Thankful teenage boy gives sweet speech during adoption

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • This 13-year-old Oregon boy told a judge how happy he was to get adopted, and it brought his mom to tears. His sweet words about his family will melt your heart.
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Комментарии • 11 тыс.

  • @leefelix0325
    @leefelix0325 4 года назад +82102

    Parenting is not about giving birth to a child. It's about raising a child.

    • @Eva_Abdillah
      @Eva_Abdillah 4 года назад +754

      Aaaa... couldn't be more agree

    • @slowmo4388
      @slowmo4388 4 года назад +445

      Bro you got like five likes in two seconds

    • @t.swaghetti8581
      @t.swaghetti8581 4 года назад +244

      a Stay ayyy wise words

    • @TehUltimateSnake
      @TehUltimateSnake 4 года назад +84

      GayusSchwulius lol i’ll be damned if I raise another dude’s kids.

    • @r0mannam0r
      @r0mannam0r 4 года назад +206

      No it is about creating a atmosphere of love. So they can grow to theire full potential you only raise flocks. The same with flower you just give it love and support you handle the soil the light and observe how it grows and beautiful it becomes.

  • @MMAfighter38113
    @MMAfighter38113 4 года назад +20677

    Taking any child out of foster care and giving them a permanent family has to be one of the most noble things a human can do

    • @sitikhadijahshawal414
      @sitikhadijahshawal414 4 года назад +48

      Yes

    • @Joyfulminimalist
      @Joyfulminimalist 4 года назад +190

      Ideally, foster care reunites children with their families and any issues in the home get resolved. But for children who have no family to return to/ rights signed away- yes, these children want a family just like anyone else.

    • @ineedhoez
      @ineedhoez 4 года назад +7

      🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @rickybaker2223
      @rickybaker2223 4 года назад +6

      William Gray stfu lol

    • @MMAfighter38113
      @MMAfighter38113 4 года назад +54

      Rvg not every white couple who adopts minority children is rich.

  • @karthiksankaran9514
    @karthiksankaran9514 3 года назад +5198

    Getting adopted with your sibling…best thing to happen

    • @eliasvelasquez6532
      @eliasvelasquez6532 3 года назад +42

      Nothing but blessings and well wishes, happiness and love, we need more of this mushy goodness, beautiful family.

    • @sailorsavvy9690
      @sailorsavvy9690 3 года назад +2

      @@gook5219 ...huh??

    • @mr.x8948
      @mr.x8948 3 года назад +61

      So true, they split me and my siblings up. It takes a toll on your soul.

    • @imlost19
      @imlost19 3 года назад +11

      ​@@mr.x8948 awful

    • @bookmadgirl94
      @bookmadgirl94 3 года назад +50

      Once my mom died and my dad kinda noped out a friend of theirs took me and my older brother in while being a single parent to three. If we had gone to foster care, my brother (who was around 7 when our mom died. I was 6 months) and I would have probably been separated. Now he's 22 and works his favorite job as a mechanic. I'm 14 (almost 15!!!) And have the best life. I couldn't imagine not being with my brother. If we had gotten separated when we were younger, either I wouldn't even know I had a brother or I would remember and it would rip me apart not knowing where he was. I'm so grateful to have had a second chance ❤️

  • @elonmusk-mars123
    @elonmusk-mars123 2 года назад +1507

    “Being a mother is an attitude, not a biological relation.” - Robert A. Heinlein

    • @elonmusk-mars123
      @elonmusk-mars123 2 года назад +4

      @بُب بُب I agree 100%

    • @OS-yg9fr
      @OS-yg9fr 2 года назад +11

      "and only women can be mothers" - science (or "anti-trans rhetoric")

    • @TheWarriorLV
      @TheWarriorLV 2 года назад +5

      @بُب بُب in an ideal world the biological parents would still be their parents..it takes a lot to take a child away by the state. So in cases of adoption, unless the parent died, it's unfortunately not good parents even though they are the biological so it's better the child is adopted by a good home than in the system for years with no family nor a stable home

    • @TheTibetyak
      @TheTibetyak 2 года назад +27

      "But nothing can replace a biological mother". I respectfully disagree. Too many family law courts take this same approach and return biological children to their grossly unfit parents. There is nothing magical about reproduction. The far, far majority of humans are biologically capable of having children. Having a child does not guarantee bonding or imbue special powers of newly assumed responsible decision making. There are plenty of biological parents who not only can but should be replaced and that replacement can be far superior to their parental lineage or rights.

    • @QueenSavage1030
      @QueenSavage1030 2 года назад +1

      100% WRONG

  • @johnbasbastv6052
    @johnbasbastv6052 4 года назад +7916

    Giving birth to a child doesnt automatically mean you're a mother. This just proved that point.

    • @lewisroxar3948
      @lewisroxar3948 4 года назад +69

      JohnBasbasTV erm it does tho

    • @susy4511
      @susy4511 4 года назад +170

      @@lewisroxar3948 yes, when you give birth to a child you are automatically a mother and bla bla, but that wasnt his point, the point is that a mother is not the only who gives birth, because love is love and there shouldnt be considered emotional differences in children when they are adopted.

    • @bigd5749
      @bigd5749 4 года назад +169

      Anyone can make a child, but it takes someone special to properly love and raise him/her. And someone incredible to adopt one.

    • @SpudEater
      @SpudEater 4 года назад +63

      My adopted father raised me with every ounce of love he could ever muster and he’s the reason I am the man I am today. I can’t begin to thank him and my mother enough for the life that they provided for me and I’m proud to be a part of my family.

    • @johnbasbastv6052
      @johnbasbastv6052 4 года назад +16

      @@SpudEater i always believed that everything has a reason. Yes, youre biological parents left you but someone replace them and give you all the love you ever had.

  • @pls9ravn
    @pls9ravn 5 лет назад +8500

    Why do people even use the insult “you’re adopted” like there’s nothing wrong with that.

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 5 лет назад +48

      Who uses that insult?

    • @mr.struggle7648
      @mr.struggle7648 5 лет назад +520

      @@lilmissmonsterrr many people actually. Mostly as a joke but yeah.

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 5 лет назад +17

      @@mr.struggle7648 what type of people? I've never heard it before.

    • @CaptainDaAwesome
      @CaptainDaAwesome 5 лет назад +169

      The premise is that your parents hated you so much they wanted to get rid of you. That's why it's an insult. I have a friend who was adopted, but I still use the insult(not on him) as a way to tease my friends and family members. Nothing wrong with teasing.

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 5 лет назад +29

      @@CaptainDaAwesome may I ask your age?

  • @pacifiquenteta
    @pacifiquenteta 2 года назад +271

    See how the mother broke in tears when the boy said "they are the best thing that ever happened to us"
    😭😭
    She loved them but also needed to hear that kind of words coming from the kids

    • @kishavomdach126
      @kishavomdach126 Год назад +4

      ♥️

    • @JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet
      @JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet 4 месяца назад

      Unfortunately they divorced and it didnt workout but they had good intentions

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 Месяц назад +1

      @@JustaKarenDiscoveredTheIntrnet That doesn’t negate how much she loves her kids. Some relationships just don’t work out

  • @kevin6988
    @kevin6988 4 года назад +7566

    I was adopted when I was 3 from a abusive orphanage in Saint Petersburg Russia, very grateful to be able to come to Florida and have the proper care I needed. My dad always said “making a baby is the easy part, raising one is where you really have the right to call your self a parent”

    • @eshk3926
      @eshk3926 4 года назад +78

      BROWARD KEVIN your lucky bro; cherish your time wisely

    • @ProTamilan
      @ProTamilan 4 года назад +16

      Wait how'd you know it was abusive when you were 3? You were too young to know anything.

    • @jci703
      @jci703 4 года назад +20

      those are really wise words

    • @lilyartlip320
      @lilyartlip320 4 года назад +38

      Lowkey same. Kemerovo was mine. Very bad place. Almost died until my mom (single) decided she would adopt me and fell in love with me from a picture. Very grateful

    • @kevin6988
      @kevin6988 4 года назад +69

      Proதமிழன் My parents who adopted me told me, they said they hardly fed us in the orphanage and didn’t give us the proper care all 100 of us needed. That’s why I have a bad habit of rocking myself to sleep even till this day. Because the women who ran the orphanage wouldn’t Rock us to sleep.

