"In the military, they give medals to people who are willing to sacrifice themselves, so that others may gain. In business, we give bonuses to people who are willing to sacrifice others so we may gain." What an awesome paradox Simon.
@Sheerluck Holmes, agreed. I'm in the military (UK) and see that mentality *all* the time with Officers. If the other side of the swamp was their promotion, they would sooner use you to step on, rather than get dirty themselves.
I'm in the military now after working at Microsoft and managing several luxury hotels; and I've seen both go both ways. The military is nothing like the days of our parents. Just like the loyalty and honor within the labor force isn't the same as those days.
Since Simon Sinek refers to biology and nature. In nature you really find both forms of structure or behavior. Mostly it depends if the others belong to your own species, group, family etc. Or if they are a rival in resources (territory, food, sexual partners, safety), or if they form a resource themselves for your own or your groups benefit. Just like the pilot only felt emotionally obliged to the people he protected. So it's no surprise that both phenomenons manifest themselves also in our societies. And sometimes even overlap.
What an astounding, thought provoking, talk. "The cost of leadership is self-interest. If you're not willing to give up your perks when it matters, then you probably shouldn't get promoted. You might be an authority but you will not be a leader. Leadership comes at a cost. You don't get to do less work when you get more senior, you have to do more work and the more work you have to do is to put yourself at risk to look after others. That is the anthropological definition of what a leader is." Absolutely spot on. This entire quote speaks volumes of information and i could not be more grateful to have seen this. Thank you for this perspective, it is a wonderful place to view.
Psychologist of families says If you have a child of age 1,5 years old, you should avoid bad habits....like scrolling social media. at this age children´s brain notices very much the behavior of the parents If you constantly look into the smartphone, and wear the smratphone everywehre the 1,5 years old baby...."installls a program into its brain"....I have to get this "thing"... otherwise I will not survive without it. Its the age when the baby´s brain is absorbing information about how to survive... so leave the phone in some other room...and do the habits that you want your child to learn.
This entire talk brought back memories of how my previous company reduced me to tears. Believed for a long time that I was just not cut out for the job and was horrible at it despite all the happy customers I produced. Thank you Simon for changing my perspective
I agree with you that we should keep reminding ourselves on this. Sometimes we got carried away by kpis and broken leaderships. Nevertheless it's important to keep reminding ourselves what kind of leader we want to be despite the system and environment you're in.
I'm a caregiver to senior disabled people, under the heel of a shareholder-driven company, with angry people on all sides, and this made me see how I can be part of the solution.
Did you feel empowered? Ready to improve yourself? Take on the world? That's dopamine. Did you feel like the world is really great, you're in a good spot in life. Your workplace and social life is what he described to be ideal. That's oxytocin.
Simon.. ever think about running for President?! You'd have my vote!! Someone like you should be leading this country. Hands down best advice I've ever received in my life.. has come from you.
Whenever I need it, which isn't often, but regularly, I watch the part where he explains Self-Interest as the Cost of Leadership which kicks in at 24:00. We are OK with the perks and higher pay and status that leaders get because we trust that when the time comes, they will sacrifice themselves for us and protect us from outside dangers. They are never supposed to sacrifice us for themselves. I'm so all in with this approach. Our leaders need to protect and support us, that's the value they bring to us and we'll push ourselves to be the best we can if we trust that they have our back.
"Leadership is not a rank. Leadership is not a position. Leadership is a decision. Leadership is a choice. It has nothing to do with your position in the organization. If you decide to look after the person to the left of you and to look after the person to the right of you, you have become a leader."
a soldier is so0meone who looks after their fellow soldiers,it doesnt make them a leader, and a leader is someone who makes leadership decisions that benefit the whole team. not only TRYING to look after everyone, cuz you CANT look after everyones back.
G Ruiz The point being that a leader would care enough to try do the impossible? Sure you may not start off being the real "leader" but if the organization works well those who best tries to protect/build the organization will eventually be leaders in it?
Leadership has nothing to do with the position or rank, the moment you have started become shield for the person around you, you will become a leader. Exceptional speech and presentation!
I was a 1st Lieutenant in the army. I refused to use the officers mess, the officers cantine, instead, i ate and drank with the privates. To much dismay of the other officers, of course. I should annoy the living piss out of the troops, command them into silliness, brake them, be... an 'officer' (read, jackass). I cleaned the toilets with them, I peeled potatoes with them, I did everything they did. When we were on maneuvers, I often asked my men for advice, rather than just command them, because, even though 'merely' a private, this private could have a marvelous idea I did not think off. We discussed the upsides and downsides of ideas. Now, here's the funny part... When others 'commanded' the same troops, they did not really feel up to do it. I, on the other hand, only had to ask, and they went further than I asked them to. How you approach a certain group, makes the whole difference...
@@kelseygonzales7290 Don't trust a man unless he's run a mile in your shoes and ate with you and gone through hell and back with you! You, Sir, helped them trust in you cause you were really "with them!" The Don of "the Godfather" movie had the same chain of thought!
I was a 1st Lieutenant in the army. I refused to use the officers mess, the officers cantine, instead, i ate and drank with the privates. To much dismay of the other officers, of course. I should annoy the living piss out of the troops, command them into silliness, brake them, be... an 'officer' (read, jackass). I cleaned the toilets with them, I peeled potatoes with them, I did everything they did. When we were on maneuvers, I often asked my men for advice, rather than just command them, because, even though 'merely' a private, this private could have a marvelous idea I did not think off. We discussed the upsides and downsides of ideas. Now, here's the funny part... When others 'commanded' the same troops, they did not really feel up to do it. I, on the other hand, only had to ask, and they went further than I asked them to. How you approach a certain group, makes the whole difference...
It sounds like you should been an Enlisted, rather than an Officer. Some of what you say is true, but if you believe that being an Officer means being a jackass, then you missed the mark. It also sounds like your troops "liked" you, instead of respected you. You have a lot to learn. Now go clean the toilets, boot!!! (I'm kidding, settle down Lt.)
damn. I didnt have to watch his whole 45 minute video, all I had to do was read your comment. well said; thanks for sharing and thanks for your service.
