Wow!!!!!! 10k!!!!!❤❤❤❤ OMG Thankyou Everyone who has watched and supported!!! Never in a million years did I ever think I'd have a video reach 10k in a week. 🎉
Because it’s real and raw. You are speaking the story of many people right now. You will make a difference in a lot of people’s lives including your own. Can’t wait to see your ride to victory.😊
I feel like it because so many of us have walked down the same path. One of the most important things my parents taught me was to start over as many times as necessary. If I have a pulse God has a plan! Not many people will allow themselves to be as transparent as you have been. So square your shoulders and just look back to remind yourself of the lesson’s you learned and keep it moving. You have no idea how many lives, households watch, study and apply the content you share. I am counting on you!!!
April give yourself some grace. I can hear the pain in your voice. Life happens. Set backs happen… Don’t look back just move forward. I’m rooting for you guys!
Years ago I found my dad’s savings account book from the 1940’s-most weeks he could only deposit $.25 but never missed a week-have followed the model of saving even if it’s not the amount planned. Lessons Learned.
Hi April. I think the word you are looking for is support, not help. It is always support no matter if it is financial, emotional or physical. Don’t worry everyone has to restart at some stage in life.
Don't ever feel bad for saying you needed to help him. We as women are help mates, partners, etc. You did the right thing. Life happens to all of us. Here's to getting back on track🎉. He saw you happy and that made him happy. He was vulnerable with you, and you came to his aide. That's what a partnership is. Awesome team!!
April I have had to start over twice. My husband died in December and I fell off the wagon. Started back over in March and then in July our home was destroyed by a tree making my daughter and I move out to a rental. I am starting over. Life happens and it can suck. Hang in there, you got this. The fact that you admit to your failings shows that you are a strong, resilient person.
I am going to be starting over myself. I spent a week in the hospital and at the same time my partner lost his job. We have savings thankfully from sinking funds and I can cover bills. But it’s gonna be a long journey back to where we were before everything happened. Sending some support your way, you got this!
Oh no!! I'm sorry for your struggles. Situations like yours show how successful cash stuffing can be. I'm glad you had the sinking funds to see tou through :) here's to building them back up! 🍻
Girl it’s okay.. it Happens to the best of us. I failed a few times but I’m not giving up. Hang in there and you are doing great at this. Give yourself grace.
Praying for you. It doesn't matter how many times you start over don't quit which you haven't done. I am rooting for you and very much financial success
April. Don’t let let anyone judge you. We have been there. Let me say I have been there. I had 10 k in my emergency binder and probably another 7-10 k in my other binders. Gone. All Gone. I just started over 2 weeks ago. Take a deep breath. Keep showing up for yourself. You are doing a phenomenal job.
April, I think sometimes we get carried away with the budgeting momentum because it is a thrill to see money adding up in our envelopes. We forget that we budget so that we can face life's challenges too, when it happens. Dave Ramsey calls him Murphy. You had that cash when you needed it the most and that is what really matters. Had you not been budgeting, you would have been in a more worse situation. Don't give up, change your perspective and know that you really are just like all the rest of us. Human. Trying to get by in life....BUT....we have a secret weapon....The Budget! Thank-you for being vulnerable and transparent. It makes me feel normal. Great video!
@@Aprilsonabudget Thanks for liking my comment. I also wanted to pass on that with the experience that you recently had, that tells me to beef up the emergency funds. Me included. That way we dip less into our other funds. There are so many people out there who don’t budget and it’s catastrophic for them. This is why you do what you do on RUclips to hopefully help those who need to learn the system. Thanks so much!
The pain in your voice is heartbreaking…. Just know that we have all been there! This is just a blip on the radar for you guys! Appreciate how fortunate you are that you’re on the same mission together! So many couples are not! Your lessons learned and transparency will likely help others even more than if your plan had turned out perfectly! We all have setbacks…. It’s about what you do next! Thanks for sharing your journey, uphill and down.. Also, anxiety is a beast! Take care of you first! It makes the rest of the journey a lot more manageable.. Much love!!
Hi April, I commend you for being brave and transparent with your RUclips family. It's okay to admit that you messed up on something and it's okay to start over/refresh. Give yourself some grace. Look at the positive. Your hard work and passion for what you do is actually what helped your situation. Imagine if you never took the time to save like you did. You were able to pay off $900 on debt at the drop of a hat. Everybody can't say that. And $20 seems small compared to what you had saved up when this happened but that's $20 not being wasted elsewhere and $20 towards your goals. Thank you for sharing and please know what you're going through is normal/life. It's okay. 💙
April, please give yourself some grace. Things happen… take a deep breath… and start again… IT IS OK!!! Big hugs!!!! ( what matters is that you acknowledged it and you both are starting again) baby steps!!! You Got This!!!❤️❤️❤️
New sub, so proud of you guys for coming together, opening up a joint account and discussing the plan together! It can be hard doing it separately. Tyson's heart was in the right place trying to make you happy. I know it will be a struggle, your new plan, but you have each other support, so you got this!
If we couldn't make the minimum payments ( and then some) I'd agree. But very few people are debt free these days as something always pups. But children are only children for so long. If I waited to be out of debt to go to Disney we wouldn't be able to go until she is an adult. I wouldn't save for Disney at the expense of bills or debt.
I’m a 76 year old grandmother with six grandchildren, 15, 13, 10, 8, 4, newborn (two families). Not one of the kids have been to Disney nor will they ever go. It’s never even been discussed. It’s an insanely expensive vacation. I can absolutely promise you that while disappointed, your kids will survive. It’s actually a valuable learning experience. Kids hit college so totally unprepared to manage money, credit cards, student loans, entertainment they are over their heads at 21.
@MrFalla1 Thankyou. I've never claimed a child can't live without Disney. I've never been to any Country outside North America, but that doesn't mean I think others shouldn't go. I had the pleasure of taking my now adult Son to Disney when he was 12 and it's a Vacation we both treasure and Cherish to this day. I never knew then that I'd have another child at 42, but I knew someday I'd be going back with my family. It's not a trip for my kids, it's a trip for our Family. None of us has had a vacation in 10 yrs so I'm not ashamed to want one formour family. Thankyou for watching.
@@MrsEJVcompletely agree. Children pick up on what we value based on what we DO - especially in stressful and/or important times. We were committed to including and showing our children that vacations were dependent on the choices we made regarding our family’s finances. Otherwise, what do they learn -- That it’s perfectly fine to have debt and still get to enjoy the big vacations, or whatever “it” is that’s truly not a NEED but a WANT. Needs and wants are NOT the same and are indeed completely different.
@@MrsEJVabsolutely agree. Children need a stable home full of love, healthy food and parents who are not stressed to the gills over debt or paying for expensive holidays. You can make great memories on staycations!