  • @JamesKovacic
    @JamesKovacic 5 лет назад +2807

    Child: *exists and breathes*
    Mother: *uncontrollable sobbing*

    • @devU_69
      @devU_69 5 лет назад +29

      You made me laugh so damn hard.
      Lmaooooo

    • @danakarloz5845
      @danakarloz5845 5 лет назад +3

      James Kovacic 🤣🤣🤣🥰💕

    • @danakarloz5845
      @danakarloz5845 5 лет назад +1

      🤣

    • @kellyalves756
      @kellyalves756 5 лет назад +91

      I love how he kind of keeps glancing at her and adding just a little more chopped onions to his speech. “Oh, is she pulling it together? We’ll see about that.” 😁

    • @private9260
      @private9260 4 года назад +13

      Lol true and accurate, the power of love :)

  • @Drea_A
    @Drea_A 5 лет назад +42044

    Kid: *says 1 cute thing*
    Mom: *immediately breaks down*
    Yeah that's his momma lol

  • @AtortAerials
    @AtortAerials Год назад +254

    I was given up for adoption and found out I was adopted at 37…I’m 50 now caring my my Mom who is suffering with dementia. She gave me a chance at life and now it’s time to honor her and do the same.

    • @lucasart328
      @lucasart328 Год назад +8

      Good for u bro❤

    • @AtortAerials
      @AtortAerials Год назад +12

      @@lucasart328 simply so grateful for her love…she is an angel of a Mom. 🙏🏾

    • @priyaseth9877
      @priyaseth9877 Год назад +9

      She certainly raised you well that you have become such a great person. Most of the biological kids dont even care for their old parents these days

    • @zerocal76
      @zerocal76 11 месяцев назад +7

      Its great to see something like this online instead of the usual media coverage and headlines. I hope both of you have a great rest of the year 😀

    • @nothingnewunderthesun4292
      @nothingnewunderthesun4292 9 месяцев назад

      @@priyaseth9877Parents, love us consistently if they do. Not like friends or even my ex who used me for various things. In her case it was looks & s** and my knowledge / abilities, in the case of my „friends“ it was mostly money and connections. The only people I am sure to be able to count on are my parents. Maybe three friends, but I‘ll never act like I am sure about that anymore, I just hope I am.

  • @sunflower2187
    @sunflower2187 4 года назад +3121

    I wanna adopt kids when I'm older, there are far too many babies without families in this world that deserve everything

  • @addiasmr8794
    @addiasmr8794 3 года назад +8962

    dayshawn went to my school, we had a few classes together and then he moved away about a year and a half ago. such a sweet kid. i felt bad because people weren’t always the nicest to him. he always checked in on everyone around him to see how they’re doing, always had a smile on his face, always wanted to give people high-fives and hugs and was always so positive and the brightest person in the room. such a wise, very gentle, genuine, kind soul.

    • @_CaptPlanet
      @_CaptPlanet 3 года назад +690

      What kind of horrible people wouldn't be nice to him?!

    • @melbell5157
      @melbell5157 3 года назад +765

      @@_CaptPlanet kids. Kids are mean to each other.

    • @_CaptPlanet
      @_CaptPlanet 3 года назад +592

      @@melbell5157 must be the ones whose parents didn't teach them any better.

    • @ninam.6997
      @ninam.6997 3 года назад +472

      The thought of kids being mean to him breaks my heart

    • @j.t1200
      @j.t1200 3 года назад +56

      Aww

  • @yoloyolo1307
    @yoloyolo1307 4 года назад +4154

    There is a vip lounge in heaven for people that adopt kids and pets.

    • @超虎生活
      @超虎生活 4 года назад +304

      I adopted over 100 rats when I moved into my new apartment. Your comment has filled me with hope.

    • @mehdimed1568
      @mehdimed1568 4 года назад +32

      @National Autistic Socialism yeah for some people it's the same thing apparently

    • @internalharm
      @internalharm 4 года назад +28

      Lol pets lamo. You put pets in the same category is crazy. Pets are for emotional healing that's all. I have 2 friends that adopted pet cause they cant commit to raising a child. They would have a different life style and they dont want that. Wait until they are old and no one comes to vist.

    • @viscalso1120
      @viscalso1120 4 года назад

      That’s soo cute :)

    • @thereefmannanofishtanks6651
      @thereefmannanofishtanks6651 4 года назад +1

      @@超虎生活 lmao u dumb lol

  • @AnkaraHassam
    @AnkaraHassam Год назад +35

    The fact that they adopted brothers so that one brother isnt parted from another❤

  • @Operator_Fate
    @Operator_Fate 4 года назад +12622

    Me telling my mom : you're the best thing i've ever had
    mom : i don't have money

  • @c.j.williams3948
    @c.j.williams3948 5 лет назад +2432

    No color, no politics, no judgement just unconditional love whoever disliked this video clearly is ignorant

    • @CK-yj9xv
      @CK-yj9xv 5 лет назад +137

      angeloeastblanco I honestly hope you’re joking

    • @urmum7461
      @urmum7461 5 лет назад +45

      Power Trip lmfao ignore him bruh hes tweaking

    • @Bulskee
      @Bulskee 5 лет назад +69

      angeloeastblanco you think in a very sinister way. Seeing evil in something so pure. Get help

    • @normanalvarez5751
      @normanalvarez5751 5 лет назад +39

      @angeloeastblanco You have issues

    • @frsmd8473
      @frsmd8473 5 лет назад +2

      Had us in the first half ngl

  • @jacobmccain8794
    @jacobmccain8794 5 лет назад +2561

    Being a black kid adopted as well, that really just made my heart smile!!!

  • @TheCuteLittleDoggy
    @TheCuteLittleDoggy 2 года назад +357

    I was adopted when I was 5, my Dad is the best dad I could ever hope for. One day my brother phoned me up and said he found our father and he wanted to know if I was interested in talking to him and I said no thanks, my Dad is all the Dad I will ever need. His response was "fair enough, I see were you're coming from" and then hung up the phone.

    • @AphroditeluvsZathx
      @AphroditeluvsZathx 2 года назад +55

      I feel the same way, my little sister and I were adopted when we were 4 and 2. My sister is interested in looking up biological family but I'm happy with the parents who raised me.

    • @melaniestarkey7868
      @melaniestarkey7868 2 года назад +12

      @@AphroditeluvsZathx perhaps your heart is big enough to forgive the past and love them all

    • @freyjablue.
      @freyjablue. 2 года назад +30

      @@melaniestarkey7868 my dad abandoned me with my other parent and I promise you that's not how it works.

    • @ps6474
      @ps6474 Год назад

      TheCuteLittleDoggy, If you don''t mind my asking, did your biological dad abandon you and your brother or assuming perhaps he wasn''t a good father?

    • @sxxxxxlxxx
      @sxxxxxlxxx Год назад +21

      @@ps6474 why does it matter if the biological dad abandoned them or not? I'm adopted, and I have no idea why I was given up for adoption. Maybe my biological parents loved me and had no other choice, or maybe they just didn't want me. Regardless, it does not matter. I am 100% content with my parents who adopted me, and have no wish to find any biological relatives.

  • @UNCHindman
    @UNCHindman 2 года назад +7043

    My parents adopted me when I was 3 days old after they suffered through two miscarriages of their own. They couldn’t have loved me more and although they are both gone now (mom: breast cancer dad: heart attack) I will always belong to them and be their son. Huge props to these parents for loving these boys as their own. True love is deeper than DNA.

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor 2 года назад +159

      While thats great of them, its easier for most people to love a baby rather than a grown teen. The situation in this video is noteworthy cause its so rare.

    • @UNCHindman
      @UNCHindman 2 года назад +47

      @Shock Resistor I agree.

    • @skoodledoo
      @skoodledoo 2 года назад +74

      Sorry for your loss Pastor.

    • @dannyboywhaa3146
      @dannyboywhaa3146 2 года назад +61

      What you wrote was beautiful - they live on, through you! 👍

    • @UNCHindman
      @UNCHindman 2 года назад +59

      @@dannyboywhaa3146 Wow, I have said the same thing! Their love and their influence is still alive in me! God bless you, my friend. 🙏🏼

  • @xMaxOut1
    @xMaxOut1 3 года назад +4817

    Dayshawn was the nicest Kid in my whole school. Brought Love, happiness and Joy and extremely athletic.