Idk man, I think if my team leader (USMC) asked me (terminal lance) what I think we should do, I would've lost a lot of confidence in his command. I mean I'm willing to follow the orders in battle because my CO seemed to know what he was doing. If he said "hey this private has a great idea!" I'd have been hesitant to follow any of his orders. Maybe your MOS allowed for that style or leadership, but not mine, Sir.
As soon as I finished watching this piece. I get down on my knees and pray...thanking God for the wisdom I gained out of this video. Trully life-changing. This level of wisdom is hands down King Solomon.
"Why Leaders Eat Last" This reminds me of a university visiting prof that taught a two semester course in human physiology I took, years ago. He was ex-military, having been an officer in the US army where he marched soldiers around a desert to study dehydration and acclimation to heat over time. He once said that a good officer always made sure the troops ate first. He then admitted that the officers, eating later ate far, far better food.
I can tell you why I eat last. I am a Construction Manager, big jobsites, big crews. When work is on, it's ON.... lot's of dangerous activities in construction. Everyone needs to focus. When lunchtime comes and the guys sit down to relax, that's when I go out to talk to them. Real leaders care about people, and they know non-work conversation is the way to get to know them. I spend lunchtime forming relationships, sharing what we care about outside of work. I pride myself on forming high performance teams that work together to accomplish amazing things. Lunchtime is too important a time for a real leader to sit locked away in the office eating and reading the internet.
Real Leaders can see, that the whole world is thrown around, instead of the sight that the money don't flow! Stop the Water and the flow, and canalize on a small groups way, for building a selfcreated show! Who holds the shield have to look after his surroundings, your left, right and back, but you can just look in front! The bible tells US, that this one who thinks he stands, has to have a look, that he don't fall The fake safety, is our all fall!
It sounds like you take care of the people you supervise and invest in them regularly. It's great to hear from a leader who sees the people they lead as more than just a means to an end, but as people who have their own hopes, dreams and desire for success in their careers/lives. All the best!
I've been studying leadership deeply for 22 years. Executing the principles I've learned along the way to gain my own insight into what works and doesn't. I've been leading high tech teams for 20years in the Silicon Valley. I can easily say, this leadership video may be the best I've ever seen. If you want to build a team that is a powerhouse and where people are happy, do as Simon says. 'If you are willing to sacrifice yourself so others may gain, you are a leader'. Sadly, most managers these days have never studied leadership and are fairly poor at what they do.
I've been binge watching his talks like tv series and they've been so rewarding. His views are very refreshing, human, sincere and authentic Onward to more videos! Thanks for uploading!
@C M I know its been a year, but Jesus Christ do you even read the comments you reply to? Or do you just talk to yourself all the time? Your response made absolutely no sense, he never said ANYTHING about "this is all I want to do". You might want to start your line of thinking with listening, rather than asinine assumptions.
I liked how he linked leadership to biological needs and motivation. I found that in life things are so interconnected but often people cannot make or see the connection. It takes time to explain things in a manner where people can relate. He did a good job with the explanations. Especially when he was talking about name brands. Also, in my opinion, understanding brings clarity and change and helps overcome fear and prejudices. Really liked the presentation.
I am transformed by this talk. I've been thinking about what I can do to contribute to humanity as a whole and this has affirmed it for me. I know what I want. Thank you.
Contribute to your family first, then community then humanity. People who do things for the good of "humanity" are more than likely the biggest hypocrites. Start with the people around you.
Best video ever. I suffered from depression for over 15 years and I turned to Buddhism and very recently have been "reborn" no longer victim of my mind. This video gave me just as deep the insight into what I am.
Wow, I remember having to watch this video back in college for one of my classes and didn't think much of it at the same, but I somehow stumbled across it again, and watching it after being out of college for a couple years I'm absolutely mesmerized by this guy's intelligence and how right on he is. You don't even have to think of all of this in a business sense, you can look at it as a way of how to be happy in life in general, and it really makes a lot of sense. Really incredible.
So true when he says, “You might have authority but that doesn’t make you a leader.” So many people in places of authority abuse it instead of taking it as an opportunity to help be in a position to help build others up. A leader is one who gives us their time and their energy without expecting anything in return. Leadership is difficult because you can’t give time and energy to everyone but effort should be given to make people feel safe.
I owe the majority of my growth and success to this man, much respect to you Simon. I am proud of you and looking forward to all the things you yet have to share with us. Thank you
I am a second semester junior in college and this video was assigned by my professor (his class has been such a benefit to my business administration future career). Thank you Mr. Sinek for this insightful video! It has charged me and equipped me on how to be a great manger and leader in the future!
"some of you are sitting here right now saying I will never get this time back. I got nothing for ya." I Loved it, thank you for an illuminating talk. I don't want the time back, I think it was well invested.
I watched it 5 years ago. I had been looking for it for so long but I couldn't recall the title but only the content. I feel so much better watching it again than I did back then. It has fundamentally changed who I am. It's amazing to come back after years to admit it. I'm watching it again and making notes
I've been a leader for 20years in the tech industry. I have studied leadership hard, and practiced the principles learned to see what works and what doesn't. I have read many books about great leaders and watched countless videos. I have studied what makes people tick to build better and stronger teams. I can say beyond the shadow of a doubt, this video is the cream of the crop. Thank you Simon.
Putting aside his way of talking I must say that I feel as if he was reading my mind. I'm starting the leadership journey and he describes the kind of a leader I always wanted to have and be. This is how I always had imagined leaders would be like. I'll do my best ;-]
Hang on there girls, it is starting slow, he's talking about planes flying and a battle. I almost gave up watching, but just hang on there, it is worth it. Outstanding speech as usual from Simon Senek. That's the kind of stuff the school should be teaching as well, and all the universities and leadership/management courses etc. Bravo!
Wow , he said the more you do the more you want to do! That totally makes sense iv'e volunteered every day all this year and i cant get enough of it, Going on about 2,000 thousand hours so far this year alone!!!
This talk should be watched and listened to by the people who are in charge of the UK NHS. The politicians and government officials and executives who are responsible for the NHS.
it is what a true man does. he is there to tend the flock, as it were. his strength, dedication and courage feed his soul. food is nourishment for the body. he stays strong for the flock to stay strong
Being good with yourself is very important in order to be able to really help others, in my opinion. Help yourself by helping others (or the other way round!) is a way to feel good with yourself, but probably not the only one.
i put it on reminder list to watch the vide at least once a month remind myself the kind of person I want to be. i bet, this is one of the most precious free video available on internet.
