Inaction Is A Slow Death

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  • @betterideas
    @betterideas  Год назад +194

    The Inaction is a Slow Death merch is back in stock for a limited time: www.betterideas.com/

    • @GogosUTube
      @GogosUTube Год назад +4

      Thank you for all of your content.

    • @sheazoom
      @sheazoom 11 месяцев назад

      @@GogosUTube there is some good, but this is just a bs narrative that sells

    • @NicholasJonesVideography
      @NicholasJonesVideography 5 месяцев назад +3

      Are these ever going to come back?

    • @cosmic.awareness
      @cosmic.awareness 5 месяцев назад

      Our bills stack up... Ok. Have to STOP you there. Someone has got to tell you that you are being a fool. You might thank me later. Keyword might. Your view is off. Here is my lightbulb so you can SEE. We do not go anywhere our entire aging process. Stunning new universe fly through by video from space. We are factually stuck keyword STUCK on the top layer of our round planet (for what you call) 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, our whole aging process, and our round planet is located inside our dark universe to literally nowhere. There is no day. While the Dinosaurs are factually dead we are still there, Same Planet. Like the dinosaurs and other species we were stuck here for Free Survival. Our dark universe does not come with some kind of Cosmic Black Hole Universe Bank nor a Cosmic Black Hole Competition Based Universe Job Center :) Nor did our planet come with anything Except the Natural Resources. Sorry but no. Your currency is citizens based government federal reserve currency and the origin of that horrible man-made government is The Freemasons. It's a long summery but if you wish for me to elaborate I can in concerns to their Mars plan. You didn't owe anyone over being stuck here.
      :( Nobody DID. Define Stuck and the Cemetery. Define Borrowed and Future Generations. Define Cycle.

  • @kyf_
    @kyf_ 2 года назад +261

    “You will always have a good excuse to start later, just don’t listen to yourself”

    • @billsun780
      @billsun780 2 года назад +2

      Well said.Thank you.

    • @Jundiyyy
      @Jundiyyy 2 дня назад

      AMEN!!🙏🏽

  • @Ryan-Horgan
    @Ryan-Horgan 2 года назад +635

    “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.”
    - Albert Einstein

    • @maillardsbearcat
      @maillardsbearcat 2 года назад +7

      I don't know how to ride a bike

    • @miguelferrandisperez5705
      @miguelferrandisperez5705 2 года назад +9

      I know to trackstand tho.
      Noname 1 - Einstein 0

    • @bettermanchannel770
      @bettermanchannel770 2 года назад +4

      Life is like a pile of shit...most people will sit around and complain, while I go sell that shit as fertilizer

    • @EGO.BReAKERR
      @EGO.BReAKERR 2 года назад +2

      I will keep moving forward until most of my problems are destroyed.

    • @duskleh4722
      @duskleh4722 2 года назад

      @@maillardsbearcatlearn how to

  • @ArthurHuizar
    @ArthurHuizar 11 месяцев назад +40

    I'm glad they didn't show him walking back into the diner. Self reflection videos often make the happy ending subconsciously communicate to the viewer that they don't actually need to do anything.

    • @FamousSpeakerGuidance
      @FamousSpeakerGuidance Месяц назад

      3:07 The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again

  • @Anton-eh3ny
    @Anton-eh3ny Год назад +707

    I have been in my comfort zone for 4 years ever since the covid forced us all to isolate ourselves. Everyday for 4 years I have always remind myself of my goals. 4 days after this video is published is one of the times where I promised I would change. I would change from being always in a rut to a more outgoing and an overall role model version of me, setting up huge goals, making my family proud and be an inspiration for my little sister and my friends. Right now I'm in college and life's been hitting me pretty hard, tomorrow is the day of our exam too, thursday and Friday. Life's been hitting me pretty hard and I'm still in my comfort zone and living the life of inaction and suddenly remembered this video, searched this up and frowned as I got a recap of what my life has been these years. Wake up at 4 am, scroll through RUclips, Facebook, play videogames until 9 am then take a bath then continue scrolling till 11 pm almost everyday for 4 years. I've also contemplated about taking my life during those years and still contemplating right now. Always felt so lonely and barely talked with my family, only talk about what's for dinner or lunch.
    regardless I'm gonna try to give life another go, hopefully I will still live through next year because I'm really on edge right now, really can't help but grieve for what I've become.. I'll watch this video every time I'm feeling down, really gives me little ounce of motivation
    If you're reading this, I hope you're doing fine and thanks for taking your time reading this rant, I'm not very good at English but have a very great day

    • @pinterginter9236
      @pinterginter9236 Год назад +31

      how is it going?

    • @K-xor
      @K-xor Год назад +21

      Anton how are you?

    • @srirampant3135
      @srirampant3135 Год назад +26

      hey bro how is it going I also feel the same way
      but i feel i am unable to face the pain
      and therefore end up doing nothing

    • @K-xor
      @K-xor Год назад +29

      @@srirampant3135 Maybe that's just that, a feeling that you can't handle the pain. I was going through a kind of lonely phase, because I felt I didn't have the energy to talk to people. I decided to move and hang out with a friend and things look more clear now. Try it.

    • @miks4167
      @miks4167 Год назад +65

      In my personal experience, you won't be able to achieve anything by bare force and sudden pressure from your mind. Life shouldn't necessarily be all about pushing to your maximum capabilities but rather be able to enjoy the values you hold most dearly to. Take action by implementing small changes in your life and try to regard to these changes as something you want and enjoy, not just an annoying task that should be crossed off your list. Try to find joy and fulfillment from simple things, and don't base your joy upon variables that constantly change. And I also highly recommend trying to minimize constant and plain entertainment and exchange that time for something that you find interesting and fun. If you are uncertain of what it is, try new things. Life is not a puzzle to be solved, but an experience to be enjoyed. I hope this comment helps you or anyone else, and that you find whatever it is you're looking for in life!

