INFJ "STREET SMARTS" - Turn INFJ Weaknesses Into Strengths
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today we're talking about how to turn INFJs weaknesses into strengths because trust me, they don't have to be weaknesses. We're gonna talk about the things that you probably are even ashamed of admitting not only to yourself but to others. Those are the things that will make your life move forward and we have to start valuing them. I will tell you some stories that have changed my life while I was even working when I started focusing on those so perceived weaknesses. And I see this over and over again when I talk to my clients and when I see your questions. And so I know there's a lot we can tackle here.
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What are some aspects of your personality you have learned to see as a strength?
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@@LevelDroneRCX it's just one video and then I relax...so nowadays it doesn't drain me too much anymore. :)
@Steven Benoit woohoo!!! That's what we love to hear
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Steven Benoit Wow.. I respect you for your feedback, you give me hope, I'm 33 😊 Thank you.
I'm still processing that there actually are people who might function. and think as myself. Many thanks Wenzes for giving me practical ways to grow and understand. First time in my 45 years I feel, I am actually understood by others.
So happy I could help 😊❤️
You're not alone!
If I have learned anything these last couple of years its this, your weakness shows you your strength and your strengths can become your weakness. Its not about being perfect. Everyone has a weakness cause its when your personality isn't balanced. The person without a weakness is the person without a personality. Its not about perfection or needing to be better. You are already good enough as you are. Its about learning who you are, using your strengths and watching out for the weaknesses that belong to those strengths. Its about self-knowledge and self-care. You don't have to be a perfect person, just a healthy and balanced you.
Being empathic is a characteristic. The strenght is how good the infj can understand and help people. Its a gift. But if you don't balance it by checking in with YOUR needs/feelings/bounderies....you can lose you when you focus on others too much....thats a weakness which people can expl*it if you let them. Infj's tend to know their weakness but not their strengths....clue: flip the weakness and discover what your characteristic is actually good for.
Iam felling so overwhelmed
i am technically paralyzed
I aspire perfection but I seem to do nothing at all
I have a huge exam coming and all I do is procrastinate or try creating the perfect study schedule yet I fail to even begin or complete 20 percent only
I donno what to do anymore
I see so many ppl around me so fast at achieveing everything yet i Stan’s in the same place all the time
First off, be kind to yourself...you are focusing on the people you are doing better, you are not focusing on the ones who think: wow...you are at this school, I could never do that...Second, stop comparing yourself at all - self love begins with being okay with who you are, even if it feels you can‘t accomplish anything. Stop aiming for perfection...this is a game you are going to loose and you already see the results of this tactic - rather focus on progress. If you can only write 1 sentence a week, aim to write 2 sentences the week after...you are reprogramming your mind this way to get excited about progress...no progres is too small...because it changes your approach completely...try it!!! And if you want some additional help, consider joining the bootcamp, we takle topics like this there all the time bit.ly/epiclifebootcamp
Wenzes thank u so much for replying
Iam in med school so being that stuck is very bad for my career
I try to love myself and accept who I am
But I just can’t be satisfied with the way I work
I wish I was a sensor with a strong ability to complete the task
It takes forever for me to begin studying even tho I know I am capable of being the best , what makes me so hard on myself is that I know my capabilities
Yet I am so stuck and then I enter this circle of self blaming and non achieving !!
I will go to this blog once I finish my exam
I hope I become better by then 😔
@@suu964 again...sensors might be able to finish a task fast but you have the ability to see beyond the current reality...see how you can use that to further your career instead of trying to compete with sensors on their way of working...you are the one who can choose the easiest way to get it done etc...hone in on that
Wenzes thank u
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Thank you Wenzes! You truly stand apart from the tsunami of infj related content available on RUclips, and that's because you provide invaluable insight and practical solutions for real life, instead of just making self-indulgent compilations of aspects of the infj personality. You are the ONLY one I receive any working knowledge from related to the finer points of mbti. You are awesome 😎 Thank you
Thank you for this! I cried while watching this because its like a God send solutions for me as an entry level employee in 20's and currently I'm struggling to be a data encoder which requires tons of detail-oriented skills spanning several hours and you're right we INFJ's are good at creating systems of organizing and communicating all the works toward our client and ultimately creating value to the product. You really changed my perspective about myself and to the corporate world I'm taking. Very transformative! 💚God bless this channel for invaluable insights for us INFJ's who are few and surrounded by I/E Sensors.