This is truly brilliant. I can see the effects of the topics he's talking about in both my home life and my work life. Now to apply them and turn my life and my coworkers' lives towards the better...
I was so very blessed & lucky to have listened, grew up with the music and friendship of Steve(Marnie), Brother, Ricky, Idries, Blondie & Baby Duval in Durban, Natal, RSA. They were a great inspiration to myself & our band "El Toros" in Durban.
One of the best feelings is teaching somebody something, and later seeing them applying that learned skill and adapting it. Or giving someone a task and later seeing the result and seeing the way they took and the creativity they put into finding a solution or completing that task. And you sometimes wouldn't even have thought about THAT solution, or way of approaching that task.
Because he uses a lot of rhetoric to deliver a not so original or amazing message. This is his job after all, to get people to pay him for talking/ writing. willmarre.com/should-leaders-eat-last/
The Title was the first lesson in leadership I ever learned as a young man as a recruit in the U.S. Marines. My squad ate before me and it was my responsibility to know which recruits were 'Diet' Recruits and which were Dbl Ration ones. After they went through the line and were fed, then I ate. The Platoon Guide or Senior Recruit ate last of all. Then the D.I.s......I can still eat a full meal in about 4 minutes. LOL.....and I'm past 50 LOL
I don't really understand this leadership lesson. In the example that he gives with the alpha, they get the benefits so that they can be in top shape to protect the rest of the herd/pride/whatever. How does you eating last relate to that?
Sam Jacob This guy actually talked about it. They eat last because it creates a family like bond. A father will give his food to his child if they both starves. And if the child then becomes better off, he will help the father.
Yet there is another argument: Most of the actual physical work done in military gets done by soldiers, and not by officers. Before the group eats, the officer can put out orders what has to be done after having eaten. So obviously it is more efficient that the soldiers eat first so that they're able to pick up work as soon as possible. Meanwhile, the officer has time to think about next steps etc.
Mr.Simon Sinek, thank you very much for make such great highlight and make me understand even more about of sooo many Bible principles that actually you talked bout it. Serve others, giving makes you happier, do the golden rule, treat people as we wanted to be treated, and just like Jesus said, whoever wants to be a leader need to be the least first, which is serve others, with our effort, energy and time. And you make it more clear. God's word never out of date. Thank you for your outstanding speech Mr.Simon. love it every second! 🕊🙏🏽❤️🌸👍🏽👏🏼
One of the most underrated talks I've witnessed. Simon is part of something we should all be paying attention to. Every day. Thanks Simon...I recommend you just about every day. Had to include you on my website resources, you've been that valuable to me and the people around my company.
Literally, every single one of this man's talks are epically amazing, yet this one somehow manages to blow every single one of them out of the water. He said so himself: he never did this talk before and hasn't done it since. It's just WOW.
I thought I'd pause in the middle and watch later. I couldn't. So much to pick from this awesome speech. + Been focus is a key virtue (Write down your goals). + Willingness to sacrifice for others. + Building relationships and so much more.
An amazing speech, and even helped me come to a few personal revelations. Amazing how relevant this is today, as it was 7 years ago, and will be for a long time.
Anyone else out there get a shot of Dopamine from backing into a parking space just perfectly, dang that feels good 🙂Never have I ever thought about putting biology and leadership together, this talk was truly inspirational and eye opening. Thank you for your leadership!! I'm heading out to give and receive Oxytocin today, love it!!
Just picked this guy up yesterday, talking aboot millenium generation and their idealism yet lack of self esteem and I pod entitlement. Glad I did. Just brilliant....V
No,the right statement should be: if you've ever met someone and they made you nervous they're not alfa. You don't have to perceive yourself as alfa but they do have to perceive you as alfa. You don't look in the mirror. You are mirror.
Back here on 02/02/2022 and the Truckers are in Ottawa Protesting the Mandates coming from one who has abandoned , even sold his countrymen out and is in hiding under the excuse of "I was exposed to covid by my sister" Trudeau. He is pathetic in the most responsible position in the country. I have encouraged the truckers and everyone to watch this and also your teaching on SEAL Team 6 . Then we can intelligently and more wisely choose another to fill that position. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me get through the lock down as I was self isolating in my store for 4 months. I would not have made it without your help . God Bless you Simon.
Searching this video after finished reading a book leader eat last so i can deeply remember the contains of this book and this is so inspiring video that i watch thankyou
By far THE best Lecture/Talk/Speech I’ve EVER watched on RUclips, hands down!! Not only is Simon Sinek an incredible Public Speaker, but this topic is one of the most interesting, incredible & life-changing things to learn about. Studying and understanding Human behaviour (both your own AND other people’s), will categorically make you a more effective communicator, a better Salesman, a more highly skilled employee, a more generous person and, in short, a better Human Being in general. Awesome content!!! 😍 Thank you for sharing!!! 🙏🏼❤️
What an astounding, thought provoking, talk. "The cost of leadership is self-interest. If you're not willing to give up your perks when it matters, then you probably shouldn't get promoted. You might be an authority but you will not be a leader. Leadership comes at a cost. You don't get to do less work when you get more senior, you have to do more work and the more work you have to do is to put yourself at risk to look after others. That is the anthropological definition of what a leader is." Absolutely spot on. This entire quote speaks volumes of information and i could not be more grateful to have seen this. Thank you for this perspective, it is a wonderful place to view.
In twenty six years in the Army I learned many things about leadership.As a platoon Sargent I knew to stand at the end of the chow line to make sure all my soldiers were fed before I did. Later As a Chief Warrant Officer I was the Battalion Medical Officer. Every field exercise I would stand at the beginning of the chow line and talked to soldiers as they went by. I would sometimes have the Bn Commander, XO, and CSM,standing with me. I could tell who a good leader and who wasn’t by who was there and who wasn’t by who was there. Sometimes leaders couldn’t be there because the mission,but was rare among the good leaders.
