I Keep Failing Even Though I Tried So Hard

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024
  • One of the worst feelings is failure, but not understanding the reason behind why you failed is even more frustrating. In a social context, this may be trying to talk to people, but getting rejected repeatedly. We get depressed, even more anxious, and hate ourselves more.
    Here, I'll talk about one of the possible reasons for repeated failure.
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Комментарии • 210

  • @NeoYT6969
    @NeoYT6969 4 года назад +164

    I wasted 10 hours of my time just to fail another test/exam ;(

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +24

      Exams are hard. Don't get discouraged.

    • @rilakkuma0118
      @rilakkuma0118 3 года назад +6

      i just studied for 10 hours aswell, i hope I pass

    • @You-om2zt
      @You-om2zt 3 года назад +35

      22 hours of studying for math in the span of 3 weeks, and I still failed :(

    • @assiajabri4914
      @assiajabri4914 2 года назад +3

      @@You-om2zt me too 💔

    • @Itsme-qb5sw
      @Itsme-qb5sw 2 года назад +5

      I wasted my 2 months for a subject and i still failed

  • @TGBurgerGaming
    @TGBurgerGaming Год назад +4

    At 38 years old I can't find one thing that I made work. The answer is simply that I'm not good at anything. I failed at marriage, jobs, sports, music, I even failed to produce healthy children. I've never stopped trying my best. I never gave up and I kept trying. Until now. There is simply no point in trying anymore I gave it my all and failed at being alive. I am a failure and there's nothing I can do to change that.

  • @happilyeverafter5673
    @happilyeverafter5673 2 года назад +52

    I didn't exactly fail my exam but It's still frustrating..the fact that I worked really hard ..SACRIFICE of sleep , social functions, basically everything..loss of health ..both mental and physical.A lot of my friends get high marks but I don't .And I'm tired to even get up ...I just can't take this...I don't know what to do...whether to continue fighting or give up

    • @sushi610
      @sushi610 Год назад +5

      Absolutely the same for me

    • @davemayer6128
      @davemayer6128 Год назад +3

      I can relate 100% i need help😢😢😢

    • @FinalGrain-jm4eu
      @FinalGrain-jm4eu 11 месяцев назад +1

      Take a rest. Never give up on your dreams. There may just be another method to get where you want to in life.

    • @tmntbully7761
      @tmntbully7761 7 месяцев назад +1

      The fact it’s not failing is so much worse in my opinion, I want an A so badly but a B is the highest I can get.

    • @MinosYes
      @MinosYes 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@tmntbully7761precisely! Like, is there a flaw I can still work on on my part or subjective bias on the part of my professor.

  • @Ruaa.7
    @Ruaa.7 4 года назад +73

    I’m not alone 🥺 i failed like 4 subject and my gpa just dropped from 3.5 to 1.7 !!! Even though I retake those subjects 😞 but , I’ll try again, I can’t give up !! I really want my parents be proud and myself too , being a doctor is really hard , but that my dream !!

  • @leuphorial4245
    @leuphorial4245 4 года назад +109

    Just had an exam I had been working on so hard . It was easy . But I barely passed . Everyone got amazing grades with so much ease ! I studied this dumb thing every single day but nope I keep failing. It’s so unfair 😭 i wanna become a doctor in the futur but with those bad grades I won’t have that chance. And this fact is heart breaking to me. Of course I won’t stop trying but I already know that In my world it isn’t possible. 😪

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +16

      That's tough, but I'd be lying to you if I said everyone who tries hard will get the results they want. Talents and hard work both matter. All I can say is give it 100% so you don't have regrets, but be nice to yourself if it didn't happen. Always props for hard work.

    • @zerajoshua1050
      @zerajoshua1050 4 года назад +6

      going through the same now, its hard

    • @wargha4957
      @wargha4957 4 года назад +2

      I can feel you😓

    • @chiraglotlikar
      @chiraglotlikar 4 года назад +4

      You arent alone. I have a similar dream, seriously working hard and getting a result of barely doing nothing is really a bad thing 🥺😔

    • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943
      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943 4 года назад +12

      I finally understand the feelings of people who commited suicide because of their failure exam...

  • @smeraarkalgud5703
    @smeraarkalgud5703 3 года назад +15

    I tried so hard on my maths quiz. I missed 2 questions because I didn't even see them and I wanted to give up! Thanks for shedding some light for me.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      Glad it was helpful. There are always ups and downs in life.

