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A kind of a package personality that... they're rarely, because they're not playing games. They're just very balance to the things, situations, and had a strong emotions. They're very aware of what's happening around. These personalities normal for them. It's like they're born to be like that. Their emotions, are connected to all creations, surroundings in the nature. As for me, my opinions.
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I can't speak for anyone else, but I have changed a great deal in terms of what I put up with from others and who I give my empathy to. When I was 20 years old, I was an open book and I would tell anybody anything or let anybody tell me anyting. I was also a doormat and allowed myself to be used. After dealing with a lot of problems from this in my twenties, I started to change more and more as I got older. Now, about turn 70, I keep to myself a lot more and, while I do volunteer work to help people one-on-one, I am no longer as prone to helping EVERYone. I've gotten burned with lending money and with trusting a friend with personal information. I've now learned that people will use you if you let them and I no longer let them. That doesn't mean I don't still love to help people.
@@sunsets686 My relatives always misunderstand me they wouldn't even hear what I say first and also always thinks of ways to find loopholes in my questions or answers. If I was right they wouldn't say like oh I see but, move on to another topic, I just hate it.
To all the other INFJs in the chat... You are not alone my friend! We were never meant to fit in but that's ok! I couldn't help but smile when I found out I was meant to be an outsider
For years I was sure I had an invisible sign that said “I’m available to listen to your deepest issues, I understand”. While at the same time not fitting in in any group
Totally agree with you. ❤️ We probably live because we keep the chain of life together so that the hope of peace and harmony is visible for the humanity.
I’m sure you guys understand this one.. When little social groups begin to form and you’re not in any of them. The loner social butterfly. That was my life in high school.
I'm 72 and just discovered within the last 2 years that I am an INFJ. It explains so much of my life - investing time in sociopaths, constantly creating to keep myself grounded, thinking constantly even when I should be sleeping, wondering why other people are not like me, feeling misunderstood........ I'm so glad for you if you are learning this when you are in your 20s or 30s.
As a mature INFJ, I detect the evil in people.. I have the ability to (almost smell) the evil in people.. I feel it in my heart, I pick it up in their eyes, their body language.. It's NOT as if I didn't read people as a younger INFJ, have the ability to see this evil before, I did, but my desire to help people was too strong.... I understood that they were just using me, (INFJ my kindness, goodness, giving nature).. It's just that I felt "as an immature NFJ" I could help them, change them.. (it doesn't work).. Oh no, that doesn't work, you can't fix stupid, you have to walk away from psychopaths, narcissistic, narcissistic-sociopaths, sociopaths, borderline personality disorders etc, as all they do is destroy people... Over the decades I realized people use (INFJs) our kindness, empathy, compassion, playing us like a 🎻 violin, use us for a crutch an enabler.. Sooner or later your intuition has got to tell you STOP.. You have to recognize there is no fixing these kinds of people, don't be a martyr.. mar·tyr ˈmärdər/ noun a person who is killed because of their religious or other beliefs. "saints, martyrs, and witnesses to the faith" verb kill (someone) because of their beliefs.
When I meet an evil person, the hairs on the back of my arms stand up. This has always been present in me. Even before I look into their ( black) soul ,I know I should walk away
It's refreshing to learn I'm not alone 🎉 Intriguing to realize that while I'm not like everyone else, there's truly a method to my madness. 😁 Which I have known all along!
It was 50 yrs ago when I got tired of hearing that there was method to my madness. I decided I would refer to it as there is madness to my method. BTW I'm 66 yrs old and have few if any regrets. Until my college years I was a self imposed outsider. I was the ugly duckling in public school, btw, that was my favorite children's story.
It is Great to be an INFJ for the longest time we were fell under the 1% of humanity as a Rare type. It has been such a beautiful journey but sometimes we are very misunderstood and people take our gift and kindness as a weakness but we are far from weak. We are very Intelligent Brilliant and Gifted, always trying to pull the best out in people. Always trying to give them some positivity no matter how mundane their day may be. Sending lots of love to all who need it.😇💞
Watching these videos make me feel so much more normal lol. I’ve never understood why I am so different from the rest of the world until finding these videos to learn more about myself! Thank you! 🙌🙏
Imagine growing up in a home full of extroverts and never understanding why nobody could make the connections that were second nature to me. From a very early age I always heard the unspoken question and tempered my response accordingly
All the answers i asked for ,i just discovered it within me by knowning that Iam an infj person .and i'm not a lone ,so i can say the same here ..u r not a lone .😉😉😉
What ever you do don't fall for a Narcissist, I did and journeyed with him and eventually he was putting me off my path and the dedication I put into him and others, He twisted it saying I was wasting my time on others, They try rob you of true self and use it against you ,with negative words, Run away glad I did,🏃🏃🏃🙏💗
@Gavin... Nuff said Same here, never felt so crushed in my life. I saw it for what it was but willingly embraced ignorance. Wouldn't change it although I'm struggling a bit still I know suffering leads to strength and even more empathy lol. I'm never giving any substantial amount of myself to anyone up front, even if I have so much love to give. Better kept boiling over than wasted on anyone who doesn't deserve it.
Just knowing I am so different from everyone else and learning and growing everyday is Amazing I am very intuitive and it is Amazing Thank You God for who I am
Definitely super observant and as for learning, I can never get enough of learning new things whether it be skill sets or culture or whatever it may be. I am very curious, adventurous yet cautious which in itself is contradictory.
Idea , maybe it’s hard for people to read us and us, read ourselves because we’re in a state of constant change , always moving toward trying take the lessons, even in the smallest of situations…. We’re like water … you can’t hold us…
Yeah, it's like we're constantly evolving with all the information we're gathering. Information gathering is compulsive things for me. Sometimes I do it without conscious thought just like chewing curd - I need time to ponder what I'd gather, put away some for further, some as done n some as lesson learned... So my own self is fun, I don't need others around me but then I crave for children n animals - they seem to know without words I care n love n they accept. Does this make sense?
1-Need to Help 2-Keen observers (curious nature) 3-Natural Empathy - *learn to set boundaries! 4-Incredible Creativity (frees mind; grounds) 5-Quick & Efficient Learners (wisdom; need to learn; enjoys the journey)
It's good to also know not all infjs are the same the personality max shows us that within each there are % of specific traits within our personality so some are more mature or intune
We are considered weird people because, INFJ are highly evolved people on many levels, mainly emotional and psychological also spiritual. INFJare old souls, usually in the last incarnation. They seem wiser then others because they went through many incarnation and they dont want to repeat the same mistakes that they learned from. They create their own boundaries and their own code of living. They dont get impressed by much, only by being authentic. Character of a person is more important to them than position, fame,money etc. I had many one on one conversations with God , asking Why Did you create me to be so sensitive? Only now in my mature age ,I know it is a blessing 💖💖💖
I really enjoy your INFJ videos. Most of them are spot on! This one, however, was truly 100% accurate. As an older individual and one who had no internet and therefore no explanation for who I was (I am 61 years-old), I can easily look back and see all these aspects of myself as a young teen and person. It's nice to think that the new generation of INFJ will be able to understand themselves early on thru channels like yours.
