I Feel Like A Total Failure
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- Опубликовано: 12 авг 2022
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Hey Kenny! I made a video in response to this one, for you. I hope it is helpful to you.
Also, keep up the great work! You help people more than you know.
This is incredible! Thank you for taking the time to make a video response. That is something no one ever does and I'm watching your entire video right now. This seriously was awesome to see today. Do you mind if I share this with my audience on this channel?
@@FeelGoodKenny I am very happy to hear that it was meaningful to you! I didn't know how it came across.
If you think it is helpful then please do. Helping people is one of the most meaningful things in life!
You are doing great, Kenny!
Not having friends? I feel same
What I admire most about you is how honest you are about your self improvement journey. Keep it up man!
Everyday I feel that the best thing that can happen to me is not waking up tomorrow. I'm just so far behind the people my age. Never had a "real" friend, never liked any woman, and that made me isolate myself, being lonely, depressed, lost in life and tired of simply breathing. THere was a time when those feelings could be turned back, and I tried to make friends and be myself, but I failed.
After listening to this video, I felt relatable and understood, and I think I will try to fight again, for the last time in life. It will take me a lot of time to even know where to start to improve. But man, it's very hard to choose where to start because there is so much in life I can learn from. I guess time will make me figure out where to go, because now I feel so tired to try anything.
Hope you find your way back to your best self, Kenny! You truly deserve it :)
Do one thing better than yesterday
This alone is helpful for me. It shows me I am not alone even though I know so many people suffer feeling this way. I'm 42yo & it's a daily battle. I get up and pretend everyday.
Near the end of this video & had to tell you to assume you are everything you desire to be. Assume people enjoy your company. Assume you are accomplishing your dreams. Idk you but you sound like an intelligent young man. Keep your head up FeelGoodKenny.
Hi Kenny. I don’t see a failure when I watch your videos. I see a well mannered person who has a home to live in and job to go to each day, a girlfriend to share his life with and hopefully got good health , all positive stuff I’m my eyes. Like you say yourself SMART GUY !!! So come on Kenny you can achieve your goals.
You have 13800 person that find you interesting from the whole pool of humans on youtube.. that is far from nothing. That it impressive. That is larger than a whole lot of communities around the world.
Yo Kenny… I wanna sit down and have a beer with you man just like talk n shit .
Love your channel bro keep it up 👍
Moments where I feel like the biggest failure the most is when my chronic procrastination has taken advantage of me and I find myself trying to complete assignments that I should have started weeks ago but only have 2 nights left to complete that I havent even started yet. Hint: Like right now as I write. And now I feel like I'm f*cked and now I feel like I am going to fail college and never get my degree for the career I desire most.
You bring to us these interestings thoughts to reflect, to think about our feelings and that's awesome. And without knowing you are teaching English, I'm learning a lot from you. Thank you so much for your channel.
Hey...that's the reason why I'm here.
Exactly , the expectation we have in mind could turn our life in negative side during life shocking experience . Just being humble is very important so you just focus on what you can control !
So brave of you to be so vulnerable on yt dude. We all should take about this more
Thsi channel is great because its making me think about myself and i think that is the objective here. I would not call myself a faliure but im certainly not the man i wanted to become. Im doing a lot of thinking over my life these days. I had a lot of fun and many really difficult experiences. Im at a point where i would like to give up but it would be harder than to continu. I think i speak for a lot saying giving up is just not an option in life.
Practice what you preach Kenny and don’t give up ok
When I graduated at 17, I was very ambitious about my dreams, I want to go to art college, I got discount from scolarship program but soon got reality checked that my parents don't have the money. I didn't want to put myself in risk of loan either so I just let go of my dream in defeat instead of trying to push myself further to achieve it.
Then I worked in a very low paying job for 4 years, not to mention the workplace and my boss is toxic af. Last year I couldn't take it anymore so I resigned, tried to start my dream of being a freelancer while learning art more so I can start to make money, it didn't end well because I didn't have the motivation at all and always put myself down or just blatantly comparing myself to others. I don't have very good self-esteem to begin with. End up being jobless and only play games/watching shits to escape reality.
