It’s cause you have to be patient. If she’s playing this game with you she’s interested. She wouldn’t be doing that if she wasn’t. So you just ignore her until she breaks. No headache necessary. It doesn’t take that long usually. They aren’t used to being ignored.
@Hello123-b7l If she's doing it in a passive aggressive way then she's trying to battle you for the upper hand in hopes that you approach her first so she can always hold onto the fact that you pursued her instead of the other way around. Don't overcomplicate things and get out of your own head, respectfully. Just man up and make the approach with strong frame. Whether she accepts or denies you, doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that you stay strong enough to make the connection appropriately and let the chips fall where they may. If she rejects you, she'll respect the fact that you approached her like a man and may come around again in the future and approach you this time. Don't be surprised. I'm speaking from my own experiences.
When I had hair, in my 20s..my hair texture was fine.. I remember this pretty.girl.said I was too pretty for her..she said she don't like me who look better than her. She was saying how my hair looks better than hers and how I was a pretty boy
I think social media messed things up as well, more upper tier girls now have less confidence in themselves after comparing with IG models with max filter + AI touch up. I find it easier to make them comfortable at work or wherever I see them often as you can chip away at it without doing too much at once but in a one shot scenario where you only see her once, it's hard for me. Either I don't do enough to break the ice or do too much and come across like a beg and thus become unattractive lol.
You summed it up perfectly bro. If you can take your time to do it then you’re good. The way I see it the girls who aren’t confident are just not the ones that you’re going to be able to get with in a short period of time unless they drink tbh but I’m not into that. It will be easier in an environment where you can have fun or be playful.
There’s a couple of pretty girls at my workplace that say hi ocassionally first to me. But when I try to make eye contact to say hi to them on other days, they completely avoid eye contact and just ignore me. So the next time I see them I plan to ignore them they then they say hi to me. They say hi regularly to others but to me they are changing their mind daily. Idk to ignore them or now. Idc if it gets to relationship but I want to be polite at least. It feels rude to ignore people but I don’t want to be disrespected. I’ve had this happen in the past with another girl but she was bad enough that I said hi every time even if she ignored me. But these girls idc that much so I will ignore them if needed. Just wondering what you think. Thank you.
I personally would just ignore them. It’s only rude if when they hi to you, you still ignore them. It’s not worth the mental gymnastics of trying to figure out “is today the day she says hi to me” and that goes for the pretty ones too. Either address it or ignore but don’t play into it and be saying hi when she’s ignoring you. Either of those two will work if you ignore a pretty girl it will work even better because she’s not used to being ignored. You have to treat women normally. If a guy was doing this you would just ignore him so do the same to her. I hope this helps!
@@TheRealZmanWorld people may see her being nervous as intimidated. But to me from 4 decades of life experiences. She is nervous because she likes you, but she doesn't have irresistible desire for you . There is like, an then there overwhelming lust. If her desire for you is strong enough she won't be shy because she will want you too bad
You have to allow time for her to get comfortable. So in the beginning just do small talk and get to know her on a little bit and then find something to connect on. Then when she gets comfortable you do your thing as usual.
One of my home boys. I mentioned about in highschool, in the story about the girl who was mean to me. Well we were about 19 or 20..he ended up getting a temp job graybar. The same day he started. His manager a female came on to him and tried to get him to have sxxxx with her after work..he declined and said he doesn't commit adultery with another man's wife. The very next day he came to.job site and she told him go on back home your services are no longer needed here. The entire shift the other day she was flirting and hinting at first. But when he was about to get off his shift she literally pressed him. And because he wouldn't sleep with her, she terminated his position as temp..
i recognize that ignoring is not bad sign for handsome man..
but if this behavior repeat... it cause much headache.😂
It’s cause you have to be patient. If she’s playing this game with you she’s interested. She wouldn’t be doing that if she wasn’t. So you just ignore her until she breaks. No headache necessary. It doesn’t take that long usually. They aren’t used to being ignored.
@Hello123-b7l If she's doing it in a passive aggressive way then she's trying to battle you for the upper hand in hopes that you approach her first so she can always hold onto the fact that you pursued her instead of the other way around. Don't overcomplicate things and get out of your own head, respectfully. Just man up and make the approach with strong frame. Whether she accepts or denies you, doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that you stay strong enough to make the connection appropriately and let the chips fall where they may. If she rejects you, she'll respect the fact that you approached her like a man and may come around again in the future and approach you this time. Don't be surprised. I'm speaking from my own experiences.