I think it's beautiful that all this happened because one person found a passion and another wanted to support it... at the core of all of this is love and a want to love and enjoy life. Great job on restarting the journey and NOT giving up, and now all those lessons have been learnt along the way which means this time around its going to go much better... wishing your journey the best and may that passion return swiftly
New Subbie ❤❤❤ Everyone is going through money obstacles especially with the student loans starting up. Forgive yourself and move on. It’s alright. Do what you have to do. It’s your budget and you both know what needs to be done. I’m proud of you for returning , taking and starting over. Many don’t. You’ll only fail if you don’t try! Hugs and Super prayers and blessings to both of you 🎉🎉❤❤❤
April, this is my first time seeing your channel and this is the video that was suggested to me. I am in a similar situation. I am so grateful to have found your video! FIRST, let me say you and your husband are doing AWESOME. You are graciously letting us into your life, which you never have to do. The two of you were trying to help each other and in the end set yourselves back. much like the book the Gift of the Magi. As horrible as that must feel in the moment, that shows the love you have for each other. But the important thing is you started communicating. As long as you do that and stay in step and be open and honest you guys will bounce back and be where you want to be. I hear the pain in your voice. I was JUST there. Our bills took a hit because I was not putting money where it needed to go. I finally opened up to my husband and after being totally embarrassed and thinking he would be mad, he simply said "Thank you for telling me. Please lean on me." I was in tears at the support and love in that small sentence. You guys got this! Just stick together and stick to it. You can do this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. It takes an incredible amount of strength to put such a personal thing out there. We are in hard times, but I hope and pray you guys get above water and in a more comfortable place SOON! Thank you for letting me know I (and many others) are not alone. Sometimes you can feel like you are drowning alone in darkness with this type of situation because we don't tend to talk about these things with other people. Oh, and don't worry about ANY negative comments. This is between you and your family. Only YOU can determine what works for you. ~Steph
Thankyou so much 💓. I think the negative comments are from those that haven't either followed before or since. They seem to think we are living paycheck to paycheck but we aren't. We aren't rich by any stretch but we just put to much in the Binders at the expense of our bills which set us back. We took a few months, came up with a plan and put ourselves back on track with more responsible saving. We can't save much but all our bills are now paid and our debt is decreasing not increasing, so I think we're headed in the right direction! Thankyou for watching and thankyou for your lovely comment! ❤️
We've been married 32 years. As soon as we got married we had a joint account. We worked really hard and spent years living from pay to pay. You are stronger as a team and working towards a common goal.
Hi April, life happens and when it’s bad unfortunately we just have to keep moving forward. I’m so happy to hear your husband came forward to let you know what was happening. I went from the TOP to ROCK BOTTOM over night so I can understand how you felt/feel. I promise you it will get better especially now that you have a plan. I’m praying for you and your family ❤ God has your back and won’t let you down 🙏
I loved hearing your story. I also struggle with severe anxiety, and I can tell how youre walking in circles in your head from the stress. I just wanted to say youve got this, girly! Every little bit counts, and getting back on the horse is an amazing first step to make towards your goals. Good luck!
Omg I've never heard that saying before, but Wow.....I couldn't have described it better!!! Thankyou for watching and and Thankyou for the well wishes. ❤️
You were so brave and I commend you for it. I’m completely knew to budgeting. I discovered it recently as I’m coming out the other side of a long mental health crisis which resulted in a diagnosis of Bi-Polar 2. I have now no money besides sick benefits. However I’ve started two money challenges. A €1 and a €2. My point being is even with a couple of euros we can start over. We can do this and keep going!
I'm so so sorry for your troubles!. When I first started cash stuffing, that's exactly how I started. 1s and 2s. It's surprising how quick they add up. I'm going to leave you my email. I have the perfect savings challenge I'd like to send you. Just send me a quick email and then I have ur email. Aprilblonski @ gmail.com. No spaces
I never watched any of your videos before this came up as a recommendation and I just wanna share my two cents that we don’t get into debt knowing how not to go into debt and it’s all a learning curve what has happened to you and your husband is all part of a learning curve. You now know what to look for and the communication to have with your partner to get on track. Unlike a lot of other financial RUclips channels, you are sharing the low point of this journey which is crucial for people who are trying to learn how to budget how to pay off debt how to combine incomes. I commend you for sharing that I’m sorry for the pain that you have gone through during this growing time, but it will help you in the long run to avoid these issues.
You did just what you needed to do with the money you had available. Budgeting is hard work and is ever changing! It takes practice to figure out the best balance 🤗. Many of us have to empty those binders, regroup and start from scratch again! Your story is like so many others, just public, you are not alone ❤
I love that your so open i think we are all in a bind right now no matter your background or finances i send both of you lots of support and blessings ❤
hi 1. love the nails fantastic color 2. welcome to 2023 $$$$ just goes 3. you are being way to hard on yourself 4. thank god you had in the binders to tap in 5. you will get back on top just pace yourself one day at time i wish you the best going forward from here
Thankyou. I'm glad it was there as well. I wish I had just taken a step back and tried to fix it though without emptying the Binders but I'm very glad it was there.
Please don’t ever let anyone tell you are doing something wrong with your family. People are always ready to throw advice your way. As a mom of 4 grown boys. I wish we had done more with them. They are only with you a short while and then they are grown have their own lives. I don’t know if you follow the Budget Mom. She says you should never put your life on hold even if you have debt. She is very successful and has been debt free . She is good to watch please find her if you haven’t yet. As far as falling behind and starting over it happens. No one should be judging you. Shame on them if they do. Emergencies happen to everyone at some point and they can’t fault you on YOUR decisions. If you make a mistake you learn and move on. You’ve got this. I’m sorry you were hurting so much in this video, but I hope so much things have gotten better for you. God bless you and your family
Money worries are just the pits and my heart goes out to you for the struggle you and yours have been going through. I most definitely think your partner's heart was in the right place. Hoping that this new start works well for you.
I've never watched you're videos before but your openess and vulnerability shows how strong you are. I know you aren't where you wanna be yet but you will get there. Thank you for trusting us with your story. Sending hugs to you
Thanks for such an honest and raw video. You owe nobody an explanation. We are all works in progress. Good luck with this new chapter, you'll do great!
April at 53 I’ve only just start cash stuffing. Forgive yourself for the past, you can’t change, but you going forward and starting again is brilliant…..be kind to yourself you are going again!
I appreciate your honesty and sharing your story. You are not alone and each day is an opportunity to get closer to your dreams coming true. You can find your way to peace.
Your partner obviously cares about you. You can always make more money, but you cant always find someone who loves you. Just sometimes we gotta work on making a safe place for open communication. Never about blame, just working together to make the life together better ❤
NOT to diminish the sacrifice of the work you put it, just trying to send you someone positive energy because you felt worried about the reaction towards him.
Thankyou! Yeah, this one was crazy! I truly believe that sometimes a reset is needed just to refocus and get back on track. The support after this video has been incredible :) Thankyou for watching ❤️
Oh April! You’re not alone in any of that! How often have we all done this at one time or another for all sorts of reasons?My reasons a couple of times were not nearly as understandable as this reason you have today. It’s okay! It’s really okay! Just let it go, and make a fresh start. Don’t punish yourself. Give yourself some grace and realize you know now what to do better this time. ❤ the only really sad thing would be if you stopped budgeting and stopped doing videos. Love you and thank you for the honesty. This has brought you to a place where you both are communicating about money in a better more transparent way, so it was meant to happen! It’ll make you stronger ❤❤❤
Thankyou. Agreed we are definitely in a better place now that we both have a clear picture of the finances. I'm very glad I did this video. I can't tell you how the response has helped me. Thankyou for watching! ❤️
I am starting over as well - had to clear out all of my envelopes and went from $6000 in savings to $1000 ( who has been a hard fought for $1k! Took me so so long). Have had to add money to my grocery envelopes week after week 😭 for less and less
Thank you for your transparency in this video, I've been going through similar emotions and have had a wakeup call recently. Just subscribed and I belive I'm now your 100th subbie ❤🎉 excited to be here and follow you! P.S: I have a few vocal cats 😅
I love that you guys made a plan! My husband and I have joint accounts and I have to say, I think you both chose wisely! I hope this gets better for you guys! You both can do it, keep up the good work!
