How DARE YOU Talk About How Women Dress!?

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

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  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 3 года назад +103

    As a Muslim Woman I will say hijab and modesty makes me feel like a Queen in America, I get treated with so much respect especially from non muslim men

    • @andyparkerson5297
      @andyparkerson5297 3 года назад +8

      Amen sis

    • @melissaa2337
      @melissaa2337 3 года назад +24

      I had the same experience! When I reverted the same men who would make inappropriate comments or jokes to me wouldn't even use foul language around me when I started wearing hijab and went out of their way to be respectful

    • @starsighting7167
      @starsighting7167 3 года назад +5

      @Hanan M they do, I can tell from the way they interact with me

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 3 года назад +3

      Yep. I do too. The stark difference is amazing.

    • @Just_logic
      @Just_logic 3 года назад +1

      💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻. That’s real power

  • @zeea3500
    @zeea3500 3 года назад +112

    Honestly, these moans and groans are not against you ....they are recriminations against the commandments of ALLAH SWT and his Messenger Pbuh...

  • @chelseyummali
    @chelseyummali 3 года назад +59

    I'm an American convert and it's sad to say but most yes MOST women are completely naive about men. They want to live in an ideal world that doesn't challenge their desires and this simply is not how it is. Even some of my family laugh when they say "oh ya you cover your feet, because if a man sees them he just won't be able to control himself. Ha ha ha..." Hmmm there are websites dedicated to feet fetishes and it's predominately men enjoying this. Sorry never heard one women talk about how sexy a man's foot is. So ahh ya I cover my feet....but what they (naive) hear is I cover myself because men can't control themselves and now I have to pay for that and I'm not an object men should control themselves blah blah blah. The locked doors analogy was great. When women hate on Muslim men for speaking about women's dress I just want to SMH...yet women are so quick to judge everyone, men included. I'm a women and refuse to defend women's unfairness towards the genders. I as a women also prefer women to dress modestly even for a woman's sake. Even women have to lower their gaze these days due to the dress and actions of some women. I will scroll through IG videos and sometimes think whow astigfirallah and cover my eyes. It's not just men who see women's beauty but other women as well. May Allah guide us.

    • @sky-or8jz
      @sky-or8jz 3 года назад

      Woww. 💗💞💞💞💗💞💗💞💗💞💞💗💗💞💞💗. That's beautiful.
      💞💗.
      Women nowadays are just as enslaved to men as they were in 18th century wearing those long three leared dresses.

  • @subhanyahya507
    @subhanyahya507 3 года назад +75

    This man could have spoken 100 different languages but he decided to speak FACTS

    • @bg5462
      @bg5462 3 года назад

      Lol you darn right 👍🌹

  • @Oghuz
    @Oghuz 3 года назад +52

    Brother Saajid has a very calm and honest voice. It really does make the videos more enjoyable and calming to watch. Keep up the good work!

  • @ayoubel371
    @ayoubel371 3 года назад +148

    my typical answer to people who say "women have the right to dress however they want", or generally "people can do whatever they want" is: why they don't get naked then? why liberal women can wear bikinis on beaches or even get totally naked on nude beaches and feel ashamed to do so in the streets? or even worse, imagine a man deciding to dress as he wants by being completely naked and then walking by you while you're sitting with your children in a public park, what is your reaction going to be? wouldn't you immediately jump on your children's eyes trying to cover them? then, what if the majority of men decided to do the same? ...
    Seriously, claiming that everyone can do whatever they want as long as they're "not hurting anyone" is the stupidest thing humanity has ever witnessed.

    • @themercifulguard3971
      @themercifulguard3971 3 года назад +26

      But then the liberals would reply to you and say “that’s against common decency”
      But then ask them a question, “what was common decency back then is demonized now. Women used to be modest, and now hyper-sexualization is glorified and commodified. What makes you think being naked is objectively false in your worldview?”
      These people are so easy to counter

    • @ayoubel371
      @ayoubel371 3 года назад +19

      ​@@themercifulguard3971 YES, that's exaclty how every conversation with liberals goes.
      May ALLAH bless you!

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 3 года назад +22

      @@ayoubel371 their morality is subjective, bro. They literally can't prove and justify anything as "wrong". Literally. That's how pathetic their arguments are. Contradictions upon contradictions. Digging holes for us, but keep falling themselves into them.

    • @kat8303
      @kat8303 3 года назад

      @@themercifulguard3971 what makes YOU think that Islam is objectively correct in this day and age? Yes, morality is subjective and does change over time, depending on how society lives together, however you are missing the point: it's about the different rules for men and women in Islam that bother people.

    • @themercifulguard3971
      @themercifulguard3971 3 года назад +23

      @@kat8303 Because we believe and have good reasons to believe that Islam is the one and only true ideology.
      We can always have a discussion about Islam, but we base our lives on the laws and morality that is constituted by the one who created us and knows what is in our best interest. Adhering to God and His message resonates with human nature and is the key to human fulfillment.
      Objective morality can only come from God. Subjective morality may be adopted throughout the course of many different civilizations, but we reject the notion. Human societies develop, but humans are inherently the same as we were hundreds of thousands of years ago.
      If people are bothered with the rulings of Islam, we simply attempt to convince them and show that it is the right path. This is Dawah.