I myself too not good at detail oriented job especially bpo jobs haha but I made it happen staying the company about 3 and half years by being an INFJ. You can do it too because you have unique strengths and talents in which others don't have 💪💪🔥
“Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” (attributed to Albert Einstein)
"Success is not always related to how good you are at your job." True; that was a very hard pill to swallow at one time, but there's greater prosperity beyond needing to tie those two things together so tightly that you bind yourself
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Thank you for helping me understand how to value myself as an INFJ
you're more than welcome!
I will master all the types of my personality
The only thing holding me back is .nicer clothes and shoes and nutrition.
Nothing will stop me.
What I have accomplished this at the same time I'm healing myself
I’ve always thought i am good in detalis. But now i see that it was not the details but the urge to uderstand exacly how the system work. And that it usually take me a lot more time than others to trully understand some topic. I am have degree in IT And always feel like i am too stupid for this because i needed so much time while learning and always wanted to understand all the details. If any one else resonate with this ?
SO much here! SO much! "When the student is ready, the master appears" - Thank you, Wenzes! God Bless you!
Ive been told Im a painter or I should paint! Lol. I've never painted in my whole life.. But your so right about the admiration of others who are detail oriented and trying to be the same way so I will be accepted and admired like they are.. Lol. I never saw that in myself until you said that.. For me its been a deep seated fear that if I am totally myself I will stand out yo much and get targeted by other women!! Omg here again its women who have jealousy issues with me.. Wtf. And all I meant to do is help them to be empowered.
Well Menses. Blessing be to you for stepping into your own divine self. You my dear have shattered a long held believe about myself that I now longer align with. Xo
You are describing my life. Currently an accountant who can also paint,who has only recently come to appreciate my strengths. I really get what you are saying, instead of trying to get by in an ST role, cut your losses and find a place which values connection and reading patterns.
I am older than you (66) and a retired physician. I always have had an unstoppable confidence in my abilities. No one could ever tell me otherwise, even though I never really fit in anywhere.
Thank you so much Wenzes for making these contents, especially this one. INFJ had been a lonely world until I saw your contents and started to understand what is going on.
rea streets smart comes with adapting a imige and enduring much so you don't get dragged by the extra weight. just think of it as a game that you have to play it real. think of it as on hands experience thread like feeling that pottery clay within your hands and shaping the future with a style that says tuoughness. a strong character. a perfect place to show or shine ego for a change at good place for a darkside to dwell in and know its good and one with an INFJ in natrual order of the darksides
Boom. Thats been my experience in the business industry so far. I get high ranking business people that want to Higher me even when I say I dont have experience in what there company does! Lol. They have all told me that there's something about me that is a people magnet and that all I have to do is be myself.. Well thats wasnt totally true. All the expansion and people that I interviewed and helped along with them expansion of these companies exploded.. But when it came to detail's about my own business within the companies! Well mistakes where made and I couldnt handle the pressure of looking over my shoulder
It's true that sometimes are weakness may not be our weaknesses at all, that they may actually be our strengths. Sometimes pain is power and it's important to learn to turn those perceived weaknesses into strengths. Great content Wenzes!! 💪💪
My 4th time listening - so relevant for me right now - your insight in a godsend so happy you decided that day long ago 😉 you took the step to share your invaluable insights 🙏🏾
Happy I could help Brittany 😊
This was 25 minutes of straight FIRE - THANK YOU!!!!
Wow I really wish I could like this 5000 times! I’ve saved this on several of my playlists so I can easily find it and remind myself 👏👏👏
Thank you so much for this! ❤️
I really love your videos especially this one there is so much positive energy in it ! Thank you for all that you share with us 😊
I wasn’t ready for the amount of wisdom in this video! Never heard this perspective before. Thank you so much.
Greatest INFJ channel! Thank you, all the best to you!