  • @gaurishagrawal9404
    @gaurishagrawal9404 3 года назад +8

    I swear sometimes I feel like god dosen't exist. I am a good person, I study, I dont attend parties, I try my best, yet I make silly mistakes. I walk out of my test confident and get a terrible grade. Then their are people who don't study and get perfect scores. I honestly dont know what to do...I quit watching TV, I quit procastination, I quit studying last minute.....I JUST DONT KNOW ANYMORE!!!
    I feel cursed.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      You know everyone is given different abilities. “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Albert Einstein
      Testing is only one way of measuring, so try not to take it to heart.

    • @honkhonk8009
      @honkhonk8009 2 года назад

      Same man. I do everything they tell me to. Doesnt even make any difference.
      No wonder people shoot up schools so much. Fuck this shit. I know im mentally fucking handicapped from this shit. I cant do anything to controll it.

  • @csgaiao33
    @csgaiao33 Год назад +2

    People keep chearing me on amd i keep failing and disapointing them. Now their cheers hurt.
    Im not gonna make it. Just let me be. I will fail no matter how hopefull i am. No one will give me a job or let me keep it once they find out why im broken. Just let it go. Im broken and im never gonna be fixed.

  • @lindadaniel8086
    @lindadaniel8086 Год назад +6

    Been trying so many times to become a professional footballer but I keep failing and I just got rejected few days ago from a trial which led me into tears and I am fighting this battles alone no friend or family know what am going through. I feel like giving up sometimes cause am so tired of trying and I pray something keep me going and that I will see a light at the end of the tunnel 😔😞

  • @AMITKUMAR-qg2ox
    @AMITKUMAR-qg2ox 3 года назад +5

    I am working hard to become a professional cricketer but haven't achieved anything since many years. But one thing I have realised is that anyone who wants to achieve a goal should keep in mind that SMART WORK Is the key and the second thing is PATIENCE.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      oh yeah so true!

    • @AMITKUMAR-qg2ox
      @AMITKUMAR-qg2ox Год назад +1

      @@augustusself8119 a little update my friend, I had decided to quit professional cricket and shifted my focus towards studies. I have realised how I am naturally good student and have scored amazing grades without putting in much effort, whereas with cricket, even after working harder than everybody, I stayed average. Sometimes, when you want to achieve something that's too big, you have to rely more on your natural talent and abilities and capitalize on that. Working hard to make it big in something you don't have a natural ability won't really work.

    • @PhuLongMechanicalVietNam
      @PhuLongMechanicalVietNam 4 месяца назад

      @@AMITKUMAR-qg2ox Is that true for every cases? Like if I really want to pursue something to its best but I don't really have natural ability for it, will that stop me from achieving what I want?

  • @vidya7618
    @vidya7618 4 года назад +12

    i’m done trying so hard. i’m done trying to be a good student at this point

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +6

      Try hard, but be nice to yourself. The top 3pt shooters in basketball shoot around 40% from threes. You have to have realistic expectations. No one is perfect, and grades don't determine your worth.

    • @galapoeh1817
      @galapoeh1817 4 года назад +1

      Keep trying mam! It could be done I could believe in u

    • @rose-ge4ut
      @rose-ge4ut 3 года назад +4

      same, i study so hard just to fail. i feel like i’m a failure, why can all my friends do it but not me

    • @vidya7618
      @vidya7618 3 года назад

      aw thanks guys i’m doing so much better in school now!

    • @vidya7618
      @vidya7618 3 года назад +1

      @@rose-ge4ut i felt like this but i don’t stress anymore and finish my work early and also treat myself when i’m doing good and it rlly helps! i do stuff i enjoy to balance working. i also ask my friends for help if i need it and that helps too!

  • @ShawShank-kr9wq
    @ShawShank-kr9wq 3 месяца назад

    My whole life I have failed. Whenever they say 2 percent of people will fail this class, I know inevitably that will be me. I’m sick and tired of never tasting happiness, pride in myself as a man, accomplished, and most importantly PEACE! Peace in my own mind, instead of constantly reliving my failures , seeing the people who put in half the effort pass and move on with their great lives while I sit here and stew in my anger and depression. There have been times when I tutor the people who pass but then I fail during the tests. I have failed for 36 years, I work harder than my peers and even help them in their weaknesses only to lose again. What’s worst is the pity they have for me. They don’t verbalize it but we all sense it.