I identify with all 5 strengths. Because I’m almost 60, I’ve adapted to only “seeing the good” in people, to understanding that these same individuals still need accountability for their harmful behaviors. I’ve always known, that I need recovery time, according to how much I’ve invested in others, and have gotten excellent at reserving more of my initial energy, for my own well-being.
I'd like to see a video that shows how an INFJ can get out of depression. After so many years of being taken for granted n advantage of, naturally some of us will fall into a hole of hatred. How can we get past this?
L Harris I too am a INFJ My last name is also Harris There’s only one way out of these feelings you have. It is to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Read the Bible and look for a life partner who is of the same faith morals and values. I promise you a whole new Life of peace and joy. We all want to be loved. God loves us unconditionally. He loves you right where you are. This is the love you are looking for. Find this first . Love yourself. Know who you’re in Him. Look for that in a partner. Happiness will pursue. You’re enough. ♥️
All my life I fell into the trap of making excuses for parasites and untrustworthy people due to misplaced empathy, no more, now I set firm boundaries or doorslam abusers the hell out of my life faster than you can say "I am an INFJ".
Absolutely resonates 💯..... Mastery of self became essential for my own growth and understanding of myself.... A woman once called me a dragon but what she really meant by that is that I'm undoubtedly an INFJ.... I'm always learning and have a great yearning for higher learning.... ty for providing more clarity on a deeper level of who I really am....
I took the Myers Briggs test and came out infj, idk why but I didn't feel as though I am one so I took it again.. still infj, tried to switch up a few answers to more appeal to what I was assuming were grooming questions that I could instantly tell is what they require to be an infj.. after the third time, still infj. I'm cursed but blessed Edit: let me iterate.. Bring a infj is listening to music and understanding why that song was made and feeling the emotion the artist pours into every note they sing every vibrato there vocal chords throw and every whale on a guitar keyboard or ect.. It's "why are you crying at the monsters song..?" "It's deeper than you think" 2) talking to a lover or potential lover you'll like them because they either need help emotionally or mentally,the fact is most infj's never get the amount of understanding back that they give thus leading to them feeling isolated andisunderstood even by one's we think care the most. 3) I could go on forever but falling under the category of love again, an infj will pick up on your constants and inconsistents.. meaning you may kiss there forehead every morning and tell them I love you, take a shower with them and act clingy to them.. but the one day you wake up groggy needing coffee and dont want to shower the infj will notice this and may see it as an attack. Best thing to do if you behavior does consistently change from doing the routine to not is to explain why and be as transparent and open as humanly possible.. remember your dealing with someone who's not a mind reader or a psychic but someone who's emotions run 65% of there daily functionality.. 4) back to the routine thing.. infj's fall in love with stability and routine.. they hate being put off the same path they've been taking for ever and ever and hate 8t when a plan falls through, especially trips a planned date they may have been looking forward to or a simple movie night.. it feels as bad as betrayal to them and is one of the infj's "idk why I act like that, I really love you and our time together but for some reason I'm just sad upset and angry about this now" situations so beware, never break change or manipulate plans to an infj.. 5) manipulation tactics work.. only in the case of loved ones, they will blind themselves for what they think is love. It's just how they think, if you ever love an infj you would never try to emotionally manipulate them as the second they see through this, and they always do, you will never be trusted again. Most infj's love that one person in there life more than the concrete beneath there feet when they walk the sidewalk.. mostly because they spend there lives in constant isolation. They find just one person who can put up with them they think that person is the one.. of course it will only feel more fulfilling to the infj if that person I question is hurting themselves amd can use the healing power an infj can finally use then you are in for the long run. 6) no games no nonesense.. you play around and don't take your infj seriously eventually although it feels like I would kill then to do so.. they will stop texting you calling to check up if they did and will practically dissappear from your life. It's called the door slsm to many knowledgeable infj's who read up on the subject.. you will never hear from them again no matter how bad they want to. 7) infj rage can be more violent than a ufc fighter on steroids watching someone make fun of his or her wife or husband. Imagine a stranger coming up to you and within moments picking apart every negative part of your entire existence and leaving you feeling horrible.. if youhurt an infj or at least make them angry you'll never see the light of day again. Don't anger them. 8) sad movies songs video games etc.. when I was younger I would love books movies and gaming. But u til I grew older I didn't realize my favorite or most memorable parts were those where someone tragically lost a loved one or where the good guy gets beat and simply has to deal with it.. its not that it's relatable it's that we just can't help but put ourselves in those shoes no matter if we've walked in them before or not we feel for the character.. batman for example, lost his parents grew up a loner and is stern and hard headed about everything he does meanwhile only having one friend, his butler. It's something infjs feel relatable but also intriguing as we want to monitor this feeling. 9) trust doesn't exist until you've given yourself to them 1000% not 100.. not 2.. but 1000, they havent trusted anyone since maybe the 5th grade. It would take a miracle to gain the trust of someone who barely trusts themselves. So if you feel as though you have the trust of one, be honest be open and never question why they act the way they do.. whether there asking to see your phone real quick or if there staring off into space wondering how long you may take to notice there always in the trust game.. be responsive and understand its not against you, there fighting themselves too and are trying there heart out to not blurt out problems they think might be happening so as not to disturb the oeave you momentarily have. Its a safety net. 10) there humor goes beyond typical jokes and funny videos. There going to surprise you by one second being quiet and the next making you laugh about the word pudding and for no reason as well but you will find there humor is unlike anything you have ever seen.. 11) the psychic stuff, it's more or less the infj being an overthinker, "what if he's not really on that game on his phone but is texting that person I saw him acting awkwardly nice too last weekend"? It's a way of them observing you and noticing your patterns and behavior, you tell an infj you were dishonest once about anything weather it be a relationship or just your favorite type of food, the infj will have no conscious choice but to sit and assume why, putting themselves in your shoes and seeing you from your own perspective then stepping out of them and viewing you from your families perspective then there own. And if they don't like what they think it will bother them u til the end of time or at least u til they snap and finally let it out and ask you why you cheated on that ex or wasn't because you.... you know the drill 12) love us all they live for love and honesty,be both of those things to am infj and you will be rewarded with insight. Dates.giftsNd so much more, also..don't be weirded out if they don't like someone and won't tell you why,usually you put them in a position to make them feel obligated to like that person in the first place but the infj has already read there mind as well and are not happy with the motives they may be coming up to in the end. They won't obviously tellyou if they feel as though you would rather defend the other person I stead of hearing them out or ignoring your words entirely to still be friends with them and try to just for e the friendship.. infj's are loners for a reason, you may be stressing them out internally asking them to like someone they have a gut feeling about that tells them not to..