Then my mother died in the same year because of cancer. It really broke my heart to the point my depression just keep getting worse. I don't have very good relationship with my father because he's also been jobless for decade and never really being helpful at all. He always brush off my feeling and said I'm not depressed, He even said I don't need a therapist, I'm just being a crybaby, immature and idiot. Can't believe my own father really push me into questioning my own sanity.
Recently I start to isolate myself and ghost all my friends because I feel like I'm just being negative impact for them. I feel like I'm turning into a worse version of myself each day. I'm not functioning at all. I will be 25 soon too in few months. Currently I'm still jobless and I'm short of money to keep going forward. Hope I can do something about this before I end up in debts or worse.
Watching this video at least reminds me that I'm not alone in this situation.
Sending love and support to everyone as well ❤️
(p.s : sorry if my english is bad)
I think "failure" is a loaded term. It suggests an inability to meet an established goal. But what are your goals? You say you want to improve your channel-and you have, and I'm sure you will continue to do so. I don't know the specifics of what you're aiming for, or what WOULD constitute success in that regard, but I think you have a loyal and growing following, so that can only be good. Maybe you're a hard taskmaster. Difficult to please. Perhaps you should go easy on yourself. Give yourself a break! Only you really know your dreams, and what criteria are required to have those dreams come true. Have you applied for a better job? Do you want a "better" job? What even IS a better job? We all need money but it's not the be all and end all. Contentment has to count for something surely. You don't need to be a rocket scientist or a Nobel prize winning author. If everybody was a high flyer then nobody would be a high flyer. Being a high flyer would be normal. It's all comparative.
Just try to be happy. Now there's a goal worth scoring. As to the "how". Well now, that's the tricky bit.
Thank you very much for this video. I can relate. I'm working a job that is mainly for paying the bills. I haven't.been looking for something better, because I think deep down I don't think I deserve better. That's something I'm trying to get over. I'm trying to love and value myself and do good things for myself without feeling like it's selfish. Because it's not. It's good to help yourself just as you would help anyone else.
Kenny, I think you're very brave and strong to make a video like this that is so honest. This might sound strange, but I think, in a way, it's good that you're going through depression because it means you want to better your situation. Just don't forget to love yourself where you are.
You're not a failure. Don't compare yourself to others on social media, that's a dark place for people try to build themselves up to look like they're better than everyone else. How many of them flaunt their college degrees but are working at starbucks or walmart trying to pay off their $100k student loan debt. How many show off their extravagant beach wedding but then are divorced 5 years later. People are people, when they try to stand tall and act better than you just show them they're not. You're a much better person than the people I seem to argue with regularly that try to ride on a high horse their parents bought for them.
Hey Kenny! My tips to you is to stop comparing your life to others and be grateful for what you already have while you’re in pursuit of what you want. Keep working on yourself and stack wins, you will feel better because you want to achieve success and you’re not where you want to be, yet. Progression is happiness, as you might already know. Btw the fact you’re a loving and kind human being is awesome man. Keep up !
I relate to your stuff, man. I had plenty of times the idea of killing myself
Bro I’d rather be an idiot while I’m talking to people and that’s okay I’ll fail going forwards. And I have a few good friends that’s what I do to stay social. I hope your doing okay
You’re not a failure Kenny. I personally subscribe to the notion that most people are conditioned and programmed to follow a specific model of thinking that encourages negativity and creating a mental environment that thrives on comparing itself to the outside world. In essence, this is a terrible mentality and yet most people do this not because they want to but because society, peers, friends, family, parents and other environmental factors have played a role in creating this negative subconscious. I recommend you read about the Silva technique to get a more in depth explanation about this phenomenon.
I like seeing men opening up about mental illness. It needs to be destigmatized.
And yeah... depression is a b****
love u sir
Your not a failure Kenny and your not worthless either buddy and as for how I deal with low confidence I say to myself every day I'm the shit I'm a boss I got this and it works not all the time but still maybe it will work for you and if you'd like I can give you my email and hopefully we can become friends if not that's fine but the offer is there I know what it's like to have no friends and as for me feeling worthless before well it was because nothing I did was ever good enough in her eyes she treated me like garbage and as for how I got over it well I reached out to a therapist now things are a lot better good luck Kenny you got this
Maybe you should reply to some of these comments and start a conversation