  • @grandmasterqz
    @grandmasterqz 3 года назад +14

    I read this thing once:
    "Even if every woman was fully covered, men would still be held responsible for what they looked at. And, even if every man was blind, every woman would still be held responsible for how she dresses.

    • @iceyy8741
      @iceyy8741 3 года назад +4

      That’s perfect

  • @bf6724
    @bf6724 3 года назад +37

    I hope it will shed light on the French law that prevents women or girls who wear Hijab from going to school or entering public institutions. They cannot even accompany their children on school trips, in preparation for banning the Hijab even in public places.
    Please shed light on the double standards and hypocrisy of feminist associations and show their complicity and silence on these unjust laws against women.

    • @مايسة
      @مايسة 3 года назад

      Well the feminist page on instgram talked about it stop with the victim mindset

    • @a.b4531
      @a.b4531 3 года назад +9

      I’m a French muslimah.
      I’m suprised that Muslims are only getting aware of what has been happening for years.
      Muslim women have been forbidden to cover their hair at school since 2004 ! In 2010 we were forbidden to cover our faces, and slowly they will forbid any type of veil even in the streets…
      I don’t think anything will change except that it will worsen.
      Please keep in mind that approximately 60% of the French people are pure atheist and that separation between state and church has occurred nearly 120 years ago.
      Most people simply HATE everything that has to do with religion.
      In France there’s what they call “ La laïcité à la Française” which means approximately “ French definition of secularism”, which is a extreme version of secularism compared to other countries.
      Freedom is a “one way street”: as long as you live as far as possible of any religious principle you’re free, otherwise you are brainswashed, submitted…
      Seeing that Muslims stand firm on Islam angers them because they got rid of their own religion, they have no principles.
      Alhamdulillah I no longer live there, may Allah make it easy for our brothers and sisters through the world and allow us to stay in Muslim countries ( for those who left).

    • @fisebilillah4406
      @fisebilillah4406 3 года назад +1

      @@مايسة Stop with the inferiority complex. You are trying to cater to those whom your Lord has said will never accept as a believer in Him. Until you abandon the belief in Him.

    • @CL-jw4ei
      @CL-jw4ei 3 года назад

      @@a.b4531 salam sister, consider coming to Germany if it gets too hard, it’s pretty relaxed for Muslims here and Germans keep their opinions mostly to themselves so it’s rare to be bothered. From what I’ve seen the UK also seems good, but I’ve not been there personally

  • @arslan4388
    @arslan4388 3 года назад +19

    Never fails to baffle me that these are Muslims who think that hijab is a choice. Gets me every single time.

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 3 года назад +8

      Well, atleast they acknowledge the hijab ... There are many who refuse to even acknowledge it, despite calling themselves muslims.

    • @مايسة
      @مايسة 3 года назад +2

      Well in the the Qur'an it's obligated to wear it muslim women has the choice to wear it or not at the end of the day

    • @iceyy8741
      @iceyy8741 3 года назад +2

      @@مايسة yes but that’s basically saying you have the choice to sin or not

    • @ahmedouerfelli4709
      @ahmedouerfelli4709 2 года назад

      It is definitely a choice that you will be held accountable for, like any other choice.

  • @ArmadusMalaysia
    @ArmadusMalaysia 3 года назад +28

    Pretty much how a lot of us Muslims understand this, it's just so hard to convey it without getting demonized. The cancel culture is real.

  • @amalali8712
    @amalali8712 3 года назад +58

    Once on Twitter in a thread that included a lot of Muslims a brother mentioned that some may feel uncomfortable because of I was not wearing the Hijab (although you couldn’t see me fully and picture was distant & partial). I was not at all offended but thanked him & changed the profile picture to abstract.
    We cannot get offended or act defensive when a brother/sister points to us a truth in our religion. Even if they come across as abrupt it doesn’t change the facts of which they speak.
    Alhamdulilah I wear the Hijab now anyway but especially in these crazy times of fitna we can at least encourage one another to not be a fitna for each other & keep on the straight path.
    May Allah guide us all & as always thank you for your efforts in Dawa and reminders to us. Jazak Allahu Khairan

    • @مايسة
      @مايسة 3 года назад +1

      Uncomfortable !! Lol

    • @sabr4647
      @sabr4647 3 года назад +3

      @@مايسة You know I’m not qualified to deal with your issues with Islam but I do hope that you have an objective cogent ideology that is better than Islam in all aspects. imho I don’t think there is one but I can prove that with enough knowledge and my faith Islam because I have an objective ideology.

    • @amalali8712
      @amalali8712 3 года назад +3

      @@مايسة we are encouraged to lower our gaze in Islam so when you interact with someone who should be covered I can see how that can make him uncomfortable. He didn’t use that word exactly but that the appearance is distracting.

    • @amalali8712
      @amalali8712 3 года назад

      @@sabr4647 I don’t have any issues with Islam and very content and confident that with the guidance of Allah SWT that I am on the right path.
      Not quite sure what you mean, what is your cogent ideology?