The MBTI system helped me to find the INFJ map for my life compass. Now I can live within my true personality. It's such a relief. Thanks for a great video!!!
Some other strenghts If I can contribute: 1) When we commit to our projects or goals, rarely we dissmiss from them, we normally finnish every of our own goal (not reffering to the office or the company's goals if we work for others). 2. ) We are good organizers and schedulers, 3) We think in advance some possible scenerios for our work or our families and have an idea of what to do if something wrong will happen, normally we have good % of prediction on errors or situation ocurred in our proyects, 4) We are terribly stubborn if something do not match with our analized view of the procedures and the hole picture. 5) We used to go to physical activities often (manual working, drawing, painting, sports etc), to recharge. Those things require just little menthal effort, so after a good job on that, we can return to mental activities. 6) We have some special understanding of at least one of a pet animal specie and that also help us to reconect to the social world.
I definitely consider myself as this... Truly!!! Lol I think it's were highly sensitive, but intuitive...I feel like we manifest ...alot. And it's a struggle, dealing with our emotions with the world around us...trying to keep in alignment. Strong emotions and feelings... 24/7. I know me..I get burnt out..and even that feels strong when it happeneds.
On Christmas evening in 2004 I was enjoying the evening with my uncle and our neighbors. While standing in his kitchen, I suddenly collapsed to the floor in a heap. I quickly recovered with everyone dumbfounded as to what had occurred. I later discovered that a devastating earthquake had just happened on the exact other side of the world that washed away more than 200,000 souls. (There is a twelve hour difference where I live.) We are empaths.
Just learned im an INFJ-T and for the first time in my life my "crazy" makes sense. why i feel alone in crowds. why i can sense dissect & mirror others emotions. only seeing the best in people. literally playing out 10000000 scenarios for the simplest things. the mental and emotional exhaustion 🙄 thank you for these videos.
As an INFJ-A I sometimes overthink over 99% possible outcomes of an situation often finding loophole in it. Even my teacher sometime have no answer for it. And my strength is that i came out as a confident n' calm person like "it is what it is " type of person while having a mental breakdown internally.
Intuition and our ability to see through fake/narcissistic people is most important to understand and trust, as without it our empathy is taken advantage of.
I definitely relate to these. I need to remember to avoid toxic people. I've always said there are three things that push me too far. I hate liars, thieves and cheats. Those will bring out a side of me that even I don't like.
Yall always put out some great videos in my opinion, but for me personally this was the most relatable video yet! Definitely made me smile a few times. Thanks so much for what yall do....it's greatly appreciated! 🙏🏽
My mother told me I was going in circles when I was young. I tried to explain that it was a spiral. Many just think linearly, but that doesn't coverthe territory.
It's SO MUCH TRUE... ‼️ We INFJs can see even through the ugly truth so perfectly ... Still....we try our best to stay quiet about THAT and even try to focus more upon the good sides only ‼️
I had no idea that’s why i take SUPER long walks with the doggo every single day, sometimes multiple multiple times a day, through new places constantly, without a care in the world. I’m sure I look like a vagrant walking around all starry eyed but it’s my routine and I love it every single time 🤩🥰
I use to think I was crazy , or I’d purposely ignore my gut to see if the outcome is what I’d thought it would be .. highly into music .. I picked up skating during the pandemic a year ago and I’ve been teaching for 7 months now .. I’m so happy to not be alone
Now knowing what I am, it feels like there's a flooding into all my questions about myself that I didn't understand before. The empathy part really hits me because as I was younger, I cared so much about everyone around me that I got so drained without knowing it, and I had to take quick nap or even a very long one to recharge. 😅
Since I've started watching these PSYCH-O vids about INFJ I have experienced incredible relief. Things I have fretted about since I was a child (I'm 74) are understandable now. My lifelong feeling of being alone has dissolved. I feel like I have been welcomed into a family in which I didn't know I belonged. To be honest, I could believe people spend thousands to achieve this same degree of knowledge, wisdom, fulfillment and inner peace. Thank you.
I found a great deal of comfort and knowledge in this video and others I have a studying narcissism and empaths for about a year and a half now maybe two years I wish I could have had this knowledge when I was younger and I also wish that other people had added this knowledge because I sure would have been a lot easier for myself I want to thank you very much you never came out with this because it has changed my life and others
It is absolutely blowing my mind that not just I can relate to every single example to a tee but that there are exactly other people the same.. to a tee.. fascinating stuff, Ive always studied everyone/everything else in the world lol, but never myself .. til now. I find it hilarious that I've literally had no idea about who I am in alot sense .. I like that I thinks it's kinda awesome I'm discovering me ☺️
Every time someone asks me what kind of person am I you're different I'm always saying I'm a different type of person I'm special but now there's an actual personality type I am every single one of these things and it's crazy cuz I never knew this type existed I always thought that I was just weird and then I thought differently than everybody else but finally I know my type and everything said in this video is 100% correct thank you you have no idea how much this has helped me
one of the rewards in helping others is overcoming the barriers & jobsworth rules & red tape that kept them helpless & hopeless in the 1st place, every little help is a mini revolution
That was an amazing video. All of those traits are Quintessential INFJ. Especially the part where you say wanting to see the best in people can sometimes blur the intuition.. So true
does anyone else relate to the feeling of coming off flippant/ shallow / goofy / flaky / soft...etc ...but knowing you are anything but soft / dumb / weak ? I play the fool a lot ....but i know i can flick the switch and be very intense .
when i was a kid & teen, i struggled a lot. i didnt understand all the information i was constantly being bombarded with. it can still be mentally & emotionally draining.. im just glad im not alone with all of this.
The mention of non stop learning, i have said many times that you never stop learning until your 6 feet down. Constant desire to create whatever is needed with whatever is in reach, that MacGyver moment, this is what drives me. Thankyou.
I'd always been puzzled by close friends acting like I'm psychic. I generally assumed that I had missed something or that they are projecting. But this is starting to make sense. Thanks
I meet many of the criteria - if not all - of the INFJ. Certainly except for one. Human nature. The following is what I've experienced in life (I'm 60) which God reinforces. Jeremiah 17:9 "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?"
