Wow. This young girl is so lucky to have 2 big sisters who care so much about her and her well being. I hope these sisters all continue to find healing together
I'm glad you were able to help her fix her attitude. Only a few years later and it would've been much harder to fix stuff like that, since teens tend to get really stubborn
I think it was a tad overblown , but i guess if it works it works, if that is what the sister does over misuse of money the little one will probably fear she will get shot out of a canon straight to a prision if she ever does an actual crime and they find out
@@alexandrewildfire6405what do you mean by misuse of money? That would be the case assuming it was her own money and was splurging on meaningless stuff, stealing 700$ from your older sister is definitely something a kid needs a huge reality check on. She couldn't have handled it better. I'd be on board with you if it was something like 50$, but 700? You cannot call that not an actual crime.
@@alexandrewildfire6405 “Your honor, yes my client is on they for felony theft but should we really get this worked up over a misuse of money?” Stealing $1000 is a felony, the sister’s lucky they got a handle on it now before it became a MUCH bigger issue.
@@alexandrewildfire6405I don’t think it was overblown. I had the same kind of intervention by my mom in 3rd grade when I forged her signature on an attitude note sent home (I had undiagnosed ADHD and thus was always out of my seat and being disruptive to the class, and had boundary issues. This was in the late 90’s before mental health was deemed important and before they really knew the signs of ADHD in black females. I’m also finding out now at 35 that I’m on the autism spectrum, so there was that, too). Because forgery is a crime when you’re an adult, mom had a police officer talk to me kindly and explain why it’s not good to lie and do what I did. I was inconsolable and convinced that I was going to jail that day. 😂 It took me so long to calm down lol. The only thing I wished my mom had done was not have the officer come to my classroom to get me, and that she did this at home. I was basically nonverbal the rest of the day and my little friends were so confused. 😅 Anyways, I’ve never forged anything again and have a healthy respect for the law. 😂 My mom also took me to tour a juvenile detention facility, so I could see where I would end up if I kept that behavior up. Years later, my mom needed me to write her signature on something cause she had injured her hand, and I couldn’t do it. 😅 She kinda laughed but we found that that lesson was still being taught years later. In the case of this 12 year old, they had the intervention at home and she had plenty of emotional support which was nice. They also made plans on how she could change her behavior so she could have some direction on how to improve, so that was great. Much more emotionally friendly than my mom’s intervention lol. 😂 My mom literally scared me straight ahahaha. Some kids need that jolt to bring that back to reality. In my case, I took needed to understand why breaking rules and laws was bad. No excuses for myself, fyi.
Story 1: Hope the little sister also gets therapy, wishing her and the family all the best. Story 2: Op. change your number and block all of them, let J and C have each other, they're both cheats, if they try to contact you again, get a lawyer involved with a cease and desist letter and inform your lawyer to tell your ex to stay away from you, otherwise you will inform the police, change your number and any contact information you have, go completely no contact, let the cheaters have each other.
I never actually thought this was that common until just now thinking about it but Story 1 happened to my ex’s aunt. Only reason I knew was because I had to help send the stuff back to Amazon to get refunds so no cops. Kids are wild
The same reason people pick favorites of ANYTHING! newsflash bub EVERY parent has a favorite child. Some are just better at hiding it/are more honest about it than others. You're obviously not a parent if you dont understand this.
@@PMMcIntyre No they all do keep deluding yourself. Like i said some are better at hiding it than others. Youre so good you yourself wont even acknowledge that fact
@@PeenWienerstien stop projecting. Just because you are a failed parent doesn't mean everyone else is. You sounding like a cheater. They make the same claims.
@@PeenWienerstien my parents have 5 kids total. They love us all equally but they cater more to my little sister since shes on the spectrum. But at the end of the day,it doesn't mean she gets more love. My parents have flat out told us they don't have a favorite child
When will parents learn that enabling your child is NEGLECT and ABUSE. You're basically too lazy to be an actual parent. OP is the only one who actually cares about their sibling. Children who are spoiled NEVER recover from it.
@@C.G.Gaster We all know about the TTS. I honestly don't care about that tbh. However, at least read the script you give to it to make sure it's complete or to fix typos and stuff that it wont pronounce correctly.