Another great video
This one was on fire. Like life changing wow
Thank you ❤️
I never understood when people say they are busy. It makes me feel like I am way too available but on the other hand I feel like they are just "appearing" to be busy (What could be so important?).
So the question comes, what are the things should I/we consider exactly as being busy? How do I appear to be not so available and create that mystery so that people value my time much more. I am finding it difficult to make up these reasons because I value people more than the tasks at hand.
All you have to do is to say you don‘t have time...what you do with your time is your business. You don‘t owe anybody any explanation
Wenzes really hard to find a just explanation to myself for it. Especially when they ask what exactly are you doing? ..... Nevertheless, I appreciate the time you have taken to respond and all the work you have put in the videos. I have been binge watching them. Like many have likewise said I too feel like I have found my exact clone =)
I've asked that question myself, but I realize that EVERYONE everyone is busy, life is busy, every day we are chasing something new. But for me nobody is ever too busy, if they truly care, they will make time, even if it's a brief moment. You invest your time where you find it worth it. Surround yourself with people that have the same mindset.
I always tell people I'm busy if I have planned "me time" which could look like going for a peaceful walk, reading a book, learning something new, a bubble bath, or doing craft time. Time with myself is equally if not more important than time with others. They don't need to know the details or even think its a valuable way to spend your time. It doesn't matter what they think, if it's valuable to you.
@@OlympiaSophie I guess this works. Thanks :)
Thank you!! I totally resonate being successful in the accountant concept to now realizing my true potential as an entrepreneur.
This video was the thing I needed to hear. This has led to an 'ah ha!' Moment for me. I have been wrestling with how to handle coping and dealing with a situation I cannot change at this time. Thank you for your bravery and heart to share this with the world. This is a gamechanger.🙏
I learned real estate too .. I grew respect for rich people and judged them quite less with blind mind. so I been thru alot and you know how people can hate rich people. you should feel no less feeling safe then I how I few rich people today
This is so right-on, I’m just blown away. Absolutely nailed it. Thank you!!!!
Amazing video! Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us 🙏🏼 I recently embarked on a self-development journey. It’s been seven months and I’ve learned so much about myself and my feelings. You help to bring all of my thoughts together for me and explain it so well. I hope I can work with you one day so I can gain an even deeper perspective on myself 💖
Thanks so much Wenzes!
You're Welcome 😀❤
Now I know this and accept it as a strength I can help others paint their own true self masterpeice.
This is awesome! Thank you for the inspiration.
So happy it resonated with you Arlana 😀
Your the coolest person
It is a very good content there Wenzes. First time I saw videos about INFJ from a very positive and strengthening perspective. For the previous 5 years, I only found all only the negative connotations about INFJ, maybe mainly the writer/blogger are not true INFJ, maybe they're just sensors who want to make fun of INFJ. But seeing your work here, it is amazing. Only true INFJ would truly understand other INFJ. It's a good work you have done there and I believe this will help a lot of INFJ out there. You are an icon of successful INFJ and that inspires a lot. You looks so charismatic. Thank you so much Wenzes.
Thankyou. Now i can draw more often♥️
once family always family in the heart of one goal. but you agree under terms different revelations of interests. I had my honest goals of justice when I went there with a purpose that can not be replaced as truth in myself for adapting with honest merit
When i was 17 i realized i didn't have street smarts just book smarts. So i set out to learn.
I paint in oils, sketch, play the violin, and write fiction as hobbies. I spent my career in Medicine as a Diagnostic Radiologist, it pays much better
Wenzessss, this video is tremendously liberating! I didn't even realize I'm not that good with details and I'm much better at creating systems and, sadly, I get very exhausted from details from a certain point onward.
😎👍 glad it resonated with you! Yes, it‘s super important to become aware and in favor of our own preferences 😊
@@Wenzes You're exceptionally right about that!
Good video
This has really helped except for not being able to find anything I am good at. And especially not something I am good at that I enjoy so that I can keep doing it.
I have people who tell me I'm smart, but I'm just using common sense and others tell me I'm good at something, but I'm barely average at it.
It's making it difficult to find any sort of motivation. 😞
Thanks for the channel. You, Frank James, and Psych2Go have been so much help this year.