Thank you!
@Hello123-b7l no problem 😉👌🏾💯.
When I had hair, in my 20s..my hair texture was fine..
I remember this pretty.girl.said I was too pretty for her..she said she don't like me who look better than her. She was saying how my hair looks better than hers and how I was a pretty boy
Some girls are like this. And they will reject you because they want to be the one who gets all the attention
@@MarvOverMatter I think they know you can get better girls than them..an secretly feel being with you is holding you back for someone better
@genovasquez8361 word
I think social media messed things up as well, more upper tier girls now have less confidence in themselves after comparing with IG models with max filter + AI touch up.
I find it easier to make them comfortable at work or wherever I see them often as you can chip away at it without doing too much at once but in a one shot scenario where you only see her once, it's hard for me.
Either I don't do enough to break the ice or do too much and come across like a beg and thus become unattractive lol.
You summed it up perfectly bro. If you can take your time to do it then you’re good. The way I see it the girls who aren’t confident are just not the ones that you’re going to be able to get with in a short period of time unless they drink tbh but I’m not into that. It will be easier in an environment where you can have fun or be playful.
bro i experience this all day long
Yeah bro this is how most girls react, they just frail up
@ it’s honestly saddening 😭 when you really just wanna date. But it’s whatever right 🙏🏽
@AhSpaceBxrr yeah it’s annoying bro. I hate the games but you gotta learn how to play so you can actually have a somewhat enjoyable experience lol
Was waiting for this one !
I gotchu man 💯
There’s a couple of pretty girls at my workplace that say hi ocassionally first to me. But when I try to make eye contact to say hi to them on other days, they completely avoid eye contact and just ignore me. So the next time I see them I plan to ignore them they then they say hi to me. They say hi regularly to others but to me they are changing their mind daily. Idk to ignore them or now. Idc if it gets to relationship but I want to be polite at least. It feels rude to ignore people but I don’t want to be disrespected. I’ve had this happen in the past with another girl but she was bad enough that I said hi every time even if she ignored me. But these girls idc that much so I will ignore them if needed. Just wondering what you think. Thank you.
Same shit happens to me. Makes me think I’m crazy sometimes
@@LebobGames feel the same way lol
I personally would just ignore them. It’s only rude if when they hi to you, you still ignore them. It’s not worth the mental gymnastics of trying to figure out “is today the day she says hi to me” and that goes for the pretty ones too. Either address it or ignore but don’t play into it and be saying hi when she’s ignoring you. Either of those two will work if you ignore a pretty girl it will work even better because she’s not used to being ignored. You have to treat women normally. If a guy was doing this you would just ignore him so do the same to her.
I hope this helps!
@@MarvOverMatter Thank you!!
9:38-10:30 REALLY IMPORTANT
Yeah that’s the leading they talk about, not chasing after the girl.
What if she’s nervous on a date and doesn’t want to show any affection or anything of that nature….
@@TheRealZmanWorld people may see her being nervous as intimidated. But to me from 4 decades of life experiences. She is nervous because she likes you, but she doesn't have irresistible desire for you .
There is like, an then there overwhelming lust.
If her desire for you is strong enough she won't be shy because she will want you too bad
You have to allow time for her to get comfortable. So in the beginning just do small talk and get to know her on a little bit and then find something to connect on. Then when she gets comfortable you do your thing as usual.
One of my home boys. I mentioned about in highschool, in the story about the girl who was mean to me.
Well we were about 19 or 20..he ended up getting a temp job graybar. The same day he started. His manager a female came on to him and tried to get him to have sxxxx with her after work..he declined and said he doesn't commit adultery with another man's wife.
The very next day he came to.job site and she told him go on back home your services are no longer needed here.
The entire shift the other day she was flirting and hinting at first. But when he was about to get off his shift she literally pressed him. And because he wouldn't sleep with her, she terminated his position as temp..
That crazy bro... a lot of women can't handle rejection but that was out of line for her to terminate him because he rejected her.
@shawnwilliams2381 especially the guy who is 6th feet with a six pack and dark skin.
That’s out of pocket smh
@@MarvOverMatter it happens