I’ve been there and guess what I’m still here. You can always get back up when you fall down. We’ve all been there and no can judge you. Keep your head up and keep going.
Thank you Sis. I have been having financial challenges since my divorce 16 years ago. From almost losing my house to saving it, to being a single mom then an empty nester, then the terrible highs & lows of menopause & somewhere in there we have to balance being responsible & living a good life. Depression & Anxiety impact sooooo many of us due to all this stuff that clutters our minds. Please give yourself grace. & please know that you are a blessing to others. I've only started cash stuffing. Baby steps. & thank you. ❤
I hope things are better for you now. My anxiety began during a similar experience. I spent 7 long years going thru my divorce. In the 1st 2 yrs I lost everything including my house and was left with only a Mountain of legal debt. Then had to get thru the next 5 yrs trying to support my kids whilst paying Lawyers and keeping a roof over our heads and food in thier bellies until the divorce was finally finalized and I could pay everything off and start fresh. I swear I still have ptsd from that time in my life. Sometimes, when I'm feeling low. I look back at that time in my life, and I become immediately grateful for everything in my life today. But it's left me with this little voice in my head that reminds me it could happen again. So debt gives me major anxiety. Even small debt. Thankyou for watching.
I love how real you are in this video and I can relate to this so much! I’m glad your video popped up in my feed and I’m happy to follow on your journey wherever it goes!
❤ I had to throw the budget out the window because we had no income at one point used all of our savings and only God knows how we paid the bills but I kept being faithful to god with tithing and offering and the money was there to pay our bills!
April, thank you for sharing. This is a journey. A life-long journey. You are so strong to come on here and share your story with us. I don’t believe anyone is stress-free when it comes to money, no matter how much they make. Praying for you and your husband to communicate a lot more through this journey to building massive wealth for the two of you. ❤
It’s ok it happens. I also worked hard on our budget made it work but then we fell off again. But here i am again and you are to. We are here to support you and you are supporting us too. I love to hear the real stories. You will get it i have faith. And i know i will too. 🙏🏼
This is a realistic budget video to me. My budget only ever had about 7 dollars leftover and not much side hustle money other than an occasional extra chunk from various places or overtime at work. I'm excited to see the next video with low starting numbers.
Well then you'll be pleasantly surprised lol. My stuffing will def be low haha. But I know exactly what you mean. It's hard nit to be discouraged when you watch others stuffing 800 or 1000 a week after all thier bills are paid. No hate on them, I'm genuinely happy and envious of them. But my binders seldom see more then a $5 lol
New Subbie Here!! Congratulations on getting back up and combining your income & bills! This is the best thing you could have done. I'm rooting for you! I completely understand the passion for budgeting bc I feel the exact same. I never knew you could get so much joy from budgeting. The good thing is you have a plan and you are moving forward!
I know it's crazy!! I remember having a "silly" idea about 20 yrs ago of sticking money in assigned envelopes in a binder....my Ex laughed at me lol. Turns out I should have. I'd be rich now!! I love it, and especially this Community. The support I feel here is tear jetting and mind boggling to me. Thankyou for subbing!! ❤️
Thank you for your openness and honesty…it made me feel I’m not alone in my financial struggles. Thank you for showing me someone else is going through similar difficulties. Please know you are not alone either. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your current story…the operative word here is current…not permanent! Starting over is just what it is nothing more nothing less. We can learn from what causes us to have to start over so do that and move forward…that’s what I’m trying to do. You both sound like good people that are just going through a tough time in life. You both are making positive changes in your finances together. Good for you both. It’s a new beginning forward…a fresh start…life is looking up!
Hello April, thank you for opening up . I am starting over as well. Dont worry, you will be successful because you are persevering. Wishing you well and God bless.
April you're starting over WHO hasn't? We all have to, had to or will at some point and sometimes we will have to hit restart multiple times!! This is life and there is nothing to be ashamed or sorry about. The reason you needed to start over doesn't even matter; again that's life. I wish you and your family the best and I know you will do well (as you have in the past) If you need to restart 500 times, it's ok; as long as you keep moving - YOU GOT THIS!!!
It's okay to start over as much as you need to..💕🙏 Never give up! You are doing more than most people.. I plan on starting myself once I get my bills in order. People like you inspire me!💯💗😉
I remember reading a christmas story years ago. It is about a husband and wife, who are poor but work hard to get by. For Christmas the wife sells her hair to buy the husband a new chain for his watch because she knows how much he loves it, how much he depends on it for work and she hopes to make his life easier as he is working to support their family. The husband sells his watch to buy his wife a hairbrush, because he has seen her so patiently grow her hair long down her back, braid it each day before making dinner. He hopes to help her feel beautiful and make it easier to care for herself, not just for him. That is exactly what you both did for each other. Sacrifice can be a beautiful thing 💜 go hug your husband because y'all have a beautiful union. (common law, my butt, thats what he is!)
Hi April I just found your channel and I’m sad this is first video I was introduced to you by. You are an adult with real problems, please do not let the other people who are saving and make it look easy discourage you. No one said this process would be easy. The great thing about life is if you mess up you can try again. Practice makes perfect. This is my second time doing envelope stuffing and I am in twice the debt I was in before. But just knowing that I successfully done it before, motivates me to be able to do it again. There is no handbook on life. Please don’t beat yourself up! Life happens, give grace to yourself. You got this!!!!!
Thankyou!! I'm so glad you're persevering and sticking with the daily grind. I'm grateful to you and so many items for your understanding and encouragement!! ❤️
Hi April, Don't feel bad about starting over we are all humans . We just have to work on the situation and it can be very overwhelming. I have some anxiety myself that I just discovered about saving challenges and budgeting. When I start to do saving and budgeting some reason l feel myself starting to get overwhelmed. Then sometimes it leads me to just lay down. I'm glad that you and your husband are working together with the finances. Keep up the good work May God Bless.
I haven't finished this video yet and I'm not yet subscribed.... first time watcher actually. I just wanted to thank you for your vulnerability. I know it can't be easy to start over and to share it publicly. I just wanted you to know that you're not alone. Many of us are in similar positions as you are. Keep doing what you're doing. You're going to make it through.
I feel you I’m starting Over again I’m glad that you are showing this with real emotions helps me feel like I’m not alone I’m feeling overwhelmed I’m in debt $3000 i know not alot but it’s stressing me out so much We got this 🥰 little by little we will get to where we were and more.
April honey each day we are given we never know what’s going to happen. The blessing is there’s always a reset button. Be encourage honey you got this❤👏🏾🙌😘
April please be gentle with your thoughts. We are happy to see you back online and moving forward. We have all had our highs and lows, learn from it and keep going.
Please don’t feel bad you can get back on board! You n your partner together can get it done💪🏾you guys are in a partnership and together y’all got this!! Give yourself some grace things happen , life gets tough sometimes- at least you acknowledge this and you can start over🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾YOU GOT THIS!!!
Hey, new watcher but I agree with others, give yourself some grace. Really, anything difficult usually requires humans to start over multiple times. You get credit for starting again!
People need to chill. We all make mistakes. Buying something we dont need that has no resale value, buying too much food and forgetting it to spoil, WHATEVER. The point is, we all goof up and will do so until the day we die. Next question... what can we learn from our mistake? Give ourselves the permission the donate that item that cant resell, throw away the spoiled food.. then immediatly take steps to do better. Fix it and move on! ❤ Some folks will fixate on the point of failure, some will fixate on guilt of failure, but the successful ones will forgive, learn, and do better!