    • @sabr4647
      @sabr4647 3 года назад

      @@amalali8712 Sorry I wasn’t directing my comment to you but to the one you just responded to. Salam

  • @taposherabeya7857
    @taposherabeya7857 3 года назад +23

    When non Muslims speak about this we know they don’t understand but when so called Muslims try and correct you and get defensive it is really worrying. Shows lack of iman, intelligence and thought. As Muslims we should strive to study and become closer to Allah so we don’t become ignorant in our worldly matters. Knowledge is key. Opinions shouldn’t matter.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Not all of them are alike: Of the People of the Book are a portion that stand (For the right): They rehearse the Signs of Allah all night long, and they prostrate themselves in adoration.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      @Hanan M brother: what do you think of my videos?

  • @HussainFahmy
    @HussainFahmy 3 года назад +10

    *_A Muslim's ultimate objective is to please Allah and hope for Jannah._*

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад +1

      Remember thou saidst to the Faithful: "Is it not enough for you that Allah should help you with three thousand angels (Specially) sent down?

  • @TheMrpalid
    @TheMrpalid 3 года назад +17

    Our youth is trying to outdo qawm Lut AS. May Allah protect us from this fitnah

    • @aphr0d
      @aphr0d 3 года назад +1

      This is so true :(

    • @Fadi5000
      @Fadi5000 3 года назад +1

      Tf is qawm

    • @Fadi5000
      @Fadi5000 3 года назад +1

      @@aphr0d are you going to cry about it

    • @HA-ml4sx
      @HA-ml4sx 3 года назад +1

      @@Fadi5000 youre gay tho

    • @dude3O3
      @dude3O3 3 года назад

      @@Fadi5000 قوم لوط the people of lot عليه السلام

  • @vladdawah
    @vladdawah 3 года назад +17

    Brother Saajid , may Allah spread His Deen through your hands much . May God bless your channel and establish it firmly upon Haqq .
    Stay bless, peace & love from Ukraine 🇺🇦

    • @Nicola.M7
      @Nicola.M7 3 года назад +1

      Salam A akhi, are you Ukrainian? And how many Ukrainian Muslims are in Ukraine? Also hows the living situation down there?

    • @B_muslim
      @B_muslim 2 года назад

      Hope you’re safe

  • @TheMeticulousMoo
    @TheMeticulousMoo 3 года назад +10

    I loved the analogy you shared at the end, it puts the entire issue into perspective! Jazak Allah Khair!

  • @chummychimchim
    @chummychimchim 3 года назад +11

    I wasn't happy with HOW you said it in the short video before.
    You are 100% correct, but maybe, say it like this.
    It makes people more willing to listen

    • @00l80
      @00l80 3 года назад +1

      i think the way he said it was completely correct

  • @painterpetespainterpetes1244
    @painterpetespainterpetes1244 2 года назад

    Thanks!

  • @taskinabdur-rahman3487
    @taskinabdur-rahman3487 3 года назад +10

    Excellent analogy with the thieves.

  • @amerhafza5539
    @amerhafza5539 3 года назад +1

    Brother Saajid! Ullhumdolilaah humankind like yourself exist.. certainly you bring me to tears of happiness, ullhumdolilaah. You convey so calmly, you're definitely a sorce of inspiration to many.
    May Allaah (swt) be pleased with you my brother.

  • @dods1431
    @dods1431 3 года назад +11

    Asalamu alayka brother Saajid subhana Allah your patience your wonderful method of conveying your point of view and the way you bring out the truth and beauty of Islam is something I respect and envy may your face glow with Noor in this world and the next world.

  • @suhaali8860
    @suhaali8860 3 года назад +1

    Jazak Allah Khairan brother Saajid!
    We stand with you and support you.
    الحمد لله

  • @coober-_-3395
    @coober-_-3395 3 года назад +9

    3:55 I came to a point that every time I see a women dressed inappropriately or not modest I see it as a big turn off

    • @tha57
      @tha57 3 года назад

      You’re not supposed to get turned on by women who cover themselves. Are you so out of your head that you cannot see a human being ?

    • @coober-_-3395
      @coober-_-3395 3 года назад +5

      @@tha57 who said I get turned on when I see covered women, with the comment I meant I see unmodest women as unmarrigiable because its an opinion but it also doesn’t mean that I want to marry every women and start an entire family with them of the mere fact that she covers herself

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 3 года назад

      @@coober-_-3395 Allahumma barik akhi.

    • @iceyy8741
      @iceyy8741 3 года назад

      Same bro I’m thinking if she’s dressing like this now she’ll dress the same if I’m with her or not

  • @HabrenOdinsdottir
    @HabrenOdinsdottir 3 года назад +9

    I love you for the sake of Allah (Subhanhu Wa Ta'ala). I'll accept the hate if it comes. Pleasing people is unimportant to the most. As long as I have the Love and Forgiveness of the Creator I'm happy, satisfied, and content.

  • @rathernot6660
    @rathernot6660 3 года назад +1

    I had a white christian women (catholic) asking me a Muslim man the inappropriate dressing of another Muslim woman at corporate work. The Christian woman told me that she does not even wear like that. She was correct sadly and I was embarrassed to be asked this.