  • @Bruh-ye7dg
    @Bruh-ye7dg 2 года назад +352

    "Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor." - Alexis Carrell

    • @MartianDust415
      @MartianDust415 2 года назад +7

      Wow

    • @oasis1240
      @oasis1240 Год назад

      Can anyone tell explain I’m confused what this means

    • @lollol-vg8dk
      @lollol-vg8dk Год назад +3

      ​​@@oasis1240 Well think of it like this. In order to grow and better your character you have to carve it yourself but here you are not carving a material but rather yourself so in order to bring out the beauty within,you yourself must bring discomfort towards you for that is how you will improve AND NO MATTER WHO AND HOW MANY PPL TRY TO HELP YOU, YOU YOURSELF WILL BE THE ONLY ONE TRULY CAPABLE OF CARVING YOURSELF. You are your own sculptor

  • @NBTJacklyn
    @NBTJacklyn 2 года назад +3360

    Only a minute in and can’t believe how well shot this is
    Wow
    It’s legit a movie 🥂

    • @EpochEmerge
      @EpochEmerge 2 года назад +24

      Those skillshare courses gave nice returns 😅

    • @RushikeshJoshi8
      @RushikeshJoshi8 2 года назад

      it was pretty intense, forreal

    • @hobbytoby8887
      @hobbytoby8887 2 года назад

      same, lol

    • @fedeheger907
      @fedeheger907 2 года назад +1

      I just saw it and thought exactly the same! This guy has to make a documentary for Netflix!

    • @davidfrau4517
      @davidfrau4517 2 года назад

      Just wait for the next three...

  • @algorithmicanthems
    @algorithmicanthems 11 месяцев назад +123

    Just: Wow. I cried like a little baby watching this. Extremely relatable & confronting. So much so that I plan on getting this as a tattoo, just to have that constant reminder.
    I've been in this inaction phase for such a long time now, that it's hard to remember the last time I was truely happy with myself or my life. Wanting to change so badly every single day, but not being able to push myself over that edge (despite many poor attempts along the way). I don't know why it never truely clicked for me, to REALLY make that change. A lack of purpose in life, perhaps. Maybe some unresolved emotional trauma from the past.
    But just recently something did click. When my (ex)girlfriend of almost 8 years ended our relationship. Someone I considered to be the love of my life. Someone who was so madly in love with me - or the person I used to be - that it almost seemed impossible for me to F that up. But I somehow did. And the thing is, I wasn't even that surprised when she made the decision to end things. I couldn't even be mad at her, because I would've done the same thing if I were in her shoes. That's how low my self-worth & selfesteem is. And this video perfectly summarizes how it got to that point. And it's just what I needed to push me over that edge even more - from inaction to action.
    It kills me that this "wake-up call" didn't come sooner. Because I can't change the past. I can't get these last years back for myself, nor can I give them back to the one person who stuck by me through thick and thin - hoping things would change eventually, but they never did. I can't rewind time to give her the best version of myself.
    This past month I've been gradually making changes for the better. Phasing out the things that have had such a negative impact on my life for these past few years. Internet, weed, gaming, bad sleeping routine ... and introducing new things that have a more positive impact on my life - like meditating, reading, exercising and just generally getting back some grip of the life that I made an absolute mess out of. I also realize that you don't just get into this inaction phase without a reason, which is why I will be seeking professional help in the near future as well. Something I should've done way sooner too. The important thing for now, is that I feel that I am growing as a person. Unfortunately, it took a big personal crisis to get there. But some say that's what it takes to re-discover that better version of yourself.
    Sorry for the rant. I wanted to share my story. I'm going to re-watch this video many times in the months that follow. I hope I can re-read this in a year or so - with a better opinion of myself than I do now. Perhaps even be happy.
    Thanks Joey. Truely inspirational, motivational & life-changing stuff.

    • @WolfEffectzz
      @WolfEffectzz 5 месяцев назад +1

      hell yea brother

    • @sarahrose1665
      @sarahrose1665 5 месяцев назад +2

      JOEY...Regarding your comment from 5mos. ago...Did you ever get that DANG TATTOO...my Brother you are unequivocally a VESSEL OF VALUE... And don't listen to any voices that tell you different... JUST FELT LIKE GIVING YOU A SHOUT OUT... 🙋🌹✌️

    • @lewisdean22
      @lewisdean22 4 месяца назад +2

      I really liked your comment, I hope you followed through with some of it, some baby steps.
      I left my wife after 20 years and hid away in a house renovating it up for 5 years and all the time not truly living. I finished my house but at the same time my ex wife turned our children against me and sent me down hill again.
      After sitting in my house alone for a good part of the Pandemic I decided to start traveling. So in August 22 I went to Nepal for 9 months came home for 25 days and during that time went to Belgium for a week to meet a friend I'd met in Nepal. Then off to Hong Kong for a week then Fiji for 3 months scuba diving with sharks.
      This May I go to the Galapagos islands for 6 months then 6 months in the Peruvian jungle.
      I want to live , I want to feel as if am living, I want to see me living.
      Be strong and never give 💪💪💪💪♥️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿.

    • @user-ir2ul6nu7w
      @user-ir2ul6nu7w 3 месяца назад +2

      Hell brother keep it up

  • @aljahidlaskar7513
    @aljahidlaskar7513 Год назад +310

    "Action is life giving breath✨
    Inaction is slow death 💀"
    This line hit me strong 🔥
    Love from India 🇮🇳

    • @HariChera
      @HariChera Год назад +5

      Lmao

    • @aianonymousinfo3216
      @aianonymousinfo3216 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@HariCherawhat's to laugh about here?

    • @HariChera
      @HariChera 11 месяцев назад +19

      @@aianonymousinfo3216 his use of the skull emoji

    • @vividchilling2492
      @vividchilling2492 10 месяцев назад +7

      @@rejhan9142 naw bro that was funny af ngl

    • @vividchilling2492
      @vividchilling2492 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@HariChera 💀💀

  • @thefrenchjake
    @thefrenchjake 2 года назад +6338

    Dude, I’ve been watching your videos for a long time, and knowing you have a background in filmmaking, and to see that you’ve completely incorporated it into this channel and clearly doing what you love and interests you is more inspiring than the meaning behind the video itself. You’re a living embodiment of the message you’re trying to get across, and that makes you authentic. You should be proud of yourself, for your evident lack of inaction.

    • @manamsetty2664
      @manamsetty2664 2 года назад +4

      🐈‍⬛

    • @DONDON-yk9mk
      @DONDON-yk9mk 2 года назад +36

      Wow and I love the last scene,where he gives us the choice between action and inaction.Just a masterpiece

    • @notacyborg1717
      @notacyborg1717 2 года назад +24

      100%. His content is so good that I don't mind at all when he just talks into the camera, but this was beautifully made.