@kenw1852 I'm just pointing out that posting a comment does nothing in a smart-ass way. In fact, it does the opposite by giving engagement telling YT that this video makes them money.
my little sister steals and lies too. she stole 27 dollars from my other little sister few days ago. there’s nothing we can do tho bc my mom encourages her behavior.
Ngl, OPs tactic with the cop absolutely worked on me as a kid. I was raised in a cult, and one place had their own school, because of course they did. If you messed up, you got a misconduct paper you had to have your parents sign. Absolutely talked (with the help of our then mutual friend who was, for kids our age like, 6-8/9 (we all had different ages. I think. I'm just gonna be honest. I'm in a ton of pain and am, absolutely thankful my state allows D8, and a few assorted or all other types. So don't expect intelligence here, as far as memory speaking, except for what I say about our mutual friend), she was really good at being a go between and mediator, as my sister and I did NOT get along, but would (generally) for our mutual friend. But, her help and some of mine, and we absolutely bagged my sister into committing forgery on my misconduct slip, and even then, I knew I'd fcked up because oh my God, she absolutely did. But, I was willing to explain it to the teacher, who'd have to report it to my parents, which, again, totally willing to do. I gambled, knew it and wouldn't be trying to hit that next level. EXCEPT. SOMEONE COULDN'T HER HER TRAP SHUT FOR EVEN 10 MINUTES AFTER DAD CAME HOME. That, paired with the sobbing, is why I feel no remorse for being a rude asf child about how much she cried when mom called the cops. Mom thought she'd have to try something else, because I seemed fine while the cop talked to us. I seemed like I was just listening to cop, telling a mildly interesting story. No, and this is one of many reasons how I fail to understand how everyone on BOTH SIDES of the family didn't understand I had autism, but because of it, I shutdown. Almost even verbally, making small positive nodding and "mhm"s when you sister would. I was so horrified, it legit killed off my previous, and seemingly growing kleptomania. No cap.
family who steal from you or wrong you + never apologize before its too late(meaning you cut them out of your life) +and the ones youd expect to be decent and take your side but dont thats fucked up cuz it is the literally reason most drug addicts exist like 80% of them will sight a family type of trauma as to why the cant trust anyone but the addicts are trying to escape their own guilty conscience meanwhile the rest of the family now have the perfect scapegoat and reasons to exclude the addict give it like 4-5 more years your younger sister will turn into one of those street people you can never trust and probably willing to sell herself
While it is nice of you to tell these stories, you should make sure you're not repeating sentences and paragraphs; it interrupts the flow of your storytelling.
My younger sister would no doubt be doing this if she still lived with us. She hates rules and now does whatever she wants whenever she wants she dropped the c word all the time once when she was here I caught her giving away our address over mic in some game and I freaked out but low and behold she didn’t get in any trouble
When I was like 9 years old I used my moms credit card accidentally and I spent a lot of money in there not knowing that not knowing that I was doing it and one of my mom found out she got mad at me, but then I realize what I did I said sorry to my mom and I decided to give her back most of the money. I only spent around like 100 bucks. She didn’t want the money. She said that she wanted to learn a lesson, so I didn’t ask for anything for like a month or two I felt really bad about it
holy crap is this THAT common. my fucking sister did that once but with my mom’s credit card. racked up a good 200$ and cost me around 3-400$ in makeup and skincare and school supplies when she stole, lost, or destroyed my shit. i literally told her i’m gonna go to the police if she continues this shit by 16. haven’t done it since
Oddly enough the only thing that bothers me about the whole story is at 3.5 GPA. I worked my butt off for my whole life because I'm brain damage I've got 5 years old. And the best I could manage was a 2.4. It's honestly just kind of insulting and I know that's not the point of the story
If we as adult stop this teen are stubborn, they are rebellious, they are emotional and stop making excuses for this behavior 8t can and will get better, the solution is if they act like toddlers treat like one, if they say they will harm themselves put them in treatment, it is time for parents be parents not friends or dismiss this generation behavior because we have pass this behavior throughout generation
It's a very old story, like with the iPod. Although, after Club Penguin was cancelled, some of the original devs took what they created and tried to revive it. It was missing a lot, though, and was really boring.
