This video is right on time. I went on a gym date 2 days ago with by far one of the most physically attractive females in my city. i'm attractive but not as good looking as the other men in my friend group. she turned them down in the past. i approached her on halloween evening and she was very receptive. she came to my spot. we vibed for an hour before going to the gym. vibed at the gym. and even spent an additional 3 hours together. she told me she had a great time. i made the mistake of pursueing her after the first connect and she lost respect for me. she innitial saw me as that dude and my eagerness made me look average. what he is saying is true fellas. women naturally want to pursue the men that they want. don't take her job away from her.
BRUH DAMN I wish I put it up a 3 days ago!! Lmao but yeah I’m tellin yall they say they want it but it is one of the biggest TURN OFFS for some weird reason! But next time you know just treat her normal as hell. Wait till she breaks. You gotta make her feel like this happens to you all the time. You got it bro!
If I go out with a man and I like him I want him to pursue me I'm old fashioned. If he first pursue me then it won't work for me. Some girls are bored and don't know what they want.
I’ve given a lot of comments I’m A handsome man dated a lot of 10+ women and I know what to do but even I at times still mess it up, and I usually realize it after the fact, where we as handsome men mess up is we really almost need to be a bit cold we can’t say what an average man says when dating or meeting a women it comes off different with us like an average man can get ghosted and try a few more times. It’s expected but if we even try once more it’s too much.
Why these other people tell us not to pursue. The guy I’m dating was pursuing me for months. I was turning him down at first because he said he wanted fwb and I want a relationship. We talked for a couple more months and we both agreed to date. He was very consistent when I was turning I’m down now it’s hard to get a hold of him. Damn he told me he likes talking to me because I’m funny as hell 😂 I thought I was annoying him since he didn’t reply so I stopped messaging 😂
They are selling you a dream. If a guy is going that hard to get you without knowing you it can’t be genuine interest. All he knows is you look good that’s it. It’s only lust and once he gets sex it’s gonna wear off. It’s unnatural for a guy to be doing that in my opinion and usually it’s a turn off to women cause it’s thirsty. But because they sold yall the dream that it means he really likes yall get it confused.
Agreed. So I’m done he just said I’m fwb. Which really hurts. I’m trying so hard to not be a bitter woman. We were talking for over 2 years so I thought I can trust him. Everyone says I have the power because I’m a woman and I agree. I don’t want revenge nor do I want to ruin his life. Very hard not to internalize this as failure on my part. He pretends like he cares about me in the beginning and once I let my guard down he just leaves. Right now I’m feeling really stupid and like a failure but eventually I’ll get over it.
Now I’m sitting here looking stupid and like I got punched in the face crying over a man that’s not even a 10. He wins I constantly lose.Lesson learned.
Yeah next time around make sure the person wants the same thing from the beginning. And if he’s too eager without knowing you be cautious. I’m not saying he can’t actually want more with you but when a man first sees a woman 9 times out of 10 initially all he wants is sex until he can see other qualities in you. And those qualities are usually things that will take some time being around you for him to pick up on. I hope things turn out better for you next time.
I'm sorry fellas...I'm WAY older than this guy. He's completely, 100% wrong. Reciprocate? Sure, but PURSUIT? It will ALWAYS be MORE the man's thing. Even the man HIMSELF will value most what HE pursued. There are countless women that will tell you how a man broke them down with his persistence. You don't get those stories from men. Trust me. He's wrong.
your videos popped up on my page and you do say some valid things but you saying you had to wait 30 days to have a girl smash just means the girl was just no attracted to you. It’s a hard pill to swallow but think about it: it doesn’t matter if you come on too strong with a woman or not. If she is attracted to you she will like that regardless. At the end of the day if she’s attracted to you it doesn’t matter what you say or do to an extent.
I appreciate it bro 🙏🏾… she was the one who made a move on me so she was definitely attracted. And this isn’t the only time this has happened. I actually JUST 2 mins ago made a video (not posted yet) that sort of addresses this. It should be out in a couple days. But essentially. Most women don’t like eager men. And attraction is more than looks its behavior as well.
Bruh you ain’t lying. Because the relationship goes good when the girl likes you a little bit more than you like her…
Always! They don’t know how to handle that position of power 😂 they get corrupted
@ “absolute power corrupts absolutely”
@Colt19 word!
This video is right on time. I went on a gym date 2 days ago with by far one of the most physically attractive females in my city. i'm attractive but not as good looking as the other men in my friend group. she turned them down in the past. i approached her on halloween evening and she was very receptive. she came to my spot. we vibed for an hour before going to the gym. vibed at the gym. and even spent an additional 3 hours together. she told me she had a great time.
i made the mistake of pursueing her after the first connect and she lost respect for me. she innitial saw me as that dude and my eagerness made me look average.
what he is saying is true fellas. women naturally want to pursue the men that they want. don't take her job away from her.