    • @i2Sekc4U
      @i2Sekc4U 2 года назад +39

      i think if i got a compliment like this i’d cry

    • @GMoney-B
      @GMoney-B 2 года назад +6

      @Rat 😂 wth

  • @kober324
    @kober324 2 года назад +777

    I can't even put into words how strongly this resonates with me, I'm really trying to do better but it has been so damn hard these last 2 years.

    • @akame5555
      @akame5555 2 года назад +49

      Me too, but it could be a two year period and no more :) I hope your tomorrow is better than your yesterday

    • @remig.7969
      @remig.7969 2 года назад +31

      Same with bad mental health since Covid 19

    • @kober324
      @kober324 2 года назад +3

      @Akame Let's hope so, but you know, a lot has to come from within myself and that's the difficult part

    • @akame5555
      @akame5555 2 года назад +11

      @@kober324 I know it's difficult, the past couple years have been really rough. I wonder if everyone's like this if that just the reality of being an adult and it's all as hopeless as it feels but nah. We got this!! You can do it

    • @kober324
      @kober324 2 года назад +2

      @@akame5555 ty stranger on the internet 😊

  • @marcal7224
    @marcal7224 3 месяца назад +5

    Oh my God this video was for me.. that first minute was exactly what I would do in that situation... doomscrolling on my phone.. jealous of the group booths down from me having a wonderful time being social and not having the courage to change it with a woman sitting by herself.. but I VOW to change that from this day forward.. and this video is proof that I need to!! Thank you for this!!!

  • @etshaggymusic
    @etshaggymusic 11 месяцев назад +75

    You are waking up the masses with videos like this. People don't need all these motivational speeches from people they can't relate to, just the realization that their inaction is the only thing stopping them in life. Very inspiring and very well done.

  • @RyanGeorge
    @RyanGeorge 2 года назад +2823

    Damn, man. That was incredibly well done.

    • @franklynspanklyn3885
      @franklynspanklyn3885 2 года назад +22

      Love your content dude. Your pitch meanings split my sides every time

    • @betterideas
      @betterideas  2 года назад +93

      Thanks Ryan!!

    • @arctic215
      @arctic215 2 года назад +4

      @@franklynspanklyn3885 ayo lol

    • @franklynspanklyn3885
      @franklynspanklyn3885 2 года назад +3

      @@arctic215 I tried, aye 😅

    • @alibushell6762
      @alibushell6762 2 года назад +10

      If Ryan is saying that, you know you've struck gold!

  • @BATCHFILETUTORIALS
    @BATCHFILETUTORIALS 2 года назад +837

    Whenever I feel like I'm going to procrastinate, I watch this video. The thought of my soul decaying and living in a world of apathy is my biggest fear.

    • @clysen8234
      @clysen8234 Год назад +5

      Are you rich now? Update!

    • @AlexDiesTrying
      @AlexDiesTrying Год назад

      To me, it's everyday. Stay away from this hell. At best it kills you. At worst, it'll turn you into a mass murderer. I'm pretty sure I will kill myself before sinking too low.

    • @moonsigil
      @moonsigil Год назад +3

      @@clysen8234 😂 Right? Still waiting

    • @kensuppressor6937
      @kensuppressor6937 Год назад +1

      you gotta be a millionaire now or almost there right?

    • @markakuban7271
      @markakuban7271 Год назад +3

      😂😂,y'all trolling him

  • @mclovin9578
    @mclovin9578 Год назад +68

    This video just punched me in the face! I’ve been on a two month roll of fitness and self discipline. Green Tea, Intermittent Fasting, logging all meals, no junk food etc. could not have been more proud of myself…and the dopamine rush of hearing people saying how great I look is indescribable.
    However, the past few days, I’ve slipped slowly into old habits. I keep telling myself that tomorrow I’ll get back on track as I watched television instead of hitting the gym. Well, now that I’ve seen this video…I know that I will.
    Being lazy is easy. Staying motivated is hard. But dying a slow death…is not an option. Thank you so much for creating and posting this video. You just added one more subscriber. 🙏

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 4 месяца назад

      but what's the point of trying hard to look good, when you're going to go old and die anyway? or die without getting old? it's a wasted effort...

    • @extravv4699
      @extravv4699 4 месяца назад

      @@higherpurpose1212 yeah thats the point, ur gonna die anyway, but does that mean be a bum and fat lazy ass all ur life until u die. Lol

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace Год назад +14

    "Movement is good for the body. Stillness is good for the mind." -Sakyong Mipham

    • @yroc2553
      @yroc2553 5 месяцев назад

      Not my mind

    • @ranirathi3379
      @ranirathi3379 3 месяца назад

      @@yroc2553 stillness is not stagnant, not inactive, not actively avoidant.
      to a mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders - Lao tzu

  • @bidensballsack266
    @bidensballsack266 2 года назад +429

    You described and portrayed perfectly this depressing feeling that I have had going on with me for years and you described it so right, a slow death… thanks for the wake up call. I swear its like you read my mind, been feeling like im wasting time and you hit the nail on the head fuck

    • @mdm9416
      @mdm9416 2 года назад +3

      Me too.

    • @Gotinha123
      @Gotinha123 2 года назад +4

      I feel you, my whole life is basically that

    • @bidensballsack266
      @bidensballsack266 2 года назад +5

      @@Gotinha123 but I we can change that !! I feel like it’s like a curse that we need to snap out of it, it’s like quicksand slowly burying you until it’s too late or in shorter times life went by and your old now with regret…

    • @davejones290
      @davejones290 2 года назад

      Yes me too,Gona fight harder,👍🔨🔧☔

    • @bettermanchannel770
      @bettermanchannel770 2 года назад +3

      I've been depressed, clinically prescribed medication. Depression for me was just an excuse to not get up and face life and my wounds

  • @mattdavella
    @mattdavella 2 года назад +1947

    Wow dude. This is freakin phenomenal. Breathtaking work.

    • @screenrecorder292
      @screenrecorder292 2 года назад +11

      I absolutely agree

    • @betterideas
      @betterideas  2 года назад +75

      Thanks so much Matt! That means a lot.

    • @Ben.N
      @Ben.N 2 года назад +6

      indeed

    • @stellaq3306
      @stellaq3306 Год назад

      Twas

    • @andrewn8178
      @andrewn8178 5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm amazed to see this stuff on the internet. Great work.