I don't know why this only has 78K likes...this man captured my attention from the moment he took the stage...and I'm the guy who usually falls asleep during lectures...I've watched this probably 3 times in the last year
Leadership and management Are 2 Different things Right. . . . As a little writrrr and word weaver You could combine the 2 And create Leaderment Or manageshit I mean manageship. Aum. Sometimes i can b So easily amused With simplistic brilliance Thank you 4 the invitation to this awakening of joy this day
This is so great it shoud be class subject in every school, it is all amazing to watch but at 42:18, trust me, this is where he will completely got you. Sinek is a talent.
I was not expecting this to be so profound. I have not learned this before today. A Real Life example: The beginning of my time in the USAF was filled with Oxytocin. During training I was in an environment that encouraged it. That continued for three years. As got to the last assignment, which was a 3 year long trip to Alaska, I had gotten into a chemical imbalance with a lack of Vitimen D, which lead to chemically induced depression. That went untreated for so long that it started effecting my work ethic and my ability to comprehend in general. I was promoted during this time which was not good because it separated me from making friends with people who I was social with (Fraternisation). Thus I became estranged to my own unit. With increased responsibility and stress while also NOT EVER having a mentor or someone who would help me learn to be a leader, I crashed and burned. I started failing competency tests. I started looking for any way to not feel depressed, I turned to alcohol, Video Games, and physical pleasures. None of that helped me get back on my feet and it seems to me that it only made things worse. Than my Grandfather kicked the bucket. I was relieved of regular duties due to mental reasons at first. After I was cleared of that, I was relieved again for failing to complete competency tests, despite making TITANIC efforts to not fail. I knew my time in the military was over when I had found out that there where reports from some of the DOD contractors that I was not on good terms with, had started writing "reports" on my attitude. This increased my stress levels even further, and knowing that made me feel sabotaged. I could no longer feel comfortable in that unit. I could no longer work effectively. The end of my enlistment came, and I was discharged under Honorable Conditions. Reasons for discharge: "Misconduct" I now think I lost the ability to create Oxytocin with they amount of Cortisol that was constantly flowing through my body. Hindsight is 20/20.
This video needs to be translated to Portuguese. I think that every single person facing their first job should watch it... and re watch every year at least, until they die.
one of the best talks. Simon is great. All his talks are insightful, informative and thought/action promoting but this one is my favorite talk so far. Thank you Simon for sharing and making a difference in so many lives (mine).
"In the military, they give medals to people who are willing to sacrifice themselves, so that others may gain. In business, we give bonuses to people who are willing to sacrifice others so we may gain." What an awesome paradox Simon.
@Sheerluck Holmes, agreed. I'm in the military (UK) and see that mentality *all* the time with Officers. If the other side of the swamp was their promotion, they would sooner use you to step on, rather than get dirty themselves.
I'm in the military now after working at Microsoft and managing several luxury hotels; and I've seen both go both ways. The military is nothing like the days of our parents. Just like the loyalty and honor within the labor force isn't the same as those days.
@@R0I3I3IE agreed. I serve over here in the States and have seen some wild shit from those in power, all for personal gain.
Since Simon Sinek refers to biology and nature. In nature you really find both forms of structure or behavior. Mostly it depends if the others belong to your own species, group, family etc.
Or if they are a rival in resources (territory, food, sexual partners, safety), or if they form a resource themselves for your own or your groups benefit. Just like the pilot only felt emotionally obliged to the people he protected.
So it's no surprise that both phenomenons manifest themselves also in our societies. And sometimes even overlap.
@@JewelzFin Morals and accountability imho.
He summed up his whole book in 45 minutes. Super powerful speaker.
Which book?
Abdulaziz Hawsah he has a book of the same name. Also wrote Start with Why and the Infinite Game. Great author
@@mattdonah
He is a great author
I've read start with why!
Been hard getting his book
gage please give me a list of his books
This man holds the attention for all the 45 minutes and he richly deserve a standing ovation..
What an astounding, thought provoking, talk. "The cost of leadership is self-interest. If you're not willing to give up your perks when it matters, then you probably shouldn't get promoted. You might be an authority but you will not be a leader. Leadership comes at a cost. You don't get to do less work when you get more senior, you have to do more work and the more work you have to do is to put yourself at risk to look after others. That is the anthropological definition of what a leader is." Absolutely spot on. This entire quote speaks volumes of information and i could not be more grateful to have seen this. Thank you for this perspective, it is a wonderful place to view.
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Psychologist of families says
If you have a child of age 1,5 years old, you should avoid bad habits....like scrolling social media.
at this age children´s brain notices very much the behavior of the parents
If you constantly look into the smartphone, and wear the smratphone everywehre
the 1,5 years old baby...."installls a program into its brain"....I have to get this "thing"... otherwise I will not survive without it.
Its the age when the baby´s brain is absorbing information about how to survive...
so leave the phone in some other room...and do the habits that you want your child to learn.
This entire talk brought back memories of how my previous company reduced me to tears. Believed for a long time that I was just not cut out for the job and was horrible at it despite all the happy customers I produced. Thank you Simon for changing my perspective
I watch this every year. Really helps remind me of the kind of leader I want to be, regardless of the environment I'm in.
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I agree with you that we should keep reminding ourselves on this. Sometimes we got carried away by kpis and broken leaderships. Nevertheless it's important to keep reminding ourselves what kind of leader we want to be despite the system and environment you're in.
@@cayenne4527 please define kpis. I Am not familiar with this term. is it an acronym?
@@kidaniels8199 KPI = Key Performance Indicator (the last "s" is just for plural)
I'm sorta ready to stop beating my head against this wall.... I wish you the best of luck!
I'm a caregiver to senior disabled people, under the heel of a shareholder-driven company, with angry people on all sides, and this made me see how I can be part of the solution.
downbntout
God bless you, hope things are going well for you nowadays.
Be the leader you want to have. It's that simple
me too
i think just watching this video gave me a huge rush of oxytocin. Thankyou Simon Sinek. The world needs more people like you.
Strive to become one of those! =D
Vishalakshi K.M. true
That would be dopamine
Did you feel empowered? Ready to improve yourself? Take on the world? That's dopamine.
Did you feel like the world is really great, you're in a good spot in life. Your workplace and social life is what he described to be ideal. That's oxytocin.
