How to Give Without Expectation
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- Опубликовано: 29 окт 2020
- I know the thumbnail seems a bit like clickbait, but I kept it because it's true. This philosophy and approach to life radically changed my worldview. It drives how I approach business, friendships, and charity.
When we give to others without expecting ANYTHING in return, we create.
We create relationships.
We create opportunity.
These things can change our entire lives.
When we create, good things happen. Usually.
Most people run into the pitfall of giving WHILE expecting something, even if they claim for it to be helpful.
You commonly see this in dating. A man could be very nice to someone he's interested in. However, this "nice" facade can suddenly turn sour when it's not reciprocated.
He was giving with expectation.
When we give without expectation, this means we don't expect ANYTHING.
Not friendship. Not love. Not respect.
If this makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to do it. You can establish expectations of what you want in return.
However, don't claim to give selflessly while you secretly want something in return.
That's called manipulation, my friend.
Have a beautiful day.
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Wanted to make a video about stretching our bodies
Ended up stretching our souls instead
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Lovely comment, my friend.
This man has the ability to change my entire life, he can help me physically and mentaly i love this guy, hes amazing
He is!* helping us (: not he has the ability, he is helping! ❤️
No, only you have the ability to change your entire life. You are still externalizing your power, letting the environment control who you are.
Not to alarm you brothers and sisters but you now possess the ability to change lives yourselves
*So this guy isn't just a fitness coach, he's also a life coach. This guy is good.*
The kind of influencers we need
well said...
1:21 Listen here simps
You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.
-Thich Nhat Hanh
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Man, I love your comment so much that I'll screenshot it.
Such a lovely quote
This guy!!! He speaks like he's 1000 years old. He's awesome. I wish I can give two likes 👍👍👍
I really respect this young man, he seems very wise for his years. I believe he was brought up right. Thank you for everything you do, you brought positivity to many with this video. Great video and content!!
stop expecting, start giving. Beautiful brother
This channel should be named: "Making your life better"
No views? Was this just uploaded? Either way, I want to say that I appreciate all that you've done. You're a real light in this world, which is always needed, so thank you for being you and continuing to put out content that helps so many.
Yeah I just uploaded it haha.
one of the most wholesome and underrated Fitness youtubers there ever has been.
Sometimes when we first meet someone, you instantly understand their intentions - caring and love. I got that exact vibe from your Lever tutorial and so looked into your channel and here we are.
I hope you are keeping well my friend. Here’s my love
20 second in.. and i know i can actually call you “my friend”... thanks for the reminder my friend
Also I think it's an equally important advice that ask for help when you need it. A lot of people just forget that part for various reasons.
Honestly opened my eyes. I was raised to believe that you should always expect respect and appreciation from people because it’s just the “right way to act” I guess. I’ve subconsciously been expecting things from people that I deem to be “simple” and almost basic common courtesy, but the disappointment and tank in self esteem when I don’t receive these things is not worth it. I don’t need the respect, kindness, and and appreciation from others to repay that of my own, because the lack thereof just makes my self worth decline until I feel like I don’t even deserve these things
This is a great message. I feel best when giving to a stranger because I'm really not expecting anything in return.
Did you just upload this at 4:30 in the morning??
Well it’s was a good video so thank you
Yeah I just uploaded it!
@@HybridCalisthenics u tell him bro!
@@HybridCalisthenics this video helped me a lot and thanks
I'm a 48-year-old woman and I'm totally blown away. This guy is unreal and so real and so honest and so brilliant. Thank you❤
Hampton, please always start with "hello my firend" it's so inspiring and it's what got me to your channel, God bless your heart my brother ❣
I always felt like I was doing something wrong by saying no. I’m glad you’re here to tell me this. I feel so much better now. I can’t wait to see your new videos!
This man does not make videos that waste time. That's a true gift. Our time is important and hes here to help on multiple levels. Thank you, brother!!
Guys...just a moment..
Understand this : if you find yourself begging for basic respect,friendship and the same level of attention in return, you need to take a step back
*Because you're asking for the bare minimum*
And if they don't understand that, stop wasting your time, cut them out of your life 👍🏻
Have a great day ❤️
Learnt that the hard way :)
Have a beautiful day
honestly one of my favorite videos you've made, thank you
Part of the Ship, Part of the Crew. You have given me the knowledge and skills to turn my life around. Thank you, Brother
Man, I caught ya on tiktok, found your RUclips channel, was enamoured, but this clip got me hooked, I honestly think this is a very hard thing to do, not so much for strangers, but more so when you do something for people you love. It's an attitude I work on daily, and I think it is fundamental for making the world a better place, as well as keeping myself sane.