I'm an old soul born as a Pisces baby born too under the year of the dragon.. I don't know why I became an INFJ...i wish I hadn't known this but I'm happy too because now, I don't feel lost. I feel very lonely because I don't dance in most people's tune and I always find myself out of place, alone and sad. Now, thank you to RUclips that I have come to encounter my fellow 1% INFJ sisters and brothers around the world. That's why RUclips became my refuge though I hate RUclips for it's unfair censorship sometimes. I love learning about us because it's through this that I find peace and clarity of myself.
Number 3 made me cry. That’s exactly what I see when I say “we are one race human”. It’s like come onnn people... some just need an hug! Don’t be an asshole.
1.) I'm willing to help others, but as I've gotten older, I've learned to be more pragmatic about giving that help. I tend to steer clear of helping people who do not show gratitude. 2.) I do have a knack for making connections where most people don't. I see analogies in everything. I often explain things using metaphors. 3.) I can't choose to be unempathetic when in close proximity to someone who is divulging (basically any amount, even small amounts of) personal information. However, I am capable of appearing unempathetic in response to groups of people (primarily ideologues), despite being able to understand why they hold their poorly formed world views. 4.) I am pre-disposed to perform well at any endeavor that requires creativity (or thinking outside the box). It stems from a natural curiosity, "what happens if I try this?" An inclination to ask "why?" However, I tend to avoid creative pursuits because my perfectionism causes a sense of never being truly satisfied with my creation. 5.) Certainly a good learner, which is a direct result of high IQ. It would be interesting to know whether or not certain personality types tend to have higher average IQ. I generally test around 130, plus or minus 2 points. From my research, men are less likely to be INFJ than women. Despite it being a rare personality type, I happen to have a parent that is also INFJ, so I wonder what role genetics might play.
We can ALWAYS see a way out of a situation… that’s why we’re so helpful willingly.. but that’s a non toxic INFJ 😆.. And for the most part we’re super optimistic
i mostly test as infj... sometimes as intj..... it seems to me that these are not actually descriptions of personality types.... though they are accumulations of indicators from personality evidence, these are actually Mind types..... ...that we are looking at through appearing or evidencing personality behaviours... ... otherwise ... very interesting and accurate description of much of me.... though it seems to me we are more than this....
It is great knowing I am not truly alone . It is great knowing also that there truly is a method to the madness.. and yes I agree completely with it all. Thank you for bring all to light maybe others will begin to understand us INFJ.
It's ME to a Tee. Everything *fits. & I dig it 👍❤bcuz it feels amazing when you understand this is why I was sooo different from others. But I didn't know what I was. Now it ALLLL makes sense.
I find that the ability to read others/detect their true motives goes into steroid mode after smoking pot. You can see very clearly whether the other person is with you or against you, has good intentions or bad intentions, etc.
For the longest time i didn't understand why people were coming to me as if they were drawn to me like a magnet. Wow that is interesting, i thought that i was a tad bit nerdy or something. When i had gotten back from the Navy my adopted mom had been taking college courses since my dad had passed away, she was taking a statistics class and she and a church friend that was tutoring her at the time had both gotten stuck with a section of the book. I had offered to take a look at it to see if i could be able to explain it differently so they could understand it... Well it took me about an hour and a hafl to figure it out after looking at my mom's notes and also going through that section and a couple previous sections of the book as well so i could teach myself before i explained it to them... Im proud to say that my mom had gotten on the Dean's list. And i believe she had gotten a B+ in that class
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A kind of a package personality that... they're rarely, because they're not playing games. They're just very balance to the things, situations, and had a strong emotions. They're very aware of what's happening around. These personalities normal for them. It's like they're born to be like that. Their emotions, are connected to all creations, surroundings in the nature. As for me, my opinions.
Make a video on what’s next for the INFJs. How can a INFJ use this knowledge to their advantage? What ultimately happens to a INFJ? Where can a INFJ meet another INFJ? How can a INFJ become a better INFJ?
All of them
I can't speak for anyone else, but I have changed a great deal in terms of what I put up with from others and who I give my empathy to. When I was 20 years old, I was an open book and I would tell anybody anything or let anybody tell me anyting. I was also a doormat and allowed myself to be used. After dealing with a lot of problems from this in my twenties, I started to change more and more as I got older. Now, about turn 70, I keep to myself a lot more and, while I do volunteer work to help people one-on-one, I am no longer as prone to helping EVERYone. I've gotten burned with lending money and with trusting a friend with personal information. I've now learned that people will use you if you let them and I no longer let them. That doesn't mean I don't still love to help people.
@@sunsets686 My relatives always misunderstand me they wouldn't even hear what I say first and also always thinks of ways to find loopholes in my questions or answers. If I was right they wouldn't say like oh I see but, move on to another topic, I just hate it.
The thing we learn as we INFJs get older is setting clear boundaries around parasites.
Indeed.!..blessings💜
So very true.. yet it can be a painful journey of trail and error 😅
Aedyn jak 100% in agreement with you Stay safe and well Godbless to you, myself and all the other good decent people from another INFJ
I’m still working on this.
And inihilating the parasite with raw truth... 🤣
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To all the other INFJs in the chat...
You are not alone my friend! We were never meant to fit in but that's ok! I couldn't help but smile when I found out I was meant to be an outsider
For years I was sure I had an invisible sign that said “I’m available to listen to your deepest issues, I understand”. While at the same time not fitting in in any group
Great comment, my friend! Thank you for that
I have been am outside my whole life.
Totally agree with you. ❤️ We probably live because we keep the chain of life together so that the hope of peace and harmony is visible for the humanity.
I’m sure you guys understand this one.. When little social groups begin to form and you’re not in any of them. The loner social butterfly. That was my life in high school.
I'm 72 and just discovered within the last 2 years that I am an INFJ. It explains so much of my life - investing time in sociopaths, constantly creating to keep myself grounded, thinking constantly even when I should be sleeping, wondering why other people are not like me, feeling misunderstood........ I'm so glad for you if you are learning this when you are in your 20s or 30s.
I am 17 grand pa....
I guess it's best that "we" learn better-late-than-never .
21 really glad
There will still be plenty to learn, no matter how early you find out. INFJ tends to be a late bloomer. 😂
As a mature INFJ, I detect the evil in people..
I have the ability to (almost smell) the evil in people..
I feel it in my heart, I pick it up in their eyes, their body language..
It's NOT as if I didn't read people as a younger INFJ, have the ability to see this evil before, I did, but my desire to help people was too strong....
I understood that they were just using me, (INFJ my kindness, goodness, giving nature)..
It's just that I felt "as an immature NFJ" I could help them, change them.. (it doesn't work)..
Oh no, that doesn't work, you can't fix stupid, you have to walk away from psychopaths, narcissistic, narcissistic-sociopaths, sociopaths, borderline personality disorders etc, as all they do is destroy people...
Over the decades I realized people use (INFJs) our kindness, empathy, compassion, playing us like a 🎻 violin, use us for a crutch an enabler..