  • @aze4964
    @aze4964 2 года назад +7

    This is the first time I’ve failed an exam. And it really hurts man. This one hurts especially cause I really really really tried and I thought I did well.

  • @glue12324
    @glue12324 3 года назад +20

    I pulled out like 3 4 all nighters to get through one of this very hard exams but fell short of just 3 marks. I really feel devastated and I'm beginning to doubt whether this is the correct path for me 😰

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +5

      Well first, Good job for trying hard. We can only control our efforts, not the results. You gave it all you got. Great. Now relax. Results doesn't mean you're a failure. It's just feedback for what you know and don't know. Don't make it personal.

    • @glue12324
      @glue12324 3 года назад +1

      @@augustusself8119 thank you for your reply. I know even my parents say that. But it was my 3rd try. But still i constantly feel that my life is going to be a failure. IDK why. It just happens unconsciously to me. Maybe I am too used to focus on negative things. I never really see anything positive out of anything eventhough I want to

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      @@glue12324 Well, sometimes it's good to have perspective. Like if you're using 90% of your time to think about the exam, then that's the thing in your mind most of the time. You didn't have a chance to look at the other parts of like. Exams aren't everything and believe your parent when they want you to rest too.

    • @zea-xanthin7132
      @zea-xanthin7132 10 месяцев назад

      Are you a doctor now?

    • @glue12324
      @glue12324 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@zea-xanthin7132 not studying to be a doctor. But yeah I did get through the subjects I was struggling at. And yes. I’m still going at it and at a fairly good position now

  • @jokimaru
    @jokimaru Год назад

    thanks bro rly helped me out, it's not like i didn't know what you are saying but its like i needed to hear that

  • @KCanimations18
    @KCanimations18 2 года назад +1

    Me too. I am bad at sports, a bad dancer, and an introvert, Sometimes I am shy, and I am failing math.

  • @gianthills
    @gianthills Год назад +1

    Failure is determined by others. The import things in life are not determined by you. You can try as much as you want, but if the people who have the power to say yes to you, only say no, you are a failure according to other people. So you're only a success when other people accept you.

  • @pradhyumna1159
    @pradhyumna1159 5 лет назад +51

    I tried so hard and studied nearly 14 to 16 hours a day... And failed 3 consecutive attempts.... It's been nearly 2 years.. And I'm still stuck in my examination... What should I do? Please help.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  5 лет назад +9

      Sounds really tough. I'm not trying to be discouraging here, but sometimes hard doesn't always get you the result you want. For me, I know that I can try extremely hard but not be able to become a decent violinist. Effort matters but talents matters too. If this is the path that you choose and you don't want to give up, sometimes you will have to struggle very hard. However, if you know that this is a mismatch for you, you might want to change directions. I can't make your decision for you, but take some time to examine if this is worth it.

    • @saikiaanj5624
      @saikiaanj5624 5 лет назад +2

      keep on trying

    • @dianamukheisin3940
      @dianamukheisin3940 5 лет назад +1

      Try to do something else maybe it's not your thing

    • @villainsbridgeclub5268
      @villainsbridgeclub5268 4 года назад +3

      Quit

    • @sophiaallen
      @sophiaallen 4 года назад +2

      @@villainsbridgeclub5268 LMAO

  • @chinmayee7285
    @chinmayee7285 2 года назад +6

    I literally failed a quiz test miserably today even though I have been working on it from like a month......I felt really ashamed of myself....it's one of the worst day of my life😭😭😭

  • @truck574
    @truck574 2 года назад +1

    Being completely alone is basically my goal socially

  • @juwairiaiqbal-hj7yu
    @juwairiaiqbal-hj7yu Год назад +1

    I studied so hard for the test and still didnt do any good. And my parents say that's bcz I dont have patience. Believe me they know the best words to hurt in the worst way possible

  • @parvmathur9348
    @parvmathur9348 3 года назад +10

    I studied for 12 hrs non stop and my friend studied for 6 hrs .... I failed and he topped the class with full marks .... I am just depressed now... I studied a lot for the exam but still...

    • @SundaysHealing
      @SundaysHealing 3 года назад +4

      Pray that you get healing, you find the strength to work your way out of the situation. Don't make major decisions based off how you feel today. Things will get better for you ultimately.