  • @sanjanamow
    @sanjanamow 3 года назад +59

    But it is true that wearing revealing clothes is one of the reasons for rape cases... If these shouty mouths of women revealing clothes' search the reasons behind rape cases they will find this revealing clothes clause in there..... I'm an woman, and I know how men, even women reacts to revealing clothes.... And I don't think you need to give these naked loving people any justification, sheikh.... what you have said, it was facts and teachings of Islam.... Now taking this teaching or neglecting it, depends on people and I don't think any practicing Muslim women have ever refused to wear proper cover.... Giving love naked women people justification, is like talking to a corpse....they will always refuse and love to be ignorant

    • @carmenfigueroa6083
      @carmenfigueroa6083 3 года назад +2

      So,so true,but the kid's to that's to much , that's why there so many missing now. I'm so glad someone else 🤔 like the one's who care.

    • @sanjanamow
      @sanjanamow 3 года назад +8

      @@carmenfigueroa6083 don't you teach your child letters or rhymes from the very beginning.... Is it too hard to understand that we should teach our children to be modest from the very beginning

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 3 года назад +11

      Imagine if a man had written this .... Would surely have attracted a lot of unwelcome guests and not-so-friendly replies.

    • @aphr0d
      @aphr0d 3 года назад +15

      Rape is a different scenario. If you mean cat calling and harassment then yes, but rapists do what they do to feel power. They rape women who dress modesty or not. They're sick individuals and something beyond appearance is what triggers them. They want to feel like they have owned and overpowered a person's body.

    • @user-bo1wx3qw2r
      @user-bo1wx3qw2r 3 года назад +4

      Things like this take away the responsibilty of the rapist and he gets away with his actions because the woman is blamed for the way she dressed. No matter what a woman dresscode is does not make a man want to rape except that he himself is a disgusting sicko and thats it. The full blame is on him.
      I know your not going to like to hear this but guess what it happens in muslim countries like egypt where women in hijab in niqab are sexually assaulted. It even happened to a friend of mine who covers in jilbab.

  • @neutrinowave
    @neutrinowave 2 года назад +1

    women dressed hejab in Islam cause allah said so simple that

  • @aminahabegglen6328
    @aminahabegglen6328 3 года назад +2

    I dont understand why nonmuslim worry how muslim woman should dress! Not their bissness how we dress!

    • @الرفيق
      @الرفيق 3 года назад

      @Hanan M no one is forced, its that you dont want to dress the proper islamic dress and want dress like western woman thats all.

  • @thuba7572
    @thuba7572 3 года назад +7

    I love what you do.
    Keep up the work Brother.

  • @Anon-uv9mj
    @Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад +4

    I’m taking that ‘locks on doors’ example🙂

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      There is among them a section who distort the Book with their tongues: (As they read) you would think it is a part of the Book, but it is no part of the Book; and they say, "That is from Allah," but it is not from Allah: It is they who tell a lie against Allah, and (well) they know it!

  • @srobinson157
    @srobinson157 3 года назад +8

    May Allah swt allow you to continue to do what you do. Amin !!!

  • @arifahmed9801
    @arifahmed9801 3 года назад +1

    every video I watch I become a better person and amaze by how well you explain in a very calm and positivity and send valuable messages and lesson

  • @ahmedmousa7664
    @ahmedmousa7664 3 года назад

    Jazakum Allah Khairan

  • @ad-wk2sc
    @ad-wk2sc 3 года назад

    The locked doors analogy was great! Thank you, brother.

  • @tatianak8428
    @tatianak8428 3 года назад +2

    As a revert female, I can judge men reaction to my appearance from both sides (leggings vs hijab). That’s all 100% true, man DO look different at you when you buttoned up, plus we, women , should be able to wear what we want to wear, I don’t understand why someone would not like a modesty dressed lady, what’s the issue here? If you support freedom of choice let us choose.

  • @damirage2010
    @damirage2010 3 года назад +1

    Dear brother all what you said is true at least you did your part and pointed the issue.I'm a she and I get so angry with my sisters online.They tarnished the hijab with nick names hijabi this and hijabi that when they are actually naked.What makes me more angry is their men they just follow them like sheep sorry for the word.Sometimes I'm where are their family members is there not even one person to correct them?They just all flock together truly money is fitna.They used to call people haram police to force them to shut their mouths and now they enter into barren debates.Its sad nowadays we have to fight two front ourselves and our enemies.May Allah help and guide us.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад +1

      "And believe no one unless he follows your religion." Say: "True guidance is the Guidance of Allah: (Fear ye) Lest a revelation be sent to someone (else) Like unto that which was sent unto you? or that those (Receiving such revelation) should engage you in argument before your Lord?" Say: "All bounties are in the hand of Allah: He granteth them to whom He pleaseth: And Allah careth for all, and He knoweth all things."

  • @DrMo-89
    @DrMo-89 3 года назад +1

    Jazzak Allaho khaira … keep preaching the message of Islam … helps us stay firm in sha allah

  • @L4v4molly
    @L4v4molly 3 года назад +3

    The spine of the lesson: accidents can happen regardless of the presence of preventative measures. But, preventative measures are just something that can reduce the likelihood of something happening, which is a rational course of action for those wanting to avoid harm. The lack of preventative measures are _often_ a reason for accidents and undesirable things happening.
    It's your choice¹ to take these measures, generally.
    1. This may depend on the situation. If the situation is dire and preventative measures are mandatory, then it's better to view that taking the measures is not a choice, but a requirement. In the case of hijab, which carries religious weight, is mandatory according to the scripture as Allah has commanded women to do it in the situations prescribed.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Say: "We believe in Allah, and in what has been revealed to us and what was revealed to Abraham, Isma'il, Isaac, Jacob, and the Tribes, and in (the Books) given to Moses, Jesus, and the prophets, from their Lord: We make no distinction between one and another among them, and to Allah do we bow our will (in Islam)."