Sooner or later your intuition has got to tell you STOP..
You have to recognize there is no fixing these kinds of people, don't be a martyr..
mar·tyr
ˈmärdər/
noun
a person who is killed because of their religious or other beliefs.
"saints, martyrs, and witnesses to the faith"
verb
kill (someone) because of their beliefs.
Well said and very true!!! 👏👍Fellow INFJ here.
So well said...can relate to every word!
Reading your life story, I can see myself too. Thanks for the reflection. 🙂
Idk I'll die a Martyr. Perhaps they'll remember me.
When I meet an evil person, the hairs on the back of my arms stand up. This has always been present in me. Even before I look into their ( black) soul ,I know I should walk away
It's refreshing to learn I'm not alone 🎉 Intriguing to realize that while I'm not like everyone else, there's truly a method to my madness. 😁 Which I have known all along!
It was 50 yrs ago when I got tired of hearing that there was method to my madness. I decided I would refer to it as there is madness to my method.
BTW I'm 66 yrs old and have few if any regrets. Until my college years I was a self imposed outsider. I was the ugly duckling in public school, btw, that was my favorite children's story.
I think I'll adopt that change in phrase.. great perspective
Sameeee!!! Lol
An art teacher of mine always said that, "method to my madness"..
Hear here!
It is Great to be an INFJ for the longest time we were fell under the 1% of humanity as a Rare type. It has been such a beautiful journey but sometimes we are very misunderstood and people take our gift and kindness as a weakness but we are far from weak. We are very Intelligent Brilliant and Gifted, always trying to pull the best out in people. Always trying to give them some positivity no matter how mundane their day may be. Sending lots of love to all who need it.😇💞
Well said, my friend! Thank you for your comment🙏
Awww Bunny Love, that is a lovely thing to say. Thanks🤗
Thank you
How many of you have met others like you? Me maybe twice in my 45 yrs. One I call a dear friend! We LOVE to rift off each other it’s AMAZING!
1.Always willing to help other.
2.Uncanny observation.
3.Natural empathy.
4. Incredible creativity.
5.Quick and efficient learner.
Watching these videos make me feel so much more normal lol. I’ve never understood why I am so different from the rest of the world until finding these videos to learn more about myself! Thank you! 🙌🙏
Same here
Imagine growing up in a home full of extroverts and never understanding why nobody could make the connections that were second nature to me. From a very early age I always heard the unspoken question and tempered my response accordingly
Love that - thank YOU for supporting and encouraging us!
All the answers i asked for ,i just discovered it within me by knowning that Iam an infj person .and i'm not a lone ,so i can say the same here ..u r not a lone .😉😉😉
Ikr
growing up with narcissists make you feel like an outcast until you find v ideos like this
What ever you do don't fall for a Narcissist, I did and journeyed with him and eventually he was putting me off my path and the dedication I put into him and others, He twisted it saying I was wasting my time on others, They try rob you of true self and use it against you ,with negative words, Run away glad I did,🏃🏃🏃🙏💗
@Gavin... Nuff said Same here, never felt so crushed in my life. I saw it for what it was but willingly embraced ignorance. Wouldn't change it although I'm struggling a bit still I know suffering leads to strength and even more empathy lol. I'm never giving any substantial amount of myself to anyone up front, even if I have so much love to give. Better kept boiling over than wasted on anyone who doesn't deserve it.
You learn and move on. I was there too but now I'm happier
And sometimes they try to kill you!
Great words of wisdom, my fellow INFJ. Totally agreed! 💙
My family did this. Horrible kind of evil.
INFJ is the kind of person who flirts with you 24hrs online but never meets you in real.😆
Yes !!! So true
😂😂. True!
yea that is because they are cowards or never want to take action
. I would be amazed that people didn't see what I see, but I realized that people don't see what I see! That's an edge others don't have.
I totally understand this, I've always thought this same way.
Yup.. I think it's a realization all INFJs come to at one point or another in life! 😅
The observation section made be laugh out loud. Being around people without having to interact…so so so me.
Hahah.. if only we could be a fly on the wall! 😂
Just knowing I am so different from everyone else and learning and growing everyday is Amazing I am very intuitive and it is Amazing Thank You God for who I am
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Amen!
Definitely super observant and as for learning, I can never get enough of learning new things whether it be skill sets or culture or whatever it may be. I am very curious, adventurous yet cautious which in itself is contradictory.
Me too. Comes with being the electracuted ( i can't spell it ! Haha) hamster for most of your life.
Cautiously crazy
Yessss! The empathy thing is so draining!
Yes, it definitely can be.. there's no questioning that!
Idea , maybe it’s hard for people to read us and us, read ourselves because we’re in a state of constant change , always moving toward trying take the lessons, even in the smallest of situations…. We’re like water … you can’t hold us…
You took the words right out my mouth 5 years ago you time traveller you. Ooh, loud ringing as I'm typing. 💚⚡😁
Words of pure wisdom!
Yeah, it's like we're constantly evolving with all the information we're gathering. Information gathering is compulsive things for me. Sometimes I do it without conscious thought just like chewing curd - I need time to ponder what I'd gather, put away some for further, some as done n some as lesson learned... So my own self is fun, I don't need others around me but then I crave for children n animals - they seem to know without words I care n love n they accept. Does this make sense?
@@jayanthijaiaraman9324 I feel the exact same way
1-Need to Help
2-Keen observers (curious nature)
3-Natural Empathy - *learn to set boundaries!
4-Incredible Creativity (frees mind; grounds)
5-Quick & Efficient Learners (wisdom; need to learn; enjoys the journey)
It's good to also know not all infjs are the same the personality max shows us that within each there are % of specific traits within our personality so some are more mature or intune
We are considered weird people because, INFJ are highly evolved people on many levels, mainly emotional and psychological also spiritual. INFJare old souls, usually in the last incarnation. They seem wiser then others because they went through many incarnation and they dont want to repeat the same mistakes that they learned from. They create their own boundaries and their own code of living. They dont get impressed by much, only by being authentic. Character of a person is more important to them than position, fame,money etc. I had many one on one conversations with God , asking Why Did you create me to be so sensitive? Only now in my mature age ,I know it is a blessing 💖💖💖
Thank you for all these videos, it's hard to see all these as strengths sometimes✌
And hank YOU for watching! You're very right - it's all in perspective!
Agreed.
I really enjoy your INFJ videos. Most of them are spot on! This one, however, was truly 100% accurate. As an older individual and one who had no internet and therefore no explanation for who I was (I am 61 years-old), I can easily look back and see all these aspects of myself as a young teen and person. It's nice to think that the new generation of INFJ will be able to understand themselves early on thru channels like yours.