    • @गर्विष्ठमाणूस
      @गर्विष्ठमाणूस 10 месяцев назад

      same story with me

    • @k-on1867
      @k-on1867 8 месяцев назад

      Same

  • @antrikshgwal1089
    @antrikshgwal1089 Год назад +3

    I studied two years for an exam, We have 2 attempts in this exam usually there is 3 month gap between attempt 1 and 2.I studied very seriously, and in my 1st attempt I got 94%ile and my friend got 74%ile he did not studied at all. Now in the gap of 3 months I studied like hell to improve my%ile (Rank) , it is a all india level exam in which 1.2 million students take part. I don't know what happened but my friend got 97.5%ile and I only got 96.6 I was like, it's impossible I've been studying so hard and he just studied for 3 months( I don't even know if he studied or not). I cried like hell. Sometimes life is not fair

  • @123gozane
    @123gozane 4 года назад +3

    I lose every job I get due to people that I don't even know hate me and get me fired. I work so hard and it just doesn't work out.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      Hm..that's odd. What are the reasons they picked on you?

  • @user-cv3pw8cx9m
    @user-cv3pw8cx9m 10 месяцев назад +1

    I prepared 1.5 years for an exam and the exam went horribly bad, people who didn't prepare fared better than me because the paper was easy. Every one of my peers did very well. I'm just disappointed in myself, i couldn't get into my dream law school and got a very bad rank. Feels like I made a fool out of myself, I'm at a point where i might have to seek professional help, I let everybody down including me, my family, my mentors

  • @sarasawaed4770
    @sarasawaed4770 4 года назад +9

    I really study smart but on tests unconscious stress come. When I get home I solve the quizzes right it's Provocative , all my classmates are nerds and get at least 90 i feel stupid in front them ,I can't handle it any more any solutions??!

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +1

      I know it's hard, but you really have to separate your test scores from how you feel about yourself.

  • @julsmarabe7798
    @julsmarabe7798 5 лет назад +2

    This one is really hard because im an introvert. But you know, I need to break this one side of myself if i want my hard work pays off. Socializing is not going to be easy for me, But i will still do it. Wish me luck.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  5 лет назад

      I feel you. I used to go home and sleep for hours after socializing. It's not easy, but it's worth it. Good luck!

  • @mohammedayan6216
    @mohammedayan6216 3 года назад +7

    I was a second year dropper in jee mains exam and by putting lots of efforts for days and nights my result was terrible plus in my neighbour right next to my house a topper has came to live he is preparing for medical exam and sometimes my parents starts comparing
    My parents love me but the comparison internally kills me

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      yeah...it really messes you up because it's just discouraging. But you do you and just be the best you that you could be.

  • @Marcus-gw4bb
    @Marcus-gw4bb 3 года назад +1

    I keep trying and trying my very best every single day and yet... I started my research internship two months ago and I am currently working on two projects. I am expected to tabulate and plot the data out using a software i am not very familiar with all on my own.
    On top of that, because I do not have much prior experience when it came to research, this internship is taking a huge toll on me, mainly due to the pressure of being a Masters student and also the fact that I am being left on my own in interpreting the results obtained from the experiments. And because of that i keep making tonnes of mistakes especially during the weekly research meeting where my supervisor would be there to listen to any form of experimental updates. I even embarrassed myself in front of all the members of the research group including my supervisor when i gave my interpretation of the results and it was completely off the mark, ie. not what the experiment's aim was initially. The PhD candidate that i am currently working with had to rescue the utterly embarrassing situation by explaining why in the first place we did the experiment.
    God... I'm a Masters student and yet i don't even have the necessary analytical and critical thinking skills to perform in an internship.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      Well you're in this program to get educated, not to be perfect. You made mistakes, but that happens to everyone. Write down the mistakes and work through them. We are perpetual students in life, not perfectionists.

  • @THANGBOIQOL
    @THANGBOIQOL 2 года назад +2

    It's hard man, gave it my all study 13 hrs a day and still couldn't get above 90 percent

  • @christellemathieu179
    @christellemathieu179 5 лет назад +51

    I study every time on my test go over it with my friends we have mini quizzes and I pass out the real one I fail I have no idea what I’m doing wrong.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  5 лет назад +5

      I think the easiest way is to look at your mistakes. Why did you make them? Is there something you could do to change it.