Hi april and welcome back you are doing great , i have dealt with anxiety for 30 some yrs its hard if you need to talk let me know and life happens i had to empty my envelopes in the past month but we are glad we have saved what we have 😊❤
Thankyou for your support and Thankyou for watching. I'm okay now, I think my nerves got the better of me while filming. I'm so glad to be back and so Happy to be stuffing again!
New subbie here to support ❤You are in the right community. People are great here. “Let Go and Let God” it’s ok to take a break. The most important thing is that you’re coming back!
Don’t be upset. And don’t beat yourself up. Life is a constant series of starting over. Only giving up is shameful. Not having to cope with a failure. Only the strong and dutiful face their failures with hope and faith.
Appreciate you for sharing your struggles. Working as a team and combining incomes is a smart move. We too had a healthy looking budget and it all got spent when my husband suffered a traumatic injury. I havent cash stuffed in over a year and because of your post I'm going to pull out my empty binders and start a fresh too! Thank you dear. You have inspired me to get back on the train to financial freedom. ❤ I will be following you! 😊
My marriage improved beyond what i could have dreamed of when we combined all money and put every penny on a spreadsheet. Ive been where you are, done the crying myself to sleep. I mean this very genuinely - you will soon be glad this happened. Best of luck for everything. You're so close to 1000 subscribers so hopefully monetization is close for you too!
We've always had a string relationship thankfully, but its certainly taught us a huge lesson I'm a Communication and working together. Thank you so much for watching!! ❤
You have shown great courage in first admitting and accepting that there may have been a problem - and then tackling it. So many experts who work with every day people will say the same thing to you. There are plenty of people who really bury their heads in the sand and hope that it will go away and all that does is make the problem worse. I hope you continue with the same strength you have shown in this video and I wish you all the best. x
April, I would like to make a few Suggestions, not bad ones maybe they will give you ideas on helping your budget. The first one is When you get a big amount of money pay a big chunk on the largest credit cars, and pay off your Callihan, even if you have a tight budget for 2 wks til you get paid..It's worth it. Next is I live in the country, and we have well water, It's OK to cook with, take showers, and wash dishes with, the hot water, has like to much iron in it, so we really don't drink the water it won't hurt us but we just dont.. We had gotten a water softener from a hard ware store, but it didn't last long because it didn't take care of all the iron and mineral in it. Here's the drinking water solution.. Walmart had a water stand and the huge water jugs you just put on the stand it plugs in and you can drink that water, it cold or you can put ice in it..Also they make ones you can flip a switch if you want hot water. The jug only cost $25. I don't even go through that much a month. It's up to you to buy more water in the jug as you run out, or buy bottled water..You buy the stand out right, it cost me $90 for mine but you can buy a nicer one for like $125 or how ever much you want to spend on it.. Way cheaper the the Culligan set.. put a filter on your kitchen fact, it just screws on it and filters your water.. you can buy that at Walmart or a hard ware store.. Not expensive at all.. These are suggestions for you..
Yes, we don't drink our water, we buy it. But our water really smelled bad and was very discolored. Also made my hair like straw. We required a filtration system unfortunately. But agreed, I won't drink it or cook with it even though we've been assured it's safe...I just can't do it lol. As for the debt and culligan, thats exactly what we're doing, but we have to take care of arrears first. Currently my card is the only one I want to access in an emergency so I want to get it at least 1k below the limit which is why I put the extra 100 there and an extra 100 on the biggest card. But yes...after the arrears and my cards 1k, culligan will become my main focus...that suckered needs to go. Thank you so much for watching and for your input. ❤
New subbie. Welcome back. I’m trying to get out of consumer debt myself and right now what I am doing is doing saving challenges to fund my sinking fund envelopes and so forth. Never feel bad about starting over. Things happen to all of us and we just have to keep moving forward
Thanks for subbing! I'm doing exactly the same thing. I have a few mini challenges that I plan to use for sinking funds and savings. Every bit helps. Thankyou again!! ❤
Honestly I love this video it's real and not fake like a lot of bugeters. Thank you for sharing this gives me and I'm sure others hope for succeeding at budgeting.
im so sorry-- sometimes we have to start over. i just found you but thank you for talking about this! I actually tried to cash budget back when i was in my 20's and totally failed. then did it again. i am so glad that you are trying again.
You’re not alone April and it’s okay to start over. I’m starting over too! We’re in it together!! Sending you and Tyson love, light and grace. We’re rooting for you guys!!♥️🙏🏼🫶🏽
Starting from square one? That's where I am. I just subscribed so I can get started at the beginning. I suffer depression so I kinda understand your struggle.
Almost. I still had my Penny Challenge and some Disney Money left. Thank for following and I wish you success in your Journey. Also, if you start a Channel, let me know...I will def follow along.
I am so glad that you have come back k to budgeting. I am sad you went through that but the important thing is you picked yourself up! You are back on the track! I am routing for you.
Wow!!!!!! 10k!!!!!❤❤❤❤ OMG Thankyou Everyone who has watched and supported!!! Never in a million years did I ever think I'd have a video reach 10k in a week. 🎉
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Because it’s real and raw. You are speaking the story of many people right now. You will make a difference in a lot of people’s lives including your own. Can’t wait to see your ride to victory.😊
@sheilaelliott75 Wow Thankyou so much for this. That is so kind of you. I'm so overwhelmed this week with everyone's kindness. ❤️
Almost 30k now!!
I feel like it because so many of us have walked down the same path. One of the most important things my parents taught me was to start over as many times as necessary. If I have a pulse God has a plan! Not many people will allow themselves to be as transparent as you have been. So square your shoulders and just look back to remind yourself of the lesson’s you learned and keep it moving. You have no idea how many lives, households watch, study and apply the content you share. I am counting on you!!!
"We're not poor. We're not struggling; we're just not getting anywhere." I feel seen.
The struggle is real!! ❤ We'll get there. Thankyou for watching!!
April give yourself some grace. I can hear the pain in your voice. Life happens. Set backs happen… Don’t look back just move forward. I’m rooting for you guys!
Thankyou very much ❤️
Years ago I found my dad’s savings account book from the 1940’s-most weeks he could only deposit $.25 but never missed a week-have followed the model of saving even if it’s not the amount planned. Lessons Learned.
Hi April. I think the word you are looking for is support, not help. It is always support no matter if it is financial, emotional or physical. Don’t worry everyone has to restart at some stage in life.
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Thankyou!!!
Life happens. I have had to empty my binders 5 times. I'm glad you are back. I'm praying for you all.
Thankyou!!! ❤
Don't ever feel bad for saying you needed to help him. We as women are help mates, partners, etc. You did the right thing. Life happens to all of us. Here's to getting back on track🎉. He saw you happy and that made him happy. He was vulnerable with you, and you came to his aide. That's what a partnership is. Awesome team!!
Thankyou!! And Thankyoh for Watching ❤️
April I have had to start over twice. My husband died in December and I fell off the wagon. Started back over in March and then in July our home was destroyed by a tree making my daughter and I move out to a rental. I am starting over. Life happens and it can suck. Hang in there, you got this. The fact that you admit to your failings shows that you are a strong, resilient person.
Oh my gosh!! My Condolences to you and I'm so Sorry for all you've endured. I wish the best for you and your family. Hugs!!! ❤️
I am going to be starting over myself. I spent a week in the hospital and at the same time my partner lost his job. We have savings thankfully from sinking funds and I can cover bills. But it’s gonna be a long journey back to where we were before everything happened. Sending some support your way, you got this!