    • @56tanishaamal77
      @56tanishaamal77 3 года назад +22

      Was?

    • @madhuparnaghosh6254
      @madhuparnaghosh6254 3 года назад +34

      He has graduated?

    • @xMaxOut1
      @xMaxOut1 3 года назад +479

      @@madhuparnaghosh6254 I believe he moved to California. It was a sad last day for a lot of people. Some people bullied him

    • @lipschutz
      @lipschutz 3 года назад +67

      @@xMaxOut1 But you were there for him, that's count.

    • @erlenederenecourt1360
      @erlenederenecourt1360 3 года назад +151

      @@lipschutz they never said they were there for him.

  • @aberneuten5443
    @aberneuten5443 4 года назад +2478

    This boy was a really good friend of mine from school, but sadly he moved away, this video made me cry. He was the sweetest friend ever, always checking up on me to see if I was okay. I miss him so much
    I dunno why u guys are so rude lol, I’m sorry if you don’t believe me I don’t really care if you do. I was just saying I miss him😕

    • @urmother2090
      @urmother2090 4 года назад +102

      He’s in a good place, bud! And from what I see from this video about him, I’m sure he’s thinking of you too :-)

    • @alexandervelaortiz3898
      @alexandervelaortiz3898 4 года назад +10

      Fake Clout Chaser

    • @mysteryman7704
      @mysteryman7704 4 года назад +3

      @ask_yo_girl_about_me lemme be yo waifu the guy could be a faker

    • @chimjinxofficial8588
      @chimjinxofficial8588 4 года назад +30

      @@alexandervelaortiz3898 your too toxic get out

    • @jhonjoseph7664
      @jhonjoseph7664 4 года назад +21

      @@mysteryman7704 could be!!! Right?? What if he's telling the truth. Don't be a ignorant human being.

  • @simplehomemeals3932
    @simplehomemeals3932 2 года назад +838

    The kids are so blessed to have them as their parents. Every kid needs a family. God Bless This Family. 🙏

    • @ARDG89
      @ARDG89 2 года назад +3

      You don't know that.

    • @Jasekingg
      @Jasekingg 2 года назад +8

      @@ARDG89 so they would be better off with no family?

    • @ARDG89
      @ARDG89 2 года назад +1

      @@Jasekingg it's possible or better off with a different couple as well

    • @UNDERCOVER_E
      @UNDERCOVER_E 2 года назад +13

      @@ARDG89 take your negativity elsewhere. You’re obviously projecting your insecurities.

    • @ARDG89
      @ARDG89 2 года назад +1

      @@UNDERCOVER_E You have no idea who the couple is or how they act off camera, behind closed doors. You obviously need a reality check

  • @LEELOLKH
    @LEELOLKH 3 года назад +4992

    There are two types of cry, cry of pain and cry of joy❤️

    • @donovan2723
      @donovan2723 3 года назад +132

      Finally shitting after being constipated makes you cry of both pain and joy.

    • @HaryadFr
      @HaryadFr 3 года назад +9

      @@donovan2723 xD

    • @mr.knight8039
      @mr.knight8039 3 года назад +27

      @@donovan2723 damn that's deep

    • @joshiyamamoto2068
      @joshiyamamoto2068 3 года назад +8

      Im crying so hard right now, because so happy for them

    • @lynnecarnivale5085
      @lynnecarnivale5085 3 года назад +4

      Lee... God bless you.
      Peace, Lynne 🍃💜🍃

  • @balmond671
    @balmond671 5 лет назад +1347

    Now this ladies and gentlemen, is an example of humanity

    • @jayfitmob8645
      @jayfitmob8645 5 лет назад +2

      Facts.

    • @helmutichberg1842
      @helmutichberg1842 5 лет назад +6

      What if this is really just collective white guilt and they feel they'll get over it by adopting two African boys their own race doesn't seem to want?

    • @helmutichberg1842
      @helmutichberg1842 5 лет назад

      I like your name btw ;)

    • @iramak4195
      @iramak4195 5 лет назад

      @@helmutichberg1842 lmaaaaaooo

    • @iramak4195
      @iramak4195 5 лет назад +14

      @Debela dude wth is your problem

  • @roberthowell3880
    @roberthowell3880 3 года назад +5072

    I adopted 2 boys, best thing I ever did, and now I am a grandfather to a 1 year old. We call our family heinz 57, as my wife and I are white, my oldest son is lation/black, his fiance is Indian, my youngest son is AfricanAmerican, his wife is latina and they are the parents of our 1 year old grandson. Blessings are like the rainbow🌈, they come in every color.

    • @thegalhorowitz
      @thegalhorowitz 3 года назад +209

      omg how beautiful is that👏🏻😍 Kind human being!

    • @vister6757
      @vister6757 3 года назад +125

      Congratulations you are a grandfather now.

    • @MJfan560
      @MJfan560 3 года назад +102

      You seem like a wonderful human being! Take care

    • @salmonkill7
      @salmonkill7 3 года назад +79

      A melting pot of LOVE!!
      BLESSINGS!!

    • @abhishekghosh2686
      @abhishekghosh2686 3 года назад +94

      Being an Indian that makes us family then😂😉 congratulations Mr Robert 🙏

  • @forrealgav6581
    @forrealgav6581 Год назад +41

    Things like this should end racism man. We rlly are all one people

    • @Drizzt_Do_Entreri
      @Drizzt_Do_Entreri 6 месяцев назад +1

      Hard to do when all the liberal media and politicians keep cramming it down everybody's throats. It's a tactict they use to keep their sheeple voting for them. People need to wake up to reality and see the truth about it.

    • @jackson9282
      @jackson9282 5 месяцев назад +2

      It ended a long time ago for the sane.

  • @PixelGameSquad
    @PixelGameSquad 5 лет назад +11697

    That mom is oozing pure joy *love it*

    • @Alanbaseball
      @Alanbaseball 5 лет назад +34

      Pixel Game Squad thats wat she said😈

    • @FactsFactoryDiscovery
      @FactsFactoryDiscovery 5 лет назад +21

      @@Alanbaseball*"oozing"*

    • @Quaminator15
      @Quaminator15 5 лет назад +61

      eternal sharingan why do u have to make it weird 😂

    • @parabina
      @parabina 5 лет назад +11

      Weird choice of word ma'am.

    • @bigyikes5958
      @bigyikes5958 5 лет назад +1

      @@FactsFactoryDiscovery lol

  • @PortgasDASCE
    @PortgasDASCE 3 года назад +2132

    I was adopted at 17, and honestly love goes deeper then blood. You can’t tell me otherwise 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @thedragonsunicorn
      @thedragonsunicorn 3 года назад +36

      don't worry, i wouldn't even try!

    • @annainspain5176
      @annainspain5176 3 года назад +49

      You don't have to share the same blood to be family.

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 3 года назад +31

      Trust me I had this conversation with so many people..I just ask why can't u love someone the same way as ur own..the replies are always "ur own bloid is sth else" and I reply with "many times babies have been exchanged in hospitals accidentally and people love them the same bcz they think it's their blood" ..so the thing is always in ur mind..but then they will just end convo with U don't understand it's not the same..tbh I am waiting for the man who will be happy to adopt bcz the paperwork is too tough for a single man/woman to adopt here

    • @earlturner5449
      @earlturner5449 3 года назад +1

      Love is a chemical reaction in your brain. Blood is eternal.

    • @a-a-rondavis9438
      @a-a-rondavis9438 3 года назад +35

      @@earlturner5449 you're quite pessimistic. Infatuation is a chemical reaction. Love supercedes familial ties. We are to love EVERYBODY, just as Jesus loves us.

  • @abhishekranjan3787
    @abhishekranjan3787 4 года назад +2296

    These children are so beautiful and the parents are just angels. Gob bless them.

    • @Phoneix00
      @Phoneix00 4 года назад +1

      Dude! All i cud see was black and brow forvtgeir faces. How u know deay r beautuful. Thats why bokkywood seves crappy stuff.😂😂

    • @CommanderCodyChipless
      @CommanderCodyChipless 4 года назад +6

      Bokkywood

    • @Phoneix00
      @Phoneix00 4 года назад +2

      @@CommanderCodyChipless These days typo oozes like piles blood mate! what to do? Actually I was typing above comment with my single hand only, because I was dealing with the itchness of my balls with the other one. The feeling of killing the itching with pinching and rolling the ball sack was so soothing that I got distracted from what I was doing.