    • @christellemathieu179
      @christellemathieu179 5 лет назад +2

      Augustus Lu thank you I will try my best to spot the mistakes

    • @caranow6339
      @caranow6339 4 года назад +7

      Same, I need to repeat a whole year bc I failed so hard Eventhough I studied so much...I even quit my hobbiesfor this. All I feel is emptiness now😖

    • @dikpalphadera3761
      @dikpalphadera3761 3 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @oliviaumwali8284
      @oliviaumwali8284 2 года назад +1

      I’ve got the same issue

  • @carensalazar
    @carensalazar 2 года назад +1

    I'm sad 😭 I'm lonely again. For an instant, I think I find a partner, when I'm feeling happy then he detaches from me. It had happened since I'm a single mother, so I stopped trying

  • @wingryn
    @wingryn 3 года назад +2

    I have never been good at anything in my life, I have tried Tennis, Basketball and almost every sport I could think of. I'm not the best at school( I get decent grades like 90s and above). I have never become good at something in my life. Now I feel too scared to try anything, I fear failure.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +2

      What do you consider good? 90s seems pretty good.

    • @narc440
      @narc440 3 года назад

      I once heard that if you set your expectations really low then you'll never be disappointed when something amazing happens. Many people would love to have about 90 averages in classes and I imagine that looks very appealing to colleges bro. Live in the moment and try not to worry about what could've been.

  • @tuleenhaj803
    @tuleenhaj803 3 года назад +2

    I study every day every night for months and I still don't pass the math exam and here I am on the third time I'm taking this exam again، I feel like a failure and I don't deserve to live because I don't succeed in anything, I want to meke my parents proud of me 😔😔

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      You're not a failure. You just haven't learned the concepts yet. I know you want to make your parents proud, but we can only try our best.

  • @go.shree.
    @go.shree. 3 года назад +2

    Till 12th I was not worried about marks but now I'm trying but getting the same marks, 10th:- 77%,12th:-77%
    Even in my first year of college:-77% I'm not able toh cross this. I always expect better marks study for it desperately and end up getting disappointed. My parents don't trust me even i want a good future, good grades but everthing around me is so negative. I feel exhausted. In my second sem I studied a lot and was confident to score better marks then corona pandemic happened and my exams got cancelled,. The students who studied less got more marks becoz of their college internal (which was higher than me as they went to private colleges) and again my hardwork was not paid off. Life is pushing me down and now I'm also corona positive like seriously wth is going on😂

  • @Jojouuuu9265
    @Jojouuuu9265 4 года назад +4

    I tried so on my baccalaureate exam, i was always the top on class all the past years my teachers had hope on me to have a high note my parents to i was so sure that i well do so good in the exam but i failed and i don't understand i tried so hard like really really hard but i still failed, and now i just want to sleep and never wake-up again

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      i understand it feels pretty bad to fail at something so important and with so much expectations. But this is where you have to learn to separate your self worth from your exam scores and family. It's good to succeed but it's even better to succeed after you failed.

    • @Jojouuuu9265
      @Jojouuuu9265 4 года назад +1

      @@augustusself8119 do you think i should try again or just move on with my life

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +1

      @@Jojouuuu9265 I think right now you should learn to separate yourself from your accomplishments. After that, it doesn't matter if you choose to take it or not. If you didn't and you failed again, you'll crash even harder.

  • @skillsguide9682
    @skillsguide9682 2 года назад +1

    My case is I wrote the correct answers first but changed it to write what I thought was correct not knowing the first approach was the correct one . I have been crying 😭😭 since yesterday I’m badly hurt . I put my all into this test . I want to get myself back but it’s like my body doesn’t want to overcome the pain😭.

  • @sparklyboba7289
    @sparklyboba7289 2 года назад +2

    I got the results of my exam, I got the worst marks of my life as far as I know I never ever got such low marks in my life and you know what! I studied those subjects the hardest, I tried so much but its unfair that I got such poor Marks and it hurts so bad

  • @cool-jg2050
    @cool-jg2050 3 года назад +1

    I want to be able to share my opinions and be more assertive but still remain a balanced communicator.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      That's possible. What do you mean by balanced communicator?

    • @cool-jg2050
      @cool-jg2050 3 года назад

      @@augustusself8119
      Share my opinion but also keep a open mind to the other persons opinion if i do not agree at least respect their opinion.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      @@cool-jg2050 This is really good. I don't think most people would try to actively be more understanding of the other side. I think this is a great goal to go for.

  • @wildanimalsdocumentary152
    @wildanimalsdocumentary152 6 месяцев назад

    That emptiness is killing me

  • @___llvm
    @___llvm Год назад

    It's okay lads, knock it off. Some people are just destined to fail. Remember, Win it to Destroy it. Fuck yehah

  • @sigmasithlord5828
    @sigmasithlord5828 Год назад

    1. Hard to get job
    2. Lose job
    3. Repeat

  • @emmathelovewitch
    @emmathelovewitch Год назад

    Thank you for your wise words!