Hmm, I think you have explained how I got disgruntled with my vocation, programming. When I started it, it was a new teritory that needed a lot of intuition, and over the years it turned into lot of details, and story points you churn per day. And I did not stick enough to my strenghts, and tried to go where mainstream was going.
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No I do what I want the why I want how I want in the order I want.i have built gold at everything I do.like natural talent.and time is my proof cause words are cheap.action is easy I have no clue what your saying honestly you just look pretty like you love your show
I was doing some drawing while listening to this! 🙂✍ You've given me a lot of food for thought!
Yes Linda...you love to draw, and you are consistently working on it. this example fits great 😊
@@Wenzes- This really fit well with what I like to do, and I appreciate it very much!
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Yes, you’re describing my life..
P.s. And after doing the job you don’t like and it doesn’t fit you, you feel anxious...believe me I know..
Omg. I just timurned my computer on and it shows a painting and said Haydtacks may seem an unlikely artistic muse, but many have found them a worthy subject.. Im English living on USA and this is a painting from a famour Englaish Artist. Go figure. Spirit is amazing when we have our intuitive sensing on our own selves and not others.
I love how you say an infj has value in the workforce and then continually say we don't work hard, making a lot of mistakes, can't be productive throughout a workday. I know what you're going for, because our skills are very useful in situations and can make a lot of money through our ideas and being able to be sociable by getting information out of people, being able to see the future and what constructs are going to work and not work, what people want what they don't want what society is going to be like or how it might change. unfortunately that is not a Frontline skill that is valued(being on time, knowing you made a typo, being able to sit at a desk and do monotonous work), which makes it hard to move up in turn making more$. if you're not 'good' at the basics why would someone with little vision promote you? Especially since most are SE, who find it difficult to look beyond what's right in front of them, and how just because someone's not good at this doesn't mean they won't be good or even better than them at other things. Just a side note we need SE Dom people, they are what makes the world turn. If it was left up to us I'm not sure people would get fed or have roofs over their heads. JK. I guess they have a harder time seeing potential in people. Which sucks for us, I think because percentage wise theirs fewer of us, it's okay that jobs we're good at tend to be at the top of the 'food chain', meaning there's less high paying ones, because there's less of us. It's easier for us to share with one another LOL. Also the higher up you go, there's more people to check your little mistakes, make up for your perceived production inconsistencies, and we can delegate the hard work to others. Even though as an infj I am a hard worker and I can be very productive and I can catch little dumb mistakes. I am always a hard worker, the productivity is there if I am working on something I find important, helpful intriguing. as far as the little dumb mistakes most of the time, unless I am trying to see the whole picture and I'm going a little too fast for my hand or others. Being facetious of course, kind of. however saying over and over again what the infj is not good at, is just disparaging to the infj who's already watching this because they're having emotional or self-esteem issues around work. I see where you got at the end, yes we can make money doing what we love cuz we're intelligent, however INFJs really do need a team around them when doing something out of the box or unknown... So if you don't have that you need to figure out the corporate world, and how to climb that ladder. Hell maybe once you get to a place your financially secure you can do the unknown and change the world, if don't have that team around you. I just didn't find this helpful, and almost like you really don't believe the infj could actually make it in the corporate world. What I got from it is oh honey you're pretty just paint, and figure out how to manipulate people to make your hobby into a living. Of course More artistic things can be living and not just hobbies, INFJs are I think very creative and can go far in that world. But Not everybody has that option or the background to make that a possibility. People without that option have to figure out how to be good or fake being good at what the majority values career-wise. Then when we get to a place where we don't have to fake it or manipulate people into believing where "efficient and effective" at the so-called menial tasks. I do believe that some of these valued traits are insignificant in the long run and in the big picture. I lost track of what I was saying typical. LOL basically I get your sentiment but I don't think the execution was there, because it just made me feel bad at my about myself at first. But tough love is not good for me, I don't know if that's an infj thing or just a me thing, I'm hard enough on myself I don't need someone else to do it. I need someone to be honest and real with me but not cunty. I am that enough
it becomes a series of break down for some people ... but I understand a little more of the indepth cuts of your works the fractions pulled together in timely matter. even though my projects didnt life off ground . I still tried them but I figured they were either scams or no good. but I keep project on youtube channel for previos attmepts to look back on inprovment. I sure got a few videos on improvements nadd learning .a lesson here to complie work and foot notes you might edit and add on it later
I do want I want to be good at .I make my own rules.and only care about my judgement.my life your way off.im king building the love in my own heart creating my smile.chasing that feeling of self proud of myself.its a very empowering feeling of loving me.
