7 Signs A Man Is USING You And Will Never Commit That Most Women Miss (Especially #7!)

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Discover seven signs a man is USING you and will never commit that most women miss in this video with Helena Hart, a dating and relationship coach for women.
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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +4

    If you want to learn the secrets to attracting a high-quality man and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/
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  • @rebekashiner
    @rebekashiner Год назад +23

    He was calling and texting me for 6 months with out putting real effort . He was not ready for commitment but kept me around. He never had time to see me I get fed up and cut that situationship it was a great leason for me to not ignore the the red flags from the beginning

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many people can relate. I agree that it’s important to catch those red flags at the beginning! Men typically know right away whether or not they’re interested in pursuing you for something serious. I talk more about that in these videos: ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.html.

  • @kimberleyann51
    @kimberleyann51 Год назад +14

    I was used and manipulated by my ex. I am still getting over it. I had blinders on because I was in love.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +4

      Sorry to hear you went through that. ❤️ This video might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 Год назад +12

    "what's for you will bring you CLARITY...not confusion"...I think you said something like that. This is always a good topic to discuss. Do you think you could also talk about some things a person can focus on or reveal within themselves maybe in self discovery to build a firm personal foundation, or basis for starting to get into a relationship if they're not quite ready just yet? Today's video has such a classy vibe about it. Thank you💙❤️💙❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome! 💗 I’ll keep that in mind for future podcast episode topics, thanks for the great suggestion! This video might be helpful in the meantime: ruclips.net/video/bN1jzRP_sQ8/видео.html

  • @chrysancheran4477
    @chrysancheran4477 Год назад +2

    This is so me currently.😕
    A sad state of affairs.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html, ruclips.net/user/livezKEos5BY2nA?feature=share and ruclips.net/user/liveDdKuS6cineY?feature=share.

  • @montevideo3580
    @montevideo3580 Год назад +2

    I am a guy and a girl texted me every day for a year but rarely wanted to meet up in person. Ouch...

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! Yes, men definitely experience this as well.

  • @Izreia666
    @Izreia666 Год назад +1

    I am lucky this other I believe is a keeper we just started talking this month and it will be a long distance relationship but this one wants to make plans to see me and meet for the first time. There are so far no red flags and he wants to do and pursue me and wants a future and something that will lead to marriage we’re both on the same page. I am leaving my heart open and just receiving I am noticing what a difference from the last one that I got used and played were this one isn’t a player and it is only me he is talking to and there is no other women he wants. His words and actions follow through.

    • @Mari-vn7ed
      @Mari-vn7ed Год назад +1

      the first month started like that 😢 now it's been 1 year and 5 months and he didn't came to meet me yet and is always promising he will but idk if I believe him

    • @Izreia666
      @Izreia666 Год назад +2

      @@Mari-vn7ed I am sorry about that sweety it’s a connection you have to have and you’re gut will know if it is or won’t be that guy and if it’s the right one they will make it happen and show up without excuses and keep it delayed. If you don’t speak or say what you want it won’t happen and if they care it will. Not all guys leave you waiting. Don’t give up just learn and move on from those guys and make sure you already love yourself first a hundred percent before being with another person and that you’re value matters and you speak you’re boundaries and how to speak from you’re heart and what you’re body is feeling. When you align then and just accept love and just be love you will notice an immediate change. Never change for anyone.

    • @Mari-vn7ed
      @Mari-vn7ed Год назад +1

      @@Izreia666 You're right and I agree, I never had a relationship so it's kind of my first, but I'm learning so much about myself and I feel like I'm growing and some ugly feelings that has to do with my childhood are rising up to the surface, I'm getting too anxious because he didn't come to meet me in person yet, but when I ask for little things he make some effort to deliver it, so that's confusing. The fact he have seen my mom on video chats and I didn't get to meet any of his family the same way makes me upset cause I start feeling like he doesn't want them to know about me (although he said they know about me) but I don't have any proof. Idk how to bring it up or tell him that I feel this way cause it will look like I'm trying to rush things you know. It's like I know I'm deserving of those things but asking for them is hard and I feel blocked

