Answering Your Questions... Moving back to Seattle, Getting a Dog + Do I Still Want to Buy in LA?!

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
  • In this vlog we start in palm springs then get back to LA to be a bit more productive!
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  • @carolschneid
    @carolschneid 3 месяца назад +33

    As someone who works for someone else - i envy your life so much. I hope you can stay on your own as a success - it is so much more gratifying to do the work when it is for you, in lieu of for someone else

  • @AliMeetsWorld
    @AliMeetsWorld 3 месяца назад +33

    Pls post them on RUclips too because I have never gotten a TikTok and I don’t wanna cave in now 😭😭

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад +39

    1:34 "To me it's so boring" Exactly what I was thinking 😅

    • @ryanconrad92
      @ryanconrad92 3 месяца назад +11

      I’m dead ☠️. “To me it’s just so boring. I honestly didn’t even think it was fun.” I love unhinged Shelby!!

    • @AliMeetsWorld
      @AliMeetsWorld 3 месяца назад +5

      My dad plays all the time and for him it’s about socializing with his buds, having a beer, and making small 10 dollar bets to see who will make each hole. I promise most men aren’t just “chillin quietly” on the course 😂

    • @shelbychurchvlogs
      @shelbychurchvlogs  3 месяца назад +2

      😂

    • @mariedoucet2371
      @mariedoucet2371 3 месяца назад

      Love love love golf…as passionate about it as you are about tennis. Now you understand 😊

  • @awang714
    @awang714 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the 5 minute motivation tip! It’s nice to finally do something you have been procrastinating for a while.

  • @exploringfindeverything
    @exploringfindeverything 3 месяца назад +2

    Shelby, you inspired me when you asked for questions for the vlog today and so I asked in my Community and got loads and loads of questions. I wouldn't have done it without your inspiration! Thank you and I appreciate you vlogs so much!

  • @sandy949
    @sandy949 3 месяца назад +15

    Can’t get out of bed and so tired, and you upload. Thank you!! ❤

  • @user-sx6eu4rg2x
    @user-sx6eu4rg2x 3 месяца назад +20

    The job sounds like a fun opportunity to try something different but still within your wheelhouse, you won't have to worry about health insurance, and then you will have new content opportunities - going from YT to a 9-5, and vlogs too! Does the job let you work from home/anywhere? Maybe you can negotiate those aspects into your employment contract so you still have the freedoms you have now. Great vlog Shelby!

  • @SarahSchneider2
    @SarahSchneider2 3 месяца назад +3

    I agree with what you mean about no place being perfect. It also makes it hard to move because one thing might be better but at the cost of something else not being as good like it was before.

  • @joeanna6216
    @joeanna6216 3 месяца назад +9

    Implementing this 5 minute strategy TODAY! Happy you included it in your vlog because I'm not on Tik Tok

  • @alexandermuir8160
    @alexandermuir8160 3 месяца назад +3

    Love the way you eat healthy food without thinking about it. I used to be like that many years ago. Sounds like you have already got yourself together.

  • @c4arla
    @c4arla 3 месяца назад

    Shelby this 5 minute tips is life changing I ahd already been using it this week and wow

  • @AliMeetsWorld
    @AliMeetsWorld 3 месяца назад +4

    Yes I want this new series! I will check in every day! 🎉🎉🎉 it’s crazy how there’s usually only 1 or 2 tasks nagging on my mind. Both combined may only take an hour or two but I will wait weeks before doing it because it’s too intimidating 😂

  • @carlisleemily
    @carlisleemily 2 месяца назад

    I love your vlogs no matter what they are!

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 3 месяца назад +17

    Salmon is the best no matter it's sushi, cooked with rice or on a salad. YUMMY!!

  • @maxplanck9055
    @maxplanck9055 3 месяца назад +4

    Thanks 🙏for the motivation with the new tennis dresses Shelby ✌️❤️🇬🇧

  • @KristaHarrisSB
    @KristaHarrisSB 3 месяца назад

    Love the 5 minute idea. Will start right after watching this video!