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 5 месяцев назад +4

    This video is so spot on. I have been avoiding some of my problems since 2017 after two traumatic events. I faced some of my problems and overcame them, but my work situation is not good and I'm single with almost no friends. Life hit me hard in 2022 and I've been in deep grief. I started to work on my goals again this year, I just have to keep going because I have a lot of changes I need to make. It's so true about how destructive inaction is. It's often preceeded by a trauma but we need to get help with our traumas to overcome them, not let them ruin our lives.

  • @charliee5970
    @charliee5970 2 месяца назад +2

    That part with the girl smiling at you and wanting you to come over and talk to her hit home hard. I've missed out on many opportunities to talk to women who I KNEW were eyeing me, but I just didn't bring myself to take action.

  • @kylemac_
    @kylemac_ 2 года назад +171

    "inaction is the holidays of fools who trade temporary discomfort for long term existential suffering" i loved this quote so much, i really needed it, thanks man!

    • @site_is_down
      @site_is_down 2 года назад +6

      I agree! Our inaction slowly eats us whole into becoming the person we really want to be. There are a lot of people who want to become financially independent, but isn't making a single effort to achieve it.

  • @akaMilo
    @akaMilo 2 года назад +617

    I really hope he walked back into the diner

    • @layrux3164
      @layrux3164 Год назад +26

      thats the question, what would you do?

    • @Mome_
      @Mome_ Год назад +36

      @@layrux3164 i think as someone who knows the pain of inaction … I’ll go back to there

    • @mchurch3905
      @mchurch3905 Год назад +31

      The diner is an example of choices we make. Either outcome, starting a connection with another person, or walking away, is our choice, but walking away from it reinforces the inaction, which we are in the habit of wallowing in. It’s almost like we are two people in constant conflict with the stronger half bullying the other into inaction. Heard someone say the other day if that person in you is NOT the type of individual you would befriend, dump his ass and find someone who is….

    • @tdagz20
      @tdagz20 Год назад +13

      I think every Superman in the comments would say they’d go back to the diner when I’m reality it takes one who truly understand themself to do such action

    • @sumgi1537
      @sumgi1537 Год назад +45

      just to hear "i have a bf"

  • @melodicmaidens
    @melodicmaidens Год назад +9

    Dude, you can't imagine how you really helped my life. I just talked to my crush recently and made friends, after months of being stuck with my social anxiety! imagine that!

    • @lazlo686
      @lazlo686 Год назад

      You sound like you’re 15 dude. What you’re experiencing is not depression. So yea this vid is a quick fix for people like you.

  • @konsti1482
    @konsti1482 2 года назад +359

    This is a wake-up call that everyone needs. Unfortunately, you often had these wake-up calls, took action for 1-2 days and then fell back into old habits. The question is: How do you manage to consistently steer your life in the right direction and not always give up after a few days?

    • @snorkelremko6167
      @snorkelremko6167 2 года назад +69

      I think you are looking for a profound answer: 'do this and then...' 'if you stop and start doing this, than this will...' but i dont think such answer exists. How do the most successful people have extremely efficient lives? i think it has something to do with willpower, deep down wanting to be a better person (and not just for the looks of it). its a really hard question. Also looking at the reason, motives and behaviors associated with 'giving up after a few days (as you stated)' is also a good place to start looking imo.

    • @jpeg.600x2
      @jpeg.600x2 2 года назад +6

      @@snorkelremko6167 passion usually comes as one goal with a long set of checkpoints

    • @heatherflynn
      @heatherflynn 2 года назад +50

      You have to do the thing you set out to do - even when you don't feel like it. Thats the answer truly. If we are guided by our emotions and motivation, we will be lead astray every time. Discipline and showing up everyday to the task or goal you want , despite that voice that just wants to get into bed and be comfortable. The first two days of action are easy because were motivated, but then after this - you have to just keep showing up despite the fact you don't feel like it. You have to trade the instant gratifications of your comfort day after day no matter how you feel, keep showing up, and eventually - maybe weeks or months down the line you will see results and be strong enough to continue. Choose delayed gratification over instant gratification everyday and before you know it, you are the person you have wanted to become.

    • @furrypuffskein7704
      @furrypuffskein7704 2 года назад +4

      @@heatherflynn we all know this still we fail to take action whenever im wasting my time on distractions i tell myself that this is the time to show self discipline but i talk myself out of it and i keep procrastinating im doing that right now anyway it has to end so i promise that i will return back after a few hours and tell that i completed my work

    • @sashaman1234
      @sashaman1234 2 года назад +11

      @@snorkelremko6167 I think defining your “why” will probably help. It solidifies the reason you’re going to push yourself so hard. Many successful people do this. someone’s why could be to provide for their family, or maybe it’s to show that they are a conquer after having been molded by a childhood trauma to think otherwise.
      Simply saying “just do it” is meaningless. Give meaning to your actions, a core, heart shaking reason, and as a result you will feel more convicted deep down and more responsible to complete them. You’ll be living by purpose, not by just-because

  • @Tingalls_
    @Tingalls_ 2 года назад +264

    Man the cinematography and composition on this intro is amazing. Thank you for the inspiration.

  • @TheMediumjack
    @TheMediumjack 11 месяцев назад +4

    Wow. This was the best YT vid I’ve ever seen. It is the most important message for today’s world. I’m a mental health counsellor and I will be sharing this with my clients.

  • @faheem-wani
    @faheem-wani Год назад +10

    I absolutely love your content. The level of cinematography in this video is overwhelming. I have spent the last year doing absolutely nothing and the pain of inaction part hit too close to home. I honestly had goosebumps in the entirety of this video.

  • @josephdavis4956
    @josephdavis4956 2 года назад +569

    "Inaction is the holiday of fools."
    Wow. This was a great way to communicate this message. Take it on the chin or hide away and fester. Looking at my choices in this light, I think they will start to improve given I start taking the pain up front. Thanks for this video!

    • @asinjoseph7517
      @asinjoseph7517 2 года назад

      Ya crt

    • @RalfyCustoms
      @RalfyCustoms Год назад

      A

    • @HighBeanz
      @HighBeanz 11 месяцев назад +1

      How's it going?

