I learned all this the hard way Now if I ask a girl out and she rejects or gives funny responses I'll just delete her number and move on to the next Even if she texts back, I'll keep conversation short and never ask her out again! Unless she brings it up Life becomes much more easier when u are willing to walk away
This is so fucking true!! Acting needy tells her that she is your only option while she has tons of options. Being cold will let her know she is one of your options and you dont mind moving on. Believe me its very hard for a woman to digest the fact that a guy is not "interested" in her.
It's really very simple. If a girl is acting distant and putting in minimum effort then just break up with her. Trust me, you don't want to get involved in playing these games. It's just a long road of hurt and pain and stress. Just refuse to play the game. You'll be surprised at how often they then start chasing you...
Don’t focus on the woman! Focus on yourself and only reward her with your time and attention if/when she’s earned it! If she cold, flakey or shows disinterest, back off. Then keep backing off until she works hard for you. Show your value.
Push and Pull in a club/bar. For the push away: take a step back (subtle), side ways on body language, feet pointing away from her, leaning away from her. For the pull: you can always display your arm/hand out, rope her in. Dance with her, lead her to the dancefloor, go to the bar etc (transition - escalate attraction)
If you're like me and you've been scouring the deep web for the best advice on relationship matters and self development in relationships? I can definitely say this is the perfect mindset you want to have. I currently apply this behavior to my relationship and I see the expected results. I am not disappointed and look forward to learning more!
When she's sending mixed signals: Say, "I love you." to her. See how she reacts. If she scrunches up her face and looks at you weird, she doesn't like you in a romantic way and can't imagine you two ever being together. You are solely just friends and will always stay that way for the rest of your lives in her mind. If she says, "Oh my gosh! I love you too!" in a normal kind of way, you are just a friend to her and she has never really thought about you in a romantic way. If she gets mad at you for saying "I love you" to her, you need to change some major things about yourself before she will ever think about dating you. If she looks at you weird and can't understand why you'd say such a thing to her, and she stands there in shock looking at you, you've got her attention. This time while she is in shock is the best time for you to tell her how you feel. If you pass up the opportunity to tell her how you feel at this time, she'll think you don't like her, that you were just playing with her, and she'll find somebody else to like. (Recommended for me by RUclips, using someone's account)
Hi coach. You put waaaaaah too much power into women... Birds of same feather flock together. As simple as that. If a woman is cold, that's when you move on without looking back. All reasons for her unacceptable behavior don't even matter. No offense but your advice seems weak to me.
Just tell a girl, I won't hold my breath and to hit you up sometime when she knows what she wants. If a girl ain't showing interest, why would you show any back? This is weak game being taught here. Move on to someone who actually might like you
How to pull back without being totally cold on her? I mean if she thinks that she can have you when she wants she will not desire you, is it possible to give her some doubts just ignoring her?
Join more social activity & post them frequently on your social media accounts. Do some photo shoot with other women & post them. You can add a Caller tune which shows YOU ARE SIMPLE FINE & ENJOYING YOUR LIFE.
Eh, if a woman suddenly acts cold. I WILL ask her if she's okay ONCE. I'm not here to play games and I'm direct. If she says nothing is wrong and still acts like this. I'm out.
The point is: how can I show that I'm willing to walk away? That she can lose me. Heard this concept in a lot of your videos Bobby, but never got HOW I can do it. Please Bobby, explain this 🙂
It means that there is a real threat that "you will terminate the relationship by replacing her with hoter one". If you not able make it "real", any woman will see that you bluff and will lose any attraction.
@@1RPJacob but if we explain to them that we are willing to walk away because of their hot and cold behavior we come off as lookin needy and she just moves on to the next guy 😅
Had a look at the website where one can buy the book and looks very suspicious, typical fishing style to the site, lots of extra features you get for free but have to cancel before it starts to cost and tons of extra choices and then on the order page very odd looking logos and more like writing up to get ton of commercial emails and what not. Any other dedicated book site which sells his book?
lol i had a women all keen onto me. Then suddenly act different. She is all over the place. I seem to go oh well not worth the time or effort and move on
But what is the balance of pulling away without being too cold on her? Mine broke up with me with me 3 weeks ago and I have been talking and flirting with other women on my facebook without her deleting mine (So I guess she knows it). But how should I not get too cold on her?
