank you 😢 I don't know how am feeling tonight o 😢

  • @pre_dplug709
    @pre_dplug709 8 месяцев назад

    Love her authenticity and vulnerability on the podcast

  • @damariskaka808
    @damariskaka808 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love her sincerity ❤

  • @tosinaina5274
    @tosinaina5274 9 месяцев назад

    Taymesan knows how to ask the right questions

  • @madiva1971
    @madiva1971 9 месяцев назад +2

    Temesan laugh 😂 just makes me scream 😂

  • @thegloriaoboh
    @thegloriaoboh 11 месяцев назад +1

    Deacon and Deaconess una wan kill me with laughter… I really enjoyed this episode 😂😂

  • @graceibukun4804
    @graceibukun4804 6 месяцев назад

    This Podcast ehn, I laughed so hard. This interview was loaded, funny, real, and liberating all at once. God bless you both.

  • @bygodgrace3412
    @bygodgrace3412 7 месяцев назад

    I laughed so much on this episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 I love everything about this episode because it just showed me some parts of my story and my faith too. Let’s stoooppp the hypocrisyyyy ohhh 🙌🏾 all the things we have condemned others we have allll done it. Can totally relate to the story about condemning people cohabiting outside marriage then ending doing the same too! God has a way to humble us. Everything you say you will not do hmmm be careful ohhh only grace of God can help us because the things we say we won’t do hmmm if it’s not God we will do it ( and I did) thank God for grace 🙌🏾

  • @margaretajayi4489
    @margaretajayi4489 11 месяцев назад +1

    Its Temisan's laugh for me😂😂😂😂😂. Each time he laughs ehhh he makes it more funny😅

  • @deborahjames-nw6xg
    @deborahjames-nw6xg 11 месяцев назад +1

    Deaconess nawa ooo, these guys nearly finished me with laughter 😅😅😂

  • @damilolaadeosun7403
    @damilolaadeosun7403 11 месяцев назад +1

    7 minutes into this podcast and I’m getting emotional .. reminds me a lot about my childhood

  • @chinazomj.o.1973
    @chinazomj.o.1973 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is the best episode of all podcasts I’ve ever played. Because I can relate to 95% of this stories! 59:12

  • @peaceimafidon4629
    @peaceimafidon4629 11 месяцев назад +1

    I Feel so sad that these perpetrators were not brought to book

  • @constance_cee
    @constance_cee 11 месяцев назад +6

    This is amazingggggg!!!, I would watch a part 2 if there will be one. This is actually my first time watching a podcast, I was never a podcast fan but this right here is amazingggg. Thank you ma'am Tito & Mr Tay❤❤❤

  • @praisetar
    @praisetar 11 месяцев назад +2

    This was hilarious yet packed with truth 😂😂😂❤❤❤ totally love itttt

  • @nanabezzy
    @nanabezzy 11 месяцев назад +1

    I've watched this twice in one sitting. God bless you Tito and Tay

  • @itsteshi119
    @itsteshi119 11 месяцев назад +2

    This was so insightful to watch, didn’t notice an hour had gone by, invite her again please.

  • @segunmanuel
    @segunmanuel 9 месяцев назад

    Its Temisan's laugh shout for me always 😀

  • @deescorner3087
    @deescorner3087 11 месяцев назад +1

    This has to be one of the best podcast episodes ever!!!!!!! I was glued for over 2 hours just listening to the audio, and I'm back here watching the 1 hour video

  • @_theallpurposewoman_
    @_theallpurposewoman_ 11 месяцев назад +2

    I can so relate to Tito's story. 🤣Oh the reckless love of God

  • @Bread_Wine-Omotola
    @Bread_Wine-Omotola 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love you vulnerability ma...so much ❤️

  • @nathandzyenom6481
    @nathandzyenom6481 11 месяцев назад +2

    Verily I say unto y’all, this right here is the most energetic episode of TWT ever. Tito just got herself a fan.❤️❤️💪

  • @VictorKei12
    @VictorKei12 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is so knowledge filled
    My best Soo far❤❤❤.
    Best podcast on RUclips !!!

  • @ucheellen4415
    @ucheellen4415 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love her transparency, oh my goodness . This is an episode

  • @oluwatimilehinduro-adisa5775
    @oluwatimilehinduro-adisa5775 11 месяцев назад +1

    Immediately i saw it's Tito, i immediately liked the video because i know it's going to be value packed and interesting

  • @olawunmitemitope-yp1bg
    @olawunmitemitope-yp1bg 11 месяцев назад

    this episode just gave me freedom from religion... now i understand better. Thank you!!