    • @josephdavis4956
      @josephdavis4956 11 месяцев назад

      @@HighBeanz well, I just celebrated 1 year sober last week, going on to do the same with my job soon, and I'm also doing side work and not playing nearly as much video games. Once work dies down, I plan to join a dojo and keep myself in shape. We're moving ahead.

    • @HighBeanz
      @HighBeanz 11 месяцев назад

      @@josephdavis4956 good luck moving ahead!

  • @suicideistheanswer369
    @suicideistheanswer369 2 года назад +134

    It hurts even more when you are self-aware of all this. I see myself destroy myself, everyday. It's horrifying.

    • @The-Wordsmith
      @The-Wordsmith Год назад +18

      Same, buddy.
      But we can turn the tide. It might be like stop-motion animation - one teeny tiny movement at a time - but we'll get there x

    • @psych_up3660
      @psych_up3660 Год назад +12

      like what the comment above me said. good luck to anybody who see's these comments. wish you the best.

    • @oscarlightning2644
      @oscarlightning2644 Год назад +8

      Bro your name made me laugh because it’s my answer to everything too hahahhaha

    • @cynthiamarston2208
      @cynthiamarston2208 Год назад +1

      I get to beyond caring.

    • @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman
      @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman Год назад +2

      thart name is so me

  • @martin_fiori
    @martin_fiori 7 месяцев назад +4

    I come back to this video at least once a month. And it always motivates me to do better

  • @sarahrose1665
    @sarahrose1665 5 месяцев назад +6

    GEEZE LOUISE...I saw the thumbnail headline " inaction is a slow death" and I was there...Man Oh MAN...Great narrating voice and graphics...the fact that you used the "dishes waiting to be washed" image was so True and so Painful...cuz that image says volumes... And the fact that you circled back around and showed the DUDE washing them (PUSHING THROUGH THE PAIN)..YIKES You Are Good... That "slow death" thing was rearing its head when your marquee grabbed me (1st time here)...VERY THOUGHT PROVOKING / INVIGORATING...Kudos...Well Done💕🙋🌹I'm Glad You Bother...it's like tossing a life preserver out into a Blue Abyss...you never know who's drowning that day...Enduring Respect...👍 Very Cool 😎

  • @NiklasChristl
    @NiklasChristl 2 года назад +1326

    Joey, this is your best video yet! The voiceover, cinematography and most of all the story is outstanding.
    Keep up the great work, you inspire many people out there! 👊🏽

    • @hmr313_
      @hmr313_ 2 года назад +4

      WOW! I'm also a huge fan of you Niklas! You too make great videos & films!!

    • @reign7676
      @reign7676 2 года назад +2

      I love ur work!!

    • @atharvawani3650
      @atharvawani3650 2 года назад +4

      Both legends in one frame 🖼 Your storytelling, cinematography and voiceover is outstanding too 😊

    • @thatsyassine
      @thatsyassine 2 года назад +6

      I read this comment with your voice 😭

    • @asadzaman6508
      @asadzaman6508 2 года назад +3

      Niklas, Your videos changed my life, May Allah bless you

  • @dressedinwhite3673
    @dressedinwhite3673 2 года назад +522

    "Give the pain a purpose" was the one thing that really got me. Thats incredible! Thank you so much for making me realising this!

  • @dje3.16
    @dje3.16 Год назад +8

    I've watched this video for over fifty times. I just use it as a reminder to go out there; to take action towards every goal that I have. Thank you very much for your videos. Maybe you will never read this, but your videos helped me to bring about change in my heart and spirit. Again, thank you!

  • @lonestarintn9137
    @lonestarintn9137 4 месяца назад +2

    Something my Dad used to tell me - “Well do something even if it’s wrong”. He wasn’t telling me to do something wrong he was telling me to go live life.

  • @MatthewEncina
    @MatthewEncina 2 года назад +847

    Well done. The writing and cinematography are fantastic. Some of your best work 👌🏽

    • @jaredlamar
      @jaredlamar 2 года назад +4

      Love knowing that you're a Better Ideas fan!

    • @reformedzoomer
      @reformedzoomer Год назад

      I just wonder whereabouts in Canada this guy lives. I live in Michigan and we have solid dunes and miles of beaches (had miles of beaches at least) but the state is too damn flat and there is nothing quite like those landscapes here. Precisely why I’m more excited to avail the geography than anything else when I take a trip somewhere. Climbing mountains and looking down on Sedona while in Arizona, and seeing the coastline of Northern California were easily the best parts of those respective trips.

  • @RpgTurtle53
    @RpgTurtle53 2 года назад +83

    You should get an oscar for this one, my god the story telling was just *chefs kiss*

  • @TheRealBrodyMan
    @TheRealBrodyMan Год назад +17

    I’ve prolly watched this video close to 20 times. It’ll probably be a timeless piece because it just never gets old.

  • @user-ko7ng9hw3n
    @user-ko7ng9hw3n 4 месяца назад +1

    Your channel is extremely relatable in what you say and how it’s visually explained. Brutal honesty but inspiring as well. Hope is not all lost

  • @DemetriosLevi
    @DemetriosLevi 2 года назад +155

    Brother, you really did send the message across, because while I was geeking out over the visuals, the message still hit me like a wrecking ball. The quality of your visuals really does reflect the quality of your message. 11/10. Bravo

    • @betterideas
      @betterideas  2 года назад +17

      Demetrios!! Thanks so much my good sir ❤️

  • @resanlo4275
    @resanlo4275 2 года назад +116

    This has been happening to me all my life. Not starting to do something is slowly destroying me. Currently I am still fighting against procrastination and achieving my goals, but I always end up watching youtube for 6 hours. But despite all the bad days, I never lose hope of getting out of this situation. Thank you for filming this true message so well.

    • @b4zz3d59
      @b4zz3d59 2 года назад +5

      Me too. Let's do 1 thing today to make ourselves better, then tomorrow, and never stop. 💪

    • @sashaman1234
      @sashaman1234 2 года назад +20

      You’re not the only one man. I’ve been wasting so much time and the pain of being fully aware of what I am doing to myself throws me into a vicious cycle of repeating it. I think one thing that this channel teaches is to start small, very small. Give yourself one tiny goal today, get it done, then be happy that you did it. Then tomorrow, do the same thing, it will be better than making a massive detailed plan only to never do it then tell yourself you’re a massive failure because you couldn’t do it.
      Start small, you got this. You’re not alone

    • @MrStagepotato
      @MrStagepotato 2 года назад +13

      It's because you have too many goals at once that you want to achieve. Focus on one first, then if it's engrained in your daily habits, add another one....Keep continuing like that. Don't try to do TOO much at the same time because otherwise you'll give up faster

    • @micmicbungee355
      @micmicbungee355 2 года назад +3

      We are on this together 💪 we can do better

    • @kassi5968
      @kassi5968 2 года назад +3

      You got this.