Cute story, but you can't fix a liar. You can teach em to be better at hiding it, like op did for her sister, but you can't fix em. Most humans lie 130 times a day, very few actually take time to think properly and act earnestly. Fact is if a child lies at 6 they will most probably lie at 70. Only 3 out of 100 change neural pathways. Once a spoiled liar....... always
story 2 hmmmm thats fucked up but you need to do 2 things dont break up with her and haze(torture /humiliate) youre childhood friend(like make it known to him that he is a dirtbag son of a while you dont break up wit her just start dating other people just make sure you "talk" to her about your not break up
First story seems quite the over reaction, not to say they should have ignored the little sister's use of money, but op makes a full storm over a cup of water and treats her like she did drugs or some major crime. The girl is/was screwed, one side (the parents) not caring, the other apparently going nuclear alarms and extreme measures over any thing she might do wrong in the future. "You spent money that was not yours? Well no more internet for you, i will now take over the right to check any and all things you do online, talk with a corp, look at the army place!" Op she is not a hardened criminal for crying out loud, could have just started with a simple consequence and go from there.
The sister used 700$ worth of money, constantly lies, is moody, has inactive parents and the wrong beliefs about personal gain. They aren't even doing that much, they just had someone she looks up to ( her cousin) and a non-biased professional (the police officer) to talk to her. Bil didn't like the cops way so he is going to have an army friend talk instead. They never took away the interned but being able to monitor what she does and consumes online is a great way to get her on the right path. Op did everything right really and has found a way to save herself and her sister. Best reaction possible.
While it might seem like an overreaction the overreaction is why it worked and they finally got through to her. Had they addressed it in a more measured and nuanced way then chances are the sister would just shrug it off and ignore it. Sometimes you have to raise hell over matters that on the surface might seem minor, because sometimes minor things are indicative of a much bigger future problem that is brewing.
That's credit card fraud. People's lives are ruined because of fraudsters that often do not understand how their actions impact their victims. She needed to be scared straight
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Wow. This young girl is so lucky to have 2 big sisters who care so much about her and her well being. I hope these sisters all continue to find healing together
I can’t tell if this is sarcastic honestly
but if it is, then I gotta say, she deserved the cops being called on her
Anyone else catch the repeated part?
Me😢
Definitely caught.
Can't help it, it's way too obvious
Happens often, but usually not such a long section. Maybe to extend the video length and earn more money?
Was a whole minute
I'm glad you were able to help her fix her attitude. Only a few years later and it would've been much harder to fix stuff like that, since teens tend to get really stubborn
That's some wholesome example of tough love.
I think it was a tad overblown , but i guess if it works it works, if that is what the sister does over misuse of money the little one will probably fear she will get shot out of a canon straight to a prision if she ever does an actual crime and they find out
@@alexandrewildfire6405 🎼There's no kill like overkill, it's the only kill I know 🎶
@@alexandrewildfire6405what do you mean by misuse of money? That would be the case assuming it was her own money and was splurging on meaningless stuff, stealing 700$ from your older sister is definitely something a kid needs a huge reality check on. She couldn't have handled it better.
I'd be on board with you if it was something like 50$, but 700? You cannot call that not an actual crime.
@@alexandrewildfire6405 “Your honor, yes my client is on they for felony theft but should we really get this worked up over a misuse of money?”
Stealing $1000 is a felony, the sister’s lucky they got a handle on it now before it became a MUCH bigger issue.
@@alexandrewildfire6405I don’t think it was overblown. I had the same kind of intervention by my mom in 3rd grade when I forged her signature on an attitude note sent home (I had undiagnosed ADHD and thus was always out of my seat and being disruptive to the class, and had boundary issues. This was in the late 90’s before mental health was deemed important and before they really knew the signs of ADHD in black females. I’m also finding out now at 35 that I’m on the autism spectrum, so there was that, too).
Because forgery is a crime when you’re an adult, mom had a police officer talk to me kindly and explain why it’s not good to lie and do what I did. I was inconsolable and convinced that I was going to jail that day. 😂 It took me so long to calm down lol. The only thing I wished my mom had done was not have the officer come to my classroom to get me, and that she did this at home. I was basically nonverbal the rest of the day and my little friends were so confused. 😅
Anyways, I’ve never forged anything again and have a healthy respect for the law. 😂 My mom also took me to tour a juvenile detention facility, so I could see where I would end up if I kept that behavior up.