  • @indiesludge
    @indiesludge 3 месяца назад

    You’re the best! Thank you. Having snacks and watching

  • @jutperry
    @jutperry 3 месяца назад +3

    Love the Q&A Shelby.

  • @T.Moonita
    @T.Moonita 3 месяца назад +2

    I do the 25 min work on and then 5 min away from my desk and do little chores around the apartment. I feel more productive!

  • @kgal1298
    @kgal1298 3 месяца назад +2

    You're right about the dog. I got mine when I really didn't have extra money so I had time, but basically now it's hard to take trips and go out because I love her and walk her about 5 miles per day. This means about 3 hours of my day is making sure she's out and about. I do have a roommate that helps walk her for me when I need to go out, but yeah dogs are time consuming. Cats not so much and I have cats, but they're messy, for an animal that grooms themselves 5 hours a day they sure love to mess up my stuff, they're lucky they're cute.

  • @user-uw4ch8qr5e
    @user-uw4ch8qr5e 3 месяца назад +9

    Excellent video. Love your 5 min anti- procrastination suggestion, It helped on my long delayed landscape painting project.

  • @HansMilling
    @HansMilling 3 месяца назад +8

    What is fun about golf, is that you can spend a few hours with some friends. No phones, TV or nothing to disturb and you can just really talk together, have a laugh etc. the game itself is so slow and boring, you are right. But I love the social part.
    More viewer questions videos. But you should do that as a separate video, and not mix it with the vlog.

    • @sterlingmarshel6299
      @sterlingmarshel6299 2 месяца назад

      you can spend a few hours doing anything without phones if you want to. I see golfers all the time on the phone driving a cart

  • @StephenOshea
    @StephenOshea 3 месяца назад

    wow your playing golf bravo . you have some great sport stores with so much variety

  • @ClairenParkerontheRoad
    @ClairenParkerontheRoad 3 месяца назад +1

    I've rediscovered tennis lately and am LOVING it.

  • @jancarlson2165
    @jancarlson2165 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Shelby!! So wish i could move to California, probably Laguna Beach area. Always loved it. Maybe someday!! ❤❤❤

  • @heatherpew
    @heatherpew 3 месяца назад +6

    Pausing the vlog just to comment about those bears lol. They're a part of a carnival ride, like a spinning ride where there's a bench and table on inside.

  • @lisabrooks178
    @lisabrooks178 3 месяца назад +2

    I 100% agree with your points about NYC. Honestly ever since COVID i feel like it's lost most of its appeal and hegemony and im glad more people are realizing that there's a lot of other great cities/states to live in outside of NYC. ps im LOVING your CA and tennis content! you've inspired me to sign up for tennis lessons this summer and i'm nervous since i'm such a beginner but im also excited!

    • @shelbychurchvlogs
      @shelbychurchvlogs  3 месяца назад

      OMG yay yes love that you signed up for tennis classes!!

  • @CautiousCrow
    @CautiousCrow 3 месяца назад +3

    I would feel bad for leaving my dog home when I'm out and about. This is why I volunteer walking dogs at the animal shelter. I get the fun parts of interacting with dogs and they're time bound to whenever I have free time. Plus, it's super easy to hit 10k steps that day.

  • @msbgone
    @msbgone 3 месяца назад +6

    OMG. That is a huge news!! Do what you think feels right! We will be waiting here if you decide to come back! ;). Good Luck!!!

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 3 месяца назад

      huh?

    • @msbgone
      @msbgone 3 месяца назад

      @@jj-if6it huh to what? Shelby said she got offered a full time video, did you watch the video?

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 3 месяца назад +1

      @@msbgone she didn't accept a new job, so why would we have to wait for her to come back?