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Год назад

    My old college bestie, a beautiful woman. Witty, smart...everything. Her ' guy 'strung her along for 20 years. She has a hard time holding on to love. I should tell her about you, but she's stubborn. Hey Helena, my man was so good to me. Consistent and loving. I messed it up. I have a feeling..a good feeling we will reconcile. It's going to be a slow burn though. No heavy talking right away. We will start over and date. It was basically my insecurities that broke us. I ripped him 5 new ones (sorry) and he bolted.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, Dani! While I don’t know the details of your situation, these episodes might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/HCYYrEXhSHQ/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/ok5WOpoJvZk/видео.html.

  • @denisehare4276
    @denisehare4276 Год назад

    he says he wants to take it slowly

  • @denisehare4276
    @denisehare4276 Год назад

    yes he says he wants to meet but something always comes up work or something personal

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      These videos might be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html.

  • @joanagoncalo3935
    @joanagoncalo3935 Год назад

    Thank you so much, Helena ❤! I have been dealing with this issue for so long, is it possible Helena will talk in a video/podcast about how to trust your female desire. I have heard several that address here, but there is something that I feel is in need of loosening up in this area for really begin to trust. Much gratitude 💕🌹

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      You’re welcome! 💗 My latest podcast episode might be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4Bs7g31EiQddVkxtMF9kir?si=Y7OcddlOTQmS4bHfQ-TBRg
      …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000609362477

    • @joanagoncalo3935
      @joanagoncalo3935 Год назад +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching I'm so grateful, Helena 💗! having this deep awareness of where our worth as a woman lies brings healing, and I discovered this in your work, Helena. With Gratitude (and yes, I will leave a review there). Wishing you a day full of joy 💗💗💗

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад

      That’s so beautiful, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️

  • @marianlotz8442
    @marianlotz8442 Год назад

    Could you comment on guys who travel for work. I've been talking to a guy online but I get the feeling that that he has women in different cities, Is that a common thing? He says he let his subscription to Match go because he"s so excited about me and I'm the only one he is interested in. When I mention that Match shows he is "Online Now" several times a day...... . he says Match sends him notifications trying to get him to come back and when he tries to get rid of the notification on his phone, it opens the app and thats why it shows he's online. Then he says the photos are blurry and he can't contact anyone. I suggested 3 different ways to turn off notifications and he said that wouldn't solve the problem.... trusting him would solve the problem. I replied "if you won't turn off notifications to solve the problem..... I'm no longer interested in continuing.It was vey confusing because he looked and sounded so authentically devoted to me when we were zoom....

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! This isn’t a great sign, but I’d also watch his ACTIONS. For example, is he making concrete plans to spend more time together in person and escalating his efforts? “Talking” to a guy means nothing unless that’s also happening, in my opinion and experience. These videos might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/t0Mfw4tbsew/видео.html, ruclips.net/user/liveCuWhh-DnLJY?feature=share and ruclips.net/user/livernXoKSMAToA?feature=share.

  • @abek3684
    @abek3684 Год назад +2

    Ugh alsway he is busy is his excuse

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s experiencing something like that: ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/2oFG-2Ro48Y/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/_jARxknc160/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/l-8gcLyphow/видео.html.

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo Год назад

    Hi helena i have question for you over affairs.
    Can people have affair or cheat on someone without having no no sex?

    • @AGENT-dl2lu
      @AGENT-dl2lu Год назад +1

      Yes

    • @AGENT-dl2lu
      @AGENT-dl2lu Год назад +3

      Cheating is cheating with or without sex

    • @positivevibeskx1102
      @positivevibeskx1102 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@AGENT-dl2luThat is so true,I will try to remember it, cheating Is cheating with or without sex!