I’ve tested as an INFJ consistently many times. This video is dead on!
Amazing - thank you for watching, my fellow INFJ!
Pls not 16personalities, pls not 16personalities! 😣😫
I identify with all 5 strengths. Because I’m almost 60, I’ve adapted to only “seeing the good” in people, to understanding that these same individuals still need accountability for their harmful behaviors. I’ve always known, that I need recovery time, according to how much I’ve invested in others, and have gotten excellent at reserving more of my initial energy, for my own well-being.
I'd like to see a video that shows how an INFJ can get out of depression. After so many years of being taken for granted n advantage of, naturally some of us will fall into a hole of hatred. How can we get past this?
Very good question
Great suggestion - I would love for you to watch this video if you haven't already:
ruclips.net/video/_ItWm48bCE4/видео.html
@@PSYCH-O thank you
💕MEDITATION creates miracles💕
L Harris
I too am a INFJ
My last name is also Harris
There’s only one way out of these feelings you have.
It is to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
Read the Bible and look for a life partner who is of the same faith morals and values.
I promise you a whole new
Life of peace and joy.
We all want to be loved.
God loves us unconditionally.
He loves you right where you are.
This is the love you are looking for.
Find this first .
Love yourself.
Know who you’re in Him.
Look for that in a partner.
Happiness will pursue.
You’re enough. ♥️
I used to doubt myself, why am I different
Now i know, it's me
And I am not alone
And it's something to celebrate rather than doubt!!
"involuntary empathy" I like the way you put it. Always thought it was a curse when younger.
Super ..i am an infj ..it really related to me esp ..emapthy and helping people as l am a physican ..
Amazing - thanks for the feedback , my friend!
All my life I fell into the trap of making excuses for parasites and untrustworthy people due to misplaced empathy, no more, now I set firm boundaries or doorslam abusers the hell out of my life faster than you can say "I am an INFJ".
Absolutely resonates 💯..... Mastery of self became essential for my own growth and understanding of myself.... A woman once called me a dragon but what she really meant by that is that I'm undoubtedly an INFJ.... I'm always learning and have a great yearning for higher learning.... ty for providing more clarity on a deeper level of who I really am....
I took the Myers Briggs test and came out infj, idk why but I didn't feel as though I am one so I took it again.. still infj, tried to switch up a few answers to more appeal to what I was assuming were grooming questions that I could instantly tell is what they require to be an infj.. after the third time, still infj.
I'm cursed but blessed
Edit: let me iterate..
Bring a infj is listening to music and understanding why that song was made and feeling the emotion the artist pours into every note they sing every vibrato there vocal chords throw and every whale on a guitar keyboard or ect..
It's "why are you crying at the monsters song..?" "It's deeper than you think"
2) talking to a lover or potential lover you'll like them because they either need help emotionally or mentally,the fact is most infj's never get the amount of understanding back that they give thus leading to them feeling isolated andisunderstood even by one's we think care the most.
3) I could go on forever but falling under the category of love again, an infj will pick up on your constants and inconsistents.. meaning you may kiss there forehead every morning and tell them I love you, take a shower with them and act clingy to them.. but the one day you wake up groggy needing coffee and dont want to shower the infj will notice this and may see it as an attack. Best thing to do if you behavior does consistently change from doing the routine to not is to explain why and be as transparent and open as humanly possible.. remember your dealing with someone who's not a mind reader or a psychic but someone who's emotions run 65% of there daily functionality..
4) back to the routine thing.. infj's fall in love with stability and routine.. they hate being put off the same path they've been taking for ever and ever and hate 8t when a plan falls through, especially trips a planned date they may have been looking forward to or a simple movie night.. it feels as bad as betrayal to them and is one of the infj's "idk why I act like that, I really love you and our time together but for some reason I'm just sad upset and angry about this now" situations so beware, never break change or manipulate plans to an infj..
5) manipulation tactics work.. only in the case of loved ones, they will blind themselves for what they think is love. It's just how they think, if you ever love an infj you would never try to emotionally manipulate them as the second they see through this, and they always do, you will never be trusted again. Most infj's love that one person in there life more than the concrete beneath there feet when they walk the sidewalk.. mostly because they spend there lives in constant isolation. They find just one person who can put up with them they think that person is the one.. of course it will only feel more fulfilling to the infj if that person I question is hurting themselves amd can use the healing power an infj can finally use then you are in for the long run.
6) no games no nonesense.. you play around and don't take your infj seriously eventually although it feels like I would kill then to do so.. they will stop texting you calling to check up if they did and will practically dissappear from your life. It's called the door slsm to many knowledgeable infj's who read up on the subject.. you will never hear from them again no matter how bad they want to.
7) infj rage can be more violent than a ufc fighter on steroids watching someone make fun of his or her wife or husband. Imagine a stranger coming up to you and within moments picking apart every negative part of your entire existence and leaving you feeling horrible.. if youhurt an infj or at least make them angry you'll never see the light of day again. Don't anger them.
8) sad movies songs video games etc.. when I was younger I would love books movies and gaming. But u til I grew older I didn't realize my favorite or most memorable parts were those where someone tragically lost a loved one or where the good guy gets beat and simply has to deal with it.. its not that it's relatable it's that we just can't help but put ourselves in those shoes no matter if we've walked in them before or not we feel for the character.. batman for example, lost his parents grew up a loner and is stern and hard headed about everything he does meanwhile only having one friend, his butler. It's something infjs feel relatable but also intriguing as we want to monitor this feeling.
9) trust doesn't exist until you've given yourself to them 1000% not 100.. not 2.. but 1000, they havent trusted anyone since maybe the 5th grade. It would take a miracle to gain the trust of someone who barely trusts themselves. So if you feel as though you have the trust of one, be honest be open and never question why they act the way they do.. whether there asking to see your phone real quick or if there staring off into space wondering how long you may take to notice there always in the trust game.. be responsive and understand its not against you, there fighting themselves too and are trying there heart out to not blurt out problems they think might be happening so as not to disturb the oeave you momentarily have. Its a safety net.
10) there humor goes beyond typical jokes and funny videos. There going to surprise you by one second being quiet and the next making you laugh about the word pudding and for no reason as well but you will find there humor is unlike anything you have ever seen..