  • @ikkysubmitsagain6087
    @ikkysubmitsagain6087 3 года назад +3

    "In a society where people don't lock their doors"
    Isn't that Canada?

  • @wasiuadekunle8980
    @wasiuadekunle8980 3 года назад +1

    brother whenever you get hateful response from people about your religious view just remember some of us that are genuinely seeking the truth and move on with the good work.
    May Allah reward you, much love from Nigeria

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад +1

      Allah had helped you at Badr, when ye were a contemptible little force; then fear Allah; thus May ye show your gratitude.

  • @nicklausb
    @nicklausb 3 года назад +1

    If they love the fire for themselves, then I love that they get what they have worked hard for.

  • @Ahmed_IB
    @Ahmed_IB 2 года назад

    Masha’ Allah brother Saajid talks in such a sweet voice you’d just focus ONLY on what he’s saying
    Keep going brother, May Allah (SWT) bless you and all of us, Ameen…

  • @bintjamiel2873
    @bintjamiel2873 3 года назад +1

    To all women covered modestly wallahi say Alhamdulillah and may Allah reward you all with Jannah Al-Phiridous.Ameen
    And to those women attacking the truth, may Allah guide you all.Ameen

  • @rw9427
    @rw9427 3 года назад +9

    👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 I am new to Islam and I wanted to know where in the Quran can I find info about this. Thank you

    • @unistavanjesquarediagonal2687
      @unistavanjesquarediagonal2687 3 года назад

      Quran mentions the veil several times, but the Apostle of Allah aleyhi selam elaborates more on the veil and hijab of men and womrn in his sayings (Hadiths)

  • @achraf9946
    @achraf9946 3 года назад +15

    Subhanallah Brother those coments showing the westernizing of the Ummah. Alhamdulilah for Islam that we have regulations what we have to wear for women and MEN.

    • @sweettea1193
      @sweettea1193 3 года назад

      Men can be shirtless so men's regulations are minimul and don't affect society

  • @finnjabi
    @finnjabi 3 года назад +1

    Sisters, we are not doing it for this world....We do it for the Akhira. For Allah!

  • @Vreidyfarm
    @Vreidyfarm 2 года назад

    Allah bless you brother Saajid,
    I think the counter argument should be “will women be ok to see men invariably walking nearly completely naked in the streets and at work places?”
    Im sure the answer is NO. The decent ones among them will certainly consider it a clear case of sexual harassment. In the same vein we can define the way women are forced or encouraged to dress half naked a clear case of sexual harassment towards men.

  • @safwanmahmud9434
    @safwanmahmud9434 3 года назад

    Loved your head hat!

  • @Mahi_013
    @Mahi_013 3 года назад +7

    Actually just a few days back some other people and I told a Muslim girl in the comment section of a channel named One Message Foundation to wear hijab and about TEN Muslims started telling me I was wrong 😂😂😂

    • @syedsaad1594
      @syedsaad1594 3 года назад +6

      Simps be like: "sToP HaRaAm PoLiCiNg AnD DoNt bE RuuuuDe To YoUr FeLLoW MuSLiMZzz😡😡"

    • @aymanus04
      @aymanus04 3 года назад +2

      Uthman ibn faruq gang

    • @مايسة
      @مايسة 3 года назад

      Ok why would you tell her to wear hijab ?? She can make this choice herself

    • @aymanus04
      @aymanus04 3 года назад +4

      @@مايسة because advising is good, why shouldnt she,? Isnt it good foe her if she wears it, likewise i would advise her not to take drugs or i would advise a boy to lower his gaze, why u get sensetive, u get sensetive when we want the good for u, modesty os so beautiful, we want to save you from the western society kind of style,

    • @مايسة
      @مايسة 3 года назад +1

      @@aymanus04 the original comment said "I told a muslim girl to wear hijab" not advised her there's a difference

  • @cwsaawrvx
    @cwsaawrvx 3 года назад +8

    Where's freedom of speech now
    We are proud of sharia, hudood etc wether our Car and hypocrites hate it or not

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 3 года назад

      Facts.

  • @cwsaawrvx
    @cwsaawrvx 3 года назад +3

    Why are they telling us not to tell women to how to dress ?????

    • @aymanus04
      @aymanus04 3 года назад

      @Nasser K right, unfortunately telling telling how to dress was before okay, but telling them now they would feel as if we re physically attacked them, dont do that, bc they have been brainwashed so much to actually react like a tiger, rather do it in a diffrent way, I know some women dressed more modest, bc the society they live in men find modesty to be attractive

    • @aymanus04
      @aymanus04 3 года назад

      @Hanan M what? No , i donr believe modest clothes saves u from rape, and no, i wouldn't tell a woman to cover up to not be raped but i would tell her to do and advice her to do it so she follows rule of Allah,

  • @dr.sheren1200
    @dr.sheren1200 3 года назад +2

    This is very wise. Jazakallah khair

  • @aleee2010
    @aleee2010 3 года назад

    Well said, brother.
    Very true.