    • @xxzxzxzxx6974
      @xxzxzxzxx6974 4 года назад +3

      Beautiful white angels

    • @CommanderCodyChipless
      @CommanderCodyChipless 4 года назад

      @@Phoneix00 forvtgeir

  • @riggs20
    @riggs20 2 года назад +132

    I was adopted as an infant by a wonderful family. My bio mom was 15 and dad was 17. It was the best decision they could have ever made. I had a wonderful childhood and love my parents dearly. I hope that if my bio parents have any doubts about their decision, they can know they made the right one and that I am happy and grateful. ❤️

    • @brendadickson9583
      @brendadickson9583 2 года назад +9

      Wow God bless you

    • @XyThree
      @XyThree 2 года назад +5

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Crazydragons-d1g
      @Crazydragons-d1g 2 года назад +11

      Beautiful story!... Bless your biological parents for having you as difficult life circumstances they were in (age and all) and how they loved you enough to have you and give you a chance with your forever loving parents (adopted you...aka "forever parents...your Mum and Dad)... you were loved so much all around....beautiful story!

    • @ps6474
      @ps6474 Год назад +2

      @Dreaming Dreamer, Very nice your story, bless you and your family.

    • @ps6474
      @ps6474 Год назад +3

      @@Crazydragons-d1g What a sweet and lovely post, so true your words of wisdom.

  • @wyleaziz5050
    @wyleaziz5050 3 года назад +2497

    People who adopt kids are not normal people. They are angels. Loving, raising and parenting someone who is totally stranger is not an easy things at all.
    May god bless everyone who foster and adopt a child.

    • @nancydublin9666
      @nancydublin9666 3 года назад +54

      It's not easy raising any child these days with all that's out there in the world. I give all parents a lot of credit.

    • @wyleaziz5050
      @wyleaziz5050 3 года назад +12

      @@nancydublin9666 that’s true. I have 3 kids , they’ are good. Once they know how much you love and care about them, they won’t disappoint you.

    • @thepink3798
      @thepink3798 3 года назад +5

      I want to adopt instead having my own child

    • @thepink3798
      @thepink3798 3 года назад +2

      @Martha Speaks wait how is it for money?

    • @logical_chaos
      @logical_chaos 3 года назад +30

      @Martha Speaks I think you're mixing up adoptive parents with foster parents. Adoptive parents make a child legally theirs - they don't gain money from doing so. Foster parents watch over children until they are adopted, and they get an allowance to do so. A lot of foster parents are horrible, but there are a lot of good ones too.

  • @nitabonita86bg61
    @nitabonita86bg61 4 года назад +690

    My adoptive mom passed away in 2012 lord the feeling of being loved I got a sec chance thank you god

    • @kasperknutsen8283
      @kasperknutsen8283 4 года назад +10

      Oh damn that's so sad.. i woulf rather call her your mom tbf

    • @nitabonita86bg61
      @nitabonita86bg61 4 года назад +4

      XsdJames zz_ your one of those people lol 😂

    • @sandychrist11
      @sandychrist11 4 года назад +10

      Nitabonita86 BG glad you got that second chance! Blessings to you and your mother.

    • @koopakate8842
      @koopakate8842 4 года назад +4

      Aww I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m so glad you got to be close to someone like her! Everyone deserves to have someone that cares about them ❤️

    • @demetriusdavis95
      @demetriusdavis95 4 года назад +1

      Nitabonita86 BG lucky you although mine did what she could to provide and made sure I was taken care of. I never received love and support from her

  • @DiyaAC
    @DiyaAC 3 года назад +1378

    The mom's reaction was so pure. There's kindness and love in her eyes. God bless the beautiful family. ❤️

    • @zramp2779
      @zramp2779 3 года назад +2

      Fr

    • @shariffbrown04
      @shariffbrown04 2 года назад +4

      I feel it

    • @beatricebaah8769
      @beatricebaah8769 2 года назад +6

      Yeah I noticed her happiness. God bless the family 🙏🙏🙏.

    • @crackerjack4833
      @crackerjack4833 2 года назад +5

      777 likes... so ill thumbs up your comment in spirit to keep the 777 lucky number. 👍🏻

    • @dinajones2761
      @dinajones2761 2 года назад

      @Nas Kane you’re cringe

  • @browcode1950
    @browcode1950 2 года назад +78

    How lovely she looks into his eyes at their home. Loving mother found finaly her children.

  • @kinggerbs1
    @kinggerbs1 5 лет назад +1188

    Not really sure how this showed up in my timeline but thank you. We need more feel good news that makes the world a happy place.

    • @EddieNgatia
      @EddieNgatia 5 лет назад +2

      Ey same here.... RUclips knew I needed to feel dem feels today huh

  • @melissasaint3283
    @melissasaint3283 3 года назад +3395

    For those who don't know: foster parents are paid a stipend, but if they adopt the child, those payments stop. In addition, like most legal procedures, adoption itself costs money.
    Foster parents who adopt their foster children are showing a very serious commitment to them.
    EDIT: apparently the reason not everyone agrees on this is that foster subsidies and any post adoption financial benefits vary widely from state to state!
    EDIT: I was puzzled by the varying responses, until I looked it up and realized that the financial support (or lack thereof) during and after adopting a foster child varies widely from state to state!

    • @Surfmus
      @Surfmus 3 года назад +37

      They get adoption stipend. I worked adoption for 23 years, NJ, and FL. Believe me money still coming in.

    • @mr.x8948
      @mr.x8948 3 года назад +12

      @@Surfmus Is it like that in every state? Just curious?

    • @mr.x8948
      @mr.x8948 3 года назад +132

      I had told my Foster Mom to not adopt me so she could still get the money. Regardless she had bills to pay and I respected her giving me a life where I had a home, 3 meals a day and was able to get a education.

    • @Surfmus
      @Surfmus 3 года назад +5

      @@mr.x8948 all of them.

    • @annthomas9371
      @annthomas9371 3 года назад +14

      Wrong they still get paid. Also a very nice tax break/credit

  • @aimeexitlaly
    @aimeexitlaly 4 года назад +6912

    Bless this couple for adopting a 13 year old boy. Older kids usually stay in foster care system so this was beautiful to watch 🥺

    • @anneb889
      @anneb889 3 года назад +329

      They also kept the brothers together, which is so amazing too.

    • @emily3
      @emily3 3 года назад +147

      @@anneb889 yes! Adopting siblings and adopting older children is such a wonderful thing, because they often have the hardest time finding a family to adopt them. So happy for this beautiful little family! 💗 I hope to adopt older kids and siblings one day as well🥺

    • @lyndamaxwell6312
      @lyndamaxwell6312 3 года назад +74

      I adopted my son when he was 13 (we met when he was 11) and I learned that even when a child reaches the young age of 5, the odds of being adopted drop significantly as many people are only interested in adopting infants. Parenting is never easy but worth it and I can’t imagine my life without my now 23 year old son!

    • @chykim1
      @chykim1 3 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @gracedicken8708
      @gracedicken8708 3 года назад +32

      It is sad because people a lot of times want to just adopt young children to raise through each stage of life and we think that they are so young and defenseless so they need our help the most but it is the oldest kids that need it the most

  • @nutrock522
    @nutrock522 2 года назад +102

    As someone who has adopted siblings and is legally adopted to my stepfather, this is so touching. Families are born with love, not blood

  • @ateiluj08
    @ateiluj08 5 лет назад +947

    I can't wait for the adoption of my little sister to be approved. We been fostering her for 3 years. Its been a long journey and I just want her to officially become my sister.

    • @ijustchangedmyname7794
      @ijustchangedmyname7794 5 лет назад +38

      I’m so happy y’all found each other! Congratulations in advance 🤗

    • @tekelaandnem7461
      @tekelaandnem7461 5 лет назад +37

      I know the feeling. We fought for our girls for a long time and it finally happened. One of the best days of our lives. It will happen for you! 😃

    • @tiaussardar8192
      @tiaussardar8192 5 лет назад +8

      Best wishes for you and your family.