  • @Chutney1luv
    @Chutney1luv 3 месяца назад

    Also, Shelby, happy Sunday. To keep spiders and pests out of your car and home, purchase some peppermint spray or oil and spray it on the floor of your car. Those critters clim in through your doors or vents.
    It has a nice fragrance. A little spray will do you!😊
    Right now, I'm cleaning out closets with the 5 minute rule! Oh yes, I am resting in between! Enjoy your day! 🌴🏖🌴😄

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 3 месяца назад +4

    Hey Shelby ❤ love your channel

  • @juantaverasiv741
    @juantaverasiv741 3 месяца назад +7

    That's an interesting point, about investing in stocks until you're ready to buy your primary home.
    I went ahead and bought a condo in California, even though it's not my "dream" home, because you do not get taxed on the capital gains when you sell, and also because the mortgage interest is entirely tax deductible. So for me, it's worth it to live in the condo for a few years and later trade up for a bigger home once I want to have a family.
    Also, I bought the condo in the Bay Area, so I assume that prices across the area will increase sort of uniformly, so if my dream home goes up in price, my condo's value will theoretically increase too so I'll still be able to buy the dream home. Stocks aren't guaranteed to appreciate in correlation with your local housing market.
    However I do agree with your points about wanting to invest in the Joshua Tree project so it's smart to not tie up all your money with mortgages.
    Anyway, I appreciate your vlogs and I like how you really think through all your decisions!

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 3 месяца назад +7

    For some reason, I don't feel production if I wake up after 6:30am.

  • @merrimcarthur7198
    @merrimcarthur7198 3 месяца назад +2

    You are one smart and inspiring woman.

  • @Kaufdroppp
    @Kaufdroppp 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for the shoutout!!😂 people used to call me cough drop because of my last name haha. Glad you’re happy at your new place!💕

  • @MikesVlogss
    @MikesVlogss 3 месяца назад

    @Shelby Happy National Look-A-Like Day!!

  • @elvislubega4272
    @elvislubega4272 2 месяца назад

    So you I like the fact you talked/ introduced the 5 minute rule, but my problem is for the longest time I’ve I always wanted to start a RUclips channel and I have no idea how to one. I would very much like how I could implement the 5 minute rule towards that and other things on how to start one!

  • @yuma3105
    @yuma3105 3 месяца назад +1

    Media writer Dan Gentile describes his escape from Coachella on SFGate. Two plus hours from Rancho Mirage to Palm Springs and a total of 7 hours to LAX.

  • @aimeekelly1172
    @aimeekelly1172 3 месяца назад

    Hi Shelby! This isn’t related to your vlog, but I wanted to pass this on to you. You’ve mentioned that you have arch problems with your feet. I’m a former gymnast as well and I have the same problem Try Skechers arch for shoes. They have great arch support with memory foam and so comfortable! I’ve had mine a few weeks and love them!

  • @Rebeccaw812
    @Rebeccaw812 3 месяца назад +10

    I am born and raised in NYC I live uptown in Manhattan. I walk a lot and take the subway all the stories about getting punched or the subway violence while yes I’ve heard that too it’s not as much as the media wants you to think. I feel safe as does everyone else I know. The media has away of taking isolated incidents snd making you think it’s a daily occurrence. .

    • @jackiemay147
      @jackiemay147 3 месяца назад +5

      Yea it does seem funny to be saying that about NYC when everyone also sees the extreme news stories about what happens in LA 😂

    • @mallorygraf8574
      @mallorygraf8574 3 месяца назад +1

      Same thing with San Francisco...the media focuses on one part of the city( homeless, etc) and not on the other, "normal" parts of SF.

    • @AllycatlovesAG
      @AllycatlovesAG 3 месяца назад +2

      I’m going to New York for the first time soon, and I’m slightly nervous because of these stories, even though where I’m from I take transit all the time and I know how to stay safe. I keep reminding myself of how many women my age take it on a daily basis and are fine, so I will be ok!