  • @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905
    @limitedquantitysufiyyahexp4905 2 года назад

    8:00
    MashaAllah brother.

  • @criminozs
    @criminozs 2 года назад

    mashaAllah good video brother Saajid, may Allah SWT guide us all to the straight path ameen.

  • @fredmiami
    @fredmiami 3 года назад +1

    The people who are against God and faith have been dehumanized. They've been stripped of their God given values such as civility, sympathy, modesty, humanity, empathy, consideration of others, honor, unity...etc. it's a petty how we see humans turning into animals and the amazing thing is they're not self conscious of themselves being transformed it.

  • @realistic6294
    @realistic6294 3 года назад +2

    I have learned quite a bit from you brother. JAK

  • @shezamufc9278
    @shezamufc9278 3 года назад

    Keep tell the truth brother .
    Like you said even the prophets were mocked ,but truth always Prevails.
    May Allah reward you for the good you do....

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Be not like those who are divided amongst themselves and fall into disputations after receiving Clear Signs: For them is a dreadful penalty,-

  • @chabbouhamine3695
    @chabbouhamine3695 3 года назад

    jazzaka allah khairan
    brother

  • @17-MASY
    @17-MASY 3 года назад +1

    7:50 nice analogy

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад +1

      "Yea, - if ye remain firm, and act aright, even if the enemy should rush here on you in hot haste, your Lord would help you with five thousand angels Making a terrific onslaught.

  • @juliankelley6253
    @juliankelley6253 3 года назад +1

    Jazak Allah khair. May Allah bless you brother. People don’t want to admit how much society has deteriorated since this so-called progressive movement started. Spreading diseases through sex, the family falling apart, building more prisons, murders etc. May Allah guide us and keep us on His path, ameen.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      If anyone desires a religion other than Islam (submission to Allah), never will it be accepted of him; and in the Hereafter He will be in the ranks of those who have lost (All spiritual good).

  • @Kozmonature
    @Kozmonature 3 года назад +3

    Hello my Muslim / brother you are the best you’re doing so good for everyone.

  • @Ricardo-po5sy
    @Ricardo-po5sy 3 года назад +1

    Love the intro❤️

  • @sarahqamar6377
    @sarahqamar6377 3 года назад

    Brilliant ma Shaa Allah.... at the end we will be alone going to our graves... we will be alone answerable for our decisions and deeds.
    So doing the right thing is going to benefit us only!

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Remember two of your parties Meditated cowardice; but Allah was their protector, and in Allah should the faithful (Ever) put their trust.

  • @pozart3000
    @pozart3000 3 года назад +1

    Purely the example of tying your camel

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      As to those who reject Faith, and die rejecting,- never would be accepted from any such as much gold as the earth contains, though they should offer it for ransom. For such is (in store) a penalty grievous, and they will find no helpers.

  • @mahzala9967
    @mahzala9967 3 года назад +1

    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @killingspeerx
    @killingspeerx 3 года назад +1

    Brother Saajid, please watch "The liberation of the western woman" video. It is long but one of the most important videos you will ever see

  • @MSAli86
    @MSAli86 3 года назад

    Nice locked door analogy

  • @fifitheflowerpot
    @fifitheflowerpot 3 года назад

    Today a TV host top front was so low that even the guy was feeling uncomfortable where to look.

  • @famo7503
    @famo7503 3 года назад +5

    It’s also like saying “why should cops have to wear bullet proof vests just because criminals can’t control themselves”

    • @tha57
      @tha57 3 года назад

      So you're saying Allah created men to be so vile that they cannot control themselves when they see women's limbs ?

    • @blueboy3098
      @blueboy3098 3 года назад

      @@tha57 no where did you get that logic from. by that logic you could say Allah created men to be so vile that they cannot control themselves when they see a bike without a lock.
      fact is there are evildoers, criminals etc. out there who will do evil. a person putting a lock on his bike or a woman covering up as Allah has commanded simply protects them from such criminals. most men dont rape and most men dont steal so your statement is totally intellectually deficient

  • @muamerblazevic
    @muamerblazevic 3 года назад +2

    Men have the most right to talk about it because we are affected by this not them. If men dressed as women (not a dress but let's say those super short shorts) everyone would be like "what the hell dude get help". Some women will whine "wah I want to have same rights as men I want to be in power I want more money" but she lets immoral men dictate how she will dress.

    • @muamerblazevic
      @muamerblazevic 3 года назад +1

      @@sweettea1193
      Wth? Who wears tight clothes? Normal pants jeans sweat pants sure but those skinny jeans and that garbage hell no.

    • @sweettea1193
      @sweettea1193 3 года назад

      @@muamerblazevic plenty of men wear tight pants and shorts.... I'm glad you don't though

  • @rtruth550
    @rtruth550 3 года назад +1

    Brother Saajid. Be steadfast in your way just like you are now. InsaAllah Allah will reward you for steadfastness.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад +1

      Do they seek for other than the Religion of Allah?-while all creatures in the heavens and on earth have, willing or unwilling, bowed to His Will (Accepted Islam), and to Him shall they all be brought back.