Oh no!! I'm sorry for your struggles. Situations like yours show how successful cash stuffing can be. I'm glad you had the sinking funds to see tou through :) here's to building them back up! 🍻
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Girl it’s okay.. it Happens to the best of us. I failed a few times but I’m not giving up. Hang in there and you are doing great at this. Give yourself grace.
Praying for you. It doesn't matter how many times you start over don't quit which you haven't done. I am rooting for you and very much financial success
You are so strong coming out and being 100% honest. There will be sets back, but as long as you don’t give up!!
Thankyou!!!❤
April. Don’t let let anyone judge you. We have been there. Let me say I have been there. I had 10 k in my emergency binder and probably another 7-10 k in my other binders.
Gone. All Gone. I just started over 2 weeks ago. Take a deep breath. Keep showing up for yourself. You are doing a phenomenal job.
Thankyou!!!
April, I think sometimes we get carried away with the budgeting momentum because it is a thrill to see money adding up in our envelopes. We forget that we budget so that we can face life's challenges too, when it happens. Dave Ramsey calls him Murphy. You had that cash when you needed it the most and that is what really matters. Had you not been budgeting, you would have been in a more worse situation. Don't give up, change your perspective and know that you really are just like all the rest of us. Human. Trying to get by in life....BUT....we have a secret weapon....The Budget!
Thank-you for being vulnerable and transparent. It makes me feel normal. Great video!
Awww Thankyou so much for this! I completely agree. Thats why I immediately started cash stuffing again. I knew how important is for my family.
This is so true. That's what I realized after I myself went through this same thing in August. I am thankful I did have my savings.
@@Aprilsonabudget Thanks for liking my comment. I also wanted to pass on that with the experience that you recently had, that tells me to beef up the emergency funds. Me included. That way we dip less into our other funds. There are so many people out there who don’t budget and it’s catastrophic for them. This is why you do what you do on RUclips to hopefully help those who need to learn the system. Thanks so much!
The pain in your voice is heartbreaking…. Just know that we have all been there! This is just a blip on the radar for you guys! Appreciate how fortunate you are that you’re on the same mission together! So many couples are not! Your lessons learned and transparency will likely help others even more than if your plan had turned out perfectly! We all have setbacks…. It’s about what you do next! Thanks for sharing your journey, uphill and down.. Also, anxiety is a beast! Take care of you first! It makes the rest of the journey a lot more manageable.. Much love!!
Hello, I just started my journey, but I’m struggling! Thank you for being open and honest. You inspire me to keep going!
I'm so glad! ❤
Hi April,
I commend you for being brave and transparent with your RUclips family. It's okay to admit that you messed up on something and it's okay to start over/refresh. Give yourself some grace. Look at the positive. Your hard work and passion for what you do is actually what helped your situation. Imagine if you never took the time to save like you did. You were able to pay off $900 on debt at the drop of a hat. Everybody can't say that. And $20 seems small compared to what you had saved up when this happened but that's $20 not being wasted elsewhere and $20 towards your goals. Thank you for sharing and please know what you're going through is normal/life. It's okay. 💙
Thankyou! ❤️
April, please give yourself some grace. Things happen… take a deep breath… and start again… IT IS OK!!! Big hugs!!!! ( what matters is that you acknowledged it and you both are starting again) baby steps!!! You Got This!!!❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou ❤️
New sub, so proud of you guys for coming together, opening up a joint account and discussing the plan together! It can be hard doing it separately. Tyson's heart was in the right place trying to make you happy. I know it will be a struggle, your new plan, but you have each other support, so you got this!
Thankyou, and Thankyou for watching ❤
When you are paying out debt, you talk with your kids and Disney has to wait.
If we couldn't make the minimum payments ( and then some) I'd agree. But very few people are debt free these days as something always pups. But children are only children for so long. If I waited to be out of debt to go to Disney we wouldn't be able to go until she is an adult. I wouldn't save for Disney at the expense of bills or debt.
I’m a 76 year old grandmother with six grandchildren, 15, 13, 10, 8, 4, newborn (two families). Not one of the kids have been to Disney nor will they ever go. It’s never even been discussed. It’s an insanely expensive vacation. I can absolutely promise you that while disappointed, your kids will survive. It’s actually a valuable learning experience. Kids hit college so totally unprepared to manage money, credit cards, student loans, entertainment they are over their heads at 21.
@MrFalla1 Thankyou. I've never claimed a child can't live without Disney. I've never been to any Country outside North America, but that doesn't mean I think others shouldn't go. I had the pleasure of taking my now adult Son to Disney when he was 12 and it's a Vacation we both treasure and Cherish to this day. I never knew then that I'd have another child at 42, but I knew someday I'd be going back with my family. It's not a trip for my kids, it's a trip for our Family. None of us has had a vacation in 10 yrs so I'm not ashamed to want one formour family. Thankyou for watching.
@@MrsEJVcompletely agree. Children pick up on what we value based on what we DO - especially in stressful and/or important times. We were committed to including and showing our children that vacations were dependent on the choices we made regarding our family’s finances. Otherwise, what do they learn -- That it’s perfectly fine to have debt and still get to enjoy the big vacations, or whatever “it” is that’s truly not a NEED but a WANT. Needs and wants are NOT the same and are indeed completely different.
@@MrsEJVabsolutely agree. Children need a stable home full of love, healthy food and parents who are not stressed to the gills over debt or paying for expensive holidays. You can make great memories on staycations!
I think it's beautiful that all this happened because one person found a passion and another wanted to support it... at the core of all of this is love and a want to love and enjoy life. Great job on restarting the journey and NOT giving up, and now all those lessons have been learnt along the way which means this time around its going to go much better... wishing your journey the best and may that passion return swiftly
What a beautiful insight!! Thankyou very much for watching!! ❤️
New Subbie ❤❤❤ Everyone is going through money obstacles especially with the student loans starting up. Forgive yourself and move on. It’s alright. Do what you have to do. It’s your budget and you both know what needs to be done. I’m proud of you for returning , taking and starting over. Many don’t. You’ll only fail if you don’t try! Hugs and Super prayers and blessings to both of you 🎉🎉❤❤❤
Yes! Thank you!❤
April, this is my first time seeing your channel and this is the video that was suggested to me. I am in a similar situation. I am so grateful to have found your video! FIRST, let me say you and your husband are doing AWESOME. You are graciously letting us into your life, which you never have to do. The two of you were trying to help each other and in the end set yourselves back. much like the book the Gift of the Magi. As horrible as that must feel in the moment, that shows the love you have for each other. But the important thing is you started communicating. As long as you do that and stay in step and be open and honest you guys will bounce back and be where you want to be. I hear the pain in your voice. I was JUST there. Our bills took a hit because I was not putting money where it needed to go. I finally opened up to my husband and after being totally embarrassed and thinking he would be mad, he simply said "Thank you for telling me. Please lean on me." I was in tears at the support and love in that small sentence. You guys got this! Just stick together and stick to it. You can do this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. It takes an incredible amount of strength to put such a personal thing out there. We are in hard times, but I hope and pray you guys get above water and in a more comfortable place SOON! Thank you for letting me know I (and many others) are not alone. Sometimes you can feel like you are drowning alone in darkness with this type of situation because we don't tend to talk about these things with other people. Oh, and don't worry about ANY negative comments. This is between you and your family. Only YOU can determine what works for you. ~Steph
Thankyou so much 💓. I think the negative comments are from those that haven't either followed before or since. They seem to think we are living paycheck to paycheck but we aren't. We aren't rich by any stretch but we just put to much in the Binders at the expense of our bills which set us back. We took a few months, came up with a plan and put ourselves back on track with more responsible saving. We can't save much but all our bills are now paid and our debt is decreasing not increasing, so I think we're headed in the right direction! Thankyou for watching and thankyou for your lovely comment! ❤️
We've been married 32 years. As soon as we got married we had a joint account. We worked really hard and spent years living from pay to pay. You are stronger as a team and working towards a common goal.