Years later, my mom needed me to write her signature on something cause she had injured her hand, and I couldn’t do it. 😅 She kinda laughed but we found that that lesson was still being taught years later.
In the case of this 12 year old, they had the intervention at home and she had plenty of emotional support which was nice. They also made plans on how she could change her behavior so she could have some direction on how to improve, so that was great. Much more emotionally friendly than my mom’s intervention lol. 😂 My mom literally scared me straight ahahaha.
Some kids need that jolt to bring that back to reality. In my case, I took needed to understand why breaking rules and laws was bad. No excuses for myself, fyi.
The main takeaway is that club Penguin were the real Gs, but we all knew that already.
Good old Club Penguin 🐧, you are dearly missed 🥲
ı used to play this game at facebook
Story 1: Hope the little sister also gets therapy, wishing her and the family all the best.
Story 2: Op. change your number and block all of them, let J and C have each other, they're both cheats, if they try to contact you again, get a lawyer involved with a cease and desist letter and inform your lawyer to tell your ex to stay away from you, otherwise you will inform the police, change your number and any contact information you have, go completely no contact, let the cheaters have each other.
I am so glad this little girl has such a great support system. Good for them.
Thanks for not even bothering to edit the first story again, good to see your standards haven't slipped.
I never actually thought this was that common until just now thinking about it but Story 1 happened to my ex’s aunt. Only reason I knew was because I had to help send the stuff back to Amazon to get refunds so no cops. Kids are wild
Why do parents chose a “favorite child” It’s so frustrating why WHY!? you have two children TWO!? what Is wrong with them? (Edit I mean three)
The same reason people pick favorites of ANYTHING! newsflash bub EVERY parent has a favorite child. Some are just better at hiding it/are more honest about it than others. You're obviously not a parent if you dont understand this.
@@PeenWienerstienthis is entirely bullshit. Only shitty parents pick favorites. I have two and I love them both equally.
@@PMMcIntyre No they all do keep deluding yourself. Like i said some are better at hiding it than others. Youre so good you yourself wont even acknowledge that fact
@@PeenWienerstien stop projecting. Just because you are a failed parent doesn't mean everyone else is. You sounding like a cheater. They make the same claims.
@@PeenWienerstien my parents have 5 kids total. They love us all equally but they cater more to my little sister since shes on the spectrum. But at the end of the day,it doesn't mean she gets more love. My parents have flat out told us they don't have a favorite child
When will parents learn that enabling your child is NEGLECT and ABUSE. You're basically too lazy to be an actual parent. OP is the only one who actually cares about their sibling. Children who are spoiled NEVER recover from it.
Another story posted with a repeat error or proof that the poster didn’t actually read it.
What gave it away, the text to speech? We know its not read, even captain obvious is out here shaking his head at that
@@C.G.Gaster We all know about the TTS. I honestly don't care about that tbh. However, at least read the script you give to it to make sure it's complete or to fix typos and stuff that it wont pronounce correctly.
@kenw1852 I'm just pointing out that posting a comment does nothing in a smart-ass way. In fact, it does the opposite by giving engagement telling YT that this video makes them money.
Go to 9:13 to skip the repeated part.
Sounds like it’s the parents who failed your sister, not you
The sister needs a hard wake up call. This is horrible behavior that must be fixed. Else she will be thrown into prison.
story 1 is kinda relatable, i did something similar as a kid (with like 5% of that money) but i'm glad the sister got similar consequences to me
my little sister steals and lies too. she stole 27 dollars from my other little sister few days ago. there’s nothing we can do tho bc my mom encourages her behavior.
@@keppinksend her
dude's entire channel consists of purely copy paste reddit threads and he's not even linking the sources wtf
I'm sorry but the 12yr old crying as soon as she saw the cop is soo fcking adorable in my head 😭
Frrr 😭
weirdo
@@umm3766 girl u know what theyre talking about
OP: my dad’s a conspiracy theorist.