    • @cassgray9340
      @cassgray9340 5 лет назад +7

      Sounds like you share a truly beautiful bond, and I pray that day comes for y’all 💕

    • @saanvisharma2081
      @saanvisharma2081 5 лет назад +4

      Wish you all the best for your future family. May God bless you

  • @KOTJ412
    @KOTJ412 2 года назад +3247

    Not all mothers can have a child of their own for whatever reason…but it’s still a blessing to have the option to adopt kids that they can call their own.…God bless this family!

    • @spaomalley
      @spaomalley 2 года назад +42

      I’m a dude and can’t have kids either.

    • @evalehde3869
      @evalehde3869 2 года назад +30

      They can not only ‘call’ them their own, they are their own.

    • @Dynamic0NE
      @Dynamic0NE 2 года назад +24

      @blate dake you're racist obviously

    • @remywiggins9206
      @remywiggins9206 2 года назад +1

      @@Dynamic0NE .........that makes no sense at all.

    • @remywiggins9206
      @remywiggins9206 2 года назад

      @blate dake Well, I agree with the first part of your comment, as for the second, there are people of different races that do marry each other and have children.

  • @mayaleex3
    @mayaleex3 5 лет назад +2605

    Tears 😭 reminds me of Jack and Rebecca from This Is Us

  • @JayveeTV
    @JayveeTV 2 года назад +35

    The kind of video we need to see more of on here

  • @mando76m
    @mando76m 3 года назад +1264

    I was adopted at a young age, not because my parents didn't love me, but because my father died and my mother couldn't take care of me. Even though I still love my biological mom, I also love my adopted mother and father. I was never their real son but they loved me and raised me as if I was. That is true love.

    • @jughead678
      @jughead678 3 года назад +2

      Liar

    • @coloredfox3463
      @coloredfox3463 3 года назад +168

      @@jughead678 You don't know what people have been through. Get out of here accusing people without knowing their situation

    • @whitneyfry3236
      @whitneyfry3236 3 года назад +77

      You may not be their biological son but I bet you anything to them you are their real son.

    • @pawa303
      @pawa303 3 года назад +59

      @@jughead678 Adoption is pretty damn common. Why wouldn't this be true?

    • @Fezzerz
      @Fezzerz 3 года назад +25

      True love is also knowing you can't give a child what they need and willing to let them go to a better place.

  • @VibrantDesigns
    @VibrantDesigns 5 лет назад +1247

    That husband is so lucky to have such a beautiful wife

    • @narata1541
      @narata1541 5 лет назад +21

      True. You know you are blessed by Jesus if your wife is pretty.

    • @AAA-vk9vp
      @AAA-vk9vp 5 лет назад +59

      @@narata1541 what if shes ugly...

    • @Honk1117
      @Honk1117 5 лет назад +6

      @@AAA-vk9vp lmao good one

    • @tammywines9789
      @tammywines9789 5 лет назад

      @Zz Z Amen.

    • @zawarudo69oof78
      @zawarudo69oof78 5 лет назад +9

      So that is what u care about

  • @MsDee409
    @MsDee409 5 лет назад +2455

    Now I can start my day with a smile! That was beautiful to see!!😊

    • @Commander_Commando
      @Commander_Commando 5 лет назад +9

      +Dee Hannibal It’s late currently for me. I can say confidently, that I will END today, with a smile on my face! :)

    • @jsilva7005
      @jsilva7005 5 лет назад +5

      Yeah instead of the race baiting stories we get non-stop. They're trying to sow divison by showing race is a problem, it's bs. Instead of focusing on the real bad stuff out government does they have us running around yelling racism.

    • @jetmirmetaliaj8235
      @jetmirmetaliaj8235 5 лет назад

      Idiot

    • @zahl6518
      @zahl6518 5 лет назад

      fast cash holy heck Fast Cash commented the same thing on every comment go check

    • @YouHaveAPurposeStickAround
      @YouHaveAPurposeStickAround 5 лет назад +2

      Amen:)

  • @vaggos2003
    @vaggos2003 2 года назад +90

    I can't even begin to imagine just how happy those 2 brothers are and I wish them and their new family the best future they can have.

  • @spenceremerson2429
    @spenceremerson2429 4 года назад +1082

    Man I was adopted, and I can’t thank my parents enough. They’ve given me the life my birth mom wanted for me, and I’m forever in debt to them. They have loved me as their only child, and my extended family has been open arms and treated me like one of their own. This is wonderful that such loving parents will receive such a great addition to a wonderful family.

    • @alealulu5141
      @alealulu5141 4 года назад +19

      That’s a beautiful thing to hear. I’m still a not an adult but when I’m older I would like to adopt kids. I mean I really wanna be pregnant when I’m older but I also wanna do something good.

    • @TheVictorOkafo
      @TheVictorOkafo 4 года назад

      🙏🏾

    • @ghenderson6717
      @ghenderson6717 4 года назад +6

      You are a wonderful person. Your parents are so blessed to have such a loving child. Hope you have children, you have the heart for it and apparently a lot to give and teach

    • @BK-qp8zp
      @BK-qp8zp 4 года назад +4

      Spencer, you ARE one of their own!!

    • @nancydublin9666
      @nancydublin9666 3 года назад +1

      Your birth mom made the 1st big sacrifice. Don't forget her.

  • @kelseymariel2127
    @kelseymariel2127 3 года назад +1045

    The media should show more positive pieces like this instead of helping turn people against each other.

    • @stevends3865
      @stevends3865 3 года назад +16

      Perfectly said!

    • @wendyhall24
      @wendyhall24 3 года назад +8

      So true!!

    • @mahirrehman5562
      @mahirrehman5562 3 года назад +18

      I need more of this. I'm sick of seeing all the bs from Biden all the time. This made my day a lot better.

    • @Jsd_1
      @Jsd_1 3 года назад

      If only !

    • @crazychefify
      @crazychefify 3 года назад +7

      @@mahirrehman5562 it’s kinda big news bud, don’t be salty.

  • @eggspectations
    @eggspectations 2 года назад +55

    I wish I were asked consent during my adoption. I was 13 and fully aware my abusers were about to own me. I’m so grateful to see these boys have found a forever family abundant in the love they deserve ♥️♥️♥️

    • @naadiyamxmed8717
      @naadiyamxmed8717 2 года назад +5

      Wait what

    • @curiouscale
      @curiouscale 2 года назад +9

      Indeed, times have changed. At least in some states.

    • @eggspectations
      @eggspectations 2 года назад +12

      @@naadiyamxmed8717 In the video, the children were asked for consent to finalize the adoption. That was the judge’s question to the older boy initially. I’m not sure what you’re confused about so if you need any more clarification let me know.

    • @curiouscale
      @curiouscale 2 года назад +9

      @@eggspectations I think the "wait what" was in reference to the sharp change of direction of your post, which is so tragic in contrast to the beautiful moment in this video. I appreciate you sharing your experience, though.

    • @Sandra-fc8pc
      @Sandra-fc8pc 2 года назад +3

      Hope things are better for you now!
      🙏❤️🥲

  • @anywaythewindblows8912
    @anywaythewindblows8912 3 года назад +634

    I adopted 2 little girls because my husband and I couldn’t have children of our own. My husband is adopted as well, so we had no second thoughts. They are a true blessing and bring joy to our lives every day!

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 года назад +3

      Wow I really want to adopt but I am not rich

    • @florabloom3906
      @florabloom3906 3 года назад +6

      Thats amazing! Take care of them ♥️♥️♥️

    • @annoraedits
      @annoraedits 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely amazing!! Those girls r so lucky to have u guys ❤️❤️

    • @rebeccaconlon9743
      @rebeccaconlon9743 3 года назад +2

      @@lotuswolf1518 many people have kids and aren't rich, does it cost to adopt?

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 года назад +4

      @@rebeccaconlon9743 it does cost to adopt

  • @jaceyarlene6154
    @jaceyarlene6154 4 года назад +445

    i was adopted, what a blessing, it saved my life. I don’t even want to think of what my life would have been like if I was not as fortunate.

    • @csb772
      @csb772 4 года назад +7

      Look at how beautiful you are. Not a surprise. I would still adopt you being grown up LOL!!