11) the psychic stuff, it's more or less the infj being an overthinker, "what if he's not really on that game on his phone but is texting that person I saw him acting awkwardly nice too last weekend"? It's a way of them observing you and noticing your patterns and behavior, you tell an infj you were dishonest once about anything weather it be a relationship or just your favorite type of food, the infj will have no conscious choice but to sit and assume why, putting themselves in your shoes and seeing you from your own perspective then stepping out of them and viewing you from your families perspective then there own. And if they don't like what they think it will bother them u til the end of time or at least u til they snap and finally let it out and ask you why you cheated on that ex or wasn't because you.... you know the drill
12) love us all they live for love and honesty,be both of those things to am infj and you will be rewarded with insight. Dates.giftsNd so much more, also..don't be weirded out if they don't like someone and won't tell you why,usually you put them in a position to make them feel obligated to like that person in the first place but the infj has already read there mind as well and are not happy with the motives they may be coming up to in the end. They won't obviously tellyou if they feel as though you would rather defend the other person I stead of hearing them out or ignoring your words entirely to still be friends with them and try to just for e the friendship.. infj's are loners for a reason, you may be stressing them out internally asking them to like someone they have a gut feeling about that tells them not to..
The MBTI system helped me to find the INFJ map for my life compass. Now I can live within my true personality. It's such a relief. Thanks for a great video!!!
That's awesome - thank you for the kind comment!
Some other strenghts If I can contribute: 1) When we commit to our projects or goals, rarely we dissmiss from them, we normally finnish every of our own goal (not reffering to the office or the company's goals if we work for others). 2. ) We are good organizers and schedulers, 3) We think in advance some possible scenerios for our work or our families and have an idea of what to do if something wrong will happen, normally we have good % of prediction on errors or situation ocurred in our proyects, 4) We are terribly stubborn if something do not match with our analized view of the procedures and the hole picture. 5) We used to go to physical activities often (manual working, drawing, painting, sports etc), to recharge. Those things require just little menthal effort, so after a good job on that, we can return to mental activities. 6) We have some special understanding of at least one of a pet animal specie and that also help us to reconect to the social world.
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I definitely consider myself as this...
Truly!!! Lol
I think it's were highly sensitive, but intuitive...I feel like we manifest ...alot.
And it's a struggle, dealing with our emotions with the world around us...trying to keep in alignment.
Strong emotions and feelings... 24/7.
I know me..I get burnt out..and even that feels strong when it happeneds.
On Christmas evening in 2004 I was enjoying the evening with my uncle and our neighbors. While standing in his kitchen, I suddenly collapsed to the floor in a heap. I quickly recovered with everyone dumbfounded as to what had occurred. I later discovered that a devastating earthquake had just happened on the exact other side of the world that washed away more than 200,000 souls. (There is a twelve hour difference where I live.) We are empaths.
Just learned im an INFJ-T and for the first time in my life my "crazy" makes sense. why i feel alone in crowds. why i can sense dissect & mirror others emotions. only seeing the best in people. literally playing out 10000000 scenarios for the simplest things. the mental and emotional exhaustion 🙄 thank you for these videos.
As an INFJ-A I sometimes overthink over 99% possible outcomes of an situation often finding loophole in it. Even my teacher sometime have no answer for it. And my strength is that i came out as a confident n' calm person like "it is what it is " type of person while having a mental breakdown internally.
Intuition and our ability to see through fake/narcissistic people is most important to understand and trust, as without it our empathy is taken advantage of.
Absolutely well said!
I definitely relate to these. I need to remember to avoid toxic people. I've always said there are three things that push me too far. I hate liars, thieves and cheats. Those will bring out a side of me that even I don't like.
Yall always put out some great videos in my opinion, but for me personally this was the most relatable video yet! Definitely made me smile a few times. Thanks so much for what yall do....it's greatly appreciated! 🙏🏽
We truly appreciate that - thank you for the kind words! 💙
INFJ SIGMA here 😎✌🏽
All of them are right
First 3 , flattered
Last 2, hell yaaa💃💃
Sigma balls! Got'em!
My mother told me I was going in circles when I was young. I tried to explain that it was a spiral. Many just think linearly, but that doesn't coverthe territory.
It's SO MUCH TRUE... ‼️ We INFJs can see even through the ugly truth so perfectly ... Still....we try our best to stay quiet about THAT and even try to focus more upon the good sides only ‼️
I had no idea that’s why i take SUPER long walks with the doggo every single day, sometimes multiple multiple times a day, through new places constantly, without a care in the world. I’m sure I look like a vagrant walking around all starry eyed but it’s my routine and I love it every single time 🤩🥰
This is totally me. I love learning more about this personality type because it helps me to understand myself better.
The company I work for has us to take the Myers-Briggs when we start. Just to get to know how we think and work together etc.
We almost all got INFJ.
The 1 percent corporation ???
I use to think I was crazy , or I’d purposely ignore my gut to see if the outcome is what I’d thought it would be .. highly into music .. I picked up skating during the pandemic a year ago and I’ve been teaching for 7 months now .. I’m so happy to not be alone
I think we are blessed 😇
We would have to agree! 💙
Now knowing what I am, it feels like there's a flooding into all my questions about myself that I didn't understand before. The empathy part really hits me because as I was younger, I cared so much about everyone around me that I got so drained without knowing it, and I had to take quick nap or even a very long one to recharge. 😅
Since I've started watching these PSYCH-O vids about INFJ I have experienced incredible relief. Things I have fretted about since I was a child (I'm 74) are understandable now. My lifelong feeling of being alone has dissolved. I feel like I have been welcomed into a family in which I didn't know I belonged. To be honest, I could believe people spend thousands to achieve this same degree of knowledge, wisdom, fulfillment and inner peace. Thank you.
I found a great deal of comfort and knowledge in this video and others I have a studying narcissism and empaths for about a year and a half now maybe two years I wish I could have had this knowledge when I was younger and I also wish that other people had added this knowledge because I sure would have been a lot easier for myself I want to thank you very much you never came out with this because it has changed my life and others
Thank you so much for the kind feedback, my friend. It's appreciated more than you notice! 💙
We display incredible empathy towards others .
✨👁💛🙌⚡😊🙏 ACCURATE!!!! The last paragraph was on point X a million.. ❤
We are not alone!😊
We are extremely intuitive individuals .
I can relate to all of the above.
Not surprised that J K Rowling is a INFJ
Thanks for watching! 💙
It is absolutely blowing my mind that not just I can relate to every single example to a tee but that there are exactly other people the same.. to a tee.. fascinating stuff, Ive always studied everyone/everything else in the world lol, but never myself .. til now. I find it hilarious that I've literally had no idea about who I am in alot sense .. I like that I thinks it's kinda awesome I'm discovering me ☺️
Every time someone asks me what kind of person am I you're different I'm always saying I'm a different type of person I'm special but now there's an actual personality type I am every single one of these things and it's crazy cuz I never knew this type existed I always thought that I was just weird and then I thought differently than everybody else but finally I know my type and everything said in this video is 100% correct thank you you have no idea how much this has helped me
one of the rewards in helping others is overcoming the barriers & jobsworth rules & red tape that kept them helpless & hopeless in the 1st place, every little help is a mini revolution
So good to be seen as quick and efficient learners! 😁
Yes,definitely. Now going somewhere else. Lovely to see you. Thanks so much.