  • @mimisibz1278
    @mimisibz1278 11 месяцев назад +10

    Victims of sexual abuse are more prone to vaginismus. I think that incident in her childhood more than religion played a larger role. I know someone from a very secular and liberal background who dealt with this. Her mum had her see psychologists and it helped.

    • @emetdara2999
      @emetdara2999 11 месяцев назад +1

      While it is true that victims of sexual abuse can be prone to vaginismus, I believe there are more victims of sexual abuse that end up as sex addicts and some even become abusers themselves.
      So it is not only one way or the other. Her comment about religion is the fear factor that can have a severe psychological impact on people.

    • @mimisibz1278
      @mimisibz1278 11 месяцев назад

      @@emetdara2999 Please take the time to read my comment as what you wrote is the same as what I wrote in this comment and my other comment on this video. Furthermore, the friend I mentioned was not a victim of sexual abuse and grew up in a very liberal family so it was not religiosity or sexual abuse that was the cause. My comment never implied there was only one cause and the example I mentioned of my friend proves this.

    • @jodiesamie
      @jodiesamie 6 месяцев назад

      Not true

  • @sundaystella8023
    @sundaystella8023 11 месяцев назад +2

    I haven’t laughed this hard in a while 😂😂😂This was so fun and educative

  • @gistwithann588
    @gistwithann588 11 месяцев назад +5

    I really commend her openness 🫡

  • @Korede12344
    @Korede12344 9 месяцев назад +1

    Such a lovely episode..... Shes so real❤❤❤❤

  • @Sisijhay
    @Sisijhay 6 месяцев назад

    This has to be my favorite episode so far ❤

  • @olajideogunshola7657
    @olajideogunshola7657 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is beautiful to watch, so insightful and a lot of people can learn from this, thank God she didn't hold back

  • @ucheellen4415
    @ucheellen4415 11 месяцев назад +2

    This was a beautiful session. So sorry she had to go through all that growing up🤗🤗. Thank God for your healing🙏🏼

    • @ayodimejisobowale1728
      @ayodimejisobowale1728 9 месяцев назад

      The journey wasn't easy for her but God has always had her back…Tito you're Beautiful

  • @allygianna6634
    @allygianna6634 11 месяцев назад +3

    Guyyyy I didn't want this podcast to finish 😂😂❤❤❤ I so love tito

  • @amakachukwu9113
    @amakachukwu9113 11 месяцев назад +2

    Tay, I thought we are in this together. Which is giving you tea behind the scene? Haba! This is not god's plan for us.
    It is really something how Tay manages to create a conducive space for all types of conversations and gives the the perfect support however they want to share their story. I love how you two made a hard experience and conversation so easy amidst laughter.
    Thank You Tito the Fine girl for sharing, for your knowledge, bravery, healing and help. I am so happy for you that you can share this the way that you do.

    • @Taymesan_
      @Taymesan_ 11 месяцев назад

      Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @graceaaron8840
    @graceaaron8840 10 месяцев назад +5

    I am totally lost here, @titothewriter said she was raped at age 6&13 but then again she said she was virgin until marriage, I am lost and confused, did I miss out on something ?

    • @The_enigma007
      @The_enigma007 6 месяцев назад

      Exactly !!
      I thought I heard wrong
      I came specifically from a different interview with aproko doctor and it was a different story
      Hmmm 🤔🤨
      I enjoyed the message tho and I also learnt something new

    • @bernardsiame3612
      @bernardsiame3612 Месяц назад

      Yes , that's what she said in that other interview and this shows no consistency in her story which gives room of doubts...other than that it has explained her vaginismus story due her past (sexual trauma) and she left out that important part in her first open up interview on vaginismus but said she was a virgin 🤔

  • @bygodgrace3412
    @bygodgrace3412 7 месяцев назад

    Nooo this episode is as loadedds ohhhh 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @ajokeologe
    @ajokeologe 11 месяцев назад +1

    Omo!!!😂😂😂 this podcast ehn👏🏽 it’s funny yet I learnt a great deal🤭❤️

  • @happyokeibunor3167
    @happyokeibunor3167 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lol, this was worth watching every second of it! Wanted to skip but I felt the whole vibe of Tito , learnt a lot too, Good job! Tay and Tito🤗 , expected a link to the book ‘ pop my cherry now ‘ thou!