This seems like a better plan in general. You are slowly taking positive steps to give your dollars a job!
Hi April, life happens and when it’s bad unfortunately we just have to keep moving forward. I’m so happy to hear your husband came forward to let you know what was happening. I went from the TOP to ROCK BOTTOM over night so I can understand how you felt/feel. I promise you it will get better especially now that you have a plan. I’m praying for you and your family ❤ God has your back and won’t let you down 🙏
Thankyou ❤️ ❤️
We’ve all been there! Thank you so much for sharing! You now have a new subscriber!! ❤️😎
Thankyou so much!!! Welcome!!!!
I loved hearing your story. I also struggle with severe anxiety, and I can tell how youre walking in circles in your head from the stress. I just wanted to say youve got this, girly! Every little bit counts, and getting back on the horse is an amazing first step to make towards your goals. Good luck!
Omg I've never heard that saying before, but Wow.....I couldn't have described it better!!! Thankyou for watching and and Thankyou for the well wishes. ❤️
You were so brave and I commend you for it. I’m completely knew to budgeting. I discovered it recently as I’m coming out the other side of a long mental health crisis which resulted in a diagnosis of Bi-Polar 2. I have now no money besides sick benefits. However I’ve started two money challenges. A €1 and a €2. My point being is even with a couple of euros we can start over. We can do this and keep going!
I'm so so sorry for your troubles!. When I first started cash stuffing, that's exactly how I started. 1s and 2s. It's surprising how quick they add up. I'm going to leave you my email. I have the perfect savings challenge I'd like to send you. Just send me a quick email and then I have ur email. Aprilblonski @ gmail.com. No spaces
I never watched any of your videos before this came up as a recommendation and I just wanna share my two cents that we don’t get into debt knowing how not to go into debt and it’s all a learning curve what has happened to you and your husband is all part of a learning curve. You now know what to look for and the communication to have with your partner to get on track. Unlike a lot of other financial RUclips channels, you are sharing the low point of this journey which is crucial for people who are trying to learn how to budget how to pay off debt how to combine incomes. I commend you for sharing that I’m sorry for the pain that you have gone through during this growing time, but it will help you in the long run to avoid these issues.
Definitely Thankyou!! We've learned alot.
You did just what you needed to do with the money you had available. Budgeting is hard work and is ever changing! It takes practice to figure out the best balance 🤗. Many of us have to empty those binders, regroup and start from scratch again! Your story is like so many others, just public, you are not alone ❤
Yes! Thank you!
I love that your so open i think we are all in a bind right now no matter your background or finances i send both of you lots of support and blessings ❤
Thankyou!!!!
I love that you both decided to play more as a team. One account everyone can see everything. Cool! Celebrate after each account get closed. Good job.
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1. love the nails fantastic color
2. welcome to 2023 $$$$ just goes
3. you are being way to hard on yourself
4. thank god you had in the binders to tap in
5. you will get back on top just pace yourself
one day at time
i wish you the best going forward from here
Thankyou. I'm glad it was there as well. I wish I had just taken a step back and tried to fix it though without emptying the Binders but I'm very glad it was there.
Please don’t ever let anyone tell you are doing something wrong with your family. People are always ready to throw advice your way. As a mom of 4 grown boys. I wish we had done more with them. They are only with you a short while and then they are grown have their own lives. I don’t know if you follow the Budget Mom. She says you should never put your life on hold even if you have debt. She is very successful and has been debt free . She is good to watch please find her if you haven’t yet. As far as falling behind and starting over it happens. No one should be judging you. Shame on them if they do. Emergencies happen to everyone at some point and they can’t fault you on YOUR decisions. If you make a mistake you learn and move on. You’ve got this. I’m sorry you were hurting so much in this video, but I hope so much things have gotten better for you. God bless you and your family
Thankyou so much. You are very kind!!
Money worries are just the pits and my heart goes out to you for the struggle you and yours have been going through. I most definitely think your partner's heart was in the right place. Hoping that this new start works well for you.
Thankyou ❤️
I've never watched you're videos before but your openess and vulnerability shows how strong you are. I know you aren't where you wanna be yet but you will get there. Thank you for trusting us with your story. Sending hugs to you
Thankyou ❤
Thanks for such an honest and raw video. You owe nobody an explanation. We are all works in progress. Good luck with this new chapter, you'll do great!
I appreciate that! Thankyou ❤️
April at 53 I’ve only just start cash stuffing. Forgive yourself for the past, you can’t change, but you going forward and starting again is brilliant…..be kind to yourself you are going again!
Thankyou!!
I appreciate your honesty and sharing your story. You are not alone and each day is an opportunity to get closer to your dreams coming true. You can find your way to peace.
Thankyou!!❤
Your partner obviously cares about you. You can always make more money, but you cant always find someone who loves you. Just sometimes we gotta work on making a safe place for open communication. Never about blame, just working together to make the life together better ❤
NOT to diminish the sacrifice of the work you put it, just trying to send you someone positive energy because you felt worried about the reaction towards him.
Starting over is ok! Slow and steady wins the race. Deep breaths!👍
Thankyou for watching!!❤
You are brave been so transparent. You are in a Community that will support one another. You will succeed just go slow and steady.
Agreed. We'll get there. Thankyou for watching! ❤
66k views! Wow girlie you are amazing! Start over as many times as you need ❤️
Thankyou! Yeah, this one was crazy! I truly believe that sometimes a reset is needed just to refocus and get back on track. The support after this video has been incredible :) Thankyou for watching ❤️
Oh April! You’re not alone in any of that!
How often have we all done this at one time or another for all sorts of reasons?My reasons a couple of times were not nearly as understandable as this reason you have today.
It’s okay! It’s really okay! Just let it go, and make a fresh start. Don’t punish yourself. Give yourself some grace and realize you know now what to do better this time. ❤ the only really sad thing would be if you stopped budgeting and stopped doing videos.
Love you and thank you for the honesty.
This has brought you to a place where you both are communicating about money in a better more transparent way, so it was meant to happen! It’ll make you stronger ❤❤❤
Thankyou. Agreed we are definitely in a better place now that we both have a clear picture of the finances. I'm very glad I did this video. I can't tell you how the response has helped me. Thankyou for watching! ❤️
I am starting over as well - had to clear out all of my envelopes and went from $6000 in savings to $1000 ( who has been a hard fought for $1k! Took me so so long). Have had to add money to my grocery envelopes week after week 😭 for less and less
Thank you for your transparency in this video, I've been going through similar emotions and have had a wakeup call recently. Just subscribed and I belive I'm now your 100th subbie ❤🎉 excited to be here and follow you! P.S: I have a few vocal cats 😅
Yay!! Thank you so much, #100 haha. Yes, times are definitely tough post the big C. But dusting off and moving on feels good :) thankyou again!! ❤
I love that you guys made a plan! My husband and I have joint accounts and I have to say, I think you both chose wisely! I hope this gets better for you guys! You both can do it, keep up the good work!
I hope so too! Thankyou ❤
We are humans we are not perfect !!! And we all can start all over as many times we need it!!!!!
