My husband and I met and became friends when we were 21 years old. We started dating when we were 23 years old. We got married when we were 26 years old. Today, my husband and I are 41 years old and going strong.
I love your perspective on life and how much you love your family. I guess its that emotional why that im missing in my communication, but something i can grow. 🌱
Oh thank you so much for sharing your life with us. Your family, wife, daughter are all sooo beautiful. So sweet. I have really come to value you and your advice. Thank you so so so much. Keep up that beautiful smile of yours...
David you look like you get a regular amount of exercise and you look great. Love the content and you just set the bar so high for the rest of us to be just as amazing, its inspiring
I come across a noticeable amount of adults who have yet to properly understand their emotions 05:09 and instead went through many moments of their lives confused and reacting or feeling different than what they would have enjoyed genuinely. Alternative I've experienced my own rather rare path, sometimes feigning ignorance or reducing my overall outward reaction towards certain events, which I'd recommend the least of all methods compared to 07:00 and the previously commented experience of others, altho personally have yet to work out with other professionals input on how it really is.
Thanks for sharing and i am so happy that you are heading in the right direction and i am certain that you can make awesome steps every day if u focus on it!
Thank you so much for sharing this. Seems a lot of the time in the age of the internet, love has turned into much more of a “strategic” endeavor instead of an emotional one (how often you respond to people, not reaching out to them too much, too little, showing the “just right” amount of interest (or not showing interest at all, i.e. hard to get). My question to you is, how do I strike a balance of reaching out and caring and not smothering? My nature as a person is that when I care about someone, I tend to not be shy about it and let them know indirectly. Less along the lines of an “I Love You” text and more like dropping by some treats every couple of weeks and the occasional “how are you” message (we don’t see each other in person very often due to COVID limitations). Am I better off just being myself and continuing these acts of kindness when I feel like it, or can there ever be a genuine benefit to intentional distance or feigned disinterest?
Some more great advice coming in here from David here. Gonna have to keep these in mind whenever I am giving my friends relationship advice that is weirdly accurate despite having never been in a relationship.
@@galaxyanimal Yes, but there is also the factor that good souls suffer the most, just because we didn't kno a guy and people are following the narrative of history doesn't mean that that was all the person was. We won't know unless we knew ban gogh, and from what I had read he was a man with person conflict of interest. A good soul, but one that suffered with the reality of wanting to express himself and his emotions in a chaotic world where success was judged on cover of someone's label. A narrative that has taken centuries to break, and something that people who also suffer alone have been trying to break. I understand... believe me I major in history, and like to look at ways in which why narratives are thought, also apologies for the blunt statement lol, this man also looks like van gogh...
how to recover a broken relationship after a very long time passed? it doesn't have to be sex, i mean just being able to talk with that person that didn't want to see you ever again nor talk to you
Just feel the emotions as sensations and limit yourself to just feeling. Do not begin to make any mental labels or commentary regarding those sensations caused by emotions and this way the negative emotions can never stick for long in your body. Suppressing emotions is harmful to the body. Emotions are meant to come and pass thru your body without lingering.
@@encapsulatio It’s such a relief to see a reply like yours! Too many people believe that when you’re sad, you’re not supposed to cry. When you’re angry, just suppress it. You are exactly right! Stifling unpleasant emotions is dangerous and can harm a person down the road. In order to get through them, you have to allow yourself to *feel* them first. It’s how you act on those feelings that can be either good or bad. 💚🤗🤗💚
@@encapsulatio I’m not a professional therapist, but I do have firsthand experience with what happens when you bottle your emotions instead of facing them head on.
@@Lesley_RedRhody don't worry...most professional therapists have no clue what their doing. You have to learn about the field a lot to understand that most are just theoreticians but do not have a clue how to help their patience to release emotional blocks or hard to access traumatic events.
Thank you for your service as a motivation for many many young people watching your channel. I wish you a great day and that your family stays healthy.
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This guy is the most wholesome guy on RUclips, we need him to reach over million subs at least.
One day, 🤗 I need to be creating more content for you all first!!
I agreed tremendously
@@DavidJPPhillips your content already changes people's lives for the better showing then the logical path to emotional struggles. Thanks, keep it up.
0:19 Bruh I'm in a David JP Phillips video what?!?!?! My dreams are coming true! 😭😭😭 I love you David.
Haha epic!!!
My husband and I met and became friends when we were 21 years old. We started dating when we were 23 years old. We got married when we were 26 years old. Today, my husband and I are 41 years old and going strong.
Awesome!!
This RUclips channel is my happy place ♥️
I'm happy you're happy 🤗🤗
David: "what is love?"
My brain before we was done speaking: "baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me NO MORE"
Man literally said imma prank wifey AND GAVE HER A HUG TwT
Haha well I just came up from a cold Swedish lake 😅
@@DavidJPPhillips Take care not to catch a cold though!
Now *THIS* is something we all needed. Thank you for your insight and wisdom.
Thank you so much Robert! I am uncertain about the format so just trying it out, 👍
The answer to improving the relationship with yourself was an eye opener. I am going to actively learn and practice it. Thank you, mentor!!!