    • @spicysandra7199
      @spicysandra7199 10 месяцев назад

      On her Instagram page it’s there

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love this honesty. We need more honest conversations like these

  • @abundanceozoemena812
    @abundanceozoemena812 11 месяцев назад +1

    Too good show, entertaining and educative...we de learn for here ❤❤❤😂

  • @tekevweadugbo7813
    @tekevweadugbo7813 9 месяцев назад

    I totally loved this… and Tay lovessssss gist kai 😂😂😂😂

  • @josedayna4792
    @josedayna4792 11 месяцев назад

    Wow , I wish I have a Broadway with these two , they are fun and real

  • @vickigolden1178
    @vickigolden1178 11 месяцев назад +1

    I loveeee this episode 🥺😂😂

  • @queenscreamy4330
    @queenscreamy4330 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love love this podcast. I love and admire Tito so much after I had followed her from TikTok. Such a wonderful and strong woman. Thank you Tamesan for bringing her here. I want another one oo😊

  • @Akintayoesther-x1x
    @Akintayoesther-x1x 7 месяцев назад

    I loveee this, Taymesan did so grear

  • @flora_fitrapy
    @flora_fitrapy 11 месяцев назад

    "It is finished"
    So I don't need to do anything to earn your love.

  • @dammieokandeji
    @dammieokandeji 11 месяцев назад +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @temitope4932
    @temitope4932 11 месяцев назад

    The longest episode after Denrele’s episode ❤❤

  • @aanudeborah5118
    @aanudeborah5118 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Tito my story is similar to yours and I thank God for how He pull me through

  • @Thejoyella
    @Thejoyella 11 месяцев назад +1

    I loved this one a little toooo much, just wow!

  • @akanniracheal2402
    @akanniracheal2402 11 месяцев назад +1

    I didn't know that I needed this podcast 😢❤my love for this woman of God ❤

  • @favournwaobilor6142
    @favournwaobilor6142 11 месяцев назад

    Someone finally brought Tito on an interview thank God🙏😍

  • @oluwa.darasimii
    @oluwa.darasimii 11 месяцев назад +3

    Totally enjoyed this video
    I personally think it’s my favorite episode

  • @anyanwuoluseyi7389
    @anyanwuoluseyi7389 11 месяцев назад +1

    Definitely one of my best episodes, I learnt a lot and shared with people I felt needed this message.
    But one thing I’m confused about is why the episode is 2hrs on Spotify and 1hour on RUclips.

  • @boluspace
    @boluspace 11 месяцев назад +2

    This episode is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @preciouspeters4039
    @preciouspeters4039 11 месяцев назад

    This is the best episode so far

  • @ebunoluwapelumi
    @ebunoluwapelumi 11 месяцев назад +2

    I enjoyed every bit of this episode. Thank you Tito ❤

  • @Marycynthia_Adannaya
    @Marycynthia_Adannaya 11 месяцев назад +1

    Taymesan God bless you thank you for bringing her on this show❤❤

  • @momentwithshabbydolls
    @momentwithshabbydolls 11 месяцев назад

    I learnt, laughed, screamed and enjoyed this video so much. God bless you Tay and Tito❤

  • @kemialagbo379
    @kemialagbo379 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Tito for shedding light on so many things. you don't how much this has helped me. I love you Tito❤

  • @shortsforyoursoul8012
    @shortsforyoursoul8012 10 месяцев назад

    Enjoyed this podcast and learnt alot too. Hopefully I get to be on your podcast one day.

  • @preciousifeoma3544
    @preciousifeoma3544 11 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed this episode soo much 😊🤭

  • @pemee_i
    @pemee_i 11 месяцев назад

    Waooo I love Tito the Writer so much❤🎉

  • @mimisibz1278
    @mimisibz1278 11 месяцев назад +8

    Many people who were victims of sexual abuse when young develop high sex drive

  • @momentwithshabbydolls
    @momentwithshabbydolls 11 месяцев назад

    I'm seeing this podcast for the second time cos I'm in love😍

  • @ajakayeanuoluwapo3071
    @ajakayeanuoluwapo3071 11 месяцев назад

    Love you Tito🥰🥰

  • @kattypretty6172
    @kattypretty6172 11 месяцев назад +1

    Wow,this is so fun and educative thank you tay and Tito,following you on Instagram immediately

  • @user-jm6pt1gp9u
    @user-jm6pt1gp9u 11 месяцев назад +1

    Taymesan is a total mess😂😂😂. Lovely episode!!!