  • @mujtaba8628
    @mujtaba8628 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing this akhi, We truly are living in a messed up world. Whenever a brother or any daee gives dawah to women about dress then he always always gets bashed at by words like oh you should lower your gaze lower your gaze lower your gaze..every single time they say this and boom topic changed, brother blamed and sister got the free pass to continue to spread the immorality she was doing already. Remember sisters the solution is always two way: men should lower their gaze and you all should cover up and dress aprropriately. And its doesnt matter what i am saying, it doesnt matter what brother saajid is saying, BUT IT MATTERS WHAT ALLAH IS SAYING, IT MATTERS WHAT PROPHET PBUH WAS SAYING. And we daees are just spreading the word of allah swt. Oh and please sisters stop following those apostate murtad feminists even if they are muslims coz they are misguided so so much and wake up coz their agenda is satanic. You have islam you dont need any rights, The supreme Allah swt gave you every right. Say alhamdulilah for islam.

  • @mazzmarymaria
    @mazzmarymaria 3 года назад

    Great point brother May Allah reward you

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      It is only the Evil One that suggests to you the fear of his votaries: Be ye not afraid of them, but fear Me, if ye have Faith.

  • @zaidhernandez4601
    @zaidhernandez4601 2 года назад

    Man if only people could realize

  • @fatimah9202
    @fatimah9202 3 года назад

    Jazaa kAllahu khairah

  • @kathleenphillips2933
    @kathleenphillips2933 3 года назад

    As a woman who very recently has taken Shahada, I appreciate everything the you have said here.
    I have been wearing a turban for a couple of years just to begin my journey of head covering, before God/Allah even put it my mind to become a Muslim.
    Now, I too am struggling with the idea of wearing a full hijab(not niqab).
    I especially admire the traditional Somali wear of the full hijab being 2 flowing pieces of top and bottom.
    But I notice, on this same note, that most men are not covering as well.
    I thought, according to Quran, that men were to cover from navel to at least mid thigh, if not to the knee.
    They have shirts and jackets that fit this description, ie. Neru style jackets and shirts, which may be worn for every occasion.
    What I see however is the typical Western/ European business, shirt tucked in, wear.
    But when men are in other Muslim countries, or in Mosque, the correct attire according to Quran, is worn.
    Why is this?
    It seems that men too seem to have this 'covering' issue .
    I wish this problem was discussed as much as the head covering issue for women.
    When men don't adhere to their responsibility as being in awe of the Creator GOD/ ALLAH, and respectful of the covering mandated in Quran for them, then as we women, who are to follow man's lead, what do you expect to happen but the confusion on this issue that is currently happening throughout western countries today within the Islamic communities.
    I'm sorry to say this, but it is hypocritical speech from men towards head/ neck and chest covering for women, when you men cannot adhere to the Quranic rules for yourselves.
    Think about this before you loudly proclaim that we women don't understand what it is like to do business etc. in the west, and how we men would be perceived by other non- Muslim men if we did not adhere to their dress code!!
    Oh really... is that not what some Muslim women have been saying?!!
    All Muslims should want to follow the rules of ALLAH/ GOD, and happily wear clothing the way He mandates we wear them in His Quran.
    Men, of All ages and states of life, please... take the lead.

    • @akhyaliarchive
      @akhyaliarchive 3 года назад +1

      May Allah guide you .

    • @amjanwaters6142
      @amjanwaters6142 3 года назад +1

      Sister, dont think about others. We should start from ourselves.
      Everybody will be responsible for themselves in front of Allah, alone.
      May Allah guides us all, and gives steadfastness..

    • @lorenzomuhammad1715
      @lorenzomuhammad1715 3 года назад

      @@amjanwaters6142 But she has a point! You didn’t comment on Saajids video that he should worry about himself, why would you comment to this young woman in such a way? Take guidance as well.

  • @eman6071
    @eman6071 3 года назад +2

    JazakhAllah khairan for the video, brother sajid. Assalam alaykum brother, what are your thoughts on the differentiation between slave women not wearing hijab and free women dawning it by obligation, is this true, and in this case what are your thoughts on this in light of the video?

  • @bibicardona7924
    @bibicardona7924 3 года назад +1

    love love love your videos! Allah knows best 😊✨

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      But those whose faces will be (lit with) white,- they will be in (the light of) Allah's mercy: therein to dwell (for ever).

  • @jeannassief5786
    @jeannassief5786 3 года назад

    May Allah keep us and you firm. The really strange thing is how people accuse the Muslim of blindly following whereas we see can see that their made up lifestyle is simply not the complete and unquestionable truth. Social conditioning, blind following and worshipping desires are the root cause of this wickedness.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      But those who reject Faith after they accepted it, and then go on adding to their defiance of Faith,- never will their repentance be accepted; for they are those who have (of set purpose) gone astray.

  • @svenwaldmann4387
    @svenwaldmann4387 3 года назад

    جزاك الله خير 👍🏻

  • @alicomando1195
    @alicomando1195 3 года назад

    you are better than a million because you embrace the Deen
    I Love You For The Sake of Allah
    Can You Make Video About
    How To Save Ourselves From These Wordly temptations?
    Barakallah
    May Allah Raise Your Degree Every Second

  • @mehboobmangera6327
    @mehboobmangera6327 3 года назад

    Well said

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Let there arise out of you a band of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong: They are the ones to attain felicity.