  • @motogal7944
    @motogal7944 2 месяца назад

    A thought about wanting a dog, but not wanting a long-term commitment: Fostering is a GREAT option for you! Most shelters and rescues offer fostering. If you foster through a shelter, it gets the dog out of the stressful shelter environment and makes more space for other incoming animals. Most foster programs cover everything for the dog, even down to the food. It's also a short-term commitment until the pup gets adopted. So it's short-term and little to no cost to you! Win-win all around!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 месяца назад

    Can't wait for the Joshua Tree build!

    • @sterlingmarshel6299
      @sterlingmarshel6299 2 месяца назад

      doubt it will happen - JT is a loser for new Airbnb owners --restrictions are in place now

  • @kitkatwozny
    @kitkatwozny 3 месяца назад +1

    thx for answering my ? i feel loved🤪🩷 glad u r well!

  • @joseortega5593
    @joseortega5593 3 месяца назад +7

    Did you take the job

  • @puffpuffin1
    @puffpuffin1 3 месяца назад

    OMG. Coachella traffic. I went there a couple years ago to see what it was like. I thought getting out of the parking lot was bad. Monday traffic was just as bad. I don't think I'll ever go again.
    03:19 - On all my road travels, so far, I have seen dragons (not sure what cartoon, if any, they are from), Sonic the Hedgehog & friends, and the Oscar Meyer Wienermobile. 😁
    That 5 minute rule sounds interesting. I'll think about it...(for 5 minutes 🤣)

  • @shannonhutchinson4084
    @shannonhutchinson4084 3 месяца назад +1

    I have 3 places to choose a job from myself and I don’t o ow which to pick!
    San Diego
    Oahu
    Miami
    Any thoughts?

  • @jamiezink9310
    @jamiezink9310 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for 5 minutes tip!!

  • @Chutney1luv
    @Chutney1luv 3 месяца назад

    Shelby, thanks for the 5 minute rule! It's a challenge sometime to decide when to start a task and complete it! Excellent idea that works.
    As far as taking on new employment; check the hours and the benefit package. They'll have medical, sick leave, stocks and bonds, pension, and vocation.
    Will the hours be 6 or 8 hours? It's worth investigating! 😊
    There's Twenty-four hours in a day. Six to eight hours of working and you still have sixteen to 18 hours to do what you want! Deduct for traffic. 🛣
    I don't know RUclips's guidelines, but maybe you can do 2 to 3 days a week vlogs. Edit them down to 15 to 20 minutes. Your content is informative; not to do them anymore!
    (Remember last year when you and Sam attended the Taylor Swift concert? That footage was spectacular!) 🎉🎾🎉🎶

  • @MyContestPix
    @MyContestPix 3 месяца назад

    I'm sure that spider was more afraid of you then the other way around!!! LOL!

  • @MO-xm1kj
    @MO-xm1kj 2 месяца назад

    Recipe for the pancakes please?

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 месяца назад

    Do you still do lymphatic drainage massages? Haven't seen it in a while

  • @omradiant
    @omradiant 3 месяца назад +2

    Monica is fantastic!😂

  • @itsnotme07
    @itsnotme07 3 месяца назад +2

    Left handed golfer? A rare breed!! Golf industry hates us left handers.

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад

    You've been enjoying near total scheduling freedom for over a decade now and I think taking on a regular 9-to-5 will be quite a challenge and will take a long time to adjust to. If you want to keep on doing RUclips too it will be even more challenging; you only have to look at Monica to see how that worked out. That being said, it could be a very valuable experience and you can finally silence the haters who say you've never worked in a 'real' job 👍

  • @VanessaChats
    @VanessaChats 3 месяца назад

    Doing my kitty litter cleaning (it takes longer than 5 mins)

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад +1

    I once had a spider come down from behind the rear view mirror while I was driving 😳

  • @kitkatwozny
    @kitkatwozny 3 месяца назад

    could the company u talked with possibly give u contract work once in awhile instead of full time?