  • @krims0n261
    @krims0n261 2 года назад +1

    I keep failing I've tried all my hobbies at this point I feel I kept failing

  • @crazyvideoholic9380
    @crazyvideoholic9380 3 года назад +3

    Its like failure is the other name of mine.

  • @mikaignacio8998
    @mikaignacio8998 4 года назад +2

    i studied so hard but, i keep failing since the oc starts..... i don't why.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +1

      sometimes it might be getting the right pointers? so if you have a TA or office hours, it helps.

  • @holybloodgaming
    @holybloodgaming 6 лет назад +4

    thanks this gave me something to think about

  • @charleshurstreinvention3959
    @charleshurstreinvention3959 2 года назад

    Then it is your strategy. Same applies to school as does a start up. As I told my own subscribers. I have known people who fail at everything they attempt. Repeatedly begin start ups that go under. Pursue visions that never materialize. Many times this isn't because the person is a loser--they just have bad strategy. They leap off the cliff with self belief, having no idea if there is water below or if they will land face first into the jagged rocks. They just think things will work out. Careful planning far in advance is the key. Where is the location of your business going to be? How many competitors are there? Is your degree marketable? Is it only marketable in the city and you want to live in a small town? People who don't think about these things are the ones who will continually think the universe is against them as they fail over and over. As the saying goes: the war is won before the battle even begins. Hope this helps someone out there--Charles.

  • @dbaysm1233
    @dbaysm1233 3 года назад +3

    I keep failing even though i study every day it sad
    😭😭😭😭😢

  • @kidthomas2106
    @kidthomas2106 3 года назад

    I workout in basketball everyday and when the game comes it’s like everything is just wasteful

  • @safwaan8324
    @safwaan8324 3 года назад +2

    i’m in my second last year of school and it’s so stressful , i do 7 subjects and it’s so hard to get an A for each subject but i try so hard and study so hard and i always end up getting mediocre results
    like 60% in exams i don’t know what to do anymore
    i just feel depressed

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      is it normal to do 7 subjects?

    • @safwaan8324
      @safwaan8324 3 года назад

      @@augustusself8119 yes

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      @@safwaan8324 Well, we can only control our efforts. If you put in your best, then good job. Maybe it takes more time learn or you're better at a different specialty. But only you can decide what that is.

  • @RickyThurd
    @RickyThurd 2 года назад +1

    I just put 14 hours into a physics test just to get 42% like I just feel useless and pathetic like I am just disappointed

  • @matthewgardner8609
    @matthewgardner8609 4 года назад +1

    I know Its not academia but I feel like it applies. Im so close to my weight loss goal, I lost 30 lbs last year but for almost a whole year now I've been on a cycle of being good and failing. Idk why I'm commenting because I feel hopeless in this personal endeavor... but I want to be better and I need to say it to someone

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      well I talk to sort out my thoughts sometimes too, so it makes sense to me. But it sounds like you are making decent progress, gotta give yourself some credit. is it eating habits?

    • @matthewgardner8609
      @matthewgardner8609 4 года назад +1

      @@augustusself8119 yes it is. I have great eating habits then ill just go absolutely crazy on the food for a few days

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      @@matthewgardner8609 Dang food is tough. Sometimes I find it hard too. It almost has to be like a gradual switch in lifestyle. If it's too hard of a switch, then it's so easy to fall back.

    • @matthewgardner8609
      @matthewgardner8609 4 года назад

      @@augustusself8119 I agree. I think at this point I have to just start adjusting my lifestyle slightly better every day
      Also can I just say thank you for following up. The video you posted is years old and yet you come back to help people.... thank you

  • @米丽亚L
    @米丽亚L 3 года назад +2

    Same, over the years I was trying so hard to passs the last course of the certification, however it's continues fail, not sure if i still will picks up again, thinking of the past, i was studying when others sleep, i was studying when others party, the very last course stopped me for over 2 years, i really wants to give up and find another career. I am really feelinging lost. I listen to myself, my heart tell me i never wants at my work before but holding that certificate might have better future, however the failing might be telling me that is not the spot, however if i give up all the previous effort will be gone in the air and wasted. Who can help !

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      That's a tough call. I've heard instances where a person just powers through all failures, and another person pivoted and came out fine. So this can really only be your decision. But it really depends on if you feel like the other side is really worth it or not. In every journey, there are bond to be roadblocks.