  • @vvknaorem4942
    @vvknaorem4942 Год назад +6

    I can’t thank you enough for this video,my life was totally in inaction and slowly crumbling in front of my eyes but thank GOD i found this video.Tomorrow will be the day one i am cutting my insta and all the distraction and start living my life with the pain of ACTION.Thanks again ,and i will look back at this comment someday with proudness and better version of myself.

  • @noahcordier7002
    @noahcordier7002 Год назад +1

    I had missed this video, as you talked about it in "I can't keep doing this to myself" by saying that it was the realization you were most satisfied with, I came to see it. I was not disappointed, everything is perfect.

  • @JCtheCaster
    @JCtheCaster 2 года назад +271

    Outside of the amazing cinematography and editing, the message is what really sticks out for me, and I can only imagine so many others feel the same. You shine a light on a dark trail, a chance for all of us to catch ourselves before its to late. Thank you so much for doing this.
    Thank you for the moments of clarity your videos and obvious passion instill.

    • @ahnrho
      @ahnrho 2 года назад +1

      Agreed, very grateful. Can see myself and possibly others saving his blunt yet honest video to remind ourselves from time to time, when faced with adverse challenges or tragic crises in life, on what to and not to do -- How to participate in growth, and avoid decay. Be resilient, and keep walking.

  • @RazzHD
    @RazzHD 2 года назад +245

    The production and story telling of this video is so insane!

  • @coldbrewserotonin1872
    @coldbrewserotonin1872 Год назад +13

    Your authenticity is incredible. I really don't like saying this, but I guess you sprinkling parts of your background with depression and such into your videos is what makes your channel stand out in the genre. I really feel like you just get it, and seeing you create such incredible, inspiring content is a game changer to me. Some of us were born with depressive tendencies or other mental baggage, but that does not mean we aren't able to gain back control. I think if someone has a hard time reaching a goal or getting through something or merely just existing with all that pain and agony, coming out on the other side, beating depression, finding yourself will be so much more worthwile and precious.

  • @Mors_Umber
    @Mors_Umber 8 месяцев назад +1

    This video is a work of art. The cinematic shots, the tone, the music - your narration . . . just beautiful. Thanks!

  • @noodliealoon2580
    @noodliealoon2580 2 года назад +34

    Damn. I needed this far more than you'll ever know. I've been in a depressive slump for 3 years now. I just gotta embrace the pain and get moving

    • @the.bonsai.samurai
      @the.bonsai.samurai 2 года назад +3

      You can do it! These messages always come at the right time! 💪⌚

    • @garypritchett8136
      @garypritchett8136 2 года назад +1

      It’s the only way my friend. I find it hard too, but I’m on the same journey as you. See you somewhere down the road.

  • @ColeRolland
    @ColeRolland 2 года назад +568

    Hands down this is my favorite video from you so far! Incredibly well executed on all fronts 🎉 Congrats on a job well done!

    • @Fernuhdo_e
      @Fernuhdo_e 2 года назад +1

      I agree. Think this video hit differently

    • @davida6299
      @davida6299 2 года назад +1

      This is my first video...I'm hooked. Subscribing.

  • @TheDubwa
    @TheDubwa 2 месяца назад +1

    JOEY THANK YOU FOR GIVING HOPE! FOR GIVING PURPOSE AGAIN! PLEASE KEEP GOING! WE NEED MORE MESSAGES LIKE THIS! MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @johnchalpin9781
    @johnchalpin9781 Год назад +5

    #1 RUclips video of 2022 for me. Incredible work Joey. Keep doing what you're doing. Happy New Year

  • @DarioKesegiG0CA
    @DarioKesegiG0CA 2 года назад +158

    You are watching a masterpiece!
    This one is going to be a timeless classic ❤
    thank you

    • @ace-xu2ht
      @ace-xu2ht 2 года назад

      sta pameujes ti burek sa mesom

  • @CatepillarChrysalisButterfly
    @CatepillarChrysalisButterfly 2 года назад +91

    This was 1st class cinematography and storytelling with a deep and profound message. Thank you for this and for putting it out, it was a message I really needed to hear. 🙏

    • @NYKIRA
      @NYKIRA 2 года назад +2

      honestly!

  • @lewis9s
    @lewis9s 5 месяцев назад +2

    “So which pain will we choose?”
    *BOTH!*

  • @gayakusum5168
    @gayakusum5168 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'm So Grateful I Found this Video !
    I've been avoiding taking actions to change ma life for over 15 years.. I've been dying slowly.. I can feel that very well.. but still I'm scared to take any action towards a positive change in ma life.. 😢 thank you so much for this video ! 🙏 ♥️

  • @DieForODYSY
    @DieForODYSY 2 года назад +195

    I’m goin through a lot of inaction as of late. Doing so has made it harder to control my compulsive side. Triggering my anxiety with the smallest things and just making any improvements on myself feel impossible or just really hard. I really needed this video. I’m sure you already know but you’re helping a lot of people. Thank you so much.

    • @7thsky585
      @7thsky585 6 месяцев назад +1

      Give us an update.

    • @AlekNik1994
      @AlekNik1994 5 месяцев назад

      Did you take action ?

    • @DieForODYSY
      @DieForODYSY 4 месяца назад

      @@AlekNik1994 I did. I’m doing a lot better. My compulsive side has dramatically improved. I just ignore whatever thoughts tell me I need to feel anxious over nothing, single them out, realize there stupid and irrational and it goes away once I draw my attention to anything else. Get a hobby, do something to distract yourself from being stuck doing nothing but overthinking, because that’s not a position you wanna be in. I don’t know if you guys believe in this stuff either but what really got me through this was putting my faith in god. Just closing my eyes and meditating on his word is what got me out of being lost. If you concentrate and ask god for help, he will help you and you will know the actions you need to take. There will be some sacrifices, but you have to listen to the things god says, as he knows what’s best for you. Educate yourself with his word and I promise if you stick to it you will be reborn. If you make mistakes, don’t beat yourself up too much either, simply ask for forgiveness and if it’s genuine and you really wanna change god will give your forgiveness and much more. He will reward you for your sacrifices. God bless you all.