Maybe this, maybe that, riddle me this, ride me that.....wtf is that all about? FFS!.........If she acts like a dick, treat her like a dick, walk away and don't look back. Simples!
Bobbi hey man i understand your videos and i will continue to do. but i am going to suggested that changing www.unlockherlegs.com/readhermind i know it's a pain and can tell you from experience since i also have a Facebook page an Instagram and Franky man unlockherlegs it's weird. we all do the game or chess has my refer to it, any how either the decision lays in you and your team... Wish you well man
Better advice: Leave, and ditch them. Mixed signals are sent by emotionally immature people, and if you actually want decent companionship; don’t entertain their bullshit
I learned all this the hard way
Now if I ask a girl out and she rejects or gives funny responses
I'll just delete her number and move on to the next
Even if she texts back, I'll keep conversation short and never ask her out again! Unless she brings it up
Life becomes much more easier when u are willing to walk away
Alpha Tube you have a good point.
Total Bull shit, man I think you need to become a green pick up artist than being a fake ego dude
RUclips RUclips I’ve been walking away for years it actually takes a toll on my confidence...Wish it was easy for me haha
Too true. You need the mindset you have multiple options always, even if you don't
This is so fucking true!! Acting needy tells her that she is your only option while she has tons of options. Being cold will let her know she is one of your options and you dont mind moving on. Believe me its very hard for a woman to digest the fact that a guy is not "interested" in her.
It's really very simple. If a girl is acting distant and putting in minimum effort then just break up with her. Trust me, you don't want to get involved in playing these games. It's just a long road of hurt and pain and stress. Just refuse to play the game. You'll be surprised at how often they then start chasing you...
Thanks for the advice sir.. actually that is my biggest problem.. now I'll know it..
Achilles facts
They’ll most likely chase another guy
I totally agree
Dont think thats gonna work with the girl im dating ... pretty sure she won't give a shit if i walk away
Just walk away. Youd know it when its real, and you dont have to play any games to get her.
Don’t focus on the woman! Focus on yourself and only reward her with your time and attention if/when she’s earned it! If she cold, flakey or shows disinterest, back off. Then keep backing off until she works hard for you. Show your value.
This is hard, my neediness keeps getting in the way.
Sending mixed signals really isn't fair to the other person, but whoever said life was fair.
we're to supposed to love them but they don't have to love us
initiatorhater0688 ???
It sucks
NOT TRUE!
Too much work. Girl is immature
Move on to the next one.
Good advice. When she becomes ice cold give it some time and carry on. If the temp goes even icier then ask yourself 'is she worth it?'.
54 years old.Not playing junior high school games.Just walk away from it.
what if she is someone you already have enough intimacy... like a coworker who gets along with you pretty well but ocasionally she goes cold
Push and Pull in a club/bar. For the push away: take a step back (subtle), side ways on body language, feet pointing away from her, leaning away from her.
For the pull: you can always display your arm/hand out, rope her in. Dance with her, lead her to the dancefloor, go to the bar etc (transition - escalate attraction)
Take off,she intends to make you feel submissive (put you on the back foot)swerve her and move onto someone more genuine
If you're like me and you've been scouring the deep web for the best advice on relationship matters and self development in relationships? I can definitely say this is the perfect mindset you want to have. I currently apply this behavior to my relationship and I see the expected results. I am not disappointed and look forward to learning more!
When she's sending mixed signals: Say, "I love you." to her. See how she reacts.
If she scrunches up her face and looks at you weird, she doesn't like you in a romantic way and can't imagine you two ever being together. You are solely just friends and will always stay that way for the rest of your lives in her mind.
If she says, "Oh my gosh! I love you too!" in a normal kind of way, you are just a friend to her and she has never really thought about you in a romantic way.
If she gets mad at you for saying "I love you" to her, you need to change some major things about yourself before she will ever think about dating you.
If she looks at you weird and can't understand why you'd say such a thing to her, and she stands there in shock looking at you, you've got her attention. This time while she is in shock is the best time for you to tell her how you feel. If you pass up the opportunity to tell her how you feel at this time, she'll think you don't like her, that you were just playing with her, and she'll find somebody else to like.
(Recommended for me by RUclips, using someone's account)
Hi coach. You put waaaaaah too much power into women...
Birds of same feather flock together. As simple as that. If a woman is cold, that's when you move on without looking back.
All reasons for her unacceptable behavior don't even matter.
No offense but your advice seems weak to me.