Deep natural and spiritual connections. Integrating them into daily life with deep gratitude and humble attitude.
Wonderful to know that we are amongst others here in our own world!
Love It... Thx....SeeYouAtYourDestiny ...-Universe "Coach"
That was an amazing video. All of those traits are Quintessential INFJ. Especially the part where you say wanting to see the best in people can sometimes blur the intuition.. So true
does anyone else relate to the feeling of coming off flippant/ shallow / goofy / flaky / soft...etc ...but knowing you are anything but soft / dumb / weak ? I play the fool a lot ....but i know i can flick the switch and be very intense .
Yes Michael exactly true ,same for me thankyou for your insight
OMGoodness! So on point! A friend of mine observed years ago that I couldn't help myself from helping others.. Advocate...Counselor...wow
when i was a kid & teen, i struggled a lot. i didnt understand all the information i was constantly being bombarded with. it can still be mentally & emotionally draining.. im just glad im not alone with all of this.
The mention of non stop learning, i have said many times that you never stop learning until your 6 feet down. Constant desire to create whatever is needed with whatever is in reach, that MacGyver moment, this is what drives me. Thankyou.
Just found out I'm an infj thanks for the videos so many things make so much more sense now 🤯🙂
I felt this so hard. Number 3 especially.
I'd always been puzzled by close friends acting like I'm psychic. I generally assumed that I had missed something or that they are projecting.
But this is starting to make sense.
Thanks
Infj -A from India🇮🇳🌸💙p
I meet many of the criteria - if not all - of the INFJ. Certainly except for one. Human nature. The following is what I've experienced in life (I'm 60) which God reinforces. Jeremiah 17:9 "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?"
Oh jeez, now the infps are gonna think they're infjs
Sounds like gate keeping
@@jaimerodriguez7026 I'm not, just this states a lot of infp stereotypes and I don't want them to be mistyped, but the video is for fun so whateves
I’ve never related to something so much until I found out I’m an INFJ and started watching these videos.
I'm an old soul born as a Pisces baby born too under the year of the dragon.. I don't know why I became an INFJ...i wish I hadn't known this but I'm happy too because now, I don't feel lost. I feel very lonely because I don't dance in most people's tune and I always find myself out of place, alone and sad. Now, thank you to RUclips that I have come to encounter my fellow 1% INFJ sisters and brothers around the world. That's why RUclips became my refuge though I hate RUclips for it's unfair censorship sometimes. I love learning about us because it's through this that I find peace and clarity of myself.
" You will not be with the others..you will be alone".....Isis awakening by Gigi Young 💜
All of things I feel it as an INFJ-T (4w5), especially for “Curiosity”, never stop until I find the right answer and complete explanation.
It looks like these are real strengths. Thank you for the interesting perspective.
Both myself and my partner are INFJ.....it works.
Number 3 made me cry. That’s exactly what I see when I say “we are one race human”. It’s like come onnn people... some just need an hug! Don’t be an asshole.
Yes!!!!
most of the people who commented that they are infj's are not infj's, and that's really funny to see Lol
1.) I'm willing to help others, but as I've gotten older, I've learned to be more pragmatic about giving that help. I tend to steer clear of helping people who do not show gratitude. 2.) I do have a knack for making connections where most people don't. I see analogies in everything. I often explain things using metaphors. 3.) I can't choose to be unempathetic when in close proximity to someone who is divulging (basically any amount, even small amounts of) personal information. However, I am capable of appearing unempathetic in response to groups of people (primarily ideologues), despite being able to understand why they hold their poorly formed world views. 4.) I am pre-disposed to perform well at any endeavor that requires creativity (or thinking outside the box). It stems from a natural curiosity, "what happens if I try this?" An inclination to ask "why?" However, I tend to avoid creative pursuits because my perfectionism causes a sense of never being truly satisfied with my creation. 5.) Certainly a good learner, which is a direct result of high IQ. It would be interesting to know whether or not certain personality types tend to have higher average IQ. I generally test around 130, plus or minus 2 points. From my research, men are less likely to be INFJ than women. Despite it being a rare personality type, I happen to have a parent that is also INFJ, so I wonder what role genetics might play.
We can ALWAYS see a way out of a situation… that’s why we’re so helpful willingly.. but that’s a non toxic INFJ 😆.. And for the most part we’re super optimistic
Beautiful personality types . 🙌
I can relate to them all and more... Much more. But I I'm far too drained to explain at this moment
We would love to hear them when you feel energized 🤗
The best thing i stumble upon today🙏🏼👍🏼👍🏼😂
Wonderful! Thank you for watching 🙏
i mostly test as infj... sometimes as intj.....
it seems to me that these are not actually descriptions of personality types....
though they are accumulations of indicators from personality evidence,
these are actually Mind types.....
...that we are looking at through appearing or evidencing personality behaviours...
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otherwise ... very interesting and accurate description of much of me....
though it seems to me we are more than this....
It is great knowing I am not truly alone . It is great knowing also that there truly is a method to the madness.. and yes I agree completely with it all. Thank you for bring all to light maybe others will begin to understand us INFJ.
🎯💯SPOT ON!!❤❤🌟👏👏👏
I Feel On That Logiic 🤯
Spot on. Thank you.
It's ME to a Tee. Everything *fits. & I dig it 👍❤bcuz it feels amazing when you understand this is why I was sooo different from others. But I didn't know what I was. Now it ALLLL makes sense.
Observation haki - Acquired..haha
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I find that the ability to read others/detect their true motives goes into steroid mode after smoking pot. You can see very clearly whether the other person is with you or against you, has good intentions or bad intentions, etc.
Don't give the others the extra wisdom ;)
Oh yeah. Sometimes it's overwhelming.
I've got INFJ, ESTJ ESFP & ENFP for sure
Hahaa😅too accurate. Can sometimes be overwhelming but I am fully in the belief this all gives life a real authentic meaning.
For the longest time i didn't understand why people were coming to me as if they were drawn to me like a magnet. Wow that is interesting, i thought that i was a tad bit nerdy or something. When i had gotten back from the Navy my adopted mom had been taking college courses since my dad had passed away, she was taking a statistics class and she and a church friend that was tutoring her at the time had both gotten stuck with a section of the book. I had offered to take a look at it to see if i could be able to explain it differently so they could understand it... Well it took me about an hour and a hafl to figure it out after looking at my mom's notes and also going through that section and a couple previous sections of the book as well so i could teach myself before i explained it to them... Im proud to say that my mom had gotten on the Dean's list. And i believe she had gotten a B+ in that class