Underrated channel.This channel needs to be mainstream.Not just fitness but improving your life and being a better person.
Bless you Hampton. This is so true. I do things for others because it makes me happy. One of my students asked me yesterday, “How can I be happy?” (She’s 14!) and my response was do things for others just because abs expect nothing in return. It feels so good.
Thank you so much! I'm learning from everything you say, fitness and life both. Keep em coming and don't feel pressured that you have to make certain types of content to appeal to us. I've honestly enjoyed every video you've made
Just yesterday, a good friend and I had this very conversation. We both have wonderful life experiences of giving without expectations of return. We also felt we had learned this life lesson from examples of our parents or other people in our lives. It makes life joyous and worthwhile.
Thank you, Hampton. We always benefit from reminding ourselves of this fundamental truth.
Hampton is such an awesome human. Not only does he help us train our bodies to be our best selves, he helps us train our minds to be the best person we can be.
You're amazing, dude. I never thought that someone I found through that place could improve my life so much. Thank you for being part of the ship.
I follow you exactly for this type of content. The calisthenics videos are great and are super helpful but videos like this one are hidden-gems! Thanks for the sharing your words my friend.
You're one of the coolest person out there I know, thanks for your daily advice on health and mind
This humble human has given me hope to start working out slowly but surely. Started walking/ hiking 2 days now and I like the feeling of when your done and feel ALIVE.
Hats off!! This video was somethign else!! Thank you man!! You're truly changing my life! Thanks a lot man!! You're the best!! I will try my best to embody what you said!!
This guy is literally something else,I leally love him
I just recently found this channel. One of the best out there. Thank you for your guidance.
Hello Hampton!
Thank you for explaining this in a very clear way. I've been adopted this 'giving without expecting something in return' principle for a while now. Glad to find someone with the same mind set.
Have a beautiful day my friend!
Thank you so much for these videos Hampton, things like this make me want to improve my own life, the lives of others, and make the world a better place overall.
I needed to hear this today thank you ☺️
I feel so positive after watching his videos i know i did not find it sooner but thank god i found this channel i really enjoy watching his videos thank you!!!
Thank you, I needed this
Hey I just want to tell you how thankful I am for you. You are bringing back humanity to the internet. Your kind messages help spread kindness to the world. I love you. Please continue your wonderful work. Thank you.
Hampton! Thanks you for another gift! Sound and video quality on point! No expectations here, so the FrAnk is forever grateful for your content and perspective!
Hi Hampton, old senior lady, new viewer, and love your calisthenics videos; I am working to regain the strength the flexibility I had at age 8, nearly 60 years ago. Just wanted to share something our pastor told us last week about doing nice things for others, and he was talking in terms of Christians- it is a quote from the great reformer of the church, Martin Luther: “God does not need your good deeds, but your neighbor does!” It really helped me understand why we help others, because they are all our neighbors.
His videos bring me so much peace and he is truly so inspiring! I've also never seen fitness the same way before he makes it simple, fun and interesting.
You are such a well-balanced, great human being. I appreciate your videos. Thank you so much
Bro thank you, you worded something I've been trying to work on in myself. Your videos mean a lot dude.
Oh Hampton, I just discovered you last night, had already gone, "I *really* like this guy," but with this video you've cemented it. This has pretty much been my philosophy through most of my life - you do things because they're the right thing to do, not because of what you're hoping to get out of them.
Whether it's picking up a piece of garbage laying on the ground, mowing an elderly neighbour's lawn for them, or starting a group or event to give back to the community that helped make your own life better, you do it because it's the right thing to do, and kindness matters.
More power to you mate!
This guy has givin me a complete different view of life, he’s the most inspirational man of our generation I swear
You've just made me remember all those times when i helped complete strangers on the internet with problems on their computers... I've never seen any of them ever again but damn it was making me feel good when i was helping
I have seen a lot of motivational videos, life lessons and many more. But this is insanely heart touching for me .Thanks🙏🏻❤
You’re advice is enlightening and very insightful. All of it the fitness and life. Thank you for that.
I explained exact same thing in my own words to one of my dear friend a long time ago , beautifully put in words.
Hampton, you're so wise. Thanks for the knowledge. It makes me want to look at where I could look improve.
You are a saviour, friend. Thank you.
Oh man, you are brilliant! I really loved this :)
I always had thing proof of concept in my mind and I was raised on this idea as well by my wonderful parents and I am thankful. This video helped out fully to polish the idea of it and now I understand it more completely. Keep up the great videos man!!
You're a good dude, Hampton. Thanks for giving of yourself, and the practical advice on health and wellness.
You're super inspiring, man. I've been thinking about donating to St. Jude's for a long time, and finally went and did it while this was playing in the background. Thank you, kind sir.