    • @Кенжетайұлы
      @Кенжетайұлы 4 года назад +4

      I want to adopt you to and kiss you

    • @Rhh26
      @Rhh26 4 года назад +52

      CHALK772 What a creepy thing to say.

    • @Rhh26
      @Rhh26 4 года назад +25

      Кенжетайұлы Why be creepy?

    • @stevens.9299
      @stevens.9299 4 года назад +7

      You are truly fortunate. I grew up with violence in my household by my biological father. It was just terrible.

  • @davidrosenthal5795
    @davidrosenthal5795 Год назад +25

    My wife and I are both adopted and I friggin love this.

  • @brianbanda2975
    @brianbanda2975 5 лет назад +584

    These guys aren't people!!
    They are angels from above❤❤❤
    May God richly bless this family.

    • @jorge0698
      @jorge0698 5 лет назад +1

      No, they are n

    • @fienri
      @fienri 5 лет назад +8

      You're comment like onion bro.. it make me cry...

    • @nibink4200
      @nibink4200 5 лет назад

      @@fienri that's gay

    • @subscribetoshooketh6499
      @subscribetoshooketh6499 5 лет назад +1

      money

    • @angiem.buchanan4686
      @angiem.buchanan4686 5 лет назад +1

      I feel the same an like Sara would love to help an fall inlove with kids inneed also 🤙🏼what beautiful life for this family officially done whoot whoot

  • @wigglyworm6645
    @wigglyworm6645 3 года назад +1314

    I was adopted when I was nearly two so I got to have an amazing birthday and my dad made me my cake. I often get weird looks when I’m with my dad as he’s white and I’m black but I love my adopted parents and are so grateful they adopted me

    • @dilanh2311
      @dilanh2311 3 года назад +64

      God bless you and your parents 🙏

    • @flawedaughter
      @flawedaughter 3 года назад +7

      that's nice:)

    • @1runtz
      @1runtz 3 года назад +6

      god bless man. that’s great to hear

    • @Detective_Police
      @Detective_Police 3 года назад +12

      God bless. They are your parents and they love you. That’s what it matters the most. 😊

    • @MK-gy1ug
      @MK-gy1ug 3 года назад +20

      That’s wonderful. Who cares about the weird looks! People can be mean and don’t even know it sometimes. Keep your head high and good luck in your life!

  • @candyh3693
    @candyh3693 5 лет назад +1749

    How to get tears in 30 seconds or less..onions, yeah onions!

  • @jefroukos
    @jefroukos Год назад +9

    Thanks everyone for sharing great stories. My dad adopted my sister and myself and I now know there is a difference between a biological parent and a real one. He is the real deal.

  • @KiwiHobbitful
    @KiwiHobbitful 2 года назад +624

    Mom's reaction is heart warming. Bless you all.

    • @fusemore1059
      @fusemore1059 2 года назад

      The moms reaction is fake. She is a covert narcissist that abused not just me but her husband and kids Micheal and dayshawn. Dayshawn is the older boy who is now 17 and Micheal is the little one. I lived with them in 2020 after they moved to San Diego and she literally mistreated not just me but her kids. The husband is actually a decent father and he would be a great father if he stopped enabling her abuse

    • @animposter4971
      @animposter4971 2 года назад +18

      @@fusemore1059 proof or it didn't happen

    • @jacobfromallstate4963
      @jacobfromallstate4963 Год назад +7

      @@fusemore1059 I was also adopted by this family and everything you said is wrong.

    • @asheeshsinha2631
      @asheeshsinha2631 Год назад

      @@jacobfromallstate4963 i had adopted this family and I approve of everything you said.

    • @Mav0011
      @Mav0011 Год назад +1

      @@fusemore1059 CAP

  • @aishwaryaambaskar9395
    @aishwaryaambaskar9395 5 лет назад +782

    I love how they transcended their relationship beyond race, color, culture. This is what the world needs to be a better place.

    • @sean-en4rk
      @sean-en4rk 5 лет назад +58

      Aishwarya Ambaskar it’s people like you who are the most racist other than actual blatantly racist people. You don’t even have to say race or color, just say I love how this a good relationship. Like for real people like you look for racial things in so many ways, while you say dumb stuff. Just be happy they have a good relationship, no need to mention race

    • @kimkartrashianstopmakingst9060
      @kimkartrashianstopmakingst9060 5 лет назад +141

      Seani Baruch stfu and stop causing problems. And actually, YOU are what’s wrong w race issues. You know she meant well and to make a nice comment. You just MADE it an issue accusing her of her intentions. It’s also an obvious fact and not an opinion they are blatantly different races. God you’re an idiot. So ignorant

    • @kilroyg2868
      @kilroyg2868 5 лет назад +21

      Seani Baruch stuff like this makes me cringe.

    • @adityanimbalkar2404
      @adityanimbalkar2404 5 лет назад +43

      Seani Baruch She’s just putting out a point stop making a meal out of it.

    • @Packman33
      @Packman33 5 лет назад +20

      Kim KarTRASHian sToP mAkInG StUpiD pEople FamouS he’s trying to say that racism is made up and only exist from people being obsessed with the persons color.

  • @HockeyFan102
    @HockeyFan102 4 года назад +1469

    I’m adopted as well and it was the best thing ever to happen to me because my family gave me a chance in life and gave me an opportunity to have a good life because I was forced out of my birth moms house because she was so young and her boyfriend killed my older brother so the government took me and another out and I was blessed with the parents I have today. If it wasn’t for them I would’ve probably been in a foster home or probably wouldn’t have the best life like I do right now. My parents love me and are always there for me and that’s I could ever ask for. (Edit) forgot time mention that my birth mom was 13 and her boyfriend was probably around that age and killed him so yeah 🥺

    • @CeruleanStallion
      @CeruleanStallion 4 года назад +94

      What a nasty man I hope he's in prison

    • @mjbgjkhjjvghj502
      @mjbgjkhjjvghj502 4 года назад +50

      Im sorry. Im glad you now have parents that love you and care for you

    • @derk808
      @derk808 4 года назад +4

      that’s awesome but it must suck being a packers fan tho

    • @raymar5671
      @raymar5671 4 года назад +5

      derick thompson Lol. They drafted Jordan Love tho 🙏🏽 (not a Packers fan)

    • @noviadipratama
      @noviadipratama 4 года назад +14

      Im sorry to hear that... God bless you, mate

  • @everybodysmama5018
    @everybodysmama5018 2 года назад +12

    I love when the little one used the Gavel on the table. He just won my heart 💝

  • @melissarollins9132
    @melissarollins9132 5 лет назад +269

    I don’t care what anyone says on here - that family is now complete and they looked like they were all having the best day of their lives. #familyiseverything

  • @Alexardelean89
    @Alexardelean89 4 года назад +362

    I was adopted as a baby so I only know them as family and sometimes I forget I was adopted.

    • @Adventures_with_Sog
      @Adventures_with_Sog 4 года назад +2

      Same x

    • @GFINHK
      @GFINHK 4 года назад +8

      You weren't adopted, my friend, you are loved ❤

    • @thekeytomyheart_
      @thekeytomyheart_ 4 года назад +4

      @@GFINHK huh? They were adopted but it doesn't mean anything bad. And yes, they are loved.

    • @Rachelleluluful
      @Rachelleluluful 4 года назад +1

      Alex J that’s so beautiful!

    • @marley.andme__
      @marley.andme__ 4 года назад +1

      That’s so great to hear luv ♥️
      God Bless you and everyone’s else on life’s journey 😘😘

  • @goldenstar_1007
    @goldenstar_1007 2 года назад +5

    🥲🥲🥲🥲that’s so sweet of that woman and her husband. God bless them.

  • @tetrakings
    @tetrakings 4 года назад +286

    My stepfather...…….hard to think anyone else could've changed my life the way he did. Thank you.

    • @npkrn6764
      @npkrn6764 4 года назад +15

      Glad to hear your stepparent was decent. My Stepmother was an immature, selfish, greedy nightmare of a woman. Sadly, we don't get to choose who our parents bring into our lives.

    • @lil_siamese714
      @lil_siamese714 4 года назад +1

      K N 🙏

    • @culturecoroner
      @culturecoroner 4 года назад +1

      ❤️

    • @foreveryours9081
      @foreveryours9081 4 года назад +2

      tetrakings J I wish I had a stepfather too! My dad is very toxic and I don’t talk to him since years. You’ll never met someone more manipulative,liar unpleasant like my « dad ».