It was to me too at the time ❤️
I love your perspective on life and how much you love your family. I guess its that emotional why that im missing in my communication, but something i can grow. 🌱
Oh thank you so much for sharing your life with us. Your family, wife, daughter are all sooo beautiful. So sweet. I have really come to value you and your advice. Thank you so so so much. Keep up that beautiful smile of yours...
Yessssssssss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙂
King 💖👑
David you look like you get a regular amount of exercise and you look great. Love the content and you just set the bar so high for the rest of us to be just as amazing, its inspiring
Thats very kind of you 🏆 its what i aspire in order to inspire you all ❤️
Great video. Thank you x
I come across a noticeable amount of adults who have yet to properly understand their emotions 05:09 and instead went through many moments of their lives confused and reacting or feeling different than what they would have enjoyed genuinely.
Alternative I've experienced my own rather rare path, sometimes feigning ignorance or reducing my overall outward reaction towards certain events, which I'd recommend the least of all methods compared to 07:00 and the previously commented experience of others, altho personally have yet to work out with other professionals input on how it really is.
Thanks for sharing and i am so happy that you are heading in the right direction and i am certain that you can make awesome steps every day if u focus on it!
Thank you so much for sharing this. Seems a lot of the time in the age of the internet, love has turned into much more of a “strategic” endeavor instead of an emotional one (how often you respond to people, not reaching out to them too much, too little, showing the “just right” amount of interest (or not showing interest at all, i.e. hard to get). My question to you is, how do I strike a balance of reaching out and caring and not smothering? My nature as a person is that when I care about someone, I tend to not be shy about it and let them know indirectly. Less along the lines of an “I Love You” text and more like dropping by some treats every couple of weeks and the occasional “how are you” message (we don’t see each other in person very often due to COVID limitations). Am I better off just being myself and continuing these acts of kindness when I feel like it, or can there ever be a genuine benefit to intentional distance or feigned disinterest?
David always radiating the most wholesome energy and made me smile every time I watched this
Thanks Philip!! I think everyone should watch your videos so they can understand these concepts as you explain them so well!
Thank you 😊💝
Love this!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just found your channel absolutely love your content.
I am glad I stumbled on your videos on tik tok today
Yup
❤️
Wow bro , your gestures are wonderful :)
Love this stuff David
Thanks! Means alot!
The prank was cute tho 🥺💜
Some more great advice coming in here from David here. Gonna have to keep these in mind whenever I am giving my friends relationship advice that is weirdly accurate despite having never been in a relationship.
Wholesome af
This was a wholesome video! Thanks for sharing!
Can you please give a higher quality camera like yours to Felix?
I'm sure Felix can afford a good camera, he is just cheap lol
@@babayaga1644 Frugal is the nicer epithet to use:) just like his idol Ingvar, the founder of Ikea
You’re great!
Thank you for this.
first
CUTE....
I wish I could figure out how to love myself. But all I can see in myself are flaws. I still enjoy your videos though.
This man is literally Vincent Van Gogh
Vincent Van Gogh may not be the best comparison, as he was a bit of a lunatic.
@@galaxyanimal Yes, but there is also the factor that good souls suffer the most, just because we didn't kno a guy and people are following the narrative of history doesn't mean that that was all the person was. We won't know unless we knew ban gogh, and from what I had read he was a man with person conflict of interest. A good soul, but one that suffered with the reality of wanting to express himself and his emotions in a chaotic world where success was judged on cover of someone's label. A narrative that has taken centuries to break, and something that people who also suffer alone have been trying to break. I understand... believe me I major in history, and like to look at ways in which why narratives are thought, also apologies for the blunt statement lol, this man also looks like van gogh...
how to recover a broken relationship after a very long time passed? it doesn't have to be sex, i mean just being able to talk with that person that didn't want to see you ever again nor talk to you
So all this time i was cheated on?
HuH?! Unbelievable Mr.Phillips!😭😭😭😭
how to suppress our emotions and move on when someone is angry on us or yelling on us or is making us just wanna kill them
Just feel the emotions as sensations and limit yourself to just feeling. Do not begin to make any mental labels or commentary regarding those sensations caused by emotions and this way the negative emotions can never stick for long in your body. Suppressing emotions is harmful to the body. Emotions are meant to come and pass thru your body without lingering.
@@encapsulatio It’s such a relief to see a reply like yours! Too many people believe that when you’re sad, you’re not supposed to cry. When you’re angry, just suppress it.
You are exactly right! Stifling unpleasant emotions is dangerous and can harm a person down the road. In order to get through them, you have to allow yourself to *feel* them first.
It’s how you act on those feelings that can be either good or bad.
💚🤗🤗💚
@@Lesley_RedRhody well most people have no actual experience in the field of trauma.I do, that's why my comment is not just an opinion.
@@encapsulatio I’m not a professional therapist, but I do have firsthand experience with what happens when you bottle your emotions instead of facing them head on.
@@Lesley_RedRhody don't worry...most professional therapists have no clue what their doing. You have to learn about the field a lot to understand that most are just theoreticians but do not have a clue how to help their patience to release emotional blocks or hard to access traumatic events.
You sir are fucking adorable.
Well thank you, that means a lot coming from you Mr Pumpkin!
Thank you for your service as a motivation for many many young people watching your channel.
I wish you a great day and that your family stays healthy.
Forget Jesus, this is the real messiah