Simon.. ever think about running for President?! You'd have my vote!! Someone like you should be leading this country. Hands down best advice I've ever received in my life.. has come from you.
Whenever I need it, which isn't often, but regularly, I watch the part where he explains Self-Interest as the Cost of Leadership which kicks in at 24:00. We are OK with the perks and higher pay and status that leaders get because we trust that when the time comes, they will sacrifice themselves for us and protect us from outside dangers. They are never supposed to sacrifice us for themselves. I'm so all in with this approach. Our leaders need to protect and support us, that's the value they bring to us and we'll push ourselves to be the best we can if we trust that they have our back.
Every single minute of this entire 45:50 minutes video is delightful!
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
This man... Knows how to inspire. (and fucking knows how to create and deliver a freacking awesome presentation!!)
So true…
True
Word! He makes a butt load of sense too!
sweeeeeeeet and coooooool
@halburd1 If you say this is average, don't just stop there... Suggest better ones so that your opinion has a point...
"Leadership is not a rank. Leadership is not a position. Leadership is a decision. Leadership is a choice. It has nothing to do with your position in the organization. If you decide to look after the person to the left of you and to look after the person to the right of you, you have become a leader."
that just makes you a baby sitter nobody asked for.
G Ruiz
LOL! A leader baby sitter :)
a soldier is so0meone who looks after their fellow soldiers,it doesnt make them a leader, and a leader is someone who makes leadership decisions that benefit the whole team. not only TRYING to look after everyone, cuz you CANT look after everyones back.
G Ruiz The point being that a leader would care enough to try do the impossible? Sure you may not start off being the real "leader" but if the organization works well those who best tries to protect/build the organization will eventually be leaders in it?
This comment wins the award as far as I'm concerned!!
Leadership has nothing to do with the position or rank, the moment you have started become shield for the person around you, you will become a leader. Exceptional speech and presentation!
Just found this guy. Year 2020. WOW did he nail the 'why we are pissed" down.
Found him today. Awesome stuff.
I was a 1st Lieutenant in the army.
I refused to use the officers mess, the officers cantine, instead, i ate and drank with the privates.
To much dismay of the other officers, of course.
I should annoy the living piss out of the troops, command them into silliness, brake them, be... an 'officer' (read, jackass).
I cleaned the toilets with them, I peeled potatoes with them, I did everything they did.
When we were on maneuvers, I often asked my men for advice, rather than just command them, because, even though 'merely' a private, this private could have a marvelous idea I did not think off.
We discussed the upsides and downsides of ideas.
Now, here's the funny part...
When others 'commanded' the same troops, they did not really feel up to do it.
I, on the other hand, only had to ask, and they went further than I asked them to.
How you approach a certain group, makes the whole difference...
@@kelseygonzales7290 Don't trust a man unless he's run a mile in your shoes and ate with you and gone through hell and back with you! You, Sir, helped them trust in you cause you were really "with them!" The Don of "the Godfather" movie had the same chain of thought!
I was a 1st Lieutenant in the army.
I refused to use the officers mess, the officers cantine, instead, i ate and drank with the privates.
To much dismay of the other officers, of course.
I should annoy the living piss out of the troops, command them into silliness, brake them, be... an 'officer' (read, jackass).
I cleaned the toilets with them, I peeled potatoes with them, I did everything they did.
When we were on maneuvers, I often asked my men for advice, rather than just command them, because, even though 'merely' a private, this private could have a marvelous idea I did not think off.
We discussed the upsides and downsides of ideas.
Now, here's the funny part...
When others 'commanded' the same troops, they did not really feel up to do it.
I, on the other hand, only had to ask, and they went further than I asked them to.
How you approach a certain group, makes the whole difference...
Thank you for your service and your obvious outstanding leadership of our troops! No "leading from behind" for you!
It sounds like you should been an Enlisted, rather than an Officer. Some of what you say is true, but if you believe that being an Officer means being a jackass, then you missed the mark. It also sounds like your troops "liked" you, instead of respected you. You have a lot to learn. Now go clean the toilets, boot!!! (I'm kidding, settle down Lt.)
damn. I didnt have to watch his whole 45 minute video, all I had to do was read your comment. well said; thanks for sharing and thanks for your service.
Idk man, I think if my team leader (USMC) asked me (terminal lance) what I think we should do, I would've lost a lot of confidence in his command.
I mean I'm willing to follow the orders in battle because my CO seemed to know what he was doing. If he said "hey this private has a great idea!" I'd have been hesitant to follow any of his orders.
Maybe your MOS allowed for that style or leadership, but not mine, Sir.
Sounds like you modeled yourself on Jesus! Beautiful how you served your men
It's amazing, that not even one minute was boring. Glad Google recommend me this, even after 6 years....
As soon as I finished watching this piece. I get down on my knees and pray...thanking God for the wisdom I gained out of this video. Trully life-changing. This level of wisdom is hands down King Solomon.
"Why Leaders Eat Last"
This reminds me of a university visiting prof that taught a two semester course in human physiology I took, years ago.
He was ex-military, having been an officer in the US army where he marched soldiers around a desert to study dehydration and acclimation to heat over time.
He once said that a good officer always made sure the troops ate first. He then admitted that the officers, eating later ate far, far better food.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I can tell you why I eat last. I am a Construction Manager, big jobsites, big crews. When work is on, it's ON.... lot's of dangerous activities in construction. Everyone needs to focus.
When lunchtime comes and the guys sit down to relax, that's when I go out to talk to them. Real leaders care about people, and they know non-work conversation is the way to get to know them. I spend lunchtime forming relationships, sharing what we care about outside of work. I pride myself on forming high performance teams that work together to accomplish amazing things. Lunchtime is too important a time for a real leader to sit locked away in the office eating and reading the internet.
Billder Inbaja You sir sound like an excellent manager and your employees should feel lucky to have you!
Well you can eat with your coworkers hehe
Real Leaders can see, that the whole world is thrown around, instead of the sight that the money don't flow!
Stop the Water and the flow, and canalize on a small groups way, for building a selfcreated show!
Who holds the shield have to look after his surroundings, your left, right and back, but you can just look in front!