Thankyou!!❤
I believe the word you kept searching for was support not help… you both are supporting each other in this journey
I’ve been there and guess what I’m still here. You can always get back up when you fall down. We’ve all been there and no can judge you. Keep your head up and keep going.
Thankyou!! 😊
❤❤❤Give yourself grace! Don’t give up! Your doing great!
Thankyou!!!
Glad to hear that you are better and things are better for you. Finances can really be hard. Wishing you well.
Thankyou ❤
Thank you Sis. I have been having financial challenges since my divorce 16 years ago. From almost losing my house to saving it, to being a single mom then an empty nester, then the terrible highs & lows of menopause & somewhere in there we have to balance being responsible & living a good life. Depression & Anxiety impact sooooo many of us due to all this stuff that clutters our minds. Please give yourself grace. & please know that you are a blessing to others. I've only started cash stuffing. Baby steps. & thank you. ❤
I hope things are better for you now. My anxiety began during a similar experience. I spent 7 long years going thru my divorce. In the 1st 2 yrs I lost everything including my house and was left with only a Mountain of legal debt. Then had to get thru the next 5 yrs trying to support my kids whilst paying Lawyers and keeping a roof over our heads and food in thier bellies until the divorce was finally finalized and I could pay everything off and start fresh. I swear I still have ptsd from that time in my life. Sometimes, when I'm feeling low. I look back at that time in my life, and I become immediately grateful for everything in my life today. But it's left me with this little voice in my head that reminds me it could happen again. So debt gives me major anxiety. Even small debt. Thankyou for watching.
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I love how real you are in this video and I can relate to this so much! I’m glad your video popped up in my feed and I’m happy to follow on your journey wherever it goes!
Thank you so much!!❤
❤ I had to throw the budget out the window because we had no income at one point used all of our savings and only God knows how we paid the bills but I kept being faithful to god with tithing and offering and the money was there to pay our bills!
April, thank you for sharing. This is a journey. A life-long journey. You are so strong to come on here and share your story with us. I don’t believe anyone is stress-free when it comes to money, no matter how much they make. Praying for you and your husband to communicate a lot more through this journey to building massive wealth for the two of you. ❤
It’s ok it happens. I also worked hard on our budget made it work but then we fell off again. But here i am again and you are to. We are here to support you and you are supporting us too. I love to hear the real stories. You will get it i have faith. And i know i will too. 🙏🏼
Thankyou!! Good luck to you!!
This is a realistic budget video to me. My budget only ever had about 7 dollars leftover and not much side hustle money other than an occasional extra chunk from various places or overtime at work. I'm excited to see the next video with low starting numbers.
Well then you'll be pleasantly surprised lol. My stuffing will def be low haha. But I know exactly what you mean. It's hard nit to be discouraged when you watch others stuffing 800 or 1000 a week after all thier bills are paid. No hate on them, I'm genuinely happy and envious of them. But my binders seldom see more then a $5 lol
Hey newer supporter you are human and life happens you got this 💪🏾
Thankyou :) ❤
New Subbie Here!! Congratulations on getting back up and combining your income & bills! This is the best thing you could have done. I'm rooting for you! I completely understand the passion for budgeting bc I feel the exact same. I never knew you could get so much joy from budgeting. The good thing is you have a plan and you are moving forward!
I know it's crazy!! I remember having a "silly" idea about 20 yrs ago of sticking money in assigned envelopes in a binder....my Ex laughed at me lol. Turns out I should have. I'd be rich now!! I love it, and especially this Community. The support I feel here is tear jetting and mind boggling to me. Thankyou for subbing!! ❤️
@@Aprilsonabudget oh wow!!! You would literally be rolling in cash stuffed envelopes! I love this community too!!
What a good video. You completely went i to everything. Thank you for sharing.
Thankyou for Watching!! ❤️
Thank you for your openness and honesty…it made me feel I’m not alone in my financial struggles. Thank you for showing me someone else is going through similar difficulties. Please know you are not alone either. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your current story…the operative word here is current…not permanent! Starting over is just what it is nothing more nothing less. We can learn from what causes us to have to start over so do that and move forward…that’s what I’m trying to do. You both sound like good people that are just going through a tough time in life. You both are making positive changes in your finances together. Good for you both. It’s a new beginning forward…a fresh start…life is looking up!
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤
I wish you all the best going forward…prayers for you and your family!🙏🏻
Hello April, thank you for opening up . I am starting over as well. Dont worry, you will be successful because you are persevering. Wishing you well and God bless.
Thank you! You too!❤
I'm so glad you have combined your finances, the statistics speak for themselves around doing this.
Agreed!! Thank you 😊
April you're starting over WHO hasn't? We all have to, had to or will at some point and sometimes we will have to hit restart multiple times!! This is life and there is nothing to be ashamed or sorry about. The reason you needed to start over doesn't even matter; again that's life. I wish you and your family the best and I know you will do well (as you have in the past) If you need to restart 500 times, it's ok; as long as you keep moving - YOU GOT THIS!!!
Thank you so much!!!! ❤
It's okay to start over as much as you need to..💕🙏
Never give up! You are doing more than most people..
I plan on starting myself once I get my bills in order. People like you inspire me!💯💗😉
Yes! Thank you!
Most important thing is you have each other. Your health and happiness is important. Work together as a unit and you will get back on your feet.
Thankyou. Agreed ❤
I remember reading a christmas story years ago. It is about a husband and wife, who are poor but work hard to get by. For Christmas the wife sells her hair to buy the husband a new chain for his watch because she knows how much he loves it, how much he depends on it for work and she hopes to make his life easier as he is working to support their family. The husband sells his watch to buy his wife a hairbrush, because he has seen her so patiently grow her hair long down her back, braid it each day before making dinner. He hopes to help her feel beautiful and make it easier to care for herself, not just for him. That is exactly what you both did for each other. Sacrifice can be a beautiful thing 💜 go hug your husband because y'all have a beautiful union. (common law, my butt, thats what he is!)
Well now you made me cry again! That is beautiful. Thankyou so much and Thankyou for watching!!! ❤
The story is called “The Gift of the Magi”
Hi April I just found your channel and I’m sad this is first video I was introduced to you by. You are an adult with real problems, please do not let the other people who are saving and make it look easy discourage you. No one said this process would be easy. The great thing about life is if you mess up you can try again. Practice makes perfect. This is my second time doing envelope stuffing and I am in twice the debt I was in before. But just knowing that I successfully done it before, motivates me to be able to do it again. There is no handbook on life. Please don’t beat yourself up! Life happens, give grace to yourself. You got this!!!!!
Thankyou!! I'm so glad you're persevering and sticking with the daily grind. I'm grateful to you and so many items for your understanding and encouragement!! ❤️
Hi April, Don't feel bad about starting over we are all humans . We just have to work on the situation and it can be very overwhelming. I have some anxiety myself that I just discovered about saving challenges and budgeting. When I start to do saving and budgeting some reason l feel myself starting to get overwhelmed. Then sometimes it leads me to just lay down. I'm glad that you and your husband are working together with the finances. Keep up the good work May God Bless.
Thankyou!!
I haven't finished this video yet and I'm not yet subscribed.... first time watcher actually. I just wanted to thank you for your vulnerability. I know it can't be easy to start over and to share it publicly. I just wanted you to know that you're not alone. Many of us are in similar positions as you are. Keep doing what you're doing. You're going to make it through.
Thankyou!
I feel you I’m starting Over again I’m glad that you are showing this with real emotions helps me feel like I’m not alone I’m feeling overwhelmed I’m in debt $3000 i know not alot but it’s stressing me out so much We got this 🥰 little by little we will get to where we were and more.