imagination and writing ability
Followers the lot of you!
invoking of another term use of accountants. can they keep track of economy value assests of social order and awareness of ethics and transactions. as accountant of another side of the elements of the nature of exchanges and theory importance of exchange of social orders. accountants might find a figmentive place in social order that might not have been previously mentioned. as street smarts might go another adaption to new words and grammar to that culture streets level and some times ethics or bylaws adjustments. (do not ask me much for street smarts in my town, It is in fact a whole possible culture and bare bone zone to work with ground up potentially bare and fresh outlet to work with).
you would be surprised the small set of skills living on the streets can acquire in simple needs as sewing arts crafting cutting blocks of wood camping it is a concert jungle. but not good for the soul at times. but thriving place to feel a natural order of darkness. but still Iwouldnt suggest living on the steets for too long. but you get a sense of realness and family after awhile being accepted if you did go thru with it. but it sticks sometimes. a back up plan and family would indeed be more smart then the bold move I made while younger
*You thrive in an environment with little information.*
We try to hide our ''weaknesses'' with our strengths.
Sensors love, thrive in, what they can see. They're focused on getting all the deep detail right.
You should interpret those ''weaknesses'' as strengths.
You shouldn't get better at the sensor stuff, stop thinking that it matters.
What will happen to the painter:
#1 They will keep valuing the environment they're in and see themselves as a failure.
#2 They start valuing art.
Success is not always related to how good you are at your job.
You have to learn how to advertise your work.
I got humiliated by a bully teacher recently. Her students were stunned. I called her out on a law. I called her boss. Of course I was correct but my boss was a jerk Si. I have the law on my side and his female boss seemed to agree but put me down. I'd live to take them to court to prove I was correct. We were not compliant and they know that. This was an obvious ploy from the female teacher to bully a senior citizen!
You told about planning like from inside like a spider web is there any video about it
I wanted to be a fashion designer but my parents refused to allow me to even apply. 40 years ago things were different.
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I don't know... What if we don't want to live the artists lifestyle of having to constantly sell yourself and not having a stable 9-5? It sucks that INFJ strengths are not valued and do not lead to a stable and straightforward path. All skills are valuable, but some are more employable than others.
I have discovered lately that im an INFJ type of personality that’s why im not being able to blend much with my old school friends as I feel sometimes coming from a different planet!
I have been struggling with a career path, I started being an Entrepreneur for 4 years now owning a Foodstuff Distribution Company with a wrong partner.. and i have been focusing on my weaknesses more than my strengths which leads to huge financial losses.. im looking now to find a way to focus on an alternative pash to support my company financially.. i live my job but i hate the technicalities it limits my horizon and thinking 💭 i wana get rid of focusing on the losses and start a new passion but yet I wouldn’t let go of the company.. any advice to share??
Did you watch my new videos on INFJ Careers from last week? I think they would be very helpful to you 👍
Wenzes yes i did but yet am still confused 🤷♀️
Maybe consider doint the bootcamp or coaching. There we go deeper on this as well! 👍
love you Wenzes Good job on your videos . A wenzes who gave you that Name and what does it mean Aloha Bobby from Hawaii ;)))
I am from Bulgaria, my full name is Wenzeslawa and it means holy crown
@@Wenzes wow your special girl the universe and it's vibrations must be on your side 😘
streets smarts. people around you are more the open book other then a libiary. I really need to sleep. but people are the open source you need. the ones to start asking questions if you comply athe honest self to learnthe INFJ will seek it if it is true to INFJ guts feelings
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Thank you for this video! Amazing insight! This really put a name to the value I knew I had but couldn’t explain, and also helped me understand why I sometimes feel like I’m not valued. Surrounded by sensors!