  • @TheManOnTheStreetOMG
    @TheManOnTheStreetOMG Год назад +88

    This hits hard, I was watching time bleed away from me for the last 2-3 years and I've only recently got myself back on the horse and motivated myself. The pandemic completely rewired my brain, before I knew it the fog of depression and apathy settled around me and became my new norm.

  • @grassfedgains1216
    @grassfedgains1216 6 месяцев назад +1

    I just watched this for what would probably be the 30th time, and the words are only more impactful every time I do.

  • @GustavoSouza-jj5ib
    @GustavoSouza-jj5ib Год назад +2

    I've already lost the count on how many times I have watched this, but in each one of them I was struck by the same feeling, it only depends on my actions, and how I'm gonna respond to it. Inaction is a slow death it's a hell of a phrase, I even put it on my lockscreen to always reminds me that I can choose on how I'm gonna deal with pain. Thank you man!

  • @Kumar_6791
    @Kumar_6791 2 года назад +53

    “Pain can be bargained with. It takes from us, but it can also give back. It just depends on which pain we choose to embrace.” Profound. This video really hit home. Well done, sir!

  • @joeycuevas9986
    @joeycuevas9986 2 года назад +54

    From one Joey to another, you outdid yourself.
    Will be listening to this at the beginning of each day and the end of each night to remind myself to commit to my priorities! Look up to you big time please keep making content like this!

    • @joeyantonucci692
      @joeyantonucci692 2 года назад +1

      I've been wanting to incorporate his lessons into my day-to-day. This is a great idea. Thank you Joey - another Joey

  • @gem-starx1747
    @gem-starx1747 10 месяцев назад

    This is probably the most important thing you’ve made on this channel so far. I keep coming back to it whenever I need a boost. Bravo 👏🏾

  • @LiquidTurbo
    @LiquidTurbo Год назад +1

    I don’t ever say this about anything on RUclips, but this video literally and actually changed my existence and my worldview and life. Thank you for making this video, kind Internet stranger.

  • @piyurious7414
    @piyurious7414 2 года назад +32

    "Action is a life giving breath, inaction is a slow death." Goosebumps!!
    Much love from India ❤️❤️

  • @nhhv7
    @nhhv7 2 года назад +5

    I have felt this slow death feeling for 2 years now. And last week i joined the gym, scheduled a time to meet up with a friend who i hadn't caught up with in so long, and decided to learn how to paint. Already life is looking up, new opportunities have popped up and life looks more hopeful. I'm going to save this video because i think it's the perfect, straight to point reminder for when you forget to focus on the little things and get wrapped up scared about the big things.

  • @seth_andal
    @seth_andal Год назад +1

    This is now one of my favorite videos I've ever seen on the platform. Holy shit.

  • @coldmountain1997
    @coldmountain1997 Год назад +1

    I’ve barely been able to leave my house for 6 years and I’ve wasted so much time and when I saw the title of this video 6 months ago or more I added it to my watch later playlist knowing it’s gonna be something that actually might help and today I finally had it in me to watch this video and I think I’m gonna try to be a functioning human being, no more inaction

  • @sid4563
    @sid4563 2 года назад +48

    This is so obviously true, everyone's almost aware of it, get told about it time and again. But never, almost never change from the status quo. But you know you've mastered your art when you convey the obvious, and it hits hard, like something for the first time. Great video, and I could not just relate to it, but also found a wake-up call thay actually is still resonating a bit longer after watching this.

  • @youknowwho9203
    @youknowwho9203 2 года назад +9

    About a couple of weeks ago something just clicked and I realized how my self pity and misery is a result of my own behaviors, that’s why I have been making changes, hopefully I can change my habits for the better. Watching this was like another wake up call. Thank you for this amazing content.

  • @jgboys1
    @jgboys1 4 месяца назад

    Awesome video! Thank you! I needed this!I am 61 years old and have been lucky enough to have been working steadily since I was 18 years old. It has been getting harder and tougher for me to get up and go to work these last few months but watching this video gave me the motivation to keep on going no matter how tough things get. When I was younger I would take on challenges right away and actually like the feeling of being productive.
    I have to get back to that mindset.

  • @user-tw2wy9mz5r
    @user-tw2wy9mz5r 5 месяцев назад +1

    This may be my favorite RUclips video of all time. Thank you!

  • @icecreampaintjob1697
    @icecreampaintjob1697 2 года назад +22

    This might possibly be the best video you've ever done, the message sent from a video like this is powerful enough to change many lives for the better. Outstandingly well done.

    • @TheTury67
      @TheTury67 2 года назад

      Right ?? It's truly Amazing what a single video/man Can Do to you

  • @theknowledgesenpai4551
    @theknowledgesenpai4551 2 года назад +45

    This is why I always feel terrible whenever I don't take action towards discomfort. An outstanding illustration you're showing to the rest of the world. Thank you! 👌

  • @Mesigabe
    @Mesigabe Год назад +2

    Damn. I really needed to see this today. I’ve been avoiding taking action a lot lately, and you so perfectly described how I’ve been feeling as a result. But I feel encouraged now to take more action, so thank you for making this video and sharing it!

  • @chadsexington-wl7ox
    @chadsexington-wl7ox 11 месяцев назад +3

    The irony of being fed this video by the algorithm while vegetating on the couch

  • @prachikulkarni360
    @prachikulkarni360 2 года назад +3

    I really needed this… even though you know the right thing to do it becomes easier to adopt when heard from someone else. Thanku for this

  • @thebrandonvu
    @thebrandonvu 2 года назад +142

    Love your content man! This video really hit me.

  • @patrickoregan5742
    @patrickoregan5742 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love coming back to watch this video, it’s easily one of the best pieces of cinema joeys made. Crazy good dude keep it up

  • @dznStripe
    @dznStripe Год назад +11

    This message is what I’ve needed to stop feeling bad for myself + complaining and start being proactive in my life. Thank you

  • @nying2480
    @nying2480 2 года назад +32

    Besides the excellent cinematography, visuals, and the clear, well-delivered message, what I noticed was that the soundtrack fits the video perfectly. I was happily surprised to find a link to the music and even more surprised to find out that you composed it yourself. The fact that you composed an original score for this motivation video shows that you truly encapsulate the concepts that you teach. Very inspiring.