The bible tells US, that this one who thinks he stands, has to have a look, that he don't fall
The fake safety, is our all fall!
It sounds like you take care of the people you supervise and invest in them regularly. It's great to hear from a leader who sees the people they lead as more than just a means to an end, but as people who have their own hopes, dreams and desire for success in their careers/lives. All the best!
Good quality sir
I could watch this 1 million times and it still wouldn't be enough. So SO good.
I've been studying leadership deeply for 22 years. Executing the principles I've learned along the way to gain my own insight into what works and doesn't. I've been leading high tech teams for 20years in the Silicon Valley. I can easily say, this leadership video may be the best I've ever seen. If you want to build a team that is a powerhouse and where people are happy, do as Simon says. 'If you are willing to sacrifice yourself so others may gain, you are a leader'. Sadly, most managers these days have never studied leadership and are fairly poor at what they do.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
I wish more people would have watched this video because it explains how we all must behave to be happy.
I believe Simon Sinek’s message on leadership is the way all leaders should structure their minds and teams. The best way is to serve those you lead!
There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.
Rik van der Ploeg until a narcissist bites into your life...
@@joeldwest don't feed ants with sugar!
for every yes, you should say 99 no. @@joeldwest
Paco Hantos Men should be policing each other’s behavior more.
Only when u truly understand!!
I've been binge watching his talks like tv series and they've been so rewarding.
His views are very refreshing, human, sincere and authentic
Onward to more videos! Thanks for uploading!
very nice Chris Anthony Pinnock, god bless
Dopamin 👌
haha just get all your joy from thinking you're doing stuff with your life by watching motivational speeches. Hacked m8
@C M I know its been a year, but Jesus Christ do you even read the comments you reply to? Or do you just talk to yourself all the time? Your response made absolutely no sense, he never said ANYTHING about "this is all I want to do". You might want to start your line of thinking with listening, rather than asinine assumptions.
I liked how he linked leadership to biological needs and motivation. I found that in life things are so interconnected but often people cannot make or see the connection. It takes time to explain things in a manner where people can relate. He did a good job with the explanations. Especially when he was talking about name brands. Also, in my opinion, understanding brings clarity and change and helps overcome fear and prejudices. Really liked the presentation.
This is my church. Every Sunday I listen to Simon.
When I want to think in a positive way, I watch Simon Sinek's talks, he makes my day !
Just go to TedX talks. That’s where he steals his talks from. 🤷🏻♂️
I am transformed by this talk. I've been thinking about what I can do to contribute to humanity as a whole and this has affirmed it for me. I know what I want. Thank you.
Yes Chris, YES! Go, go, go do it, we need you. You're amazing. :)
Contribute to your family first, then community then humanity. People who do things for the good of "humanity" are more than likely the biggest hypocrites. Start with the people around you.
People need rewatch this in 2019-2020. the dangers are outside and inside. We are so divided, no good leadership on anyside.
You are so right. Thank you for your comment.
Worth watching, atleast once a week! ..for ever
Best video ever. I suffered from depression for over 15 years and I turned to Buddhism and very recently have been "reborn" no longer victim of my mind. This video gave me just as deep the insight into what I am.
Wow, I remember having to watch this video back in college for one of my classes and didn't think much of it at the same, but I somehow stumbled across it again, and watching it after being out of college for a couple years I'm absolutely mesmerized by this guy's intelligence and how right on he is. You don't even have to think of all of this in a business sense, you can look at it as a way of how to be happy in life in general, and it really makes a lot of sense. Really incredible.
So true when he says, “You might have authority but that doesn’t make you a leader.” So many people in places of authority abuse it instead of taking it as an opportunity to help be in a position to help build others up. A leader is one who gives us their time and their energy without expecting anything in return. Leadership is difficult because you can’t give time and energy to everyone but effort should be given to make people feel safe.
I owe the majority of my growth and success to this man, much respect to you Simon. I am proud of you and looking forward to all the things you yet have to share with us. Thank you
now it's 2020 if you still watch this !! you are a legend , God Bless you
2020 ?
Best 45 minutes ever spent. Thank you for this!!!!
Absolutely awesome. I follow many motivational speakers. Simon Sinek is the best.
I know what to do now.
Etouke Efon what did you do?
babayaga the boogeyman penus, are you triggered off?
he is a great public speaker!
At first I thought he was awkward the way he was moving his hands and kept adjusting his glasses but it was well worth watching the whole video.
Fascinating, clear, useful, well-presented and important message for us all. A big thank you!
he has beyond expecting things what could be be required for in certain sectors ..
hell yeah
you're right he is
I am a second semester junior in college and this video was assigned by my professor (his class has been such a benefit to my business administration future career). Thank you Mr. Sinek for this insightful video! It has charged me and equipped me on how to be a great manger and leader in the future!
"some of you are sitting here right now saying I will never get this time back. I got nothing for ya."
I Loved it, thank you for an illuminating talk. I don't want the time back, I think it was well invested.
I watched it 5 years ago. I had been looking for it for so long but I couldn't recall the title but only the content. I feel so much better watching it again than I did back then.
It has fundamentally changed who I am. It's amazing to come back after years to admit it.
I'm watching it again and making notes
I've been a leader for 20years in the tech industry. I have studied leadership hard, and practiced the principles learned to see what works and what doesn't. I have read many books about great leaders and watched countless videos. I have studied what makes people tick to build better and stronger teams. I can say beyond the shadow of a doubt, this video is the cream of the crop. Thank you Simon.
Putting aside his way of talking I must say that I feel as if he was reading my mind. I'm starting the leadership journey and he describes the kind of a leader I always wanted to have and be. This is how I always had imagined leaders would be like. I'll do my best ;-]
New to Simon Sinek, but based off this will likely listen to more of his speeches. Great Job.
Hang on there girls, it is starting slow, he's talking about planes flying and a battle. I almost gave up watching, but just hang on there, it is worth it. Outstanding speech as usual from Simon Senek. That's the kind of stuff the school should be teaching as well, and all the universities and leadership/management courses etc. Bravo!
Wow , he said the more you do the more you want to do! That totally makes sense iv'e volunteered every day all this year and i cant get enough of it, Going on about 2,000 thousand hours so far this year alone!!!
The best video I have ever seen online, everyone NEEDS to watch this.