Just tell a girl, I won't hold my breath and to hit you up sometime when she knows what she wants. If a girl ain't showing interest, why would you show any back? This is weak game being taught here. Move on to someone who actually might like you
Walk away and block them and move on or get friend zone
How to pull back without being totally cold on her? I mean if she thinks that she can have you when she wants she will not desire you, is it possible to give her some doubts just ignoring her?
Join more social activity & post them frequently on your social media accounts. Do some photo shoot with other women & post them. You can add a Caller tune which shows YOU ARE SIMPLE FINE & ENJOYING YOUR LIFE.
I'm like the worst ever at telling if a girl wants to be friends or more.
Pull back is a full Dennis system rule!
When you aren't your authentic self ,how can you be attractive
Eh, if a woman suddenly acts cold. I WILL ask her if she's okay ONCE. I'm not here to play games and I'm direct. If she says nothing is wrong and still acts like this. I'm out.
Any woman displaying 88 different personality traits sounds like Sybil, and you better run! This world sure is spiraling out of control!!
Mixed signals were driving me crazy and I thought I am the only one to face it 😂
i’m facing on it rn 💆🏻♂️
What do you call someone who considers you a just a “best friend” but constantly watches you even though she said y’all just friends.
stepmother ?
Thanks for the video :)
Thanks Bobby I appreciate this video
They'll just assume whatever anyways.
The point is: how can I show that I'm willing to walk away? That she can lose me. Heard this concept in a lot of your videos Bobby, but never got HOW I can do it. Please Bobby, explain this 🙂
It means that there is a real threat that "you will terminate the relationship by replacing her with hoter one". If you not able make it "real", any woman will see that you bluff and will lose any attraction.
@@1RPJacob but if we explain to them that we are willing to walk away because of their hot and cold behavior we come off as lookin needy and she just moves on to the next guy 😅
@@kingdavid772 to have a chance that it could work, we have be ready to do it.... and if necessary actually do it.
Wtf life is hard
I am getting a bit mixed up between pulling back and matching coldness what is the difference how do you keep a scale of those two things?
If I have other options somehow it doesn't bothered me
Had a look at the website where one can buy the book and looks very suspicious, typical fishing style to the site, lots of extra features you get for free but have to cancel before it starts to cost and tons of extra choices and then on the order page very odd looking logos and more like writing up to get ton of commercial emails and what not. Any other dedicated book site which sells his book?
just uncheck the box on the pre-order page, been around for 12 years, google my name :)
I really like your videos. But my English is not good at all, I don't know what to do. No matter how much I learn, I find it difficult to apply.
People are really absured say it and move on...immature women
lol i had a women all keen onto me. Then suddenly act different. She is all over the place. I seem to go oh well not worth the time or effort and move on
How do you even demonstrate or express some doubt in a woman’s mind?
But what is the balance of pulling away without being too cold on her? Mine broke up with me with me 3 weeks ago and I have been talking and flirting with other women on my facebook without her deleting mine (So I guess she knows it). But how should I not get too cold on her?
Heya Barb, whats doin Buddy?
Maybe it’s the end of world 😂😭😌
How do you demonstrate that she can lose me
Back off,
Show her that you have self value.
My boy bobby on some other shit
Maybe this, maybe that, riddle me this, ride me that.....wtf is that all about?
FFS!.........If she acts like a dick, treat her like a dick, walk away and don't look back.
Simples!
what if you have no legs? crawl way?
SAY first, "I'M NOT, GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU, YOU WANT MOI, TO CRAWL AWAY FROM YOU!!!
So you'll feel better, in watching, MOI crawl away from TU!!!"
Lol
Just act like you dont give a f#@$, you shouldnt anyways!!
dont notice!
Thanks for the video. I think this guy has too many teeth in his mouth lol
Tired of these fucking mind game bullshit!
Bobbi hey man i understand your videos and i will continue to do. but i am going to suggested that changing www.unlockherlegs.com/readhermind i know it's a pain and can tell you from experience since i also have a Facebook page an Instagram and Franky man unlockherlegs it's weird. we all do the game or chess has my refer to it, any how either the decision lays in you and your team... Wish you well man
Better advice: Leave, and ditch them. Mixed signals are sent by emotionally immature people, and if you actually want decent companionship; don’t entertain their bullshit
#3
"Apologizing has one "p" not two. How many girls are impressed by bad spellers? OK, Melania Trump, but who else?