  • @sheilamccray5391
    @sheilamccray5391 4 года назад +466

    Look at the hate with the “ dislikes”... Lord, I pray for people and their hearts

    • @Rachelleluluful
      @Rachelleluluful 4 года назад +33

      SHEILA MCCRAY the ones who disliked are probably racist

    • @lucasdefrance9153
      @lucasdefrance9153 4 года назад +2

      @@Rachelleluluful or lucidity

    • @farhatbi7436
      @farhatbi7436 4 года назад

      @@123-q2q2u The fact that the speech is short is not as frustrating as ur spelling for ur comment !
      listen - lesson is what u need
      worm indeed I'm sure u ment warm
      ur welcome

    • @adaomaokonkwo6357
      @adaomaokonkwo6357 4 года назад +2

      @@Rachelleluluful that'll be most white people then

    • @sunnyliston7503
      @sunnyliston7503 4 года назад +9

      Adaoma Okonkwo your racist in yourself for saying that. Stop fighting racism with racism

  • @kayleighbrown459
    @kayleighbrown459 2 года назад +3

    Imagine adopting two kids that age. What gems those two are.

  • @jdn4124
    @jdn4124 3 года назад +300

    This is a remarkable boy “if I could wish anything in the world, I just wish that I could love these people for the rest of my life” his focus is on giving his best to others, instead of what he wants from them.
    These parents and children are lucky to have found each other ☺️

  • @kevinholland7542
    @kevinholland7542 4 года назад +899

    Love doesn't have a race and that's what the world needs to learn period. Take that any way you like but every child deserves a loving home.

    • @MikeJones-qo7vt
      @MikeJones-qo7vt 4 года назад +18

      @@jessejames7758 u do kno there are more white children up for adoption than black kids look up the national stats...so the comment was very uneducated and racist...but i forgiven u. You believe what tv or media shows u...#propaganda

    • @manigje1
      @manigje1 4 года назад +3

      Usually white people who adopt non-white kids are usually woke to racism.

    • @gachamissy3418
      @gachamissy3418 4 года назад +9

      @@jessejames7758 i've seen more white kids without family more than "blacks" but ok boomer

    • @Pugilistmuaythai
      @Pugilistmuaythai 4 года назад +4

      gtrw4tgb qt4n4tg enducated?? You sure blacks are the problem?

    • @Pugilistmuaythai
      @Pugilistmuaythai 4 года назад

      The Dude Exactly

  • @lostgirl2798
    @lostgirl2798 3 года назад +133

    I'm glad to see both the brothers are being adopted into a same family. That's the best thing ever

  • @greggrimer1428
    @greggrimer1428 Год назад +4

    Those children have a good future ahead of them

  • @imperiousrex1873
    @imperiousrex1873 3 года назад +109

    As a Black man and a father I hope these kids show us in their success that it is not about the race of the individual but the culture that they grow up in.

    • @charleshunt4354
      @charleshunt4354 3 года назад +2

      Could you expand on that? No malice behind this question btw.

    • @AFAskygoddess
      @AFAskygoddess 3 года назад

      Never noticed their race. Only noticed their love for each other.

    • @prash71717
      @prash71717 3 года назад +5

      @@charleshunt4354 he is obviously wishing for these boys to break black stereotypes. And prove that the hypothesis many people assume that one race is superior than other is incorrect. Instead he only wishes these boys become living proof for the hypothesis that success/failure/manners everything depends on upbringing and not race.. ofcourse while saying so, the commenter also assumes the adopting parents will provide good upbringing (why would he wish for the opposite) . He looks for this specific combination bcoz black parents upbringing awesome kids is a reality hardly acknowledged or capable of breaking race stereotypes

    • @charleshunt4354
      @charleshunt4354 3 года назад +2

      @@prash71717 you must be friends with this person IRL and have talked personally about what he meant? Has all to do with parents/parent no matter what color. He mentions culture they grow up in and nothing about the parents/race of parents. I'm not going to assume what he meant which is why I asked HIM to expand.

    • @prash71717
      @prash71717 3 года назад

      @@charleshunt4354 😂 😀

  • @Shania-er1tn
    @Shania-er1tn 2 года назад +579

    I’m adopted and I feel this kids joy. Families don’t need to be blood. I’m loved, I’m cared for and they made me who I am today. They’re my only family 💚

    • @marykelly9698
      @marykelly9698 Год назад +5

      Always remember it must have been also so hard to give you up for adoption , I. So glad you were adopted into a loving home , my sister had was forced to give her child up for adoption and cried like a baby everynight for her child because she did not want to give her child up

  • @matt-be8kt
    @matt-be8kt 3 года назад +431

    I was adopted when I was really young, young enough I dont remember. My adopted fathers name was john, he may not of been my sperm donor but he is my real father. He was always there for me no matter what trouble I caused and he has always loved me. He passed away a couple weeks ago and because of the covid stuff I didnt get to say goodbye. I love and miss him so much words cant Express. My point is a real parent isn't always the biological and cherish them while they are here cause you never know when your last moment will be with them. I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH DAD.

    • @Ver-mh3kf
      @Ver-mh3kf 3 года назад +21

      I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 He sounded like he was an amazing father.

    • @upscwithbaby
      @upscwithbaby 3 года назад +11

      May his soul rest in peace .... Wish u to have a wonderful life with the blessings from ur father ...❤️

    • @sayhitoyutub
      @sayhitoyutub 3 года назад +1

      @Kube Dog Is Back xddddddddddddddd u have no soul 8)

    • @ElectronicHouseFlash
      @ElectronicHouseFlash 3 года назад

      A part of his Soul lives in you, you are the best he ever owned and had in his life. Now its up to you to be always a good person, never lie, never cheat, but make him and yourself proud for rest of your life!
      You are strong and the kindest person on Earth, Matt.

    • @sgt.tuborg6556
      @sgt.tuborg6556 3 года назад +1

      Believe me...he is still loving you and always around you

  • @mandandi
    @mandandi 2 года назад +1

    Bless the Dad, all he could do was hug the smaller boy tightly in his arms. Very emotional.

    • @fusemore1059
      @fusemore1059 2 года назад

      I just want to say that I hope that none of you are falling for this. I lived with this family after they moved to San Diego as their foster daughter. The mom is a covert narcissist that mentally and emotionally abused not just me but her husband, Stuart. We went to family therapy, that she made me pay for btw and the therapist actually told me that she is a narcissist. To be more specific she is a covert narcissist. I literally almost lost my life at least twice behind the abuse that I suffered living in their home and being apart of their family. She doesn’t love the boys and in fact she barely spent any time with them because she would be too busy out with her friends or doing community projects because that is how she boosts her ego. There is a term for it, it’s called a communal narcissist. In the over two years I’ve known them I can say with complete honesty that she never ONCE sat down to play with them or do really anything for them. The dad does everything and I literally mean everything. He works, cleans, cooks, takes care of them, puts them to bed, spends time with them bonding while she is out doing who knows what. She literally just bounces in the house at night usually around or after bedtime. She doesn’t even work but she is getting her masters in social work which is scary. Please don’t believe what you see.

  • @i.d.c9414
    @i.d.c9414 4 года назад +293

    This had no business being this wholesome.

  • @Oldsoul305
    @Oldsoul305 5 лет назад +175

    I’m going to settle down with a strong woman, have 5 kids. Adopt 2. And live happily ever after on a big plot of land on a farm.
    Life is beautiful. Don’t make it gruesome and evil when there’s so much beauty to draw from on this earth. God bless all 4 of these god sent angels.

    • @celinhabr1
      @celinhabr1 5 лет назад +21

      I wish you can find her and make your dream come true. God Bless you!

    • @az-lp9kv
      @az-lp9kv 5 лет назад +9

      This comment made me happy 😀 n positive, I prayed for you , best wishes.

    • @Stepharchives
      @Stepharchives 5 лет назад +6

      #lifegoals

    • @elizabethtara7658
      @elizabethtara7658 5 лет назад +6

      Let that be me :)

    • @rutht8570
      @rutht8570 5 лет назад +4

      May God help you

  • @greenarrow6121
    @greenarrow6121 2 года назад +50

    I’m a Somali guy living in Norway. This actually made me cry yo 🥰

    • @greenarrow6121
      @greenarrow6121 2 года назад +3

      @@johnlonne7062 ikke velkommen hvor?