  • @beckiruther1213
    @beckiruther1213 Год назад +4

    Very informative video. Yes I’ve been in that type of relationship you describe and won’t ever let that happen to me again. My LD ex(remarried)has always kept in touch with me(breadcrumbing) for decades and I’m ashamed to say I let it happen. The past two years he called me on my HBD. This year I told him don’t call me again unless you’re single. He also apologized for his poor behavior in the past. A few days later I blocked him then unblocked him. He remarried so why let him take my energy? I’m moving on!

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie Год назад +2

      Cut him off immediately and don’t look back! ❤ also he is married!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad you’re moving on! 💕

  • @lolaweed7467
    @lolaweed7467 Год назад +3

    Can this be applied if they say they’re committed to you and you’re in a relationship but it feels like a situationship? Stringing you along being used for company.. anyone experienced this? 2 years of confusion and breadcrumbing !

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Absolutely - these videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a situation like that: ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/VcjFqtaGj3Y/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/aHDHiOJALjc/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html, ruclips.net/user/livezKEos5BY2nA?feature=share and ruclips.net/video/z6Gskn7EOGk/видео.html.

    • @jennyobyrne2731
      @jennyobyrne2731 Год назад +2

      This happened to me, two and a half years. He was bored and lonely. I never received the 3 c's: clarity, consistency and communication. Eventually drew back enough for me to go...no relationship....then no contact. Feels great 😃. I have lost the feeling of confusion, panic and anxiety. Woohoo ❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here, Jenny! I’m glad you were able to move on. 💕

  • @MasterCoachUniversity
    @MasterCoachUniversity Год назад +1

    Whatever you do, don't "talk to" a guy on the first date.

  • @esthergoldpin935
    @esthergoldpin935 Год назад +1

    Hi I'm watching from Liberia I have that problem almost 5 years no improvement

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! Men typically know right away whether or not they’re interested in pursuing you for something serious. My husband and I talked more about that in this video: ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.html …and these ones might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.html.

  • @joannedomingo2398
    @joannedomingo2398 Год назад +1

  • @zhibell1942
    @zhibell1942 Год назад +1

    🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @nmarimborgo
    @nmarimborgo Год назад +1

    Amazing 😍 thank you

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/RZdL_-_q2f4/видео.html.

  • @Powerskaty
    @Powerskaty Год назад +1

    Good video. I think we all know this but to have it spelled out is helpful.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      Thanks Katy! This video might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html

  • @feliciaardelean3169
    @feliciaardelean3169 Год назад

    I know how can be this!. I was confused so.etime but I lett ot go!. It was Good for bouth!😮😅❤❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, Felicia! These videos might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/RZdL_-_q2f4/видео.html.

  • @patriciasaldanha7243
    @patriciasaldanha7243 Год назад

    This happens more often than one might imagine and is probably one of those "ego boost " issues. I am thinking of a remark a girl made a long time ago during my student days..She didn't say much but I realised what was happening... With her...With everone . I can think of two pieces of fiction both of which had dramatic and horrible closures . There is a famous painting which could also be indirectly related to the thrust of this video. I suppose some good comes out of evil🔹️🌹🔹️💮🖼💮🎼🍃💖◾️💮🌹

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, Patricia! This video might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: ruclips.net/video/GWRLhZJKvzU/видео.html

    • @patriciasaldanha7243
      @patriciasaldanha7243 Год назад

      @@HelenaHartCoaching Thank You , Helena , for your great and inspiring work. I will give you the names.. the name of one novel at least and the name of the painter and painting tomorrow morning because it is almost midnight now the werewolves. and other predators are.around and I might get nightmares. 🤣 LOVE you and Matthew ♥️😇🎁🌹🧸🌹🌹🌸👍👍🖼🌿

    • @patriciasaldanha7243
      @patriciasaldanha7243 Год назад

      @@HelenaHartCoaching Paris - 3rd Apr 23 - 10h36 - 🔹️ the novel - The Judas Tree - A. J..Cronin - 🔹️ the painter and painting ARTEMISIA GENTILESCHI - Judith beheading Holofernes