BRUH DAMN I wish I put it up a 3 days ago!! Lmao but yeah I’m tellin yall they say they want it but it is one of the biggest TURN OFFS for some weird reason!
But next time you know just treat her normal as hell. Wait till she breaks. You gotta make her feel like this happens to you all the time. You got it bro!
@ facts on facts. keep making content man
If I go out with a man and I like him I want him to pursue me I'm old fashioned. If he first pursue me then it won't work for me. Some girls are bored and don't know what they want.
@ can you reword that please? i’m not understanding
I've had enough with conventional dating. I'm only Pimpin from now on
😂😂
Don’t even bother with these women just keep working on yourself and stay out the way
Exactly 💯
I think ur vids will help alot of guys, keep it up🤙
Will do man! Thanks 🙏🏾
I’ve given a lot of comments I’m A handsome man dated a lot of 10+ women and I know what to do but even I at times still mess it up, and I usually realize it after the fact, where we as handsome men mess up is we really almost need to be a bit cold we can’t say what an average man says when dating or meeting a women it comes off different with us like an average man can get ghosted and try a few more times. It’s expected but if we even try once more it’s too much.
You sound very slow and make no sense nobody can understand that bs you just typed
4:49 he said that he loved her? Loved what about her? That is not love, that's what you as a man behave when you don't respect yourself.
Facts!
Why these other people tell us not to pursue. The guy I’m dating was pursuing me for months. I was turning him down at first because he said he wanted fwb and I want a relationship. We talked for a couple more months and we both agreed to date. He was very consistent when I was turning I’m down now it’s hard to get a hold of him. Damn he told me he likes talking to me because I’m funny as hell 😂 I thought I was annoying him since he didn’t reply so I stopped messaging 😂
They are selling you a dream. If a guy is going that hard to get you without knowing you it can’t be genuine interest. All he knows is you look good that’s it. It’s only lust and once he gets sex it’s gonna wear off. It’s unnatural for a guy to be doing that in my opinion and usually it’s a turn off to women cause it’s thirsty. But because they sold yall the dream that it means he really likes yall get it confused.
Agreed. So I’m done he just said I’m fwb. Which really hurts. I’m trying so hard to not be a bitter woman. We were talking for over 2 years so I thought I can trust him. Everyone says I have the power because I’m a woman and I agree. I don’t want revenge nor do I want to ruin his life. Very hard not to internalize this as failure on my part. He pretends like he cares about me in the beginning and once I let my guard down he just leaves. Right now I’m feeling really stupid and like a failure but eventually I’ll get over it.
Now I’m sitting here looking stupid and like I got punched in the face crying over a man that’s not even a 10. He wins I constantly lose.Lesson learned.
Yeah next time around make sure the person wants the same thing from the beginning. And if he’s too eager without knowing you be cautious. I’m not saying he can’t actually want more with you but when a man first sees a woman 9 times out of 10 initially all he wants is sex until he can see other qualities in you. And those qualities are usually things that will take some time being around you for him to pick up on.
I hope things turn out better for you next time.
@@MarvOverMatter yea he told me it’s not me I’m a great girl he’s just not a relationship type. Apparently.i can’t do anything but accept it.
lol, make sure your girl likes you!!! Love it! Simple, yet guys forget
Thanks man 🙏🏾😂
I’ve only had 3 girls work hard for me in my life.
That’s more than most guys can say
This guy with the girl not kicking in makes me feel smart
I'm sorry fellas...I'm WAY older than this guy. He's completely, 100% wrong. Reciprocate? Sure, but PURSUIT? It will ALWAYS be MORE the man's thing. Even the man HIMSELF will value most what HE pursued. There are countless women that will tell you how a man broke them down with his persistence. You don't get those stories from men. Trust me. He's wrong.
So what has been your experience when you were pursued by a woman? What was wrong with it?
Are you a man or a woman when saying this
Agreed.
There’s a way to pursuit but men get that shit wrong. You just have to have it in you
Actually the psychology has changed due to social media and some other movement..
your videos popped up on my page and you do say some valid things but you saying you had to wait 30 days to have a girl smash just means the girl was just no attracted to you. It’s a hard pill to swallow but think about it: it doesn’t matter if you come on too strong with a woman or not. If she is attracted to you she will like that regardless. At the end of the day if she’s attracted to you it doesn’t matter what you say or do to an extent.
I appreciate it bro 🙏🏾… she was the one who made a move on me so she was definitely attracted. And this isn’t the only time this has happened. I actually JUST 2 mins ago made a video (not posted yet) that sort of addresses this. It should be out in a couple days. But essentially. Most women don’t like eager men.
And attraction is more than looks its behavior as well.
So you’re right she wasn’t attracted to my behavior.
Man, your content is great, but you should spend some money on a mic, the echo is making it a little hard to understand sometimes