    • @vikingdogmanship
      @vikingdogmanship 2 года назад +2

      🙏❤

    • @greenarrow6121
      @greenarrow6121 2 года назад +5

      @Vince thanks so much for saying that. It really means a lot 🥰

    • @Forossa
      @Forossa 2 года назад +1

      @@greenarrow6121 There’s always going to be dip shlts like John that have nothing else to be proud of other than their Nationality. Stay strong brother and good luck

    • @greenarrow6121
      @greenarrow6121 2 года назад

      @@Forossa thank you good fellow 🥳👍❤️ truly appreciate your positive comment. The world could use a lot more of awesome people like you

  • @thomasweeks7992
    @thomasweeks7992 4 года назад +89

    I don't know that woman and I love her.

  • @jimmyhoffa2458
    @jimmyhoffa2458 Год назад +2

    Our son has given us so much Love through the years and still continues to do so through his wife and our grandchildren.TREASURED GIFTS FROM GOD!

  • @saraev1119
    @saraev1119 4 года назад +38

    Husband and I are doing this in 6 months.😭 I can only hope they love us as much as they will be loved.❤❤

  • @virgilgeorge6375
    @virgilgeorge6375 3 года назад +191

    I'm 33 years old and this video has me crying like a baby. I love this.

  • @randymiller3949
    @randymiller3949 5 лет назад +385

    My wife, Sondra & I adopted our daughter from China Feb.7 2006. She was 11 months old when my beautiful wife held her for the 1st time.
    We spent 2 weeks in China before the adoption was finished...it's safe to say I left my Heart in China. in 2006.
    Our daughter Laci is the GREATEST SINGLE THING I'VE EVER DONE, BESIDES BECOMING A CHRISTIAN.
    Much love from Mobile Alabama.

    • @devilbooster1082
      @devilbooster1082 5 лет назад +1

      Randy Miller why would you put your wife’s name in the comments????

    • @tamyrasaulsby62
      @tamyrasaulsby62 5 лет назад +48

      DevilBooster 10 because he can tf

    • @randymiller3949
      @randymiller3949 5 лет назад +42

      @@devilbooster1082
      Because I wanted to...that's why.
      Any other questions?

    • @sekefzzz5593
      @sekefzzz5593 5 лет назад +22

      Randy Miller beautiful story man. God bless you and your family!

    • @stevanapeterson220
      @stevanapeterson220 5 лет назад +16

      why can't he nobody will know how she looks, its just a name.

  • @brandonoconnor1079
    @brandonoconnor1079 2 года назад +2

    My husband and I got to adopt two brothers and our life has been heaven since these wonderful kids came into our lives.

  • @JeevesReturns
    @JeevesReturns 4 года назад +182

    Sometimes, when ya see moments like this, nothing else is better.

  • @agett12
    @agett12 5 лет назад +138

    As long as kindness like this exists there is still hope for the world

  • @cutethulu_xo
    @cutethulu_xo 3 года назад +55

    I was adopted at 13 and now I have a loving husband and a beautiful baby girl. I shudder to think were I would have ended up if not for my family taking me in.

    • @cutethulu_xo
      @cutethulu_xo 3 года назад +2

      @Kube Dog Is Back indeed a gamble I'm very blessed to not have taken.

    • @cutethulu_xo
      @cutethulu_xo 3 года назад +5

      @Kube Dog Is Back yeah, they came to me and told me they wanted to adopt me. I said yes. I was living with my birth mom who was a drug addict and couldn't take care of us. I've thankfully never been in foster care.

    • @cutethulu_xo
      @cutethulu_xo 3 года назад +2

      @Kube Dog Is Back yes, they did :) I didn't really know them too well at the time. But yes, I have a friend who was in over 25 homes through the system and almost all of them were abusive in one way or another. It's so sad.

  • @manarya190
    @manarya190 2 года назад +6

    I really respect ppl who even tho being fertile... They still wanna adopt

    • @thanmayi4126
      @thanmayi4126 2 года назад +3

      Yeah, that's the greatest thing in my opinion. But sadly not many people think that way. They are way too much attached with their blood.

  • @BryanSArnoldRocks
    @BryanSArnoldRocks 3 года назад +148

    Y'all got me all teary-eyed!! Why do this to me!!

    • @misterbobby8913
      @misterbobby8913 3 года назад +1

      Same here Brother

    • @Joe-ix5hj
      @Joe-ix5hj 3 года назад +2

      Just shut up and cry.

    • @saakshishetty7786
      @saakshishetty7786 2 года назад

      @@Joe-ix5hj let him say what he wants to. It is a public platform

  • @donyamalak
    @donyamalak 3 года назад +71

    That woman has a big heart

  • @WhoIsPinkLemonade
    @WhoIsPinkLemonade 3 года назад +81

    Not everybody deserves to be parents, but these people, they not only showed it, they earned it.

  • @bbalderston125
    @bbalderston125 Год назад +1

    The older boy is very good natured, smart and assertive. He will have a great future with this support.

  • @nishal19038
    @nishal19038 3 года назад +73

    That mom is clearly stopping herself from being emotional in court as she is officially called mom but at same time she is soooooo much happy to cry.
    It's an emotional jam❤
    Loved it

    • @earlturner5449
      @earlturner5449 3 года назад +1

      She’s a women driven by basic emotion, it’s not some beautiful thing but something that needs to be suppressed and restricted.

    • @turtle22phoenix
      @turtle22phoenix 3 года назад +1

      @@earlturner5449 You're really just being as pessimistic as you can, aren't you? The chemical reaction for love is enticed in situations to a point where it encompasses a range of positive and strong emotional and mental states - combine that with the intense hormonal structure of women (and men) and you get those tearfully happy reactions.
      Repressing it is something that is your own problem. A common chemical reaction is often one that is continuous because those chemicals normally have no reason to stop production.
      Just because you have some issue with it does not imply it's a wrong thing. It's a natural human habit and reaction, that is begged upon on plenty of situations.
      At the rate of comments you have, it's best to identify you as a troll. And I've wasted enough study time on chemistry and anatomy trying to figure it out.
      Good day.

    • @Mayrita77
      @Mayrita77 2 года назад

      @@earlturner5449 She seems crazy to me to be honest. She's so weird

  • @BriLoveMusic
    @BriLoveMusic 5 лет назад +159

    I can only imagine the feeling in that courtroom being as emotional and powerful as the moment you walk out of the hospital with your newborn. 💗 I hope to adopt too. God bless this family in Jesus Name.

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon 2 года назад +1

    Keeping siblings together is extremely important and having two loving parents? Well that’s just the topping on the cake. Congratulations

  • @elleay6302
    @elleay6302 5 лет назад +104

    The way he could articulate himself to express how much he appreciates & loves them just as much as they love them... Plus seeing the mother's emotional reaction is very heart warming ♥️♥️♥️

  • @fabianmcintyre5901
    @fabianmcintyre5901 5 лет назад +292

    Love over race and ethnicity is how an adoption can proceed, and a family can be built. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @davidc.
      @davidc. 5 лет назад +1

      This has nothin to do with race though

    • @usernotfound4454
      @usernotfound4454 5 лет назад +10

      @@davidc. I think he knows that's why he said love over race.

    • @D9Wx
      @D9Wx 5 лет назад +3

      @jakiiboi8 same thing. Africans are way different form african americans whos self appointed victims and using it for their benefit. Sad thing is media is right along with it.

    • @mcrage81
      @mcrage81 4 года назад

      Most people don't adopt their own race so not sure what your point is

  • @snuggies8037
    @snuggies8037 3 года назад +72

    As someone who is adopted, this makes me so happy. A home where you feel loved is the best kind.

  • @jhOO7
    @jhOO7 2 года назад +4

    I wish this family a lifetime of love and beautiful memories.

  • @BaltimoreKweeN
    @BaltimoreKweeN 2 года назад +212

    I love when ppl adopt and actually care for the kids u can see it on that lady face she loves them boys wit her life already I pray she continue to love n care for them this is so sweet