    • @dylanfenton4367
      @dylanfenton4367 2 года назад

      no shot! he composed this himself? that's incredible. i was thinking the same thing.

  • @julianpermuy8191
    @julianpermuy8191 2 года назад +39

    Damn dude, you're really besting yourself every video, this is incredible, and true, keep it like that

  • @trinijoyl1720
    @trinijoyl1720 11 месяцев назад +1

    I just came upon this video! This is how I feel. I will myself everyday! Hope will keep u moving.

  • @damienrey8216
    @damienrey8216 5 месяцев назад +3

    this hits deep, especially for those like me who became idle during the pandemic and after. it feels as though we lost our purpose not knowing whats next, and through that inactivity we lost our souls, ourselves.

  • @EmandLloyd
    @EmandLloyd 2 года назад +29

    While there's a lot of great videos on this platform, this is probably the only video I've ever watched which literally gave me GOOSEBUMPS the whole way through. I (Em) spent several years paralyzed by the discomfort of action and staying in a draining career, and one of the things that propelled me towards taking action and quitting was realizing how many people around me were "trading temporary discomfort for long term existential suffering". Coincidentally I was in the middle of thinking about how to explain to others why I didn't regret quitting when I saw your video, which really put all of my feelings into words. Thank you so much for this masterpiece!

  • @aaronle9140
    @aaronle9140 2 года назад +12

    This is so crazy convenient as I’ve been experiencing the consequences of inaction for 2 weeks now. I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for uploading this at the perfect time.

    • @THEADZBRADZ
      @THEADZBRADZ 2 года назад

      2 weeks?? That's nothing bro

    • @aaronle9140
      @aaronle9140 2 года назад

      @@THEADZBRADZ I'm just hard on myself LOL

  • @Paul-bt9dt
    @Paul-bt9dt 11 месяцев назад +1

    Daaammnnn. This hits me 100%. I've been experiencing this for the past year and a half. Thank you for this man. Why am I just seeing this today. Best youtube video for me by far. Let's grind

  • @thelammas8283
    @thelammas8283 5 месяцев назад +1

    The irony of a RUclips telling me (absolutely correctly) not to watch RUclips is not lost on me.

  • @magehunter9930
    @magehunter9930 2 года назад +11

    I’ve been going through one of the hardest times I’ve had with my mental health recently and this video really help me put into words what I’ve been feeling. So many days I find myself pushing off responsibility and “relaxing”, yet finding myself anxious and sad. Choosing which pain to take is a good way of putting it, I’ve always loved how your videos require you to think and evaluate. Great content man, hopefully I can use it as a starting point to a better mental health state along with counseling I just started this week

    • @aljazgorsek2627
      @aljazgorsek2627 2 года назад +3

      It’s really so well put. Wish you all the best in the future!

    • @garypritchett8136
      @garypritchett8136 2 года назад

      Good luck my friend, keep at it!

  • @bryangonzalez2430
    @bryangonzalez2430 2 года назад +67

    This was one of the best depictions of the whole paradigm that involves productivity!
    Thank you for the effort you put in!

  • @ThePablo505
    @ThePablo505 Год назад +1

    Just broke up from a 2 year relationship. Your video helped me to make a choice between keeping things going the way they were, which was doing nothing and letting the relationship slowly drown; and just putting and end to it, feeling the enormous pain that I'm feeling right now and to move on. It wasn't easy at all, but sometimes the right choice is the hardest one.
    Thanks a lot

  • @ArtEssay70
    @ArtEssay70 11 месяцев назад +1

    By chance, I stumbled upon this video. Torn between viewing and not viewing. 2 sides of this same coin. 1 side wants to, the other.... Perhaps that part of me that wishes to stay hidden in the dark, in his comfort zone. Content with that slow death. But the ONE part of me that said "yes", so I clicked.
    Honestly, it was not what I wanted to hear today. The truth was slapping me in the face and so very painful.... forcing me to understand that I have a demon to face. Either I face it now, and fight for my life.... Or, stay in this darkness lying to myself.
    Thank you for your perspective. I needed to hear this.

  • @kennygunderman
    @kennygunderman 2 года назад +9

    Adding this to the favorites playlist

  • @ralphconnell7361
    @ralphconnell7361 2 года назад +16

    Hey, I just wanted to let you know that this really makes so much sense to me.
    "inaction is the holiday of fools who trade temporary discomfort for long-term existential suffering". That part really hit. This video motivated me to work out today :)

  • @yuanbo_chen
    @yuanbo_chen Год назад +3

    Man...if only I could like this video a second time. The last line is simply poetic, hits me like a rock everytime I hear it

  • @DavidMasson90
    @DavidMasson90 Год назад

    The acting of Joey and the girl in the diner was phenomenal.

  • @jcrouse7461
    @jcrouse7461 2 года назад +6

    “Inaction is the holiday of fools.” Such a good line!

  • @draaneYT
    @draaneYT 2 года назад +31

    Just wanted to say i saw this video when it came out and the concept of "inaction is a slow death" really spoke to me. Been thinking bout it on the daily and it really got me taking the action.
    "Action as a life giving breath? Or inaction.. a slow death?"
    Thanks Joey you the man

  • @jaberabedin5487
    @jaberabedin5487 Год назад +1

    Amazing video as always! One thing I would add is that while action doesn't make the pain go away, it certainly reduces it to the bare inevitable amount, and eliminates all the unnecessary suffering.

  • @Tonyiscomfy
    @Tonyiscomfy Год назад +1

    This is the most relatable video I’ve ever seen. In middle school I dropped out and didn’t go back for 3 years. Throughout all that time I spent everyday from dawn to dusk playing video games and feeling sorry for myself. Why am I sad and depressed and why won’t anyone save me I would think to myself. I hate that I’m so fat and lazy! One day I opened a video similar to this one and got motivated to start doing 20 pushups everyday. Then 100. Then 200. Soon I was doing over a thousand pushups by the end of the year. I finally got the confidence to go back to high school and join every sport there was! I became class president of my junior class and graduated with a scholarship! I’m now attending a community college and half way through my mechanical engineering degree. If you’ve gotten this far know that it’s not too late. And anything can be turned around. Take control of your life kings 👑 ❤