  • @kelp71
    @kelp71 3 месяца назад

    The bears were fair rides.😂

  • @icidavidlemieux5117
    @icidavidlemieux5117 3 месяца назад

    One more big question for you... do you use a vibration dampener on your tennis racquet?

  • @SoraMTeichman
    @SoraMTeichman 3 месяца назад

    I cannot work when my house is a mess! But I think it's personality dependent

  • @travissapp4961
    @travissapp4961 Месяц назад

    Hope you are doing okay 😊

  • @katiedee
    @katiedee 3 месяца назад

    The bears seem like a ride for an amusement park in my opinion, looks like you sit on the inside lol

  • @jeannine1991
    @jeannine1991 3 месяца назад

    The freeway 🐻 🐻 🐻 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JohnDoe-ld8nr
    @JohnDoe-ld8nr 3 месяца назад

    It's sad seeing 2 girls get along so great on video and then realizing later that their friendship has ended. I remember watching Monica's video about living with sorority girls and thinking she had such a great friendship with one of them and then realizing they no longer were friends when I noticed they weren't following each other on IG.

  • @christinarandall96
    @christinarandall96 3 месяца назад +1

    Why don’t you start a social media strategy consulting business?

  • @shirleyjagers
    @shirleyjagers 3 месяца назад

    oh and Shelb, to be honest your phone looks about 16 inches long; i wonder if phones got super long would people be pissed or psyched?
    kj

  • @juliemartino1098
    @juliemartino1098 2 месяца назад

    RUclips won’t be a forever thing. I would try to do both if you can 🤷‍♀️

  • @DelanaGrayWest
    @DelanaGrayWest 3 месяца назад +1

    Unfortunately I keep choosing tasks that take less than 5 minutes, like closing unneeded tabs in my web browser.

    • @AliMeetsWorld
      @AliMeetsWorld 3 месяца назад

      That’s a great start! By doing that consistently, you may feel the natural urge to raise the bar and pick a task that may be 6 mins or 7! Great job friend 🎉

    • @shelbychurchvlogs
      @shelbychurchvlogs  3 месяца назад

      Just start! you don't have to complete the task!

  • @strrangerthings7049
    @strrangerthings7049 3 месяца назад

    Shelbo leaving California
    Churchies golfin

  • @TexasGirl1633
    @TexasGirl1633 3 месяца назад

    I can’t imagine you in a full time job. You have so much freedom now and you probably would not have that is you worked a normal job.

  • @peppermedley8271
    @peppermedley8271 3 месяца назад

    Will it affect you financially if our government bans TikTok in the U.S.? Just curious.

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 месяца назад

    And here's me who felt a lot safer in NY than LA haha

  • @kimpeters8668
    @kimpeters8668 2 месяца назад

    For the job, I feel like they want someone to be in the role long-term. If you can't see yourself doing it for more than 2 years, then it's probably not worth doing it as a full-time status. Maybe getting a 6-month contract for UGC content creation for them would be a better use of their and your own time. Or doing a 1-year contract to hire, so you both can get a good feel for what you want. Then you can still reap the monetary benefits while maintaining your independence.
    If you are looking for a full-time role to gain a new skill set, get healthcare, or simply have structure then the 9-5 might be better for you. Obviously, we don't know the terms of the job. But it seems like a 9-5 would lock down your time tremendously, and also PTO would most likely be constrictive. Also not sure how non-compete and or if they would have opinions on you doing your own brand deals. I would say it took me 1 year to be fully comfortable in my corporate role, and now 5 years in I have a lot more freedom then I did when I 1st started.

  • @BrittanyNew
    @BrittanyNew 2 месяца назад

    just commit to go to the dmv for 5 mins 😂

  • @Sivapriya108.
    @Sivapriya108. 3 месяца назад

    i just followed your on tictok

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 3 месяца назад +2

    Are you a Yankees fan or that's just a mug you drink from?