Thank you for being so real. Nothing wrong with starting over, always a new start. Give yourself grace.
Thankyou ❤️
April honey each day we are given we never know what’s going to happen. The blessing is there’s always a reset button. Be encourage honey you got this❤👏🏾🙌😘
Thankyou!!
April please be gentle with your thoughts. We are happy to see you back online and moving forward. We have all had our highs and lows, learn from it and keep going.
Thankyou. It's good to be back and great to be a part of this Community!!! Thankyou for watching!! ❤️
Please don’t feel bad you can get back on board! You n your partner together can get it done💪🏾you guys are in a partnership and together y’all got this!! Give yourself some grace things happen , life gets tough sometimes- at least you acknowledge this and you can start over🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾YOU GOT THIS!!!
Thankyou!! ❤
Hey, new watcher but I agree with others, give yourself some grace. Really, anything difficult usually requires humans to start over multiple times. You get credit for starting again!
😇💜🙏👏 ... thanks for sharing!
You are so welcome
People need to chill. We all make mistakes. Buying something we dont need that has no resale value, buying too much food and forgetting it to spoil, WHATEVER. The point is, we all goof up and will do so until the day we die. Next question... what can we learn from our mistake? Give ourselves the permission the donate that item that cant resell, throw away the spoiled food.. then immediatly take steps to do better. Fix it and move on! ❤ Some folks will fixate on the point of failure, some will fixate on guilt of failure, but the successful ones will forgive, learn, and do better!
Thankyou
Hi april and welcome back you are doing great , i have dealt with anxiety for 30 some yrs its hard if you need to talk let me know and life happens i had to empty my envelopes in the past month but we are glad we have saved what we have 😊❤
Thankyou for your support and Thankyou for watching. I'm okay now, I think my nerves got the better of me while filming. I'm so glad to be back and so Happy to be stuffing again!
New subbie here to support ❤You are in the right community. People are great here. “Let Go and Let God” it’s ok to take a break. The most important thing is that you’re coming back!
Thankyou!! ❤️
Things happen. Just pick yourself up and begin again. Your husband is so sweet by trying to help you. Tomorrow is a new day.
Yes! Thank you!
Thank you for your transparency! Life happens and glad you guys are working together and have a plan. You got this!
Thankyou!! ❤️
Don’t be upset. And don’t beat yourself up. Life is a constant series of starting over. Only giving up is shameful. Not having to cope with a failure. Only the strong and dutiful face their failures with hope and faith.
Thankyou.
Appreciate you for sharing your struggles. Working as a team and combining incomes is a smart move. We too had a healthy looking budget and it all got spent when my husband suffered a traumatic injury. I havent cash stuffed in over a year and because of your post I'm going to pull out my empty binders and start a fresh too! Thank you dear. You have inspired me to get back on the train to financial freedom. ❤ I will be following you! 😊
Thankyou for watching!!!
My marriage improved beyond what i could have dreamed of when we combined all money and put every penny on a spreadsheet. Ive been where you are, done the crying myself to sleep. I mean this very genuinely - you will soon be glad this happened. Best of luck for everything. You're so close to 1000 subscribers so hopefully monetization is close for you too!
We've always had a string relationship thankfully, but its certainly taught us a huge lesson I'm a Communication and working together. Thank you so much for watching!! ❤
❤ love the honesty I am starting over and I felt bad about it your video has encouraged me to get back to where I was
I'm so glad!!! Thankyou for watching ❤
You have shown great courage in first admitting and accepting that there may have been a problem - and then tackling it. So many experts who work with every day people will say the same thing to you. There are plenty of people who really bury their heads in the sand and hope that it will go away and all that does is make the problem worse. I hope you continue with the same strength you have shown in this video and I wish you all the best. x
Thankyou!! All the best to you as well!! ❤️
April, I would like to make a few Suggestions, not bad ones maybe they will give you ideas on helping your budget.
The first one is When you get a big amount of money pay a big chunk on the largest credit cars, and pay off your Callihan, even if you have a tight budget for 2 wks til you get paid..It's worth it.
Next is I live in the country, and we have well water, It's OK to cook with, take showers, and wash dishes with, the hot water, has like to much iron in it, so we really don't drink the water it won't hurt us but we just dont..
We had gotten a water softener from a hard ware store, but it didn't last long because it didn't take care of all the iron and mineral in it.
Here's the drinking water solution..
Walmart had a water stand and the huge water jugs you just put on the stand it plugs in and you can drink that water, it cold or you can put ice in it..Also they make ones you can flip a switch if you want hot water.
The jug only cost $25. I don't even go through that much a month. It's up to you to buy more water in the jug as you run out, or buy bottled water..You buy the stand out right, it cost me $90 for mine but you can buy a nicer one for like $125 or how ever much you want to spend on it..
Way cheaper the the Culligan set.. put a filter on your kitchen fact, it just screws on it and filters your water.. you can buy that at Walmart or a hard ware store..
Not expensive at all..
These are suggestions for you..
Yes, we don't drink our water, we buy it. But our water really smelled bad and was very discolored. Also made my hair like straw. We required a filtration system unfortunately. But agreed, I won't drink it or cook with it even though we've been assured it's safe...I just can't do it lol. As for the debt and culligan, thats exactly what we're doing, but we have to take care of arrears first. Currently my card is the only one I want to access in an emergency so I want to get it at least 1k below the limit which is why I put the extra 100 there and an extra 100 on the biggest card. But yes...after the arrears and my cards 1k, culligan will become my main focus...that suckered needs to go. Thank you so much for watching and for your input. ❤
New subbie. Welcome back. I’m trying to get out of consumer debt myself and right now what I am doing is doing saving challenges to fund my sinking fund envelopes and so forth. Never feel bad about starting over. Things happen to all of us and we just have to keep moving forward
Thanks for subbing! I'm doing exactly the same thing. I have a few mini challenges that I plan to use for sinking funds and savings. Every bit helps. Thankyou again!! ❤
Honestly I love this video it's real and not fake like a lot of bugeters. Thank you for sharing this gives me and I'm sure others hope for succeeding at budgeting.
Thankyou so much for watching. ❤️
im so sorry-- sometimes we have to start over. i just found you but thank you for talking about this! I actually tried to cash budget back when i was in my 20's and totally failed. then did it again. i am so glad that you are trying again.
Thankyou!!!
I am new to your channel and to budgeting. I have been in your shoes. It can be done. I look forward to your journey and to seeing us both succeed.
Thankyou! I hope for your success as well! ❤️
You’re not alone April and it’s okay to start over. I’m starting over too! We’re in it together!! Sending you and Tyson love, light and grace. We’re rooting for you guys!!♥️🙏🏼🫶🏽
Thankyou so much ❤
Starting from square one? That's where I am. I just subscribed so I can get started at the beginning. I suffer depression so I kinda understand your struggle.
Almost. I still had my Penny Challenge and some Disney Money left. Thank for following and I wish you success in your Journey. Also, if you start a Channel, let me know...I will def follow along.
I am so glad that you have come back k to budgeting. I am sad you went through that but the important thing is you picked yourself up! You are back on the track! I am routing for you.
Thank you, it's good to be back ❤
Life is HARD and long, and life just happens.😊
It sure does! ❤
Aww April! 😢❤ give yourself some time! ❤ I too am on the same boat! I am restarting over and It’s hard but we got this! We love you! ❤
I have really bad anxiety, too, so I understand you
Thankyou!!❤
@@Aprilsonabudget Of course, please take care ❤