That's what I thought when I first watched this for a couple of times.
Never thought I would find so many holes in my logic filled in by one presentation. Amazing.
This talk should be watched and listened to by the people who are in charge of the UK NHS. The politicians and government officials and executives who are responsible for the NHS.
I've watched this video several times over the last few years and each time I can generate a different inference with my personal life.
Super dynamic public speaker. The Gift of Gab! Very well thought out speech; spoken with clarity and FOCUS. Thank you Simon!
amazing!!! this is so true!!! as an Army SGT. I learned that I must make sure everyone is taken care of before I take care of myself
Karol Scott as a private in the army we appreciate you tough asses
it is what a true man does. he is there to tend the flock, as it were. his strength, dedication and courage feed his soul. food is nourishment for the body. he stays strong for the flock to stay strong
addicted to babysit ?
Karol Scott yy uh hs by
Being good with yourself is very important in order to be able to really help others, in my opinion.
Help yourself by helping others (or the other way round!) is a way to feel good with yourself, but probably not the only one.
Just thank you. Thank you so much for this. I watched it at the right place and the right moment.
Goose bumps evrytime i watch any of his presentations, i wanna be at his level, in my line of work, and i will .
I just found this speech, it did not feel like 45 minutes, I could have heard 2 hours with no problem. It certainly grabs you.
i put it on reminder list to watch the vide at least once a month remind myself the kind of person I want to be. i bet, this is one of the most precious free video available on internet.
This video is one of the best I have seen. Awesome!
He’s describing the military so accurately. I’m in the Army and leaders actually do eat last when we are in the field
They make the best bosses
This is truly brilliant. I can see the effects of the topics he's talking about in both my home life and my work life. Now to apply them and turn my life and my coworkers' lives towards the better...
I was so very blessed & lucky to have listened, grew up with the music and friendship of Steve(Marnie), Brother, Ricky, Idries, Blondie & Baby Duval in Durban, Natal, RSA. They were a great inspiration to myself & our band "El Toros" in Durban.
One of the best feelings is teaching somebody something, and later seeing them applying that learned skill and adapting it. Or giving someone a task and later seeing the result and seeing the way they took and the creativity they put into finding a solution or completing that task. And you sometimes wouldn't even have thought about THAT solution, or way of approaching that task.
Simon Sinek inspires me to be a better man. What an incredible presentation.
How does anyone dislike this? This is brilliant!
Prince OOCHIE those who dislike are probably not leaders
Top 691 CEOs disliked this video!
Because he uses a lot of rhetoric to deliver a not so original or amazing message. This is his job after all, to get people to pay him for talking/ writing. willmarre.com/should-leaders-eat-last/
you realize this video was published three months before the essay you linked
LUL andrew savage
The Title was the first lesson in leadership I ever learned as a young man as a recruit in the U.S. Marines. My squad ate before me and it was my responsibility to know which recruits were 'Diet' Recruits and which were Dbl Ration ones. After they went through the line and were fed, then I ate. The Platoon Guide or Senior Recruit ate last of all. Then the D.I.s......I can still eat a full meal in about 4 minutes. LOL.....and I'm past 50 LOL
I learned it in the Army.
I don't really understand this leadership lesson. In the example that he gives with the alpha, they get the benefits so that they can be in top shape to protect the rest of the herd/pride/whatever. How does you eating last relate to that?
Sam Jacob This guy actually talked about it. They eat last because it creates a family like bond. A father will give his food to his child if they both starves. And if the child then becomes better off, he will help the father.
Yet there is another argument: Most of the actual physical work done in military gets done by soldiers, and not by officers. Before the group eats, the officer can put out orders what has to be done after having eaten. So obviously it is more efficient that the soldiers eat first so that they're able to pick up work as soon as possible. Meanwhile, the officer has time to think about next steps etc.
MrNevenon or in war time, the young troops will be fed first to be fueled up to get back out in the "trenches" to continue the fight.
Mr.Simon Sinek, thank you very much for make such great highlight and make me understand even more about of sooo many Bible principles that actually you talked bout it. Serve others, giving makes you happier, do the golden rule, treat people as we wanted to be treated, and just like Jesus said, whoever wants to be a leader need to be the least first, which is serve others, with our effort, energy and time. And you make it more clear. God's word never out of date. Thank you for your outstanding speech Mr.Simon. love it every second! 🕊🙏🏽❤️🌸👍🏽👏🏼
Jesus is coming soon. Repent so you can rejoice. The kingdom of God is at hand.
This is hands down, perfect guidance for every one to listen to. No matter what age!
One of the most underrated talks I've witnessed. Simon is part of something we should all be paying attention to. Every day. Thanks Simon...I recommend you just about every day. Had to include you on my website resources, you've been that valuable to me and the people around my company.
Our jobs are killing us...
Simon is just amazing. Love all his talks!
Best 45 minutes I've ever spent on RUclips...(probably should haave told the speaker that in person ;) )
I quite agree
Literally, every single one of this man's talks are epically amazing, yet this one somehow manages to blow every single one of them out of the water. He said so himself: he never did this talk before and hasn't done it since. It's just WOW.
I thought I'd pause in the middle and watch later. I couldn't.
So much to pick from this awesome speech.
+ Been focus is a key virtue (Write down your goals).
+ Willingness to sacrifice for others.
+ Building relationships and so much more.
An amazing speech, and even helped me come to a few personal revelations. Amazing how relevant this is today, as it was 7 years ago, and will be for a long time.
Very powerful and a must watch video!
Best 45 minutes spent on NYE!
one year later, Im doing it today!
Anyone else out there get a shot of Dopamine from backing into a parking space just perfectly, dang that feels good 🙂Never have I ever thought about putting biology and leadership together, this talk was truly inspirational and eye opening. Thank you for your leadership!! I'm heading out to give and receive Oxytocin today, love it!!
Just picked this guy up yesterday, talking aboot millenium generation and their idealism yet lack of self esteem and I pod entitlement. Glad I did. Just brilliant....V
“That’s an emotional question, email is a rational tool.” Amazing
"If you"ve ever met someone and you are nervous meeting them, you are not the alpha" well stated!