  • @AmeyGaba
    @AmeyGaba 2 года назад

    I tried out for 4 different basketball teams, didn’t get into a single team. I had my fifth tryout yesterday and it went bad. Why am I such a failure

    • @lion-ux3wp
      @lion-ux3wp 2 года назад

      Why universities apply academic warning policy if the student didnt raise his gpa on transcript while on school there is no academic warning policy this is not fair and the universities must apply the same rules as school applies

  • @officialcktraining
    @officialcktraining 3 года назад +1

    I fall in depression when i dont have a good performance while all of my teammates dont give a shit abou this

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      Have you heard the great athletes have selective memory? The bad game, they use as motivation, but they forget about it and keep going it.

  • @officialcktraining
    @officialcktraining 3 года назад +1

    I play football i try so hard to succeed and i want it more than everyone in my team. I watch videos to correct mistakes in training. And then there are some others in my team that play video games all the day and they are sometimes bored to come to training and play better and my coach wants them more

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад +1

      This is hard. I don't know if you have seen the movie "Rudy". It's about an undersized football player that put in more work than anyone. A lot of respect but sometimes other people do have more talent. The only way is to grind your way past them when they're slacking off.

  • @blessedhere6035
    @blessedhere6035 Год назад

    I passed all stages of a government hiring process except the last. 6 months of this process and i get an email im not going to last stage. Many more disappointments and failures this year...whats the point even

  • @suzii700
    @suzii700 Год назад

    Last 7 years m living alone in a room without meeting anyone. With no job . Occasionally I met my parents. I just can't do anything. I keep failing my job exam. Don't want to do the job i got. And those job i want i can't pass. I think i dont deserve anything . No one loves me. I don't like myself anymore. What's the purpose of this life.

  • @mychemical_sunshine5879
    @mychemical_sunshine5879 3 года назад +2

    I revise alot for school tests and still fail, kids who dont revise get better scores than me 😭😭😭

  • @Shoromi
    @Shoromi 4 года назад +6

    I kept crying hard last night because my test is on Monday and I can't even memorize that we'll and the lessons was hard I just can't stop crying thinking what am I going to do in life and if my family see my grades they'll be very disappointed... 😢

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +1

      This is a little late because I'm replying on Monday...I remember when I was still in school, grades do seem like everything. Take deep breaths and do the best you can. But we need to understand that life doesn't always give us what we want. Take care.

  • @just_solve9369
    @just_solve9369 Год назад

    I worked on my tests and exams so long, I felt good and ready to take it. I wrote them and submitted, when I did that i felt like its an easy 100% mark because I answered everything and checked twice… but guess what I hardly got 60% on it….

  • @chozer1
    @chozer1 3 года назад

    I’ve been trying for years to become the best in a video game but I have felt like my skill is not improving but I won’t ever give up I have Been playing video games every day since I was 3 and it is just what I am but some times I feel like I was even better I want to be the best

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      It's tough. We have a lot of gaming competition here.If you feel like you have what it takes, go for it.

  • @malikayan7254
    @malikayan7254 3 года назад +1

    I am disappointed alot . Pray for me as I had my midterms and I did them good but with luck as they were online papers and it glitched my Mark's. My result changed alot and my parents started disappointing me and depressing me . Now I am having my tests and today was my maths paper. I gave my full effort on it and still I am unable to achieve good Mark's. I feel lost and depressed. I am giving my full and still I am stucked

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      that's hard place to be. If you've really gave it your all, you should give yourself a break despite the results. No one is perfect. I think you could learn from the mistakes, but you shouldn't be disappointed.

  • @Messiah036
    @Messiah036 3 года назад

    I tried out for the team twice? The first time I get why I didn’t make but I really felt like I should’ve this time. And now it haunts :( for many reasons

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      did you ask the coach for why you weren't selected?

  • @symesalexander5294
    @symesalexander5294 4 года назад +1

    I keep failing at metaphors and wordplay in rap. Sigh my lyrics are usually plain and boring

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      are you trying to become a rapper?

    • @symesalexander5294
      @symesalexander5294 4 года назад +1

      Yeah for awhile now since 2012. I don't want to give up .i just want to have great puns and Metaphors

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад

      @@symesalexander5294 Well I guess everything comes with practice. I'm pretty sure all the great musicians took classes and hard work to make it happen.