  • @ledout7733
    @ledout7733 3 месяца назад

    I totally agreed Golf is so boring you hit that ball then you walk a mile just to hit it again , I just don't get it .

  • @brianxyz
    @brianxyz 3 месяца назад

    Shelby, do ever worry about TikTok getting banned? Also, did I hear a kid at the beginning of the vlog?

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад

      That kid is mostly likely her nephew.

  • @samuraiintellectual
    @samuraiintellectual 3 месяца назад +1

    I’ve been in hundreds of kitchens and have never seen a full length mirror in one. You are unique. Is Judge Cannon managing your Joshua Tree project, that is really slow rolling?

    • @shelbychurchvlogs
      @shelbychurchvlogs  3 месяца назад

      Lol I know it’s so weird. I have no other spot to put it I feel like.

  • @Kiritoswordsman597
    @Kiritoswordsman597 3 месяца назад +2

    Are you still friends with Nikki Phillippi?

  • @bebdaumon3948
    @bebdaumon3948 3 месяца назад

    😎😎👍👍

  • @Cat-qn1yw
    @Cat-qn1yw 3 месяца назад

    I read the questions people asked and I’m a little disappointed that you didn’t answer any questions regarding you and Sam. 😕

  • @seaduster8347
    @seaduster8347 3 месяца назад +2

    $42,000 a year for rent is insane

  • @atlanticx100
    @atlanticx100 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Shelby I keep getting fake accounts that are not you trying to add me on TT. They have also taken your content even some of your early content. Take care.

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад +1

      It's so annoying 😑I remove them every time but they keep on coming back with new accounts. It's not only Shelby's but also Monica's content is copied.

  • @monnd3481
    @monnd3481 3 месяца назад

    Are you and Monica both left handed??

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes 🙂

    • @monnd3481
      @monnd3481 3 месяца назад +1

      Wonders never cease

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 3 месяца назад +1

    First

  • @jackiemay147
    @jackiemay147 3 месяца назад +44

    If I were you, I’d take the full time job and start posting these vlogs on your main channel with more subs and stop this channel. I feel like your main channel videos haven’t been doing great for a while now and take a lot of time to make. You could def have a full time job and vlog, so idk that’s what I would do.

    • @duc25xr
      @duc25xr 3 месяца назад +38

      I'd never want to work full time if I could have a live on my schedule like she does and still make tons of money. She's living the dream

    • @Alfiewow
      @Alfiewow 3 месяца назад +14

      I like them and look forward to them ☺️

    • @christopherdriving6425
      @christopherdriving6425 3 месяца назад +2

      Why would u want a full time job. She is living the life of luxury unlike us poor people working for some guy who don’t care

    • @sterlingmarshel6299
      @sterlingmarshel6299 2 месяца назад +1

      every RUclipsr ages out - looking towards the future outside YT is smart

  • @farrl7316
    @farrl7316 3 месяца назад

    Have you considered using the heatless curls? your hair looks so fried :(

  • @chickolat
    @chickolat 3 месяца назад +1

    you sound more and more like a valley girl since you moved to LA.

  • @Letsgo77761
    @Letsgo77761 3 месяца назад +3

    Shelby, don't put down your sister's favorite activity to her face. Everyone knows that tennis is more fun and burns more calories but your sister seems to love it.

    • @shelbychurchvlogs
      @shelbychurchvlogs  3 месяца назад +1

      I’m sorry I just resent it because my whole family is obsessed with golf and they disappear for like seven hours a day playing it 🤣

  • @PhilipMcneill-kc5dg
    @PhilipMcneill-kc5dg 3 месяца назад +1

    Girls in NYC getting punched in the face? Yikes! Glad you’re in La !

  • @Jithin_6777instagram
    @Jithin_6777instagram 3 месяца назад

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