  • @afrozzz5634
    @afrozzz5634 3 года назад

    I think these discussions are important but personally the delivery is important and I haven't really seen any 'problematic' statements from you. However I wish more women had these discussions among themselves as well, insha'Allah khayr

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      It is not (possible) that a man, to whom is given the Book, and Wisdom, and the prophetic office, should say to people: "Be ye my worshippers rather than Allah's": on the contrary (He would say) "Be ye worshippers of Him Who is truly the Cherisher of all: For ye have taught the Book and ye have studied it earnestly."

  • @MrNagios
    @MrNagios 3 года назад

    This is a great subject to discuss bro, I'd like you to develop it further.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      They believe in Allah and the Last Day; they enjoin what is right, and forbid what is wrong; and they hasten (in emulation) in (all) good works: They are in the ranks of the righteous.

  • @Hf.724
    @Hf.724 3 года назад

    Idk why no one talks about male modesty in islam because it’s gotten to the point it’s not even common knowledge to some people that men need to cover from navel to knee or it is but not heavily stressed upon

  • @mamakissi7750
    @mamakissi7750 3 года назад

    Assalamu alaikum brother keep going we love you

  • @jona7200
    @jona7200 3 года назад

    Sajid and all individuals who have certain moral values (like truth) over lusts and desires are rare indeed.

  • @basharat4693
    @basharat4693 3 года назад

    Salam Alaikum, brother.
    What will you say about the women who are following the dress code of Islam but still get the same treatment?
    I had the same argument with someone yesterday and I hurt their sentiments by saying what you said. And I believe I am not wrong. But what my mistake was that I should have remained silent and say nothing. I gave an opinion where I was not asked to give one. In my heart, I know I am right. I believe in doing your own part before you expect others to do theirs. Just like in the example of locking doors to prevent someone from breaking in in an environment where locking doors is not practised.
    I have decided to not get involved with certain people in my life because when I am with them, I am in danger. Now if I go and sit with them, while they are the ones to blame, I myself am also to blame for still not protecting myself to the best of my capability.
    Those who have been wronged will never accept their part, unless they are matured enough to see the truth. Ay Allah keep us safe and give us hidayah.

  • @tariqs4357
    @tariqs4357 3 года назад

    Keep daring to talk about it Akhi 🕋

  • @aymanus04
    @aymanus04 3 года назад +1

    Lets just appreciate all the good and beautiful comments here

  • @osamamanan2723
    @osamamanan2723 3 года назад +1

    They want to promote nudity thats all.

  • @fatimah9202
    @fatimah9202 3 года назад

    Beloved
    Your Lord did not create amongst you
    Male and female
    Beautifully different
    Physically and mentally
    To rage war amongst yourselves
    Or to vie with each other
    He created you such
    That you may live in harmony
    Supporting each other
    Through balanced roles
    Prescribed by Allah
    So do not be confused
    By the turmoil around you
    All over the World
    It is not backwards or suppressive
    To respect and serve each other
    Learn about the values
    That Islam has already presented you
    And stick to them

  • @humbled3747
    @humbled3747 3 года назад

    SubhanAllah, we are living in an era when dressing with modesty and behaving modestly can be an issue of argument and criticism.
    Indeed now we can see how Iblees is playing with our nafs. When he transgressed by saying "Then I will come to them from before them and behind them, from their right and from their left, and You will not find most of them as thankful ones (i.e. they will not be dutiful to You)’”
    And our lord Allah Subhanuwata'ala the most high said: "Verily, My slaves (i.e. the true believers of Islamic Monotheism) - you have no authority over them. And All-Sufficient is your Lord as a Guardian".
    May Allah Subhanuwata'ala grant us as his true believers when we'll leave this Dunia.
    Ameen.
    Salam.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      O ye who believe! Take not into your intimacy those outside your ranks: They will not fail to corrupt you. They only desire your ruin: Rank hatred has already appeared from their mouths: What their hearts conceal is far worse. We have made plain to you the Signs, if ye have wisdom.

  • @nazIslamicguidance
    @nazIslamicguidance 3 года назад

    I love your videos...💕💕💕

  • @00l80
    @00l80 3 года назад

    Brother Saajid I love you for the sake of Allah !!

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Ye are the best of peoples, evolved for mankind, enjoining what is right, forbidding what is wrong, and believing in Allah. If only the People of the Book had faith, it were best for them: among them are some who have faith, but most of them are perverted transgressors.

  • @OG_Jin_Bling
    @OG_Jin_Bling 3 года назад

    How dare youuuuuuuuuuuuuu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @maxamedxasan4079
    @maxamedxasan4079 3 года назад

    Asalamu Alaykum brother Saajid. Keep your eyes on the price(jannah) no matter what friends of Satan say. They went to misguide us 24/7. May Allah keep us firm on his religion until we die Aamiin

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Except for those that repent (Even) after that, and make amends; for verily Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

  • @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest
    @StarsabovetheEmeraldForest 3 года назад

    Asalamu alaikum. I think those women who are fighting this seem to forget about something called cause and effect.
    Using the logic from the one comment “weak men can’t control themselves” then the same logic would apply that a weak woman can’t control what she decides to put on when she chooses to dress half naked. Women should cover just like men should cover and we should all lower our gaze, it is as simple as that. Allah knows best.

    • @thereminder4776
      @thereminder4776 3 года назад

      Nay.- Those that keep their plighted faith and act aright,-verily Allah loves those who act aright.