Me: eye roll
OP: tells milk story
M:….wondering how this guy has so much money
There's no bad kids- just bad parents.
I wish I had older siblings like that.
you are amazing sisters. your little sister is lucky
Tbf i want 2 hear more bout the 2nd story
Narration error spotted
Ngl, OPs tactic with the cop absolutely worked on me as a kid.
I was raised in a cult, and one place had their own school, because of course they did. If you messed up, you got a misconduct paper you had to have your parents sign.
Absolutely talked (with the help of our then mutual friend who was, for kids our age like, 6-8/9 (we all had different ages. I think. I'm just gonna be honest. I'm in a ton of pain and am, absolutely thankful my state allows D8, and a few assorted or all other types. So don't expect intelligence here, as far as memory speaking, except for what I say about our mutual friend), she was really good at being a go between and mediator, as my sister and I did NOT get along, but would (generally) for our mutual friend. But, her help and some of mine, and we absolutely bagged my sister into committing forgery on my misconduct slip, and even then, I knew I'd fcked up because oh my God, she absolutely did. But, I was willing to explain it to the teacher, who'd have to report it to my parents, which, again, totally willing to do. I gambled, knew it and wouldn't be trying to hit that next level.
EXCEPT. SOMEONE COULDN'T HER HER TRAP SHUT FOR EVEN 10 MINUTES AFTER DAD CAME HOME.
That, paired with the sobbing, is why I feel no remorse for being a rude asf child about how much she cried when mom called the cops.
Mom thought she'd have to try something else, because I seemed fine while the cop talked to us. I seemed like I was just listening to cop, telling a mildly interesting story.
No, and this is one of many reasons how I fail to understand how everyone on BOTH SIDES of the family didn't understand I had autism, but because of it, I shutdown. Almost even verbally, making small positive nodding and "mhm"s when you sister would.
I was so horrified, it legit killed off my previous, and seemingly growing kleptomania. No cap.
wow, this story is parentification on hall of fame
Sometimes the children are strict, cruel parents. Oh well, that girl is so unfortunate
bro this turned so good in the end
She may be 12 but if you ask me that person knew what they be here doing stealing that stuff
14:50 _"If you don't hear from us, we are livin' it up with our sister's 3 dogs."_
_"Now, onto the next story."_
That's beautiful... 😪
Club penguin....bruh
family who steal from you or wrong you + never apologize before its too late(meaning you cut them out of your life)
+and the ones youd expect to be decent and take your side but dont
thats fucked up cuz it is the literally reason most drug addicts exist
like 80% of them will sight a family type of trauma as to why the cant trust anyone
but the addicts are trying to escape their own guilty conscience
meanwhile the rest of the family now have the perfect scapegoat and reasons to exclude the addict
give it like 4-5 more years your younger sister will turn into one of those street people you can never trust and probably willing to sell herself
While it is nice of you to tell these stories, you should make sure you're not repeating sentences and paragraphs; it interrupts the flow of your storytelling.
It's AI.
7:31 Why does Update 2 repeat update 1?
Is there anything you think could help prevent this from happening again?
Club penguin happy sigh who remembers those happy memories
Op's sister has some solid siblings 🥹
My younger sister would no doubt be doing this if she still lived with us. She hates rules and now does whatever she wants whenever she wants she dropped the c word all the time once when she was here I caught her giving away our address over mic in some game and I freaked out but low and behold she didn’t get in any trouble
RIP Club Penguin
When I was like 9 years old I used my moms credit card accidentally and I spent a lot of money in there not knowing that not knowing that I was doing it and one of my mom found out she got mad at me, but then I realize what I did I said sorry to my mom and I decided to give her back most of the money. I only spent around like 100 bucks. She didn’t want the money. She said that she wanted to learn a lesson, so I didn’t ask for anything for like a month or two I felt really bad about it
call the cops because people like them will never learn otherwise Though love
Club penguin is still around?!
holy crap is this THAT common. my fucking sister did that once but with my mom’s credit card. racked up a good 200$ and cost me around 3-400$ in makeup and skincare and school supplies when she stole, lost, or destroyed my shit. i literally told her i’m gonna go to the police if she continues this shit by 16. haven’t done it since
Oddly enough the only thing that bothers me about the whole story is at 3.5 GPA. I worked my butt off for my whole life because I'm brain damage I've got 5 years old. And the best I could manage was a 2.4. It's honestly just kind of insulting and I know that's not the point of the story
I miss the sims 3 community 😢 😅 the exchange..... ect
I would suggest that you monitor your CC on line.