  • @poluruvijayalakshmi460
    @poluruvijayalakshmi460 Год назад

    So.sad that I've been failed in my pre final test even though i read it for 12pm and till for 3.30 am💔🥺

  • @tasfiaislam8135
    @tasfiaislam8135 11 месяцев назад

    I try so hard, but my main problem is my thoughts are not clear enuogh this hazy thoughts reflect in my writings also ,so what should I do to avoid my hazy thoughts?

  • @fatfitnessvang299
    @fatfitnessvang299 8 месяцев назад

    I try so hard but can not pass the police exam, its been 3 times already. I give up.

  • @isabellarick193
    @isabellarick193 Год назад

    I got a D on my science Final, I literally tried so hard and studied so hard only to not understand any of it.

  • @jibrilhussein3076
    @jibrilhussein3076 5 лет назад +2

    I tried so hard to play good for my team but did really bad my teammates are asshole they love to speak when I do bad. If I play good they are silent but waiting for we to fail. If it’s wasnt for the captain on our team I would have been left.

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  5 лет назад

      that sounds like a pretty tough atmosphere. i'd say it's tough because the coach probably can't do much for you to have the respect of your teammates.

  • @harrys.plinkett9716
    @harrys.plinkett9716 5 лет назад +1

    thanks for this video

  • @moumitadasp7599
    @moumitadasp7599 2 года назад

    i failed in alll entrance exam.....now I'm here...but all chances are already gone

  • @podong3869
    @podong3869 2 года назад

    I fail 2 years just to repeat again and again

    • @lion-ux3wp
      @lion-ux3wp 2 года назад

      Why universities apply academic warning policy if the student didnt raise his gpa on transcript while on school there is no academic warning policy this is not fair and the universities must apply the same rules as school applies

  • @Saadxjk
    @Saadxjk 3 года назад

    Thank you so much
    That helped me✌️

  • @kidaniscortes
    @kidaniscortes Год назад

    I'm on business number 12 and still failing :|

  • @kayymono
    @kayymono 3 года назад

    I am in my second year and i still haven't cleared my first year
    I gave my re exam for my first year and i failed again.. I don't know what to do
    All my friends passed and i am the only one left to clear my first year..i really feel dumb
    I have to give my exams again but i don't wanna
    I don't think i can do it anymore
    I have support and everything my friends help me so much but still there is no progress
    I really wanna give up everything

    • @gabrielkral2435
      @gabrielkral2435 3 года назад

      Don't give up my guy

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      Sometimes things will be tough. Good thing you got support. Keep going man.

  • @vidya7618
    @vidya7618 4 года назад +1

    i got such a bad grade on the ap test. at 2. and i studied so hard and all my friends got 5s and i feel stupid and i wanna kms

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  4 года назад +1

      I know it feels awful but when you're out of school, you'll understand that grades don't mean as much as they do. Don't take it to mean you're not capable as a person.

  • @thandyyl8634
    @thandyyl8634 3 года назад

    just had amid term break and in those little days i only studied maths and i did not study history (which is what i had too) until i got to school and had a 19% for maths while history 76% and maths have been a curse for me, i'm so scared idk what to do anymore

    • @augustusself8119
      @augustusself8119  3 года назад

      well we all start from not knowing something to learning it. Because you got a low score now doesn't mean you can't learn it. You just need to get the right kind of help.

  • @meli1872
    @meli1872 3 года назад

    thanks man

  • @zayrenezayrene3700
    @zayrenezayrene3700 3 года назад +1

    Jesus loves you all he died on the cross for you i pray and I beleive that you will find him weather that'd be today or another day. Jesus loves you all AMEN!!!!!

  • @augustusself8119
    @augustusself8119  7 лет назад +2

    Where do you want to be socially?

  • @des_music7814
    @des_music7814 2 года назад +1

    Lol reading these comments some fo these kids biggest problem is a school test ! Boy o boy

  • @darrylebraxton9097
    @darrylebraxton9097 2 года назад +1

    Fuck the future

  • @violetashen
    @violetashen 9 месяцев назад

    interesting..

  • @hicrhodushicsalta4382
    @hicrhodushicsalta4382 4 года назад +2

    All those self-pity and depressing stories... and here I am with extreme self confidence and the knowledge that I haven't and will never once fail in my life! ;D

  • @joserozay213
    @joserozay213 2 года назад +2

    Dude I study before the test.. I understand in class..and in tutoring. But at the test.. My brain shuts down