"If you've ever met someone and they are nervous meeting you, then you are THE alpha"
There's a context here.
No,the right statement should be: if you've ever met someone and they made you nervous they're not alfa. You don't have to perceive yourself as alfa but they do have to perceive you as alfa. You don't look in the mirror. You are mirror.
Bet all beautiful girls are somewhat alphas to teenager me
There's many reasons to be nervous if you meet someone. The "alpha" is not really an accurate description of what's happening there.
Wow, Bravo Simon Sinek!! I literally clap my hands in front of my computer monitor!!
I did too! LOL
@@HickoryDickory86 me ,too:)
Back here on 02/02/2022 and the Truckers are in Ottawa Protesting the Mandates coming from one who has abandoned , even sold his countrymen out and is in hiding under the excuse of "I was exposed to covid by my sister" Trudeau. He is pathetic in the most responsible position in the country. I have encouraged the truckers and everyone to watch this and also your teaching on SEAL Team 6 . Then we can intelligently and more wisely choose another to fill that position. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me get through the lock down as I was self isolating in my store for 4 months. I would not have made it without your help . God Bless you Simon.
Searching this video after finished reading a book leader eat last so i can deeply remember the contains of this book and this is so inspiring video that i watch thankyou
By far THE best Lecture/Talk/Speech I’ve EVER watched on RUclips, hands down!! Not only is Simon Sinek an incredible Public Speaker, but this topic is one of the most interesting, incredible & life-changing things to learn about.
Studying and understanding Human behaviour (both your own AND other people’s), will categorically make you a more effective communicator, a better Salesman, a more highly skilled employee, a more generous person and, in short, a better Human Being in general.
Awesome content!!! 😍
Thank you for sharing!!! 🙏🏼❤️
Rick Hignett and don’t forget stolen from TedX almost word for word. 😂
The best thing I've watched in RUclips in a long, long while.
Oh man, I love how pissed he gets about the right shit.
It's not about being left or right...
Дмитрий Караханов Goddammit
What an astounding, thought provoking, talk. "The cost of leadership is self-interest. If you're not willing to give up your perks when it matters, then you probably shouldn't get promoted. You might be an authority but you will not be a leader. Leadership comes at a cost. You don't get to do less work when you get more senior, you have to do more work and the more work you have to do is to put yourself at risk to look after others. That is the anthropological definition of what a leader is." Absolutely spot on. This entire quote speaks volumes of information and i could not be more grateful to have seen this. Thank you for this perspective, it is a wonderful place to view.
@QueenP matski is it that impressive :D sjw head
In twenty six years in the Army I learned many things about leadership.As a platoon Sargent I knew to stand at the end of the chow line to make sure all my soldiers were fed before I did. Later As a Chief Warrant Officer I was the Battalion Medical Officer. Every field exercise I would stand at the beginning of the chow line and talked to soldiers as they went by. I would sometimes have the Bn Commander, XO, and CSM,standing with me. I could tell who a good leader and who wasn’t by who was there and who wasn’t by who was there. Sometimes leaders couldn’t be there because the mission,but was rare among the good leaders.
The best thing is he explains the things scientifically.
One of the most powerful presentation. It totally makes sense.
Dude's got a powerful snap.
Crisshaun Nelson-Jackson i know right lol
+Crisshaun Nelson-Jackson exactly what i was thinking :)
+Crisshaun Nelson-Jackson i can imagine fiery explosions coming out of his snaps
he can be a snapping shrimp
Yeah that snap is serious
Love this talk. Third time watching. I need to watch every couple of months until these ideas live within me every day.
I don't know why this only has 78K likes...this man captured my attention from the moment he took the stage...and I'm the guy who usually falls asleep during lectures...I've watched this probably 3 times in the last year
I've just listened to 2 of Simon's videos while packing orders for my business. Great stuff right here. Listen to this guy.
Excellent and so relevant. I have always wondered why we are surrounded with management but have zero leadership!
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So easily amused
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Thank you 4 the invitation to this awakening of joy this day
This Guy right here is awesome....!! Loved the talk.
This is so great it shoud be class subject in every school, it is all amazing to watch but at 42:18, trust me, this is where he will completely got you. Sinek is a talent.
I SO agree with you. Right now our school system is build on dopamin. Short term "feel goods", based on competing with the person sitting next to you.
I was not expecting this to be so profound. I have not learned this before today.
A Real Life example:
The beginning of my time in the USAF was filled with Oxytocin. During training I was in an environment that encouraged it. That continued for three years. As got to the last assignment, which was a 3 year long trip to Alaska, I had gotten into a chemical imbalance with a lack of Vitimen D, which lead to chemically induced depression. That went untreated for so long that it started effecting my work ethic and my ability to comprehend in general. I was promoted during this time which was not good because it separated me from making friends with people who I was social with (Fraternisation). Thus I became estranged to my own unit.
With increased responsibility and stress while also NOT EVER having a mentor or someone who would help me learn to be a leader, I crashed and burned. I started failing competency tests. I started looking for any way to not feel depressed, I turned to alcohol, Video Games, and physical pleasures. None of that helped me get back on my feet and it seems to me that it only made things worse. Than my Grandfather kicked the bucket.
I was relieved of regular duties due to mental reasons at first. After I was cleared of that, I was relieved again for failing to complete competency tests, despite making TITANIC efforts to not fail. I knew my time in the military was over when I had found out that there where reports from some of the DOD contractors that I was not on good terms with, had started writing "reports" on my attitude. This increased my stress levels even further, and knowing that made me feel sabotaged. I could no longer feel comfortable in that unit. I could no longer work effectively. The end of my enlistment came, and I was discharged under Honorable Conditions.
Reasons for discharge: "Misconduct"
I now think I lost the ability to create Oxytocin with they amount of Cortisol that was constantly flowing through my body. Hindsight is 20/20.
This video needs to be translated to Portuguese. I think that every single person facing their first job should watch it... and re watch every year at least, until they die.
one of the best talks. Simon is great. All his talks are insightful, informative and thought/action promoting but this one is my favorite talk so far. Thank you Simon for sharing and making a difference in so many lives (mine).
I feel like I should take notes!
Do!
Funny I'm going to watch it again to do just that.
Such an amazing speaker. He's so fluid and well informed