"mY dAd Is A cOnSpIrAcY tHeOrIsT"
"liArS dOn'T gEt To liVe sUcCeSsfUl liVes"
How naive.
2:24 that sister is so bad !!! And how the parents not punished her
If we as adult stop this teen are stubborn, they are rebellious, they are emotional and stop making excuses for this behavior 8t can and will get better, the solution is if they act like toddlers treat like one, if they say they will harm themselves put them in treatment, it is time for parents be parents not friends or dismiss this generation behavior because we have pass this behavior throughout generation
You know you could just get a dog door and have the lock
Do i have a dementia or did the story repeats mid way
You have dementia
I don't remember making this comment, wha
@@IluvTama wha
Wow... club penguin is still running?
Tbh this might be an older story for when Club Penguin was still around
It's a very old story, like with the iPod. Although, after Club Penguin was cancelled, some of the original devs took what they created and tried to revive it. It was missing a lot, though, and was really boring.
I'm not so enamored of 'family'. so she cried. crocodile
Club Penguin closed on 2017, is this an old story?
that first story ended so nicely that i hope it did work out and there won't be any updates
Cute story, but you can't fix a liar. You can teach em to be better at hiding it, like op did for her sister, but you can't fix em. Most humans lie 130 times a day, very few actually take time to think properly and act earnestly.
Fact is if a child lies at 6 they will most probably lie at 70. Only 3 out of 100 change neural pathways. Once a spoiled liar....... always
OP is so lucky...
Bro doesnt care about repeating actuallt sad how little effort they put into this channel
Can't be the only one who thinks a12 year old putting makeup is crazy 🤨
Her father based af
Down vote for the repeat part
club penguin, based.
There's a part that has been repeated.
I don't get it??? What's the parents abuse she's talking about?? what abuse are they talking??
Club penguin 💪💪💪
Why did it repeat
story 2
hmmmm
thats fucked up but
you need to do 2 things
dont break up with her and haze(torture /humiliate) youre childhood friend(like make it known to him that he is a dirtbag son of a
while you dont break up wit her just start dating other people just make sure you "talk" to her about your not break up
12 year old has same feet size as op?
7:33 the part repeated.
Yes
Yuh
First story seems quite the over reaction, not to say they should have ignored the little sister's use of money, but op makes a full storm over a cup of water and treats her like she did drugs or some major crime. The girl is/was screwed, one side (the parents) not caring, the other apparently going nuclear alarms and extreme measures over any thing she might do wrong in the future.
"You spent money that was not yours? Well no more internet for you, i will now take over the right to check any and all things you do online, talk with a corp, look at the army place!" Op she is not a hardened criminal for crying out loud, could have just started with a simple consequence and go from there.
The sister used 700$ worth of money, constantly lies, is moody, has inactive parents and the wrong beliefs about personal gain.
They aren't even doing that much, they just had someone she looks up to ( her cousin) and a non-biased professional (the police officer) to talk to her. Bil didn't like the cops way so he is going to have an army friend talk instead.
They never took away the interned but being able to monitor what she does and consumes online is a great way to get her on the right path.
Op did everything right really and has found a way to save herself and her sister.
Best reaction possible.
If that girl didn't steal from OP, then she could've stolen from a stranger. 700$ is a felony. There's no overreaction on stealing
While it might seem like an overreaction the overreaction is why it worked and they finally got through to her. Had they addressed it in a more measured and nuanced way then chances are the sister would just shrug it off and ignore it. Sometimes you have to raise hell over matters that on the surface might seem minor, because sometimes minor things are indicative of a much bigger future problem that is brewing.
That's credit card fraud. People's lives are ruined because of fraudsters that often do not understand how their actions impact their victims. She needed to be scared straight
Ok, give me 700 euors then, if it's only "a cup of water" to you :D