New perspective for me. Thanks man
I also truly believe in this.. along my life journey I’ve been a giver, I’ve learned lessons from being this way as far as when I was young expecting back, resentment etc.. once I got wiser I was able to find more balance, for instance being able to say no, which I’ve always struggled with, although now I’m still very much a giver without expectation and a much healthier balance.. great video!🙌🏼
I've only got to know about your channel a couple of days ago, but I have to say, you're one of the most positive, genuinely kind-hearted person out there. Cheers. And subbed 😊
Thanks to youtube stories i just found this awesome man. Man, thank you so much.
06:30 I'm crying like a baby. And this is exactly why I follow you. Never watched your Calisthenics video except maybe once or twice. I always watch that video of yours on relationships and friendship when I'm hurt for any of these two reasons.
Hello, part of the ship part of the crew
BEAUTIFUL bro Hampton! Wear that 👑 King :)
Part of the ship part of the crew!
The forbidden app
Bro I don't get it
@@trex4842 it’s an ifunny reference but keep it quiet you aren’t supposed to talk about it
I like you. Your videos are short, sweet, and down to the point. Very simple to understand and moderately entertaining without trying to be that goofy entertaining guy.
I love how humble this guy is
You just penetrated my heart without permission, that shouldn’t be allowed Hampton, much love man keep spreading the positivity
LOVE THIS GUY!!!!!!!!!! He GET'S IT!!!!!!!!! Such a soulfull dude with some GREAT words of wisdom! GOOD JOB, HAMPTON!!
This is the only channel where I let all ads play from start to finish.
We need more life lessons from you man!!! Keep them up!
Thanks! 🙏 This made me feel better. Appreciate it.
Thank you, this opened my eyes to a decent bit of my own bullshit
Dude I could listen to you all day❤️
Yo, Hampton, Great video man, ive been watching your vids for a few months now to get info and tips on working out not only did you help with that but I also found amazing advice for the growth of the mind, and this video has been one of the best ive seen of yours so far, I've been trying to change my perspectives on a lot of things to ones more positive and I think you've helped with that in a big way. Thanks man, keep up the good work and great job on the editing bro 👊.
this is what i needed thank you
This dude is a major bro 😎 always helping us get mentally and physically better keep it up 👍🏾
Love your training videos but these are invaluable life lessons!
Thank you Hampton!
dude i feel like i want to just be trained under your kindness and good vibes. Youre awesome making moves
Thanks for this video I needed this
I've not long started watching your videos. I love the motivation you give. You seem like a really nice human being too. I was 330 pounds April 2020 and now I'm 262 pounds.
I used Joe Rogan, Dave Goggins and Jordan Peterson as my motivation up until I stumbled upon your channel. Now I'm working towards calisthenics and I love the approach you have to get me there.
Just wanted to say thank you
You're doing a great job
Keep it up 👍
Hampton you are a gift to this world
Bro really appreciate the message it was truly beautiful
Idk how i found this channel but i needed this.
I follow you for this content please make more of it, I thank you for constantly reminding me to give without expecting anything from others.
Thanks for Passing The Energy 👍
Thanks so much for all you do Hampton, God bless
Hey dude I love this type of vids pls dont stop doing them.
Wow so true, I realized it now that it is the reason for my misery. I did 'things' for my family, although I had a depressing childhood. At that time I didn't consciously thought about getting something in return.
But when I turned 30, I asked them for a little help for the first time in my life. They denied. And then I felt exactly as you described. It carried for me to my relationship too. Misery, schizophrenia, bipolar and toxicity all because I couldn't live with other people not helping me when I needed.
I need to get over this rage and forgive people in my life.
Nice! I feel if we are in that place inside, not only do our hearts benefit, but our prana/chi energy increases, and our workouts go better...become joyous expressions instead of hard work. Great videos.
Thank you for this! I wish that you have a wonderful life :)
Just found your channel, really enjoying diffrent kinds of content. Cheers Mate, keep up the great work.
I've found myself watching to learn more and more each day.😅🙏🏼
I appreciate the awesome information.
Dude I instantly subbed, I saw your elbow lever video and you explain it so well while looking like gravity is turned off for your or something. Good message on this vid too. New fan ^^
Hey man I hope you read this because this video has honestly just changed the way I need to start thinking. It's funny also that I ended up buying some shoes for myself and I ended up buying two extra pair that I couldn't wear because of the size difference and ended up giving them to my friend NFL a lot better. Anyway I just want to say thank you very much for this video it was very powerful...
Hampton is the nicest guy on RUclips - period.
Beautiful human example to follow in so many ways!